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  • AMEN!

  • I can't stop laughing. :D

  • LOL! SHOES! 

  • 'project men'.. LOL!!

  • eleven people wanna get played or got played...WAH WAH

  • playa from himalaya

  • nice satire! That is substance

  • lol... "Palms out Playa!!!!!!"

  • I love this video! I found myself nodding and smiling because this is so how things go when it comes to a nice brother coming into the church whether we admit it or not. But you're right...we MUST not compromise! Thanks for the video!

  • "YO, are you a playa from the Himalayas?" haha XD

  • sorry i go to church for got not a man and if he is not right with god them he could never be write with me.

  • LMBO THIS is too much for me! lMBO you better preachh ! lol haha this aint gon work for me tho lol

  • so true man ...

  • Great Video bruh...lol

  • I didn't get to watch the whole thing but I got up to step 5 and i said to myself, "I'll be pullin me some church honeys in no time!" Thank you pastor, man i gotta come and visit yo church!

    ...hahaha naw you ever thought about them people that took this seriously and maybe stopped halfway through the video. And you see'em now and they rollin up to the church in a 10 passenger van with a whole team of church women... "I owe it ALL to Pastor Justin" Hahaha.

    ...good video tho!

  • What is the difference between the palms out and the palms in? 

  • @xxxFEMTOxxx It's A form of worship. palms out is in the giving position- giving your all to God. Palms in is the receiving position- receiving from God. the names is Todah- An extension of the hand; adoration; a choir of worshippers. and Yadah- To use, hold out, extend the hand. To revere/worship.

  • and thats the  sad truth.. sounds like the way I use to be..

  • AMEN BROTHER =)

  • Most christian Girls/laidies Love's them a Badboy who loves the Lord

  • I'm a Christian and this is incredibly TRUE!!!

  • woo this is HOTT

    project men!!! hmmmm. . . .

  • AWESOME!!!

  • Im Short =(

  • LOL great comedy, good insight

  • This is sooooooooo funny but true!

  • Palms out, player! lol

  • you disappointed me at the end.

  • whether i agree that jesus sucked me off or whatever is irrelevant, he does a very good job at making his point. well spoken, good speech.

  • SMH!!..sad I knew from the beginning who it was really for. I thank God that you let him use you to get it out there. That was me once upon a time when i was on that milk!

  • okay.. can we have a REAL one?? like if we really are believing that this girl is the one that god has meant for us???

  • This is one of these messages where, I sit there and just lift my hand.

    Then after everybody is through saying "Amen!", I'll just announce, "Listen!"

  • Yo this is so sad.

  • this is SO true

  • yooooo bROOOO whatz ya faceboook!!

  • nieggga were is video number 2 lol cant find please forward

  • This is comical but the point is abundantly clear. It's amazing how so many women in churches love carnal men and use the excuse that there aren't many men in churches. Good Christian men that is. So they just settle for garbage. Then when a good man comes their way they don't even know what to do.

  • Funny but real :)

  • wow lol this is soo true it's sad

  • I'm a sista... and this is SO TRUE! Good Vid :-)

  • Cockblocker!!!!! Lol Jp u speaking the truth

  • oh goodness ; this is a really good video . i have to admit - im one of those girls that check out the guys at church & this video really made REALISE what i COULD really be checking out . Thanks pastor justin for clearing things up & changing my perpespective coz now i feel as if i can finally SEE !

  • Paster Cox, U're crazy maan, U're amezing, or perhaps I should say Jesus is amezing within U.

    Dawg, all am tryng to say is that.... You got a bigger massage bro, u really do.

    U're just right and funny at every point up here, I like the way you speak the truth 2 many of us in all of your videos man, I can't stay calm watching your videos, am just goin loose laughin over here, cuz U're so right bro, man. I can see that u've beena good diciple as well, am so impressed an encouraged,Thnx allot,Bls

  • I think its that curse that us women desire to rule over a man...if he's already saved God's got it we can't control it....but if he's on the way we can play like he needs us to rule over him to bring him to Christ.

  • AHHAAAA! "yo r u a playa from the himalaya??" AHHA! i'm gonna use that now lol =]

  • I think it's a bit unfair to entirely blame the women. It is the men who are going in to church and being deliberately deceptive, surely that's mch more wrong- Using religion purely to get girls? The girls are only human after all. I understand you trying to keep them in check but they're not the ones completely to blame.

  • @CaptainRachum - true but he was not blaming no females.

    ((This video is a sarcastic wake up call for girls to adopt godly standards in their pursuits of relationships with men.))

  • hahahahahahahaha. that a good one. but so true. yep lady let step up. and walk in faith and not be fooled

  • its so true (4:39) girls can make up a whole relationship in their minds

  • wow!! speechless

  • LMBO!!!!!SOOOOOOO FUNNY!!!!!

  • "Cox" lol!

  • whats sad is that its absolutly true... the really sad part is it happens to so many "christian" girls. im glad he made this video.

  • So the 9 people that disliked this video are the ones that are playing this game and don't want it out there? lol... Brilliant video man. I'm just shaking my head through this whole entire video. Truth.

  • Truth never grows old....

  • im dying, lol. u betta preach. that was real

  • IT"S THE DOGGONE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Lol I check out the guys that carry a Bible. It doesnt matter if they're dressed nice or what, well sometimes it does, but I look for if he truely worships God and if really does pray. Like, if he's not focusing on who's walking by or looking, but just has his mind on God. That's what I like to see.

  • i used to be that guy. then i ask myself , why am i really here for? then i got saved. feel like you were talkin to me not just the females

  • O THIS IS TRULY SAD

  • WOW you went hard on this video definitely a wake up call

  • Wow! This video really speaks to me! Me and my friend were talking about "christian players" and this answers all my questions! Thanks for this powerful video post!

  • i just thought about how many women have viewed this out of curiosity and totally agree who still fall for these types of guys anyway. and its even sadder to think how many guys who have seen this and will think about/actually try it.

  • Sad but true. Wow!

  • so glad i have a close relationship with my Pastor and the older married women at my church who would check me if I brought an unsaved man around and tried to date him. Also grateful for my brothers in Christ who detect those men up to no good and look out for us. Oh, and thank You Jesus for your spirit that would convict me if I tried.!!

  • lol thx God im not one of those gurls lol i love how he gives messages GBU bro keep going man

  • Loool sound effects!!,

    Himilayas . This man is jokes.

    But so true, and as a girl I realise sometimes I do this.

    But as a child of God, my purpose is more important than a boy, carnal or saved.

    Thank you

    Gotta love God

  • I was convicted watching this, I did EVERYTHING in this video. Make it even better I sang in the choir, and walked down the aisle to "rededicate" my life to the lord (lower case l) I ask Jesus for forgiveness. Please be careful ladies.

  • This word is on point! All people (esp. women) want love and acceptance but at what cost? We as believers, have to stop ALLOWING our flesh to rule and reign and get some discernment...

  • palms out

  • yeah this is good and all pastor justin cox but as i realise when i watched your videos its like you keep downing the ladies...i mean yes they are true but what about the men? haven't they come short of God's glory? haven't they too lower their standards regarding ladies? i think they have. Yes you only hear about the women but the men needs to get a lesson too you know...come on wheel and come again.....but this time set your thoughts on the males cause they need it also....Im just saying

  • a project boyfriend!! lol!! nooooo!!

  • How did you know about the mental dialogue!? Who's leaking our secrets!! lol this was awesome :)

  • THANK U!

  • wow wake up call thats some real talk

  • Shoes. hahahahahaha

  • HAHAH everything you said is TRUE!! I refuse to settle for less than my worth in Christ! Christ paid a high price for me, so not just any old church boy can get me. Just because he goes to church that doesn't mean anything. How he lives outside of church says everything, especially how he acts with his close friends. Gotta have Christ!

  • @pastorJustinofP4cm Did you even watch the whole video?O.o Its got a message at the end, and pulse the description explains it too.

    This is a funny, horrible, awesome, and straight up video...COOL(:

  • I disagree with this video. All girls are not going to be willing to talk to a guy at church. They're probably there looking for answers is to why bad guys keep coming in their life anyways. If a guy sees a girl at church and they are interested, I would say hit them up! Talk to them! Because unless they are naturally friendly, you can just forget about us "doing all the work"

  • AMEN!!!

  • Keep it REAL. Smh. Then when they get with the guy, they complain to God and they friends about how miserable they are when they KNOW what to do. Take heed to yourselves that your heart be NOT deceived. Love the video bro.

  • at first i thought u were serious lol wow bt u r so rite bt i wouldnt even consider tlkin 2 a guy that was "trying" or "almost" saved

  • @pastorJustinofP4cm hahahaha thanks

  • amen to that. I hope more sisters would focus on Christ before men

  • ... i NEEDED to hear this.

  • Good video.

    Women also need to watch out for these "theological" brothers who seem ultra deep and have lots of knowledge about the Bible who try to smooth talk weaker sisters into sexual immorality...

  • REAL TALK - Alex, from England

  • Proverbs 31:30 is an often-quoted verse, but girls may always not realize just how true it is--how uniquely attractive Godliness and a love for the Lord can be.

    "charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised."

  • wow. this is so true.

  • Thanks Pastor, God bless you. Keep exposing-o.Set us free

  • fo real!!! thanks for this video

  • he dude i gotta say that your videos really ministered me.. I loved it! it is so true, i've seen that happen in church so many times.. As a girl i say that we must take a stand and live a holy life as it please our God, making the right choices..

    "A woman's heart should be so lost in God,that a man would have to seek him in order to find her"

  • You woke me up!

  • LOLL, aww wow my sister needs to see this and alot other girls i know..permission to publicise this vid?? Thank you so much, it has actually renewed my mind as a man.. makes me discern & really analyse my intentions!

  • Finally someone is speaking the truth! I am tired of seeing busted, short, and dirty shoed men at church! Brothers, playas from the Himalayas, and "project" guys PAY ATTENTION Pastor J is speaking the truth!!! #disclaimer I am only JOKING!!!

  • thats was good, yo women gotta be that prov 31: 10-31

  • man i wasn't expecting that...THANK U!!!!

  • I've fallen for the "project boyfriend" a few times...stupid, huh?! lol Thank God for wisdom.

  • this is soo true. It is important to fall in love with Christ, because He is our first love. You can do soo much for Christ when you are single read 1Corinthians 7:34-35. When we are focused on Him, He will bless us with a great man of God. Don't settle for second best!

  • this is soo true! it is important to fall in love with Christ because He is our first love. Let Him be the lover of your soul.When our focus is on God He will bless us with a great Godly man. Don't settle for second best! Praise God for this video!

  • what is really sad but true is that people ignore science and facts in a pursuit of superstition & ideals

  • Real talk 100...

  • CRYIN LAFFIN! 'look at MOOKIE..' lmbo!

  • thanks for posting this...this is good for girls and woman who don't have older brothers or fathers to teach them about the ways of certain men, so that they won't fall for this.......this is very enlightening,,,keep up the good work.

  • Talk about some conviction... I was watching this video ROLLING...until he got to the point. Point taken, and duly noted. UGH. I need to find a new job so that I can go out there on Sundays...

  • LOL!! That's hilarious. But, sad to say true for so many. Keep it up Pastor !!!!!

  • GodblessThis man,he has a very sharp sword!

  • wow... i had to look in myself wen i saw this man...

  • Man you must collecting stones thrown by religious church folk! Keep it my brotha..im posting ur videos on the TRUTH AMBASSADORS page on FACEBOOK...check it out!

  • wow, man. i wonder if dude watched this video before the deceiving flattery began.

    Mark 1:14-15.

  • theres always a carnal brotha in the church lol thank you Pastor Cox thank you man lol!!!

  • lol

  • Dude , that was on time

  • brothers! how about just being you, being transparent and having the heart of God and the ladies will definitely notice!! not only becos they will see your anointing but because they will see Christ in YOU...keep it real! Adam and Eve were attracted to each other in the spirit first before the physical. Check his/her spirit! God bless!

  • lol @ the warnings!! brothers how about just being you, being transparent and having the heart of God and the ladies will definitely notice!!! cos they will see your anointing and more importantly Christ in YOU :-)

  • it is unbelievable how true this is!!!!!!!

  • that joint was funny. very interesting .

  • hahaha... Even after a thousand years, this will still be true. Women are weak, they need Jesus to be strong.

  • Wow.  Sad, but true.

  • its ridiculous how true that is..

  • @pastorJustinofP4cm it was definitely just a Joke,But actually i was talking about the vid with one of my boys and We both agreed that the video doesn't only speak to "worldly" dudes. We're decent dudes but alot of the times our female counterparts feel like we Christian Guys are Boring ,dont have enough "edge" ,we're not mysterious enough so basically He and I were joking around with idea of acting lost and following these steps getting back to normal, and letting her think she did it... .

  • sad thing is this happens

  • LOL

  • Your ministry is such a blessing in so many ways! I cannot say enough to thank you for doing what you're doing. Be blessed!

  • Thankyou Pastor Justin I replied to that guy,it really makes me sick that men would and even some women would treat the opposite sex like that. God made us so we should treat eachother with respect and purity:}

  • You need to listen to the whole thing. Because He was being sarcastic girls are NOT sex toys,we are human beings people with feelings not some wanton sex toy. God wants men to treat women with honor and respect especially before marriage. He wasn't saying this to help guys get girls like that he was saying it for a wake up call!

  • Wow Pastor Cox, this is so funny! So so true! Sometimes some women can be silly. :.)

  • lol..wow..this had some funny bits going on...but truly informative

  • #1 this camera is bangin lol

    #2 that "project "boyfriend gets people too often!!!

    good vid

  • LOL!!! Put your palms out brotha!! Then turn em in!!! MAN, this makes me think about the girls in my youth group. I'm gonna hafta have them listen to this

  • listen to what the guy say b4 you comment shit on his video the guy has a point if you watch to the end there's a getch . maybe he's talkin from experience but turned around before it was too late.

  • lol @ "Spiritualizing". We speaking Christianese yo!

  • the truth of this video saddens me.

  • keep exposing how silly us women can be. Lord please help us to use discernment.

  • wow thanx pastor

  • Amen @ ayoemcee They need to stop playing games with these young women!!

  • so true. this opened my eyes so much, thank you pastor! Jesus is the only man in my life unless He decides to put a dedicated Christian man in my life. whatever, it's His will, not mine. as long as i got Christ, i'm all set. :)

  • THIS IS SOOOOO On Point!!!!

    THANKS FOR BEING SOOOOO REAL!!!! I pray and hope that my sisters will see this and LISTEN UP!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!

  • Ladies! This dude is telling the truth! Watch at 4:10-4:50 about 10 times ya'll! How many dudes have I hooked up and how many bad decisions I've made with just on that alone! Hmmm? Isn't that what Eve did? Ladies, we can't be sayin' jack about Eve now!!!

    Thanks Pastor Justin for exposing that thing! I'm really encouraged to not keep listening to my own reasoning and aggressively begin to renew my mind in God's word.

  • Amen!

  • 02:35 loool :D

  • lmaoooo. you gotta lift your hands up.. etc.

    lol i'm a girl & this is hilarious.

  • this brother is so right about so many things...yea it depends on where you go to church and he did say all girls do this which i disagree with but he makes so many good pionts aand is hilarious as well...God bless man ...good stuff!

  • how bout we court a girl, before dating her its the best way.

  • Dude HAHA At First I was Like Man this guy is messed up trying to get Girls To Backslide! lol But It shocked me!! haha I love this Thank you! lol THis Was a Bomb Wake up Call From the Guys Side of Things!

  • I like this video. Do you have a video for the guys who do the same thing that the woman do?

  • brother,like your style.ive seen that happen so many times at my church,with old and young women.thank god my mom taught me better than that.i dont look at church as a dating service.

  • Yes!!!! Amen luv it!!!!!

  • this guy is so wrong on so so so many different levels but he is so funny

  • disregard this comment. i only put it down watching the first 5mins.

  • sorry I just noticed this one lol

  • He's right on many levels and he is funny lol

  • 6:20-7:05 - CLASSIC.

  • wow dude, at first I was like.. What..in.. the..world is this brotha takin about??? However, I dig it!!! You did a God Job Bro!!!!

  • LUUUUVVVVVV IITTTT!!

  • LOL This guy is a joker!!

    6:35 was funny!

    That's unfortunate if girls are like that.

    I don't know many like that myself tho and I've been saved for 11 years now. Most of the saved girls I know are serious. Them kinda guys u describing are so not the type of guy the wud ever fall for. They too smart AND they have discernment so it's a rarety where I come from to see sistaz fallin for a dude like that. They too hard for these bruthaz. Bruthaz GOTSTA step up they game where I come from so...w/e.

  • BIOLOGICAL CLOCK THINKING, LEADS TO DESPERATION. YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN ONCE MARRIED.

    WAIT ON THE LORD, MEANS NOT PUTTING A TIME LIMIT ON GOD TO PROVIDE.....you might be provided at 45 or older...

    WAIT ON THE LORD

  • Lmbo... "whoah, here he is this cute, fine, handsome guy, that looks good with nice shoes..." hahaaa!

  • i like how ur protecting us.. but as a christian woman we should know these things already but some do compromise and it shouldnt b that way

  • ah hahahhahahahahahhahaha!!!! after watching a bit of this, all I can say is, that is why we ought to focus on our relationship with God and live in the Holy Spirit so we can see the devils transformed into angels of light..lol we must not forget the devil knows if we are desperate or not.. and will give us what we want in perfection only to destroy us... the brother had me cracking up, .

  • Sistahs, this is exactly why you need to check out the brothah's fruits first...what is he bearing, what is he producing? Wake up Women of God, die to that FLESH! Pastor Cox is putting ya on BLAST, but it's outta love! A man of God will be dead to self, you'll know, check them FRUITS!!!  Great VBLOG!!!

  • Thanx 4 this Pastor Justin! Def rite on time..got convicted 4 sho cuz I love a tall man...lol..

    But yes...I got it..it's def about the heart..not the physical...

    God is soooo Awesome!

  • Amen, Amen, Amen!!!!!

  • thumb up

  • i like this guy!!

  • This is good.. This is exactly why I am single.

  • makes you want to laugh and cry at the same time!

  • this is true. most dudes at the church have the game plan to talk to a chick. i agree as far as the chick's side as well. it goes both ways. that makes me think people lie all the time, so it's best to stay guarded.

  • bhaha had to learn it the hard but its true

  • man i think this guys awsom but this is kinda nasty. not because of God but, the girlz gon be heartbroken n shit man, thats a serious thing dude. love n shit. yung gurlz gettin their hearts broke. that shits nasty. i think this foolio is cool thou.

  • JESUS IS KING DUDE! GOD BLESS =]

  • wow...this was awesome...God bless you. keep em coming.

  • sad but true

  • Preach it brotha!!!

    Speak the truth in love - E