Anyone who has kids before 25... are LOSERS!

[dontgetmarried999]

When meeting women online avoid dinner & movies on first meet up (meet up at free/low cost places like bookstores/parks/cafes), never co-sign/mix anything legal, show less interest to women to attract them, no illegal immigrants/google marriage fraud, avoid long distance relationships, no single women with kids at home/it's a package deal, avoid fat chicks that collect stuffed animals, have no attachment with women/stay single, learn to pass the check, never lend money to women.

[mba2ceo]

What does kids have to do with success - NOTHING.

[PapaMagnum]

FUCK YEAH

All my exes from high school got preggers before the age of 25. I laughed my ass off. I am set to graduate from law school soon and am NOT tied down.

[MultiSmartass1]

I agree with this whole heartedly.

I see this with guys especially-they either got married or had a kid with a chick.

Im 40 and I have no kids and Iam glad.

Id rather be poor in this economy single and childless than with a kid or two and wife/girlfriend.

[poisonwood23]

And BTW not every woman is a gold digger and wants to control you.

[poisonwood23]

To all these men saying women are the ones who want babies and marriage, let me tell you something. I am a 20 year old woman, and I DEFINITELY do not want to get married or have kids for a LONG time. However, my boyfriend said after 4 months into our relationship that he wants to marry me and have kids. (He didn't mean right then) but still. It freaked me out. There are so many things I want to do before a husband and kids. Women have to bear the child. No thanks. I'll wait. I want to do ME now.

[MultiSmartass1]

@poisonwood23 What a weird guy. I hoped you ditched that guy.

[1REVINT]

I just realized I'm a fucking looser. I doubt that you'll read this, but thank you Tom. Ever since I was 15 years old, nobody slapped me in the face to let me know how fucking stupid and immature I was. I always wanted to play big boy. We really need somebody to just spit it out in our fucking faces, with no mercy.

[1REVINT]

My goodness. I found out about Tom like two weeks ago and I've become addicted to his show videos. But I don't know, I wish I would've heard about him four years ago before I got married. I'm 24 years old, my wife is 29, I married her when I was 21. I hadn't finished highscool yet. I had been wasting my time and decided that it was better to start late than never, but i completely fucked up again by marrying her. I'm now in college and she wants a baby... shit, I don't know what to do.

[L8onL8on]

@1REVINT - 21 and hadn't finished high school yet? Really?

[1REVINT]

@L8onL8on Yeah. No excuses, but I waisted a lot of time. I was very commited to church activities(I'm an atheist now) and didn't take school seriously. I'm working right now and Im in law school, but I should be way ahead.

[seeking911]

LMAO!!! I DO NOT want to have kids until I'm 27.

[Snakekilla12]

@seeking911 even if you're 27... waiting until you are ready emotionally, financially, and everything else to properly prepare on having children to ensure they have a high quality life should be key before ever thinking about having children.

[seeking911]

@Snakekilla12 Yeah....I pretty much agree with that. lol.

[Bloodsport1]

@Snakekilla12 truth

[murozman]

@seeking911 Well I'm NOT having kids until at least 30!!! The 20s are the time of your life. A time for self discovery, excitement, getting laid, travelling and all the other good stuff. Please wait till 30. Enjoy yourself because once you have kids, it's about them and not about you anymore. Well I'm 22, what do I know? Just my opinion.

[seeking911]

@murozman LMAO!!!! I don't even have a desire to have kids yet. But, yeah... I'm thinking 30 my damn self. lol. You know more than me... I'm 20. :p

[murozman]

@seeking911 It's all good man. Enjoy the next 10 years! ;-)

[Kbsantangelo]

@seeking911 i'll be 30 this yr. . . . fuck having children

[pyramidhead138]

i guess MY parents are losers then, cause when i was born my mom was 23 and my dad 24, now their in their 50's and im in MY late 20's and guess what? I DONT HAVE ANY KIDS! wont have none for quiet some time

[xJoeEDangerouslyx]

The pill is 99.7% effective on average. I've known 7 girls who claim to be in the 0.2%. Each one claimed to take the pill religiously. SEVEN! They all live in Vegas, so I'll grant you that may be one of the worse cities as far as sluttiness goes, but SEVEN of them made this same excuse. All seven got their boyfriends to take care of the kids. And guess what? Not a single one of those couples is still together. Four had their kids taken away by CPS.

It's not a good idea. It's just not.

[Silenceisgolden18]

Its time to go!! Get out!!

[sweetgyy]

tom is god

[clintonskakun]

Tom answers all my problems. Don't date chicks that want kids, or even have doubts about not wanting kids. AWESOME!

[Apjooz]

Any women who thinks I'm a fool will get a swift kick to the stomach and then down the stairs she goes. Hey, no more babies!

[dhinge]

You're more likely to have a baby with complications the older you are. The prime age to have the healthiest kid is in your early twenties.

[Snakekilla12]

@dhinge having a baby... period, can be risky in itself at any age for the health of the mother. As for health for the child this only concerns women (not men), but in my opinion 25-29 is a great age for a woman to have a healthy child, no earlier. And if you're not financially ready by 29, dont have babies and adopts as most intelligent human beings should. Let the stupid and the poor keep pro-creating…

[dhinge]

@Snakekilla12 The smart and the prosperous need to reproduce MORE.

[deeppurple28]

@dhinge Stop lying you reject, what you say is true FOR WOMEN! Men can still reproduce at age 80! That's a FACT! 

[man11withaplan]

@dhinge Do you know how much it costs to raise the average Child? More than $500,000 on average. Unless that kid in the 20s already has a successful carrier, there is NO WAY a person in their early 20s would be able to make even close to that much money. Not to mention the fact that currently the youth is suffering under the highest Unemployment more than 20 Percent between 18 - 25.

[bcstylz]

Nowadays women can get birth control shots that last for months. The shots are more expensive than the pills, but if you look at the difference compared to the cost of raising a child for 18 yrs. Well, I think you get it.

[sidneyx2]

Anyone who cannot make the subject agree with a verb IS a loser.

[orrin4]

This guy is truly an inspiration.

[Snakekilla12]

@Matttheweatherman13 even if they get lucky by knowing the right people or being born with into a easier financial situation at a young age as a vast majority of the world are not, the brain isn't ready to be a parent until it has fully matured which is usually past 25 for men, but I would personally say 30 for both men and women as finances and maturity should be set for a more stable family structure.

[TFarache]

I think Tom is really talking about MEN having children before 25. If a 22-year-old trophy wife has a baby with her rich older husband, nobody calls her a loser.

[Snakekilla12]

@TFarache yea, they call her a trophy wife and/or golddiger ;)

[versatility357]

@TFarache You obviously don't have common sense at all. If a 22 year old trophy wife has a baby with her RICH husband her mission is complete! She can get a chunk of child support now if they break-up so guess what... She's a winner in a lot of ways because she planned everything out from the beginning.

[eldiablov2]

@TFarache Yeah, I have seen very little if any good come from situations like that

[rowin09]

hey im 25 and i dont have kids and im still a loser

[ped200014]

TRUTH. i have never met someone who had kids young that wasnt a total fuckwad

[yvessaintlaurent88]

Let's face it. This is the truth. I tried to think of someone under 25 w/ kids who wasn't a loser (or close to it) but I couldn't. Now, I'm sure if I decide to have kids, it will be at age 30 or older.

[LALOMAN18]

Tom Leykis sound like he is going to be one lonely man for the rest of his fat bald ugly life! No money in the world can fix that, he will always have to buy sex. He looks like he makes porn films.. lol.... Some shit he says I do agree, but there's nothing like fucking an older chick especially MILFS. They fuck so good and don't play around, they go straight for the fucking no questions ask! Wan't some real dating advice i have two words: "David DeAngelo"

[Snakekilla12]

@LALOMAN18 who said he's giving dating advice? he is giving advice to people who only wants to get laid with the LEAST amount of energy, time, and money... plain and simple. He looks like he makes porn film? WTF? Does producers/directors of porn films have a "certain look" to them? wow... oh thats right... the RICH look!

[deeppurple28]

@LALOMAN18 Enjoy varicose Veins fuck tard XD

[deeppurple28]

@LALOMAN18 I guess you don't mind varicose veins huh you fucking pile of putrid shit!?

[LALOMAN18]

HAHAHA... You said something garbage? Wait who the fuck are you? Identify your loser self bbbbiiiiooooottttttccccchhhhhh­! And what about varicose veins? you sick piece of horse shit face! Do you even know what a MILF is dumb fuck? Its a fine ass hot ass sexy older woman that its so desirable and soo fuckable u fuckin' retard! Milf's don't have varicose veins you like do you nasty bitch! Now go to sleep you sheep, and don't reply to 1 year old comments dumb fuck!

[deeppurple28]

@LALOMAN18 You truly are the load that bitch you once called mommy should have swallowed! Enjoy your varicose veins , crowsfeet and wrinkled Vagina you fucking redundant pile of dog shit! Yet you have the right to vote, TRAGIC!

[LALOMAN18]

I can c your a stupid faggot teen that has soo much hate because your mommy WAS a MILF & got fucked in the ass, face, saggy pussy & loved it by a milf hunter like me! You found out & became a traumatized loser that u now suck so much cock to relief ur gay ass pain huh! Do us all here in this world a favor, choke urself to death u worthless piece of garbage! nobody will even care ur gone, not even ur best friend, the rat that visits u at night little biotch! now sleep MOTHAFUCKER!

[deeppurple28]

@LALOMAN18 Yes your mom relieves my schlong, now go ask that bitch why she didn't swallow the load that turned out to be you, and after that go drink the blue stuff under the sink you fucking little pussy ass BITCH! FUCK YOU FAGGOT!

[theDirtyGupta01]

No baby mama drama! I bet Sergent Willie Pete would really love this segment.

[TDavid2010]

I'm 34 and in the Military. Not will not believe how many people have kids before the age of 21.

[CaptainNemoful]

Marriage is a Horrible FAILURE, As Failure of MARRIAGE is a DIVORCE TOTALLY!!

Totally Speaking Marriage FAILS BIG TIME TOTALLY, There Nothing in it But Total Destruction, Of MEN & There FREEDOM 4 LIFE, And Women see This And Don't Care, REALLY.

[CaptainNemoful]

Loser are Pussy Whipped Men, Men that are not Losers don't get suckered into MARRIAGE, SMART MEN ARE WINNERS, & NEVER LOSERS, But most women would disagree with this, WHY, It's Very Simple, IT'S ALL BECAUSE OF MONEY, & POWER, CONTROL.

I THINK WOMEN ARE MORE SELFISH THAN MEN EVER COULD BE, I'M SORRY TO TELL YOU ALL THIS WOMEN, BUT HOWEVER YOU ALL DID IT TO YOURSELVES.

I REALLY KNOW 4 A FACT THAT MOST WOMEN & MEN WILL NEVER GET ALONG, JUST TAKE A LOOK AT THE NEWS IN TODAY'S WORLD.

[CaptainNemoful]

Losers do what Women want them to do,The Men without self control, There putty in there HANDS, & Women control them 4 the Suckers they are, Or Becoming to BE.

I hope Marriage gets DESTROYED, OR REMOVED FROM SOCIETY, 4 WHAT IT'S DOING TO MEN.

Men get nothing from marriage, REALLY NOTHING, BUT pain & suffering, In a Horrible way, MEN LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP, WOMEN WILL ALWAYS GET THE MAN'S MONEY FROM ALL MEN IN MARRIAGE, Think about it!!

Women visions about Men Is ALL ABOUT MONEY.

[CaptainNemoful]

Anybody at any AGE, That gets Married & / Or Have Kids Are LOSERS in my opinion!! I'm only taking a STAND 4 ALL MEN, Because they get treated like SHIT BY WOMEN, Because most Women are GOLD DIGGERS.

All Women want to do with all Men Is Total CONTROL, of Them, 4 there MONEY, What else could it Be, You Tell Me, What Else?????????????

I want nothing to do with all Gold Diggers, I Mean ALL of THEM, "I hate Them 4 what they really are, THE EVIL THEY DO,- No-Matter who they ARE in REAL LIFE."

[BiGMANJOE32]

why do women who got careers endup seeking after younger men to settle down with its just CONTROL!

[CaptainNemoful]

@BiGMANJOE32 RIGHT,!!!!! it's just total Control!!

[ray1corr]

@Snakekilla. $80,000 a yr is just fine to me and my kids! More money more problems and then start thinking like douchbags like yourself! And for your info dipshit, I love in Socal! What do you consider "high quality healthcare." Well, full medical and dental for my children and no its not no shitty hmo! Education, there doing fine,,,,, again whats your idea of "high education?" High quality housing,,,,, YES!! Beautiful neighborhood full of happy healthy children to play with!

[ray1corr]

And this is coming from the fat fuck that got his ass whooped in a diner!! I have 2 kids at 22 and 25. Make 80,000 a yr, have a 5 bed 5 bath house! Now im 30, run around with my kids, skate with my son! Party with my friends on my time and lay the hottest chicks! FUCK LYKIS'S FAT BALD ASS!! BAHAHA

[Snakekilla12]

@ray1corr I'd assume you're totally ignorant on the terms of Generalities. $80,000 a yr still small, you must live in a low population state, if you were in NYC, CA,LA, etc. big cities, $80,000 is nothing, are you providing high quality healthcare to your children? are you providing private high quality education to your children? high quality housing? oh and sounds like your kids in a broken family with no family, since you mentioned you're banging hot chicks... sounds great!

[ray1corr]

@Snakekilla12 $80,000 a yr is just fine to me and my kids! More money more problems and then start thinking like douchbags like yourself! And for your info dipshit, I love in Socal! What do you consider "high quality healthcare." Well, full medical and dental for my children and no its not no shitty hmo! Education, there doing fine,,,,, again whats your idea of "high education?" High quality housing,,,,, YES!! Beautiful neighborhood full of happy healthy children to play with! The neighborhood

[violatione]

@ray1corr $80,000 is ok for losers who had kids too young and could never hope to aspire to a higher income.

[ray1corr]

@violatione 80,000 was a start stupidass! What were you making at age 25?!?! Call me a loser,,, you would want to hang out with me and my friends and the girls that we hang with! HAH loser,,,,, just stay in room at your moms house and continue with your youtube subscribers! lmfao

[violatione]

@ray1corr Actually, judging by your glaring lack of prowess in the art of writing in the English language, I'd say you make far less than 80k. The only way you're making 80k is if you work on an oil rig. However if you did, you'd not have the time to respond to an anonymous youtube comment.

[ray1corr]

@Snakekilla12 was built in 2005 and my neighbores are firefighters, police officers and city officials! Want to come to a block party,, there GREAT! Broken family,,,, I guess you can say that. Their mother and I were married for 5 yrs but like most California marriages it ended in a divorce. So if you ever have kids not till 35! You will be one of those fathers my son and I laugh at being old and not being able to do anything physical with him! LAME! I grew up playing sports and continue too.

[Snakekilla12]

@ray1corr If I ever had kids, it would be at 35 minimum, and making $100,000 per year, per child, I would only have 2 max of course. Hey what kind of job do you have, and education?

[ray1corr]

@Snakekilla12 I would not and WILL not be one of those 40+ 50+ trying to coach or being involved with their sports at the age! Also, when my kids are graduating and going to college your about to have a middle schooler,,,,HELL NO!! Not for me buddy!My job and education, a hospital engineer! And you? Age?

[woodins2008]

@ray1corr

Yeah . . . . . but imagine what you could be doing that 80 grand a year if you didnt pop out those kids so early, or the career opportunities you could have focused on if you didnt have kids tying you down. I have turned 30, no ties, and only earn half of what you do, but the quality fo young hot girls and career opportunities I have is mind-boggling, even in these economically screwed times. The catty remarks from my married friends has already started . . . . . .

[boston312]

@ray1corr statistically speaking it costs half a million dollars to raise a child in a productive upbringing up to the age of 18 (this does not even include college tuition). If you have 2 children your $80,000 a year salary is just a drop of water in the ocean.

[saaaimen]

@ray1corr And look at you now, 30 and posting asinine comments on youtube like a LOSER.

[Y4J]

Wow what a joke this is.. I mean sure, I can understand that people 19 and 20 shouldn't be having kids, and chances are they didn't PLAN to and they just messed up and had them.

But he says if you're under 25 and you have one, then you're a loser? Way to judge a HUGE amount of people without knowing the situation.

He talks about not amounting to anything? I'm sorry but being a father and a loving husband is at the top of my list as being "Something."

[Y4J]

@Y4J And I know he means in the terms of being a success to provide for your family, and be a FINANCIAL success, but there are A LOT more perspectives to being a successful being.

This guy is a human troll. Talks about what's wrong with society, and yet probably hasn't done ONE thing to help others or do something about it.

The guy has been divorced 4 times. How can you take advice from someone who doesn't know what the hell he wants himself obviously.

[Snakekilla12]

@Y4J Dude, most people under 25 barely have enough cash to put food on their own plates, heck even most 25 year olds are still in school and maturing in life... you honestly think they're ready to care for another human being.. no of course not. In Tom's mind and my own as well, we want whats best for the child, high quality education, high quality housing, high quality healthcare, and both mother and father fully matured in life, and the mother/father having a solid relationship.

[emuholic]

@Snakekilla12 high quality education, high quality housing, high quality healthcare ALL depend on 'making it in life to a very high standard', and 'solid' relationships generally don't exist these days because the times have changed. I don't know if you've noticed but jobs aren't easy to get, even the crappy ones, regardless of you being highly educated or not. if anyone is able to meet those requirements you list in this shithole for a society, they're fucking lucky.

[Snakekilla12]

@emuholic hence the reason why having kids at 25 yrs old -or later- is best because it is more likely your more well off than if you're younger... And of course if you're a male your brain is more developed than if you were younger so you'd be making more rational decisions.

[emuholic]

@Snakekilla12 but income-wise most people aren't better off at 25 or older than they were at a younger age, and wisdom isn't determined by age, because lots of people evidently are stupid, ignorant and irrational no matter how old they get. hence my original point that those requirements you list would render the vast majority of people on the planet unfit to have kids leaving only the well off folk, and they would bring up kids to be just like them: vile toffee nosed bastards.

[Snakekilla12]

@emuholic I know most of the world would be considered unfit parents, because most of the world is in poverty, or you didn't notice that? I'm saying we'd have a much better world if people after the age of 25 is best to even consider thinking about having children. Heck later the better in my opinion! According to NSF, the male's brain has fully developed by the age of 25, physical developments.... not being ignorant or immature or whatever, the majority of male's brain is best at a later age.

[emuholic]

@Snakekilla12 the point being -- with it in mind that turning 25 doesn't make a lick of difference to most people's position in life -- that no being 25 or not, one or more of those other requirements you list (good education, etc) won't be met, leaving only the extremely fortunate people qualified to have children. Keep in mind that some of the most successful wealthy people in life come from a very poor background, which has given them the motivation to succeed.

[Snakekilla12]

@emuholic actually no, I could have kids at 35, which makes me much more likely to be more stable in life, have a stable relationship with a potential mother, financially stable to give high quality education, healthcare, housing, and other essentials. I would also be more stable to have a steadier schedule to give my family (wife & kids) the quality time they -& myself- need from them. That all sounds very realistic and very possible from everyone... BUT----

[Snakekilla12]

@emuholic ---- But, those who choose to not use any form of prevention to births, such as birth control on both parties, that's when shitz hit the fan. You don't plan to have children, the children is extremely likely to have a very low quality of life... does anyone care, nope, especially the idiot parents who choose to not have any prevention, and if they were ignorant on sex education I'd then blame their parents and their educators for not informing them properly (and in time) of sex ed.

[Snakekilla12]

@emuholic The likelihood of planning a very good family life, and I mean high quality living for all members of the family, is to plan for it... just like a business. If it's prepared way in advanced, and executed well, it can succeed as a "billion dollar" company would be. So, don't say it's unlikely or impossible, it is possible just most people on this planet and species could care less or are too ignorant of proper sex education.

[emuholic]

@Snakekilla12 you're missing the points and not addressing them and I'm starting to repeat myself. you can't plan out the reciept of an opportunity to make a good living. you're either lucky enough for the pieces to fall into place or you're not. most people aren't. bye!

[Snakekilla12]

@Y4J In todays society, clearly cares for themselves NOT for the children. Look how many gangs there is in urban areas. Look how many are dropping out. Clearly parents are too busy being in poverty and working 24/7 to even give the bare essentials to the children -food,cloths,housing, and in low quality. I'm tired of society treating children like crap. And not just that, men's brain isn't fully developed until they're 25 years old, according to the National Science Foundation.

[emuholic]

@Snakekilla12 to be fair kids are extremely selfish and they are cocky little shits too. can't walk down the street without having some cocky brat insult you these days.. so most of them deserve to be treated like crap

[DoggystyleHDTV]

I wish I had youtube downloader to put my favorite Tom Leykis speeches on CD!

[Snakekilla12]

@DoggystyleHDTV well u can at least do it with mp3s when you download the full mp3 that I link the users via links in my video description. And it's link to the full hour not just the 10:59 mins.

[licrag]

Leykis where were you when i was young, my life would have been different If I would have known your teachings

[ShadowCrashed81]

I graduated from high school in 09, about half of my friends already have kids. We're talking about 19-20 year olds.

[Bloodsport1]

@ShadowCrashed81 losers, their kids wont be anything in life but do what their parents did. Losers

[DatingVault]

right on Tom!! great video

[animeloverryan85]

Why don't you ever post the rest of the parts of each Leykis topic?

[Snakekilla12]

@animeloverryan85 it's unnecessary because I put up a link on the video and the video description to download or stream the full hour in stream... It would take a lot more work, editing, etc. to post all the parts of 1 hour online when all you need to do is click the link in the video description to stream or download the full hour. I understand it may be a hassle going off youtube, but it's more of a hassle loading up each part for the user... Try the one whole hour from the link I've provided.

[animeloverryan85]

@Snakekilla12 Ok, that's understandable, thank you

[Snakekilla12]

@animeloverryan85 You're welcome, I really hope you check out the links I've provided to listen to the full hour without any hassle for yourself and myself :-D