I do not remember how I came across your videos but just watched some of them. Just wanted to say you that you truly are a beautiful(within & without), open, loving, courageous and warm person. Above all you radiate such strong uplifting and positive energy which is very refreshing at the same time. Wish you happiness ahead.
Im glad I stuck it out for all three videos. A huge wave of appreciation from me for being so honest and candid about your story.
You are blessed, and Im glad that you are coming to the conclusions that you are. Once women realize that the same Goddess resides within each of them, they will no longer turn on each other in order to satisfy their egos or please some unworthy guy.
Thanks for sharing! I hope allot of young women get to see this!
Anthony- Thank you! Honestly, I am shocked so many people have "stuck it out" and listened to all 3 videos. Who knew youtube could be such great therapy? LOL!
I'm male. I agree with the basic message: Ignoring our society's stupid social rules and superficial views. I agree so much that I say you need to go further. Forget gender. Be who you REALLY are, and don't be bothered by other people.
I disagree with the importance you place on sexual power. What do you expect to be the reaction of using this power. And the word "patriarchy" suggests you're a victim of a natural reaction.
As a kid, I looked bad; so I dressed bad. I got the natural reaction. I stopped dressing down. Turns out I don't look bad. I suggest not dressing up. Just dress.
Also, I'm short. I used to act short. Now I'd learned to be myself. I've overcame superficial mentalities.
I hated the 90's male-bashing (I had the same hostility you seem to have). But I only got this attitute from TV(I didn't socialize). I could've just turned off the TV.
And funny, that's what I said to my husband today - if I would ever want to be a guy its because I could wear only comfortable clothes and everyone would treat me with respect just because I showed up on time.
I think that this whole problem ( problem?) will never be easy to approach. No matter how intelligent, smart, loving, caring person I am or you are, we are going to be seen by strangers as a girl with a deep cut and high heels.
What am I supposed to do when I am passed by a couple and the guy is with - possibly wife or a girlfriend - but I see..that he looks at me with too much of an attention....
I turn your head away, right ? ;-)
I was just talking to my husband about high heals. I love them. I feel great in them. Although sometimes my feet hurt at the end of the day..
Do I come back to them ? Yes, I do - I love the feeling of it.
Yes, I am sure its not only about high heels or red blouse with a deep cut ( Lori? ;-)). Yes, it might be more. I hope it is more than being a sexual object.
have been struggling with similar issues. How to draw attention because I am smart and creative etc, not because I am pretty.
On the other hand I was constantly putting my make up on and taking it off trying to find a balance there.
Or - like today, free my breast;-) from nicely cut bra.. And put some big pants on to feel comfortable.
So God bless and I will pray that the Lord can find a solution for you and hopefully make it to were you dont feel those eyes on you. I think you are very confident and it takes a lot of courage to get on here and speak your mind and show your feelings. So remember there are still good people out here that care about others. I know because I can see your one of them...
However, guys are always going to look at you like a sex object and there is no way around that. I think what you need to do is be real careful when your dating and who you hang out with. Make sure you get to know that person real well before you decide there ok and make any kind of commitment. You will have a lot of trouble knowing if they like you for you if you get intimate with them to soon. There are some guys out here that believe in morals, family and most important God.
Im curious, do you think all men just see you as a piece of ass? as you put it... I will say a lot of guys are like that. maybe even 90% of them. But when I look at you here on you tube I just like listening to what you have to say. And usually I agree totally. I didnt know your looks had caused you so much trouble. And your right thats not your problem that guys see you like that. You are a very pretty girl ang God made you that way. its not your fault. (cont)
Blessings to you. That was so incredibly heart felt. You are first and foremost a unique and fascinating human being. No one like you, and to celebrate that is liberating. You are indeed a body and a soul and finding a man which sees you for both those gifts might prove challenging but ultimately rewarding. May your light continue to shine and intensify. There is a kindness and purity which eminates from within, continue to cherish those gifts and like will soon attract like. Much love to you.
It is learning to stand within and hold the highest vibrational level you have achieved. Up high, there are no labels, no judgement, no negative, no gender, no-thing but blissful energy. When you chose to Be in that vibration, others of that same vibe will appear. Like attracts Like. And those of lower vibrations fall out of your life. Good job, SiStar!
Hun, I've known you since we were what? 11 or 12 years old...I think that you're amazing and that what you've accomplished in your life is amazing. You look great but more importantly you feel great about yourself and I think that's so important. I know where you came from and I always thought you were a beautiful person but I think you should be really happy with who you've become. Cecilia :)
I paid attention. I played it twice. For every action, there's a re-action. br1's comment was a re-action you know you'll get. If the Re-action bothers you. it's up to you.
Im kinda speechless. This was amazing. I could feel the power in these videos. Great job Lori. Thank you so much for sharing and analyzing life with us. I love examing the world from all angles and this was enlightening.
Your beauty is a gift for us. Thank you. You are radiating a vision of health and happiness. Your life makes my life that much more interesting to live.
Wow! This was such a great video, I hope you recognize what a beautiful person you are.
I have been watching your channel for a while now and have loved everything you have put into it. I think this journey that you have been on with food, fitness, being single and being a mother,
has brought you to this powerful and enlightened space and I hope that you will continue to grow and share!
Well I definitely gotta give u mad props 4 posting such a personal & heart-filled video series here on yt 4 the world 2 c! U r loaded w/ talent & I'm glad that ur out doing great things with it.
I know 1 of the things that came 2 my mind when I 1st came across ur channel (I believe it was a raw food vid that got me here) was the impact ud b able 2 make on girls.. bcuz I know a lot of girls that feel, 'pretty girls dont pay attention 2 wut they eat' - & then here u r showing them differently :)
Needed to hear this message. Thank you!!!!
nokim1 7 months ago
Preach! I can't wait until I have a healthy self esteem.
alissababi 10 months ago
thank you for this video!!! I really apreciate it!!!
RealsleepyheadzzZZ 1 year ago
This made me cry with joy.
KommenSieSpielster 1 year ago
I am understanding your message! Youre amazing Lori!!!
KommenSieSpielster 1 year ago
I do not remember how I came across your videos but just watched some of them. Just wanted to say you that you truly are a beautiful(within & without), open, loving, courageous and warm person. Above all you radiate such strong uplifting and positive energy which is very refreshing at the same time. Wish you happiness ahead.
simplygaurang 1 year ago
You really are an inspiration! :)
oneforsmall 1 year ago
Great series. You are beautiful. Thanks for sharing
SOCRATES012 1 year ago
You GO Girl !
chookinshow 2 years ago
Thank you so much for this video.
louel83 2 years ago
Im glad I stuck it out for all three videos. A huge wave of appreciation from me for being so honest and candid about your story.
You are blessed, and Im glad that you are coming to the conclusions that you are. Once women realize that the same Goddess resides within each of them, they will no longer turn on each other in order to satisfy their egos or please some unworthy guy.
Thanks for sharing! I hope allot of young women get to see this!
Rawmodel 2 years ago 2
Anthony- Thank you! Honestly, I am shocked so many people have "stuck it out" and listened to all 3 videos. Who knew youtube could be such great therapy? LOL!
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
Thank you for the great videos!!!
They are just the reminder I needed to hear, about not dimming my light to make others comfortable... & just being proud of who I am :)
Thanks for being an example of someone who's beautiful inside and out :)
Serendipity0711 2 years ago
WOOO!! YOU GO GIRL!!! I can relate so much to this! Thank-you for making this!!!
LeijaTurunen 2 years ago
I'm male. I agree with the basic message: Ignoring our society's stupid social rules and superficial views. I agree so much that I say you need to go further. Forget gender. Be who you REALLY are, and don't be bothered by other people.
I disagree with the importance you place on sexual power. What do you expect to be the reaction of using this power. And the word "patriarchy" suggests you're a victim of a natural reaction.
continued....
Gary1111001 2 years ago 2
pt 2
As a kid, I looked bad; so I dressed bad. I got the natural reaction. I stopped dressing down. Turns out I don't look bad. I suggest not dressing up. Just dress.
Also, I'm short. I used to act short. Now I'd learned to be myself. I've overcame superficial mentalities.
I hated the 90's male-bashing (I had the same hostility you seem to have). But I only got this attitute from TV(I didn't socialize). I could've just turned off the TV.
Gary1111001 2 years ago
SHAKTI!!!!!
ylimerivers 2 years ago
You rock! Thanks so much for sharing your inspiring & authentic feminine experience.
rosefrancaise 2 years ago
That was an awesome message! Thanks for sharing! We should realize that we're amazing the way we are!
kimonokelsy 2 years ago
Thank you!
Very helpful...
Food4Health1Spirit 2 years ago
There will be sexual interest and insecurities. This will never change.
Wish you all the best.
Marta
RAWVOLTA 2 years ago
LAST PART :
And funny, that's what I said to my husband today - if I would ever want to be a guy its because I could wear only comfortable clothes and everyone would treat me with respect just because I showed up on time.
I think that this whole problem ( problem?) will never be easy to approach. No matter how intelligent, smart, loving, caring person I am or you are, we are going to be seen by strangers as a girl with a deep cut and high heels.
RAWVOLTA 2 years ago
........as long as you choose a deep cut and high heels.
Gary1111001 2 years ago
FIRST PART :
Lori.
I KNOW.
What am I supposed to do when I am passed by a couple and the guy is with - possibly wife or a girlfriend - but I see..that he looks at me with too much of an attention....
I turn your head away, right ? ;-)
I was just talking to my husband about high heals. I love them. I feel great in them. Although sometimes my feet hurt at the end of the day..
Do I come back to them ? Yes, I do - I love the feeling of it.
RAWVOLTA 2 years ago
Yes, I am sure its not only about high heels or red blouse with a deep cut ( Lori? ;-)). Yes, it might be more. I hope it is more than being a sexual object.
have been struggling with similar issues. How to draw attention because I am smart and creative etc, not because I am pretty.
On the other hand I was constantly putting my make up on and taking it off trying to find a balance there.
Or - like today, free my breast;-) from nicely cut bra.. And put some big pants on to feel comfortable.
RAWVOLTA 2 years ago
You are strong. You know where you are going.You are a winner Lori.Push ahead now.
3 gr8 vidz.
starship333 2 years ago
So God bless and I will pray that the Lord can find a solution for you and hopefully make it to were you dont feel those eyes on you. I think you are very confident and it takes a lot of courage to get on here and speak your mind and show your feelings. So remember there are still good people out here that care about others. I know because I can see your one of them...
RedWhiteandBetrayed 2 years ago
However, guys are always going to look at you like a sex object and there is no way around that. I think what you need to do is be real careful when your dating and who you hang out with. Make sure you get to know that person real well before you decide there ok and make any kind of commitment. You will have a lot of trouble knowing if they like you for you if you get intimate with them to soon. There are some guys out here that believe in morals, family and most important God.
RedWhiteandBetrayed 2 years ago 2
Im curious, do you think all men just see you as a piece of ass? as you put it... I will say a lot of guys are like that. maybe even 90% of them. But when I look at you here on you tube I just like listening to what you have to say. And usually I agree totally. I didnt know your looks had caused you so much trouble. And your right thats not your problem that guys see you like that. You are a very pretty girl ang God made you that way. its not your fault. (cont)
RedWhiteandBetrayed 2 years ago
thanking for sharing so much of yourself..i wish all women could hear what you have to say!!
viveleraw 2 years ago
Blessings to you. That was so incredibly heart felt. You are first and foremost a unique and fascinating human being. No one like you, and to celebrate that is liberating. You are indeed a body and a soul and finding a man which sees you for both those gifts might prove challenging but ultimately rewarding. May your light continue to shine and intensify. There is a kindness and purity which eminates from within, continue to cherish those gifts and like will soon attract like. Much love to you.
2cgod 2 years ago
oh lord lori, you reduced me to tears, you have no idea. i really needed to hear something like this. thank you so much :D
gunsandbooks 2 years ago
((big hugs))
thrivesurvive 2 years ago
Aww...Alexis! I just love you! ;)
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
I loves you too, lady!
thrivesurvive 2 years ago
It is learning to stand within and hold the highest vibrational level you have achieved. Up high, there are no labels, no judgement, no negative, no gender, no-thing but blissful energy. When you chose to Be in that vibration, others of that same vibe will appear. Like attracts Like. And those of lower vibrations fall out of your life. Good job, SiStar!
StarFlower99654 2 years ago
Hun, I've known you since we were what? 11 or 12 years old...I think that you're amazing and that what you've accomplished in your life is amazing. You look great but more importantly you feel great about yourself and I think that's so important. I know where you came from and I always thought you were a beautiful person but I think you should be really happy with who you've become. Cecilia :)
Gwenevre 2 years ago
Cissy! THANK YOU!!!!!!!
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
love to my friend...
crudebliss 2 years ago
if ur sick of feeling like a sex object, stop flopping ur tities out. LOL
br1malhpm 2 years ago 2
Old habits die hard...;)
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
the human body is made up of the seven chakras...
Go higher my friend...
Love the Crown Chakra
crudebliss 2 years ago
That's so messed up, br1. She is a person.
thrivesurvive 2 years ago
didn't you pay attention to what she was saying?
it's precisely your kind of comments that need to die, jesus christ!
gunsandbooks 2 years ago
I paid attention. I played it twice. For every action, there's a re-action. br1's comment was a re-action you know you'll get. If the Re-action bothers you. it's up to you.
Gary1111001 2 years ago
You're SO gorgeous. it's ridiculous seriously. and you have a good head on your shoulders! amazing. to few women are as strong as you
kyleycoyote1 2 years ago
thank you!
pinkbeam 2 years ago
Im kinda speechless. This was amazing. I could feel the power in these videos. Great job Lori. Thank you so much for sharing and analyzing life with us. I love examing the world from all angles and this was enlightening.
CAlex6977 2 years ago
I get your point.
Your beauty is a gift for us. Thank you. You are radiating a vision of health and happiness. Your life makes my life that much more interesting to live.
Love your presence on Youtube and in the world.
Thanks.
chiropra1 2 years ago
Great videos, I listened to every word. You are a great speaker.
nomponce 2 years ago
Wow! This was such a great video, I hope you recognize what a beautiful person you are.
I have been watching your channel for a while now and have loved everything you have put into it. I think this journey that you have been on with food, fitness, being single and being a mother,
has brought you to this powerful and enlightened space and I hope that you will continue to grow and share!
Thank you very much. ^_^
lackingknowledge 2 years ago
can I hear a AMEN.......Women let your light shine.....
7llazaren 2 years ago
Well I definitely gotta give u mad props 4 posting such a personal & heart-filled video series here on yt 4 the world 2 c! U r loaded w/ talent & I'm glad that ur out doing great things with it.
I know 1 of the things that came 2 my mind when I 1st came across ur channel (I believe it was a raw food vid that got me here) was the impact ud b able 2 make on girls.. bcuz I know a lot of girls that feel, 'pretty girls dont pay attention 2 wut they eat' - & then here u r showing them differently :)
JFHEALTHYandFit 2 years ago
no need to feel bad, men love confident happy women. Of course they are going to gravitate to you. Don't feel bad if you did nothing wrong.
StrawberryBigMac 2 years ago
Amen, sista! Embrace it all! Stay strong. ^_^
jessLUVSdave 2 years ago