You can always try "Pagan Dating", which is an international dating website that is exclusively for pagans. Quite new, but growing fast. Just do a google search for pagan dating, it's the first non-paid result.
@stars11234 Yes and no. I believe it exists, but I also believe that about 80% of the people claiming to be bisexual are not, in fact, bisexual. So to kind of protect myself after being burned several times, I don't date bisexual girls unless I've known them for a while and can be fairly certain they aren't experimenting or trying to be trendy.
Well, I don't think it's a good thing to let people 'know up front'. It's much easier to tell about your Pagan beliefs to someone meaningful than it is to a stranger. I also don't think that people from another religion are N/A for your dating life, depending on whether they will accept you and your believes or not. And you don't look horrible :)
I'm very shy and quiet so I tend to opt for the online dating too as I can spill the most important parts of myself so they can make their mind up about my path etc.. Honesty is best..For me its harder to date a non Wiccan/Pagan.. I am Wiccan and the last date I went on was at the begining of '08'.. He was christian.. He didnt have the same spiritual interests as me so I didnt feel right talking about my Wicca and its apart of me.. I rather date someone who is Wiccan/Pagan or close to it.
@MissLoveAndLight So Wicca being apart of the person I am,its ME it doesn't feel right not being able to share an important part of my being.. I need to be able to talk about my journey and whatnot in that area and perhaps share the special spiritual things.. Like I said,I am honest from the get go..The only problem sometimes about being honest so early is people judge you on that and wont take the time to learn about your other great qualities.. :)
And that's not because he was Mormon, but because he was completely close-minded about my religion, even though he also knew right from the start that I'm Pagan.
First of all, I just started watching your videos tonight and, I have to say, they are wonderful. :) Extremely informative for newbs like me. haha But more to the point of my comment, from my own experience it really depends on the person how easy/hard an interfaith relationship is. I am also Pagan, and my husband is Agnostic, and we obviously get along great. He knew right from the start that I'm Pagan and he's fine with it. However, I did once date a Mormon guy, and that was the worst.
I am pagan (Wiccan specifically) and I have as of late really stopped looking for people to date. Mostly because it is hard to find someone who I can agree with and on top of that it is extremely hard to find other young women who are into paganism who I would like to date. This video has really given me hope, knowing there are people out there who deal with the same kinds of difficulties as I. Thank you!
Well...right now I am really close to a Jewish guy near my age... We have been friends for a few months and he knew I was pagan to begin with when we first started talking. His grandmother respected me a lot as far as religious views and thinks I am here to look after him... we don't have much of an issue with religious differences or anything at all since we were always there for each other before when we needed somebody to talk to.
My wife is catholic, she knew I was Wiccan when we were dating. We have a nice relationship. We go together to the pagan festivals and people in my circle of pagans love her. Also, I go with her to church. I don't participate but I sit quietly next to her. I think its a little bit radical to date just pagans. I always preferred open minded people.
I think you're very brave discussing your sexuality in this way. My partner is also pagan, I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't, so I understand totally where you're coming from. I think anyone would be lucky to have you as a partner, you are obviously very caring and sincere. I wish you luck in finding a job and the goddess will find you someone when the time is right, just like she did with me. Blesed be.
My partner and father of my child is also pagan. It's great. He understands where I'm coming from spiritualy in a way that a nonpagan probably wouldn't understand. And there were no ackward conversations about with religion to raise our child in. Knowing what I know now. If I was single I don't think I'd want to date someone who isn't pagan. Not that I think it's wrong. It's just that paganism is such a major part of me I couldn't imagine not being able to share that with a lover.
You know what you want and that is the most important thing. Time will do its work, and you seem to be a patient person, which is a great quality I wish I had :0) Your future partner will find greatness in your wisdom. Let us hope it won't take too long, because everyone deserves to be happy, and share that happiness with someone they care about. I admire you for wanting to live your relationship in all honesty and openness. I hope you will be able to share this with your parents soon. BB*
The boyfriend I have now, we've been together for a little over 8 months, turned out to be Pagan (: I had never really talked to him about it, and when I got curious and decided to ask him about it I was nicely surprised to find out that he believed the same thing I do (:
No bi girls?? Aww. Most Pagan chicks are bi. No offense, but it seems you're limiting yourself. Keep trying to network in the Pagan community. Meet as many people as you can. As for me, I was lucky. I found my future husband on YT.
this video points out the main reason why i hardly...if ever date anyone. btw, I am totally feelin' ya on the whole bisexual thing. I absolutely refuse to date bisexual men. my ex-fiancee was bi and it really ruined my perspective on dating (3 years wasted =/ )
I found the online option for meetings folks worked well for the reasons you shared. I preferred to put it all out there and know I didn't have to pull the "pagan surprise" on a potential partner later. I wanted it known up front. Whether I made pagan or pagan-friendly contacts was fine by me. It is hard enough to make relationships in this world work, no less if we can't be totally honest. You are so beautiful! I can't wrap my brain around your not knowing that :) ~Anni~
Oh, it's not that I don't find myself to be pretty. I just can realistically see how others might view me online when you add up everything I'm honest about in my profile, and it does make me appear to not be a great catch.
My girlfriend is pagen... While my religion is more "eclectic". I take different ideas from different religions, and take what works for me. Though you could say I'm an open minded christian.
I just don't take my religion too seriously. Because I'm a science nerd! lol Anyway, we met in high school, and have been dating only a few years now. I knew her religion going in, and it's not a problem for either of us!
You can always try "Pagan Dating", which is an international dating website that is exclusively for pagans. Quite new, but growing fast. Just do a google search for pagan dating, it's the first non-paid result.
SeachainAroon 1 month ago
How long have you been a pagan and what made you become one?
irisharmogirl 2 months ago
@irisharmogirl I actually discuss that in my video called "Coming Home to Religion and a Little HP".
fleurdelacour5787 2 months ago
@stars11234 Yes and no. I believe it exists, but I also believe that about 80% of the people claiming to be bisexual are not, in fact, bisexual. So to kind of protect myself after being burned several times, I don't date bisexual girls unless I've known them for a while and can be fairly certain they aren't experimenting or trying to be trendy.
fleurdelacour5787 2 months ago
Well, I don't think it's a good thing to let people 'know up front'. It's much easier to tell about your Pagan beliefs to someone meaningful than it is to a stranger. I also don't think that people from another religion are N/A for your dating life, depending on whether they will accept you and your believes or not. And you don't look horrible :)
Romulaan 5 months ago
I'm very shy and quiet so I tend to opt for the online dating too as I can spill the most important parts of myself so they can make their mind up about my path etc.. Honesty is best..For me its harder to date a non Wiccan/Pagan.. I am Wiccan and the last date I went on was at the begining of '08'.. He was christian.. He didnt have the same spiritual interests as me so I didnt feel right talking about my Wicca and its apart of me.. I rather date someone who is Wiccan/Pagan or close to it.
MissLoveAndLight 6 months ago
@MissLoveAndLight So Wicca being apart of the person I am,its ME it doesn't feel right not being able to share an important part of my being.. I need to be able to talk about my journey and whatnot in that area and perhaps share the special spiritual things.. Like I said,I am honest from the get go..The only problem sometimes about being honest so early is people judge you on that and wont take the time to learn about your other great qualities.. :)
MissLoveAndLight 6 months ago
And that's not because he was Mormon, but because he was completely close-minded about my religion, even though he also knew right from the start that I'm Pagan.
tuesdaysmoonchild 6 months ago
First of all, I just started watching your videos tonight and, I have to say, they are wonderful. :) Extremely informative for newbs like me. haha But more to the point of my comment, from my own experience it really depends on the person how easy/hard an interfaith relationship is. I am also Pagan, and my husband is Agnostic, and we obviously get along great. He knew right from the start that I'm Pagan and he's fine with it. However, I did once date a Mormon guy, and that was the worst.
tuesdaysmoonchild 6 months ago
I am pagan (Wiccan specifically) and I have as of late really stopped looking for people to date. Mostly because it is hard to find someone who I can agree with and on top of that it is extremely hard to find other young women who are into paganism who I would like to date. This video has really given me hope, knowing there are people out there who deal with the same kinds of difficulties as I. Thank you!
RadarGreedbagLoquere 7 months ago
Well...right now I am really close to a Jewish guy near my age... We have been friends for a few months and he knew I was pagan to begin with when we first started talking. His grandmother respected me a lot as far as religious views and thinks I am here to look after him... we don't have much of an issue with religious differences or anything at all since we were always there for each other before when we needed somebody to talk to.
CynTwin3 7 months ago
Oh my god I did not know you were gay hit me up do not worry I do not like men either
NicholeVinwix 8 months ago
Where is your hair
habbopassload 9 months ago
@habbopassload On my head...It's pulled back in a ponytail but clearly there.
fleurdelacour5787 9 months ago 3
@fleurdelacour5787 Oh right sorry, didnt notice it on my iPod screen :(
habbopassload 9 months ago
My wife is catholic, she knew I was Wiccan when we were dating. We have a nice relationship. We go together to the pagan festivals and people in my circle of pagans love her. Also, I go with her to church. I don't participate but I sit quietly next to her. I think its a little bit radical to date just pagans. I always preferred open minded people.
gaiusartemini 9 months ago 2
I think you're very brave discussing your sexuality in this way. My partner is also pagan, I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't, so I understand totally where you're coming from. I think anyone would be lucky to have you as a partner, you are obviously very caring and sincere. I wish you luck in finding a job and the goddess will find you someone when the time is right, just like she did with me. Blesed be.
Dawningram169 10 months ago
My partner and father of my child is also pagan. It's great. He understands where I'm coming from spiritualy in a way that a nonpagan probably wouldn't understand. And there were no ackward conversations about with religion to raise our child in. Knowing what I know now. If I was single I don't think I'd want to date someone who isn't pagan. Not that I think it's wrong. It's just that paganism is such a major part of me I couldn't imagine not being able to share that with a lover.
ultramutt 10 months ago
You know what you want and that is the most important thing. Time will do its work, and you seem to be a patient person, which is a great quality I wish I had :0) Your future partner will find greatness in your wisdom. Let us hope it won't take too long, because everyone deserves to be happy, and share that happiness with someone they care about. I admire you for wanting to live your relationship in all honesty and openness. I hope you will be able to share this with your parents soon. BB*
NamiKunita 10 months ago
The boyfriend I have now, we've been together for a little over 8 months, turned out to be Pagan (: I had never really talked to him about it, and when I got curious and decided to ask him about it I was nicely surprised to find out that he believed the same thing I do (:
kampferac23 10 months ago
No bi girls?? Aww. Most Pagan chicks are bi. No offense, but it seems you're limiting yourself. Keep trying to network in the Pagan community. Meet as many people as you can. As for me, I was lucky. I found my future husband on YT.
BlueFireWitch 10 months ago
@BlueFireWitch I've notice this too. As I like to say, "Bisexuality and Paganism go together like cake and ice cream."
ultramutt 10 months ago
Your beautiful in your way, cause God/Goddess makes no mistakes. Your on the right track baby you were born this way!!!!
Born This Way- Lady Gaga
It helped me so much!!!! (not the music video haha)
Now I want it to help you.
Just look at how many people love you! all your subscribers :)
MerryMinty 10 months ago
this video points out the main reason why i hardly...if ever date anyone. btw, I am totally feelin' ya on the whole bisexual thing. I absolutely refuse to date bisexual men. my ex-fiancee was bi and it really ruined my perspective on dating (3 years wasted =/ )
hynafolbeara 10 months ago
I found the online option for meetings folks worked well for the reasons you shared. I preferred to put it all out there and know I didn't have to pull the "pagan surprise" on a potential partner later. I wanted it known up front. Whether I made pagan or pagan-friendly contacts was fine by me. It is hard enough to make relationships in this world work, no less if we can't be totally honest. You are so beautiful! I can't wrap my brain around your not knowing that :) ~Anni~
MIRTHandREVERENCE 10 months ago
@MIRTHandREVERENCE That's for sure!
Oh, it's not that I don't find myself to be pretty. I just can realistically see how others might view me online when you add up everything I'm honest about in my profile, and it does make me appear to not be a great catch.
fleurdelacour5787 10 months ago
My girlfriend is pagen... While my religion is more "eclectic". I take different ideas from different religions, and take what works for me. Though you could say I'm an open minded christian.
I just don't take my religion too seriously. Because I'm a science nerd! lol Anyway, we met in high school, and have been dating only a few years now. I knew her religion going in, and it's not a problem for either of us!
I'm happy to say we're doing quite well! ^_^
=^.^= *meow*
~Lizz
LingMistressLizz 10 months ago
@LingMistressLizz Pagan* lol
LingMistressLizz 10 months ago
My partner died over a year ago. I am considering dating soon. I just have not been ready to date. I don't know for sure if I am ready, now.
I am not even sure if I am pagan .But, I am pretty sure that is the path that I am going to take.
My name sounds like I am male. I am actually a lesbian. I just came out. lol :)
TomFuckery 10 months ago
@TomFuckery I'm sorry to hear about your partner, but congrats on coming out!
fleurdelacour5787 10 months ago