Binge Eating ep. 1 - Perceptions of Fat & Thin

[Lrdvltr]

Thumbed it down because potbellies are hot.

[moviemowdown]

@Lrdvltr You got my vote :3

[LadyBludgeon]

I could careless of how my company looks like and to tell you the truth I prefer overweight people. Most people who I know who are thin limit their eating habits...they're not fun at all. I'm 120 pounds yet I hang with people who are twice my size because I could eat with them and have an actual party with. Whereas thin people most of them are vegans and don't even eat cake. FUCK THOSE RETARDS!! Can you imagine a Super Bowl party without churrasco? Sorry I need to be around eaters not statues.

[Spartan01336]

@LadyBludgeon Why are you bothering all these people they are allowed to give their opinion, anyway it's clear that you obviously want to argue with someone over fat vs thin which is boring and unnecessary conversation wasting both persons time and energ. Now please stop trolling.

[Chigipauerful]

STOP making videos!!!!!

[Spartan01336]

in this world it doesnt matter if ure fat or thin for women it all depends on whether ure ugly or not and u are ugly

[LadyBludgeon]

@Spartan01336 True but then again... ugly is somethings linked or equate to being fat, so there is no difference. I would also point out that your statement is also true to men. :) For men it is about having the perfect abs, being tall, having a hairless body, have a nice set of hair on the head and be lean or you're fat ugly fuck. BTW, you're one ugly fat fuck, both inside and outside. >_> At least this person is overcoming her disorder you insensitive carbon shit!

[Spartan01336]

@LadyBludgeon I personally dont link ugly with being fat it just makes it worse for ugly people if they are fat which the girl in the vid is. BTW I maybe insensitive but that doesn't mean that I don't have a point in which she is wasting her time because her life is fucked from the start. Luvin how shes not bothering in this argument

[janglots]

i cant eat if im not hungry

[Sparroooooooooooow]

@KrisLawrence Hey, I hear your jooy dude! I also used that diet method suggested at the site WeightLossAction.Info.. And in just a couple of weeks, I lost a bunch of weight.. can't be more happier than that.. :)

[angelab1993]

U are SO right!

When i was anorexic, my parents were SO negative towards "thin" people, calling them "stupid tarts" etc- names they had called me for years before my ED began.

Now i binge daily and & am gaining weight fast because there's a part of me that thinks if i binge and gain weight like crazy, then they will be happy & love me because they just want me to be an obese cow.

Obviously this is not true, & i am simply getting fatter and fatter and fatter :( But i'm irrational, what can i say?

[angelab1993]

U are SO right!

When i was anorexic, my parents were SO negative towards "thin" people, calling them "stupid tarts" etc- names they had called me for years before my ED began.

Now i binge daily and & am gaining weight fast because there's a part of me that thinks if i binge and gain weight like crazy, then they will be happy & love me because they just want me to be an obese cow.

Obviously this is not true, & i am simply getting fatter and fatter and fatter :( But i'm irrational, what can i say?

[MsRoustine]

If you really really want to end this problem once and for all watch videos by josielenore. She has the only logical and reliable solution to the problem of binge eating. Do not try to find a solution where there is already one. Good lluck

[likevitani]

I´ve never wondered .. Do I in reality dont wanna lose weight? Made me think. Really related to me. Thank you so much! How are life for you at the moment?

[thelongsdaleguy]

Also people who say to themselves, 'If they cant like me for who i am then they dont have to go out with me screw them!' are hiding from being fat ok? When im older (15 now) im not going to want to go out with a fat person. Why? Because im not attracted to them, not because im shallow or a douche, but because its wierd and imbarrising being fat and saying anyone who is thin is a dick head is even worse. You just hiding from the reality. Being healthy is hard and if your lazy your life will suck.

[LadyBludgeon]

@thelongsdaleguy You're fucking 15!!! Who the fuck are you to be on youtube writing bullshit like that!? You don't know about real life you warm little shit. Wait till you grow colder and older. A good age would be your 30s, then you can call out and say shit like that.... but as for right now you're still living with your parents dumbass. You live a sad pathetic existence if you equate body image with happiness and your plate is very limited, you would be one boring fuck-tard!

[wsxp12345]

@LadyBludgeon WHO THE FUCK IS YOU! IM 14 AND I TELL PPL CRAP

[thelongsdaleguy]

Ok this is my full opinion. People who have binge eating disorders blame other things apart form theirselves. I'm not going to one person behind a computer saying your beautiful, because your not. I used to be podgy, not fat just podgy and i found it fun to eat until i realized id become as you said, not in the dating scene, rejected all the time and look bad. Why do you want that seriously, if you want to get something done stop blaming your 'slow metabolic rate' and start eating healthily!

[RaineElectronica]

@thelongsdaleguy Grow up, please. You obviously don't know what you're talking about. As someone who suffers from compulsive overeating, I can tell you that I BLAME MYSELF for far too many things! That is part of the problem. People who suffer from eating disorders feel that there is something wrong with them. Their minds turn against themselves. Please do some research before making comments like these. They just make you sound insensitive and ignorant.

[LadyBludgeon]

@thelongsdaleguy You're fucking kidding me? You're 15! What the hell do you know about anything. Eating disorders aren't about blaming others you stupid fuck! It's about blaming oneself and having HIGH EXPECTATIONS for ONESELF!!!! It has nothing to do with others you ingrate. Here is an idea carbon shithead, use the internet to do actual research on the subject before posting some bullshit! Again you're 15 you shouldn't even be on youtube. Stick with Facebook little boy.

[PrincessKLS]

I know for me I do perfer the company of thin people but I do find them quite intimidating, especially a trim, good looking guy and if one happens to say hi or make eye contact with me, I often freak out because I don't feel worthy :(

[FreneticfangsFL]

Where did you get the picture that represents this video? I want it!

[danie142009]

hey im 15 and i binge eat, im also really really shy. im trying to figure out why i do it. i also lost 50 lbs last year. im now on a cycle of binging and dieting. it sucks

[JinxedOut]

I do find that I allow myself to be intimidated by people slimmer than I am until I know them.. it's really peculiar.

[Syncitic]

For some reason, I'd rather be cold and threatening than nurturing and sensitive. It just seems cooler, and more like you won't be everybody's doormat. Nothing wrong with being asexual either. :/

That said, I do feel more open to an overweight person than a thin one. It's weird because I myself am not overweight, but this stereotype that thin people are snooty, elitist and judgmental keeps playing in my mind, which I know isn't entirely true, but it affects the way I think about them.

[tragedyaroundthebend]

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ur fat fat fat!!!!

[xaxmxyx]

@tragedyaroundthebend thats really low

[lovelessAlx]

i loooove...Pho(google it :P)

but i look normaly skinny ._.

im trying to gain weight but im losing weight xD

im like a little asian stick ...nothing but lean muscle

[LadyBludgeon]

@lovelessAlx You need to eat more...& don't say you are because most likely you're not eating enough to gain that weight. Most thin people state that they eat everything & always but in reality they're not eating enough. Try eating higher caloric foods if you can't eat too much, At least by taking in more than what your body is burning you'll gain something. Eat BK Cheif's choice burger that on its own is over 500 calories of yummie goodness. Eating greens isn't going to help, too easy to burn.

[kocdamespasi]

who the fuck wrote this book?!...

[DarkDinofols]

You got some beautiful color eyes...

[GodReignsInMe]

>>> Everyone with an eating disorder needs to hear these words from Jesus: "I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry...". I'm not trying to impose any beliefs on anyone, but God truly does fill our voids, and I do hope you overcome binge eating, so you can be healthy again :)

[aquariousprincess85]

thanks for sharing.

[GodReignsInMe]

What are your perceptions about accepting yourself for who you are and not letting society dictate what is beautiful or not? What are your perceptions about eating healthy and exercising rather than spending precious time reading self-help books? Every person has a different perception about what is "fat" and what is "thin", but what matters most is that you accept your body, and maintain it's health by eating healthy and exercising -- end of story. Period.

[ByeByeBelly]

@GodReignsInMe Accepting myself for what I am right now would not be healthy at all. Binge eating is not healthy. Being obese is not healthy. This is all about trying to stop using food as a coping mechanism and instead view it as physical nutrition and not psychological satisfaction. This is not simply about being fat or thin, this video just focuses on that because a lot of binge eaters have distorted perceptions of what fat & thin are and it directly affects their binge eating

[ByeByeBelly]

@GodReignsInMe I have tried simply dieting (eating healthy) and exercising but it does not work because I have deeper psychological issues which control how I eat. Binge eaters have a lack of control over what they eat. So my "precious time" IS being put to good use by reading self help books and trying to find the answers to the root of my problem.

[ByeByeBelly]

@GodReignsInMe I agree - but unfortunately my belief in God has not helped me with my binge eating as of yet...

[GodReignsInMe]

@ByeByeBelly Nothing is too big for God -- so much so He created the universe -- He cares. He is abounding in love and compassion. For Christians that yearn for their eating disorders to be overcome, they must have *faith*. God can and will help -- but it requires that we, as believers trust that *all things* are possible through Christ who strengthens us. He uses our weaknesses and struggles to manifest His strength. Trust in the Lord, and lean on His understanding -- He is the answer.

[FreneticfangsFL]

@ByeByeBelly

Maybe there is a reason for your binge eating. So that you are one day partnered up with your soul mate who likes girls who do it. Ever think of that?

[ByeByeBelly]

@FreneticfangsFL well I don't want to stop for the sake of attracting anyone, I'm already married, and to a person who is also overweight and doesn't care much about my weight, I need to stop for my own health

[iLikeCookie88]

@GodReignsInMe You're an idiot.

[markanddana]

@ByeByeBelly Wow someone who actully knows what makes that overweight. Youre right, its all in the MIND. You need to push yourself with your mind. Anyone can be told what to eat and how to exercise but its the MIND thats holds most people back. For example, when you exercise you cant stop if your body is telling you to stop, your mind has to keep you going. If you are tired when exercising, take rests but dont let your MIND hold you back.

[stuartjbutler]

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[503408]

yeah i totally agree its like what ppl say "id rather be a skinny bitch than a fat cow" i heard 2 skinny nurses in the locker room say stuff like that sad but so true its hard to stay thin

[chessnuts101]

Omg when u said about the thing with antishay i thought the exact same thing!!!! I thought that at the start of her videos she was really nice and bubbly someone i could relate to too. But then the more i saw if her getting skinny. She seemed more of a bitchy side towards her. Thats trippy lol. Nice video ^^ cant wait for ur next one :p

[MsMeg2]

you are soo dead on!! i love your video's soo much you inspire me to lose the rest of my weight! take care love

[WhisperingScriptures]

So many young woman today including teens end up having self hatred toward themselves because they want to be like the beautiful woman on magazines and T.V. This is a trap, and this is the worlds system on "how you should look." It is one thing to be healthy, then yes we should listen, and for the sake of health, take heed of advice. But it is another thing to listen to the worlds standards on how you should look or be like.

[WhisperingScriptures]

I think you are a wonderful person and don't get caught up in the world's system of "how you should be" or "what you should look like" according to the world's "point of view." As a Christian, I can say the world's system is corrupt (Romans 12:2) "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect."

[shesakura]

Yes, I can relate to "fat" people but not skinny people. I have a negative view against skinny people. Some people seem to have it so easy. It is all in my mind. I have no right to say if someone deserves to be the way they are. Thin and healthy are good but some people are just bones. Sorry but I can't get over it unless medical reasons are involved. Some girls I want to tell them to eat a steak or something. Really a bad view point!

[Opimac]

@shesakura Some people are just born really skinny....just like some people are born really large. You shouldnt judge somebody on that and even if they did have really bad health problems like anorexia you shouldnt "tell them to eat a steak" ....the problem sometimes has to do alot with how their mind is working....just like someone with OCD...its a MIND problem and thats not their fault..

[bodykiss]

I really liked this video, Im going to try and find that book

[Melanie62389]

Great video.

[mienchen07]

I experienced the same feeling with antishay. When she used to be more chubby, I felt like we had something in common, she seemed sweet and loveable, but then when she got smaller, I still kind of liked her, but it seemed to me that her personality had changed, that she got more self-confident, which is actually a good thing, but yeah, you get my point :P

[lucidparody]

love this series

[geiuy]

i sometimes think that i unconsciously dont want to loose weight,i get close to my goal weight but before i reach it i start eating like a pig.maybe its a kind of excuse for when im not able to do something well,i can always blame it on my weight

[benvolio15]

Interesting. So, who is "Thin Jenn"? Because I have to be honest and tell you that when I look at you, I don't see "Fat Jenn" or "Thin Jenn"; I just see Jenn. <3

[DavesVideos313]

how did u get the icon for this vid???....

[11moii]

Hello mate! I like your accent! :)