I admire the hell out of you for being honest, true to yourself, and doing what's right for you no matter what. You're a strong person and i look up to you for that.
The hardest thing with losing someone you love is dealing with the why. We are in pain because we cant figure out how, what or why things went wrong. I know when I went through my stuff this advice helped me the most: People tell you who they are very early on, but its up to us if we want to listen. that Sounds easy but the problem is when your falling in love with someone its easy to ignore the bad things they tell us because we see the things that we love about them.
I would personally not spend time with the person anymore, or even talk to him/her and just dump it behind. Been in almost the same situation, i know the feeling it sucks and feels like you wasted your time on nothing. Personally, i never got the point of marriege but hey im only 19....
I would personally not spend time with the person anymore, or even talk to him/her and just dump it behind. Been in almost the same situation, i know the feeling it sucks and feels like you wasted your time on nothing. Personally, i never got the point of marriege but hey im only 19....
Once upon a time, I fell madly in love with a guy who I would [later] classify as a "compulsive liar." When you say 'he'd lie about things that didn't even matter,' that really reminded me of what was so odd about it. One day I found out he had been unfaithful, and lied about it to me. I struggled with whether I should forgive him; whether his abounding love made up for his weird habit/compulsion. I really tried, but the truth is when you can't trust your partner, there is no relationship. DTMFA
Hey Misti im not married or anything but i do know its difficult to figure out what to do in a situation like that and all i can say is too fallow your heart and do what you think is right, hang in there you'll be ok :)
On the plus side, I think a beautiful beach like that would be the ideal place to escape for a bit and just relax and try to work things out in your mind. But that's shitty that your relationship with your husband took a bad turn. Like others have commented here, I feel that once the trust has been broken, there's no going back. People try to mend the broken spots, and more often than not, things just get worse. You're an awesome girl, Misti! Things will work themselves out. Always do. =-)
I can relate to everything you are going through and would like to say more but not on an open channel. YouTube message me and I will be more than happy to respond with advice.
Can t really help you on this. Don t know the real you or him. But I am a fan and like your smile. So my advise is do what will bring it back and keep it there. Good tought to you and try to enjoy yourself on this trip. Do somting for you.
That level of commitment cannot be without trust from both parties. I've seen many couples be married briefly (for the wrong reasons to begin with but that's another topic of discussion), because at the first sign of adversity they throw in the towel. Because it's not easy. It's not supposed to be! Great works of art, music, or just creation in general take an incredible amount of energy, time, and all sorts of emotion. The same can be said about a marriage. No one can answer this for you excep
JMO. Marriage has definitely become a mere label nowadays. There seems to be no sanctity behind it's symbolism. It's almost like it's become an activity that a couple who have been going steady, proceed with, just to maintain a level of infatuation. Now I don't know your husband or yall's history. All I know is I believe that a marriage is a sacred pact between a couple that devote themselves to live the rest of their lives together because they whole heartedly love each other. That level of co
Sorry. It Happened to me. I dont know circumstances of your situation, so all i can do is share some details of mine, and hope you take something from it. My GF cheated on me, physically and emotionally. The person she did it with was someone we both knew. The thing that hurt the most is that she did it because of an assumed infidelity on my part, which never happened. Anyways, all that mattered to me was the breach of trust. Once that happens, thats it. If i can't trust you, i cant be with you.
I admire you for sharing this with everyone. It must be really hard to deal with. I wish you the best. And remember, you have the strength to make your own decisions on this. Just do what is right for you. We all love you for being such an honest person. Keep your head up.
I agree with the people on here who have been saying that this is something you need to evaluate on your own. The only people who know the full extent of that situation are YOU and your husband so its up to the both of you to let it be known what YOU want in marriage. The most I can say is if YOU truly believe his lying habits won't change then the two of you probably shouldn't be together, but like I said this situation has to be evaluated and solved by YOU. God Bless and Good Luck.
Trust is maybe the most important thing in a relationship, maybe even more than love. If thats gone its tough but in your husbands defence it sounds like hes being childish and self centred but id think he still loves you and will realise hes being silly and won't want to lose you. What ever you do I wish you luck, your brave opening up to us!
I believe an emotional affair is far worse than a physical one. I think you deserve to find someone who will adore you. Leave this guy and find someone who will worship you
There's no advise that we can give you....nothing that u dont already know. u need to talk to him, ask him to stop talking to that girl, if he chooses to continue to talk to that girl,well..you should leave him and get a divorce. its a hard decision, but if he doesnt love you the same way u love him, then leave him. the longer u are together, the more suffering there will be.
Not married but people that broke my heart and my trust are not welcome back in.
you started a new life, a new year and now you should start seeing someone else or take a break for a while then bounce back.
He betrayed your trust, the way i see it you should divorce him, because its bound to happen again, Start over.
you're a gorgeous, nice and funny gal, im sure you wont have problems finding a new man and you look like a strong women so don't let this hold you back, you'll think of something!
Its over,just move on he's a scumbag. Life's too short enjoy it and have fun and take a break from all the seriousness for a while. Good luck and i hope u feel better sweets. U deserve better.
i really feel like killing him.....how could he....i dont know him, and i dont know much about ur relationship, but if i ever meet him on the streets, i'll kill him.
I was married once myself. There is nothing I can say to help make that kind of betrayal feel better. But believe me when I say that if they will lie to you about one thing, they are willing to lie about more. Self respect is more important then love. Don't let your need for the feeling of love override your self respect or your sense of worth that is willing to demand respect from others.
I don't think any excuse for cheating makes it ok. Could things be the same again? Maybe. Could he do the same again? Most definitely. If he wanted attention from you so bad why couldn't he tell YOU, his wife. Instead of declaring his love to some hoochie momma .
Trust is something I struggle with, regardless of who it is. If someone cheats, to me, that's it. No second chances. I can't really say much because I don't know how ur relationship was with ur husband, but I notice, a lot of the reasons people cheat/divorce lately is because at the core, they really didn't "love" each other.
okay last thing when I said define your relationship. U need to ask yourself what kind of relationship do U want. Marriage, girl friend and boy friend or BFWB are just words untill U can define them in your relationship. before getting back into it is a good idea to write down what U want & C what he want. U should have a lot of the same if not then U might want to rethink the whole thing. their are many marriage out there that have different understanding from what U C in a marriage
You need to figure out what's best for you. No one else can really tell you because no one else can understand your situation as well as you can. You need to assess whether or not your relationship is worth saving and if you can build up trust again. Above all stay strong and do whatever you feel is best for you.
You look so sad... I just want to give you a big hug... As for advices, sadly, I don't have much, I've never been in that situation myself... But I can give you my full support! 'hoping you'll feel better soon!
I hope that can give U a little idea where to start i know its hard and it hurt but there is a better days coming. The saying if it happens once it will happen again. but it seem most people don't understand that or want to accept it. No one can tell you how to handle this just give you ideas that either will help or make things worst. so take your time & try to think clearly & not your feeling over power you decision. if U love some1 no need to every lie or cheat. define your relationship
I am sorry to hear that U R going through this issue. I can offer a few things I hope they help. 1st glad that U R trying 2 work things out for yourself. 2nd ask yourself Y did U get married? & were these issues already present? My parents always told me this & it has always worked for me saving me a lot of pain and heartache relationship are not hard, people make them hard. they have been married over 50 years. That line during your vows 4 better or worst does not mean when U cheat.
That 1 dislike, it's either the husband or girl he found online.
MrXlukasX 6 days ago
Hmm... Sad
Thank you for sharing and i hope someone of us cold cheer u up a bit..
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thejmsfreak 2 weeks ago
Next month. JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY!
TrollsRUsGriefing 2 weeks ago
give him a chance, but tell him he has to acknowledge what he did and never do that again. everyone deserves one chance.
lindarithchhay 3 weeks ago
I admire the hell out of you for being honest, true to yourself, and doing what's right for you no matter what. You're a strong person and i look up to you for that.
dynamicforce21 3 weeks ago
I'm so sorry :(
Hakuru15 4 weeks ago
i cant listen to your videos with out imagining you with HUGE boobs. not complaining. lol, sorry about your husband :'(
rambo7149 4 weeks ago
The hardest thing with losing someone you love is dealing with the why. We are in pain because we cant figure out how, what or why things went wrong. I know when I went through my stuff this advice helped me the most: People tell you who they are very early on, but its up to us if we want to listen. that Sounds easy but the problem is when your falling in love with someone its easy to ignore the bad things they tell us because we see the things that we love about them.
returntoglory79 1 month ago
You're freaking awesome!!! Come to Austin, Texas already!!
TuRb0time 1 month ago
Im sorry to hear that I wish you the best of luck
TheMingos1386 1 month ago
This makes me sad. Sorry.
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I would personally not spend time with the person anymore, or even talk to him/her and just dump it behind. Been in almost the same situation, i know the feeling it sucks and feels like you wasted your time on nothing. Personally, i never got the point of marriege but hey im only 19....
Im sure you will find someone better.
GamingCrow 1 month ago
I would personally not spend time with the person anymore, or even talk to him/her and just dump it behind. Been in almost the same situation, i know the feeling it sucks and feels like you wasted your time on nothing. Personally, i never got the point of marriege but hey im only 19....
Im sure you will find someone better.
GamingCrow 1 month ago
no trust = no relationship.
skwiggs 1 month ago
Once upon a time, I fell madly in love with a guy who I would [later] classify as a "compulsive liar." When you say 'he'd lie about things that didn't even matter,' that really reminded me of what was so odd about it. One day I found out he had been unfaithful, and lied about it to me. I struggled with whether I should forgive him; whether his abounding love made up for his weird habit/compulsion. I really tried, but the truth is when you can't trust your partner, there is no relationship. DTMFA
rebexab 1 month ago
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JRemrey 1 month ago
@rebexab Thumbs up for Dan Savage-isims!
JRemrey 1 month ago
Hey Misti im not married or anything but i do know its difficult to figure out what to do in a situation like that and all i can say is too fallow your heart and do what you think is right, hang in there you'll be ok :)
metal576 1 month ago
Don't let him drag you down. You have potential to do anything Misti. I hope Jamaica helps you relax. :)
SkyrimTutorials 1 month ago
On the plus side, I think a beautiful beach like that would be the ideal place to escape for a bit and just relax and try to work things out in your mind. But that's shitty that your relationship with your husband took a bad turn. Like others have commented here, I feel that once the trust has been broken, there's no going back. People try to mend the broken spots, and more often than not, things just get worse. You're an awesome girl, Misti! Things will work themselves out. Always do. =-)
Ninkyo893 1 month ago
I can relate to everything you are going through and would like to say more but not on an open channel. YouTube message me and I will be more than happy to respond with advice.
shadis777 1 month ago
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sssnaky 1 month ago
Can t really help you on this. Don t know the real you or him. But I am a fan and like your smile. So my advise is do what will bring it back and keep it there. Good tought to you and try to enjoy yourself on this trip. Do somting for you.
sssnaky 1 month ago
I've been in your position but i can`t let my love go so by the time pass he probably realyze his mistake and if u want u can take him back
NikiroBG 1 month ago
@HereForGamez what a jerk -.-' hang in there misti
GALAKTIKOS93 1 month ago
do what your heart tells you but just know you derserve better than that. the beach looks amazing like you misti
AlfonsoFere 1 month ago
No one can answer this for you except you. Listen only to YOUR heart. You'll be alright.
SouthpawJonJon 1 month ago
That level of commitment cannot be without trust from both parties. I've seen many couples be married briefly (for the wrong reasons to begin with but that's another topic of discussion), because at the first sign of adversity they throw in the towel. Because it's not easy. It's not supposed to be! Great works of art, music, or just creation in general take an incredible amount of energy, time, and all sorts of emotion. The same can be said about a marriage. No one can answer this for you excep
SouthpawJonJon 1 month ago
JMO. Marriage has definitely become a mere label nowadays. There seems to be no sanctity behind it's symbolism. It's almost like it's become an activity that a couple who have been going steady, proceed with, just to maintain a level of infatuation. Now I don't know your husband or yall's history. All I know is I believe that a marriage is a sacred pact between a couple that devote themselves to live the rest of their lives together because they whole heartedly love each other. That level of co
SouthpawJonJon 1 month ago
Who. In the correct mind. Would cheat on you? Even if it is emotional cheating. You are freaking beautiful. It will work out. It always does.
jasyn197 1 month ago
Hang in there girl!! You'll get through it...
27AznBoy 1 month ago
Hang in there Misti. Your tweeps love you~
triplexjeff 1 month ago
this is really sad. sorry to hear you are going through this
RedLeaderIV 1 month ago
im sorry for the situation, but if it makes u smile ill marry u!
oM3NS0o 1 month ago
Sorry. It Happened to me. I dont know circumstances of your situation, so all i can do is share some details of mine, and hope you take something from it. My GF cheated on me, physically and emotionally. The person she did it with was someone we both knew. The thing that hurt the most is that she did it because of an assumed infidelity on my part, which never happened. Anyways, all that mattered to me was the breach of trust. Once that happens, thats it. If i can't trust you, i cant be with you.
kimbrkitty 1 month ago
I admire you for sharing this with everyone. It must be really hard to deal with. I wish you the best. And remember, you have the strength to make your own decisions on this. Just do what is right for you. We all love you for being such an honest person. Keep your head up.
d3m3nt3djohn 1 month ago
awe :( Hang in there Misti
Avarice176 1 month ago
I agree with the people on here who have been saying that this is something you need to evaluate on your own. The only people who know the full extent of that situation are YOU and your husband so its up to the both of you to let it be known what YOU want in marriage. The most I can say is if YOU truly believe his lying habits won't change then the two of you probably shouldn't be together, but like I said this situation has to be evaluated and solved by YOU. God Bless and Good Luck.
Dvill1 1 month ago
Stay Strong.
yaniv24 1 month ago
Trust is maybe the most important thing in a relationship, maybe even more than love. If thats gone its tough but in your husbands defence it sounds like hes being childish and self centred but id think he still loves you and will realise hes being silly and won't want to lose you. What ever you do I wish you luck, your brave opening up to us!
MrMustardfinger 1 month ago
I believe an emotional affair is far worse than a physical one. I think you deserve to find someone who will adore you. Leave this guy and find someone who will worship you
bigmike99s 1 month ago
There's no advise that we can give you....nothing that u dont already know. u need to talk to him, ask him to stop talking to that girl, if he chooses to continue to talk to that girl,well..you should leave him and get a divorce. its a hard decision, but if he doesnt love you the same way u love him, then leave him. the longer u are together, the more suffering there will be.
TheXDexX 1 month ago
Not married but people that broke my heart and my trust are not welcome back in.
you started a new life, a new year and now you should start seeing someone else or take a break for a while then bounce back.
He betrayed your trust, the way i see it you should divorce him, because its bound to happen again, Start over.
you're a gorgeous, nice and funny gal, im sure you wont have problems finding a new man and you look like a strong women so don't let this hold you back, you'll think of something!
EDDIEinWAR 1 month ago
This make anyone else tear up a little?
AntiProTheory 1 month ago
Its over,just move on he's a scumbag. Life's too short enjoy it and have fun and take a break from all the seriousness for a while. Good luck and i hope u feel better sweets. U deserve better.
bladdermetal 1 month ago
:'(
AntiProTheory 1 month ago
life is too short, you deserve more.
HIareUmad 1 month ago
How on earth could anyone cheat on you? o.O confusing, your so beautiful >.<
fuxkinclassy 1 month ago
why is your husband having a affair , while you are is wife ?
some peole don't know what they're missing , after losing someone .
just be strong , everybody here just wants to help you , because we love your videos and everything :)
theNerdGamer88 1 month ago
i really feel like killing him.....how could he....i dont know him, and i dont know much about ur relationship, but if i ever meet him on the streets, i'll kill him.
TheXDexX 1 month ago
I was married once myself. There is nothing I can say to help make that kind of betrayal feel better. But believe me when I say that if they will lie to you about one thing, they are willing to lie about more. Self respect is more important then love. Don't let your need for the feeling of love override your self respect or your sense of worth that is willing to demand respect from others.
Jena11aR 1 month ago
Sorry to hear your having a hard time, hopefully everything gets better soon.
1080yoda 1 month ago
...and watch out for sharks, i here they have a thing for gingers, just like i do :)
EngelNr666 1 month ago
i don't get it, how could anyone cheat on a redhead goddess like you, thats just crazy....fuck him, you can do better misti
EngelNr666 1 month ago
I don't think any excuse for cheating makes it ok. Could things be the same again? Maybe. Could he do the same again? Most definitely. If he wanted attention from you so bad why couldn't he tell YOU, his wife. Instead of declaring his love to some hoochie momma .
SinForgiven 1 month ago
Again, that's only my perspective. Don't take my word for it.
NeesDeep 1 month ago
Trust is something I struggle with, regardless of who it is. If someone cheats, to me, that's it. No second chances. I can't really say much because I don't know how ur relationship was with ur husband, but I notice, a lot of the reasons people cheat/divorce lately is because at the core, they really didn't "love" each other.
NeesDeep 1 month ago
My thoughts and prayers are with you....
JasperWalling 1 month ago
okay last thing when I said define your relationship. U need to ask yourself what kind of relationship do U want. Marriage, girl friend and boy friend or BFWB are just words untill U can define them in your relationship. before getting back into it is a good idea to write down what U want & C what he want. U should have a lot of the same if not then U might want to rethink the whole thing. their are many marriage out there that have different understanding from what U C in a marriage
mrtlc5 1 month ago
You need to figure out what's best for you. No one else can really tell you because no one else can understand your situation as well as you can. You need to assess whether or not your relationship is worth saving and if you can build up trust again. Above all stay strong and do whatever you feel is best for you.
bennewman25 1 month ago
You look so sad... I just want to give you a big hug... As for advices, sadly, I don't have much, I've never been in that situation myself... But I can give you my full support! 'hoping you'll feel better soon!
ChevaliersEmeraude 1 month ago
I hope that can give U a little idea where to start i know its hard and it hurt but there is a better days coming. The saying if it happens once it will happen again. but it seem most people don't understand that or want to accept it. No one can tell you how to handle this just give you ideas that either will help or make things worst. so take your time & try to think clearly & not your feeling over power you decision. if U love some1 no need to every lie or cheat. define your relationship
mrtlc5 1 month ago
I am sorry to hear that U R going through this issue. I can offer a few things I hope they help. 1st glad that U R trying 2 work things out for yourself. 2nd ask yourself Y did U get married? & were these issues already present? My parents always told me this & it has always worked for me saving me a lot of pain and heartache relationship are not hard, people make them hard. they have been married over 50 years. That line during your vows 4 better or worst does not mean when U cheat.
mrtlc5 1 month ago
Oh mannnn-.- There's people a lot worse of
kaNeeyO 1 month ago
Stay strong, do what You really want to.
Spetsnazas 1 month ago
First comment and view! Hey Misti how was Jamica ? I hope everything is going well for you.
cortes1988 1 month ago
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