@MintyFresh1999 AS you grow and learn more about yourself, becoming more self-confident, you will feel strong enough in yourself to confront these hard issues. When you are ready, you will tell your parents. You get to decide when that is.
I don't know what to do still.... If my mom and dad new I was bi they'd kill me on site...for some reason my parents are so aginst gays and lesbians... Should I tell them I have a girlfriend???...or keep it a secret till I move out? (I'm a girl)
The world is always gonna be an ignorant place....there will always be haters. But we will get our rights even if it takes another 20 years......Then in about 50 years there will be the same thing going on with robots, robots fighting for there rights. Then in 1000 years aliens fighting for alien rights and so on.....
i'm bisexual and i have been since i was about 12. i'm scared to tell my parents because i don't know what they will say. my dad is completely against it. he said that it is gross and it's a sin... i don't know what to do..
...thought, but i do. Maybe years down the road when my kids are grown up and my parents are really old i'll be able to come out... but until then i'm just going to have to pretend.
Great video Dan and Jenn. I'm gay, but ive never told anyone. I don't think i'll ever be able to tell my parents, they are so traditional and judgemental. I come from a family of 4 girls and i'm the only boy, so i'm the only chance to pass on the family name to my kids, so i have to get married and have children. Everyday i have to pretend to be straight and date girls, it feels so unnatural for me when we have sex, i have to concentrate on other things. I wish i didn't care what my parents thou
its the hardest thing ive ever had to do, i would be physically sick at the thought of telling my parents, it was hard enough with friends, with with my parents it was torture. the thing people dont realise is that gay people cant help feeling atracted to the same sex just like straight people just arent attracted to the same sex. i know if i had a choice, which i deffinatley do not, i would never put myself through this torture of being gay. its not a damn choice.
@kylescottburnham , i 100% agreee with u. i told y family except my dad, cuz when i tell him he willl not talk to me for at least 5 months. dads and moms will be the hardest. :D just stay strong and tell him when u feel its the rright time
my parents are the uber religious types:( they say i'm going to hell...so i'm hoping someday they'll let me live my life..cuz im getting sick of christian counseling and stuff
lol so who likes bleach is gay so come to germany meet us and u get an ak shot in your face fucking gay noobs when u die god send u straight to hell muahaha the devil will make u gay hahahahah FUCKERS!!!!!!!
@zorlac86 , your parents love you, period. They'll eventually come around. I'm a straight guy who's never met you, and I don't hate you. Give them a chance to understand who you are. God bless and good luck.
@zorlac86 no how u feel:( i told them a few months ago and they put me through christian counseling and say if i continue liking men that i'll go to hell
If your parents are the super religious type, I'd break it down to them slowley. And in the end, if they still don't accept your true nature, simply point out that they themselves are gay for god and they jerk off to jesus(or, if they're muslim, they masturbate to Mohammed and recieve anal from Allah)
I'm out in high school. No one in school seams to have a problem with it so far but I have had kids say there parents don't want them to hang out with me. The views are changing from generation to generation.
as long as there happy leave them all so gay men are good think if every gay man when straight think of all the babies the world,s full already think of that before you say puff fag sick
Honestly I'd thought you had to tell your parents. Everybody makes it seem like you have to. "You gotta tell `em." "You can't keep that from them." :|
I told my mom months ago and she didnt care at all :P I never told my dad, till he saw a pic of me kissing a guy on myspace lol he went to get drunk =] but then he started to act like he always do with me :) so we keep talking like we always do, Im bi
really good video I belive Gay is not a choice at all your born that why and being gay is not bad and it can be hard to come out to your parents I came out when I was 18 and i'm 26 going on 27 and my mom just now is coming around and accpteing me as being gay
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I'm gay too:DI enjoy being rammed up the ass by a hard cock! I also enjoy being like the typical homosexual. Fan of Chris Crocker,enjoying anime,and whacking off to Richard Simmons
im gay and i don't know how to tell my parents :[..... seriously my dad has a problem with gay people and my mom sometimes questions me on it, she has caught gay porn on my computer and asked if i had something to tell her T_T
I don't feel like i have to tell my parents or anyone really. I told my friends of like 3 years that I liked girls only when they asked me what i liked in a guy. I've never talked about it with my parents but i have a gay flag in my room. If they ever want to acknowledge it i'm not going to deny it.
I'm just wondering why this has to be an issue. Why can't gays just be accepted for who they are? Why are they supposed to be socially-different? Everybody is an equal! I'm not gay, but I think that they're proud (the good way) and brave! Gosh, why does this even HAVE to be someone that people argue about? Why do people hate them? People should embrace them and be a friend... give them someone who cares! Well, that's just my opinion. I mean, seriously! People, maturity!
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im bisexual but i dont know how to tell my parents
i
have been talked with my parents about gays and lesbians because i got a cousin that is gay, and they thinks he is wrong and my mom is mad with him and all of my family and what would happen if i tell them im bisexual?????/
I know if my son ever told me he was gay and I don't think I could accept it.
It's just flat out wrong...I mean with guys, now girls in alright with. Many people think thats wrong but I know of a lot of guys that love when girls enguage in sexual activities with one another.
If you can't accept that your child is gay, and love them regardless(whether they are a boy or a girl), it simply means that you care more about your own comfort level, than you do your child's happiness. That is very sad, and extremely selfish.
I Knew Dan was Gay,but with all the money He and Jennifer are making from these "advice to the sexualy stupid",you would think he would buy himself a freakin toupee.
hey this answer was way too long...it is difficult to be gay these days, period. You need to weigh factors to discern IF telling people would help YOU and how much. It's a great idea to frame the issue in a context where you will come out ahead. It's nobody's business, but everyone loves to pry. It is what it is. Work with your sexuality in a way that will promote healthy living and healthy thoughts.
im 14 and i finaly told my mom im bi and my mom yelled at me and said i wasnt. she said it would be fine if i was but then when i tell her shes denys me. she also says im 2 young but i dont think age should matter because if i fall in luv with a girl and she luvs me im fine.
same here my parents would kill me(not kidding grandmother and father hates gays and my dad used to be in the military so hate gays and same for my mom) this just sux...at least my friends rock and support me!
Its best that u dont tell them... the last thing you need, is them on your back yelling at you about it. I see it everywhere at school. I"m 15, and i have 1 gay and a bisexual friend. I'm happy they came to terms with who they are, but i see people sometimes calling them names like fag, and homo. and it hurts me too, it really does. Because i understand how it feels
ive got like 20 friends both bi and gay and when people call us names we get back(evil gleam). but we all understand eachother and that alone brings us closer together. and no one should make fun of sexuality its hurtful and wrong.
he looks like a muddafuggin cunt retard with the bald spot... notice the gay talk is turnin' him on like he's masturbating under the table... sorry dan and cunt
Do heterosexual people tell their parents they're straight? NO. So why should bi/gay people tell their parents they are bi/gay? What difference does it make? What business of the parents is it to know? My own mother - a Christian (duh) - believes bisexuality doesn't even exist. So why should I give a crap about telling her I am bi? She won't believe me and I don't care.
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because most parents believe that their kids are straight and they are hoping to have grandchildren one day and to continue the family tree...
Gay / Bi isn't normal (not in the way the nature made it) and that's why it's not the same.
It's like "why should I tell my parents I am sick if I don't tell them I'm healthy all the time?" or "why should I tell them that I killed a person if I never told them I didn't"
Currently, gay people can have children of their own through adoption. However, there is recent news that same sex people can possibly one day produce natural children of their own:
"In a handful of labs across the world, biologists are trying to make genetically male cells develop into eggs, and female cells into sperm. If successful, their efforts might one day allow lesbian and gay couples to have children that are genetically their own."
Also, being gay/bi is NORMAL and NATURAL because there have been over 3,500 cases documented, IN NATURE, to have homosexuality/bisexuality. The best example is the bonobos, a very close relative of ours, who have sex facing each other (only species to do so besides humans) and with whichever sex.
Obviously, homosexuality is natural or it wouldn't be in nature. Defeats your argument. You can't possibility link homosexuality to the act of killing someone.
"Love is always patient; love is always kind; love is never envious or arrogant with pride. Nor is she conceited" 1 corinthians 13:4 love can be between anyone and those against it are just arrogant. Love is love and you cant change it.
please people think about that we all humans on cultural high level right?
so let us think realy emotionless about!
sex is a wonderfull think and its more than men and women thing... its not the devil or godless thing its natural! paul has the right answer givin i tink! the holy is in much thinks great but it must be an fin in real life that other free people discriminate only of there kind of being! thx dan and jenn
Wats better then pussy? try a bitch then give your thoughts on it... No am not going to try being gay... But it's normal to be straight look at every 1 eles thats why i will not go the opsite way :P
You do realize that Homosexuality is shown in animals? I mean, it is natural, the only reason a small percentage of people come out as homosexual is because of the ignorant pigs who says it is wrong.
i dont agree with homosexuality or bisexauliatyy. but your teen years can be vary confusing for you. but the end you should be strait and tell me guys you a perty girl with nice outfit on and all dont me you dont like that. yes it is your genes and hormone levels . be strait please and save your self
yes, teen years are confusing(I should know, I'm halfway through them)BUT you are obviously sure youre straight. In your teens (assuming your not a teenager now) you (I assume) just knew you like girls. It's the same with gay people.I look at a "perty girl" with a "nice outfit" and I think "she needs to tone it done, what a slut" When I look a a good looking guy and i think... well, suffice to say i do indeed like it! People generally have no choice over who they like. Why not live and let live?
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well science has proved may times than homosexuals can be helped and if you dont think girls are hot. my god have mercy on your soul. strait is the way to go.
Hmm, I don't know what "scientific statistics" you're reading, but imagine it this way...
Imagine being gay was like being straight and imagine being straight was like being gay. Now, you, who are straight, are being chastised by society for being straight.
Are you going to turn gay because science helped you? No, you're naturally going to be interested in women because that's who you're interested in. You can't magically turn off the gay button. Wake up, Echocompany540.
Oh, echocompany540, oh, echocompany540...I'm guessing your young right. Well, I'll go easy on you. It's important that you realize at some point or another that things aren't black and white. With such a huge population, its obvious there's going to be differences among us. The important thing about this is not saying I dont agree but simply saying I understand and I accept. If you're straight; that's awesome, but accept those who are different.
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Well, i dont agree with Paul Carlson saying that many young normal heterosexual men have some gay experience. Those guys who do have r already NOT NORMAL, they already r at least bisexual, coz 4 normal young TRULY heterosexual man a gay "experience" is ABHORING and COMPLETELY out of the question. And IF they r forced 2 such an act in some way, their psyche is destroyed 4 a long time and maybe 4ever.
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how can you possibly be gay, how can u wrap your arms around a man and make love to him , just insane, women have soft bodie smooth skin they have long hair and god they feel good
so why do some men want to have sex with women in the anus? lots of men want their women to flip the role and "do" their men in the anus. It's definately a genetic thing, why would anyone want to choose to be gay, especially when they are bashed by people like yourself?
I'm not gay, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. They are just as normal as anyone else. They can't change the way they are, and they shouldn't have to.
Pretty good advice, coming from a straight couple ... My first rule is I don't come out to people unless they ask. I won't lie, but it really is private information. My second rule is I won't come out to my parents until I'm independent from them.
I don't think the stigma is quite as prevalent as Paul says, but there is always a risk to coming out. Test the waters by broaching the subject generally if you feel comfortable. I totally agree -- don't rub it in!!
In the area I live in, everyone seems to think being gay is a bad thing. People go around saying stuff like "Ahh that's gay" which apparently is meant to mean "Ahh that's rubbish." My friends think being gay is a choice, but who would really choose to be gay, if the majority of people class being gay as something unusual? Why else would it be a big decision to tell your parents? It wouldn't be if you were straight.
So, you're saying that i'm straight because of my genetics, thats not right? Being gay is genetic, so is being straight. With what you said, being straight or gay both aren't right. I believe that if you're gay, your gay.. You're a human, jst have a different preference. Shouldn't be a deal.
genetics doesn't matter, its what you do that does. and yes, it is bad. i dont know why i posted that comment, i dont wanna start a damn debate really...i've been in long ones before, dont wanna get into new ones. its not an easy short one, and youtube's comment system sucks dick. no offense to faggots.
PS: grow a sense of humor regarding most of my comments.
Well.... ummmmm. I don't really know what to say. Yes the video is accurate, good and complete with a lot of useful info, but I really don't agree with the age factor. Most and let me repeat, MOST of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people will tell you that they knew they were different from early in their lives. I knew.
Great advice, thanks guys, its hard for someone to come out, my mother lost her dream of having grandkids, and loves me very much, but still cant deal with it very well. Interesting though, my grandmother who grew up during WWII is more accepting of it.
I find as people get older they realise what is important in life. And accepting your fellow man is one of those things.
"I find as people get older they realise what is important in life. And accepting your fellow man is one of those things."
Hi Joey, So true. Your grandmother is older, and wiser. :-)
As we grow as a people and a society, we are becoming more accepting and understanding of others, living less out of our egos, judgment, ignorance, and fundamentally fear.
Our world is very different today than even 30 years ago. I have much hope for the our generation and the younger generations...
Yeah, that's really tough. I come from an ultra religious, black family. It got so bad for my cousin that she ran away and stayed away for over a year because she came out to her mom.
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FatalVision811 7 months ago
strapon alert gay alert !
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gamerChilliad 9 months ago
I am 11 and gay. I feel much better I said tat, but I don't know possibly how I could tell my parents.
MintyFresh1999 10 months ago
@MintyFresh1999 AS you grow and learn more about yourself, becoming more self-confident, you will feel strong enough in yourself to confront these hard issues. When you are ready, you will tell your parents. You get to decide when that is.
TheVtsylvan 3 months ago
I don't know what to do still.... If my mom and dad new I was bi they'd kill me on site...for some reason my parents are so aginst gays and lesbians... Should I tell them I have a girlfriend???...or keep it a secret till I move out? (I'm a girl)
saskesgirl08 10 months ago
The world is always gonna be an ignorant place....there will always be haters. But we will get our rights even if it takes another 20 years......Then in about 50 years there will be the same thing going on with robots, robots fighting for there rights. Then in 1000 years aliens fighting for alien rights and so on.....
The world is always gonna be a hateful place :(
1122Damien 10 months ago
i'm bisexual and i have been since i was about 12. i'm scared to tell my parents because i don't know what they will say. my dad is completely against it. he said that it is gross and it's a sin... i don't know what to do..
TessaRenee92 1 year ago
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BUTLOOGIE 1 year ago
...thought, but i do. Maybe years down the road when my kids are grown up and my parents are really old i'll be able to come out... but until then i'm just going to have to pretend.
Chilean88 1 year ago
Great video Dan and Jenn. I'm gay, but ive never told anyone. I don't think i'll ever be able to tell my parents, they are so traditional and judgemental. I come from a family of 4 girls and i'm the only boy, so i'm the only chance to pass on the family name to my kids, so i have to get married and have children. Everyday i have to pretend to be straight and date girls, it feels so unnatural for me when we have sex, i have to concentrate on other things. I wish i didn't care what my parents thou
Chilean88 1 year ago
@Chilean88, i im 14, and i told my parents, it will be tough to tell ur parents but just do it when u feel comfotable about it.
Theventriloquist91 1 year ago
haha lol
EzKClanChannel 1 year ago
its the hardest thing ive ever had to do, i would be physically sick at the thought of telling my parents, it was hard enough with friends, with with my parents it was torture. the thing people dont realise is that gay people cant help feeling atracted to the same sex just like straight people just arent attracted to the same sex. i know if i had a choice, which i deffinatley do not, i would never put myself through this torture of being gay. its not a damn choice.
chap8938 1 year ago
Im gay but i dont know how to tell my dad if anyone can help please private message me :) Thnks Kyle
kylescottburnham 1 year ago
@kylescottburnham , i 100% agreee with u. i told y family except my dad, cuz when i tell him he willl not talk to me for at least 5 months. dads and moms will be the hardest. :D just stay strong and tell him when u feel its the rright time
Theventriloquist91 1 year ago
my parents are the uber religious types:( they say i'm going to hell...so i'm hoping someday they'll let me live my life..cuz im getting sick of christian counseling and stuff
jdivergh22 1 year ago
lol so who likes bleach is gay so come to germany meet us and u get an ak shot in your face fucking gay noobs when u die god send u straight to hell muahaha the devil will make u gay hahahahah FUCKERS!!!!!!!
Levelety 1 year ago
My parents are both really anti-homosexuals and I feel really despised... I haven't told them yet but it's really awful feeling so segregated.
zorlac86 2 years ago 4
@zorlac86 , your parents love you, period. They'll eventually come around. I'm a straight guy who's never met you, and I don't hate you. Give them a chance to understand who you are. God bless and good luck.
wilmerpetcock 1 year ago
@zorlac86 I told my dad yesterday. It was AWFUL
AntmILoveYou 1 year ago
@zorlac86 no how u feel:( i told them a few months ago and they put me through christian counseling and say if i continue liking men that i'll go to hell
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If your parents are the super religious type, I'd break it down to them slowley. And in the end, if they still don't accept your true nature, simply point out that they themselves are gay for god and they jerk off to jesus(or, if they're muslim, they masturbate to Mohammed and recieve anal from Allah)
SmashingJack420 2 years ago 5
lol!!
ziplineranger 2 years ago
LOL
TheDesolatedShadow 2 years ago
LOL
OliverXP 1 year ago
lol!!!
bloodylilboy12 1 year ago
I'm out in high school. No one in school seams to have a problem with it so far but I have had kids say there parents don't want them to hang out with me. The views are changing from generation to generation.
gayasjake 2 years ago
as long as there happy leave them all so gay men are good think if every gay man when straight think of all the babies the world,s full already think of that before you say puff fag sick
crimsonglass123 2 years ago 3
No . parents will treat you way different trust me i know lol
DeadEndJustice13 2 years ago 3
Mhm. They're right. A lot of the kids and teenagers don't really care. That'll lead a more open minded generation...
southernjunkie94 2 years ago
Honestly I'd thought you had to tell your parents. Everybody makes it seem like you have to. "You gotta tell `em." "You can't keep that from them." :|
southernjunkie94 2 years ago
I told my mom months ago and she didnt care at all :P I never told my dad, till he saw a pic of me kissing a guy on myspace lol he went to get drunk =] but then he started to act like he always do with me :) so we keep talking like we always do, Im bi
xMikey69x 2 years ago 3
really good video I belive Gay is not a choice at all your born that why and being gay is not bad and it can be hard to come out to your parents I came out when I was 18 and i'm 26 going on 27 and my mom just now is coming around and accpteing me as being gay
rainbowpagan 2 years ago
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I'm gay too:DI enjoy being rammed up the ass by a hard cock! I also enjoy being like the typical homosexual. Fan of Chris Crocker,enjoying anime,and whacking off to Richard Simmons
jjgreek3 2 years ago
ahahaha bso if you watch bleach your gay!! true true. i like bleach hehehe
anime241 1 year ago
im gay and i don't know how to tell my parents :[..... seriously my dad has a problem with gay people and my mom sometimes questions me on it, she has caught gay porn on my computer and asked if i had something to tell her T_T
IchigoKurusakiLOL 2 years ago
Just tell them you like Bleach and they'll automatically know you're gay!=-D
jjgreek3 2 years ago 3
perhaps there is a predisposition to being gay, but not actual genetic cause. sexuality is so much more complex than that.
jlenoconel 2 years ago
humans have a choice. the woman is right. paul is talking smack.
jlenoconel 2 years ago
the gene thing has not been proven in any way, shape, or form
jlenoconel 2 years ago
I don't feel like i have to tell my parents or anyone really. I told my friends of like 3 years that I liked girls only when they asked me what i liked in a guy. I've never talked about it with my parents but i have a gay flag in my room. If they ever want to acknowledge it i'm not going to deny it.
titanx9 2 years ago
How do you know for sure that you're bi-sexual? I like a girl now, but I don't know if I'm bi-sexual or just straight.
Pleas help me
martinenlaura 2 years ago
i usually just like guys, and i'm a wrestler. So that is good for me. Not you.
bntreece 2 years ago
I'm just wondering why this has to be an issue. Why can't gays just be accepted for who they are? Why are they supposed to be socially-different? Everybody is an equal! I'm not gay, but I think that they're proud (the good way) and brave! Gosh, why does this even HAVE to be someone that people argue about? Why do people hate them? People should embrace them and be a friend... give them someone who cares! Well, that's just my opinion. I mean, seriously! People, maturity!
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ha ,
'thinking about becoming homosexual'
2whitelilys 2 years ago
They need to stop being hypocrite and take this issue more seriously.
kobla02 2 years ago 2
im bisexual but i dont know how to tell my parents
i
have been talked with my parents about gays and lesbians because i got a cousin that is gay, and they thinks he is wrong and my mom is mad with him and all of my family and what would happen if i tell them im bisexual?????/
i really dont wanna leave my family =( help me
catniguigato 2 years ago 4
why should you tell them
michaelimk23 2 years ago
He gave a very right and balanced answer
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catfight0 2 years ago
jennifer i love u your so hot!..... excuse me for that.
carme1oanthony 3 years ago
ok guys i think i can do this, im coming out to all of you first as a offical homosexual
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bubulindo5 3 years ago 8
Jen was a bit of a bitch to start of with ..
So was dan .. =/
SeanSymphony 3 years ago
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Gays are gay.
haytubenon 3 years ago
Wow and you're a genius.
bludecembers2 3 years ago 4
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Of course I'm a genius.
haytubenon 3 years ago
That was sarcasm you idiot.
dylanD2000 2 years ago
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Marshal2828fu 3 years ago
thanks... I think I'm bi.
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"They commit suicide"..."Ouch" ROTFLMAO
silverboi18 3 years ago
So people commiting suicide is funny? I don't quite understand your reasoning.
Thewisedaz 3 years ago 6
Yeah really man, wtf?
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Renaldo1985rdx 3 years ago
I like how the Dan and Paul talk quietly, it's very calming.
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I know if my son ever told me he was gay and I don't think I could accept it.
It's just flat out wrong...I mean with guys, now girls in alright with. Many people think thats wrong but I know of a lot of guys that love when girls enguage in sexual activities with one another.
snyder325tiger 3 years ago
Wow Snyder, way to be a typical twat.
tinalovesblakey0 3 years ago 5
So why is it okay with girls but not guys? Because you like to see gay girls. It's BECAUSE you are a guy. What a ridiculous comment.
ethteck 3 years ago 6
If you can't accept that your child is gay, and love them regardless(whether they are a boy or a girl), it simply means that you care more about your own comfort level, than you do your child's happiness. That is very sad, and extremely selfish.
xBeSelenaStillx 3 years ago 42
you can like it but you aint gettin none. HAhaha
iwhitecastle 3 years ago
wot is that strangle blue liquid theyre always drinking. ahahaha
SkitzSkitzSkitz 3 years ago
blueberry martini
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I think you should just kill yourself if your a gay kid
dollardollarbillsss 3 years ago
This guy's opinion doesn't matter.
Guitarhero75 3 years ago
dollardollarbillsss's opinion doesn't matter.
Guitarhero75 3 years ago
Jen your a bitch you fuckin whore
kitfistoislove 3 years ago
I Knew Dan was Gay,but with all the money He and Jennifer are making from these "advice to the sexualy stupid",you would think he would buy himself a freakin toupee.
yomamadontdanz 3 years ago
Omg i live in Dallas too xD
Anyways, you guys give such good advice and even thought it's for entertainment, if it's good enough, I'll kinda use it.. xD
asifsys23 3 years ago
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FUCKIN HOMO. HAhahaA.
how you not like pussy its fuckin delicious.
iwhitecastle 3 years ago
hey this answer was way too long...it is difficult to be gay these days, period. You need to weigh factors to discern IF telling people would help YOU and how much. It's a great idea to frame the issue in a context where you will come out ahead. It's nobody's business, but everyone loves to pry. It is what it is. Work with your sexuality in a way that will promote healthy living and healthy thoughts.
tottnyc 3 years ago 2
im 14 and i finaly told my mom im bi and my mom yelled at me and said i wasnt. she said it would be fine if i was but then when i tell her shes denys me. she also says im 2 young but i dont think age should matter because if i fall in luv with a girl and she luvs me im fine.
musicmadness330 3 years ago 3
I agree with you. I'm 14 too, and I don't think age matters if you love someone. >:
I'm trying to decide if I should tell my mom I'm bi, but I have a feeling she'll yell at me... >>'
SuperPidgey 3 years ago
same here my parents would kill me(not kidding grandmother and father hates gays and my dad used to be in the military so hate gays and same for my mom) this just sux...at least my friends rock and support me!
lopmonremix2 3 years ago 4
Its best that u dont tell them... the last thing you need, is them on your back yelling at you about it. I see it everywhere at school. I"m 15, and i have 1 gay and a bisexual friend. I'm happy they came to terms with who they are, but i see people sometimes calling them names like fag, and homo. and it hurts me too, it really does. Because i understand how it feels
SkitzSkitzSkitz 3 years ago
ive got like 20 friends both bi and gay and when people call us names we get back(evil gleam). but we all understand eachother and that alone brings us closer together. and no one should make fun of sexuality its hurtful and wrong.
lopmonremix2 3 years ago 4
what you are saying reminds me a lot the movie American Beauty. The guy was an ex-marine, hated gays and in the end... he was gay.
aleterra 3 years ago 2
same here(age too) and it sucks my parents never need to know and the sad thing is i will probably get caught...T-T
lopmonremix2 3 years ago
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and your a fuck fag. HAhahhahAh.
iwhitecastle 3 years ago
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Romans chapter 1. Read it
shitrustdie 3 years ago
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he looks like a muddafuggin cunt retard with the bald spot... notice the gay talk is turnin' him on like he's masturbating under the table... sorry dan and cunt
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xxx6942069xxx 3 years ago
Do heterosexual people tell their parents they're straight? NO. So why should bi/gay people tell their parents they are bi/gay? What difference does it make? What business of the parents is it to know? My own mother - a Christian (duh) - believes bisexuality doesn't even exist. So why should I give a crap about telling her I am bi? She won't believe me and I don't care.
vosvos49 3 years ago 11
exactly
urmomstoxicface 3 years ago 6
that is true.
Mountainman19 3 years ago 7
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because most parents believe that their kids are straight and they are hoping to have grandchildren one day and to continue the family tree...
Gay / Bi isn't normal (not in the way the nature made it) and that's why it's not the same.
It's like "why should I tell my parents I am sick if I don't tell them I'm healthy all the time?" or "why should I tell them that I killed a person if I never told them I didn't"
LordEmilous 3 years ago
Currently, gay people can have children of their own through adoption. However, there is recent news that same sex people can possibly one day produce natural children of their own:
"In a handful of labs across the world, biologists are trying to make genetically male cells develop into eggs, and female cells into sperm. If successful, their efforts might one day allow lesbian and gay couples to have children that are genetically their own."
vosvos49 3 years ago 7
Also, being gay/bi is NORMAL and NATURAL because there have been over 3,500 cases documented, IN NATURE, to have homosexuality/bisexuality. The best example is the bonobos, a very close relative of ours, who have sex facing each other (only species to do so besides humans) and with whichever sex.
Obviously, homosexuality is natural or it wouldn't be in nature. Defeats your argument. You can't possibility link homosexuality to the act of killing someone.
vosvos49 3 years ago 18
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... which leads to our conclusion today: Humans are sick in the head!
LordEmilous 3 years ago
For falling in love with people? Oh yeah... love is SO sick. Uh huh. -_-
vosvos49 3 years ago 7
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no... for falling in love with same sex (which isn't that bad), but also for MAKING MEN PREGNANT WTF!!! Where the fuck is this world going to...
LordEmilous 3 years ago
Falling in love with the same sex is as natural as falling in love with the opposite sex.
And men can't get pregnant. An ftm can get pregnant though, but that's obvious.
vosvos49 3 years ago 8
"Love is always patient; love is always kind; love is never envious or arrogant with pride. Nor is she conceited" 1 corinthians 13:4 love can be between anyone and those against it are just arrogant. Love is love and you cant change it.
hahaha123318 2 years ago
Sure hope that works out. :]
southernjunkie94 2 years ago
same here and it just sux and the worst is that they force me to go to church bleh.
lopmonremix2 3 years ago 2
i go to the mosque
uarhara 3 years ago
boring right
lopmonremix2 3 years ago
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how the fuck can you be gay thats fuckin dumb. how you not like VAGINA..
girls onyl the hot one can be lesbians. the ugly one stick to the guys. cause its fuckin gross. when i see ugly people kissing.
iwhitecastle 3 years ago
What the ****
DE0N18 3 years ago 2
Paul is HOT !!! Is he GAY ??? I am !!!
chubjim 3 years ago
You notice that dans hand is under the table the whole time, like moving up and down?
I think this gay talk is turning him on lol
topsyekrit 3 years ago 2
LOL dan is balding
bradical2001 3 years ago 3
and than came the holy ...
please people think about that we all humans on cultural high level right?
so let us think realy emotionless about!
sex is a wonderfull think and its more than men and women thing... its not the devil or godless thing its natural! paul has the right answer givin i tink! the holy is in much thinks great but it must be an fin in real life that other free people discriminate only of there kind of being! thx dan and jenn
devilgonzo6 3 years ago
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Fuck obama. hes gay
lastmonkakr12 3 years ago
lol racist fuck
JoshSDshot 3 years ago 2
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Eat shit... please :(
DE0N18 3 years ago
I am actually Bisexual, Only I'm 13. And I'm pretty sure, It'll pass And If not I will tell my parents...Eventually
horseluv830 3 years ago 8
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Wats better then pussy? try a bitch then give your thoughts on it... No am not going to try being gay... But it's normal to be straight look at every 1 eles thats why i will not go the opsite way :P
Hayk1991 3 years ago
You do realize that Homosexuality is shown in animals? I mean, it is natural, the only reason a small percentage of people come out as homosexual is because of the ignorant pigs who says it is wrong.
BobDoleismyBitch 3 years ago 13
Homophobia is being a repressed gay.
pukpoq 3 years ago 8
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i dont agree with homosexuality or bisexauliatyy. but your teen years can be vary confusing for you. but the end you should be strait and tell me guys you a perty girl with nice outfit on and all dont me you dont like that. yes it is your genes and hormone levels . be strait please and save your self
echocompany540 3 years ago
yes, teen years are confusing(I should know, I'm halfway through them)BUT you are obviously sure youre straight. In your teens (assuming your not a teenager now) you (I assume) just knew you like girls. It's the same with gay people.I look at a "perty girl" with a "nice outfit" and I think "she needs to tone it done, what a slut" When I look a a good looking guy and i think... well, suffice to say i do indeed like it! People generally have no choice over who they like. Why not live and let live?
Thewisedaz 3 years ago 6
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well science has proved may times than homosexuals can be helped and if you dont think girls are hot. my god have mercy on your soul. strait is the way to go.
echocompany540 3 years ago
Hmm, I don't know what "scientific statistics" you're reading, but imagine it this way...
Imagine being gay was like being straight and imagine being straight was like being gay. Now, you, who are straight, are being chastised by society for being straight.
Are you going to turn gay because science helped you? No, you're naturally going to be interested in women because that's who you're interested in. You can't magically turn off the gay button. Wake up, Echocompany540.
slayerette86m 3 years ago 5
Oh, echocompany540, oh, echocompany540...I'm guessing your young right. Well, I'll go easy on you. It's important that you realize at some point or another that things aren't black and white. With such a huge population, its obvious there's going to be differences among us. The important thing about this is not saying I dont agree but simply saying I understand and I accept. If you're straight; that's awesome, but accept those who are different.
And pay attention in English class!
slayerette86m 3 years ago
why you people always againts homosexual they didnt hurt anyone
unholyblackheart 3 years ago 12
Anal sex hurts.... but yeah. I agree that they can do whatever they want. Just don't infringe on my life and I won't on yours.
Imaghost18 3 years ago 2
Reckon if I were gay I'd tell my parents, wouldn't tell grandparents.
WiPTornado 3 years ago
Tell them you have joined the dark side and obi won kenobi cant work his fucking magic on you
ajbarnstormer 3 years ago 12
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Well, i dont agree with Paul Carlson saying that many young normal heterosexual men have some gay experience. Those guys who do have r already NOT NORMAL, they already r at least bisexual, coz 4 normal young TRULY heterosexual man a gay "experience" is ABHORING and COMPLETELY out of the question. And IF they r forced 2 such an act in some way, their psyche is destroyed 4 a long time and maybe 4ever.
GeneNowok 3 years ago
Many male adolescents experiment with gay sex and are still straight. This is especially true in same sex situations like prison.
CarrollAP 3 years ago 3
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go2 my profile and msg my msn name if u want to talk R
NickKeymore 3 years ago
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how can you possibly be gay, how can u wrap your arms around a man and make love to him , just insane, women have soft bodie smooth skin they have long hair and god they feel good
fuckserbrussians1 3 years ago
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Yeh!, but nothing you can do about gays!
Shoooter16 3 years ago
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thats so true LOL
lolzore 3 years ago
so why do some men want to have sex with women in the anus? lots of men want their women to flip the role and "do" their men in the anus. It's definately a genetic thing, why would anyone want to choose to be gay, especially when they are bashed by people like yourself?
lilbrog9e 3 years ago 5
feels good man
christianisgay00 3 years ago
homophobia is gay.
fuck off.
Gracie9746 3 years ago 8
Well I have known quite a few men with long hair and soft bodies.
Mormeguil69 3 years ago
that guy is so smart, i like what he has to say
DrCherryPie 3 years ago 7
I'm not gay, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. They are just as normal as anyone else. They can't change the way they are, and they shouldn't have to.
RandomGal23 3 years ago 13
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yeah, pedophiles can't change the way they are either, let them be..
TheGlowingSky 3 years ago
2 words... "Consenting Adults"
DanAndJenn 3 years ago
that was very wise info thanx
i learned something new today! :D
lol
CyAnideSiikNness 3 years ago
lol did you see the guys to the rights sneer face in the middle of the question?
Witets 3 years ago
Dan should be able to awnser this as he is the biggest closet Homo i have ever seen. If your gay so be it thats fine its life
gregoryshaba 3 years ago 2
Pretty good advice, coming from a straight couple ... My first rule is I don't come out to people unless they ask. I won't lie, but it really is private information. My second rule is I won't come out to my parents until I'm independent from them.
I don't think the stigma is quite as prevalent as Paul says, but there is always a risk to coming out. Test the waters by broaching the subject generally if you feel comfortable. I totally agree -- don't rub it in!!
3shadesofbeige 3 years ago 11
ne1 want to chat?
bogoesthere 3 years ago
In the area I live in, everyone seems to think being gay is a bad thing. People go around saying stuff like "Ahh that's gay" which apparently is meant to mean "Ahh that's rubbish." My friends think being gay is a choice, but who would really choose to be gay, if the majority of people class being gay as something unusual? Why else would it be a big decision to tell your parents? It wouldn't be if you were straight.
Carabinic 3 years ago 3
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btw, just because its genetics doesn't mean its "right".
mrdarkknight 3 years ago
So, you're saying that i'm straight because of my genetics, thats not right? Being gay is genetic, so is being straight. With what you said, being straight or gay both aren't right. I believe that if you're gay, your gay.. You're a human, jst have a different preference. Shouldn't be a deal.
N0tCr4zy 3 years ago 6
It doesn't mean it's "bad" either.
RandomGal23 3 years ago 3
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@n0tcr4zy and randomgal23
genetics doesn't matter, its what you do that does. and yes, it is bad. i dont know why i posted that comment, i dont wanna start a damn debate really...i've been in long ones before, dont wanna get into new ones. its not an easy short one, and youtube's comment system sucks dick. no offense to faggots.
PS: grow a sense of humor regarding most of my comments.
*waits for 9999 thumbs down*
mrdarkknight 3 years ago
i think the answer was too cheesy any1 that has something to say just need to say it regardless of the subject
lousy people handle situation in lousy ways and that is how I feel
tubehax 3 years ago
Well.... ummmmm. I don't really know what to say. Yes the video is accurate, good and complete with a lot of useful info, but I really don't agree with the age factor. Most and let me repeat, MOST of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people will tell you that they knew they were different from early in their lives. I knew.
jeanintro 3 years ago 7
Stellar advice, give this video 10 stars.
KevinQ 3 years ago 11
Great advice, thanks guys, its hard for someone to come out, my mother lost her dream of having grandkids, and loves me very much, but still cant deal with it very well. Interesting though, my grandmother who grew up during WWII is more accepting of it.
I find as people get older they realise what is important in life. And accepting your fellow man is one of those things.
parrisjoey 3 years ago 7
"I find as people get older they realise what is important in life. And accepting your fellow man is one of those things."
Hi Joey, So true. Your grandmother is older, and wiser. :-)
As we grow as a people and a society, we are becoming more accepting and understanding of others, living less out of our egos, judgment, ignorance, and fundamentally fear.
Our world is very different today than even 30 years ago. I have much hope for the our generation and the younger generations...
-- Dan
DanAndJenn 3 years ago
Yeah, that's really tough. I come from an ultra religious, black family. It got so bad for my cousin that she ran away and stayed away for over a year because she came out to her mom.
lavinder11 3 years ago 10
I came out to my mom at 16. its ok they will accept you even though it might be painful at first.
skorpionshow 3 years ago 2
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faggot :D
sorry i just felt like saying that.
mrdarkknight 3 years ago
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not really
gregor00005 3 years ago
jenn are really good looking
mathias1211 3 years ago 4