Your Ex Screening Your Calls? Do this and they won't anymore.

[shinaz000]

HEY!! Where's the rest of this video? :(

[mnetrucker]

She's a Psych. Major..So I feel like she might be onto my every move. Like I've gone like 3 months now without a single phone call. I only text her once in that time frame, to wish her a short but sweet happy Birthday. I deleted her from Facebook almost instantly, ad any form of contact. Only thing I haven't made clear of, is that im okay with the break up. So should I write her, and acknowledge the break up. I feel like if I do, she wont reply. And ill look/feel stupid.

[mnetrucker]

I haven't done anything really stupid, like text terrorism or majorly freaking out. I haven't really wrote or said that im okay with the break up or things like that, however I haven't called her in like 3 months since the split. I only text her on her birthday to say Happy Bday, and she did the same for my bday a few days ago. I waited like 3 days to reply back with a kind thanks, hope you had a good 4th of July. And i think maybe she only did it, because I did on her bday. She never replied bk

[goingplaces11]

@mnetrucker I think you waited too long...: (

I broke up with my ex, I still had feelings for him but he made the r/s into a joke and took me for granted. I broke up, not to play mind games, but to say, "Ok if I'm not that important to you and you want your freedom, have it." I was exhausted with his behavior. Alone, I went through the grieving process. Of all the good times etc. I went through our entire relationship and realized all the mistakes I made and that he made.

[goingplaces11]

@goingplaces11 part 2: I realized that I still had feelings for him but I would only take him back if he was genuinely trying to work on the issues and genuinely cared for me. Like you mine was a psych major lol. I think he read a few too many dating guides, because he decided to be "ok" with the breakup. He didn't really say much. So I assumed he was doing his own thing and that he might not have been too serious while we were together even. I convinced myself that was the case.

[goingplaces11]

@mnetrucker part 3: I was hurt he didn't really care enough to do anything. So then, I began to think I must have been correct all this time. That he was never that into me and he was a waste of time and energy. I started hating him. I even pictured him with other women etc. Yes I did that and in all honesty that helped me move on. A month later he tells me he loves me and he can't be with anyone else. ... I felt strange. I was waiting for him to tell me that ... but he took so long.

[goingplaces11]

@mnetrucker part 4: I already removed him from my mind...I reprogrammed myself to be alone. Yeah I wanted to be with him but after he wanted to get right back into the thick of a r/s and I just couldn't make my feet move. I'd been burned by him once. I tried to think of ways to convince myself but ...I couldn't. I felt no desire to get into ANY r/s. If you wait too long to tell someone what you really feel....you've waited too long.

[goingplaces11]

@mnetrucker part 5: You don't know how they are processing the situation or how they will sum up your r/s. If you ignore issues while in a r/s you are setting yourself up to get dumped. Plain and simple. Girls like Michael said just want to be loved. We are willing to give you many chances...even though it may not seem apparent. We overlook a lot until we take the plunge to breakup. Don't ignore issues and make one another feel appreciated/ important.

[goingplaces11]

@mnetrucker part 6: Persistence is a good trait. I know a lot of people say be ok with the breakup, smile go out. etc. That works only if you are completely innocent and someone just randomly decides to breakup with you to go out with someone else. Those are not people you want to win back in the first place! Screw them. Yet, if your mistakes are the cause of the breakup, being cool about the break up is a stupid way to go about it. Instead, if you made a mistake, fix it! Easy.

[Chips185]

@goingplaces11 my girl broke up with me saying im too crazy.i been there for her after the breakup, shes knows i got her back. right now shes in jail i always write to her. i always tell her how much i love and miss her, i draw her roses and hearts in every letter. she also draws hearts in her letters too, she says she misses me too and how much it means to her for me being there for her while being locked up but she doesnt tell me she loves me. any advice? what should i do?

[goingplaces11]

@Chips185 Well how long is she going to be in jail for? And was a it a serious crime? Cuz Idk if I want you to get with the wrong girl. I mean, to you in your current state, she might *seem* to be the perfect girl, but in fact she may not be. Maybe in jail she's bored, lonely, needs you to do some stuff for her while she's in jail, so she might be leading you on. I have a couple ideas though, but that all depends on your answers to my questions. You can PM if you want.