What Are At least 5 reasons for Dude To Get Married

[crangdaniel]

Norway recently withdrew all the funding to so called "gender studies" in scientific research much due to a documentary "hjernevask" (Brainwash) shown on National Tv NRK. It shines the light on how feminism do not hold up to science when faced with biology and psychology.

sweden still keeps up the gender fascism.

The show has English subtitles and should be seen and spread by anybody antifeminist and interested in the present nordic situation.

Just search " hjernevask english " on youtube.

[DaSurreal1da]

@crangdaniel I certainly will check it out chief. Thanks for the nugget of info brother.

[dermisogyn]

sooo right

[DaSurreal1da]

@Marscrater LOL, I feel you my dude.

[whitemonster111]

You speak the truth man! Everyone I work around man/women I hear both sides of the story and it isn't pretty! You just convinced me even more so. I was in a 6 year relationship and ended it because of where I saw it going. Yes I loved her but, not to the point of slitting my wrists and wallet at the same time! Haha fuck all that shit, have a relationship and a lot of sex and do what makes you happy! Don't walk the plank and dive into shark infested waters but instead steal that next boat where

[formula112967]

You my friend, are 1000% right. But the courts and lawmakers are catching on quick, and many states are now recognizing common law marraige....Yup, another law built to protect women from having to go out and earn a paycheck. Watch, and you will see, within 20 years every state will recognise common law marraige, and that will yet again get us guys to change our plan, and we will tell the woman we cannot live with them. In the long run these bias laws will destroy women and relationships. Peace.

[DaSurreal1da]

@formula112967 I hope you're wrong about the courts recognizing common law marriages but the trends are leaning toward what you're saying. And the bias laws are tearing up women and relationships, the examples are running rampant in society. Be blessed brother.

[BeaveHolio]

It beyond fixing best to break it, break it so bad women will beg for it back. Time for the gender war.

[Jdiva1978]

It's not a good idea to get married today because, what does it really mean? When a man decides to cheat you can just leave without going through a whole lot of paperwork and drama. I don't wanna be stuck with someone on paper. I'm in a relationship and I'm very happy but I just don't wanna get married. It's just another institution.

[seand67]

Awesome video Bro

[DaSurreal1da]

@seand67 thanks my dude, I fuggs with ya vids as well...

[SimonDB2006]

Dud I like the way you think! Been saying this for years... For any man that gets married these days is a fool!

[TheBigBadWoIf]

there are none. not a single, solitary one. at least not in this country in this day and age.

[DaSurreal1da]

@TheBigBadWoIf the info presented thus far makes me agree....I did this vid in hopes of finding angles I had not forseen.......but it seems I was right.......Its a damn shame really.......Keep posting your vids bro, I'm a big fan and I dig'em.

[WhereYaBoss]

I wouldn't be surprised if your next video was "What's the benefit of raising your illegitimate child?" I can see you coming up with all the excuse as to why you should live separate from your baby's mother, like letting the government send her monopoly money for food & shelter. I can see you convincing other men like you to let the government pay for your child's healthcare. See it all the time. When you don't marry your baby's mother it's easy to let the government do the rest. Ordinary man.

[R1o05]

@WhereYaBoss Wow you really have it out for black guys. It's a shame. Well what's marriage material then? I've read your benefits to marriage and it's really amusing to read. But the sad thing is I haven't one real reason yet. I guess from a woman's view, marriage is good but from a guy's view you're getting screwed over. Most people don't marry the right people or for the right reasons. That's why the divorce rates are so high and that's why guys need to think about that when they get married.

[R1o05]

@WhereYaBoss It's funny that you only gave reasons for the "thugass" dude. So what about the guy that's doing well in his life, with no need for financial assistance or law or health problems. Or even the ordinary middle class guy. Where's his benefit? Is it having a woman that he loves on his arm, because he can still have that woman and not be married. Is it kids? He can still give her the ring and have a wedding and just not sign the registration. I don't see the point in signing yourself

[R1o05]

@R1o05 over to one person. Hell even in the bible The men had multiple wives and even girl on the side that they slept with.

[WhereYaBoss]

@R1o05 If that's you in the avatar on your comment you are attractive. Now on to the real. There are no benefits for anyone to get married if you dont want to get married. I said that from the beginning. Just like there are no benefits to having kids but I see people doing it all the time. If a man doesn't want to marry me I would never make him but I would rather he find someone that feels the same way he does. There are women who don't believe in marriage and like plenty of men, too. Get her.

[R1o05]

@WhereYaBoss Lol, thanks. I guess you're right then. If a person isn't ready to get married in the first place then they should be getting married.

[WhereYaBoss]

@R1o05 That's what I try to tell this brother in the video. If you're marriage material, you're not marriage material. You also need to find a woman who doesn't want to marry you either. They're out there. I've seen plenty of women who don't want to be tied down and see marriage as prison. I would just ask that you and the guy in the video leave women who want to get married alone. Those women, myself included, have a different values system.

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss I can see you care a lot about this subject. you are right if somebody doesn't want to get married there's anybody can say to make them do this. i have to ask how are the reasons you gave any benefit for a man to get married. most of these reasons you gave are reasons for women not men if you really think about it. besides the type of men that would find half of these as reasons to get married are men that i suggest are the type of men that women shouldn't want to be married to

[warlock4hm]

in the 1st place. let's look at what are saying with your reasons:

1) man that's getting arrested all the time

2) your man doesn't have a good job with benefits

3) so your man is jail all the time

4) loser guy hasn't built anything for himself so bad that he doesn't have good credit

5) you're with a man that is irresponsible, doesn't have a job and doesn't take care of his kids

6) men die before women almost 90% of the time (woman's benefit from this not men)

7) if we are together 15 yrs

[warlock4hm]

her family is my family (btw even if you are married the in laws can still take you to court and get an injunction) we make the choice together

8) b/c of the P/C world in which you now live in your employer gives you that time now anyway even if your not married

9) why would i be upset about money going to our kids to take care of them instead of coming to me, that makes no sense

10) the money is coming back into the same household

11) happens if you are married also. even if she is

[warlock4hm]

attacking you. check with your local police on that fact

12) Really??!! your reaching

13/14) if we are together for 6+ yrs and have kids together all of this would be set up already with legal documents

15) see reason 13/14

16) if we are together in a happy 6+ yrs why would they want be to be removed ( another doesn't make sense)

17) see reason 6 ( woman reason, not men. men are looking to be set up for by the death of their spouse, men make sure family is taken care of

18) see 17

[WhereYaBoss]

@warlock4hm dude just don't get married then. If you don't want to don't. I DON'T Care. You're irrelevant to me.

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss once again i agree with you point about not getting married if you don't want to. i don't want to be relevant to you. i simply just asked you a question about what you posted.

am i wrong for this question about you past comments?

[WhereYaBoss]

@warlock4hm Sir, please direct any further commentary to the desperate women who allowed you to make illegitimate kids with them. I do not support that lifestyle. If you don't want to get married, don't. But please be sure to chase after women who don't want to be married either. You can usually spot them with their offspring and the absence of a wedding band. You have plenty of options. The real title of this video should be "If you are a woman looking to make illegitimate kids, hit me up!"

[WhereYaBoss]

Please, Surreal, keep in mind none of this was written to convince you to get married. I already told you I don't think YOU should get married. I've only written this out because you asked me for a list of benefits to marriage. All I'm doing is giving you the list you asked for. But for real, do NOT get married. You're not marriage material. You really shouldn't get married. For real! Even if my list makes sense to you. Please don't do it. You're not cut out for it...

[WhereYaBoss]

(14) If you get a call that your live-in girlfriend is unconscious in the ER the doctors can not give you any information about her medically. (15) You cant sign for her get so much as a blood transfusion if she needs one (16) Her parents can ask that you not be allowed to visit and have you removed (17) If you two own a house together and she dies her grown children can sue to have the house sold so that they can retain their inheritance from the sell of the house. (18) No Inheritance tax

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss 14.or 13.I would secure the info or be escorted with a loved one of blood relation. I assume if we're together for like 4 years , I'm pretty cool with her folks.

14.wouldnt her mom or other relative sign for it and if they could not be located in time do you think they would let her die on the table...C'mon. She would receive the transfusion without my signature...again a point not worth mentioning.

15.If those are her parents wishes it'll suck but again, what are the odds of that.

[DaSurreal1da]

@DaSurreal1da the order will be rescinded as soon as she regains conciousness.

17. That is a risk you endure in ANY joint financial venture such as buying a house or starting a business not exclusive to marriage. I prefer the traditional method myself.I buy a house free and clear and my family moves into it.You know, the method all of mankind was using up until the last 30 years or so.It worked for a really long time....Im glad my vid inspired you to devote so much time to respond. I'm honored.

[WhereYaBoss]

@DaSurreal1da I'm glad you knocked down those benefits. Which they are benefits. But you wouldn't see them as benefits because you don't want to get married. Like I said, if a person is not worthy of marriage there is no benefit. But if you are marrying the right person there is plenty. Homie, stay single. Keep going from one ghetto love affair to the next complete with illegitimate kids & babymama dramas. You won't be alone. There's plenty of people doing the same thing. It's nothing new.

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss Most men wouldnt see them as benefits enough to warrant the risks of potential divorce which is 75% of the time initiated by the woman.You can call me all the names you want,most men reading this will identify your "advantages" as weak.Because I can identify the weakness in your "benefits" i'm not "marriage material"and a whole host of other names. I mean really, a say in a blood transfusion as a legitimate reason to get married..being able to pass through customs.Who are you foolin

[warlock4hm]

@DaSurreal1da you know what is so sad is that people on here that are disagreeing with you or coming on here saying wrong can't answer the question. they keep giving answer that are benefits for kids and women to get married not men.

under the american system it's all about money. you need to pay the government for a license. once you get this license it signed by the person who marry you. that person than sends it to the Secretary of state for where you are. 

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss Your Logic is still amuses me...........

[WhereYaBoss]

@DaSurreal1da And your logic is very run-of-the-mill. Most black men look down on marriage, too, so I'm not surprised that you will not marry your baby's mother. It would not befuddle me if your children don't have your last name. I see it all of the time. It's actually a broken record playing over and over again in the hood. The same desparate women keeping taking up with men who don't believe in committing to them. It's the reason behind all those fatherless homes. And you're right on course.

[warlock4hm]

@DaSurreal1da you know what is so sad is that people on here that are disagreeing with you or coming on here saying wrong can't answer the question. they keep giving answer that are benefits for kids and women to get married not men.

under the american system it's all about money. you need to pay the government for a license. once you get this license it signed by the person who marry you. that person than sends it to the Secretary of state for where you are.

[warlock4hm]

@DaSurreal1da That person than stamps it with a raised seal, this is the same process that you must do if you form a partnership for a business. (very romantic) now if the business partners want to end the partnership. They can sell the business and get out what they put in from the sale (meaning if when they started the business one partner put in 70% of the money and the other put in 30% that’s how the money from the sale of the business would be divided), the other way could be

[warlock4hm]

@DaSurreal1da that one partner doesn’t want to be in the business anymore. The other partner will pay them for their share or the business. They person no longer within the business is no longer getting any profits from the business. No marriage different story if a is man 70%, woman 30%, the divide is 50% the woman gains, man looses. We are no longer together the man has to pay money because you became accustomed to living certain lifestyle

[WhereYaBoss]

@warlock4hm And one other think... You cats on here are worried about paying alimony and the woman getting half as if you were James Cameron, lmao. Instead of seeing the downside of the divorce as incentive to keep your penis inside the marriage, you see it as a punishment. Men who don't cheat on their wives and know their roles as the head-of-the-household don't have to worry about paying child support, alimony or giving up half of their possessions. Remember that!

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss "Men who don't cheat on their wives and know their roles as the head-of-the-household don't have to worry about paying child support, alimony or giving up half of their possessions." still get divorced an guess what they have pay everything you said the don't (remember i said man should always pay child for children that are his)

number reason for divorce in america is not cheating it's MONEY.

but since YOU brought up cheating did you the in november 2010 ny was the last state

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss to make no fault divorce legal. it's taken about 40yrs for every state to past this law. this was started be feminist the 1960's. for those of you that don't know what a no fault divorce. before no fault divorce if a man or woman wanted a divorce they had to have a reason why and prove it in court. problem with this was that when men filed for divorce and prove their cases no matter how long they were married to a woman the could get the divorce without paying alimony. feminist

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss believed this was unfair and came up the no fault divorce law. which simply states you can get a divorce whenever you want without having to give a reason.

fast forward if i catch my wife in bed with another man and want a divorce, b/c of NO FAULT DIVORCE her cheating is not a topic i can bring up in the divorce. since i make 2x what she make i have to pay her alimony. don't it is at least fair in that if you're a man and you wife more that you then she has to pay you alimony

[DaSurreal1da]

@warlock4hm Intriguing Point...

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss but being realistic most men are not married to women that more money then the do.

back to one last point you made. men should only be upset if they're paying james cameron type money. so if a guy only has $1 to his name he shouldn't upset that he has give away half of b/c it not like he's giving half of 10 million.

so your also saying that if your rich you shouldn't get married than you really have do have something to loose

if that's not what meant please do correct me

[WhereYaBoss]

@warlock4hm Honey, don't get married. Have you some illegitimate kids and figure out how to dodge child support. Because that's where you are headed.

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss how do you get i want to and i'm promoting " figuring a way to dodge child support", from any of my statement, when i have said more than once that a man should pay child support for children that are his? how come pretty never comment on questions that are asked by anybody here other than the list of 18 reason? you use the same general post back, DaSurreal1da and myself have given facts about the system american system that is broken. many men want to fix that. are these men

[DaSurreal1da]

@warlock4hm Your good points fall on deaf ears...

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss for wanting everything to be fair. he's something for you to think about. do we agree that kids should be raised and brought in the family where they are wanted and they should be given every chance possible to have a good life. i live in nyc, we have all kinds of things going on here. i'm a child service worker. i get all kinds of cases with families here. there are so many government programs that reward people for being irresponsible. here many young ladies have kids so they

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss can get what is known a tier 2 apt. the state puts in them apts with rent = 1000+ a month 2,3, and 4 br places that state will always pay as long as she can't afford it. to get these apts they can't be married or have the kids father living with them. from what you have written i bet that agree with that no child should be had so that some one can get an apartment. but in this current system we reward such selfish behavior. start looking at the big picture as man i can never

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss understand what you go thought as woman when you give birth. i can sympathize but i'll never truly be able to get it. as woman can you look at the american legal system from a man's view, based on the way it now. if we turned all these laws around and put them on women they way they are on would it still be right and fair? take a look objectively at that the american legal system is it broken,fair and just for everybody? i think your smart woman this is why i ask this question of u.

[warlock4hm]

@WhereYaBoss please no respond don't again just don't get married. because what i am asking you is based on the big picture.

other than that have a safe and happy new year

[WhereYaBoss]

@warlock4hm I'm telling you that for your own good. If you are overly concerned with what happens during a divorce someone like you shouldn't get married. Unless you plan on cheating and slacking throughout your marriage divorce is not inevitable. The only people who get divorce are the ones cheating and slacking when it comes to their role as husband or wife. Other than that people stay married until one of them dies. Most people who get divorce should not have gotten married to begin with.

[warlock4hm]

@DaSurreal1da ( if you live in California if you are married for 10yrs you pay alimony for life or until she remarries). So if I get quit my job 5 days a week (woman files for divorce). I get paid a check from my job every Friday. I no longer work(we are not married anymore, she no longer for her husband that she did as a wife) there but since I have become accustomed to getting a check from them the job I don’t work for anymore. how is american law fair for men to get married anybody tell me?

[DaSurreal1da]

@warlock4hm I m glad you get my point brother.Thanks for feedback.

[WhereYaBoss]

(9) If your live-in dies in an accident and a lawsuit follows you can not recover any of the damages...It will go to her children, her parents or her siblings. Not you! (10) You both can not claim tax deductons for your children each year unless you are filing as a MARRIED couple (11)Your live-in can have you forcibily removed from her home at anytime all she has to do is pick up the phone and dial 911 (12) If your wife is foreign born she should could pass thru US customs with you. Want more?

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss 9.If my live in dies and her kids get the money, as an established member of the family(Me acting as their natural father) I would be happy that they receive the money.

10.there are plenty of tax deductions available for me that dont endanger large chunks of my assets.

11.If she moves in with me it works both ways. I have no plans on moving in to my wifeys home. in an optimum situation she'll move into mine.

12.is this an advantage worth mentioning?...C'mon..thats weak

12.

[WhereYaBoss]

I think there are plenty of benefits to being married to the right person. But if you are married to the wrong person there isn't any. If you can't come up with any benefits on your own then don't get married. Why do you need to be convinced to get married? Surreal, YOU should stay single. You shouldn't even be thinking about marriage. You should focus on being the best baby daddy that you can be.

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss So plentiful that you cant name 5. Just five good reasons for an average dude in love for him to marry legally. what are his advantages that can only gained through a legal marriage.Do these "advantages" then outweigh the dis advantages of marriage and possible divorce. Its a simple cost benefit analysis. I only asked your opinion because logical discussions about this subject interest me. So what are those 5 reasons again?....

[WhereYaBoss]

@DaSurreal1da Here's some more (7) If your live-in is on life support you have no say in what happens to her. If her mom wants to pull the plug she CAN no matter how you feel about it. (8)If your wife dies your employer has to give you beaverment time, but not if she's a live-in (9) And the parents can fight you for custody of your own kids afterwards because you are not married to her (8) If you grow old together and she dies first you can continue to get her social security & pension, etc...

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss 7.I cant imagine my family who would make that decision would have a conflict with my wife on the subject. Hospitals also make you sign advance directives for such an occasion.

8. most dudes arent looking for a check if there wife dies. As a man, you become used to providing for yourself and realize such benefits are hardly a boon worth considering in an circumstance.Also, how likely is that to happen in the first place. Im guessing less than 1% unless you can prove otherwise.

[WhereYaBoss]

@WhereYaBoss OMG! I did name 5. Not only did I name them I gave you the ways in which you could relate it to your life. Here's a recap: (1) Wives can't testify against their husbands (2) You can be added to you Wife's health insurance (3) Conjugal visits (4) You can use her credit (5) Her wages can pay your child support payment if a judge orders it. And here's a bonus (6) You can take out a life policy on her

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss Why these answers are weak, to me. Just to me.

1.good benefit for those with a criminal lifestyle. not the average dudes prob

2.good benefit of cats with no insurance. Most of the time the wife is on the dudes insurance. Google it

3.refer to anti reason 1

4.I have my own credit. the average dude with integrity is fine and is not looking to benefit off his wifes credit.

5.I have no kids.

6. that is the motive of a sociopath, how revealing...

[WhereYaBoss]

I don't think YOU should get married, DaSurreal1da. I don't anyone woman should want to be with you. But I know you will attract some desparate woman who will think she can change you. I just hope you will tell her from the gate that you are not marrying her. I mean say it just like that, "I'm NOT marrying you." This way you only get the desparate ones because this will be Kryptonite to a good woman. She will know right away that you are only looking to make illegitimate kids and run!

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss Personal attacks are a cool way to avoid the question. When you're done bashing me I would still like to know 5 advantages for men to marry legally.

[WhereYaBoss]

@DaSurreal1da Sure, and I'll put them in 'hood' terms so you can relate: (1) If your ass gets arrested and she's an eye-witness the prosecution can't force her to testify against you (2) When your ass gets locked up you can get conjugal visits (3) If she has health insurance and you don't, you can get coverage when you get shot (4) You can use her credit since yours is ruined (5) When your babymama pulls your brokeass for support they can make your wife pay it. um, How's that for starters?

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss These are your reasons!?..Really!?........Do you not see why your logic is amusing to me after posts like this.

[R1o05]

@WhereYaBoss What about young girls or divorced women? What are five benefits to a man getting married? Most people marry the wrong people and for the wrong reasons. Why do you think the divorce rates are so high and why cheating for both married women and men so high?

Can you name five?

[WhereYaBoss]

@R1o05 See my response to Dasurreal1da for the "5 Reasons WHY a thugass should at least think about marriage"....

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss Your answers are a joke because you dont have any valid reasons its in a males advantage to get married. Your insults dont fool me. Your misplaced rage clouds your logic thats why I find it funny. I simply made a vid asking for good reasons for a man to get married and what i get from you are things like "conjugal visits and enjoying her insurance benefits etc..."These reasons are weak and are only meant to offend.Its ok if you dont have any real reasons, just say so

[WhereYaBoss]

@DaSurreal1da HEY! Those were all very valid reasons for a thug to at least consider marriage, lol. But honestly, I don't think you should get married. You aren't marriage material If you're not marriage material, you're not marriage material. I think you did the right thing by coming to terms with it. I support your decision not to get married. I dont think people who feel the way you do about marriage should NOT be married. I think you should find a woman who feels exactly like you do.

[DaSurreal1da]

@WhereYaBoss Yes, Its because I'm not "marriage material" I shouldnt get married rather than the idea than there are no benefits to the average man to get married....Its because I'm not marriage material you continue to hurl insults at me rather than just address the point. Your attacks only show your maturity. Like I said, If you dont have any reasons as to why its in a dudes advantage to marry , just admit it.You dont have to win them all .You'll get'em next time. I believe in you.

[WhereYaBoss]

@DaSurreal1da, I gave you a list of benefits and you shrugged them off. If you see no "benefit" in being married then, yes, that means you are not marriage material. All men are not cut out for it. I think that's good that you've come to terms with it. Your kids won't get married either. They will follow in your foot steps. It's called the break down of the family unit. It's nothing new. See it everywhere. Kids having babies at 15, they don't believe in marriage either. It starts somewhere.

[BValchan]

Well for every guy who thinks like you, I hope there's a woman who will NEVER have children...Afterall, bringing children into the world & raising them is *more* of a pain & burden to women than it is the men, so why even do it?

This way the human race will eventually die off due to it's collectively self-serving mentality.

[R1o05]

@BValchan What does that even mean? People can still raise children together without being married, my mom and dad did it. And lived together too.

I wouldn't want the human race to die off, people have to just wake up

[BValchan]

@R1o05 It meant exactly what I said...Do you have any idea the physical & aesthetic toll that carrying, birthing, nursing & raising children takes on the female body? Women with children are referred to as "used up" & "damaged goods"....In the grand scheme of things, procreation doesn't benefit women @ all...So why do it? The author's logic is that he shouldn't go through with something if it won't benefit him in the longrun which is fine, but I hope more women take this stance as well.

[R1o05]

@BValchan Depends on what type of man your dealing with. Older men don't mind women with kids. As far as procreation is concerned, that's what both men and women were made for.

Procreation creates more people, people get together, builds relationships and affects eachothers lives.

If women stop having kids, we all die out. We wouldn't be talking with eachother right now if that was the case. There wouldn't be any life if everything to stop procreating.

Life is good. Marriage is flawed.

[BValchan]

@R1o05 Marriage is flawed, but so are men & women in general so apparently we *shouldn't* exist....Btw, I've known people who make marriage work; it's not impossible, and life isn't so good to all the kids born into this world with no fathers in thier lives and parents that used them as anchors, not parents who genuinely wanted them to build a family structure with and planned them.

[R1o05]

@BValchan I was actually surprised that you have these thoughts in you. You've very beautiful... I would think that you'd like for more people to be around to argue with.

Could you imagine? No life? No Sex, No Love, No Movies, No music, No Growth at all. Nothing.

[BValchan]

@R1o05 "You've very beautiful..."

Thanks

"Could you imagine? No life? No Sex, No Love, No Movies, No music, No Growth at all. Nothing"

Well, the human race will *probably* die out eventually anyway for a myriad of other reasons...By the time that actually happens you & I will be dead sooo *shrugs*. I mean, I don't nessacarily *want* that to happen, but hey who can stop it?

[TheBigBadWoIf]

@BValchan well that aint gonna happen b/c women know kids are a way to get (a) government cheese, (b) child support from the baby daddy or (c) all of the above.

[TheLou28]

Key word "Pre-nup"

[R1o05]

I'm young, 19. So hell naw, why get married. I don't think men should get married before the age of 30. Maybe in my late 30s or 40s. If I do get married, prenup has to be signed.

What's funny is women call signing a prenup is un-romantic, but how is signing you're marriage license romantic? it's only romantic when you know you legally own half of my shit. lol.

[R1o05]

I can't find three things good for a man to get married. If a woman wants to get married then we can just tell people married, have a wedding and not sign the registration forms. Who cares if the state doesn't recognize us as married? People who do polygamy in the states do that, so they won't go to jail for having multiple wives.

[DaSurreal1da]

@R1o05 Good points.