Nothing wrong with having a good cry with a great friend. Be in the moment and feel. Being cold after a break up and just picking up and moving on isn't adressing what and how you're feeling. Crying and being sad aren't a bad thing just don't wallow for days or weeks.
There's a lyric from the musical RENT that describes what your saying, it's 'give in to love, or live in fear' I think those words are beautiful and true and you are so wise and intelligent with all your videos and advice for people x
how can i trust in the universe when the only thing i had has left, i have told her that i want her to be happy, she left me for another woman, i met somebody else told her and she went mental at me, im so confused, so hurt, all i know is that i want her to be happy but she doesnt want me to be
I have a little more of a prob then a break up my girlfriend went missing a month ago and these girls keep asking me out or if i like them well truth is these girls are really pretty but i cant get over the one that went missing and i really love her and id kill to see her again or id goto hell to tell her i love her one more time how can i get over her?
I really liked this vid. My tip would be to : Get a new image, throw out whatever youre bf/gf liked you wearing becuase it will just remind you of them. Throw out anything that reminds you of them, e.g pics, cinema tickets, first date things. Get a hair cut, new hair = new person. Move youre house or bedroom around, put the bed on a diffrent wall...the power of fung shui does work. Do what makes YOU happy, dance,sing,laugh, anything you want to do, do it. Dont try and hide the pain. Feel it.
You have earned a sub! I really liked the advise. My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday seemingly out of nowhere. I liked the point that said just because you broke up doesn't mean the relationship was a failure. Actually, all the points were great. Thank you :)
Thank you for the advice. The reframing how I think about a successful relationship is good. I wasn't sure if she was the one, but I did want to be with her for a long time, but that was not the case. Though it is very sad I am no longer with her, we did enjoy each others company. And also, letting the person go to seek what is best for their life, is another very good point. For that matter, all you points are good.
Point 2) What are you saying tho? What if it's because you want it to work?? You want to try to, because you know it could, even when things are bad. Also if you know 100% that they know it could maybe work too, but they don't want to try anymore, even when they love you. How is it just trying to keep them as you say? What if you know that they're not sure what they want either and they are confused, even tho they have some kinda of way they think they want their lifes to be at the time.
Thank you so much for sharing, found it super helpful and reassured, you're a gem, very intelligent and generous!!! You've definitively contributed to my situation!! Best, K.
A relationship breakup is nothing compared to unrequited love... why?
Because only one person suffers all the same feelings of torment and despair as a pair going through a breakup, but without having actually been in a relationship to start off with. It's fucking agony, and it would be like suffering a slow agonising death without nobody being aware of it. Silent broken heart.
guys shutup about the shirt if u dont like it dont watch it and btw guys chelsea cheated on me a few miniutes ago and ignore everything you want to call them in your head think about all the things they did think about all the things you couldent do when you was togeather what you wanted to to trust me it helps
Question: who dumps who when one partner finds the other cheating and kick the other out? My ex said I broke up with him when I kicked him out for cheating on me (several times). I say he broke up with me when he started cheating on me months ago. What do you think?
Good advice. It's true, when you are in the moment, it does suck and it can be hard to pick yourself up and move forward, but you have to. Especially when you have other problems, like the stress of grad school.
whos gives a fuck if he is naked or has long nipples :S the title of the video wasnt , watch this homosexual guy thats naked with long nipples .. no , it was him trying to help people with a break up , like seriously people ,
this advice is B.S. you don't feel bad about a being dumped because you want to force the person to be with you it's because you feel bad when you experience a loss.
"things always work out for the better": how was the Holocaust for the better?
my gf broke up with me yesterday and i was like wtf because she said she dont love me no more. So i had my best friend text her and it turns out that she was lying to me when she told me that she loved me and the worse part is that she likes my best friend but hes a great friend an said no to her and he dont like her for doing that to me. i was wondering there is this girl that realy likes me an has a crush on me, should i get with her i like her alot too but im just scared to get lied to again
Great Job on the video, Helped me not focus on "its been 10 years" and just let him go. We can not break up any more that we already are. Time for me to be free too.
I was with someone for 12 yrs that did not love me. You DO NOT want to keep them around. They stay for the children, out of "duty" or whatever reason and you will never be happy. You will be missing the one thing that makes a relationship, love and reciprication. If someone wants to leave or you feel they are with you for the wrong reasons, let them go. If need be, force their hand and make them go. Otherwise it will destroy you eventually. Im in that position now. Regret is the worst thing.
Thanks for the advice. The one topic that I would like your opinion on is feeling replaceable by the person you are with. I was in a 4.5 year relationship with a woman that lived about 53 miles away and I did all the driving, she always made excuses as to why she could not come see me. I stopped driving to her so that she can come to me and she wound up dating someone else. We got back together but I want to feel as important as I make her feel. And it is not happening. Am I being a fool?
i know...this was posted a time ago...still this is my second time watching this video...and i find it to be very useful....with both of my break ups....thanks you...Mr Davey Wavey..=)
Good job on the video dude.. You are very much mature than you look like and you are open minded and optimistic and it's good. Good for you. Only one thing... We don't all wanna see your body, I know "If you don't like the show, don't go to theater" but it's not compatible with your character as we can hear it...
I've been married 18months and we've been together for 6 years. My marriage is on the rocks and for me it feels like my world is crumbling and I can do nothing to stop it. My wife walked out on me and I'm blaming myself but I she has always been no.1.
Anyway, dude. THANK YOU!
I judged you at first by age and thinking "what do you know, and the fact you have no shirt on, LOL but you speak well about a topic that many are dealing with and hopefully can deal with. Thanks Mate!
You helped me realise that success is not how long I knew her, but how much I learnt about myself from her. I am a completely different person now because of all she put me through. You are also absolutely right that all relationships will come to an end someday. Ultimately I guess everything has to end someday. Amazing how we never want to see that.
You are also right that things do turn out for the better and sometimes a bad experience can help us. Youre a really optimistic person.
k i was with this guy for 2 years, and i love him so much i would jump infront of a bullet for him, but wat happens he he brakes up with you and says he still wants you in his life, and that he still wants to be with you, just not right now cause he wants to "figure him self out first" but he acks like i dont exist infront of all our friends. wat should i do?
After 3 years we decided to go our separate ways. I think its the change that hurts the most. To answer your question, its hard to actually tell you what to do. Toward the end of it, I started looking at what kind of relationship this would be in the future. I then realized we had come as far as we could make it. Meaning I felt no more room for growth in our relationship. Don't ask yourself how long can you see yourself with him. But ask yourself if you can still learn and grow from it.
we were together for 19 months and the girl i thought i was gonna marry one day left me because she wanted other things in her life. dude you've really helped me see things alot more clearly and alot better. thank you frrom the bottom of my heart :)
hey thanks man, ive looked at so many sites and things and i finally have a plan, and this vid helps a lot too, im finally gonna get over her, and im taking it seriously, the first step im taking is no contact, and delete her from all chat sites ect..thats the first step (:
yeah dude. true. after I walking in on my ex girl cheating on me with another dude after a year and a half relationship. It's been tough. Wish I woud of watchd this a few months ago lol
What youre saying is really true. Its really hopeful to hear these words. And it is really hopeful to see a hopeful person :) Cause the things you talk about are really mature and, you know, the mature people are sometimes sad. Cause it seems that the more a person understands about the world, the more sadder they become. So it is nice to know that maturity doesnt necessarily take the youth out of a person. Thank you for the words and thank you for the video :)
Thank you for taking the time to make this video. My bf broke up with me because he didnt want to deal my problems. He never wanted to talk about it. I have been very sad, but your advice would help me to see things in a different way. Peace to you good looking man. And thank you again.
I'm not sure if this man is gay or not..but it's disappointing how many nasty derogatory comments are being left. I think you are very intelligent. I wish more people were as mature as you.
WOW I enjoyed the video...real good tips. this is my 2nd go round with this issue. but it was the 2nd relationship that took me on a mini loop the relationship was only 30 day's and the sad part to this is this guy was the bounce back dude, just so I could get over the 1st guy of 2yr's..my 30 day relationship guy live's rite across the street from me. it won't be easy seeing with someone new. I'm taking a 2 week vacation. to clear my head I will get pass this. I know this was all for the best!
why are you top naked.......we'll i just broke up with my girl a week ago..by that time i feel so devastated..and then she came back saying hello...but she doesnt want to be with like living together..this things always happens to us i want to live my own but with her shadow hanging around me this thing is hard.what should i do?
Thinks for the advice, my boyfriend broke up with me reseantly and I have been feeling sad, but I know I need to get over it. I would have to say that its good to try and stay busy after a break up because it helps take your mind off of the break up and that person. Like I am going to Bingo tonight which is something I enjoy doing so I think that will help get my mind off of him.
I would advise though with the 4th point to make a different between sliding into depression and letting one's feelings out, and getting it all out. There's gotta be a balance.
Hands down - this video by far makes the most sense out of all those other videos/articles and so called "advice" out there. On the surface, your words seem casual. But the truth is, the thoughts behind your words are profoundly positive and shows a level of maturity & wisdom that is so rare these days.
You really helped me to see things in a new light! Thank you :)
my girlfriend broke up with me and my 6 months old son with her... We dated about 3 years or so and had a wonderful son. now I can only see him every now and then... My life is over. I just cant believe shes gone.. Id kill myself if I didnt have my son... Please somebody help me!
i felt that way if you want to talk im here i understand you feel like you want die but trust me you never do ill talk to you if you want. ill hear you out but the feeling will always be there
6th point.... date someone else that is worth it. Someone that even temporarily makes u forget about your ex will give you hope that you can get over the "perfection" he/she used to personify. Your ex will seem less and less perfect when you meet better and better people.
wise words from such a young man, my girlfriend of 3 years has been cheatin on me and iam heart broken,i treaed her good and she s been seeing a young guy at her work.iam sat in tears in my flat and this helped a bit thanks for that
Nothing wrong with having a good cry with a great friend. Be in the moment and feel. Being cold after a break up and just picking up and moving on isn't adressing what and how you're feeling. Crying and being sad aren't a bad thing just don't wallow for days or weeks.
0Nythera0 1 week ago
I love tip 1 :)
you're adorable!
karmalynn95 1 month ago
Sometimes people change, so that we can let go, and make room for better things to come into our lives. Remember that folks!
TheThruster24 4 months ago
deep...
never thought about it in t
hat perspective. great video!
magdalenastar2011 5 months ago
There's a lyric from the musical RENT that describes what your saying, it's 'give in to love, or live in fear' I think those words are beautiful and true and you are so wise and intelligent with all your videos and advice for people x
demonicheart1 8 months ago
There's a lyric from the must
demonicheart1 8 months ago
thank u so much for this! :)
yingpoop 8 months ago
not wearing a shirt validates what you are saying..right?
XristarasGamieste 10 months ago
this is my frends acc but ty msan i need to now the truth chears
michaelkellie 11 months ago
OK. my friend is here and hes fucking talking crazy shit bout this girl and hes only fucking 16 hes taking this to seriously.
the1thatlies 1 year ago
his teaching is dogshit, vague and unrealistic
justonean76 1 year ago
Guys, hes gay... why are u saying hes sexy its just... weird... >.<
Timmybry101 1 year ago
nah, bitch gotta die!
saumavachanda 1 year ago
Dude, your body isnt really good :S
KingVolkan61 1 year ago
tanks man, uve ever been dumped?idts
faridjabba 1 year ago
I like his body just now his voice :P
Tabbiebabii54 1 year ago
oh my ghost!!!!!! he is sooooooooooo handsome my goD
TheFranzruss 1 year ago
damn hes so cute,good adivce too.
DaarkRedeemer 1 year ago
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maslovanelli 1 month ago 39
Kevinsniff 1 year ago
man you helped me to see the light
MrSavellz89 1 year ago
wow man thank you it is vary hard right now but you just made it a little less!
bodybag101 1 year ago
Those nipples could cut glass without sound.
EliteDoomer 1 year ago
nice! advice
jovemerZ 1 year ago
you ROCK !
OpheliaBeaumont 1 year ago
i agree on wat u said it happenn to me i was in pain on wat she did but i got over it
packsun555p0 1 year ago
good advice .
zackthetree 1 year ago
your great wickydkewl. i just got dumped and your so right. even though i already knew the answer i just need to hear it from someone else.
windowpainter69 1 year ago
how can i trust in the universe when the only thing i had has left, i have told her that i want her to be happy, she left me for another woman, i met somebody else told her and she went mental at me, im so confused, so hurt, all i know is that i want her to be happy but she doesnt want me to be
allngould 1 year ago
Put a shirt on please.
goinnowhereslow 1 year ago
Sorry for all the lame comments on here. This was a wonderful video filled with excellent advice.
temperingtantrum 1 year ago
that's some VERY good advice... cheers.
heynien 1 year ago
the guys putting on a youtube video for many people to see ..and he cant even take the time to put on a shirt??! what a dweeb!
higherlimit 1 year ago
Why is his shirt off? lol....
michaelg73096 1 year ago
really good video!!!!!!!!! xxx
cuteminx121 1 year ago
gay
mihaizzav 1 year ago
Thanks alot man :)
cew321 1 year ago
thank you really helped me !!!!
2901razor 1 year ago
I have a little more of a prob then a break up my girlfriend went missing a month ago and these girls keep asking me out or if i like them well truth is these girls are really pretty but i cant get over the one that went missing and i really love her and id kill to see her again or id goto hell to tell her i love her one more time how can i get over her?
PigsWearingHats 1 year ago
@PigsWearingHats
that sux, theres no answer for that
shootnmove 1 year ago
1. friends
2.party
3.fuk all the girls u can
4.get talking to other chicks
5.forget that bitch forever and get another fuk partner lol
unkownpker1 1 year ago
@unkownpker1 works great ... i mean ur gross xD
PigsWearingHats 1 year ago
@unkownpker1 for real lol
dsob11 1 year ago
I really liked this vid. My tip would be to : Get a new image, throw out whatever youre bf/gf liked you wearing becuase it will just remind you of them. Throw out anything that reminds you of them, e.g pics, cinema tickets, first date things. Get a hair cut, new hair = new person. Move youre house or bedroom around, put the bed on a diffrent wall...the power of fung shui does work. Do what makes YOU happy, dance,sing,laugh, anything you want to do, do it. Dont try and hide the pain. Feel it.
BangBangBitchPrctons 1 year ago
You have earned a sub! I really liked the advise. My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday seemingly out of nowhere. I liked the point that said just because you broke up doesn't mean the relationship was a failure. Actually, all the points were great. Thank you :)
tylerstudly12 1 year ago
what a genuinely great guy!
lyledotcom 1 year ago
Thank you for the advice. The reframing how I think about a successful relationship is good. I wasn't sure if she was the one, but I did want to be with her for a long time, but that was not the case. Though it is very sad I am no longer with her, we did enjoy each others company. And also, letting the person go to seek what is best for their life, is another very good point. For that matter, all you points are good.
Thanks again! Great advice!
CinemaMaximus 1 year ago
Mate i don't know who you are or what you have studied but this is brilliant! well done and thanks for the help.
DJPashn 1 year ago
Thank you this helped a lot, thanks for giving me some renewed hope and for your beaming positive attitude :D You rock!
science400 1 year ago
so wait this guy is gay? shit! how can I get his body for my females? lol
silencer775 1 year ago
gay or not this shit was awesome!
2NinjaBros2 1 year ago 4
One thing that makes me feel better is i just think to myself Its just a girl.
steevn606 1 year ago
@steevn606 WOOW that helped me. All i was thinking about my EX today was: Its just a girl :) that actually worked. it makes me feel better.
y3201 1 year ago
@y3201 Haha i know!!! :D Amd a nother thing is. Is to test other girls or hang out with them!
steevn606 1 year ago
@steevn606 Hey! im going to try that out :)
y3201 1 year ago
@y3201 I ment text other girls not test lol.
steevn606 1 year ago
@steevn606 oh shit lol!!! to late. Its cool there only girls :D (i tested them sexually it worked : ) lol
y3201 1 year ago
Point 2) What are you saying tho? What if it's because you want it to work?? You want to try to, because you know it could, even when things are bad. Also if you know 100% that they know it could maybe work too, but they don't want to try anymore, even when they love you. How is it just trying to keep them as you say? What if you know that they're not sure what they want either and they are confused, even tho they have some kinda of way they think they want their lifes to be at the time.
shawnme08 1 year ago
@shawnme08 ... I want to know the answer for that too =c
puiconk17 1 year ago
Thank you so much for sharing, found it super helpful and reassured, you're a gem, very intelligent and generous!!! You've definitively contributed to my situation!! Best, K.
kasia4450 1 year ago
wow, how enlightening
iboughtanewlaptop 1 year ago
A relationship breakup is nothing compared to unrequited love... why?
Because only one person suffers all the same feelings of torment and despair as a pair going through a breakup, but without having actually been in a relationship to start off with. It's fucking agony, and it would be like suffering a slow agonising death without nobody being aware of it. Silent broken heart.
TCFan25 1 year ago
this is a wowser it is my life saver
justindepratt 1 year ago
Damn people, Davey don't like wearing shirts!
DevonHicks 1 year ago
guys shutup about the shirt if u dont like it dont watch it and btw guys chelsea cheated on me a few miniutes ago and ignore everything you want to call them in your head think about all the things they did think about all the things you couldent do when you was togeather what you wanted to to trust me it helps
darren4chelsea1 1 year ago
shirt on!!!
sandraussie 1 year ago
This amazing site helped me get my ex back, you should really check it out: hubpages(dot)com/hub/First-steps-to-getting-your-ex-BACK
nikkehhhh 1 year ago
Question: who dumps who when one partner finds the other cheating and kick the other out? My ex said I broke up with him when I kicked him out for cheating on me (several times). I say he broke up with me when he started cheating on me months ago. What do you think?
jbmcdoogle 1 year ago
Good advice. It's true, when you are in the moment, it does suck and it can be hard to pick yourself up and move forward, but you have to. Especially when you have other problems, like the stress of grad school.
Thanks for the advice
CinemaMaximus 1 year ago
whos gives a fuck if he is naked or has long nipples :S the title of the video wasnt , watch this homosexual guy thats naked with long nipples .. no , it was him trying to help people with a break up , like seriously people ,
miskeg 1 year ago
Why are you not wearing a shirt??
dacptn 1 year ago
@dacptn
GAY ALERT!
lianxanpo 1 year ago
@lianxanpo lol!
vyrgo84 1 year ago
Thanks for the advice.
Too bad im still crying over him. :[
AmazingLadyy13 1 year ago
why thr heck are his nipples that long? lmfao what the heck haha thats like a whole half inch rofllmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!!
heavensent12345 1 year ago
this advice is B.S. you don't feel bad about a being dumped because you want to force the person to be with you it's because you feel bad when you experience a loss.
"things always work out for the better": how was the Holocaust for the better?
ensignz 1 year ago
thanks man...
Nipunfernando 1 year ago
dude *YOU* sound like my *GIRL FREIND*
MrWeedplant 1 year ago
@MrWeedplant thats probably your girl friend with no make up and wigs.
KillaNCDealer 1 year ago
dude whens ur voice gonna break up lol
bobbobly1 1 year ago
dude. gay. gay dude. dude it's gay. dude you're gay.
BAbourbonFilms 1 year ago
Thank you, those are some of the best advice I have had.
cortezrocio 1 year ago
my gf broke up with me yesterday and i was like wtf because she said she dont love me no more. So i had my best friend text her and it turns out that she was lying to me when she told me that she loved me and the worse part is that she likes my best friend but hes a great friend an said no to her and he dont like her for doing that to me. i was wondering there is this girl that realy likes me an has a crush on me, should i get with her i like her alot too but im just scared to get lied to again
thedragonslayerking4 1 year ago
Aha
ilovemamang 1 year ago
hes GAY lol
MadMaxEdcw 1 year ago
Niceee i was sad :(
datbxkiid1 1 year ago
Great Job on the video, Helped me not focus on "its been 10 years" and just let him go. We can not break up any more that we already are. Time for me to be free too.
joegranger 1 year ago
you are cute
KrissiCru88 1 year ago
I was with someone for 12 yrs that did not love me. You DO NOT want to keep them around. They stay for the children, out of "duty" or whatever reason and you will never be happy. You will be missing the one thing that makes a relationship, love and reciprication. If someone wants to leave or you feel they are with you for the wrong reasons, let them go. If need be, force their hand and make them go. Otherwise it will destroy you eventually. Im in that position now. Regret is the worst thing.
Alexander67212 1 year ago
@Alexander67212 soooooo true
thedragonslayerking4 1 year ago
Thank you man.
pushover1 1 year ago
Great stuff!
Nimzowitz 1 year ago
Brilliant!
TheodorusRex 1 year ago
well my bf broke up w me 2 days ago and that accually made me feel better
gigglynn 1 year ago
Thanks for the advice. The one topic that I would like your opinion on is feeling replaceable by the person you are with. I was in a 4.5 year relationship with a woman that lived about 53 miles away and I did all the driving, she always made excuses as to why she could not come see me. I stopped driving to her so that she can come to me and she wound up dating someone else. We got back together but I want to feel as important as I make her feel. And it is not happening. Am I being a fool?
deepwhisper 1 year ago
I do believe your gorgeous. And I'm not trying to be creepy or what not, I'm stating the obvious
Soddda 1 year ago
i know...this was posted a time ago...still this is my second time watching this video...and i find it to be very useful....with both of my break ups....thanks you...Mr Davey Wavey..=)
kietkat 1 year ago
Good job on the video dude.. You are very much mature than you look like and you are open minded and optimistic and it's good. Good for you. Only one thing... We don't all wanna see your body, I know "If you don't like the show, don't go to theater" but it's not compatible with your character as we can hear it...
mare011RS 1 year ago
thank you(:
bluetanktop12 1 year ago
thank you..
MrBlue609 1 year ago
I've been married 18months and we've been together for 6 years. My marriage is on the rocks and for me it feels like my world is crumbling and I can do nothing to stop it. My wife walked out on me and I'm blaming myself but I she has always been no.1.
Anyway, dude. THANK YOU!
I judged you at first by age and thinking "what do you know, and the fact you have no shirt on, LOL but you speak well about a topic that many are dealing with and hopefully can deal with. Thanks Mate!
jjerome77 1 year ago
lol scroll down to where you cant see the video and it sounds like a woman talking
4309polk 2 years ago 4
grow some balls
swss12 2 years ago
right on man! thanks
sysphus13 2 years ago 2
You helped me realise that success is not how long I knew her, but how much I learnt about myself from her. I am a completely different person now because of all she put me through. You are also absolutely right that all relationships will come to an end someday. Ultimately I guess everything has to end someday. Amazing how we never want to see that.
You are also right that things do turn out for the better and sometimes a bad experience can help us. Youre a really optimistic person.
Thnks :)
Novae03 2 years ago 2
k i was with this guy for 2 years, and i love him so much i would jump infront of a bullet for him, but wat happens he he brakes up with you and says he still wants you in his life, and that he still wants to be with you, just not right now cause he wants to "figure him self out first" but he acks like i dont exist infront of all our friends. wat should i do?
Despres1000 2 years ago
After 3 years we decided to go our separate ways. I think its the change that hurts the most. To answer your question, its hard to actually tell you what to do. Toward the end of it, I started looking at what kind of relationship this would be in the future. I then realized we had come as far as we could make it. Meaning I felt no more room for growth in our relationship. Don't ask yourself how long can you see yourself with him. But ask yourself if you can still learn and grow from it.
zdreggs 2 years ago
Dude!!! Put a shirt on!!!!!!¡!¡!¡!¡!¡!¡!¡
MultiCooldude23 2 years ago
Did he say hellow butt buddies ha ga ha ! Just playing
Tiezoke 2 years ago 3
lmao
littleRayRay306 2 years ago
Why? why would you sit half naked while doing a "advice-video" sigh... x)
goatrek 2 years ago
That's great. You have been very helpful. Nice body. I'm straight but you kept me interested.
TearAwayPictures 2 years ago
we were together for 19 months and the girl i thought i was gonna marry one day left me because she wanted other things in her life. dude you've really helped me see things alot more clearly and alot better. thank you frrom the bottom of my heart :)
MrPirate93 2 years ago
Really good advice. I think this will help me out some. But my tip for you would be a shirt...
coreyman125 2 years ago 22
hey thanks man, ive looked at so many sites and things and i finally have a plan, and this vid helps a lot too, im finally gonna get over her, and im taking it seriously, the first step im taking is no contact, and delete her from all chat sites ect..thats the first step (:
WelshBoySam 2 years ago
why is he naked
chicago85thst 2 years ago 35
@chicago85thst Cuz he's sexy!
jaetguz 1 year ago 4
Thanks for the advice! You are awesome!
avasaturnine 2 years ago
fearsomethreesome3 the saem thing happened to me and i was so pissed but i heel a little more each day... DONT go back again..just MOVE ON
Tyranny87 2 years ago
Thanks for the tips...excellent advice.
The no shirt thing is weird, but I'm thankful nonetheless :)
kizzeith 2 years ago 3
shit man thanks for this i needed this my girl left me for a fucking short ass squirrel!!!lol thats not important ut this will help
warlock4831 2 years ago 2
thankyou so much for this video
it helped alot.
katiiiieeeeee 2 years ago
dude just by watchin ur video
the realization helped me get through my break up that happend today
aaznpryde 2 years ago
I guess but there is always this just fucking man up stop being a big fat super size Harry pussy and just man the fuck up
Tiezoke 2 years ago
my bf dumped me after i dumped him when we went out first time then he dumped after begging me 2 come back
fearsomethreesome3 2 years ago
ur def a feminine guy that would most likely be in a relationship. girls are for fags
swss12 2 years ago
what? girls are for fags? that makes no sense
kpdubbs2006 2 years ago
girlfriends turn guys into pussies.. look at everyone who's commenting AND the guy in the video!
swss12 2 years ago
haha... that comment contradicts itself ... so bad
kateFAIL 2 years ago
yeah dude. true. after I walking in on my ex girl cheating on me with another dude after a year and a half relationship. It's been tough. Wish I woud of watchd this a few months ago lol
mattcontos 2 years ago
You are like a medication for all of us, no matter how old we are....
48acar19 2 years ago
What youre saying is really true. Its really hopeful to hear these words. And it is really hopeful to see a hopeful person :) Cause the things you talk about are really mature and, you know, the mature people are sometimes sad. Cause it seems that the more a person understands about the world, the more sadder they become. So it is nice to know that maturity doesnt necessarily take the youth out of a person. Thank you for the words and thank you for the video :)
bgcyclops 2 years ago
Thank you.
abnormallyfunny 2 years ago
UR SOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE
bigdurtyhomo 2 years ago
i wish i have watched this video soooooner....
thanks....
kietkat 2 years ago
i dated my bf for three and a half years... his mother found out and seperated us... how do you deal with something like that....
cooldude2658 2 years ago
wow this really worked. thanks for that
kirstenr100 2 years ago
nice advice-you have logic.
typhusbuffet 2 years ago 2
Thank you for taking the time to make this video. My bf broke up with me because he didnt want to deal my problems. He never wanted to talk about it. I have been very sad, but your advice would help me to see things in a different way. Peace to you good looking man. And thank you again.
jem112576 2 years ago 4
Just broke up with my bf - dude, this video actually helps a lot. It's common sense I've been too bothered to live by. Thanks, man. Much appreciated.
DesertNBCer 2 years ago 2
I'm not sure if this man is gay or not..but it's disappointing how many nasty derogatory comments are being left. I think you are very intelligent. I wish more people were as mature as you.
rulandtr 2 years ago 7
Wow, I can now sleep peacefully at night. Good tips.
KratosJones07 2 years ago
thank you, this was very helpful.
simplethings00 2 years ago 3
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jmaster6969 2 years ago
Your Cute o.o Thanks For The Advise :D It Helped =D
AquaMarineO1 2 years ago
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This guy is obviously a fag and probably has AIDS
moronpaul 2 years ago
i feel better
RabbitDance 2 years ago
you are inteligent
sorana87 2 years ago
am i man, and im not afraid to say, I LOVE YOU!!! (crys) ='[
xxafrosamuraixx 2 years ago
how many break up u hv??
hayna2008 2 years ago
WOW I enjoyed the video...real good tips. this is my 2nd go round with this issue. but it was the 2nd relationship that took me on a mini loop the relationship was only 30 day's and the sad part to this is this guy was the bounce back dude, just so I could get over the 1st guy of 2yr's..my 30 day relationship guy live's rite across the street from me. it won't be easy seeing with someone new. I'm taking a 2 week vacation. to clear my head I will get pass this. I know this was all for the best!
AishahMs745 2 years ago
Lovely tips, thank you :)
razelgb 2 years ago
why are you top naked.......we'll i just broke up with my girl a week ago..by that time i feel so devastated..and then she came back saying hello...but she doesnt want to be with like living together..this things always happens to us i want to live my own but with her shadow hanging around me this thing is hard.what should i do?
maodantelanot 2 years ago
Thinks for the advice, my boyfriend broke up with me reseantly and I have been feeling sad, but I know I need to get over it. I would have to say that its good to try and stay busy after a break up because it helps take your mind off of the break up and that person. Like I am going to Bingo tonight which is something I enjoy doing so I think that will help get my mind off of him.
missouri9949 2 years ago
good video, thank you
Dilly91 2 years ago
thanks!
jazzyalmond 2 years ago
why are you naked?
nimaomega 2 years ago
very good advice wavey =]
its all easier said than done tho :(
ispitthetruth 2 years ago
Your 3rd point is great.
I love it.
Your a smart guy, and at this point I'm just telling myself. Fuck her. She made me depressed for 2 months, it's time to live. Get someone better :).
leochestertrudel 2 years ago
I would advise though with the 4th point to make a different between sliding into depression and letting one's feelings out, and getting it all out. There's gotta be a balance.
dsperlin 2 years ago
Thank you very much, you made me realice of some things.Thanx again.
peloi111 2 years ago
Hands down - this video by far makes the most sense out of all those other videos/articles and so called "advice" out there. On the surface, your words seem casual. But the truth is, the thoughts behind your words are profoundly positive and shows a level of maturity & wisdom that is so rare these days.
You really helped me to see things in a new light! Thank you :)
jayban82 2 years ago 2
my girlfriend broke up with me and my 6 months old son with her... We dated about 3 years or so and had a wonderful son. now I can only see him every now and then... My life is over. I just cant believe shes gone.. Id kill myself if I didnt have my son... Please somebody help me!
repola81 2 years ago
i felt that way if you want to talk im here i understand you feel like you want die but trust me you never do ill talk to you if you want. ill hear you out but the feeling will always be there
raboadela 2 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that. But at least you can still see him, and maybe things will get better with time. Stay well and never forget to love yourself.
dsperlin 2 years ago
wat if iv never had any relatoinships tht work out no one loves me and im incapible of a healthy relationship
chibilover93 2 years ago
my best advice would be to avoid sad music!!!
listen to lots of happy music if your just sitting at home and dance around your room going wooooo!
and when your not at home hang out with people who make you laugh:D
it worked for me!
mynameissofy 2 years ago
I just got my heart broken yesterday & I'm completely devestated
dramagurlly 2 years ago 4
6th point.... date someone else that is worth it. Someone that even temporarily makes u forget about your ex will give you hope that you can get over the "perfection" he/she used to personify. Your ex will seem less and less perfect when you meet better and better people.
burnbl4ckflam3s 2 years ago
Thanks! This was helpful!
cloak211 2 years ago
What the hell is wrong with you people..Why are you hating on everything you find?!
My opinion is, that those were 5 very good tips for "the breakup zone"..they helped me :)
bboyjernej 2 years ago
I learned from my ex that I'm funny, but not as funny as the guy she's dating... :'(
LenKazumi 2 years ago
Maybe you'll find another girl who appreciates your humor more.
7beers 2 years ago
Oh, um, thank you. :)
LenKazumi 2 years ago
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ha ha sucks to be you!
RabbitDance 2 years ago
wow.. pointless talking to a inbred like you.
Vladey14 2 years ago
wow... get your head out your ass. Gay people are not all about sex! so stfu!
Davey I love you! Your like the best! A true inspiration!
Vladey14 2 years ago 3
wow you sound like a girl? or probably a gay? aww and what u trying to show half naked? wtf
aminuk23 2 years ago
Mad respect bro, you are very wise!
bleedisaster 2 years ago
thanks
ayze666 2 years ago
thanks so much you were very helpfull and sweet cute guy.xx patty london
patililu 2 years ago
wise words from such a young man, my girlfriend of 3 years has been cheatin on me and iam heart broken,i treaed her good and she s been seeing a young guy at her work.iam sat in tears in my flat and this helped a bit thanks for that
strabbs1 2 years ago