I'm nice to everyone but i hate it when people eat like pigs and are to lazy to work out then complain about it. its their own fucking fault that they are fat. stop trying to defend them.
so ye i am really not nice to fat people. on rare occasions i actually go out of my way to be mean to them. and i always go out of my way to be nicer to pretty people. when i walk by a crappy run down area of town i think to myself, those are ugly trees and thats a field of weeds and those houses are run down, someone should do something with that. and when i walk by a beautiful garden it makes my day better. we like pretty things and dislike ugly things. fat is ugly.
why? they smell. they are slow. they think they can do anything they see a skinny person do. they are the reason for world hunger. they are fat. they always play the victim. they sweat for no reason. they require multiple burial plots. my forklift has back problems now because i tried helping my fat friend robert unbankes out of bed. they are fat. oh i said that....but they are still fat. they are liars bcuz they lie to themselves about being fat so why wouldnt they lie to you.they handicap park
I agree I used 2 go 2 a horrible skool I wasn't even fat then but was stilled called fat. I ate 2 deal with the pain those insults were the reason I got big! Luckly I switched skools and am at a good weight when people still occasionly call me fat I think about all the weight I lost on my own which is way more than they can say for themselves!
@Visser0x I disagree. I think most people who accuse fat people of being cocky just want to see it in fat people, and not in thin people. I'm generally nice to everyone, but it's been the thin people who give me the most lip.
@TimmyGal Im nice to everyone and I get more lip from fat people then I do from thin people, And this happens often I've moved across 3 states and its always more fat people than thin people.
hey girl and people hating on me, i was really into my e.d. When i posted that comment. I didnt mean fat people are disgusting. What i meant was is fat is disugusting on me. Unacceptable.
I'm extremely fat and I get it when people see me and think I'm gross. I think I'm gross, I'm a disgusting individual and I wish I was dead everyday. It would benefit if I were to go away, I can barely work because I tire easily, I'll never procreate to contribute to the species (who wants to make love to somebody as gross as me?). I contribute nothing, their hate is very justified. If I weren't such a coward I'd kill myself.
@wollclark hey sweety, I'm fat too. before you start getting too down on yourself, enjoy yourself, find out what you like about yourself, eating less and losing weight come LAST in your journey to self-love. Even if you do lose weight, your personal issues surrounding your self image and your self worth will not be lost as easily. First and foremost, find a community of people who feel the same way you do. I went through a long journey of self acceptance, feel free to send me a message :)
When I worked at McD's I've seen customers practically spend their lives in that restaurant . They'd eat there morning, noon, and night on a daily basis. Only bout 2 or 3 of our regulars were obese, the other 15 or so regular customers were quote/unquote "normal size" people. There's more to being fat than over eating or eating unhealthy or not exercising. Don't go there either, 'cause I'm 350 lbs and I'm an active person.
@epiksonik I'm sorry but clearly you know nothing about obesity except for what you hear on the news. If you do some legitimate research you will find that being obese does not automatically mean you will be unhealthy just like being a normal weight does not guarantee your health.
Madame, I find it interesting that women only started having massive weight issues - with the advent of modern late 20th century feminism. We're only talking about a 40 year old issue here.
@epiksonik First, it is not only women that have issues with their weight, for you to suggest so is evidence of the stigma that surrounds heavier women that does not always surround heavier men. Second, this issue is not 40 years old, nor was it a result of feminism. For centuries, there have always been those who were heavier, being larger was thought of as an attractive trait (see the artist Ruben.) If you knew anything about this you would know that the largest weight problem is in the U.S.
@epiksonik (cont...) and the United States is one of the worst countries for women in the Western world. For you to suggest that feminism has affected this weight crisis is ludicrous. If you truly want to look into this problem, look at the government subsidies for various foods (namely corn) that make processed meats, artificial sweeteners, and fast food so cheap that our poor are obese rather than emaciated. The American lifestyle has been more affected by these subsidies than by feminism.
I took an automatic perception test and found out I prefer thin people. This surprised me. I also took the one on disability and it confirmed that I have a higher opinion of whoever is not disabled. I kind of figured that, since I have the metacognitive capacity to sometimes know how I feel, even when it's not what I want to admit. But we're humans, the most advanced species. We have the ability to pretend we don't have these feelings so we can respect other people.
@CutiePieNess Human nature? Gues what human are creatures that have developt a brain, you chose who you are, who you want to be and what you want to do. The fact you pointed out is true that People (not cuz) need to make themselfs feel higher, cause they got so bad belif in themself that they dont give a fuk about how others feel, how that could efect others. Greed is Humans weekness, Not bad behaviour.
I do not like drug ads. So i do not like fat people. One addicted to drugs other to food. To me if you accepting them it is like accepting drug ads. I am against a life style of a drug ad.
Fat and Ugly are the easiest and socially accepted forms of prejudice. I think people who hate fat people actually hate themselves and try to project THEIR insecurities on others. Plain and simple. To be honest sometimes I'm glad I'm fat and people so readily hate me as it keeps myself in check as to how I judge others. I use it as a filter to separate the good from the bad people-wise. I'm definately a better person and the "haters" prove that daily.
@zonumb Exactly what I do. If you have prejudice against me, okay ... You just proved you are ignorant, stay away from me and I'll stay away from you.
So using the logic of people who condemn fat people, saying we cost the government billions of dollars a year, OK. Anorexics are also health risks, costing the government billions per year in health care, let's all hate on them too! Cancer patients, the same, word for word! Let's all make fun of them too. People in wheelchairs, the same. I think to hate on someone who does not directly harm anyone in any way is stupid. They don't know me, or my situation. So I basically just laugh at them.
@ajmandii omfg just forget racist men look you are black just an example if you are black im gonna kick your ass if you are fat im gonna make fun of you that´s not correct
Why bother trying to change other people's feelings. Fat people can get off their fat butts and defend themselves. Give your oppinion and shut up! Just say: i dont hate fat poeple and think they are perfect. Thats it!! You friggin Hippie read a book!!
I don't hate fat people, hate is a strong word reserved for specific people I loathe for good reasons. Am I at least a little repulsed by fat people? Yeah. Do I have a right to be? Hell yes. It is my right to feel whatever I feel and to determine who I find attractive. As it so happens, I find people who are fit to be attractive. Also, people who become overweight due to poor habits deserve no sympathy, pity, or compassion unless they've got a condition that will make them gain weight.
@wander099 Well good for you. Watch the video again and notice she is talking about insulting fat people... If you keep that disgust to yourself or if you hurt people for no reason, that is what this is about.
Instead of making a video complaining about the opinions of others re: fat people you should make one about how to get healthy. This enabling crap does not help anyone,
@bertbow9 : I agree with you wholeheartedly. It is precisely that tolerance that allows USA to have the highest obesity rate in the world. She is right that obese people do not affect our lives....DIRECTLY. But indirectly yes. DO you know that the government spends $13 billion a year for obesity-related issues such as consuming more fuels and creating bigger seats in the hospital? Same with divorce. American people are tolerant of divorce so as a result, USA. highest divorce rate in the world.
@bertbow9 Harassing them helps even less. Some fat people eat a lot because they feel bad, and probably feel bad because dickheads call them names and harass them to no end.
People mistake their fear of becoming fat themselves as hatred. They dont like to see it everywhere and how easy it is now to become it because now theyre suddenly conscious of their own weight status. It is so important now to stay lean, but fatness can creep up on even the skinniest. Girls I went to school with that I always thought would be thin showed up years later larger than life...and those were the same girls that went around railing people with fat comments.
@SodaWaterification what kinda life is it to constantly live on a diet which is most likely what they were doing... life is so short! its more then likely after trying to stay thin against there natural body rhythms for so long they gave up, but by then they had messed up there metabolism making them gain more then they would have if they were never on a diet
Finally someone on here with some sense about overweight people. My question is, when did it become ok to have a prejudice against fat people. Everyone ask yourself, is my life worth worring about someone else. You could be more productive instead of targeting negitivity. Often times people who lash out in negitivity show a reflection of their internal self. Also reverting to childhood mentality. Same as a child throwing a tantrum.
People who hate on fat people have no life and in a way are hypocrites. I made at least 2 videos about people who hate on fat people. Another video about how people worship overweight celebrities and yet hate on ordinary overweight people. I have been called fat a lot and I personally don't care. But people need to grow up and stop being hateful. The media is one to blame. Another is the haters themselves, who have nothing better to do then harass other people, fat or not. I agree with you. 5/5
what are they doing? because many people are starving even in this country so I really dont care about people whining about being fat boo hoo, what about the abused, people with cancer, war, slavery now thats something to work on and care about not something that the majority of fat people do to themselfs. Common yu eat more than yu expend yu will be fat its simple and its the lack of control and self disipline and they smell so yeah that why I dont like them.
I hate fat fucks. Maybe not ppl who are fat cuz they have sum disease or something but those lazy fucks who eat to much fukin fast food and then blame being fat on The Americain fast food chain.
@lovesjustlust Stupid comment. ONE set of teenage girls get fat from eating too much McDonalds, and decide to sue the company, suddenly EVERY fat person is labeled as wanting to do the same. That's not always the case. I never go to McDonald's! And even if I did I wouldn't blame them because I am fat.
@Shakamu86305 again most weight is hereditary. each person's body is different and expends different levels of energy, meaning its not as black and white as people wish to believe. do you know a fat person? are they really only sitting on the couch eating everyday 24/7? i consider it fine to be fat as long as you can remain mobile and health with moderate exercise. which can become hard at over 300 pounds, i suggest pools, which puts less strain on the body, to help maintain movement when
@Montork a person finds it hard to move so much. but then most fat people don't want to go out and get exercise or move around because of people like you. simply put how would you feel if when you go outside for a walk or something you get comments or stares? its no wonder some people end up living in there basements getting as heavy as 700+ pounds when they damage themselves by dieting and are too afraid to get help or go outside or anywhere to exercise.
@Montork most health problems in fat people could really be all the fault of stress brought on by sigma of constantly being under fire from everyone around them. I myself have had a few shots in my direction, being 5'9 and 200 pounds standard. last summer after going to work as a cleaner in an auto body all day, eg: sweeping for 5 hours, lifting car doors and hoods, lifting heavy trash barrels over my head ect. i rode my bike on an around for my parents to a place roughly 4 miles away and
@Montork back before going for a long walk with a friend all on one of the hottest days of july. No big deal for me happens all the time... im resilient, but then on the way home some "guy" whall driving by had the nerve to shout out his window at me " HEY FAT BITCH GET SOME EXERCISE" he doesn't know me, of what i do, why is it considered fare game to slam me?
actually if you look it up it has many meanings, but then i thought to be a "real woman" you hand to have a vagina., have a personality, a heart, strength from within, have to waist money bra shopping, and the ability to get down and dirty when the situation needed it. my mistake surly a sensitive "man" like yourself can chose his own mate. i just hope you like he as much when she looses her looks and has no personality to fall back on. i screwed up an deleted my original comment by accident.
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A woman that is fat, hairy, smells bad, bad attitude, and retarded is not a real woman. She is not feminine. She is just masculine and no longer a woman.
i love how as soon as anyone stands up to you, you start to spout hate filled slurs without any real meaning first attacking fat people, then fat women only, now the mentally handy-caped. its just so enlightening as to your personality and insecurity's. i think your mistaking a lady for a woman, a woman is too busy doing things to worry about what men think.
a lady on the other hand spends alot of time on just that, at least that's what ive been taught. ladys also usually expect all kinds of special treatment due to the fact she feels shes "earned it" i doubt you will even read my comment before you post more bullshit but there are many ways a real woman "the hard working kind" can surprise you, there are also lots of ways she could still need your help (thus fueling your male ego) but then i hope you never find this "woman" your looking for
cause chances are you'll treat her like shit. an object to amuse you or worse abuse her after she fails to live up to your standards. A female is a person with real feelings and thoughts of her own not just an object for you to "make perfect" A PERSONS WORTH IS NOT BASED ON WEATHER OR NOT YOU FIND THEM ATTRACTIVE! i am not here to impress you i am here to do my job. not a sex symbol just me. as are most women.
You must be a fat cow woman. A hot woman is meant for sex. It's a fact. So you clearly must be a fat cow woman since you don't believe a woman should look hot and sexy.
once an ass hole always an asshole:) i guess we agree to dis-agree? after all my opinion is just as valid as yours, all people are equal. i can only hope the majority of men aren't like you.
now thats just stupid and openly shows your ignorance, world hunger is mostly caused by American corporate interest, corrupt government in Africa and places like it, and more likely the waist that excess amounts provide, meaning of course that so much is brought here we don't need that most of it ends up rotting.
People are ignorant..some willfully..sadly. Also uneducated and not willing to learn. Most assume that all obese people are that way only because they overeat and don't exercise. There is a lot of stigmatism and discrimination and judging. Sides, it makes them feel good about themselves and powerful. They have their own insecurities and so by trashing on someone who is fat, that makes them feel better. They also feel powerful and in control.
Many members have stated clearly that they are thin. Many have shown photos proving this. Because size hate effects everyone, members of the FA movement are of all sizes.
"In truth they are not women. They are jealous stinky fat girls."
Wrong.
Show me the official species classification of "stinky fat girls" that scientifically displaces them from humans. Show me the differences in DNA.
I know people like you. You don't ridicule shit. Tough Guys like you are quiet, brooding husks who only strike if poked the wrong way. You don't actively shame or taunt anyone. Sure, you might SAY you do, but that's just to get street cred from fellow wannarexics on the internets. Haha, you know. Where it counts.
Much like Michael Richards on stage in a primarily black theater, bigots have to be in a pretty dicy situation before they can squeak anything resembling a discerning remark.
@Balldez Actually, people who live a long time, you know, the non fatties, wind up taxing the healthcare system more than the obese. Also, negative reenforcement has NEVER produced positive long-term results.
Your ignorance is very troubling to say the least; but what's even worse is that many in the world share the same views on this subject as you.
When has positive reinforcement worked with these pigs? They don't need a hug from richard simmons. They need their haws wired shut and their faces slapped.
There should be a stigma associated with gluttony. It's working in Singapore. Ridicule works!
It is never a matter of can't lose weight with these gluttons it is ALWAYS a matter of WON'T.
They love food above all else. They care more about food than their kids and spouses. Obesity is a result of a moral failing called GLUTTONY
Have you actually taken the time to get to know any of these "gluttons" personally, or are you basing all of your opinions of an entire class of people on half-truths and baseless rhetoric?
Being ridiculed and made by society to feel subhuman perpetuates a dangerous cycle. When you feel worthless, what's the point of bettering yourself?
I'm not saying tell people it's ok to be 500lbs, because its not. I'm saying, stop making them feel more shitty than they already do.
@Balldez 80% of weight gain and body type is genetic. forcing someone to go against there own body's damages there health and causes weight gain in the long run.. its like holding your breath dieting, its like fighting yourself to be who you are. the worst part is it's not even like your woried about our health, you never say to a thin person who never works out and eats junk all the time, eat better and exercise why? because with people like you only looks matter.
@Balldez I went to go exercise at the park and bunch of kids like you sitting at a table started laughing at me. But keep up the good work dude, you are making the world a better place by being and angry kid who says offensive things. One step at a time, cleaning up the world of fat right?
also just for refrence fat people only maginaly have a shorter life its more likely that if your too thin you'll die much sooner than if your "over wight" or "obese" but then they never report that after all they wouldn't want people to be happy as they are now do they.
the health care system costs fat people, nine time out of ten a doctor will ignore something that endangers there lives claiming it to only be fat without doing any tests even if its something that has nothing to do with there size, heck alot of fat people will refuse to go to a doctor even when under incredible pain to avoid hearing the same old lose weight campaign sponsored by the diet industry. so no fat people don't cost any more than thin people but chances are they get worse care
Yes and because the lack of obesity protection..they can. People are so ignorant. they think that obesity is ONLY caused by gluttony and lack of exercise. As though all obese people do NOTHING but sit around watching Oprah while eating 24 Big Macs 2 Super Sized Fries 12 Milkshakes 13 Cupcakes. They assume that ALL (not a few) obese or overweight people are lazy, ignorant, stupid, dumb, lacking in self control, less than human, worthless, pigs, fat cows, bimbos, morons, etc.
Now, have any of them ever spent time with an obese person? Have they lived in their shoes 24/7? Do they know how they feel or think or anything? No. No. No. They assume it is ONLY caused by gluttony etc. However, some people are emotional eaters. They eat when they are sad, mad, confused, whatever. They learned food = pleasure. Temporal but still there. Gradually the pounds pile. Now such people instead of being helped and shown compassion are ridiculed and judged.
Yes each person is different. Sides you are better off than skinny people who think that cause they are skinny they dont have to exercise as much. Just cause a person is skinny does NOT mean they are healthy. That could be mostly fat and little muscle on the skinnies.
heck they even call them that every time they say obese a word to scare us from the ancient latin. obese: on account of to eat., a mix of two words that are meant to sound scientific but in fact is basically calling us gluttons.
Sometimes people have medical conditions like thyroid problems or Cushing's and medicine also all that can also contribute to weight gain. So it is very ignorant to say that it is ONLY caused by gluttony and laziness. Am I saying that isn't a cause? No, but it isn't the ONLY one. If a person is told over and over that he/she is fat, a slob, lazy, a pig, etc. then such will act out on it. Self fulfilling Prophecy. If calling obese people names worked, then why hasn't it?
Yes, they claim to be using tough love but in reality they are merely being bullies. Obese people didn't just wake up one day and say, "Oh, I want to be fat." People need to get to the root cause.
Yeh, I wonder too what people who hate fat people so much would feel like if they were treated the same way? I think though that they have their own insecurities about their body, so they see someone who is obese and tear that person down to feel powerful and to build themselves up.
What is sad is that they will say obese people should exercise. However, if an obese person runs outside or walks or works out at the gym, then that person is ridiculed and stared at. Then they wonder why obese people, some, won't exercise?
Ive gained 3Lbs in 12 yrs,my wife WAS a 5'4" 125 lb lady, now shes pushing 210+ and I am an ass for saying lets go for a walk, or trying to help her drop some Lbs. I love her to pieces. but I cant look at her with desire anymore. she looks like a big bag of JELL-O! I have tryed un- countable times to sencerly let her know how her weight makes me feel, she tells me thats who I am, Like it or leave. she got her papers to day! and she will be penny less. This dont work, I'll sign them.
I have no problem with fat, or black people. I was taught to except people for who they were and to respect them. I guess, we could blame the media for creating hate toward overweight people, its kind of like salom the witch trial, but it not the witches were trying to persecute... some people can't change who they are its in their genes.
Media gives an impossible body. Seems to me that females are to have skinny bodies with no fat whatsoever huge breasts a nice tush. Men are supposed to have bulging muscles and a huge wang.
Yes, indeed. Too many people judge the outside and those same people are passing up a lot of potential friends and even husbands/lives...all based on looks. That's pathetic.
Im obese. I have an eating disorder. I get made fun of daily. Until I get help and loose weigh, I expect to be tormented. Fat is the last politically correct joke.
Is it impossible for you to accept that someone was just saying 'good for you' and not being sarcastic? Is your screen name not TuRdSandwitch18 and the short would be Turd? Expand your mind you little man and try thinking positively and using the dictionary to broaden your vocabulary. It is a sign of a small mind that resorts to violence and profanity. Now that you have lost weight and achieved that goal, maybe you can work on education and manners. Good luck to you....and I mean that.
Frustrated, unhappy people who lead empty lives always need someone to hate. They'll always find someone they can hate or feel superior to, because they need this in order to feel (temporarily) just a little bit better about themselves.
depends, is he nice? comfortable with himself? hes obviously confidant! so rare in fat people, do we have shared interests? chances are i would be more than happy to give him a chance.
Depends on what you mean by "confident". A lot of women mistake a boys ego with a man's confidence. A lot of the fat guys I have known to get women are full of shit too. They have big ass egos, that's the way it is these days. The problem is modern society.
where i live most of the fat guys ive seen always look at the ground not wishing to make eye contact.. i wonder what you mean when you say the problem is modern society?
Because of the hate of bigger people. Not all of them are even fat. If you are a bigger stronger man, people will say you are overweight. Look around you, all women, especially prettier women are with smaller guys that got an ego problem. They are very very successful. A lot of women are also after money, and society wants a certain image to succeed. Big strong guys are a danger to modern society. Modern society is based off of feminine guys that have an ego, well spoken, quick tongue etc
so the fat guys with big attitudes are just trying to fit in with the average stereo type for success? guys are not the only ones who half to put up with the hate, if a female is big-solid strong shes just a "fat cow" only the thin pretty lady's usually get to upper management. if a woman offers to go half's on a date the male feels inadequate, but if hes expected to pay he complains later or expects favors.
and they say we've come a long way piff! then why do people still get judged solely on looks not skill, heart, intelligence, or talent. the worst part is like in an abusive relationship women feed into the must look sexy all the time myth.
Shut the fuck up. Seriously. I find attractive people attractive. And I find good-looking people good-looking. And those are the people that I go after. Wanting to be beautiful is NOT something that should be condemned.
oh that's right there's only one way to be attractive now isn't there? its funny that you think in general wanting to be beautiful is condemned, like it isn't being talked about nearly enough. what with most 8 and 9 year old's wearing makeup and "kids bras" right you just keep sitting on your male privileged ass and telling me to fucking shut up. cause you cant think about boneng "hot" chicks after reading my comment.
I agree about the connection of anorexia and obesity and everything in this world is interconnected. There is just too much hate in this world and we need to see the beauty in everyone. Good video.
Those who hate fat people are filth fetisists from the place where the sun does not shine. Really gross and disgusting. They should be kicked to the sewers where they have come to pollute the world.
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Fat people should move to Africa because I know all the starving people their would be really pissed off at them and make fun of them a whole lot more then here.
And maybe then after a good embarrassed in Africa they would loose some weight.
Some people assume that real skinny people are healthy. Not so, they too can have fat. Just cause a person is skinny does NOT mean such is healthy. Ignorance is bliss man. there a lot of ignorant people in this country.
I'd really like to thank you for this video. It was so moving for me because I have, more recently in my adult life, faced a great deal of criticism and abuse by other people because of my weight. There was actual an incident on the campus of my school were a group of frat brothers moo-ed at me while I walked down the block their house was located on. Just... thank you for this. *hugs*
Probably because a lot of people get fat by eating too much food.
In canada, with Universal health care, out tax dollars go towards taking care of the obese and their ill health, due to their being morbidly obese.
It's honestly gross having to sit beside a fat person on an airplane. But fat people now get two seats for the price of one on Canadian airlines. you will need a doctors saying that you are so fat, that you need two seats.
What you said is so true. I don't understand why people are so horrible to fat people. It's so ridiculous the way people think they are so much better than someone because they're thinner.
It is part of a bigger picture. So many people are over-eager to judge, criticize, and hate (due to their own insecurities?) if someone is different whether physical/religious/sexual/political etc. There is an epidemic of narrow-mindedness and self-centredness running rife, the flames of which are flamed by the media. The world is a mess. End of rant!
If we could all just broaden our scope on things and realize this is all just a symptom of something much bigger, such 'epidemics' wouldn't take place.
I totally agree with you that it is cruel. I have an eating disorder (anorexia and bulimia), and I think that obesity is connected- just shows diff. physically. I hate when someone gets mad at someone with obesity, one of the first comments made is "your fat" but to people who are skinny don't get that as much for being too skinny. Some of my greatest friends are obese, and becomming their friend has opened my eyes. I used to think and joke around, but i'm way more contious now.
On the one hand, comparing fat to sexuality or race raises all kinds of other issues about privilege and what have you, but that's a different comment....This is awesome to see. Thanks, MamaV. Something that's touched on a lot in the FA movement is the issue of people claiming their disgust is actually "concern for our health." Besides the fact that the "obesity epidemic" is not nearly as big a danger as the media claims it to be, the point is that it's no one else's business. Thanks for this.
I've, in all honesty, developed a phobia of people who are so thin that I can see their bones. I'll admit that I, up until this past year, remained 30 pounds underweight, but that was because I couldn't get the foods that would help me even develop muscle, let alone fat. The obsession of being 'thin' just disgusts me.
As far as I'm concerned, it's no better than the addiction to energy pills (Ex: Stacker 2) and the like. It's ridiculous.
i only hate one specific person who's fat. my brother comes to steal my food when my parents started to store less food at home after the doctor forced him on a diet.
i just thought i'd let you know what an inspiration you are! i've been struggling off and on with anorexia and i finally decided to get help a couple months ago. before that i was thinking about going into modeling (i modeled when i was a baby) im glad you are making these videos, they make it a lot easier for people to understand what girls are going through. thank you again <3
no no no I know, I was just giving an idea of what people probably think. but it was a pretty bad comparison because with being overweight it does vary.
some people honestly can't help being obese. it has to do with body chemisty and the whole nine yards. eating disorders are a mental illness, and that you can't help. if you really want to look at it how you've said it, well I believe that michael jackson made a choice of skin color didn't he?
trust me, i KNOW, i have really sever hypothyroidism and i'm headed that way...and i used to have anorexia, so i KNOW. but come on, michael jackson? who else does that? if you look at it the REAL way, people really can't change their skin color, but SOMETIMES people can change their weight.
The other thing that is cruel is when "fat" people lose weight. Suddenly that have tons of attention, and it is like...."Well you were not worth anything before, but now we will accept you and glorify you as a good person." I hate fat talk. I don't think we should be complementing people on weight gain or loss (in other countries weight gain is a complement). I was once 217 lbs, then I lost it. I was distorted as a fat person and as a skinny person. The issues are very connected. Now I am normal
weight. I have been toning but not to lose weight. I have been eating healthy. I have about 15 lbs I could loss, but I didn't do it to lose weight. That is a dangerous thing for me. But the comments I have been getting to congratuate me, for what I didn't even realize I was doing is really triggering to me. It makes me angry. I started doing kick boxing cause I liked it, and apparently it has changed my body shape. People don't realize how "fat" talk hurts us, including "complements"
I don't think being 'fat' can be related to being 'black'. There are very few who are morbidly obese because they were just born that way.
Our culture is all about indulgence - being overweight is a huge indicator of such excess. It is one thing to be at a natural weight (+-15/20 pounds from ideal for height) but its completely another to be obese.
I think my wife has the book you are reading. BTW. I don't hate fat people, my small comment here leaves me little room to expound.
I don't hate fat people either. I don't choose my friends to be a certain way, it's really the personality that matters.
You see, sometimes it is about liking yourself. If people don't accept themselves as who they are, then why should we? One of my friends is so confident about herself, that it makes you think she really enjoys being fat. I like her- but deep down, she's told me she wishes she was slim.
I don't hate fat, but I don't accept it either because by accepting it I may be mistaken for encouraging it. I try to treat everyone right, weight is not relevant in that matter. But at the end of the day, I think most of us, given the option, would choose not to be fat.
being fat for the most part is their own fault then they want to get special treatment
0BioSaint0 2 weeks ago
I'm nice to everyone but i hate it when people eat like pigs and are to lazy to work out then complain about it. its their own fucking fault that they are fat. stop trying to defend them.
tristanadrocks 4 weeks ago
so ye i am really not nice to fat people. on rare occasions i actually go out of my way to be mean to them. and i always go out of my way to be nicer to pretty people. when i walk by a crappy run down area of town i think to myself, those are ugly trees and thats a field of weeds and those houses are run down, someone should do something with that. and when i walk by a beautiful garden it makes my day better. we like pretty things and dislike ugly things. fat is ugly.
greycloud24 6 months ago
p is for pretensious
izamedz 6 months ago
It's sad to read some of the comments here. Fat people truly are one of the last groups of people to get accepted in society.
DanielSchaffiro 7 months ago
thats why. fudge lovers. oh and they lose their breath just thinking
MrGarfieldstreet 8 months ago
why? they smell. they are slow. they think they can do anything they see a skinny person do. they are the reason for world hunger. they are fat. they always play the victim. they sweat for no reason. they require multiple burial plots. my forklift has back problems now because i tried helping my fat friend robert unbankes out of bed. they are fat. oh i said that....but they are still fat. they are liars bcuz they lie to themselves about being fat so why wouldnt they lie to you.they handicap park
MrGarfieldstreet 8 months ago
I agree I used 2 go 2 a horrible skool I wasn't even fat then but was stilled called fat. I ate 2 deal with the pain those insults were the reason I got big! Luckly I switched skools and am at a good weight when people still occasionly call me fat I think about all the weight I lost on my own which is way more than they can say for themselves!
rainbowgirl678 11 months ago
I dislike fat people because they act very cocky.
Visser0x 1 year ago
@Visser0x Like there are absolutely NO skinny wimps who are cocky?
TimmyGal 9 months ago
@TimmyGal Not as many as fat people, being cocky is a sign of insecurity and many more fat people are insecure than skinny people.
Visser0x 8 months ago
@Visser0x I disagree. I think most people who accuse fat people of being cocky just want to see it in fat people, and not in thin people. I'm generally nice to everyone, but it's been the thin people who give me the most lip.
TimmyGal 8 months ago
@TimmyGal Im nice to everyone and I get more lip from fat people then I do from thin people, And this happens often I've moved across 3 states and its always more fat people than thin people.
Visser0x 8 months ago
i hate fat people cuz they're lazy and expect pity 4 being fat. they think they have a condition but it's their own damn fault.
Cel3ry 1 year ago
@Cel3ry and some are even now trying to collect disability because they are too fat to work
SlumberCloud 10 months ago
hey girl and people hating on me, i was really into my e.d. When i posted that comment. I didnt mean fat people are disgusting. What i meant was is fat is disugusting on me. Unacceptable.
ajmandii 1 year ago
I'm extremely fat and I get it when people see me and think I'm gross. I think I'm gross, I'm a disgusting individual and I wish I was dead everyday. It would benefit if I were to go away, I can barely work because I tire easily, I'll never procreate to contribute to the species (who wants to make love to somebody as gross as me?). I contribute nothing, their hate is very justified. If I weren't such a coward I'd kill myself.
wollclark 1 year ago
@wollclark
take it step by step, if you money hire a personal trainer. remember even doing something tiny is better than nothing.
TheMrbollox 1 year ago
@wollclark hey sweety, I'm fat too. before you start getting too down on yourself, enjoy yourself, find out what you like about yourself, eating less and losing weight come LAST in your journey to self-love. Even if you do lose weight, your personal issues surrounding your self image and your self worth will not be lost as easily. First and foremost, find a community of people who feel the same way you do. I went through a long journey of self acceptance, feel free to send me a message :)
heidishoshana 11 months ago
When I worked at McD's I've seen customers practically spend their lives in that restaurant . They'd eat there morning, noon, and night on a daily basis. Only bout 2 or 3 of our regulars were obese, the other 15 or so regular customers were quote/unquote "normal size" people. There's more to being fat than over eating or eating unhealthy or not exercising. Don't go there either, 'cause I'm 350 lbs and I'm an active person.
KujoDaTrollEater 1 year ago
They don't bother my life, but they do portend a bleak future in general....Civilization is based firstly on health.
epiksonik 1 year ago
@epiksonik I'm sorry but clearly you know nothing about obesity except for what you hear on the news. If you do some legitimate research you will find that being obese does not automatically mean you will be unhealthy just like being a normal weight does not guarantee your health.
ActOutYourLife 1 year ago
@epiksonik funny then it was the fat who could survive better isn't it? we can store energy better, take cold, and usually take pain better.
Montork 8 months ago
Madame, I find it interesting that women only started having massive weight issues - with the advent of modern late 20th century feminism. We're only talking about a 40 year old issue here.
Why?
epiksonik 1 year ago 2
@epiksonik First, it is not only women that have issues with their weight, for you to suggest so is evidence of the stigma that surrounds heavier women that does not always surround heavier men. Second, this issue is not 40 years old, nor was it a result of feminism. For centuries, there have always been those who were heavier, being larger was thought of as an attractive trait (see the artist Ruben.) If you knew anything about this you would know that the largest weight problem is in the U.S.
heidishoshana 11 months ago
@epiksonik (cont...) and the United States is one of the worst countries for women in the Western world. For you to suggest that feminism has affected this weight crisis is ludicrous. If you truly want to look into this problem, look at the government subsidies for various foods (namely corn) that make processed meats, artificial sweeteners, and fast food so cheap that our poor are obese rather than emaciated. The American lifestyle has been more affected by these subsidies than by feminism.
heidishoshana 11 months ago
I took an automatic perception test and found out I prefer thin people. This surprised me. I also took the one on disability and it confirmed that I have a higher opinion of whoever is not disabled. I kind of figured that, since I have the metacognitive capacity to sometimes know how I feel, even when it's not what I want to admit. But we're humans, the most advanced species. We have the ability to pretend we don't have these feelings so we can respect other people.
qwexas 1 year ago
obesity relate ilneses cost the tax paye 100 bilon pound a year
thats what the selfish people are doin!
wouldent you rather the money go to cancer
DAMCN 1 year ago
cuz people wanna make others feel lower so they can feel higher its our nature as humans
CutiePieNess 1 year ago
@CutiePieNess Human nature? Gues what human are creatures that have developt a brain, you chose who you are, who you want to be and what you want to do. The fact you pointed out is true that People (not cuz) need to make themselfs feel higher, cause they got so bad belif in themself that they dont give a fuk about how others feel, how that could efect others. Greed is Humans weekness, Not bad behaviour.
iPwN4FuN 1 year ago
no, the fact that WE have to go through FAT people eating and breathing 10 people's food and air is sad and pathetic !!
TheYanniv 1 year ago
I do not like drug ads. So i do not like fat people. One addicted to drugs other to food. To me if you accepting them it is like accepting drug ads. I am against a life style of a drug ad.
SeregaCh 1 year ago
Fat and Ugly are the easiest and socially accepted forms of prejudice. I think people who hate fat people actually hate themselves and try to project THEIR insecurities on others. Plain and simple. To be honest sometimes I'm glad I'm fat and people so readily hate me as it keeps myself in check as to how I judge others. I use it as a filter to separate the good from the bad people-wise. I'm definately a better person and the "haters" prove that daily.
zonumb 1 year ago 2
@zonumb Exactly what I do. If you have prejudice against me, okay ... You just proved you are ignorant, stay away from me and I'll stay away from you.
jatotsusuken 1 year ago
if only everyone thought the way you do
imhigherthanaballoon 1 year ago
So using the logic of people who condemn fat people, saying we cost the government billions of dollars a year, OK. Anorexics are also health risks, costing the government billions per year in health care, let's all hate on them too! Cancer patients, the same, word for word! Let's all make fun of them too. People in wheelchairs, the same. I think to hate on someone who does not directly harm anyone in any way is stupid. They don't know me, or my situation. So I basically just laugh at them.
TimmyGal 1 year ago
because fat is disgusting
ajmandii 1 year ago
@ajmandii omfg just forget racist men look you are black just an example if you are black im gonna kick your ass if you are fat im gonna make fun of you that´s not correct
jtrindade23 1 year ago
@ajmandii Being fat is disgusting? Says who? Who the fuck are you to say fat people are disgusting? You're nobody!
KujoDaTrollEater 1 year ago
Why bother trying to change other people's feelings. Fat people can get off their fat butts and defend themselves. Give your oppinion and shut up! Just say: i dont hate fat poeple and think they are perfect. Thats it!! You friggin Hippie read a book!!
TailsRobot 1 year ago
@TailsRobot Most ignorant comment I have read on youtube. Has to be a troll. There is no way you are serious.
jatotsusuken 1 year ago
I don't hate fat people, hate is a strong word reserved for specific people I loathe for good reasons. Am I at least a little repulsed by fat people? Yeah. Do I have a right to be? Hell yes. It is my right to feel whatever I feel and to determine who I find attractive. As it so happens, I find people who are fit to be attractive. Also, people who become overweight due to poor habits deserve no sympathy, pity, or compassion unless they've got a condition that will make them gain weight.
wander099 1 year ago
@wander099 Well good for you. Watch the video again and notice she is talking about insulting fat people... If you keep that disgust to yourself or if you hurt people for no reason, that is what this is about.
jatotsusuken 1 year ago
Thank you
Mommabearlds 1 year ago
great video
antiquelens 1 year ago
Instead of making a video complaining about the opinions of others re: fat people you should make one about how to get healthy. This enabling crap does not help anyone,
bertbow9 1 year ago
@bertbow9 : I agree with you wholeheartedly. It is precisely that tolerance that allows USA to have the highest obesity rate in the world. She is right that obese people do not affect our lives....DIRECTLY. But indirectly yes. DO you know that the government spends $13 billion a year for obesity-related issues such as consuming more fuels and creating bigger seats in the hospital? Same with divorce. American people are tolerant of divorce so as a result, USA. highest divorce rate in the world.
Tentenlaw 1 year ago
@bertbow9 Harassing them helps even less. Some fat people eat a lot because they feel bad, and probably feel bad because dickheads call them names and harass them to no end.
TimmyGal 9 months ago
Fat people suck!
Balldez 2 years ago
People mistake their fear of becoming fat themselves as hatred. They dont like to see it everywhere and how easy it is now to become it because now theyre suddenly conscious of their own weight status. It is so important now to stay lean, but fatness can creep up on even the skinniest. Girls I went to school with that I always thought would be thin showed up years later larger than life...and those were the same girls that went around railing people with fat comments.
SodaWaterification 2 years ago
@SodaWaterification what kinda life is it to constantly live on a diet which is most likely what they were doing... life is so short! its more then likely after trying to stay thin against there natural body rhythms for so long they gave up, but by then they had messed up there metabolism making them gain more then they would have if they were never on a diet
Montork 2 years ago
i was once 545 ponds and now iam 107 and iam 6'3 tall... bmi 14 i struggle to maintain it sucks ...i would give anything to be fat again ... anything
MyPinkRainbow 2 years ago
Finally someone on here with some sense about overweight people. My question is, when did it become ok to have a prejudice against fat people. Everyone ask yourself, is my life worth worring about someone else. You could be more productive instead of targeting negitivity. Often times people who lash out in negitivity show a reflection of their internal self. Also reverting to childhood mentality. Same as a child throwing a tantrum.
SouthernStyle352 2 years ago
People who hate on fat people have no life and in a way are hypocrites. I made at least 2 videos about people who hate on fat people. Another video about how people worship overweight celebrities and yet hate on ordinary overweight people. I have been called fat a lot and I personally don't care. But people need to grow up and stop being hateful. The media is one to blame. Another is the haters themselves, who have nothing better to do then harass other people, fat or not. I agree with you. 5/5
Fergleful 2 years ago
what are they doing? because many people are starving even in this country so I really dont care about people whining about being fat boo hoo, what about the abused, people with cancer, war, slavery now thats something to work on and care about not something that the majority of fat people do to themselfs. Common yu eat more than yu expend yu will be fat its simple and its the lack of control and self disipline and they smell so yeah that why I dont like them.
Shakamu86305 2 years ago
hahaha right!
I hate fat fucks. Maybe not ppl who are fat cuz they have sum disease or something but those lazy fucks who eat to much fukin fast food and then blame being fat on The Americain fast food chain.
lovesjustlust 2 years ago
@lovesjustlust Stupid comment. ONE set of teenage girls get fat from eating too much McDonalds, and decide to sue the company, suddenly EVERY fat person is labeled as wanting to do the same. That's not always the case. I never go to McDonald's! And even if I did I wouldn't blame them because I am fat.
TimmyGal 9 months ago
@Shakamu86305 again most weight is hereditary. each person's body is different and expends different levels of energy, meaning its not as black and white as people wish to believe. do you know a fat person? are they really only sitting on the couch eating everyday 24/7? i consider it fine to be fat as long as you can remain mobile and health with moderate exercise. which can become hard at over 300 pounds, i suggest pools, which puts less strain on the body, to help maintain movement when
Montork 2 years ago
@Montork a person finds it hard to move so much. but then most fat people don't want to go out and get exercise or move around because of people like you. simply put how would you feel if when you go outside for a walk or something you get comments or stares? its no wonder some people end up living in there basements getting as heavy as 700+ pounds when they damage themselves by dieting and are too afraid to get help or go outside or anywhere to exercise.
Montork 2 years ago
@Montork most health problems in fat people could really be all the fault of stress brought on by sigma of constantly being under fire from everyone around them. I myself have had a few shots in my direction, being 5'9 and 200 pounds standard. last summer after going to work as a cleaner in an auto body all day, eg: sweeping for 5 hours, lifting car doors and hoods, lifting heavy trash barrels over my head ect. i rode my bike on an around for my parents to a place roughly 4 miles away and
Montork 2 years ago
@Montork back before going for a long walk with a friend all on one of the hottest days of july. No big deal for me happens all the time... im resilient, but then on the way home some "guy" whall driving by had the nerve to shout out his window at me " HEY FAT BITCH GET SOME EXERCISE" he doesn't know me, of what i do, why is it considered fare game to slam me?
Montork 2 years ago
@Montork Oh I love it when people shout names at me from inside a moving car! LOL! They're cowards! I'd take being fat any day over being a coward!
TimmyGal 9 months ago
@TimmyGal oh thank god i wasn't the only one to have that happen! brofist!
Montork 8 months ago
@Montork Nope, you're not alone. :)
TimmyGal 8 months ago
Most Native Americans were hunter/gartheres but they were slim fit. So you lost your case.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
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Montork 2 years ago
Hey you fat retard, fit means TONED. A real woman is slim but has a fit toned body. She is NIETHER anorexic or a fat bellied.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
actually if you look it up it has many meanings, but then i thought to be a "real woman" you hand to have a vagina., have a personality, a heart, strength from within, have to waist money bra shopping, and the ability to get down and dirty when the situation needed it. my mistake surly a sensitive "man" like yourself can chose his own mate. i just hope you like he as much when she looses her looks and has no personality to fall back on. i screwed up an deleted my original comment by accident.
Montork 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
A woman that is fat, hairy, smells bad, bad attitude, and retarded is not a real woman. She is not feminine. She is just masculine and no longer a woman.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
i love how as soon as anyone stands up to you, you start to spout hate filled slurs without any real meaning first attacking fat people, then fat women only, now the mentally handy-caped. its just so enlightening as to your personality and insecurity's. i think your mistaking a lady for a woman, a woman is too busy doing things to worry about what men think.
Montork 2 years ago
a lady on the other hand spends alot of time on just that, at least that's what ive been taught. ladys also usually expect all kinds of special treatment due to the fact she feels shes "earned it" i doubt you will even read my comment before you post more bullshit but there are many ways a real woman "the hard working kind" can surprise you, there are also lots of ways she could still need your help (thus fueling your male ego) but then i hope you never find this "woman" your looking for
Montork 2 years ago
cause chances are you'll treat her like shit. an object to amuse you or worse abuse her after she fails to live up to your standards. A female is a person with real feelings and thoughts of her own not just an object for you to "make perfect" A PERSONS WORTH IS NOT BASED ON WEATHER OR NOT YOU FIND THEM ATTRACTIVE! i am not here to impress you i am here to do my job. not a sex symbol just me. as are most women.
Montork 2 years ago
You must be a fat cow woman. A hot woman is meant for sex. It's a fact. So you clearly must be a fat cow woman since you don't believe a woman should look hot and sexy.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
once an ass hole always an asshole:) i guess we agree to dis-agree? after all my opinion is just as valid as yours, all people are equal. i can only hope the majority of men aren't like you.
Montork 2 years ago
fit: to be suited to a purpose
Montork 2 years ago
they are the cause of world hunger because if they didnt eat 20 lbs a day we wouldnt have such a big problem with it
apocalypse775 2 years ago
now thats just stupid and openly shows your ignorance, world hunger is mostly caused by American corporate interest, corrupt government in Africa and places like it, and more likely the waist that excess amounts provide, meaning of course that so much is brought here we don't need that most of it ends up rotting.
Montork 2 years ago
People are ignorant..some willfully..sadly. Also uneducated and not willing to learn. Most assume that all obese people are that way only because they overeat and don't exercise. There is a lot of stigmatism and discrimination and judging. Sides, it makes them feel good about themselves and powerful. They have their own insecurities and so by trashing on someone who is fat, that makes them feel better. They also feel powerful and in control.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
You got it wrong. ED are a mental illness. Fat people are simply gluttons,
The people who ge the abuse are pretty skinny girls. You don't get it.
Fat woman make up the entire FA movement. In truth they are not women. They are jealous stinky fat girls.
Balldez 2 years ago
Man are you ignorant.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
"ED are a mental illness. Fat people are simply gluttons"
Wrong.
Binge Eating Disorder is a recognized ED, which many fat people suffer from (and go undiagnosed), and is often misidentified as simple gluttony.
"The people who ge the abuse are pretty skinny girls."
Wrong.
Everyone with a body gets abuse for it.
Quadropticus 2 years ago
"Fat woman make up the entire FA movement."
Wrong.
Many members have stated clearly that they are thin. Many have shown photos proving this. Because size hate effects everyone, members of the FA movement are of all sizes.
"In truth they are not women. They are jealous stinky fat girls."
Wrong.
Show me the official species classification of "stinky fat girls" that scientifically displaces them from humans. Show me the differences in DNA.
Okay, I was joking about that last part. :D
Quadropticus 2 years ago
You don't know shit. Fat cunts make up most of the movement.
Fat people cost the healthcare system 77 billion a year because of their obesity.
I think fat people should be ridiculed until they show some responsibility.
Balldez 2 years ago
"You don't know shit. Fat cunts make up most of the movement."
I thought you said they make up the entire movement. So you admit I'M RIGHT! They're NOT the only body type present!
Only took until your first reply. Sad, man. Just sad.
Quadropticus 2 years ago
I know people like you. You don't ridicule shit. Tough Guys like you are quiet, brooding husks who only strike if poked the wrong way. You don't actively shame or taunt anyone. Sure, you might SAY you do, but that's just to get street cred from fellow wannarexics on the internets. Haha, you know. Where it counts.
Much like Michael Richards on stage in a primarily black theater, bigots have to be in a pretty dicy situation before they can squeak anything resembling a discerning remark.
Quadropticus 2 years ago
@Balldez Actually, people who live a long time, you know, the non fatties, wind up taxing the healthcare system more than the obese. Also, negative reenforcement has NEVER produced positive long-term results.
Your ignorance is very troubling to say the least; but what's even worse is that many in the world share the same views on this subject as you.
trappin859 2 years ago
When has positive reinforcement worked with these pigs? They don't need a hug from richard simmons. They need their haws wired shut and their faces slapped.
There should be a stigma associated with gluttony. It's working in Singapore. Ridicule works!
It is never a matter of can't lose weight with these gluttons it is ALWAYS a matter of WON'T.
They love food above all else. They care more about food than their kids and spouses. Obesity is a result of a moral failing called GLUTTONY
Balldez 2 years ago
Have you actually taken the time to get to know any of these "gluttons" personally, or are you basing all of your opinions of an entire class of people on half-truths and baseless rhetoric?
Being ridiculed and made by society to feel subhuman perpetuates a dangerous cycle. When you feel worthless, what's the point of bettering yourself?
I'm not saying tell people it's ok to be 500lbs, because its not. I'm saying, stop making them feel more shitty than they already do.
trappin859 2 years ago
Made to feel sub human? They are sub human. They behave like animals.
Blacks and gays are born that way. Fat people CHOOSE to be fat.
Fatlings have very high self esteem and that is why they are constantly rewarding themselves with food.
Balldez 2 years ago
@Balldez 80% of weight gain and body type is genetic. forcing someone to go against there own body's damages there health and causes weight gain in the long run.. its like holding your breath dieting, its like fighting yourself to be who you are. the worst part is it's not even like your woried about our health, you never say to a thin person who never works out and eats junk all the time, eat better and exercise why? because with people like you only looks matter.
Montork 2 years ago
@Montork conclusion? fat is a great asshole filter. after all my worth as a person is not based upon how attractive you find me.
Montork 2 years ago
@Balldez "Made to feel sub human? They are sub human. They behave like animals."
The only one behaving like an animal is you buddy. No one else. So I guess that makes YOU a sub-human beast. :)
TimmyGal 9 months ago
@Balldez I went to go exercise at the park and bunch of kids like you sitting at a table started laughing at me. But keep up the good work dude, you are making the world a better place by being and angry kid who says offensive things. One step at a time, cleaning up the world of fat right?
jatotsusuken 1 year ago
also just for refrence fat people only maginaly have a shorter life its more likely that if your too thin you'll die much sooner than if your "over wight" or "obese" but then they never report that after all they wouldn't want people to be happy as they are now do they.
Montork 2 years ago
the health care system costs fat people, nine time out of ten a doctor will ignore something that endangers there lives claiming it to only be fat without doing any tests even if its something that has nothing to do with there size, heck alot of fat people will refuse to go to a doctor even when under incredible pain to avoid hearing the same old lose weight campaign sponsored by the diet industry. so no fat people don't cost any more than thin people but chances are they get worse care
Montork 2 years ago
read fat hatred kills
Montork 2 years ago
There is nothing wrong with being overweight
I never have had issues with bigger people I mean yes it is basically racism or "chubcism"
MonbaraChan 2 years ago 2
If you watch the new two monthes ago they blame us for Global Warming
AshXXMay 2 years ago
They also think that overweight/obese people have brain degeneration. They did a study on, I kid you not, 94 people who were 70+.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
there blaming everything on us
AshXXMay 2 years ago 2
Yes and because the lack of obesity protection..they can. People are so ignorant. they think that obesity is ONLY caused by gluttony and lack of exercise. As though all obese people do NOTHING but sit around watching Oprah while eating 24 Big Macs 2 Super Sized Fries 12 Milkshakes 13 Cupcakes. They assume that ALL (not a few) obese or overweight people are lazy, ignorant, stupid, dumb, lacking in self control, less than human, worthless, pigs, fat cows, bimbos, morons, etc.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago 2
Now, have any of them ever spent time with an obese person? Have they lived in their shoes 24/7? Do they know how they feel or think or anything? No. No. No. They assume it is ONLY caused by gluttony etc. However, some people are emotional eaters. They eat when they are sad, mad, confused, whatever. They learned food = pleasure. Temporal but still there. Gradually the pounds pile. Now such people instead of being helped and shown compassion are ridiculed and judged.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
yeah like me im exercising but I wont ever be skinny cause my body structure isnt built that way
AshXXMay 2 years ago
Yes each person is different. Sides you are better off than skinny people who think that cause they are skinny they dont have to exercise as much. Just cause a person is skinny does NOT mean they are healthy. That could be mostly fat and little muscle on the skinnies.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
heck they even call them that every time they say obese a word to scare us from the ancient latin. obese: on account of to eat., a mix of two words that are meant to sound scientific but in fact is basically calling us gluttons.
Montork 2 years ago
Sometimes people have medical conditions like thyroid problems or Cushing's and medicine also all that can also contribute to weight gain. So it is very ignorant to say that it is ONLY caused by gluttony and laziness. Am I saying that isn't a cause? No, but it isn't the ONLY one. If a person is told over and over that he/she is fat, a slob, lazy, a pig, etc. then such will act out on it. Self fulfilling Prophecy. If calling obese people names worked, then why hasn't it?
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
yeah well there are just some people out there that like to troll us because they think there cool but there actually jackasses
AshXXMay 2 years ago 2
Yes, they claim to be using tough love but in reality they are merely being bullies. Obese people didn't just wake up one day and say, "Oh, I want to be fat." People need to get to the root cause.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
yeah but hey you never know one day I might be skinny and the bully might be fat and I can get revenge
AshXXMay 2 years ago
Yeh, I wonder too what people who hate fat people so much would feel like if they were treated the same way? I think though that they have their own insecurities about their body, so they see someone who is obese and tear that person down to feel powerful and to build themselves up.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
What is sad is that they will say obese people should exercise. However, if an obese person runs outside or walks or works out at the gym, then that person is ridiculed and stared at. Then they wonder why obese people, some, won't exercise?
Well, I haven't the foggiest clue why.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
Ive gained 3Lbs in 12 yrs,my wife WAS a 5'4" 125 lb lady, now shes pushing 210+ and I am an ass for saying lets go for a walk, or trying to help her drop some Lbs. I love her to pieces. but I cant look at her with desire anymore. she looks like a big bag of JELL-O! I have tryed un- countable times to sencerly let her know how her weight makes me feel, she tells me thats who I am, Like it or leave. she got her papers to day! and she will be penny less. This dont work, I'll sign them.
mrcarrsz 2 years ago
Owned! You're awesome dude, spread the fat hate!
slasher9105 2 years ago
I have no problem with fat, or black people. I was taught to except people for who they were and to respect them. I guess, we could blame the media for creating hate toward overweight people, its kind of like salom the witch trial, but it not the witches were trying to persecute... some people can't change who they are its in their genes.
RejectedSoulInc 2 years ago 2
Media gives an impossible body. Seems to me that females are to have skinny bodies with no fat whatsoever huge breasts a nice tush. Men are supposed to have bulging muscles and a huge wang.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago 2
Very true. Also, the beauty industry.
RejectedSoulInc 2 years ago
Yes, indeed. Too many people judge the outside and those same people are passing up a lot of potential friends and even husbands/lives...all based on looks. That's pathetic.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
Im obese. I have an eating disorder. I get made fun of daily. Until I get help and loose weigh, I expect to be tormented. Fat is the last politically correct joke.
jaydenlefay 2 years ago 2
heard of nlp? hypnosis? paul mckenna? there's no reason 4 u or any1 2 b overwieght, i had an eating disorder too, now i dont
TuRdSandwitch18 2 years ago
Good 4 u turd.
jaydenlefay 2 years ago
wow sarcastic? there's me tryin to help, fuck u i hope u die of a heart attack very soon u stupid lazy fat cunt
TuRdSandwitch18 2 years ago
Is it impossible for you to accept that someone was just saying 'good for you' and not being sarcastic? Is your screen name not TuRdSandwitch18 and the short would be Turd? Expand your mind you little man and try thinking positively and using the dictionary to broaden your vocabulary. It is a sign of a small mind that resorts to violence and profanity. Now that you have lost weight and achieved that goal, maybe you can work on education and manners. Good luck to you....and I mean that.
jaydenlefay 2 years ago 3
Frustrated, unhappy people who lead empty lives always need someone to hate. They'll always find someone they can hate or feel superior to, because they need this in order to feel (temporarily) just a little bit better about themselves.
wauzi123 2 years ago
hey sweetheart, i appreciate your effort but what would you do if a 400 pound guy asked you out?
gajda1984 2 years ago 2
depends, is he nice? comfortable with himself? hes obviously confidant! so rare in fat people, do we have shared interests? chances are i would be more than happy to give him a chance.
Montork 2 years ago
Depends on what you mean by "confident". A lot of women mistake a boys ego with a man's confidence. A lot of the fat guys I have known to get women are full of shit too. They have big ass egos, that's the way it is these days. The problem is modern society.
gajda1984 2 years ago
where i live most of the fat guys ive seen always look at the ground not wishing to make eye contact.. i wonder what you mean when you say the problem is modern society?
Montork 2 years ago
Because of the hate of bigger people. Not all of them are even fat. If you are a bigger stronger man, people will say you are overweight. Look around you, all women, especially prettier women are with smaller guys that got an ego problem. They are very very successful. A lot of women are also after money, and society wants a certain image to succeed. Big strong guys are a danger to modern society. Modern society is based off of feminine guys that have an ego, well spoken, quick tongue etc
gajda1984 2 years ago
so the fat guys with big attitudes are just trying to fit in with the average stereo type for success? guys are not the only ones who half to put up with the hate, if a female is big-solid strong shes just a "fat cow" only the thin pretty lady's usually get to upper management. if a woman offers to go half's on a date the male feels inadequate, but if hes expected to pay he complains later or expects favors.
Montork 2 years ago
That's what I see. I agree with you about women as well.
gajda1984 2 years ago
and they say we've come a long way piff! then why do people still get judged solely on looks not skill, heart, intelligence, or talent. the worst part is like in an abusive relationship women feed into the must look sexy all the time myth.
Montork 2 years ago
Shut the fuck up. Seriously. I find attractive people attractive. And I find good-looking people good-looking. And those are the people that I go after. Wanting to be beautiful is NOT something that should be condemned.
originosity 2 years ago
Well said, Originosity.
Bandaids4ever 2 years ago
oh that's right there's only one way to be attractive now isn't there? its funny that you think in general wanting to be beautiful is condemned, like it isn't being talked about nearly enough. what with most 8 and 9 year old's wearing makeup and "kids bras" right you just keep sitting on your male privileged ass and telling me to fucking shut up. cause you cant think about boneng "hot" chicks after reading my comment.
Montork 2 years ago
I agree about the connection of anorexia and obesity and everything in this world is interconnected. There is just too much hate in this world and we need to see the beauty in everyone. Good video.
mysocalledlife66 2 years ago 2
Those who hate fat people are filth fetisists from the place where the sun does not shine. Really gross and disgusting. They should be kicked to the sewers where they have come to pollute the world.
antipodkayne 3 years ago
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Fat people should move to Africa because I know all the starving people their would be really pissed off at them and make fun of them a whole lot more then here.
And maybe then after a good embarrassed in Africa they would loose some weight.
bebop7c2 3 years ago
Actually, having excess body weight is considered a sign of wealth in many parts of Africa. They would probably be envied- not tormented.
You're an idiot.
LlamasAteMyOatmeal 2 years ago 2
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right on man!!!!!! I totaly agree!! Obesity ain't sad.. it's SICK!!! "oh, I have a disorder" yea, hand to mouth disorder!!!!
AkatsukiWolf0 2 years ago
Some people assume that real skinny people are healthy. Not so, they too can have fat. Just cause a person is skinny does NOT mean such is healthy. Ignorance is bliss man. there a lot of ignorant people in this country.
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago
I'd really like to thank you for this video. It was so moving for me because I have, more recently in my adult life, faced a great deal of criticism and abuse by other people because of my weight. There was actual an incident on the campus of my school were a group of frat brothers moo-ed at me while I walked down the block their house was located on. Just... thank you for this. *hugs*
positivechica 3 years ago
Probably because a lot of people get fat by eating too much food.
In canada, with Universal health care, out tax dollars go towards taking care of the obese and their ill health, due to their being morbidly obese.
It's honestly gross having to sit beside a fat person on an airplane. But fat people now get two seats for the price of one on Canadian airlines. you will need a doctors saying that you are so fat, that you need two seats.
Those are just a few reasons.
Phantasmvlog 3 years ago
What you said is so true. I don't understand why people are so horrible to fat people. It's so ridiculous the way people think they are so much better than someone because they're thinner.
gabbyisraddddd 3 years ago
being fat is sick!
AkatsukiWolf0 2 years ago
It is part of a bigger picture. So many people are over-eager to judge, criticize, and hate (due to their own insecurities?) if someone is different whether physical/religious/sexual/political etc. There is an epidemic of narrow-mindedness and self-centredness running rife, the flames of which are flamed by the media. The world is a mess. End of rant!
Daphne8019 3 years ago 2
er "fanned" by the media :) I'll get back in my box now!
Daphne8019 3 years ago
thank you daphne. the world IS a mess.
If we could all just broaden our scope on things and realize this is all just a symptom of something much bigger, such 'epidemics' wouldn't take place.
lizardbrodie 2 years ago
I totally agree with you that it is cruel. I have an eating disorder (anorexia and bulimia), and I think that obesity is connected- just shows diff. physically. I hate when someone gets mad at someone with obesity, one of the first comments made is "your fat" but to people who are skinny don't get that as much for being too skinny. Some of my greatest friends are obese, and becomming their friend has opened my eyes. I used to think and joke around, but i'm way more contious now.
acrylicrain 3 years ago
On the one hand, comparing fat to sexuality or race raises all kinds of other issues about privilege and what have you, but that's a different comment....This is awesome to see. Thanks, MamaV. Something that's touched on a lot in the FA movement is the issue of people claiming their disgust is actually "concern for our health." Besides the fact that the "obesity epidemic" is not nearly as big a danger as the media claims it to be, the point is that it's no one else's business. Thanks for this.
SucculentSaskie 3 years ago 5
Thankyou MamaV
i absolutely agree with what u sed in this video!! why do people hate them??its totally unfair..just like racism
emelizmack 3 years ago
I hate the way this world works these days.
I've, in all honesty, developed a phobia of people who are so thin that I can see their bones. I'll admit that I, up until this past year, remained 30 pounds underweight, but that was because I couldn't get the foods that would help me even develop muscle, let alone fat. The obsession of being 'thin' just disgusts me.
As far as I'm concerned, it's no better than the addiction to energy pills (Ex: Stacker 2) and the like. It's ridiculous.
sardonicus01 3 years ago 2
i only hate one specific person who's fat. my brother comes to steal my food when my parents started to store less food at home after the doctor forced him on a diet.
dboy11368 3 years ago
I loved that book so much. It really, really helped me through a lot of my eating issues. I still have them, but the book made me feel hopeful.
familyjuless 3 years ago
i just thought i'd let you know what an inspiration you are! i've been struggling off and on with anorexia and i finally decided to get help a couple months ago. before that i was thinking about going into modeling (i modeled when i was a baby) im glad you are making these videos, they make it a lot easier for people to understand what girls are going through. thank you again <3
stickfigure1992 3 years ago
Thanks for posting this video...it was a great message to get out there
dashly1 3 years ago
you CAN help being FAT, you CAN'T help being GAY or BLACK. bad comparison.
mousiehousie13 3 years ago
Some people can not help there weight....it has to do with Genetics....
dashly1 3 years ago
no no no I know, I was just giving an idea of what people probably think. but it was a pretty bad comparison because with being overweight it does vary.
mousiehousie13 3 years ago
some people honestly can't help being obese. it has to do with body chemisty and the whole nine yards. eating disorders are a mental illness, and that you can't help. if you really want to look at it how you've said it, well I believe that michael jackson made a choice of skin color didn't he?
acrylicrain 3 years ago
trust me, i KNOW, i have really sever hypothyroidism and i'm headed that way...and i used to have anorexia, so i KNOW. but come on, michael jackson? who else does that? if you look at it the REAL way, people really can't change their skin color, but SOMETIMES people can change their weight.
mousiehousie13 3 years ago 2
The other thing that is cruel is when "fat" people lose weight. Suddenly that have tons of attention, and it is like...."Well you were not worth anything before, but now we will accept you and glorify you as a good person." I hate fat talk. I don't think we should be complementing people on weight gain or loss (in other countries weight gain is a complement). I was once 217 lbs, then I lost it. I was distorted as a fat person and as a skinny person. The issues are very connected. Now I am normal
killthescale 3 years ago
weight. I have been toning but not to lose weight. I have been eating healthy. I have about 15 lbs I could loss, but I didn't do it to lose weight. That is a dangerous thing for me. But the comments I have been getting to congratuate me, for what I didn't even realize I was doing is really triggering to me. It makes me angry. I started doing kick boxing cause I liked it, and apparently it has changed my body shape. People don't realize how "fat" talk hurts us, including "complements"
killthescale 3 years ago
I don't think being 'fat' can be related to being 'black'. There are very few who are morbidly obese because they were just born that way.
Our culture is all about indulgence - being overweight is a huge indicator of such excess. It is one thing to be at a natural weight (+-15/20 pounds from ideal for height) but its completely another to be obese.
I think my wife has the book you are reading. BTW. I don't hate fat people, my small comment here leaves me little room to expound.
firstcor1313 3 years ago 3
I don't hate fat people either. I don't choose my friends to be a certain way, it's really the personality that matters.
You see, sometimes it is about liking yourself. If people don't accept themselves as who they are, then why should we? One of my friends is so confident about herself, that it makes you think she really enjoys being fat. I like her- but deep down, she's told me she wishes she was slim.
MapacheMaldito 3 years ago
I don't hate fat, but I don't accept it either because by accepting it I may be mistaken for encouraging it. I try to treat everyone right, weight is not relevant in that matter. But at the end of the day, I think most of us, given the option, would choose not to be fat.
MapacheMaldito 3 years ago
that was great..
thanks! :)
Vogue1306 3 years ago 3