He Broke My Heart, So Why Is He Contacting Me?

[emmakinzy1991]

or maybe he's just stupid and hasn't gotten his stuff together so u should just know he's not worth ur time just sayin. a dog can get kicked in the face and then come crawling back waggin his tale ur not a dog so don't put up with it.

[mramazingracist100]

booty call

[eppingmelb]

Your hair is in your eyes, you should cut it.

[AirForceGirl05]

Don't trust him. He's probably been sleeping with other people (girls, guys, you don't know.)

Honestly, you're better off moving on and finding a real man who doesn't play games (rare, but they do exist.)

[dezilllemocha]

nice advice!!! thank you :)

[Filipina84]

Reading the book of Steve Harvey "Act like a Lady, Think like a Man". It helped A LOT and I mean a whole lot to understanding men. I'm 25 so pretty much it saves and saved me time going through guys clueless. I feel like I already know what's going to happen with guys before it actually happens.

So I strongly suggest this book for other girls instead of swapping untrue "facts" with each other.

[loveub88]

the night he wrote the email his dick was on hard. plain and simple.

he has no one else to fuck. and if the girl is a pushover which she most likely is, he will get her. guys are assholes. learn the game ladies!

[YaoiNinjaLover]

If I a guy broke up with me than came back saying he wanted to marry me and move in with me, I'd be freaked out. I don't know if that's just me. I only think the first example of wanting what he can't have was right. The other one...eh I don't suggest it but that's my own opinion. And I agree with AneesaColeman101 and ChristopherMast.

[basf12456]

Yet another pop psychologist.  Surprise, surprise, the link to this ladies website is replete with adds to buy her book. This advice can be found on the inside of a fortune cookie.

[AneesaColeman101]

is it just me.... or does this lady wear the same 2 outfits in every other video?

lol....

this was good advice. :)

[Filipina84]

@AneesaColeman101

Maybe she just did all these video in 1 or 2 days all together explaining the outfit. That could be possible.

[ChristopherMast]

Speaking as a man, he's most likely going back to tap the ex... especially if she's a pushover. O'course you didn't mention this 'cause you don't know what you're talking about much of the time, which ironically makes you more entertaining.

[roninsoul]

or just ask e talk instead of thinking what if

[MommiesGirl22]

it could be a bunch of different reasons. it depends on the relationship and the person anyone could of answered this question. She needs to answer is does he deserve to have contact with her? Is he someone she wants to let back in even as a friend

[InstantInsanity]

this woman irritates me. right about the first possibility. wants something he can't have. let me tell you something, i dated this one guy for 2weeks, he dumped me. 3 days later, 3 days of me crying so much then finally moving on, he calls me 2 say he wants 2 get back 2gether.i listened 2 how i felt & what my friends suggested. they said he doesnt deserve me if he made me cry so much. i realized, they were right. now, im dating a new guy for 4 months & the other guy? turns out to be a real jerk.

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

Do u ever ask yourself... "other than this guy dumping me.... Why am i sooo upset about it?" He didn't hurt you, you hurt yourself, it's your brain not his! ...You put so much faith in some guy who inevitably was going to break up with you anyway.... Learn to control your emotions and stop letting other people manipulate them... jesus! = /

[FierceRodents]

There IS also the type of guy that breaks up whenever he doesn't like something. Or he could be lonely. Or he didn't want you out of his life completely, but some people can never get over a breakup, so getting back together seems like the only way of keeping you in his life(some people really do this). Or he just doesn't know what he wants.There are more than two types of guys.

[alvi18118]

what do you do with the guy who doesn't know what he wants.. lol sounds like a no brainer... what would u say??

[FierceRodents]

Leave him. Why should women always worry about how to make a guy doing what they want? If you are not happy, why try to be? And asking him what's going on is also an option. Sometimes people actually answer, and it's better than playing stupid games with people.

[mikejoproductions]

i just watch these videos for that woman's hair.

[piinkKNICKERS]

Her eyelids are pretty fantastic too.

[kyeruu2]

Right, so it's time to shine some light on the feminists down here.

It's real simple ladies.

Some guys, "broke your heart" cause you couldn't handle the break up.

Reasons aside.

a break up is not the end of a relationship.

There is such a thing as calling back your "ex" because that person is still your friend.

anyone who asks this question, obviously is dating, for different reasons.

[HartsChaotica]

That's dumb, he obviously just wants sex.

[NubNizzle]

what happens if the person has herpes?

[Crayolalola]

It could also be possible for the guy seeing you as the type that he could take advantage of, no?

[pilarlosada85]

mm, i didn't know all men were the same!! lol

[flowingover]

this has happen to me he said he loved me, he wanted to marry me, have kids then i moved far away, then he broke up with me cus he had to focus on work and his daughter, but he still wants to talk to me all the time. he is still single and hasnt dated anyone. in the beginning i was thinking maybe i should just wait but now i have finally moved on with my life. and realized that if i was with a guy he'd be able to be with me, work and focus on his daughter at the same time if he truly loved me

[EuroInvicta]

Or third, he was working on some other chick on the side and she refused him so now he's crawling back to #1 for the sex. Sorry, but, I've seen it happen more than once.

[alvi18118]

YEP. very true

[amyfan59]

I also think he was working on some girl too, she refused him, and came back to the #1 girl

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

Or maybe he broke up with her because there's a part of her that he can't stand but there is another part about her that he really dose like. So he figures it might be worth just taken the bad that comes with the good and try live with it.... All guys have there endurance limits. I've always tried to compromise with women but it's difficult sometimes.

[eppingmelb]

@EuroInvicta So what do you do? Refuse him sex for a month, if he stays around, then he loves you.

[puffdragons]

@EuroInvicta Yes that is true!! =...(

[alvi18118]

MEN never truly know what they want...when they are young. now if he is older then that's bad. u don't need a unstable guy in ur life...who saids he is lost.... i had a guy told me the same thing..i don't know what i want, but kept telling me he likes me, well then prove it to me, actions speaks LOUDER THEN WORDS!

[geekybutpretty101]

He Broke My Heart, So Why Is He Contacting Me?

>>For a booty call. DUH.

[alvi18118]

LMAO. or he's lonely and bored

[ncfwhitetigress]

pretty much what i was thinking