Dating: Understanding Men : What Do Guys Want in a Relationship?

[lawshorizon]

Ya ..... Things need to be concrete. If a girl makes a guy feel jealous or left out then the cracks in the concrete begin to crumble.

[92FanMail]

one word

S-E-X

[TheFeistyWoman]

Is that Cook's on the outset? 

[DatNatiBitch]

@chabi3000 no sweetheart thats an opinion, of course guys want sex in a relationship but thats not the only thing some want. just because thats all YOU may want doesnt make it the truth nor a fact

[Criticalperspective2]

Men are testosterone-fuelled creatures in seek of sexual fulfilment. They want sex, and they want it good.

[Trancemaster2052]

Boomer girls?

[mollyannaevans]

Does this guy like me or not? I like this guy; he serves me in the cafe where he works. but today he saw me he walked away & kept looking at me. When I went up to the counter he had noticed that I was with my father sitting down and he gave me the soup for my dad which my dad pre order before I got there which I didn’t know my dad had order it. When I was ordering he stared at me and didn’t look away. My .dad asks him for a one stamp for my coffee, he give me three stamps and winked at my dad.

[kjbun]

sorry, it is wrong. Been married 31 years and it seems that he wants trust but most of all he wants sex.

[Heyemeyohsts]

This guy know how to live... look at the drink, the robe, the candles. He is right up there with the "dos equis" guy for the "most interesting man in the world"

[X7OO]

As a man, I want a gentle feminine woman, I don't want an equal. I want to share my life with a wife, not another sister

The problem with women is the advice they take from other women. STOP taking advice on men from other women, stop taking relationship advice from magazines. You're great the way you are. He fell in love with, and married you, not the "perfect woman"

[actressin2008]

so true on that one!! since u can't trust no one anymore.

[perera419]

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[arev1977]

Trust? Well, yeah.....it is important. But what about men themselves? You can be the most trustworthy woman in the world but what is also true about a lot of men is that they are as loyal as their options. Men cheat much more often then women.

[bschmall95]

this guy is creepy

[redcowDKJ]

Trust is so crucial not only between a woman and her man but indeed in most other relationships we have. Like between parents and children, between siblings, between friends. The only way trust can be built is by being truthful I believe. But it's sad to see how fake people can be and how intelligently they manipulate stories.

[iamajimmy]

noone trusts anyone.

[heromaster13]

What did the "In God We Trust" story have to do with the relationship question? =P

[Mystefier]

I agree that trust is very important, but why does he say if a girl flirts she will loose trust? I don't stop trusting a girl because she flirted with me.

[juneride]

He meant if she flirts with OTHER guys, then she'll lose trust of her boyfriend. As a man, I agree on this 100%

[paralyzer1111]

As a woman, I find it hard to start trusting any man in today's generation...which is very sad

[juneride]

As a man, I don't trust women either. By the age of 35 an average woman has had 30 sex partners. Among them, maybe, 5 are committed relationships, and other 25 are one night stands, drunken hook ups and affairs.

That's why there is no trust. Men also don't want to court women or give them flowers.

[paralyzer1111]

I agree that most women would be like that. But I'm not that kind of a woman, I don't do hook ups etc, and consider myself a good girlfriend material. Yet, the very few men in my life I've dated never really wanted me. Maybe trust is not the only issue, but also decency. Hard to find a good man who will not dumb a woman after she waited to be intimate with him, then dumps her after he got what he wanted. Is it really that hard to find a man that sticks around? I'd like your opinion please.

[juneride]

You're not going to like my advice.

If you want a guy who would keep you, you have to settle for a guy a league below you; a nerd, perhaps. All the guys in your league and above would want their milk for free.

I was married and had relationships with great women who had settled for me.

[paralyzer1111]

I see your point. I will choose wisely in the future about the men I want to date, and I will probably give the nerds a chance too; they might turn out to be good.

Thank you for your advice. :)

[JBthree24]

@Mystefier If she flirts with another man

[MARValous999]

soo true. If you cant trust them you will never let your gaurd down fully. There isnt much trust in my relationship, which is bad. it confuses things that shudnt be confused etc... : |

[standingpretty]

So he does like me! this is good, very good.

[2145768029]

oooh lost it how do you get it back?

[MissVelaC]

haha,,I likehow he does it with a glass of wine lol :) i do agree with the essence of his point though..trust is extreamly important,and so true in terms of if they do a lot of flirting in other directions..we can say its ok.but deep down we loose trust and that can break down love and prevent a good sex.And they can hide it but onsome level we just know.

[auroraeborealis]

I know!!! :D I'm screwed...

[elmoi213]

u see its not all about the SEX!

[Complicated007]

Amen to that!