thx im a tad autistic and i think this will help a ton. i have no problems with a conversation over texting or facebook n shit but in life its pretty hard which is gay cuz its somethin i really want is better friends and not people i dont no
Connor, you officially rock :) My problem though is I'm going to be forced to "hang out" soon with some kids I've known forever--but they're loud, whereas I'm more quiet. I just don't want to be ditched by not "fitting in". Help, anyone?
i like the way this guy thinks, everything can be seen from 2 perspectives, excellent.. his teeth are very bright tho, they dont look like teeth at all.. he should never smile at a non-american
@firman1300 I have this same problem. I guess women really dont notice the awkward things you do that you think are awkward. Unless you do something blaintly awkward
you are so dreamy. thank you so much for these incredibly helpful tips. maybe they will give me the confidence to talk to you in person... i live right around the corner from you but we've never met. Its probably because I am not at very good at making eye contact. but now i am. and i only have you to thank for it. you are amazing. and gin and tonic is my favorite drink too. maybe sometime, in brown on april 26 we could drink together. i will love you always and forever...like in a tswift song.
I'm so socially retarded that I concentrate so much on eye contact, that I get so nervous and don't hear ANYTHING the other person is saying...on another note, holy shit your teeth are white!
the only problem with this is that I generally don't think about everything that's going on. Most events to me is a boring fact, I don't gossip about people's personal lives either. So I don't have much of any gossip that be interesting to me so I wouldn't be interested in telling it. I generally am only interested in a few topics enough to talk about them. Things like, "The thing that happened at school" or "What the teacher said" etc aren't very interested and I generally ignore them.
Should these social behaviors be so intricately structured and planned out? Really?
I'm pretty sure I have some case of SAD, and unfortunately, all that I can say, in terms of a social and positive personality, is that you either have it or you don't.
Even if you change your personality or your behavior or body language or whatever, you're always gonna think in the back of your head: "Cool, but I was never originally like this. I feel kinda phony because I'm not the person I really am."
You not supposed to change the way you are. You supposed to change your conversation skills, learn to talk with more confidence and in an interesting, engaging manner. Your identity shouldn't change if you change you conversation skills. You can still be yourself, the gamer, the idealist, the athletic dude, whatever, the only change is that you can express yourself better.
Thanks, dude! One good way I've heard of keeping good conversation is knowing what is going on in Hollywood and whatnot. When you know about what's going on, you can add it into jokes that are actually FUNNY.
For ex.
me: I remember, about a year ago I went to my brother's basic training graduation, and there were actually guys there that began their smoking habits right as they got out.
her: really?
me: yeah. them getting back into smoking is going to help them in the army like how (continued)
Hi Connor! I really like what you say,It is all true,they are good tips!.I´m learning english and I think you speak very well,It is easy to understand you XD.I hope you post me ok?
thx im a tad autistic and i think this will help a ton. i have no problems with a conversation over texting or facebook n shit but in life its pretty hard which is gay cuz its somethin i really want is better friends and not people i dont no
gartios11 6 days ago
I seem to be more relaxed when everyone's naked. But taking a deep breath helps to.
commandm3nts 2 weeks ago
I feel pathetic for having watched this:)
But good vid
That0neguy0 2 months ago
tap that boy from the back !!
Welcome2SweetLife 8 months ago
damm u hellla sexy ;) id tap that fron the back !!
SaBrInAzEsAtI 10 months ago
thanks. great vid
ilikedrumming 11 months ago
make sure you keep looking at the boobs! helps you hold a conversation...
Baldoxxx4000 1 year ago 7
i hate when people talk fast dat shit drives me crazy LOL
Trekeisha96 1 year ago
think fast and talk slow. perfect tip. keep balance when u talk not too fast and not too slow. thanks for posting this man i needed that
Trekeisha96 1 year ago
smell your breath and count your black heads
ShottaSparX 1 year ago
holy shit, you look and sound like Jeffrey Donovan from burn notice.
good advice though especially the note taking.
TheEviIOyo 1 year ago
You don't want to be right up in someone's face, so they can smell your breath and count your blackheads. haha nice one
cXkInGoD 1 year ago
thankyou so much!, this really helped me out!
millybox24 1 year ago
i need help with socializig and this is a good start video
elamorro 1 year ago
Connor, you officially rock :) My problem though is I'm going to be forced to "hang out" soon with some kids I've known forever--but they're loud, whereas I'm more quiet. I just don't want to be ditched by not "fitting in". Help, anyone?
Adnama109 1 year ago
Thanks for an excellent Video
panandp2001 1 year ago
我的問題係講得太快呀...
blacktc1995 1 year ago
My mother thought me all of those, except for the personal space one. I really struggle with that; I'm always too far.
jacf1020 2 years ago
i like the way this guy thinks, everything can be seen from 2 perspectives, excellent.. his teeth are very bright tho, they dont look like teeth at all.. he should never smile at a non-american
bakayurei 2 years ago
please, you only need to be pretty or have a big buldge on your pants :). simple!!!
Baldoxxx4000 2 years ago
my problem is im always shy to talk to people that i like
firman1300 2 years ago 24
@firman1300 ur not the only one man. I have the same problem
051290ma 1 year ago
@firman1300 hell yea
ceaser8999 7 months ago
@firman1300 I have this same problem. I guess women really dont notice the awkward things you do that you think are awkward. Unless you do something blaintly awkward
xAxiom 4 months ago
you are so dreamy. thank you so much for these incredibly helpful tips. maybe they will give me the confidence to talk to you in person... i live right around the corner from you but we've never met. Its probably because I am not at very good at making eye contact. but now i am. and i only have you to thank for it. you are amazing. and gin and tonic is my favorite drink too. maybe sometime, in brown on april 26 we could drink together. i will love you always and forever...like in a tswift song.
chesterlandlovescdy 2 years ago 3
VERY GOOD!!! But, what about people who are very shy, what can they do??? X
seaofclay 2 years ago 3
I'm so socially retarded that I concentrate so much on eye contact, that I get so nervous and don't hear ANYTHING the other person is saying...on another note, holy shit your teeth are white!
snipermonkey86 2 years ago 3
the only problem with this is that I generally don't think about everything that's going on. Most events to me is a boring fact, I don't gossip about people's personal lives either. So I don't have much of any gossip that be interesting to me so I wouldn't be interested in telling it. I generally am only interested in a few topics enough to talk about them. Things like, "The thing that happened at school" or "What the teacher said" etc aren't very interested and I generally ignore them.
VagabonNinja 2 years ago
I not good in a conversation cos when im talking i then will stop thinking of other things when through my mind ...
nice video anyway ^_^
keithckh123 2 years ago
thnkx for sharing ur golden tips that u borrow from other or nature?
gsmmunir 2 years ago
Good tips. Any chance on releasing a video about getting rid of awkwardness lol?
OMGedInStoresNearYou 2 years ago 17
i always seem to look around when i talk to people and sometimes i feel that i cut people off when i talk.
frickin social anxiety!!!
Minan3 2 years ago 6
Good stuff...Cheers
slvrbaq 2 years ago 2
nice video man
xXEsKerXx 2 years ago 3
Great tips.. Thanks man..
FabianoRonaldo777 2 years ago 2
Thank you !!
akatsuuriki 3 years ago 2
these are nice tips
thanks for them
roarwali 3 years ago 2
Thank you. Please make more! *think fast, talk slow*
jgizzy 3 years ago 2
this is good. thanks for the tips
Doderhultarn89 3 years ago 2
Thank you.
This helps alot.
joe1soca 3 years ago
tnks
nishebut 3 years ago
This is great. Thank you. Godbless : )
AudWag7 3 years ago
thinks a lot you saved my life i have a hard time talking to girls becuse i dont know what to say and i sound stuped what i ask the rong tip of ?
batmanandzero 3 years ago
Should these social behaviors be so intricately structured and planned out? Really?
I'm pretty sure I have some case of SAD, and unfortunately, all that I can say, in terms of a social and positive personality, is that you either have it or you don't.
Even if you change your personality or your behavior or body language or whatever, you're always gonna think in the back of your head: "Cool, but I was never originally like this. I feel kinda phony because I'm not the person I really am."
shrubhuntertran13578 3 years ago
You not supposed to change the way you are. You supposed to change your conversation skills, learn to talk with more confidence and in an interesting, engaging manner. Your identity shouldn't change if you change you conversation skills. You can still be yourself, the gamer, the idealist, the athletic dude, whatever, the only change is that you can express yourself better.
jajabinks92 3 years ago 2
brief but nice
rajnijadhav 3 years ago
Tanx alot man ..
abdikdr 3 years ago
Thanks, dude! One good way I've heard of keeping good conversation is knowing what is going on in Hollywood and whatnot. When you know about what's going on, you can add it into jokes that are actually FUNNY.
For ex.
me: I remember, about a year ago I went to my brother's basic training graduation, and there were actually guys there that began their smoking habits right as they got out.
her: really?
me: yeah. them getting back into smoking is going to help them in the army like how (continued)
CamoranSWG 3 years ago
Brittany Spears getting rights to her kids will help her get off drugs.
CamoranSWG 3 years ago
thx man it was nice listening to you,,,i think im gna need some help from u,,can you please mail me
ricadony 3 years ago
this guy is gorgeous and intelligent
dfjndsk2008 3 years ago
hey back off. cdy is taken.
chesterlandlovescdy 2 years ago
Hi Connor! I really like what you say,It is all true,they are good tips!.I´m learning english and I think you speak very well,It is easy to understand you XD.I hope you post me ok?
bye
thankss
natypaisita75 3 years ago
thanks
woodnplank 3 years ago
nice and thanks
7770robi 3 years ago
you're quite the hero..
jomomo 3 years ago
thx man, this really helps
ryder4lifeg 4 years ago