I'm going to have to disagree, I personally notice (I'm not a girl though, It may be different) that self hatred is a powerful motivator AS LONG as you have your desired outcome to balance that self hatred.
girls are brainwashed on the most superficial level, well boys are too but in different ways- most don't understand what men like, men want women to look like women, that is thick curvy and whatever- look at the shape of the most popular and famous porn star- gianna michaels, not the thinnest- the best comsumerist is the one who doesn't feel complete until they buy the most recent product to fill their own emptiness-
you recorded that at 3am? LOL, i look like ass at 3am heh, what's ya secret? :D
i happy with my body, now, still cant for life of me put weight on, v skinny, but healthy so don't think too much about it :)
like my body, unhappy with breasts, below average, but ya bring up super point of lil superficial things like that shouldnt define who u are & if someones only gonna like u for apperances, then they aren't time ^^
more insecure about my mind! im kinda retarded & laughed at for being dumb :'(
I think it is worth noting that not only girls go through it. I know they might suffer in a greater way, due to certain social constructions around gender and weight. Regardless of this though, many guys struggle with their body image. I am one of them. In my case i genuinely do need to lose weight. I have lost some, but have more to go. It was a real health risk in my situation - I was slowly killing myself.
I realise now though that for almost all my life I have reduced sense of worth to just my weight. It has stopped me from gaining long term employment, prevented me from ever seeking love and made me socially isolate myself from others. And for what? The fear of judgement I guess. It is only now that I have lost some weight and feel that I am on the right track that I truly see how much I had ignored the good things about myself as a person. I am not all bad, just overweight.
Unfortunately in life, people are always more attracted towards the ones who are good looking. So even if they're arrogant/bitchy, they'll still have plenty of friends.
I'm going to have to disagree, I personally notice (I'm not a girl though, It may be different) that self hatred is a powerful motivator AS LONG as you have your desired outcome to balance that self hatred.
fragman08 2 weeks ago
girls are brainwashed on the most superficial level, well boys are too but in different ways- most don't understand what men like, men want women to look like women, that is thick curvy and whatever- look at the shape of the most popular and famous porn star- gianna michaels, not the thinnest- the best comsumerist is the one who doesn't feel complete until they buy the most recent product to fill their own emptiness-
maynardyorke 5 months ago
good video.
abbynormal0ne 5 months ago
touch my body
salikali2 5 months ago
I hate silicon implants, Botox, collagen injections, fat injections to the lips and so on.
Lip augmentation WTF? seriously. No one needs Angelina Jolie lips.
GodlessManitoban 5 months ago
you recorded that at 3am? LOL, i look like ass at 3am heh, what's ya secret? :D
i happy with my body, now, still cant for life of me put weight on, v skinny, but healthy so don't think too much about it :)
like my body, unhappy with breasts, below average, but ya bring up super point of lil superficial things like that shouldnt define who u are & if someones only gonna like u for apperances, then they aren't time ^^
more insecure about my mind! im kinda retarded & laughed at for being dumb :'(
EmmyIiciouS 5 months ago
I think it is worth noting that not only girls go through it. I know they might suffer in a greater way, due to certain social constructions around gender and weight. Regardless of this though, many guys struggle with their body image. I am one of them. In my case i genuinely do need to lose weight. I have lost some, but have more to go. It was a real health risk in my situation - I was slowly killing myself.
Oct195 5 months ago
I realise now though that for almost all my life I have reduced sense of worth to just my weight. It has stopped me from gaining long term employment, prevented me from ever seeking love and made me socially isolate myself from others. And for what? The fear of judgement I guess. It is only now that I have lost some weight and feel that I am on the right track that I truly see how much I had ignored the good things about myself as a person. I am not all bad, just overweight.
Oct195 5 months ago
Unfortunately in life, people are always more attracted towards the ones who are good looking. So even if they're arrogant/bitchy, they'll still have plenty of friends.
Palidor 5 months ago