I've noticed that when a person's words and actions don't agree, their mouth is lying. Everytime. I usually write off any attempts at meaningful conversation with such people.
@OneEyedJack1970 Very true, i usually try to make sense of the person, but I've learned that persons who do that, are not to be taken seriously... and thus have no place in any persons life! =)
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Yeah, but what if the person you're being direct with is an asshole, and he still becomes defensive like, let's say......your BOSS! Mature communication is still like playing Russian Roulette. There are no guarantees in life. And in this fucked up economy, it's friggin' suicide to be even calmly assertive and/or direct with your boss. Yeah, try payin' your fuckin rent after the asshole fires you, and you have to work at kmart to make a living. There are no easy answers. Life is hard!
Please elaborate more than six words unless you enjoy putting the last two cents in or you're just too lazy or self important to reply with more ideas. Otherwise, don't waste a person's time.
What about passive communication?
Keitaro2011 4 months ago
I've noticed that when a person's words and actions don't agree, their mouth is lying. Everytime. I usually write off any attempts at meaningful conversation with such people.
OneEyedJack1970 2 years ago
@OneEyedJack1970 Very true, i usually try to make sense of the person, but I've learned that persons who do that, are not to be taken seriously... and thus have no place in any persons life! =)
Northern85Star 3 months ago
very nice way of helping people get clear about how the way they communicate can influence their lives ! THANK YOU !
Annewest48 2 years ago 2
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Yeah, but what if the person you're being direct with is an asshole, and he still becomes defensive like, let's say......your BOSS! Mature communication is still like playing Russian Roulette. There are no guarantees in life. And in this fucked up economy, it's friggin' suicide to be even calmly assertive and/or direct with your boss. Yeah, try payin' your fuckin rent after the asshole fires you, and you have to work at kmart to make a living. There are no easy answers. Life is hard!
wonderwhaz797 3 years ago
this is a self defeating attitude.
incrediblejessen 2 years ago
Please elaborate more than six words unless you enjoy putting the last two cents in or you're just too lazy or self important to reply with more ideas. Otherwise, don't waste a person's time.
wonderwhaz797 2 years ago
If you're good, your boss will respect your frankness. If not, no matter how quiet you are, you're still F*cked, to use your terminology.
malonke 2 years ago
Excellent!
researchfiend 3 years ago
Thanks. That video was most informative, and I shall be including (and sharing) it on my new website for sure! :-)
SelfHelpCollective 3 years ago
Thank you very much for the video.
whoismarisa 3 years ago
WOW! Easy to apply tips for communicating with someone! And is such a short time!
hallaquita 3 years ago
That's pretty good for less than four minutes!
solemnvole 3 years ago 2
great stuff!!
skye362638 4 years ago
Good stuff! With effective communication we can stop all mankinds suffering. No joke LOL There is a method to the madness
SOCRATES012 4 years ago 2
my family. we always communicate in a round-about, subliminal way. does this indicate that we have low emotional IQ's
tkktkt 4 years ago
so youtube can be constructive!!!
burningbushmen 4 years ago 4
xcellent!
laptopshop 4 years ago
very useful
hamedvahid 4 years ago 5