Dating: Understanding Men : How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You

[TheBumblebeefy1]

Heff? ...Nah close tho.

[LukaSambuca]

The perfume thing is true. I've not heard of this guy before, but it's true. Most of my friends are guys and they are so weird about smell. I was talking to my best friend a few months ago and he said "I know your perfume. If I smell it it makes me think of you" And this guy isn't even my boyfriend.

[logotrix]

He looks so credible in his bathrobe.

[pink4life334]

falling through thin ice is a very cold experience .........what does that have to do with anything?

[lawshorizon]

I’m not a perfume fan – but the video got me thinking. I fall for her for no more reason than she fits some subconscious archetype of mine and she’s responsive to me. Not too complicated. An archetype … a smile … and a bond over time … that’s it. Unfortunately, things may change once I really get to know her.

[icechowder98]

I'm 13 year old girl and i really like this guy and we have this surten bond between us, but i think he just doesnt want to be with me and thats heartbreacking :c </3

[shangrila628]

@icechowder98 Maybe you should concentrate on your school a little bit more. It is not "surten",it's certain and there is no "c" in heartbreaking. Kids these days! SMH.

[UrwahK]

the last bit is soooo true.... everytime i smeel my girlfriends perfume i think of her <3

[JusDuckie]

Is this guy serious?

[2550505]

The only thing that women should change is

1. Their address

2. Their last name

[rapingpeterpan3]

Dr. Paul, do all guys think like you, or do you have some sort of perfume fetish or something? You push that "signature scent" alot. I am allergic to perfumes (am a girl, btw) on me or on others. I actually prefer the scent of a man over any bottled substitute or override. What percentage of guys would prefer his woman to smell like Chanel, and what percentage think she smells sweetest when all hot and sweaty from a night of magic? ~~Sadie

[supi6669]

@rapingpeterpan3 Hi Sadie you are totally right no artificial perfume can compete with the sweet scent of the skin

[lindalovesmusic1]

looking at some of these comments, I can't believe what I'm seeing. I find these videos from Dr. Paul to be very helpful. Please Dr. Paul, continue to do what you do. I have learned so much from you and thank you!

[lilsweeti13]

pretend that you want to get married, always helps

[TheFeistyWoman]

It's not always about how you make him feel, especially if he just ain't feelin it.

[mizzmonie100]

THE PERFUME IDEA IS GENIUS. I'm trying it for sure (:

[XPrincess30]

wait so that friend girl he has who he goes everywhere with with other guys!? he's gonna fall in love with her !? :*(

[XPrincess30]

HINT HINT bonding

[buggyluggy76]

hahah i have no life for watching this xD

[XPrincess30]

@buggyluggy76 join the club lolol

[da18vicky]

My God...thats 2:03 of life I will never get back....

[sshaCORE]

doesn't he gets tired of saying the introduction in every video?

[FreeAds4]

Don't forget to upload lots of videos and pictures with your beautiful face so the person will fall in love with you. If you're not seen you're forgotten.

[FreeAds4]

(cont.)

4) Ditch the guy and forget about him once you're tired of his silly jokes and no longer find him interesting.

5) Ignore his attempts to get back.

6) Find another fool and follow the same 5 steps.

[FreeAds4]

6 Basic Steps Girls:

1) First get one of your friends to go out with you on the first couple dates so it makes it look unsuspicious, informal and casual.

2) Then continue to flirt and follow the guy on twitter but pretend you're not overly interested..

3) Once you're sure that the fool has fallen for you and has an account on twitter practically just to talk to you, take the guy to the studio at night and give wings to your wild fantasies.

[linneaborgen1988]

Why is he talking like he's adressing a three year old? How to make a girl not fall in love with you. ;)

[Mzkenken365]

i really feel you on that



[istanbultravellers]

I want what he is drinking

[reddtrow3]

whatever...lmao



[Mackle12345]

inspirational dr paul!

[ic069]

This needs more views...

[Aj4evrable]

so that's why when we are still best friends he admitted that he liked me

[QtFlOwEr2]

you say keep the purfume cuz when he smells it on someone elae hes gonna think about you

well what if hes in love with someone else who happens to have the same purfume as you

so he smells it on you hes gonna be thinking about that other girl

oh yea i can be deep

[QtFlOwEr2]

@MilliVanilli2007 yay that means im a looser =D

[babysyiriah]

love it

[chabi3000]

say to him lets go have some fun and make some sexy time .. thats all

[made0041]

that's actually true, with women too. I always fall in love with guys, when they actually listen to what I say, when they have a special look on their face, their body language or even their smell..

[tumejorpose]

I'm slightly creeped that this is for "Boomer" girls...that's in my mom's age group. *shudder*

[birdbath318]

@tumejorpose Eh, this is good advice for every age.

[VooDooLynx]

He's so wasted.

[yanecaca1]

thank you. hunn

[Raevholl]

hahaha, good advide. But is he actually sitting there in a robe with a drink?!

[pink4life334]

what does falling thru thin ice have to do with making a man fall in love with u? why is he wearing a bath robe?

[XxXsaoirse1997XxX]

@pink4life334 well i heard a poem in school one time saying that a relationship and trust is like ice on a lake

: it gets stonger as u get towards the centre so he probably means dont lose your love over something small ?????? i dunno lol

[josssibarandr]

marginal value naughty ladies here mworld5.ino

[kapilakaliu]

single parent looking for love again naneedj.info

[dfgfhghfghj]

naughty Ladies waiting for some one mworld5.info

[nmckjoyuighlj]

Great Russian women for you lostlk.info

[LiterallyNoLife]

I love that drink he's always carrying around xD

[may22v84]

thank you so much for the advice Im so glad there is people like you to help us specially to those who are hopeless and bad at relationship! they could be the most prettiest and gorgeous men in earth but if someone doesnt know how to handle relationship it will all fail

[lahana24]

This guy is the bomb,he is so smooth, he has a wine glass in his hand and just talking smooth

[welhungjohnson]

Haha I tried the love thing once. I bought her flowers. Then she dumped me.

[EvilKris]

this guys got something so robotic about him it makes me laugh. good advice aside i can almost imagine when the video ends someone coming along and flicking a switch on the back of his head for Power Off.

[doctorw2]

now this is simple, when a man tells you he loves you that just usualy means he wants to have sex with you, now when a man opens car doors for you, ask you how you are doing, pays for your meal when you go out, and other selfless gestures this is a strong indication he loves you. you cant make anyone fall in love with you no matter what you may do.

[Peter200000000007]

Is it just me or is the wolf blanket just out of place........XD

[MegaAnime1000]

this guy always looks at me in class .

[Jackmyboylove]

Im definetly lovin the romantic canldes and satin clothing hahaha

[Mrs151Addison]

PIMP

[irishdude79]

this guy is a sleez ball

[juneride]

Why is he a sleaze ball? He is not teaching how to use women for sex. He teaches how to have manners and how to listen. Listen to him.

[cuteangie]

@juneride

lol! ur hilarious and true!!

[16bigred]

what a champ with a glass of wine and a robe haha pimpppp

[DaisyRihanna]

RIGHT

[fartedonyourface]

I'm a guy that had another guy last week for the first time and I felt something totally different than being with girls Im really into him but dunno if I'll ever see him again!!

[sarahdickybird]

is he pissed?

[oOKdLuvsOo]

I feel pathetic DX XD

[LadyWolfChild]

There's this handson guy i like, but the thing is i don't even have a sporting chance with him because hes famouse ANd an actor. But the reason i like him a lot is because of his modesty and of the person he allows himself to be, not just the fact that he's inteligent, handson, has a great body and is very sarcastic. sigh

[tombiddles]

if he is not single, you always have a chance, just say hi. that will make his day!

[MilliVanilli2007]

haha i like it

[Amandafoshoever]

dont spend to much time wishing you where with a famas guy it gets you no where >:/ unforchantly lol

[juneride]

Baby, you don't know him. You only know his characters. You invented him to worship.

Fall in love with a real man, not a fictitious character.

[xxxpunkoutxxx]

im dating this one guy who i thought was really sweet but hes a total jeark n then every now n again he'll b sweet...idk what i should do about him help?

[NeighboursAndBones09]

im in the same boat :( he makes me love him then hate him and he tells me he does it for fun! :@ lol

[kimchiman777]

he is playing around with you.  leave him and get a better one.

[TheK1N1]

@xxxpunkoutxxx Hes using the "hot and cold"-game on you to keep you in the position to always guessing what comes next! He trained you to stay hungry for his "nice phase". That way he got you in a position where you're always expecting and always ready for him, whenever he feels like it. Dont let yourself be manipulated like that! Show him that you're not willing to play his games and that he will lose you if he dares another time to act like a jerk.plain and simple

[SuperCrazyAngela]

There' this guy @ my school, and I'm not sure if he likes me. He's talked to be once or twice but he never talks to any girls and is SUPER shy. I'm not sure if he likes me because he doesn't really show any signs, but if i start talking about something to him, he kinda gets nervous and will say his answer but never goes further, I'm not sure if its just the shyness or if he likes me... :(

Cuz I do.

[KrystalKlear20]

Smile and talk to him more. Make him laugh. Guys like to be happy, especially around girls, I think. He'll pay attention to you more and he'll be more confident around you because he gets to know you more.

[KawaiibubblesAMVs]

i actually change my perfume every few days... it kinda makes him come over... dunno why but it works!

[peacheylansing1]

me either

[12questcrew]

omg i dont get it :/

[batmanwatchtower]

He barely scratches the surface of any topic he talks about. Way to short to get any benefit out of or even to start a interesting talk about. I'd like to hear regular guys talk about how they feel about : love, sex, and a female's nude body, etc. Now that would be interesting.

[dreamer4614]

so true

[peter56789101112]

Paul your a hit!

[plumpkinpatch]

haha I am cracking up. He is so funny

[dovey2186]

This guy is kind of creepy. His eyes just bore into you in a glazed manner. They never move and he rarely blinks. Wierd!

[sw33tbay]

Easiest way is Just Say "HI" to him at school or work.. that's will make a day for him..

:)

[VickiToriLee]

wtf?Oh my God..OH MY GOD!

[pansyinthegarden]

What on earth was that that I just watched? OMG he sounded like a guy who was giving sex education classes to teenagers.. LOL

[Faunatik]

Well, maybe a little bit, but I would by far have preferred to watch these videos while I was in highschool than all the heavy technical stuff they pushed down our throats that showed us too much and nothing at all at the same time...

[ayount93]

i've watched like three of these eHows and every episode, he talks about your "copyright" perfume......................h­eh??

[csifriendsscrubsfan]

can someone tell me what this means? this class in my class sits opposite me in one class and he always asks me what to do or something like that. it looks like he's just trying to make us have eye contact without anyone else on the table releasing. does he like me and is this a sign or am i seeing fake signs?

[AVagent007]

wow this suks im a dude and im watching this!! lol i send this to a gay friend of mine! LOLOLOLOLOOLOLOLOLOLOLOOLOLOLO­LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL SUBSCRIBE

[persianqu33n]

lol he's right!!!i use london by burberry haha

[emmettsgirlxoxo]

oh god...OH GOD!!

[suzanna626]

haha... stupidest thing ive ever heard!! NO USE!

[grimzil]

um...ew?

he looks like an old pimp.

[Kaylers069]

he probably is. ! hahaha

[LilBabi93]

@grimzil hugh hefner;D LOL!

[scorpiomooselove]

@grimzil he IS your old pimp :P haha jk

[SomebodyElseUser]

haha..so funny the way he pronounces every word like he,s saying something to a 5 year old...but anyway its great advice

[suppagal]

I can't bond with him, because we're never left alone thanks to my friends who also like him. We're all together in every activity lol!

[Happyemma1]

me 2 lol. he isnt a sort of........ man boy. well lets just say he like performing arts. but he hangs out in a lil group of girls n is always tlking to one of em if im in the room.

[Graple101]

what if the guy you like knows you like him? then what do you do?

[imyasmin]

good question iam in that same situation too if you find out what 2 do please tell me (seriously)

[ghfdjksa]

tell him but be the one to admitt it if your friends scuredit up tlak contact on youtube

oh i should know ima guy

[Happyemma1]

well tht happend to me. but then he started liking me back n it waz good. but its died out now but i still luv him 2 bits!

[Xi2edXi2ulvlXgl0]

well ur alot less icky then the other guy he was really trying to brain wash girls into slaves for there men but i dont know much abobut you & you might be just as icky but the clip was better