Okay so I like this guy named...let's say Bob. Hes friends with my friend Talia, so we talk a little, But I don't think he feels even close to the way I do...All the other girls he has dated are prettier, skinner, and more popular then me, really...I 'm afraid I'll be rejected if I even hint towards it...We"re kinda friends, but not that close..Some say I should just go for it..But HOW?!
OMG ARE U SERIOUS!? :DD there is this guy that im SOO into and we raised his eyebrows at me. and is always looking at me with the corner of his eye :D
I'm 14 and the guy I like is 16. I think he likes me but even by watching these videos I still don't know. First of all he ALWAYS likes my stuff on Facebook. And everytime I see him at the mall or something he always smiles real big and sometimes I'll go give him a hug.. When he comments on my stuff on Facebook he always puts smiley faces and lol and stuff like that..
I don't know if he is just being sweet or if he has the same feelings I have for him...Please some
It is 2am and i STILL aint getting enough omgg it's soo shockingly true i love love loooveee youu and i will be taking this to consideration in the future deffffoooo <3
heey! i love your videos! well i really like this guy and he said he likes, me, but a week later he said he just wants to be friends :/ but i still really like him, and i always catch him looking at me :/ what do i do!?!?
HI, well i like this one guy and i always thinks he likes me because he likes to look at me like you say, and he always like to mess around with me. But then when i think he likes me, he flirts with other girls. So, is he just not intrested in me and he just likes to flirt with girls. Please tell me what to do.
Watching this video seriously made my night, I thought I was the only girl who was paranoid about "mixed messages"!! Thank you so much, you are amazing girl!!!
In grade 6 they look at you and MAKE jokes about you and what do you do if you see them everyday like in school and don't change and just want to be themselves ??And what if he walks by you than starts staring??And what if a guy knows you like him and you know he likes you cuz he told you and already got a girlfriend what do you do??
So if a guy dated my friend then they broke up we hung out and I was in his car we talked alot it was really fun and he held my hand and he told me too text him is he into me or was he trying to make my friend jealous? And should I try to date him?
@Mariahmccaleb Well, to me it sounds like he's just a player, it depends on how long they've been broken up for. It depends on how your friend still feels about him. If she totally doesn't have any feelings for him, he might be trying to get her jealous, but if they are both TOTALLY over each other he could be into you. Always talk to your friend about it first. Sometimes friends don't like it when you date their ex. If your friend is okay with it, try it out. Hope this helps :)
I need advice there's a guy in my class and he sometimes at least twice a day will look straight in to my eyes in a loving way and when ever we watch a video in class some people movie their chairs to sit by their friends but instead of sitting by his friends he moves his chair and sits next to me every time and he's always trying to get my attention by telling me jokes and asking me random questions like "how was your day" or "did you have a good lunch" please help me I'm soooooooooooooooo con
i need some advise.?! okay so theres a boy he sometimes stairs at me (more then alot then not) okay so one day we did a whats up hand shake thing nd we landed up holing hands then the other day he asked for a hug. he talks to me alot but he can get nasty at times he always smiles at me nd tlks to me does tht mean he lykes me.?
can anyone help me? i really like my friend and i thought he liked me too but i blew it. i started to act like a sister with him and now he's dating another girl. what shoul i do?
As a guy, I can tell you that we are really simple creatures, it's rare that we will be outright disinterested in any girl, because our logic is as such: "even if she's a horrible person, I can still sleep with her"
The difficult thing to tell is, whether he is INTERESTED ENOUGH to make a move on you.
This is good Rachel. Thanks :) so can I say that men are either "black" or "white"? So if they like u, they'll show their Interest and if they don't, they will act like they don't like u? And cause women, are the "grey", we tend to look at men in "grey"s? Am I getting this right? :)
(part 3) well since he stopped to be all over me (we still hung out at school though) i just noticed how much i liked him (he was my freakin life for a year i did nothing but talking to him over skype) hes gorgeus as weird as he is. well this kiss i didn't hear anything from him. and than he told me he wouldn't have feelings for me D: i mean please?! do you think he's just scared? or afraid to get hurt? (omg this is way to long of a comment but you are great and i realy don't know what to think)
(Part two) well when i got back home this summer. he imedeatly called me. he asked me out to go to some festival with him (just with him) and i really enjoied hanging out with him. when i was waiting for my tram home he huged me quite long but when he was about to kiss me i took a step backwards. i simply wasn't sure if i wanted this to happen (honestly hes a freak who was stalking me like crazy!) we didn't hang out for some months after this. than at my birthdayparty we kissed
(part one)There is this guy. He never!!! had a girlfriend or anything alike it in his lifetime (and hes 18 and he looks good! and hes smart! he lives in the basement is a compleet nerd and well some how is a weirdo (the cutest n.n ever though!!!) i spend my last year abroad (be fore that i was with my ex) during this year i spend abroad he messaged me 24 7!!!! like 24 7!!! he called me like every week and he sended me packages with german candy and newspapers and so on. (wait there is a part 2)
Theres this one boy who always looks at me and and lifts his eyebrow but every time i try to talk to him his friends or my friends get in the way what should i do????
I love your videos you should have once a week a vid on just anwering questions.I love the name Rachel
My crush is showing almost every o e of these signs. We always notice each other looking at one another. But whenever we speak in person we get nervous. Also he not really the serious type. He likes making people laugh and is always happy it seems. HELP!
What if he looks at you all the time and you make eye contact but you both don't talk.., and he seems interested but has a girlfriend.. He always smiles at me an try's to impress..
wat if the guy looks at you all the time but you both don't talk ? the guy that i lke knows i like him and he always looks over and we ride at the same stables but we don't talk x wat should i do ? ps he let me have his number x
OH MY GOD im kicking myself! where was this video a year ago lol XD I wish i say this. long story short. my guy friend of 7 years decided to have feelings for me all of a sudden. So me being his friend kinda sorta.. fell for him, THEN he decided to like my best friend, this kinda ruined our friendship. hes not my guyfriend anymore, hes not in my life anymore i cut him out of it, but omg it took me MONTHS to relize what you say in this video. Im glad i know this now XD
i just really wanted to know that if a guy totally gets on your nerve but is always looking at you and gets shy by just walking past you and is like way too shy when you talk to him or are just in the same room with him does that mean he likes you
There's these 3 guys...and they're really close friends...1st on gave me a necklace that had my name in cursive for Christmas and he is really shy at school but outside of school he won't shut up! It doesn't annoy me, but it's annoying that he's not this fun at school. The second one won't stop texting me. He's the type of guy that is kin of annoying, but in a funny sarcastic way. And the 3rd is always excited and funny, and there's a rumor going around that he likes me...but I'm not sure w
you help a lot with these types of things!!!! and im a teenager ,im 15 and have had only one boyfriend for a day ,cuz i broke up with him ,cuz i freaked out about gettin into a relationship and he tried to take it too fast ,he already had asked me where i wanted my wedding to be and we barely started dating!!!! so all i want is a really good guy who understands me and respects my feelings !!!!!
there's this guy who always looks at me he just stares when i'm walking in the hallway at school he just stares at me and sometimes it seems like he's trying to make me laugh all the time (but he's ugly)
he has done things like Get my Number, asked me to the Gym, we talk pretty often.latley I feel like hes just not as interested anymore?We can hold eye contact for a good few seconds.theres so many signals that are good and bad i get from him.It could just be a bad time?2day we were talking in a group and he just got up to go talk to some other people.Keeping in mind he was in a bad mood(for a good reason)im just not sure what to think? these mixed signals are starting to really get to me.
OH MY GOODNESS! YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! I'm in love with this! There was this guy I liked and he said he would never date me because of my height but he would always stare at me like he was interested! So, I thought he liked me but it all went downhill from there. He was sending me "mixed messages" (Now I know that there is no such thing) and I told him I liked him! He told me he would never date me and told the whole basketball team what I did! I was so hurt and embarrassed!
What if one day I look at him, smile, try to talk to him and laugh at all his jokes and stuff, the next day I "realise" I was way too obvious and he probably doesn't like me anyway so I just pretend he doesn't exist, but I actually reaaally like him. Not a mixed message? I'm just not that into him?
@RachelGleek101 It means you are in 5th grade and shouldn't be worried about it. Have fun while you're still a kid. You might try so hard to grow up at a young age, but when you do grow up, you'll be wishing you enjoyed your childhood.
@RachelGleek101 Maybe you and him both should go on a date or something. or you both like each other and i hope i can help because i am in 6th grade and i see this a lot at the middle school.
Thank you for this. You are like the older sister I never had. And a really good role model. I look up to you alot. You speak the truth, and when you explain it, it begins to make more and more sense. It makes me alot less confused when it comes to guys. Thanks so much <3
Wow this was great! You don't know how much it helped me open up a new perspective about the love world lol! And man! That mixed message rule made me smiling like an idiot xD cuz it's true! I am that girl that is in denial :} gotta start accepting things ^_^! thanks so much! :*
Thx for the vid!!!!!! I decided that since I'm having a Christmas party that I'm gonna use the LSD method or I will just stop being a chicken and tell him
Do you pay him back compliments? EX: He's like you have a cute smile. Should you be like You have nice eyes? Or just say thanks and bring something else up?
There is this boy and I have one class with him everyday. The other day he told me that he liked me. Today he talked to me about what he said and I didn`t know what to say so I remained silent. I think by doing that I hurt his feelings and he told me that I probably think that he is an "immature little boy." I don`t want him to hate me and I want to be friends with him, but I think I messed up my chance at that. Plz help me if you can!!!
what if a guy is usually always where u r....like today i was going to lunch and he was down the hall just staring and smiling but he has a gf and he dont act that into her....and what if he pushes someone into u nd he was like srry hes really clumsy was he just trying to start a convo??? PLEASE HELP ME im new to this
theres this guy in one of my classes and hes really hot! i've herd him talking to his friends about me when i walk by in the hall. he trys to sit as close to me as he can and we always lock eye contact! (for like, a long time!) i need advice!! plz help!!
Hey! This actually helped alot, but I have specific questions that im really confused about! I would be so happy if you helped me figure some of this stuff out! Thanks! xoxo
Ugh there's this guy tht rlly like me...like high level of intrest here....txts every day talkinng to me allll the time. And wen I told him I want to be frends he went out with my friend not even 2weeks later...he still txts me every day tho and acts the same and tries to hang out with only me but he isn't the kind that would cheat....so is he just being friendly or sumthn more?
what if the guy ask alot of personal questions, how many bfs i had, first kiss, or anything, flirts but then acts like a jerk. he mentions his ex gf, or if im talking to him and has not respond and i tell him is he buzy and responds i have to talk to my sexy cumtomers. like wtf? does he like me yes or no
So this guy I like always sits with me at lunch and we talk and stuff and he compliments me and stuff. I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. The funny thing is people think were going out. Another problem is a friend of mine likes him/obsessed. I really don't want to lose my friend so I haven't told her I like him. Could you make a video explaining what to do in that situation?
Again a very good episode. Strange that someone so young is giving so high quality and reality based answers. There are many women who I've met who are in their 60'ties and never understood these things. I think you should send these videos to small scale tv stations and ask would they have a program opening for you. You got nothing to lose.
Hi! I don't know if you actually read all the comments, but might as well give it a try. Long story short. I like this guy, liked him for a couple years. Recently found out he's my brothers friend as I just moved to my dad's and go to the same school as The Guy. He's a year ahead of me so we don't have any classes together. But I see him in the halls and we have the same lunch. I Want to get over him but it's been superr hard so I thought I'd just send him some signals and see what happens. I
theres this guy that i like, but he is kinda sending both kinds of feelings. kinda like he may be shy. im so used to helping other people out with their love problems that when i have 1 idk what to do. he flirts with me a little, he randomly hugs me, and he puts up a heart to me. :\ im really confused! can u help?
as a guy....looking is the most solid sign......if your eyes catch once means nothing....if you see them looking at you multiple times over multiple days....hes interested
what if u can't gage a guys reaction? I had a crush on this guy and he okay I know he wasn't very intersant but it was really hard to tell b/c he wouldn't like open up and talk to me.
can u post a video about middle school if like a guy you like likes ur best friend what u should do.......or something liek that......ps: ur vids rock!!!!
i dated this one guy in my school... 1 year older to me... and he called me and asked me out... but then we dated only for 5 days... and i deeply madly like him... and now its been 2 whole months and i still like him... but i don't get it if he's into me or not...! cause i have heard from many girls that he's just a plain PLAYER. don't knw if im going the right wayy HELP
Wow your better than dan and jennifer .. like this totally explains what im going through especially on thaat "MIXED MESSAGES" part like im going to start watching more of your vids now <3
You're hilarious i love you. You should be an actress. Seriously.
And i love your honesty and the fact that you realize that women really do think like that!!! I realize that, and it's sooo hard to tell my friends when they're wrong. From now on i should just show them this video LOL.
You're hilarious i love you. You should be an actress. Seriously.
And i love your honesty and the fact that you realize that women really do think like that!!! I realize that, and it's sooo hard to tell my friends when they're wrong. From now on i should just show them this video LOL.
Okay so I like this guy named...let's say Bob. Hes friends with my friend Talia, so we talk a little, But I don't think he feels even close to the way I do...All the other girls he has dated are prettier, skinner, and more popular then me, really...I 'm afraid I'll be rejected if I even hint towards it...We"re kinda friends, but not that close..Some say I should just go for it..But HOW?!
KarleeLuv21 2 days ago
OMG ARE U SERIOUS!? :DD there is this guy that im SOO into and we raised his eyebrows at me. and is always looking at me with the corner of his eye :D
girlsrock937 2 days ago
ur amazing thank you for this information
JylaStyles 2 days ago
Can somebody please help me?
I'm 14 and the guy I like is 16. I think he likes me but even by watching these videos I still don't know. First of all he ALWAYS likes my stuff on Facebook. And everytime I see him at the mall or something he always smiles real big and sometimes I'll go give him a hug.. When he comments on my stuff on Facebook he always puts smiley faces and lol and stuff like that..
I don't know if he is just being sweet or if he has the same feelings I have for him...Please some
malloreo32 5 days ago
what if you and him are already friends?
Zemyxlover99 1 week ago
I really like this guy but I've never talked to him. Its so embarrassing. I really want to talk to him but I am so scared :/
bipbop28 1 week ago
i needed this....lol
rachelacUS 1 week ago
It is 2am and i STILL aint getting enough omgg it's soo shockingly true i love love loooveee youu and i will be taking this to consideration in the future deffffoooo <3
Amaziine 1 week ago
i no u help but what about zits all the guys want the pretty girls what do i do?????????????????
sampies12 1 week ago
THANK YOU FOR THIS! :) you are amazing :) <33
xeviolet 1 week ago
you are so beautiful omg.
mkoul1 1 week ago
heey! i love your videos! well i really like this guy and he said he likes, me, but a week later he said he just wants to be friends :/ but i still really like him, and i always catch him looking at me :/ what do i do!?!?
jessmorlandreh 2 weeks ago
I LOVE your videos!!!!! :) they're very informative and helpful
Etena95 2 weeks ago
HI, well i like this one guy and i always thinks he likes me because he likes to look at me like you say, and he always like to mess around with me. But then when i think he likes me, he flirts with other girls. So, is he just not intrested in me and he just likes to flirt with girls. Please tell me what to do.
16kbergren1 2 weeks ago
I love Your Dating Tips !
So i have a friend and i think about him at times.
i dont know if im starting to fall for him.
but when i see him talking to some others girls i kinda get jealous.
Can u make a video on "how do u know when ur falling for a guy" Please? (:
cemf11 3 weeks ago 22
Your videos are soo helpful
SuperDerpface 3 weeks ago
<3
jackyzred 3 weeks ago
this video was so helpful. how do u make that heart shape on the title of the video? thanks!!
PinkberryFlora 3 weeks ago
you are amazing !!
TheTwistedFeet 3 weeks ago
Watching this video seriously made my night, I thought I was the only girl who was paranoid about "mixed messages"!! Thank you so much, you are amazing girl!!!
KLauzon21 3 weeks ago
In grade 6 they look at you and MAKE jokes about you and what do you do if you see them everyday like in school and don't change and just want to be themselves ??And what if he walks by you than starts staring??And what if a guy knows you like him and you know he likes you cuz he told you and already got a girlfriend what do you do??
hoggvx011 4 weeks ago
Awesome stuff , thanks !
JvNelsonn 4 weeks ago
wow. I love you. Thank you SO much.
morgan080911 4 weeks ago
^_^ Love
xxlovexxdrunkxx 1 month ago
Will you do a 'how to get over him'
imistyify 1 month ago
So if a guy dated my friend then they broke up we hung out and I was in his car we talked alot it was really fun and he held my hand and he told me too text him is he into me or was he trying to make my friend jealous? And should I try to date him?
Mariahmccaleb 1 month ago
@Mariahmccaleb Well, to me it sounds like he's just a player, it depends on how long they've been broken up for. It depends on how your friend still feels about him. If she totally doesn't have any feelings for him, he might be trying to get her jealous, but if they are both TOTALLY over each other he could be into you. Always talk to your friend about it first. Sometimes friends don't like it when you date their ex. If your friend is okay with it, try it out. Hope this helps :)
SirMcBinks 1 month ago
The part about moderate-low interest really helped me!! I totally get it now!
juliajesse 1 month ago
I need advice there's a guy in my class and he sometimes at least twice a day will look straight in to my eyes in a loving way and when ever we watch a video in class some people movie their chairs to sit by their friends but instead of sitting by his friends he moves his chair and sits next to me every time and he's always trying to get my attention by telling me jokes and asking me random questions like "how was your day" or "did you have a good lunch" please help me I'm soooooooooooooooo con
DogBunnys 1 month ago
i need some advise.?! okay so theres a boy he sometimes stairs at me (more then alot then not) okay so one day we did a whats up hand shake thing nd we landed up holing hands then the other day he asked for a hug. he talks to me alot but he can get nasty at times he always smiles at me nd tlks to me does tht mean he lykes me.?
lexie748 1 month ago
omg i love u haha ur soooo helpful!!!!
love2lovefriends 1 month ago
haha the eyebrow fact is true. i nvr realized it but now that i think about it...
JustMe19959 1 month ago
can anyone help me? i really like my friend and i thought he liked me too but i blew it. i started to act like a sister with him and now he's dating another girl. what shoul i do?
TeamNacy 1 month ago
ohemgee your amazing Thankyou.
TheMonkeyFish17 1 month ago
Rachel help me with how to get with a shy guy!!!!!!! please thankss
cupcakessification 1 month ago
any tips for 5ith graders?
ashluver34 1 month ago
Thank you for this reality check!!!
luv2volley 1 month ago 12
Sooo the guy I like does none of these things :(
luv2volley 1 month ago
omgg, THANK YOU! this is SO helpful! I LOVE YOUUU
XxLoveeMusiccxX1 1 month ago
LOL you're funny :D
lily8394 1 month ago
As a guy, I can tell you that we are really simple creatures, it's rare that we will be outright disinterested in any girl, because our logic is as such: "even if she's a horrible person, I can still sleep with her"
The difficult thing to tell is, whether he is INTERESTED ENOUGH to make a move on you.
ImperialArmour 1 month ago
I need advice ,
i really like a guy in my class and he is kinda popular he talks to pretty much every girl in my class except for me ,
he would rarely say anything to me(other guys talk to me but not him).
Our eyes normally meet , but we both look away causally
but i don't even know if he likes me and i have no intention in asking
can someone please help :) ASAP!!!!!
supersizzel 1 month ago
I'm 15 & hope youtubes still around 20 years from now so i can sit my future daughter in front of the screen to watch your dating 101's...
ashea1234 1 month ago
Girl, I love you!
JanaBajana2 1 month ago
he just not into you <-- story of my life forever apone <3
supdawgs6498 1 month ago
This is good Rachel. Thanks :) so can I say that men are either "black" or "white"? So if they like u, they'll show their Interest and if they don't, they will act like they don't like u? And cause women, are the "grey", we tend to look at men in "grey"s? Am I getting this right? :)
LaStellaBella87 1 month ago
youre so pretty rachel! & so helpful :) love yaxx
shadylady3103 1 month ago
I Heart You!!!
LiLSweetMexican 1 month ago
Love.This!
KeaneLuvr 1 month ago
and where do i find these crazy men?............
brandylabranche 1 month ago
(part 3) well since he stopped to be all over me (we still hung out at school though) i just noticed how much i liked him (he was my freakin life for a year i did nothing but talking to him over skype) hes gorgeus as weird as he is. well this kiss i didn't hear anything from him. and than he told me he wouldn't have feelings for me D: i mean please?! do you think he's just scared? or afraid to get hurt? (omg this is way to long of a comment but you are great and i realy don't know what to think)
Lalolalottje 1 month ago
(Part two) well when i got back home this summer. he imedeatly called me. he asked me out to go to some festival with him (just with him) and i really enjoied hanging out with him. when i was waiting for my tram home he huged me quite long but when he was about to kiss me i took a step backwards. i simply wasn't sure if i wanted this to happen (honestly hes a freak who was stalking me like crazy!) we didn't hang out for some months after this. than at my birthdayparty we kissed
Lalolalottje 1 month ago
(part one)There is this guy. He never!!! had a girlfriend or anything alike it in his lifetime (and hes 18 and he looks good! and hes smart! he lives in the basement is a compleet nerd and well some how is a weirdo (the cutest n.n ever though!!!) i spend my last year abroad (be fore that i was with my ex) during this year i spend abroad he messaged me 24 7!!!! like 24 7!!! he called me like every week and he sended me packages with german candy and newspapers and so on. (wait there is a part 2)
Lalolalottje 1 month ago
You are so helpful! ♥
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Theres this one boy who always looks at me and and lifts his eyebrow but every time i try to talk to him his friends or my friends get in the way what should i do????
I love your videos you should have once a week a vid on just anwering questions.I love the name Rachel
Marissa46056 1 month ago
My crush is showing almost every o e of these signs. We always notice each other looking at one another. But whenever we speak in person we get nervous. Also he not really the serious type. He likes making people laugh and is always happy it seems. HELP!
ILuffWarriorCats 1 month ago
What if he looks at you all the time and you make eye contact but you both don't talk.., and he seems interested but has a girlfriend.. He always smiles at me an try's to impress..
taylorlautnerfan6997 1 month ago
@taylorlautnerfan6997 omg the same thing happens with me...but he doesn't have a girlfriend O_0
paola1100100 1 month ago
wat if the guy looks at you all the time but you both don't talk ? the guy that i lke knows i like him and he always looks over and we ride at the same stables but we don't talk x wat should i do ? ps he let me have his number x
CieraxDustain 2 months ago
Thankyou, this was incredibly helpful for me :)
Daisydoll7 2 months ago
@LilylovesFashion. the same thing happened to me but i miss him as my best friend. she just wont talk to me anymore.
i love your videos! they are ahmazing and help a lot thankss.
7799poppy 2 months ago
i love your dating videos. you get the point across, but in it nice way :)
dancergurl22514 2 months ago
OH MY GOD im kicking myself! where was this video a year ago lol XD I wish i say this. long story short. my guy friend of 7 years decided to have feelings for me all of a sudden. So me being his friend kinda sorta.. fell for him, THEN he decided to like my best friend, this kinda ruined our friendship. hes not my guyfriend anymore, hes not in my life anymore i cut him out of it, but omg it took me MONTHS to relize what you say in this video. Im glad i know this now XD
LivylovesFashion 2 months ago
thanksss
Imthecutiepiexoxo 2 months ago
I like your tips alout
TheAshelylove 2 months ago
The guy I am falling for texted me while I was watching this! Haha!<3
basketballrox77 2 months ago
i just really wanted to know that if a guy totally gets on your nerve but is always looking at you and gets shy by just walking past you and is like way too shy when you talk to him or are just in the same room with him does that mean he likes you
princess536101 2 months ago
He's just not they into u.... Um, idt he's that into u... Maybe he's just not that into u.! xD
briahmaria26 2 months ago
you really help
terrywoo63 2 months ago
There's these 3 guys...and they're really close friends...1st on gave me a necklace that had my name in cursive for Christmas and he is really shy at school but outside of school he won't shut up! It doesn't annoy me, but it's annoying that he's not this fun at school. The second one won't stop texting me. He's the type of guy that is kin of annoying, but in a funny sarcastic way. And the 3rd is always excited and funny, and there's a rumor going around that he likes me...but I'm not sure w
Junimel123 2 months ago
you help a lot with these types of things!!!! and im a teenager ,im 15 and have had only one boyfriend for a day ,cuz i broke up with him ,cuz i freaked out about gettin into a relationship and he tried to take it too fast ,he already had asked me where i wanted my wedding to be and we barely started dating!!!! so all i want is a really good guy who understands me and respects my feelings !!!!!
lolofc38 2 months ago
i love dating 101 :) you can explane some things very good
BlueLovesFromMe 2 months ago
You should be an actress LOL
OhCrapItsZaiiniiLOL 2 months ago
and just saying there was this really cute guy and he looked at me and asked if we could meet at my lockerr and now i know u rule
xxawesomegirl22 2 months ago
there's this guy who always looks at me he just stares when i'm walking in the hallway at school he just stares at me and sometimes it seems like he's trying to make me laugh all the time (but he's ugly)
xxawesomegirl22 2 months ago
he has done things like Get my Number, asked me to the Gym, we talk pretty often.latley I feel like hes just not as interested anymore?We can hold eye contact for a good few seconds.theres so many signals that are good and bad i get from him.It could just be a bad time?2day we were talking in a group and he just got up to go talk to some other people.Keeping in mind he was in a bad mood(for a good reason)im just not sure what to think? these mixed signals are starting to really get to me.
HaibaraAi91169 2 months ago
OH MY GOODNESS! YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! I'm in love with this! There was this guy I liked and he said he would never date me because of my height but he would always stare at me like he was interested! So, I thought he liked me but it all went downhill from there. He was sending me "mixed messages" (Now I know that there is no such thing) and I told him I liked him! He told me he would never date me and told the whole basketball team what I did! I was so hurt and embarrassed!
MISSxoxoxILuvu 2 months ago
Wow, thank you so much!
There is no such thing as a mixed message.
I'll remember that :D
ann5doctormerlin 2 months ago
My situation is complicated
OMGCatherineM 2 months ago
What if one day I look at him, smile, try to talk to him and laugh at all his jokes and stuff, the next day I "realise" I was way too obvious and he probably doesn't like me anyway so I just pretend he doesn't exist, but I actually reaaally like him. Not a mixed message? I'm just not that into him?
heylonny 2 months ago
wat if he looks at u constetly but totally gets on your nerve but is kind of hot to 2 of your best friends? plez help me!
princess536101 2 months ago
With a white picket fence and little charlie lolololol
TheClumzy15 2 months ago
Omg ilyy -3 thnx so muchh :)
biebergirlzgcao 2 months ago
@RachelGleek101 It means you are in 5th grade and shouldn't be worried about it. Have fun while you're still a kid. You might try so hard to grow up at a young age, but when you do grow up, you'll be wishing you enjoyed your childhood.
PunkyPlow 2 months ago
@RachelGleek101 Maybe you and him both should go on a date or something. or you both like each other and i hope i can help because i am in 6th grade and i see this a lot at the middle school.
WBBruinsRules 2 months ago
I love you :)
hilaryemma45 2 months ago
omg rachel you opened my eyes.
RAWRitSANitAxD 2 months ago 45
The person I like rubbed sand off my legs for me when we were at the beach! He says aww when I have to go!
Geenz84 2 months ago 2
what if he told u he would date u but now he says ur a stalker cuz u look at him sometimes??
567hayhay 2 months ago
I love you Rachel !
Eichiirou 2 months ago
how into me his he if he hopes i make the soccer team???
faye464 3 months ago
omq i love how u explain thinqs so well
YunqCryzzy 3 months ago
Thank you for this. You are like the older sister I never had. And a really good role model. I look up to you alot. You speak the truth, and when you explain it, it begins to make more and more sense. It makes me alot less confused when it comes to guys. Thanks so much <3
TheLoveAmy 3 months ago 43
HAHAHA ur funny and honest!
ujin816 3 months ago
PLZ do a video on how to ask a guy to a dance!
mines coming up :D
luluweilu 3 months ago
Wow this was great! You don't know how much it helped me open up a new perspective about the love world lol! And man! That mixed message rule made me smiling like an idiot xD cuz it's true! I am that girl that is in denial :} gotta start accepting things ^_^! thanks so much! :*
CraziAzn3 3 months ago
IN OTHER WORDS IF YOU CANT TELL HE LIKES YOU HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!!!! PROMISE!!!!!
britaniesetzer 3 months ago
@britaniesetzer OMGGG TRUUUEEEE sadface lol
XPrincess30 3 months ago
Thx for the vid!!!!!! I decided that since I'm having a Christmas party that I'm gonna use the LSD method or I will just stop being a chicken and tell him
macjones2001 3 months ago
Do you pay him back compliments? EX: He's like you have a cute smile. Should you be like You have nice eyes? Or just say thanks and bring something else up?
Thanks Girlll :)
SandApple103 3 months ago
lol....ur sooo funny:)
arienne321 3 months ago
thank you
achuletafan12 3 months ago
thank you i love this so much
achuletafan12 3 months ago
I Like How At 12:21 she makes a funny face lol and this is kinda helping me!!!:)
PurpleNinjaSkittles1 3 months ago
Wait ur names Rachel OMG mines is too spelled the same too
dollyanddaddy 3 months ago
THANK YOU! really helpful now!!
AnniciaMusic 3 months ago
YOU ARE SO FUNNY!
OurSecretManifesto 3 months ago
you are awesome! i laughed about part 2 hahahaha
ta830ho 3 months ago
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Mikki1014 3 months ago
11:41. Funny stuff
ROZSBLUEJAY 3 months ago
This video made me laugh soo much!
ROZSBLUEJAY 3 months ago
how do you know that you are in love?
812jessmess 3 months ago
U wish you were my best friend! It would have saved me a lot of pain and heart ache! You're so cool(:
You're beautiful.
youarebeautiful107 3 months ago
yes u defetley help.;)thanks ;)
TheCatwoman1974 3 months ago
What if my friend gave him MY number and he texts me everyday ???
fullofsteph1 3 months ago
LOL!!!!!! my name is rachel! :D lol great advice! lol its pretty much spot on, lol ;D
babygirl69776 3 months ago
There is this boy and I have one class with him everyday. The other day he told me that he liked me. Today he talked to me about what he said and I didn`t know what to say so I remained silent. I think by doing that I hurt his feelings and he told me that I probably think that he is an "immature little boy." I don`t want him to hate me and I want to be friends with him, but I think I messed up my chance at that. Plz help me if you can!!!
Hippohzz 3 months ago
Thx this helped
Yahweh4ever 3 months ago
what if a guy is usually always where u r....like today i was going to lunch and he was down the hall just staring and smiling but he has a gf and he dont act that into her....and what if he pushes someone into u nd he was like srry hes really clumsy was he just trying to start a convo??? PLEASE HELP ME im new to this
jerrycantrell46 3 months ago
...you just made me realize what my problem is and how to solve it. you're like the ultimate love guru. i can't even thank you enough.
runawayloverocket 3 months ago
HOW DO YOU MAKE THOSE HEARTS?
TheMermaidgirl123100 3 months ago 2
@TheMermaidgirl123100 You copy and paste them.
Koch199428 3 months ago
theres this guy in one of my classes and hes really hot! i've herd him talking to his friends about me when i walk by in the hall. he trys to sit as close to me as he can and we always lock eye contact! (for like, a long time!) i need advice!! plz help!!
kittykay510 3 months ago
Thank you so much for making these videos! in my 18 years of life i've misunderstood all the signs! Those days are gone!
sandrapaetauu 3 months ago
u r so funny and so helpful xx
TheSelinasSecret 3 months ago
This vid helped me alot, but i still have some specific questions that i need help figuring out & It would be so great if you helped me!! Thanks!
GleekGirl826 3 months ago
Hey! This actually helped alot, but I have specific questions that im really confused about! I would be so happy if you helped me figure some of this stuff out! Thanks! xoxo
GleekGirl826 3 months ago
I love your videos! They help me so much! Thank god for people like you ^.^
kikyorules10 4 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
Ugh there's this guy tht rlly like me...like high level of intrest here....txts every day talkinng to me allll the time. And wen I told him I want to be frends he went out with my friend not even 2weeks later...he still txts me every day tho and acts the same and tries to hang out with only me but he isn't the kind that would cheat....so is he just being friendly or sumthn more?
Brollz123 4 months ago
"Maybe he wasn't hugged enough as a child"
Phaha, that was incredible:)
kennalouify 4 months ago
Very good, helped alot and I admit that I did think about what the future would be like with a certain guy
81FabulousLove 4 months ago
If a guy likes you will he get his best friend to ask you will you date skyler do you like him is he hot???
xxxxbrookecoolxxxx 4 months ago
omg i think he likes me then lol =) thnxxxx girl
8769hot 4 months ago
Love you honesty. Great video!
lisafay09 4 months ago
what if the guy ask alot of personal questions, how many bfs i had, first kiss, or anything, flirts but then acts like a jerk. he mentions his ex gf, or if im talking to him and has not respond and i tell him is he buzy and responds i have to talk to my sexy cumtomers. like wtf? does he like me yes or no
MultiTheused 4 months ago
omg awesome video :D
klaudia241094 4 months ago
there is this guy and are dating but im only moderate interest but he seems like he is high interest should i try and show high interest aswell
cherry271199 4 months ago
@cherry271199 I'm not an expert but that might seem as leading him on, I'm not that great at advice! >.<
LVAgurl13 4 months ago
U helped a lot!!!!!!!! Ur vids rock! Im crazy wen it comes 2 guys....... So now I know wht 2 do! Thnx!!
Cbreezyluva6 4 months ago
<3 your so awesome!! ♥
makeupstyler07 4 months ago
So this guy I like always sits with me at lunch and we talk and stuff and he compliments me and stuff. I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. The funny thing is people think were going out. Another problem is a friend of mine likes him/obsessed. I really don't want to lose my friend so I haven't told her I like him. Could you make a video explaining what to do in that situation?
kenziekandy 4 months ago
YOU are a genius :)
StunninMuffin8 4 months ago
Ok so i like this guy and idk if he likes me but in class hes aleays turning around and looking me? Does he like me?
JazzMinnee1 4 months ago
Damn, i couldve watched these videos my high school years! haha! ;D
p.s. I love ur Videos!<3
sexiiA13 4 months ago
omg i totalllly go with ur advices !! i love you sooo much <3 thank you thank you thank you
MsParigak 4 months ago
just noticed she has a lot of sunglasses!! lol
supermajiik 4 months ago
Again a very good episode. Strange that someone so young is giving so high quality and reality based answers. There are many women who I've met who are in their 60'ties and never understood these things. I think you should send these videos to small scale tv stations and ask would they have a program opening for you. You got nothing to lose.
YksiSuomalainen 4 months ago in playlist Lisää videoita käyttäjältä SojournToPerfection
your little peep at the end of high interest was adorable lol
Alychristie 4 months ago
three peple is old hags that dont have a dating life :/
anngormanloves 4 months ago
Hi! I don't know if you actually read all the comments, but might as well give it a try. Long story short. I like this guy, liked him for a couple years. Recently found out he's my brothers friend as I just moved to my dad's and go to the same school as The Guy. He's a year ahead of me so we don't have any classes together. But I see him in the halls and we have the same lunch. I Want to get over him but it's been superr hard so I thought I'd just send him some signals and see what happens. I
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ValeriaLavender 4 months ago
the thing i love about you rachel is that you tell it how it is ;) you really opened my eyes to the truth- THANK-YOU <3 X
mjrnrf95 4 months ago
the thing i love about you rachel is that you tell it how it is ;) you really opened my eyes to the truth- THANK-YOU <3 X
mjrnrf95 4 months ago
If theres a princess theres always a prince charming!
pie5709 5 months ago
OmyLord <3 ur amazing iloveya,!!!! xD lol
mtrench2010 5 months ago
theres this guy that i like, but he is kinda sending both kinds of feelings. kinda like he may be shy. im so used to helping other people out with their love problems that when i have 1 idk what to do. he flirts with me a little, he randomly hugs me, and he puts up a heart to me. :\ im really confused! can u help?
BrooklynShay13 5 months ago
as a guy....looking is the most solid sign......if your eyes catch once means nothing....if you see them looking at you multiple times over multiple days....hes interested
JelloEruption 5 months ago
Holy shit! The medallion Indiana Jones put on the Staff of Ra is hanging from your ear!
Can I have it?
Cap285 5 months ago
what if u can't gage a guys reaction? I had a crush on this guy and he okay I know he wasn't very intersant but it was really hard to tell b/c he wouldn't like open up and talk to me.
TexasCenaGurl 5 months ago
your soo funny :)
RupunzelTangled 5 months ago
LOLOLOLOOL this video is funny! You are funny hahaha about the marriage thing lmaooo!!!
XxRattxX771 5 months ago
can u post a video about middle school if like a guy you like likes ur best friend what u should do.......or something liek that......ps: ur vids rock!!!!
ovanaalst 5 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
i dated this one guy in my school... 1 year older to me... and he called me and asked me out... but then we dated only for 5 days... and i deeply madly like him... and now its been 2 whole months and i still like him... but i don't get it if he's into me or not...! cause i have heard from many girls that he's just a plain PLAYER. don't knw if im going the right wayy HELP
kritzieblitzie 5 months ago
@sojourn toperfection
oh my goh...these vidoes things........are so amazing..an very very hrlpful c:
y wud ppl disik thiss???>:\
professionals4561 5 months ago
@sojourntoperfection
oh my goh...these vidoes things........are so amazing..an very very hrlpful c:
y wud ppl disik thiss???>:\
professionals4561 5 months ago
Wow your better than dan and jennifer .. like this totally explains what im going through especially on thaat "MIXED MESSAGES" part like im going to start watching more of your vids now <3
diva7fyi 5 months ago
I wish i had watched your video about 2 months ago...SHIT! haha great video!
TheBarbieLena 5 months ago
So I work at an apt complex, and u have a crush on a tenant. He seems sorta interested, but we r both too shy to go any farther. What should I do?
browniecakes818 5 months ago
You're hilarious i love you. You should be an actress. Seriously.
And i love your honesty and the fact that you realize that women really do think like that!!! I realize that, and it's sooo hard to tell my friends when they're wrong. From now on i should just show them this video LOL.
And you remind me a bit of jessica alba.
santanafabray 5 months ago
You're hilarious i love you. You should be an actress. Seriously.
And i love your honesty and the fact that you realize that women really do think like that!!! I realize that, and it's sooo hard to tell my friends when they're wrong. From now on i should just show them this video LOL.
And you remind me a bit of jessica alba.
santanafabray 5 months ago
Your the BEST! Your so funny and helpful! Thank you so much!
lemonadeluv2547 5 months ago
dude like i want to like hug u and just omg thank u!
rawrmeansiluvu2464 5 months ago
Hi! :)
1st of all I'd like 2 say that I LOVE all ur vids.. you seem like a very sweet person + ur funny.. XD
Could U PLEASE PLEASE make a vid on "how to make a guy jealous" ! I really need ur