I want to thank you for making this video as another victim of rape who never reported the perpetrator, sought counsel or told anyone until much later due to the same feelings of guilt. I'm glad that Dan has now issued an apology which was much needed. Unfortunately, it does not make this very problematic phenomenon of victim blaming any less pervasive in our society.
thanks so much for this video. i was looking into making some sort of response into Dan's article, but not having any experience of being raped I felt it wouldn't be a very good idea. I still might but I really think it comes better from someone with the experience, horrific though it may be.
i just wanted to tell you how incredibly brave I see you, to tell your experience including your rape. thank you for this insight and take care :)
I don't know, but I think Dan chose an unfortunate way to express something completely separate from the questions surrounding rape. So if he is an old friend, perhaps contemplating what he might have been driving at by just eliminating the rape part would help you find a way into discussing this productively with him. The notion of our individual adult responsibility in the world is an important one to contemplate. He surely didn't mean this quite like it sounds, or not entirely...?
Dear D.R., lover and admirer of rapists (and opponent of freedom). Apparently your fantasy life scares you.Who are you to advocate misogynist "rules" that include having a gun?Can a person actually invite sexual assault?How many "offensive" women have you raped? What "provocative" wardrobes for men do you find alluring?Should these men have guns too?How does one decide that someone is a rapist before shooting them?Should the "victim" shoot to kill or just aim with the goal of epicenity?
Liz, glad your back, even though the topic is so dark. As a fellow EC-alleged-T survivor I know just how damaging this phony "treatment" actually is. As a man I feel dismayed at the amount of rape that just keeps going on and on. That you got ECT'd as the denouement of your rape experience is excruciating and tragic. The one plus in this mess is that you have "backed off" of the "ruined my life" meme.
Anyway I wish you all the best, having watched (and learned from) almost all your videos.
Sarah sounds like a very strange neighbor. There must be something else going on with her that she isn't letting on.
survivor030406 7 months ago
I want to thank you for making this video as another victim of rape who never reported the perpetrator, sought counsel or told anyone until much later due to the same feelings of guilt. I'm glad that Dan has now issued an apology which was much needed. Unfortunately, it does not make this very problematic phenomenon of victim blaming any less pervasive in our society.
melodydan22 8 months ago
hello,
thanks so much for this video. i was looking into making some sort of response into Dan's article, but not having any experience of being raped I felt it wouldn't be a very good idea. I still might but I really think it comes better from someone with the experience, horrific though it may be.
i just wanted to tell you how incredibly brave I see you, to tell your experience including your rape. thank you for this insight and take care :)
queenlucysroyalmaid1 8 months ago
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Agent 99,
Might a class in remedial reading and listening be in order?
thatmanley55 8 months ago
Agent 99,
Might a class in remedial reading and listening be in order?
thatmanley55 8 months ago
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Agent 99,
Might a class in remedial reading and listening be in order?
thatmanley55 8 months ago
Agent 99,
Might a class in remedial reading and listening be in order?
thatmanley55 8 months ago
Hugs if welcomed. Glad to see you back, hope you continue to post more often :) I appreciate you sharing your story and thoughts.. it means a lot.
SatansHam 8 months ago
I don't know, but I think Dan chose an unfortunate way to express something completely separate from the questions surrounding rape. So if he is an old friend, perhaps contemplating what he might have been driving at by just eliminating the rape part would help you find a way into discussing this productively with him. The notion of our individual adult responsibility in the world is an important one to contemplate. He surely didn't mean this quite like it sounds, or not entirely...?
Agent99 8 months ago
Dear D.R., lover and admirer of rapists (and opponent of freedom). Apparently your fantasy life scares you.Who are you to advocate misogynist "rules" that include having a gun?Can a person actually invite sexual assault?How many "offensive" women have you raped? What "provocative" wardrobes for men do you find alluring?Should these men have guns too?How does one decide that someone is a rapist before shooting them?Should the "victim" shoot to kill or just aim with the goal of epicenity?
thatmanley55 8 months ago
@thatmanley55 Aim to kill.
runhorun 8 months ago
liz your videos are always so great - even if they don't come along too often. thank you for making this one!
WeirdUniverse 8 months ago
Liz, glad your back, even though the topic is so dark. As a fellow EC-alleged-T survivor I know just how damaging this phony "treatment" actually is. As a man I feel dismayed at the amount of rape that just keeps going on and on. That you got ECT'd as the denouement of your rape experience is excruciating and tragic. The one plus in this mess is that you have "backed off" of the "ruined my life" meme.
Anyway I wish you all the best, having watched (and learned from) almost all your videos.
whiteoake 8 months ago