BornWithoutReligion -- This video is terrible, sorry. You dont chose to be gay. That doesnt mean you cant love being gay or be proud of it. But the FACT is that you dont choose to be attracted to women.I cant be attracted to men, therefore I am not gay and I cannot choose to be gay no matter how much I may want to be. If you accept this then you sure are making your point badly and only serves to give the religious people ammo by saying "see!! She admits it!!"
I very glad you put a spin on the phrase "choose to be gay." I personally understood your point without having to read the description box, but I can see why some people would need to. I am bisexual and PROUD. I have a wonderful boyfriend and like yourself, I wouldn't choose to be straight if someone threatened my life.
there is a difference between sinning and living in sin, christians that sin are sorry when they sin and ask god to forgive them and do there best to not do it again. those living in sin (gay lifestyle) are proud of there sin and dont want forgivness, they will not even admit its wrong (they decieved themselves) not only are they rejecting jesus to live in sin but they even take signs in the streets proudly proclaiming there lust and perversion that they call love for all to see,
@BornWithoutReligion I did read the description box. It states everything you stated in the actual video. My earlier comment still stands. Not everyone accepts themselves completely enough to be as confident of their sexual orientation as you are.
@ihearlevi I refute your argument, then, as I have indeed chosen to be gay and know many people (some of whom have posted here) who have also chosen this as a way of life. Choosing to be gay does not in any way comment on whether or not I was born with chemical attraction to one sex or the other (or neither, or both), so your assertion that people are "born that way" is irrelevant to my point. I also strongly believe that actions define a person, not DNA, so a person's identity is a choice.
Reprobate people equate being free, as being people who can indulge in their lusts without restraints. They equate freedom as being under no law that would condemn them because of their actions and choices. They fear death more than any other fear that could be prevalent in their lives because they know death is for sure some day, and they know they are only worthy of hell because of their willful sinning against the truth that they so freely gave themselves over to.
This is very offensive to everyone! I am sorry, but people do not choose to be gay. Many teens and adults go through the process of accepting themselves, which is why they sometimes say they wish they could be straight. People who are ga can be proud of how they were born, but they did not choose.
i thinkk heterosexuall are together because thats the wayy it should be done, if homos do the same then there is no future. literally :-/ well they can adopt (But thatt would be from a heterosexual couple). naturall then? maybe not
@IMHANNAHBROOMHALL I agree with you, probably more than you realize. The reason ex-gays decide to live a straight lifestyle is ridiculously stupid, backwards, and probably unhealthy and damaging psychologically for the individual and their partner. However, I'm not going to try to change others to act in ways that I think are best, and I expect the same from them (not that I think they'll be as understanding). Thanks for some great comments :)
@IMHANNAHBROOMHALL Your first sentence is exactly my point. I did choose to be a lesbian (and liking girls certainly helps me enjoy my choice) but I could just as soon chosen to be straight (even if I wouldn't like it very much). I never claimed to choose my attraction, only my identity and actions. We are not forced to do only those things that we enjoy. Sometimes people choose not to act on the desires they have, and I respect a person's right to identify themselves however they wish.
@blackkakari retarded? No. Troll? well, kind of. homosexuality is a perversion. This video only proves it. I don't hate gays, i pity them. I hope they get past their mental disorder, but, you know, they're probably having too much fun and are too much in denial.
@deathquest03 What's so bad about homosexuality? Sometimes two people of the same sex are attracted to one another and have a loving relationship. They're not hurting anyone (including themselves). There's no logical reason why homosexuality should be considered a mental illness.
@blackkakari Sometimes adults are attracted to children too. Sometimes some people are sexually attracted to animals. Some people fall in love with "real dolls" (sex doll). Now, I don't care what kind of perversion someone partakes in, asided from with kids, if they keep it to themselves, just like I don't care if someone does hard drugs, if they're not hurting someone else. But that does not make it right. Homosexuality is a disease, like drug addiction, pedophilia,coprophilia etc.
@deathquest03 How is homosexuality a disease? Tell me; how do two adults of the same sex in a loving relationship cause "disease" to anyone but bigots?
@blackkakari I kinda already answered that, but you already pulled the bigot card. Yep, I expected that was going to happen, anytime someone has a valid arguement against homosexuality, its, "you're just a bigot, hey, don't listen to him, he's just a bigot"
@deathquest03 You didn't answer shit. You just went off comparing homosexuality to a bunch of legitimately wrong sexual acts, never once saying HOW homosexuality is anything like them. You might as well have said "Having a foot fetish is like skull fucking a toddler!"
I did like this video, and I agree with what you're saying. The only part I didn't like was this us and them mentality. I hope one day that we can all be equal, and sexuality won't matter.
god can only save those who come to him. those who chose to reject jesus to live in sin dont want forgiven.(the gay lifestyle) they love living in sin, they even take signs into the streets and hold them up to brag how much they love living in sin. how can god save someone who dont want forgiven and hates the truth? (he cant)
god will tuen no one away who truly comes to him from there heart.
turn from living in sin and come to jesus while you still can.
@mrcooldude964 Your only reason for thinking homosexuality is immoral is based on the Bible. But guess what; sane human beings know what's right and wrong through logic. You can't give one example of how two people of the same sex in a loving relationship hurts ANYONE.
@blackkakari it hurts everyone, to gay guys adopt a little boy and that kid will have hell growing up in every way, from having to see daddy kissing daddy to having no friends and getting picked on in school. to dads show up at parent teacher conferences, resturants, dad holding hands with dad at the mall and that kid walking with him. and very possbile the gay guys will be attracted to the boy, teach the boy putting a penis in another mans butt and mouth is normal. very sick
@mrcooldude964 And you could say the same about a little girl from straight parents being taught by pedos attracted to her to have sex with them. All the other "issues" you brought up are all based upon societal bigotry towards homosexuals. You might as well say "Being gay is bad because people treat gays badly." Your arguement could just as easily be applied to biracial couples in the 1950's. Bigotry is no excuse.
@blackkakari there is a reason men dont have overies in there butts and women dont shot sperm from there viginas. reason is its unatural and not how god intented it to be. you can pervert how god made things to be but where will it get you in the end when your standing before jesus on judgment day (and we all will)
1 cor 6:9-10, Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders will inherit the kingdom of God.
@mrcooldude964 You have no evidence for your god. And honestly, if your best arguement against homosexuality is "It's not natural.", that's pretty sad. Firstly, it IS natural. There are many gay animals. And secondly, why does something being unnatural make it bad? Do you think the computer your using is natural? You have no logical arguement for why homosexuality is wrong. It does no harm to anyone in any way. You're just a bigoted zealot.
" reason is its unatural and not how god intented it to be."
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Except homosexuality in nature is COMMON..At the end of the day this topic on whether gay is a choice is very simple. If you are sexually attracted to someone of the same or opposite sex that isnt a choice, I cant chose to be attracted to men even if I really really wanted to for some reason. Bisexuals can be often be confused in that they can assume that everyone else has to be at least a little gay like them.
@mrcooldude964 So true. And my dad never teach me to put my penis in a vagina, so that's why I put it in butts now... Well, I think that Children are vulnerable and that we most preserved them from the adult world since they are not ready for it and they need love and stability. I think gay parents can give that to a child if they are ready for it. The sexual education should be the same has with straight parents. I'm thinking of adopting when I'm more settled in life, but it's still a long way.
@raxkar why not have your own kids and not adopt? reason you cant have your own is because you chose to live against gods way of things and chose to go against god and do what is unatural, which god calls lust and perversion not love.
the kid you adopt will grow up and not even know the difference between a male or female. youll teach them they are all the same. and it will not be long before the perversion goes to the next level and youll teach its ok to marry animals.
I've heard about ignorant people like you before, but I never would've thought it could be THIS bad! Um, first of all there are surrogate mothers and sperm donors, so yes, we can have kids of our own. Before you bash those ideas, straight people do those all the time too. Kids not knowing between genders? Really? If my kid can't tell the difference between a the private parts of a male and female, I'd get them checked out by a doctor.
@mrcooldude964 I won't teach them that it's the same to be a guy and a girls, there are biological differences. I can have children, but for now, I think it would be better to take care of children with already no parents. Like I said, there is no possible relation with an animal, so stop comparing it with bestiality. It's the same for pedophilia, since your partner will age with time, you won't stay with one person, and will look for other victims.
@mrcooldude964 I won't teach them that it's the same to be a guy and a girls, there are biological differences. I can have children, but for now, I think it would be better to take care of children with already no parents. Like I said, there is no possible relation with an animal, so stop comparing it with bestiality. It's the same for pedophilia, since your partner will age with time, you won't stay with one person, and will look for other victims.
@raxkar god places beastality and same sex relations in the same cup. if you got to the point to where you get an erection from looking at another guys hairy butt, your further gone then you already know, and to desire to have his penis in your mouth is very far gone, god calls it lust and perversion not love.
turn from this lifesytle and chose jesus who truly loves you while you still can. jesus can only save those who come to him
@mrcooldude964 First, human are a social animal, witch means that it can only develop to it's full potential with other human to stimulate them. Other animals can't provide that. Second, the mind is to most important sexual organ for humans. Since the brain of gays are closer to those of heterosexual women, it is only natural that they have the same needs, attraction, etc. Finally, you can defend homosexuality objectively, you can't with bestiality. homosexuality is like the other side of the
I don't consider being gay to be moral but then I don't consider being heterosexual to be moral. Because gender preference is not about morality, it's about biology. Whether you are gay by choice or not by choice makes no difference---no one should be judged for being who they are.
There is good and evil, light and dark, no grey area, if people try to bend God's rules to suit their own desires, it cannot work: God is not mocked: Gal. 6:7. Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life. John 14:6. Notice that our Lord said 'THE' way and not 'A' way. Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.' John 14:6. Read John 3:3 to find out how our souls can be saved.
@KingdomSeeker2012 So everything is black and white? There's no middle ground? Bullshit. Reality doesn't work like that. Your dogma has degraded your mind. You're a zealot; believing the world is as simple as your thought process, never once honestly asking yourself what gives your evidenceless religion more credibility than another.
You seriously need to force yourself to examine your own beliefs. Don't let your conditioning control you. You can be good without God.
lmao...you don't choose to be a lesbian its just that no decent looking guy would touch you with a 20 foot pole because you have no aesthetics or beauty at all your face pretty much looks like a mans so no wonder your a lesbian hahaha .
I think you all are misunderstanding her point. She is not saying that it is possible to suddenly stop being attracted to whatever sex you happen to be attracted to. She is saying that just because you have one sexuality does not mean you can't date or marry outside of that. A gay man can marry a woman all he wants. He won't be attracted to her, but does that mean that he is physically UNABLE to do it? Nope. The choice to be a part of the gay community is what she is commenting on.
@8Anya8 said: "Homophobia is just as much a disease as homosexuality is."
So's Arachnophobia, you forgot mention dat one sugar! Pressinant Obama shud make all phobias illegal hate-crimes! Aint fair no spider shud be hated fo wut they born too!!
the whole argument about not "choosing" to be gay isn't born out of victim mentality in my opinion, but to stress the fact that we are attracted to who we are attracted to -- that it's in our genes, at the deepest level of who we are, and we will become sexually and emotionally unfulfilled if we go against who we are.
Uh, I really don't think many people can choose their sexuality. Maybe a few, maybe. You've made it clear you have. But most people can't choose. For most, it's a biological thing.
@BornWithoutReligion Interesting side note: the gay community in New Orleans live mainly in the French Quarter, which was mostly spared during Katrina. A "Gay Shield" at work?
@turkey123451 Common, If you are a real Christian you would pray for Gays and Lesbians. Yes it may disgust you, but you and all Christians should know that everyone is made equal. If you meet an atheist don't hate them, (try to get them saved of course) but Christianity is supposed to be a religion of tolerance. If you meet a gay person, get'em saved. Jesus even loves murderers, I'm sure he also loves gays.
@thrashmetalsuport She admit she chose to act according to how she felt. Not that she chose to be a lesbian but to act as a lesbian and be proud of her choice.
@far4romhome This shows a complete ignorance for how reproduction works in a modern society. You do know that gay people aren't sterile, right? Babies don't just magically appear when straight people have sex, one can plan these things. Also, many gay people seek out opposite sex donors to have biological children with, so your assertion that the world will end is moronic.
@BornWithoutReligion hehehehehehe well that is even worse all ppl become gays and then they all wander for a donor to plant his seeds and bear children. what a nice place that world would be, hehehe whatever u r God;s creation so i respect that although u might not accept it but i know u r, so for his sake....
@BornWithoutReligion hey have u ever thought why same sex couples dont produce children??? u should think about it. out of all billions of people who came to live in this globe that we know why it never happened. why this system never go wrong even for once?? u know why? bcz sm1 very powerful controls it who is called God. but u will never know it bcz he has wanted so and that is bad 4 u.
@far4romhome Really? Because it seems to me that if a god were so concerned about distinguishing gay families from straight families based on procreation he would make gay people sterile (which most aren't) and make all straight people fertile (which some aren't). Why would a straight couple ever be infertile if the system "never goes wrong"? BTW, a world in which all pregnancies are PLANNED rather than accidents of sex would be a wonderful world to live in. That's how a "gay world" would work.
@BornWithoutReligion uffffff girl u r so much into this gay thing and the problem is i have exams and i dont have time for u. since i have talked to then it is my responsibility to invite u to become a Muslim. Islam is a good religion but gays r not accepted. well i know u r far 4rm becoming Muslims but in the judgment day i would be asked why i didnt tell u abt Islam so i am doing this and yeah it confirms ur burning in hell 2 bcz u cant deny u had not hard about it then.
@BornWithoutReligion and it is not possible to ask from a child before his/her birth what kinda of parents they want i am sure they like a mom and a dad not a mom and a mom, lol. and yeah i talked about the system never goes wrong. i meant things are measured and no one can change it. i didnt say that all women can get pregnant i said men can,t get pregnant there is a difference i wish u get it but u wont bcz u r kinda blind and cant see anything right, all u can see is ur stupid views.
@feuchster Oh thanks God i was worried about this. of course the whole world wont be Gays, but even one percent violates others rights. every man needs to have a woman if women marry other women than what happens to poor straight guys? see there is harm in becoming gay. u harm urself and u harm the society.
@far4romhome Nope, the human population is now 7 BILLION PEOPLE, I personally hope the amount of gay people pick up. They are a group of people with high amount of adoption, which helps the foster kids we have. Secondly, studies have showed gay couples tend to be better parents than straight people, due to the fact that they can't ACCIDENTALLY get pregnant, they are prepared to have a kid, they are financially stable, and committed to the children.
Those who can be gay, let it be. But the nature favors those who follows the rule of nature. Each and everyone's birth itself is because their parents are not being gay.
There are enough problems within humanity and the world...why people turn "gay" into a problem? I do not see any blood,any death,and actual issue...why the entire Drama?Being gay does not make anyone less moral or more moral...So,people don't need to make such a big deal out of it-especially the idiotic hateful people who seem to be afraid of ANYTHING that might seem different.
I'm straight,I like girls-and I think those who hate gays are idiots who lack any purpose to their shallow boring life.
@kurtywurty85 Yeah but iwish it wasn't a factor. why should we label ourselves. Thats JUST the orientation its not who i am. That shouldnt even be a factor to why someone chooses to associate withe me. its just stupid
@adsfasdkjfh then what were they born then? Since you have obviously all the answers because hmm... let me quess your straight and because of that you know why everything is give me a break no one would choose to be part of what majority of what society cause unnatural. If so unnatural why is homosexuality found all over the world and even in the communities of of OVER a thousand animals..
@BayKennaSyd Exactly she almost made me loose it. Exspecially as a gay "male" i have it WORSE than any because for some reason society thinks Lesbians are hot and put them above gay men. They even get a seperate title which is stupid because gay stands for same sex attraction so why seperate terms?
Sorry, but i NEVER chose this at all. Im having the lonelies life anyone can have. people are right who would choose to be one of the most hated groups on the planet. I know i wouldn't have and because society makes this big deal, People costanly looking at you like you the bad seed. I would rather not live in a life where I am costantly fighting because of somethin i can not control. im sorry i would take the straight pill, thats my opinion.
I think a lot of gay people might be confused because they're mixed with Christian or or religious influence. I think it's good for them to hear both sides, and they shouldn't be shunned away. I understand what you're saying and I agree. My sexuality, yes, I love being straight, I love women only and wouldn't want it any other way, and I wish everyone can be comfortable with who they are.
You make very exellent points, but I still do believe I was born gay. I never really chose the feelings I had towards women and I never woke up thinking "You know...I think I'm gonna go lesbo!" I mean I think it's just the way my brain was wired, but I do agree that if they did make a cure for homosexuality I would NOT take it. I'm proud of who I am, and I won't try to change that.
THIS on a Warren Zevon thread? Im cool with whoever you want to fuck. And by the way....gay men have it MUCH tougher than you sweetie pie. Ever been beat up? Fuck off you little bitch.
I agree with your main points. But why do you have to turn it into an "us vs. them" issue? You say: "my side," "my community" etc. as if being gay is somehow joining some elite club that excludes anyone who is different. In the end we're all just people.No one is better than anyone else.
"community", "team"... Because clearly if someone doesn't assert their biology/sexuality in a contrived political context, they're not worthy of their own sexuality, correct? What a load of shit. I agree that the apologist sympathy appeal is ridiculous, but not as ridiculous as your inability to separate sexuality and politics.
The argument is not about sexual conduct. It's about feelings of attraction. If you say that you choose to have feelings of attraction, you are a liar. Nobody chooses what they're attracted to. That's not victim mentality, that's an understanding for what the argument means.
@JarvisComics My video is not about sexual contact either, exactly. It is about action and identity (neither of which are forced upon you by biology unless you are incapable of any form of mind over matter). If a person doesn't want to "be gay" then they don't have to be. What they feel inside does not define them, how they act does. I choose to align my actions with my feelings, but I don't think there's anything wrong with how I feel. I don't appreciate people who do this, but pout about it.
@BornWithoutReligion I didn't say "contact." I said "conduct." Conduct is action. Yes, people can choose not to act on their feelings, but that doesn't mean they can choose not to have the feelings. Do you understand what I mean? Closeted homosexuals are still homosexuals. People who have those feelings but suppress them are still gay. They didn't choose to feel the way they feel, therefore, they didn't choose to be gay. If you're attracted to the same sex, you're gay.
cute ...but your argument is flawed and childish! do u wanna always be qualified with "gay"? gay actor..gay doctor..gay this ..gay that? trust me straight people dont think about being straight 24/7 ...its just silly ..eat pussy ..dont eat pussy...who cares..stop labeling ur selves ...
You make me think of a few interesting questions.If i have something in me that is gender queer to begin with, where is the debate about choice.You seem like an honest person and this is the first video i have watched of yours, so i will refrain from to many assumption's.But the words "Exclusion" and "Inclusion" are stirring around my pea brain.In any event, have a good new year if possible.
@pcpczeroo The choice is whether or not to express that and act upon it. I am of the opinion that everyone should act upon their biology and be happy with it. My only problem is people who pout and moan about being different. If you don't love who you are, then be someone else, just don't complain to me about it. (end rant)
@BornWithoutReligion You sound like a logical person,which is cool.I guess what i am thinking about is, people with a gender issue have a high suicide rate and i try my best to not be too objective with them.I think you have a better overview than i do and because of this, yours is one of concern for them rather than just being critical.Have a good one if possible and since you think logical, i have a feeling you will have a good day for sure.
@BornWithoutReligion only NOW, after reading your comment do i agree with you. the only "choice" one has is to accept or express their sexuality/orientation. you didn't make that thought very clear in your video AT ALL. It seemed as though you were saying something completely different, as if you woke up one morning and put on t-shirt that says "i'm a lesbian" and now you're a lesbian! We all know it does not work like that
@BornWithoutReligion In my opinion I don't like to use the word CHOICE because the word alone in the context of being homosexual just does not fit. Yes, i understand that once you come to the realization that you are gay it may FEEL like as if your making a conscious "decision" but it's simply acceptance. SELF acceptance. The road to happiness is not defined by the destination, its defined by the journey.
@BornWithoutReligion We are all control of our own happiness and like you said..if your not happy with something change it. Accept that you have the power to change it! =]
hey lady i have no problems with gays or lesbains but the lady in this video 100% right its a choice for example i like chocolate someone else maybe like vanilla
Homosexual activists understand the power of words.
Please visit my channel to watch a one-minute video clip in which famous atheist Richard Dawkins admits that homosexual activists "hijacked the word 'gay'".
The word "homosexual" is more appropriate and accurate because it, unlike the word "gay", actually describes the behavior/attraction/relationship being discussed.
The word "gay" helps homosexual activists push their agenda.
@BornWithoutReligion Look I know for fact and anyone with a some intelligence knows that there is no such thing as a "choice" in ones own sexuality. same goes for your feelings you can't choose how to feel anything, you feel regardless of what reality is. Like when you watch a movie and cry over something that isn't real. Sexuality is a feeling and NOT the action. You are very mixed up sorry.
1)"We need to stop fighting the "it's not a choice" battle because it assumes that, were it a choice, we would NEVER choose being gay over being straight."
2)"Even if someone told me that they could change my biology to be only attracted to men, I would refuse."
I'm glad I read the description as it clarified some, but I'm still confused. When I watched the video I got the impression that you were straight and then decided you wanted to be gay later on, which didn't register with me 'cause I know that being straight, I couldn't CHOOSE to date a man. The thought doesn't excite me in the least contrary to how dating a woman does. Can you try and explain what you mean by CHOOSE? It's an ignorant question, but my hope is to alleviate that ignorance some.
@GlassHaus123 The choice is between living a normative (straight) lifestyle or a non-normative (gay) one. It is easier for many people, socially, to be straight but biology generally wins out for those who have same-sex attractions. My point is that those people who gripe about being gay should just be straight (obviously they won't be attracted to their new partner, but that's not what the choice is about). There are people who work past their biology. I wouldn't, but I like being gay.
@blackbrothapride I think you misunderstood what she said. Assuming I understand her correctly (read description section), she's stating that biologically/Geneticall/emotionally you can't choose to be gay..but that doesn't mean you can't "choose" to live a straight life EVEN if emotionally and physically you are unsatisfied and not attracted to the opposite sex.SO, I took it as her form of sarcasm to say either be proud for being gay or "choose" to live a lie and be miserable.
I don't see anything wrong with choosing to be gay. I don't like it when they say they don't have a choice. They may not choose how they feel but they can choose to be with someone of the same sex. I say only those who choose to be gay should live the gay lifestyle otherwise they can just stay in the closet.
Too bad you live in a fucked up sick country america. You would see what we do to lesbians and gays,their life is their fear,they can't go outdoors being free or saying public that they are gay. gay shame parade? hahahaha it isn't allowed by our goverment ;) And you girl in this video,you can be both gay or straight,you are too ugly to have a pet...
I'm straight and i don't see any problems with people who are LGBT. There really shouldn't be an issue about it. I don't see straight people having straight pride parades. So why does there have to be gay pride parades? You might say its because you're proud of being different. Well everyone is different. No two people can be alike. It just seems a little ridiculous that being LGBT is even an issue. There are more oppressing issues in the world that need to be brought up and discussed.
That entire statement is so stupid. You don't choose to be gay. You could have sex with a man just as easily as a gay man could have sex with a woman. But are you going to do it? HELL NO, because you have no interest. You don't choose gay, gay chooses you.
The scale from straight to gay, which I believe is a sliding scale, making almost everyone part gay and part straight, is mostly nature and perhaps slightly tweaked by nurture. This mean that a 90% gay person is pretty gay. The only choice one has in any circumstance would be to deny that. Forcing yourself to act against your nature. It's what the Ted Haggards of the world do. There is only the choice to pretend to not be what you are or to be yourself.
Thank goodness someone else thinks like I do, I was a lesbian for many years out of choice because I just couldn't stand the thought of sexual physical submission and its psychological implications. Lesbians could not understand that I taught myself to love women for who they are psychologically. They underestimate the power of the mind to find a comfort zone. Nothing wrong with being comfortable. It gave me so much emotional intelligence and ironically makes me love my husband more.
@MsWildtiger I think this state that you are a straight women who decide to do lesbian acts to be more comfortable with who you are. Then, when the objective is done, go back to being straight. Sexual conduct is a choice, like you are saying, and I will add that women are more bisexual then men. But still, I have the impression that you were never really a lesbian, thinking long term. It seems more like an experience then a identity. Not saying that it's bad, If it help you, good for you.
@raxkar let me point out that gender was not and is not important in my choice of a partner. If I had found a suitable female partner I would have been faithful to her for as long as it lasted, even till the end of my life. Whatever that makes me, is debatable.
@MsWildtiger If it is what makes you happy, I'm glad for you. We all have to discover our self. If that is how you feel, then it's probably better for you.
@raxkar and it is all the more debatable considering I do not get much sexual satisfaction from heterosexual sex. Not having the pleasure of being with a woman physically is a sacrifice I chose to make for the man I have committed myself to, who by the way happens to be someone who has all the qualities and high sensitivity one normally attributes to the female gender. Let's just say that for me, personality and affection rules, I am a heart person.
I don't really believe that people choose their sexuality...but I do believe that it's healthy to think, "if I the opportunity to be straight (if gay, and vice versa) I'd decline, because I love who I am!" People should take pride in their sexual orientation, race, religion whatever. I don't care if it's a choice or if someone feels that they were born gay...we should all have equal rights. Pisses me off when people use religion to "justify" why gay marriage is wrong. Ugh.
Just because you've had a trauma occurying in your childhood days doesn't mean you have to stay there and fight against the opposite sex. In your bitterness, you deprave yourself from the most wonderful earth experience given.
If you believe in the 'cause and effect' theory then you'll agree with my comment concerning a mind set over an negative life experience at an early age. All decision are based on motive regardless of age. Everyone experiences the unfortunate mislead, abuse or hatered by others in one respect or another. But for the most part, we generally make the mistake of blaming..... God.
@GrandeRio01 the most woderful earth experience of....? i would think that accepting yourself and your sexuality would be one of the most wonderful experiences...
I sort of hate the notion being posited that there has to be a "my community" and "their community" (without ignoring generally present reality, mind you). In my idealistic mind, I feel it should all be "our community."
Well - its not a discussion. The gay gene was preserved as a product of evolutions attempt at eliminating male competition. Every species on Earth engages in homosexual behavior and being that Humans are the only species capable of making decisions based on logic it means that no, being queer is not a choice. Anybody that says different is a fool, or a liar, or both, or they are just so stupid that they literally believe in supernatural deitys laying down the law about shellfish and gay sex.
BornWithoutReligion -- This video is terrible, sorry. You dont chose to be gay. That doesnt mean you cant love being gay or be proud of it. But the FACT is that you dont choose to be attracted to women.I cant be attracted to men, therefore I am not gay and I cannot choose to be gay no matter how much I may want to be. If you accept this then you sure are making your point badly and only serves to give the religious people ammo by saying "see!! She admits it!!"
Edbrad 12 hours ago
i think you should have the right to state your opinion even though im not what you are... you go girl!!!!!!
bubblegumbraces1 2 days ago
I very glad you put a spin on the phrase "choose to be gay." I personally understood your point without having to read the description box, but I can see why some people would need to. I am bisexual and PROUD. I have a wonderful boyfriend and like yourself, I wouldn't choose to be straight if someone threatened my life.
8913151822 2 days ago
there is a difference between sinning and living in sin, christians that sin are sorry when they sin and ask god to forgive them and do there best to not do it again. those living in sin (gay lifestyle) are proud of there sin and dont want forgivness, they will not even admit its wrong (they decieved themselves) not only are they rejecting jesus to live in sin but they even take signs in the streets proudly proclaiming there lust and perversion that they call love for all to see,
mrcooldude964 1 week ago
@mrcooldude964 You need to just delete your youtube account entirely because your projecting nothing but evil. HOW IRONIC.
bina143 3 days ago
@BornWithoutReligion I did read the description box. It states everything you stated in the actual video. My earlier comment still stands. Not everyone accepts themselves completely enough to be as confident of their sexual orientation as you are.
ihearlevi 1 week ago
@ihearlevi I refute your argument, then, as I have indeed chosen to be gay and know many people (some of whom have posted here) who have also chosen this as a way of life. Choosing to be gay does not in any way comment on whether or not I was born with chemical attraction to one sex or the other (or neither, or both), so your assertion that people are "born that way" is irrelevant to my point. I also strongly believe that actions define a person, not DNA, so a person's identity is a choice.
BornWithoutReligion 1 week ago
Reprobate people equate being free, as being people who can indulge in their lusts without restraints. They equate freedom as being under no law that would condemn them because of their actions and choices. They fear death more than any other fear that could be prevalent in their lives because they know death is for sure some day, and they know they are only worthy of hell because of their willful sinning against the truth that they so freely gave themselves over to.
moseseseseses 1 week ago
This is very offensive to everyone! I am sorry, but people do not choose to be gay. Many teens and adults go through the process of accepting themselves, which is why they sometimes say they wish they could be straight. People who are ga can be proud of how they were born, but they did not choose.
ihearlevi 1 week ago
@ihearlevi Videos have description boxes for a reason.
BornWithoutReligion 1 week ago
i thinkk heterosexuall are together because thats the wayy it should be done, if homos do the same then there is no future. literally :-/ well they can adopt (But thatt would be from a heterosexual couple). naturall then? maybe not
lonelybunnyful 1 week ago
A true gay that can accept that it's a choice.
Thank you for actually having an explanation and not go with the "born this way" garbage.
MegaSlaze 1 week ago
you choose to act upon your natural impulses, to be attracted to females
who wouldn't do that?
I don't understand why people would do that
I wouldn't change it because I don't know any different?
It all sounds like religious bullshit to me, I don't believe in religion, of any kind
but that is another conversation all together.
I guess I 'choose' to be gay as well, but it wasn't really a choice, but I choose to act on my instincts
IMHANNAHBROOMHALL 1 week ago
@IMHANNAHBROOMHALL I agree with you, probably more than you realize. The reason ex-gays decide to live a straight lifestyle is ridiculously stupid, backwards, and probably unhealthy and damaging psychologically for the individual and their partner. However, I'm not going to try to change others to act in ways that I think are best, and I expect the same from them (not that I think they'll be as understanding). Thanks for some great comments :)
BornWithoutReligion 1 week ago
you choose to be a lesbian BECAUSE you like girls
but you didn't choose to like girls
you just do, therefore, you didn't CHOOSE to be gay
IMHANNAHBROOMHALL 2 weeks ago
@IMHANNAHBROOMHALL Your first sentence is exactly my point. I did choose to be a lesbian (and liking girls certainly helps me enjoy my choice) but I could just as soon chosen to be straight (even if I wouldn't like it very much). I never claimed to choose my attraction, only my identity and actions. We are not forced to do only those things that we enjoy. Sometimes people choose not to act on the desires they have, and I respect a person's right to identify themselves however they wish.
BornWithoutReligion 2 weeks ago
disgusting dyke
deathquest03 2 weeks ago
@deathquest03 Retarded troll.
blackkakari 1 week ago
@blackkakari retarded? No. Troll? well, kind of. homosexuality is a perversion. This video only proves it. I don't hate gays, i pity them. I hope they get past their mental disorder, but, you know, they're probably having too much fun and are too much in denial.
deathquest03 1 week ago
@deathquest03 What's so bad about homosexuality? Sometimes two people of the same sex are attracted to one another and have a loving relationship. They're not hurting anyone (including themselves). There's no logical reason why homosexuality should be considered a mental illness.
blackkakari 1 week ago
@blackkakari Sometimes adults are attracted to children too. Sometimes some people are sexually attracted to animals. Some people fall in love with "real dolls" (sex doll). Now, I don't care what kind of perversion someone partakes in, asided from with kids, if they keep it to themselves, just like I don't care if someone does hard drugs, if they're not hurting someone else. But that does not make it right. Homosexuality is a disease, like drug addiction, pedophilia,coprophilia etc.
deathquest03 1 week ago
@deathquest03 How is homosexuality a disease? Tell me; how do two adults of the same sex in a loving relationship cause "disease" to anyone but bigots?
blackkakari 1 week ago
@blackkakari I kinda already answered that, but you already pulled the bigot card. Yep, I expected that was going to happen, anytime someone has a valid arguement against homosexuality, its, "you're just a bigot, hey, don't listen to him, he's just a bigot"
deathquest03 4 days ago
@deathquest03 You didn't answer shit. You just went off comparing homosexuality to a bunch of legitimately wrong sexual acts, never once saying HOW homosexuality is anything like them. You might as well have said "Having a foot fetish is like skull fucking a toddler!"
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LezEnjoyLife 2 weeks ago
you are fucking disgusting and dirty e3333
susuhorsujet 2 weeks ago
I did like this video, and I agree with what you're saying. The only part I didn't like was this us and them mentality. I hope one day that we can all be equal, and sexuality won't matter.
caseebn23 2 weeks ago
god can only save those who come to him. those who chose to reject jesus to live in sin dont want forgiven.(the gay lifestyle) they love living in sin, they even take signs into the streets and hold them up to brag how much they love living in sin. how can god save someone who dont want forgiven and hates the truth? (he cant)
god will tuen no one away who truly comes to him from there heart.
turn from living in sin and come to jesus while you still can.
mrcooldude964 2 weeks ago
@mrcooldude964 Your only reason for thinking homosexuality is immoral is based on the Bible. But guess what; sane human beings know what's right and wrong through logic. You can't give one example of how two people of the same sex in a loving relationship hurts ANYONE.
blackkakari 1 week ago
@blackkakari it hurts everyone, to gay guys adopt a little boy and that kid will have hell growing up in every way, from having to see daddy kissing daddy to having no friends and getting picked on in school. to dads show up at parent teacher conferences, resturants, dad holding hands with dad at the mall and that kid walking with him. and very possbile the gay guys will be attracted to the boy, teach the boy putting a penis in another mans butt and mouth is normal. very sick
mrcooldude964 1 week ago
@mrcooldude964 And you could say the same about a little girl from straight parents being taught by pedos attracted to her to have sex with them. All the other "issues" you brought up are all based upon societal bigotry towards homosexuals. You might as well say "Being gay is bad because people treat gays badly." Your arguement could just as easily be applied to biracial couples in the 1950's. Bigotry is no excuse.
blackkakari 1 week ago
@blackkakari there is a reason men dont have overies in there butts and women dont shot sperm from there viginas. reason is its unatural and not how god intented it to be. you can pervert how god made things to be but where will it get you in the end when your standing before jesus on judgment day (and we all will)
1 cor 6:9-10, Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders will inherit the kingdom of God.
mrcooldude964 3 days ago
@mrcooldude964 You have no evidence for your god. And honestly, if your best arguement against homosexuality is "It's not natural.", that's pretty sad. Firstly, it IS natural. There are many gay animals. And secondly, why does something being unnatural make it bad? Do you think the computer your using is natural? You have no logical arguement for why homosexuality is wrong. It does no harm to anyone in any way. You're just a bigoted zealot.
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@mrcooldude964
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" reason is its unatural and not how god intented it to be."
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Except homosexuality in nature is COMMON..At the end of the day this topic on whether gay is a choice is very simple. If you are sexually attracted to someone of the same or opposite sex that isnt a choice, I cant chose to be attracted to men even if I really really wanted to for some reason. Bisexuals can be often be confused in that they can assume that everyone else has to be at least a little gay like them.
Edbrad 12 hours ago
@mrcooldude964 So true. And my dad never teach me to put my penis in a vagina, so that's why I put it in butts now... Well, I think that Children are vulnerable and that we most preserved them from the adult world since they are not ready for it and they need love and stability. I think gay parents can give that to a child if they are ready for it. The sexual education should be the same has with straight parents. I'm thinking of adopting when I'm more settled in life, but it's still a long way.
raxkar 3 days ago
@raxkar why not have your own kids and not adopt? reason you cant have your own is because you chose to live against gods way of things and chose to go against god and do what is unatural, which god calls lust and perversion not love.
the kid you adopt will grow up and not even know the difference between a male or female. youll teach them they are all the same. and it will not be long before the perversion goes to the next level and youll teach its ok to marry animals.
mrcooldude964 3 days ago
@mrcooldude964
I've heard about ignorant people like you before, but I never would've thought it could be THIS bad! Um, first of all there are surrogate mothers and sperm donors, so yes, we can have kids of our own. Before you bash those ideas, straight people do those all the time too. Kids not knowing between genders? Really? If my kid can't tell the difference between a the private parts of a male and female, I'd get them checked out by a doctor.
8913151822 2 days ago
@mrcooldude964 I won't teach them that it's the same to be a guy and a girls, there are biological differences. I can have children, but for now, I think it would be better to take care of children with already no parents. Like I said, there is no possible relation with an animal, so stop comparing it with bestiality. It's the same for pedophilia, since your partner will age with time, you won't stay with one person, and will look for other victims.
raxkar 2 days ago
@mrcooldude964 I won't teach them that it's the same to be a guy and a girls, there are biological differences. I can have children, but for now, I think it would be better to take care of children with already no parents. Like I said, there is no possible relation with an animal, so stop comparing it with bestiality. It's the same for pedophilia, since your partner will age with time, you won't stay with one person, and will look for other victims.
raxkar 2 days ago
@raxkar god places beastality and same sex relations in the same cup. if you got to the point to where you get an erection from looking at another guys hairy butt, your further gone then you already know, and to desire to have his penis in your mouth is very far gone, god calls it lust and perversion not love.
turn from this lifesytle and chose jesus who truly loves you while you still can. jesus can only save those who come to him
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raxkar 1 day ago
@mrcooldude964 same coin as heterosexuality
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@mrcooldude964 First, human are a social animal, witch means that it can only develop to it's full potential with other human to stimulate them. Other animals can't provide that. Second, the mind is to most important sexual organ for humans. Since the brain of gays are closer to those of heterosexual women, it is only natural that they have the same needs, attraction, etc. Finally, you can defend homosexuality objectively, you can't with bestiality. homosexuality is like the other side of the
raxkar 1 day ago
I choose to be a lesbian too..
But I'm trapped in a man's body :999
coynedogg 2 weeks ago
I don't consider being gay to be moral but then I don't consider being heterosexual to be moral. Because gender preference is not about morality, it's about biology. Whether you are gay by choice or not by choice makes no difference---no one should be judged for being who they are.
sweetsweatyfeet 3 weeks ago
@sweetsweatyfeet well put :)
BornWithoutReligion 3 weeks ago
There is good and evil, light and dark, no grey area, if people try to bend God's rules to suit their own desires, it cannot work: God is not mocked: Gal. 6:7. Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life. John 14:6. Notice that our Lord said 'THE' way and not 'A' way. Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.' John 14:6. Read John 3:3 to find out how our souls can be saved.
KingdomSeeker2012 3 weeks ago
@KingdomSeeker2012 So everything is black and white? There's no middle ground? Bullshit. Reality doesn't work like that. Your dogma has degraded your mind. You're a zealot; believing the world is as simple as your thought process, never once honestly asking yourself what gives your evidenceless religion more credibility than another.
You seriously need to force yourself to examine your own beliefs. Don't let your conditioning control you. You can be good without God.
blackkakari 1 week ago
An interesting approach.
P.S.
I would not take a pill that made me attracted to men either. ;O)
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Katalyzt 3 weeks ago
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charmingboots 3 weeks ago
lmao...you don't choose to be a lesbian its just that no decent looking guy would touch you with a 20 foot pole because you have no aesthetics or beauty at all your face pretty much looks like a mans so no wonder your a lesbian hahaha .
xsergiogx 3 weeks ago
I chose. I would totally do you. lol
namizmo 4 weeks ago
i am "straight" i did not "choose" to be straight. I hear what your saying.
I like Turtles.
mikkwik 4 weeks ago
I think you all are misunderstanding her point. She is not saying that it is possible to suddenly stop being attracted to whatever sex you happen to be attracted to. She is saying that just because you have one sexuality does not mean you can't date or marry outside of that. A gay man can marry a woman all he wants. He won't be attracted to her, but does that mean that he is physically UNABLE to do it? Nope. The choice to be a part of the gay community is what she is commenting on.
Ashestoashesjc 4 weeks ago
@Ashestoashesjc Yay, someone is paying attention! Thanks :)
BornWithoutReligion 4 weeks ago
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TPOTTHEPOETOFTRUTH 3 weeks ago
WTF?? YOU WERE BORN GAY, ITS BEEN PROVEN!!
YOU CAN'T "CHOOSE" TO BE GAY, YOU HAVE NO CHOICE IN THE MATTER DUMB BITCH!
DiAPERiDOL 1 month ago
@DiAPERiDOL You obviously didn't read the description of this video or even bother watching is all the way through.
Ashestoashesjc 4 weeks ago
I hate gays, and I even more hate those gays who are pretending to be smart.
srbiJagoda 1 month ago 2
Homophobia is just as much a disease as they say homosexuality is.
8Anya8 1 month ago
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@8Anya8 said: "Homophobia is just as much a disease as homosexuality is."
So's Arachnophobia, you forgot mention dat one sugar! Pressinant Obama shud make all phobias illegal hate-crimes! Aint fair no spider shud be hated fo wut they born too!!
QueerNation2012 1 month ago
People who use God to condemn homosexuals need to realize that they are no better then they are.
The cause behind homosexuality is not so cut and dried as erring evangelicals claim it to be.
Many homosexuals do not make the choice to be who they are, they were born that way.
The trite response from ignorant people is, God doesn't make people gay, it's a choice!
The truth is that sexual promiscuity breaks down the natural desires in people and the result is manifested in their children.
8Anya8 1 month ago
@8Anya8
Sey wut? Explane dat shiz??
QueerNation2012 1 month ago
the whole argument about not "choosing" to be gay isn't born out of victim mentality in my opinion, but to stress the fact that we are attracted to who we are attracted to -- that it's in our genes, at the deepest level of who we are, and we will become sexually and emotionally unfulfilled if we go against who we are.
earthypig 1 month ago
Uh, I really don't think many people can choose their sexuality. Maybe a few, maybe. You've made it clear you have. But most people can't choose. For most, it's a biological thing.
McTaggStar 1 month ago
god please burn all disgusting lesbos and gays
turkey123451 1 month ago
@turkey123451 Funny how your god never actually answers those prayers... lol.
BornWithoutReligion 1 month ago
@BornWithoutReligion FUNNY how You TALK ABOUT SOMETHING YOU DON'T Know !
jay196jay 1 month ago
@BornWithoutReligion If your parents were gay you wouldn't be here LOL. This world is so messed up these days wow.
QueSeraSera23 3 weeks ago
@BornWithoutReligion Interesting side note: the gay community in New Orleans live mainly in the French Quarter, which was mostly spared during Katrina. A "Gay Shield" at work?
sweetsweatyfeet 3 weeks ago
@turkey123451 your god cant burn anything because he isnt real
TheDrewManXD 1 month ago
@turkey123451 Common, If you are a real Christian you would pray for Gays and Lesbians. Yes it may disgust you, but you and all Christians should know that everyone is made equal. If you meet an atheist don't hate them, (try to get them saved of course) but Christianity is supposed to be a religion of tolerance. If you meet a gay person, get'em saved. Jesus even loves murderers, I'm sure he also loves gays.
mikezzknight 1 month ago
@turkey123451 dont say that !
MrIslamista 2 weeks ago
@turkey123451 If you don't call that hatred, I don't know how you call it...
raxkar 2 days ago
I love being a LESBIAN, why the war on the word LESBIAN?
rachelsOne 1 month ago
This chick is smart at least she admits she choices to be lesbian.
thrashmetalsuport 1 month ago
@thrashmetalsuport She admit she chose to act according to how she felt. Not that she chose to be a lesbian but to act as a lesbian and be proud of her choice.
raxkar 2 days ago
humm what happens if all people become gay????? the world ends that is why people don't like gays. simple.
far4romhome 1 month ago
@far4romhome This shows a complete ignorance for how reproduction works in a modern society. You do know that gay people aren't sterile, right? Babies don't just magically appear when straight people have sex, one can plan these things. Also, many gay people seek out opposite sex donors to have biological children with, so your assertion that the world will end is moronic.
BornWithoutReligion 1 month ago
@BornWithoutReligion hehehehehehe well that is even worse all ppl become gays and then they all wander for a donor to plant his seeds and bear children. what a nice place that world would be, hehehe whatever u r God;s creation so i respect that although u might not accept it but i know u r, so for his sake....
far4romhome 1 month ago
@BornWithoutReligion hey have u ever thought why same sex couples dont produce children??? u should think about it. out of all billions of people who came to live in this globe that we know why it never happened. why this system never go wrong even for once?? u know why? bcz sm1 very powerful controls it who is called God. but u will never know it bcz he has wanted so and that is bad 4 u.
far4romhome 1 month ago
@far4romhome Really? Because it seems to me that if a god were so concerned about distinguishing gay families from straight families based on procreation he would make gay people sterile (which most aren't) and make all straight people fertile (which some aren't). Why would a straight couple ever be infertile if the system "never goes wrong"? BTW, a world in which all pregnancies are PLANNED rather than accidents of sex would be a wonderful world to live in. That's how a "gay world" would work.
BornWithoutReligion 1 month ago
@BornWithoutReligion uffffff girl u r so much into this gay thing and the problem is i have exams and i dont have time for u. since i have talked to then it is my responsibility to invite u to become a Muslim. Islam is a good religion but gays r not accepted. well i know u r far 4rm becoming Muslims but in the judgment day i would be asked why i didnt tell u abt Islam so i am doing this and yeah it confirms ur burning in hell 2 bcz u cant deny u had not hard about it then.
far4romhome 1 month ago
@BornWithoutReligion and it is not possible to ask from a child before his/her birth what kinda of parents they want i am sure they like a mom and a dad not a mom and a mom, lol. and yeah i talked about the system never goes wrong. i meant things are measured and no one can change it. i didnt say that all women can get pregnant i said men can,t get pregnant there is a difference i wish u get it but u wont bcz u r kinda blind and cant see anything right, all u can see is ur stupid views.
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@far4romhome
Niqqa, bess not fuck widda white ladyfrend, she smarter an u, prety obvius she dont lyke no homophobz netha, so STFU!!
@BornWithoutReligion
Preech it sista! Gay World Order comin atcha lyke fo rea!!
Kinna lyke say I be "gay-by choise," gotta nise ring to it dontchu agree?
Imma promote dis video, dang Im all ova dis shit now!
IMMA GAY BY CHOISE, IMMA STUDTHUG BY CHOISE, IMMA GET MI EBT & FOOD STAMP BY CHOISE, IMMA NOT WORK BY CHOISE!
IM LIKIN DIS WHOLE LOTTA!
IMMA DAM PROUD GAY TOO!
QueerNation2012 1 month ago
@far4romhome The whole world isn't going to be gay, where is your argument now?
feuchster 1 month ago
@feuchster Oh thanks God i was worried about this. of course the whole world wont be Gays, but even one percent violates others rights. every man needs to have a woman if women marry other women than what happens to poor straight guys? see there is harm in becoming gay. u harm urself and u harm the society.
far4romhome 1 month ago
@far4romhome Nope, the human population is now 7 BILLION PEOPLE, I personally hope the amount of gay people pick up. They are a group of people with high amount of adoption, which helps the foster kids we have. Secondly, studies have showed gay couples tend to be better parents than straight people, due to the fact that they can't ACCIDENTALLY get pregnant, they are prepared to have a kid, they are financially stable, and committed to the children.
They are good people, we need more of them.
feuchster 1 month ago
Those who can be gay, let it be. But the nature favors those who follows the rule of nature. Each and everyone's birth itself is because their parents are not being gay.
shininglamb 1 month ago
There are enough problems within humanity and the world...why people turn "gay" into a problem? I do not see any blood,any death,and actual issue...why the entire Drama?Being gay does not make anyone less moral or more moral...So,people don't need to make such a big deal out of it-especially the idiotic hateful people who seem to be afraid of ANYTHING that might seem different.
I'm straight,I like girls-and I think those who hate gays are idiots who lack any purpose to their shallow boring life.
Wharwulif 1 month ago
I'm straight so I don't even kno y I'm commenting
Theeminem2451 1 month ago
@kurtywurty85 Yeah but iwish it wasn't a factor. why should we label ourselves. Thats JUST the orientation its not who i am. That shouldnt even be a factor to why someone chooses to associate withe me. its just stupid
Equality4ya 1 month ago
@adsfasdkjfh then what were they born then? Since you have obviously all the answers because hmm... let me quess your straight and because of that you know why everything is give me a break no one would choose to be part of what majority of what society cause unnatural. If so unnatural why is homosexuality found all over the world and even in the communities of of OVER a thousand animals..
Equality4ya 1 month ago
@BayKennaSyd Exactly she almost made me loose it. Exspecially as a gay "male" i have it WORSE than any because for some reason society thinks Lesbians are hot and put them above gay men. They even get a seperate title which is stupid because gay stands for same sex attraction so why seperate terms?
Equality4ya 1 month ago
Sorry, but i NEVER chose this at all. Im having the lonelies life anyone can have. people are right who would choose to be one of the most hated groups on the planet. I know i wouldn't have and because society makes this big deal, People costanly looking at you like you the bad seed. I would rather not live in a life where I am costantly fighting because of somethin i can not control. im sorry i would take the straight pill, thats my opinion.
Equality4ya 1 month ago
I was born a lesbian. I didn't choose it but I would in a heart beat lol I wouldn't take the so called cure pill either.. fuck that! lol
Chellabell72 1 month ago
@rockergirll13 well said..I agree!
Chellabell72 1 month ago
I think a lot of gay people might be confused because they're mixed with Christian or or religious influence. I think it's good for them to hear both sides, and they shouldn't be shunned away. I understand what you're saying and I agree. My sexuality, yes, I love being straight, I love women only and wouldn't want it any other way, and I wish everyone can be comfortable with who they are.
sweet96635 1 month ago
Well, this bites. You got me going crazy when you were burning that bible. Now you come with this? u.u Oh well. I hope you're happy though. :)
Mobius888 1 month ago
You make very exellent points, but I still do believe I was born gay. I never really chose the feelings I had towards women and I never woke up thinking "You know...I think I'm gonna go lesbo!" I mean I think it's just the way my brain was wired, but I do agree that if they did make a cure for homosexuality I would NOT take it. I'm proud of who I am, and I won't try to change that.
rockergirll13 1 month ago in playlist Is it a Choice?
THIS on a Warren Zevon thread? Im cool with whoever you want to fuck. And by the way....gay men have it MUCH tougher than you sweetie pie. Ever been beat up? Fuck off you little bitch.
Raiderfn31 1 month ago
but hey maybe im just jeolous. Alot of times I find myself wishing i was gay so i wouldn't have to put up with male bull****!!
virlizorchid99 1 month ago
I agree with your main points. But why do you have to turn it into an "us vs. them" issue? You say: "my side," "my community" etc. as if being gay is somehow joining some elite club that excludes anyone who is different. In the end we're all just people.No one is better than anyone else.
virlizorchid99 1 month ago
"community", "team"... Because clearly if someone doesn't assert their biology/sexuality in a contrived political context, they're not worthy of their own sexuality, correct? What a load of shit. I agree that the apologist sympathy appeal is ridiculous, but not as ridiculous as your inability to separate sexuality and politics.
Christobird 2 months ago
The argument is not about sexual conduct. It's about feelings of attraction. If you say that you choose to have feelings of attraction, you are a liar. Nobody chooses what they're attracted to. That's not victim mentality, that's an understanding for what the argument means.
JarvisComics 2 months ago
@JarvisComics My video is not about sexual contact either, exactly. It is about action and identity (neither of which are forced upon you by biology unless you are incapable of any form of mind over matter). If a person doesn't want to "be gay" then they don't have to be. What they feel inside does not define them, how they act does. I choose to align my actions with my feelings, but I don't think there's anything wrong with how I feel. I don't appreciate people who do this, but pout about it.
BornWithoutReligion 2 months ago
@BornWithoutReligion I didn't say "contact." I said "conduct." Conduct is action. Yes, people can choose not to act on their feelings, but that doesn't mean they can choose not to have the feelings. Do you understand what I mean? Closeted homosexuals are still homosexuals. People who have those feelings but suppress them are still gay. They didn't choose to feel the way they feel, therefore, they didn't choose to be gay. If you're attracted to the same sex, you're gay.
JarvisComics 2 months ago
cute ...but your argument is flawed and childish! do u wanna always be qualified with "gay"? gay actor..gay doctor..gay this ..gay that? trust me straight people dont think about being straight 24/7 ...its just silly ..eat pussy ..dont eat pussy...who cares..stop labeling ur selves ...
illuminatiperspectiv 2 months ago
I completely agree with your message, but I feel like you're confusing two very different ideals: choosing your sexuality vs. choosing to accept it.
undefeatable54 2 months ago
AHAHAHAHAHA U LIKE TO LICK IN THAT FISH FISHY VAG IN UR TONGUE LIKE A CREAM EGG AHAHEHEHAHSDHaha
MrsTr0ll 2 months ago
You make me think of a few interesting questions.If i have something in me that is gender queer to begin with, where is the debate about choice.You seem like an honest person and this is the first video i have watched of yours, so i will refrain from to many assumption's.But the words "Exclusion" and "Inclusion" are stirring around my pea brain.In any event, have a good new year if possible.
pcpczeroo 2 months ago
@pcpczeroo The choice is whether or not to express that and act upon it. I am of the opinion that everyone should act upon their biology and be happy with it. My only problem is people who pout and moan about being different. If you don't love who you are, then be someone else, just don't complain to me about it. (end rant)
BornWithoutReligion 2 months ago
@BornWithoutReligion You sound like a logical person,which is cool.I guess what i am thinking about is, people with a gender issue have a high suicide rate and i try my best to not be too objective with them.I think you have a better overview than i do and because of this, yours is one of concern for them rather than just being critical.Have a good one if possible and since you think logical, i have a feeling you will have a good day for sure.
pcpczeroo 2 months ago
@BornWithoutReligion only NOW, after reading your comment do i agree with you. the only "choice" one has is to accept or express their sexuality/orientation. you didn't make that thought very clear in your video AT ALL. It seemed as though you were saying something completely different, as if you woke up one morning and put on t-shirt that says "i'm a lesbian" and now you're a lesbian! We all know it does not work like that
StarrJay 1 month ago in playlist More videos from BornWithoutReligion
@BornWithoutReligion In my opinion I don't like to use the word CHOICE because the word alone in the context of being homosexual just does not fit. Yes, i understand that once you come to the realization that you are gay it may FEEL like as if your making a conscious "decision" but it's simply acceptance. SELF acceptance. The road to happiness is not defined by the destination, its defined by the journey.
StarrJay 1 month ago in playlist More videos from BornWithoutReligion
@BornWithoutReligion We are all control of our own happiness and like you said..if your not happy with something change it. Accept that you have the power to change it! =]
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hey lady i have no problems with gays or lesbains but the lady in this video 100% right its a choice for example i like chocolate someone else maybe like vanilla
raplyclark1987 2 months ago
Homosexual activists understand the power of words.
Please visit my channel to watch a one-minute video clip in which famous atheist Richard Dawkins admits that homosexual activists "hijacked the word 'gay'".
The word "homosexual" is more appropriate and accurate because it, unlike the word "gay", actually describes the behavior/attraction/relationship being discussed.
The word "gay" helps homosexual activists push their agenda.
lightandbeautiful 2 months ago
so, tell me something lesbian, are the macho or the female in yours relationships?
i mean are you pasive or the active bitch?
jajajjajaja
juandeviche 2 months ago
@juandeviche You are an idiot. That's not how real relationships work. Stop watching porn and learn something about other human beings.
BornWithoutReligion 2 months ago
did you chose to be gay or were you born that way
dillinger9999 2 months ago
@dillinger9999 Both, but the choice is MUCH more important.
BornWithoutReligion 2 months ago
@BornWithoutReligion Look I know for fact and anyone with a some intelligence knows that there is no such thing as a "choice" in ones own sexuality. same goes for your feelings you can't choose how to feel anything, you feel regardless of what reality is. Like when you watch a movie and cry over something that isn't real. Sexuality is a feeling and NOT the action. You are very mixed up sorry.
dillinger9999 2 months ago
These two phrases say all:
1)"We need to stop fighting the "it's not a choice" battle because it assumes that, were it a choice, we would NEVER choose being gay over being straight."
2)"Even if someone told me that they could change my biology to be only attracted to men, I would refuse."
1237fa 2 months ago in playlist Mais vídeos de BornWithoutReligion
Wow!!!
I LOVE you woman!
1237fa 2 months ago in playlist Mais vídeos de BornWithoutReligion
@1237fa thanks :)
BornWithoutReligion 2 months ago
I'm glad I read the description as it clarified some, but I'm still confused. When I watched the video I got the impression that you were straight and then decided you wanted to be gay later on, which didn't register with me 'cause I know that being straight, I couldn't CHOOSE to date a man. The thought doesn't excite me in the least contrary to how dating a woman does. Can you try and explain what you mean by CHOOSE? It's an ignorant question, but my hope is to alleviate that ignorance some.
GlassHaus123 2 months ago
@GlassHaus123 The choice is between living a normative (straight) lifestyle or a non-normative (gay) one. It is easier for many people, socially, to be straight but biology generally wins out for those who have same-sex attractions. My point is that those people who gripe about being gay should just be straight (obviously they won't be attracted to their new partner, but that's not what the choice is about). There are people who work past their biology. I wouldn't, but I like being gay.
BornWithoutReligion 2 months ago
@BornWithoutReligion Oh okay. Thanks for clarifying :)
GlassHaus123 2 months ago
@blackbrothapride I think you misunderstood what she said. Assuming I understand her correctly (read description section), she's stating that biologically/Geneticall/emotionally you can't choose to be gay..but that doesn't mean you can't "choose" to live a straight life EVEN if emotionally and physically you are unsatisfied and not attracted to the opposite sex.SO, I took it as her form of sarcasm to say either be proud for being gay or "choose" to live a lie and be miserable.
luigee78 2 months ago
I don't see anything wrong with choosing to be gay. I don't like it when they say they don't have a choice. They may not choose how they feel but they can choose to be with someone of the same sex. I say only those who choose to be gay should live the gay lifestyle otherwise they can just stay in the closet.
dancypants1023 2 months ago
Too bad you live in a fucked up sick country america. You would see what we do to lesbians and gays,their life is their fear,they can't go outdoors being free or saying public that they are gay. gay shame parade? hahahaha it isn't allowed by our goverment ;) And you girl in this video,you can be both gay or straight,you are too ugly to have a pet...
tirkiznimrmot 2 months ago
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tirkiznimrmot 2 months ago
I'm straight and i don't see any problems with people who are LGBT. There really shouldn't be an issue about it. I don't see straight people having straight pride parades. So why does there have to be gay pride parades? You might say its because you're proud of being different. Well everyone is different. No two people can be alike. It just seems a little ridiculous that being LGBT is even an issue. There are more oppressing issues in the world that need to be brought up and discussed.
deathbatsevy 2 months ago
@deathbatsevy I suspect they have pride because many of them have been discriminated against because they are gay, bi, or transexual.
dancypants1023 2 months ago
@BayKennaSyd 2:18
cvstro 2 months ago
That entire statement is so stupid. You don't choose to be gay. You could have sex with a man just as easily as a gay man could have sex with a woman. But are you going to do it? HELL NO, because you have no interest. You don't choose gay, gay chooses you.
BayKennaSyd 2 months ago
The scale from straight to gay, which I believe is a sliding scale, making almost everyone part gay and part straight, is mostly nature and perhaps slightly tweaked by nurture. This mean that a 90% gay person is pretty gay. The only choice one has in any circumstance would be to deny that. Forcing yourself to act against your nature. It's what the Ted Haggards of the world do. There is only the choice to pretend to not be what you are or to be yourself.
Even when it's 50/50.
Voxnulla 2 months ago
Nice video. I'm sick of my gay friends telling me they know for a fact they were born gay. Such an irrational thing to say.
adsfasdkjfh 2 months ago
I am pansexual and DAMN PROUD of who I am. I wouldn't give up my gender-blindness for anything.
UnlacedProductions 2 months ago
Thank goodness someone else thinks like I do, I was a lesbian for many years out of choice because I just couldn't stand the thought of sexual physical submission and its psychological implications. Lesbians could not understand that I taught myself to love women for who they are psychologically. They underestimate the power of the mind to find a comfort zone. Nothing wrong with being comfortable. It gave me so much emotional intelligence and ironically makes me love my husband more.
MsWildtiger 2 months ago in playlist Autres vidéos de BornWithoutReligion
@MsWildtiger I think this state that you are a straight women who decide to do lesbian acts to be more comfortable with who you are. Then, when the objective is done, go back to being straight. Sexual conduct is a choice, like you are saying, and I will add that women are more bisexual then men. But still, I have the impression that you were never really a lesbian, thinking long term. It seems more like an experience then a identity. Not saying that it's bad, If it help you, good for you.
raxkar 2 days ago
@raxkar let me point out that gender was not and is not important in my choice of a partner. If I had found a suitable female partner I would have been faithful to her for as long as it lasted, even till the end of my life. Whatever that makes me, is debatable.
MsWildtiger 2 days ago
@MsWildtiger If it is what makes you happy, I'm glad for you. We all have to discover our self. If that is how you feel, then it's probably better for you.
raxkar 1 day ago
@raxkar and it is all the more debatable considering I do not get much sexual satisfaction from heterosexual sex. Not having the pleasure of being with a woman physically is a sacrifice I chose to make for the man I have committed myself to, who by the way happens to be someone who has all the qualities and high sensitivity one normally attributes to the female gender. Let's just say that for me, personality and affection rules, I am a heart person.
MsWildtiger 2 days ago
I don't really believe that people choose their sexuality...but I do believe that it's healthy to think, "if I the opportunity to be straight (if gay, and vice versa) I'd decline, because I love who I am!" People should take pride in their sexual orientation, race, religion whatever. I don't care if it's a choice or if someone feels that they were born gay...we should all have equal rights. Pisses me off when people use religion to "justify" why gay marriage is wrong. Ugh.
kurtywurty85 2 months ago
You are pretty.
scottandrewhutchins 2 months ago
Thought you don't believe in LABELS.......
pugs321 2 months ago
i am straight so yeah
mjfangirl13 3 months ago
San Francisco's wassup
theimportantperson 3 months ago
Just because you've had a trauma occurying in your childhood days doesn't mean you have to stay there and fight against the opposite sex. In your bitterness, you deprave yourself from the most wonderful earth experience given.
GrandeRio01 3 months ago
@GrandeRio01 rofl, what trauma would that be?
BornWithoutReligion 3 months ago
@BornWithoutReligion- "...what trauma would that be?"
If you believe in the 'cause and effect' theory then you'll agree with my comment concerning a mind set over an negative life experience at an early age. All decision are based on motive regardless of age. Everyone experiences the unfortunate mislead, abuse or hatered by others in one respect or another. But for the most part, we generally make the mistake of blaming..... God.
GrandeRio01 3 months ago
@GrandeRio01 ahahahahahaha, ooh that's tooo typical
theimportantperson 3 months ago
@GrandeRio01 the most woderful earth experience of....? i would think that accepting yourself and your sexuality would be one of the most wonderful experiences...
AutumnDownFall 2 months ago 2
I sort of hate the notion being posited that there has to be a "my community" and "their community" (without ignoring generally present reality, mind you). In my idealistic mind, I feel it should all be "our community."
dog1dog2 3 months ago
@dog1dog2 well said :)
BornWithoutReligion 3 months ago
Great video. I always enjoy content that makes me stop and re-evaluate. :)
Subbed.
Morahg 3 months ago
Well - its not a discussion. The gay gene was preserved as a product of evolutions attempt at eliminating male competition. Every species on Earth engages in homosexual behavior and being that Humans are the only species capable of making decisions based on logic it means that no, being queer is not a choice. Anybody that says different is a fool, or a liar, or both, or they are just so stupid that they literally believe in supernatural deitys laying down the law about shellfish and gay sex.
theSicilianToe 3 months ago
haha omg, looking at your face i am glad you are gay!
elahi2006 3 months ago
i'm bisexual and i'm not afraid to say it :)
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