Tuna Talk: The art of FLAGGING - give me a high five!!

[timed02906]

You had me at "pump you UP!" :D Subscribed! :)

[softballluver90]

I'm Molly a lesbian that's it no other names makes my brain hurt haha

[TenshiKurai9]

Imagine being color-blind.

Wikipedia was my friend.  That's why I learned so many terms, including the hanky code.

[mpwifey1]

This is so confusing what happened to talking to someone to find out what they are into. I feel like this is just those who are looking to have sex what about those looking for a relationship isnt it better to talk to someone n egt to know them.

[mrsNmrs]

Wait, those of us do flag and use the standard flagging codes of the community will be confused and think that you are into things or are top/bottom when you think it means something else. Then what?

[lotoraca]

ewwww watersports are gross 4 the people dat dnt kno wat it means....u dnt wanna kno...lol

[mlhicks3]

I just saw your video....adorable 8) But I dont think you should ever take the getting to learn one another aspect out of it. Besides...I would then have predominate flags and sporadic ones.. Besides I am a femme and flags dont really go with Victoria secret, dresses and 5in heels. But I love the butches and am 101% all abouth THEM...so thanks for the look out signs.or should I say flags..

[punky0goth]

i have a question...i'm looking at your list and its lime green for the femme/butch top sub thing. would you still wear that on the right even though your the femme but submissive? am so confused.

[sararichards23]

fail.

[littlebrraatt]

you can get a paicley bandanna at wall mart my mother has like 8 of them, im now gunna go steel one and wear it in my back pocket XP

[crybabybutch22]

wow

[softballluver90]

ya whats a daddie??????

[missoctober23]

whats a daddie? i dont think ive heard the term used before lol

[overheadmarker]

and what if you wear a bandana on your head?

[frenchfry101]

:) I love you, and your brilliance.

[AskAJanything]

love you too.

[viciousandchaotic]

im pretty sure im futch

[elanasarah]

uhh why do you have to decide..you whatever you are aside from being lesbian.

[AssAlot89]

watersports?????????? wtf

[AskAJanything]

water sports!

[melsucksalotofbooty]

what is a daddy?!

or whatever you said lmao

[SolielCirque]

"Not fagging but flagging" hahaha

[SugarxXxHigh]

thank you

someone finally pointing how stupid those tattoos were

i awesome an i idea as flagging is, I never wear pants, I like skirts and dresses...

[AskAJanything]

haha, someone has to say it!

[NOZPENG]

hey AJ this might be a really lame question and it might be really sad that i don't know this but when you say something like "heavy SM bottom" or something like that .....what in the world does SM mean!!!!!???? lol if you could let me know....that would be awsome...i'll help bring flagging back!

[hesheme18]

Sadism and Masochism or BDSM is one way to explore power and control in a sexual relationship. Usally being tied up, whipped, or gagged.

[TousVous2]

It just seems like so much work! I mean, I'm not out right now but I'd like to think when I am ready to start dating I can just meet people and explore our interests naturally. I mean... from what you've described I think I'd need like four hankies! It gets too specific!

ALSO

What's a "daddy"?

And

Is there a term for someone like Rachel Maddow? She's the hotness. She's not really butchy mcbutcherson, but she's like you, nerdy adorable tomboy. hehe

[sarahbear4000]

i just want to be me...who cares? why do we have to lable everything these days.

[shmarli]

what about a flag for femmes who are into femmes

[xxDancinFoolxx]

LOL!!! OMG!! Thanks

[mufcgirl93]

holy shit i just looked up water sports and that shit's wrong lol

[cheekyali]

There's more than butch or femme? *shocked*

*faints*

*lol*

[longtriphome]

oh there's so much more than butch and femme.. soft butch, lipstick lesbian, stone butch, stone femme, glamour butch, bulldyke, futch, etc etc etc effin etc...

yeah. it's downright annoying.

[hj351]

Finally; somebody takes the time to explain the hankie thing and make the information accesible to all who seek! Now...where can I get me one of them apricot hankies...

[brokenspirit1515]

I love this one soooo much!!! i cant stop laughing!!!

[sineadriotgrrl]

hooray for flagging!!

[myrochefort]

OMG I would need a bunch of hankies to get the idea across. Hehe. Dollar store here I come!

[daniGurl89tf]

umm, like what if the color doesn't match the chix' apparel?? like fo real, and why can't you just date like everyone else why cheat in the name of love/lust.

"like wtf" - I used to say that allllll the time, :)

totally killa, and I'm the blackest white G yo know jk.. but fo sho flagging is fagging cause i just was wearing a royal blue cause like it matched my clothes, and uh did not think about that. fo real, FUCKee & WTF is a DADDI?

and you cuzzin is fleshin funni!

u like 2 get spanked!

[n0ts0B9]

two times the fun? Does that mean a little bit of both?

[clancularium]

I think it was two 'tons' of fun; meaning more to love? pleasantly plump? or I'm wrong, haha.

[imaJENtleman]

Hey daddy,

Thanks for the info ;)

[372490]

show us ur tats! is there showable lol

[GirlWitFight]

Whats the flag for Soft butch?

[shorty1469]

hmm wow... i guess im not really butch... i hated da labelin thou... i still til dis da call myself a tomboy... and i think everyone calls me butch, becuz im stocky and mainly wear baggin pants and big cloths... but i like feelin comfortable lol... and i wear girly cloths once in a while and have my hair down and stuff... so im not really butch... but if i was to chose... for green right side and navy/blue eitha side (cuz i like both lol)

[AlbertPoeMM07]

oooooooooooooh....I get it now! :) I'm a paisley hankey too...gotta find one! Maybe Hobby Lobby will have one! LOL

[WaffleFrie]

I'm a paisley hankey ;)

[AlexNunez514]

umm...ok i don't want to sound stupid but i probably will...whats a daddy?

[AskAJanything]

part of the butch-daddy-stone buch dynamic...maybe you can google it?

[ellegaunt]

OMG. So, I'm bisexual. I mean, right now I'm in a relationship with a man I *LOVE*, but I've have had the same with a woman (but according the BITCHES who post on w4w in SF's craigslist, bi means straight so to be polite i dont' call myself gay). Anyway: in high school i wanted to come out so badly, i made myself a patch that read "I 'like' girls" with a picture of a winking girl, and I wore it around school all day. It's was an incredibly dorky flag. Cheap though! Paper and tape.

[Elphyrafire]

labels, labels, why do we need labels???

[collegestudent4peace]

You're too funny, and SMART too. Actually..you kinda remind me of ME.  Does that sound cocky?

[borntoscream]

i luv this idea!

[MattMatt2009]

your right...

why can't people just ask?

[sianfcole]

As a femme where are you suppose to put the hanky in you are wearing a dress?

[AskAJanything]

maybe around your wrist? even better just make a dress out of the hanky of choice, ooohhh a skirt, even better!

[TessaWraith]

Ahhhh so thats what all them stupid hankies are for!

Whaw that is such an easyer system then stupid jelly braclets and rubber bands...

I keep it simple wish big ass bumperstickers

[Angieanything]

I wear boxers!!! Did you ever get the hanky? If not, get that damn PO Box and i will send it to you!!

[ambiesweetie]

oh and you can get a paisley flag at walmart (wally world)

[AskAJanything]

I'M GOING TO!!!

[letitgobefree]

WALMART! DUN DUN DUN! Don't do it...

From one very political lesbian.

[ellegaunt]

that's really funny that wallmart has paisley flags. who knew they were so subversive! haha

[SuperDuperTracy]

LOL.. true...and this is not a bad video either

[ellegaunt]

AJ is one of my top three favorite You Tube peeps. And i do mean top! heheheh. I love how coyly she informs us that we don't need to see the contents of her cabinets. It makes me think ... maybe I do.

[SuperDuperTracy]

weeelll..i like how you know what you like! good for you!..

[ellegaunt]

shit i didn't mean to write that as a response to you. but thanks!

[ambiesweetie]

ummm flagging is pretty popular now-a-days... its called being in a gang. and i dont want to get shot for trying to say im a pillow princess lol. thats worse than the triangle tats

[katlitter]

green hanky right side? is that what im supposed to do?...im confused

[AskAJanything]

your hanky can just say "AJ I want you - to want me!" over and over....can you have that by Philly?

[arthistorian83]

Flagging is the greatest thing ever! More women should do it. Is so hard to find a good butch who knows how to be a top - the hanky would totally solve my problem! :)

By the way, AJ, you are the best!

[ushouldnobynow]

what if you wear the bandanna on your head? do people think that u follow the code?

[AskAJanything]

that made me laugh!!

[CecileZilla]

Have you listened to Peaches' Hanky code?

[Kandarpa]

A hanky doesn't go with my dress.

[lemontart07]

took me 10 years to work out, Im a pillow princess, stone femme, daddies gurl, lipstick lesbian, gurly gurl. Id put it all on a tshirt, cos us pillow princess, stone femmes, daddies gurls, lipstick lesbians, gurly gurls dont flag...oh bugger it, Im just carrying a placquard from now on.

[AskAJanything]

mmm..stone femmes....yummm..

[akissfrommars]

what is a stone femme?

[AskAJanything]

go to Wikipedia - look up: stone femme

xo

AJ

[cutetaz]

hi.. i was just stoping by, but ur video is interesting, ahm, yea, i just came out recently, and i have no idea wat am i suppose to do, and flagging seems good move for me to find a girl who i will like or a girl might like me back.. so pls.. help!

[genderfluidjelly]

I don't think flagging has caught on in the london scene - I would probably be the only one in the bar with a hanky sticking out of back pocket and no will know what the hell it means! In fact, some femme might walk up and say something like 'did you know you have a hanky sticking out of your back pocket, I'm just letting you know...' lol.

[evilkate666]

so agree with the whole ugly ass triangle tat.....yuk

[jlgiusti]

i've been talking about bringing flagging back for about a year now. my plan over winter break (i'm a nerdy grad school type) is to make my best friend and i laminated hanky code lists to bring to the bar for reference. now i just have to get some of my own and figure out how to incorporate them into the femme wardrobe. good thing i like a challenge :)

[xTHExPASTxISxDEADx]

this is pretty cool idea =) u have an amazing personality

[DamienZshadow]

I still wear bandanas...but damn that's cool. I can only imagine how hard it is to find anyone your into without flagging after going through the trouble of going through a select group of people who are generally into your sexuality considering that you're a minority to begin with.

Best wishes on your quests...you make me laugh almost all the time XD

[canmarielan]

YOu are hilarious...i love Flags...soooooo smart!

[misha2k6]

can someone please explain to me what "watersports" is because i've googled it and it just keeps giving me things on actually watersports lol.

[aznfan]

it's pretty much sexual content involving urine, but the yellow hanky should of been a big hint haha. personally i'd steer clear.

[misha2k6]

I've like tried to look it up but it just keeps giving me actually watersports so can someone please tell me what "watersports" is please?

[AskAJanything]

it means pee...golden showers...peeing in someones mouth...it's all really not something I'm into but hey...to each their own.

[UWGTrebleClef]

I've heard about something like this before, but instead of flags it was "sex bracelets". Maybe the bracelets are old school, I don't know. I remember one of my friends in high school used to wear them, and different colors meant you were into different things.

Anyway, thanks for teaching us something!

[PsychoEclecticJen]

So, how did the flagging go?

[AspiringVenus]

Seriously! How did the flagging go?

[AskAJanything]

check my next video....i should have it up tonight hopefully....

[AskAJanything]

check my next video....i'll have it up tonight...

[Gizmo6Whiley]

ffllaaggiiinngg, not fagging, but flagging XD awesome

[AskAJanything]

glad you liked it.

[MerkurX]

Thank you for teaching this gay guy so much!!! I feel less ignorant now! Wondeful shows!

[AskAJanything]

gay guys rock!

[shari53379]

GET PUMPED UP!!!

[AskAJanything]

and you know this!

[soaks77]

What do you wear if you want to make out with hot chicks!?

[thatweirdchick69]

lol, that's awesome, i'll tell Jesse about this XD AJ you rock, as always lol

[kayluhrennee]

Okay so I DID have to look up what "watersports" is BUTTTTT last week my ex girl was telling me how she wanted us to do that. LMAO. I love your videos. You have a CUTEEEE voice.

[AskAJanything]

yeah water sports are kind of caca.

[Kejlina]

3. I went to a concert with a friend of mine once and while I was there I realised he was wearing a BROWN hankie in his back pocket. I asked him if he knew what it meant, and he didn't know, so I was like "Uh, you're telling the world you like to be shit on..."

He didn't believe me 'til he went home and googled it. (My friends should know by now that I'm always right...)

4. I'll rate this 5/5 because this video is soooo gay!!!!!!

[Kejlina]

1. Weird, I thought most/all hankies were paisley, just in different colours.

2. Let's see some bad tattoos! I'll show you mine if you show me yours ;)

[PsychoEclecticJen]

You didn't know about flagging? Hey where did you get the Hanky code list and stuff? Cuz the one I have is different from yours. Awesome video by the way.

[nikkibaby1801]

I dont know why but I like the pride tattoo's ...I have two rainbow stars on my wrists

Im all about flagging but seeing as how I like to switch it up a lot ...I would have the rainbow in both my pockets (minues yellow...no water sports for me)

:o)

[trikstah]

you, AJ, crack me the hell up...i dont remember how I found your crazy, off-the-wall videos but thank god i did. You make my day....cheers!!

and i had no idea bout the hanky thing...thanks for the FYI

[saloliust]

I love flagging. I've been trying to bring it back in the Oklahoma/Arkansas area...but it's kind of daunting to be the first ya know?! :P But I too think it's a great idea! No more questions, just bam, ok so that's what you like...Love it!!!!

[cheezo137]

0/5 that video is gay!!!!!!!

[AskAJanything]

that's kind of the point.