id like to say that you say that women have contributed less, but they have been kind of pushed down when they try, but still succeeded many times, which i would see as more impressive.
but i agree but also disagree
i think a better way to state what you say is that men and women are equal in unequal ways.
Rather, I have parents who opposed the idea ever since my 7th grade wanting me to go into pharmacy. Medicine is something that grasps my attention and I truly enjoy it. But I am afraid, to be honest. Even now, I have a motherly instinct at this age. If I pass the age of 27 and have not given birth to a child, I know the dangers. I would not want that, even worse, to not find a partner I want to spend my life with early and to be discarded because I am not 20 anymore.Am I making a mistake?
@miki5xD From a woman: Seriously, don't let yourself or anyone scare you out of fulfilling your life intellectually for the reason you give. 27 is NOT old to start a family and neither is 30. Your Husband to be will have the capacity to be a father AND much more (have a career) and no one will ever question that of him. Don't let yourself or anyone else question YOUR ability to do that, too. There is nothing to stop you taking a break in your career or studies to have a family should you wish.
I need advice that concerns just this issue.I am 18.Today I applied to medical school. I agree with everything you said in your video and this is precisely why I'm torn. I should finish by the age of 24-25,then comes the internship, residency, specialties. I want to be a wife and a mother. After long consideration I realized I will eat myself alive unless I go into medicine.But I also know I will most likely trade my personal, for my professional life. I am not pressured into medicine by anyone.
So what are men now...? You didn't quite finish that thought and I was left thinking we we're some amorphous blob. Don't worry about finding a wife of good character, if you're making a difference out there she'll find you. But, one cautionary word of advice, a good marriage should all but kill you (your pride anyway) and your intended will lovingly be the implement used. Thanks for keeping it raw and from your heart.
) have. Oh, and I meant to say "a career" instead of "that career." I wasn't referring to women hunting as a job as an example. I was referring to other careers like, for example, a psychologist. I already know that men and women are not equal. No brainer. The main question is: What is a woman and what is a man? Can we really define without generalizing? Pardon me for the long response. I just wanted to rebut your saying something about “women being more masculine and taking over more masculine
@SamanthaLau1994 I think there's a lot of grey areas in life more than black and white. Yes there are masculine and feminine qualities, but many people can fall anywhere along this spectrum. Some women are more butch or masculine, other women may be very feminine but have certain masculine characteristics, then others may be totally feminine. (Same thing w/ men.) I believe if we think more in terms of grey, then we understand better the diversity in roles among men and women.
@Tregnier52 Oh, I meant to imply that there is no black-and-what answer to my question "What is a man and what is a woman?" I apologize for not clarifying. I totally agree with you. I also believe that there are a lot of grey areas.
what men do—doing what women are capable of doing. It's not like women are taking over a man's job, because why should men claim every job as their own? Is it because they got to them first? It’s just that women are as equal, and capable, IN CERTAIN ASPECTS to have a particular career. Back then, women were seen as just stay-at-home moms because physical power meant OVERALL power to everybody. Physical power seemed more significant than other abilities. Abilities which women (some do, some don't
Can we really define what is a woman and what is a man? The way I see it, instincts has brought us to the perception on how women and men should be. For example, women are typically weaker than men, therefore they do not take hold of the job of hunting (back in the day--or in Native regions). So then women are stuck at home, nurturing the kids and such. However, over time, people began to see that women have a vast amount of capabilities in their own sense. They have the potential of —not doing
Just out of curiosity, do you think there's a society (past or present) that best exemplifies the ideal dynamic b/n men and women and/or appreciation of feminine and male traits? I'd be curious to know if there's a fair representation of your ideal out there (so your audience could get a better understanding of your view) or if it's a future goal you think society needs to reach. I'd also like you to do a video on the Qur'an. I've read bits of the Qur'an for a class, but never the whole thing.
@Tregnier52 But you are correct about women not getting credit and more of them being uneducated in the past. Which is the reason why they haven't innovated more. I believe its a biological thing. Who chose to be the hunters? Who chose to be the nurturers? Whenever women were oppressed in ANY society, so was men. Which is why men's oppression is usually swept under the rug nowadays.
@Mikelovision That's an interesting point you bring up. When society allows one group to be oppressed, then what's to stop them from oppressing other groups, even those considered part of dominant group?
@Tregnier52 Great question. It reminded me of a rock being thrown into a pond. You see ripples form, soon after. The same thing happens when society oppresses a certain group of people. I guess what I'm trying to say is, society manufactures its own oppression.
(Continued) Women have to provide for themselves because men don't do that any more, kind of like how you said in 1 of your videos that we're so disconected with all this convienient technology, it's all interlinked. P.S. True feminism isn't about women trying to be men, it's about women having the same OPORTUNITY as a man
Don't you think a big part of the issue is men? If there were more good men that valued marage and family then women would settle and do these feminine things, but instead they become self sufficient because men dont want to take care of a woman, men don't want to be men (as you stated...at the very end) men just want to be care free boys.
@TheKaitn Agreed! I look at my father's Babyboom generation, and many of those men are so spoiled. It's almost like they want a mother instead of a partner. I think women got sick of being taken advantage of and having such a limited role. So it was an up-rise against limited gender roles. I also agree that the women's mvmt does not mean we want to be men. I love my femininity, but I also love all the opportunities I have. And, I love men who embrace their masculinity.
@TheKaitn Yes...trust me, I guess I show a bias toward women in my criticisms of humanity...when really, I dislike guys attitudes a lot more....men, at worst, I look at with utter disgust...women, I look at with pity, falling for men time after time.
@TheKaitn "If there were more good men that valued marage and family then women would settle and do these feminine things." Really? Is that why women are divorcing twice as much as men? Is that why women are more promiscuous today than they were 50 years ago, regardless if she is religious or not? & Some men wouldn't mind taking care of a woman. Just definitely not a woman who has already been physically and financially taken care of by countless other men, if you know what I mean.
Women are trying to be hot because men like beauty. That's why girls dress slutty, they just want attention they don't care if its bad attention. And as far as youth goes, you say that men want young women because at 35 they are not able to have as healthy children then as a young women. I understand that but why then are men into young teenagers I'm talking about 14, 15 year olds? Because teenage girls having children is dangerous. And i agree about everything else you said
@abnormal4 Because 14/15 year old girls promise a lifetime of children =P lol See, the mistake girls make in dressign sexy is thinking that they'll get the attention from a man who wants to marry them...not really....women can still be beautiful when they're modest....having guys gawk at a woman is not a sign that they like THAT woman...just her physical form...0 about her in any way possible. Sadly, women's drive for attention confuses sex appeal with romantic appeal.
but you can not say men have devalued us and they are to blame which is how many feminist groups think (not all but many). Men are better at some things than women are and women are better at something’s than men. Both sexes have something they bring to the table and that is what attracts men to women and vice versa. Men want to be wanted (needed) and women want to feel safe (secure).
I agree with you and have read some comments but something many seem to be overlooking is that a lot of women act like "whores" and try to be these sexy objects and think this is what men want. Yes men want to have sex with you if you are sexy but when it comes to actually marrying a women and introducing them to their loved ones this is not the case. I am not saying that just because many women act in this manner, all do
Society expects women to be more empathetic. We drill this into children's brains from a very young age of course its going to take affect. I do no think that naturally women r just more empathetic perhaps some individuals may be more empathetic then others in males and females
By saying professional isn't "wifey" material u r forcing people into specific roles. Individuals are different your gender should not make you who you are. This whole thing where u r saying the womens movement should not persuade u to have a career... that's true what should is the fact that u need to be able to support yourself. Economic security is the key to stopping the devaluation of women. Elderly women have the highest rates of poverty in the US because of these traditional roles.
@8ballthecat Agree w/ you about sexual lib, but women's movement overall was a good thing. You can still be a housewife or be a virgin until you're married if you choose, or you can go to graduate school then get married if you want. Or you can stay single if you like. It's up to you these days now that we have the freedom to make choices, whereas before, all our choices revolved around what was pleasing to the male "dominant" gender-that's why the women's mvmt was so great!
@Tregnier52 I agree, I consider myself a feminist, but I think it goes wrong when the idea of being a feminist means that you're some sort of man-hater or one of these "independent-I-don't-need-a-man" types. I think someone here said it, men and women are like puzzle pieces, different, but are both needed together for the "greater picture".
@8ballthecat I agree w/ you. I also think that feminists have been stereotyped into the "bra-burning, man-haters." And many ppl seem to hate feminists. I'm a proud feminist and I even have a tshirt saying so. However, I still love the difference b/n men and women. I love embracing my femininity & I also love having the opportunities I have today. But I wonder: when did being a feminist become such a nasty word?
@GuidetteExpert Oh, I never said should or shouldn't, I was just saying that it would be slightly hypocritical if a man was promiscuous and then demanded that his wife should not be.
@AmanJohnX I've come to the conclusion that a lot of men and women, more of the latter than the former, view this subject with an emotional point of view. Biologically, men and women are engineered differently. Women weren't allowed to be educated like a man for a long time. Although today we look at that as sexist, that social model for marriage & wife material, as you put it, is the best example recorded in history.
@AmanJohnX I'm not saying that we should go back to that model. What I am saying is that we shouldn't pressure our women to become professionals or housewives, like you said, it should be a choice. Most women don't get that they are making a trade off when they are becoming career women. They believe they can somehow be equally successful at both a career & raising children, which is impractical.
(Cont.) but anyone is capable of invention. Also, I'm so happy I am alive now. If I were born back in the day, I would be expected to be a house wife. I like organizing and keeping a nice home, but I would be bored just being a "pretty, young housewife." I love that I am able to pursue a career and my interests in the world. And through this I am meeting more guys who are like minded. Looks fade, you need to have substance, and most mature guys I know appreciate a woman who pursues her dreams.
@Tregnier52 I remember in the Qur'an when it encouraged women to seek out their own careers in their own time...it's funny how lies pervade everyday about everything...msot people think Islam oppressed women...I think the past AND the current society for women oppresses women more than Islam...but alas, the masses won't seen that.
@AmanJohnX In conclusion, men & women ARE generally different like you said. Because men & women are different, our concepts of what marriage is will soon die out in first world countries. We are seeing it with the rise of divorce & other factors. Just watch, Our concept of marriage will become, to our grandchildren, what Hannibal's elephants and Egyptians horse-drawn chariots have become to modern warfare. Blame feminism =P Great video, Aman!
Society does devalue anything "feminine" but there's nothing new about that. Women have always been undervalued in most societies! So it's no surprise that the Women's Mvmt needed to happen & I am glad it did. Also, inventions aren't a masculine thing. Women didn't invent as many things b/c either they were uneducated or their husbands got credit for any of their work. It's like saying invention is a "white thing" just b/c many things were invented by white males, (continued)
@Tregnier52 Women didn't invent as many things b/c the brain pattern associated with cross contextual thinking which most inventors posses is dominated by the male brain. Women evolved to survive just as men....the same lack of cross contextual thinking means women are not as funny...they just aren't....they have never needed to have these abilities. Just making observations.
@AmanJohnX Still anyone is capable of invention. So even if it is a "male trait", I think it should be encouraged among everyone so that even if a girl never sees an inventor who looks like her, she still knows that if inventing is her passion, there's a place for her in society. I grew up never seeing doctors who looked like me & even questioned if ppl like me were smart enough to be one, but here I am in medical school b/c my mom always encouraged me that I could pursue my dream.
@Tregnier52 In what part he said that women shouldn't try to invent things? It's pretty obvious that it's possible there is a man who has some femine traits while there is a woman who posses some male traits. The thing was that most of the women don't posses inventor's brain, which is why men tend to dominate on areas where people use their brains to invent new stuff.
Aman only said that older you get, less chance you have to have a man or give birth to healthy baby.
@Tregnier52 No doubt, the women's movement needed to happen. With the help of men, too, it was successful! The problem became when these women movements like "feminism" want PRIVILEGED over men. Meaning they want to earn the same amount, but not go to work as much as men. Meaning they want to be equal but in emergency situations they want men to risk their lives for them. Most women's movements have done more harm than good.
@ kazooga1234 - Instead of relpying to every comment you give (since my reply is basically the same)... It seems like you are another another person that would rather back yourself with opinion than facts. Much of what he says is true, does he give proof? Not always, but what he says he has explained and researched and studiued. Disassociate yourself with being a "woman" and him being a "man" and you might actually be able to understand what he says.
@TheWeakMind i back myself with facts and he hasnt explained why the rolls are changing and why woman are giving themselves up to guys in college and the reason the woman are having sex with the guys is because MOST MALES DONE EVEN GO TO COLLEGE leaving less options for woman and making them feel like they have to sleep with the guy to keep him and in russia they are having the same problem but worse and a female can easily get a male to marry him if she says how great the sex is
There's an audiobook I'm listening to called "The Origins of War: Child Abuse" by Lloyd DeMause. In it he talks about the history of child rearing including sacrifices and mutilation. He states that in his 30 years of research, women were most responsible in their actions of child rearing for men who went to war and ended up raping women later in life. If true, maybe this shift is good so women get out of the business of bad parenting and the fathers' take on the role of home parenting.
@st3jace that sounds confounding lol b/c if 99% of people raising children are women then you could blame literally 99% of all bad things on said women.....women have raised rapist, murderers, criminals, etc etc ...see what I'm saying?
Before anyone overreacts at one of his final statments: He has stated before that he believes women should be valued for the traits. When he said that women want to look sexy and continued to say that men only like women for the looks, he simply seemed to imply what he stated before. Value yourself for something other than your looks.
My own statement: Value yourself for something other than your physical, sexual value and reate something new. But your looks will be the first thing people see.
@TheWeakMinded I agree w/ you on this point. It's always good to put your best face forward, but it doesn't mean that you have to dress slutty. I see many women who dress more conservatively, but they still remain sexy and classy due to the way their clothes fit their body and the way they carry themselves. Looks may get you attention initially, but a great mind/personality is what holds someone's attention.
i'm sick of hearing "we're not valuing the very honourable work of women, we're different and special, women should be proud to embrace their femininity and all be housewives and mothers" errrr, yeah, say that when YOU'RE faced with a life of domestic servitude and subordinate power and respect. to me it sounds like "black people are different and special! the problem is society isn't APPRECIATING how good you all are at picking cotton! you're more mentally and physically suited to it, guys!"
@rrff7755 Not quite sure how to take this. Seems more like you are just angered by the truth. This is how it is. Is it right? Mabye, mabye not. But if you are going to watch these videos, you need to come with an open mind or you will be offended to no end.
@TheWeakMinded is it true? are black people just good, or best, for picking cotton? i don't think so. i'm very open minded and i love to hear Aman's opinion, but it needed to be pointed out how offensive that whole frame of thinking from people across the world, not from Aman, is to women.
also, your argument that 'twas ever thus, maybe it's the way it should be' is pitifully flawed. infant mortality, the infanticide of baby girls, low life expectancy, domestic violence, slavery, serfdom, rape, prostitution, incest, human sacrifice, racism, war, colonialism ..... just to name a few things that always happened, that are arguably part of human nature, that definitely are not right.
@rrff7755 Who are you to say any of this is wrong? Mabye the world intended us to have low life expectancy. Mabye it is logical that more infants die than live. Heck, mabye incest is not wrong, mabye that is a blind social creation and incest makes heritage stronger. To claim his argument wrong would require you to give unbiased, rational argument against it. And unfortunatly, all your argument has been is biased against him. You aregue with emotion and not reason.
@TheWeakMinded Incest is wrong b/c it limits genetic diversity. So if your family carries mutated genes, (and every family does, just depends on if the phenotype is deleterious) then you have a higher chance of passing on your bad family genes to your inbred kids. Why do you think the Egyptian royalty had so many congenital illnesses? They all married and had kids w/ their siblings! Incest does not make "heritage stronger," friend. It weakens it. Maybe you need to argue w/ more reason.
@rrff7755 Slavery, rape, etc etc are things that HAPPEN, not necessarily things that ARE. Women being oppressed HAPPENED, but the female brain IS..whether the differences in the brain are BECAUSE of the oppression may or may not be relevant depending on how long the "oppression" was....it's like saying that penises evolved b/c of the arbitrary roles males were oppressed to take.....therefore, penises are just subjective and shouldn't be used.
@rrff7755 The key thing is that what is NATURAL isn't always within our best nature.....MAYBE it's natural for women to be more submissive.....the question is whether or not it's in our nature....things that are in our nature happen to be what is "moral" and what makes people happy for moral reasons..... so is sexual liberation natural? Yes...humans are animals, so we must indulge in SOME sexual activity governed by the laws of human moral nature....
@AmanJohnX I query whether what's in our nature and history is what's moral and what makes people happy. Infact, i'd say that rejecting our animalistic nature is what makes us human, has built society, and normally rejecting ones nature is what makes one honourable and good in the eyes of society. qualities like selflessness and restraint - deeply unnatural - are widely respected and deemed honourable. I'd even say honouring chastity is an example of this! haha
Definitely your best video on woman. My only critique is; maybe you should reference to studies done on these various topics (I only don't know if your audience would appreciate it).
But any way I do enjoy your video's.
One more thing; what is your definition of ''Natural Law''? Is it a kind to ''Natural Selection'' or the ''Laws of Physics''?
@VellianoRosso Thank you =) Yea, I could reference lots of studies...I've always been like this in school...I can cite exact numbers and tell people precisely the main idea about ANYTHING...I just don't care who said it as long as it's true....I never preoccupied myself with knowledge, more with understanding. Natural Law is basically common sense truth.. I'm trying to think of ways to succinctly put it. hmmm
@VellianoRosso Natural Law would be more like "Laws of Physics"...It'd be like saying that there are natural laws that govern health such that it should be obvious that eating 100 snickers bars daily is not optimum for health..see where that is going?
also, as a woman, sexual liberation is NOT social imprisonment, it's liberating. women at large don't feel it's most natural and comfortable to have one sexual partner in life. 'women are naturally monogamous and men naturally are not' is a social construct used to favour men! humans like sex and human connection, women may favour connection where men favour sex, but numbers are irrelevant. your system frames women as virgin, mother or slut - but women, like men, are more than their sex lives.
@rrff7755 He has covered monogamy a bit. Naturally, and in much of nature, females are generally follow the path of monogomy. It is quite possible that, biologically, men are better off being non-monogamous and women are not. Mabye he an link you to his video where he overs that more because i forget which it was. And his "system" frames people how they frame themselves. "You are you what you do repeatedly." Take that as you will.
@rrff7755 Keep telling yourself it's liberating. you should watch my video about why the double standard is good...and what is my system? virgin, mother, slut.....and if this were my system....I'd add girlfriend...a social CONSTRUCT of western society...these are women who you can trick into thinking there is hope for the future...you can have sex with them for a few years...but ultimately not respect her, and then leave her for another...girlfriend. rinse, repeat. lol
@AmanJohnX my point is, as a woman, i can tell you that the common argument that "women are essentially empathetic, loving creatures suited to child raising and home making, who although intellectually capable are too simple, emotional and needy to be able to have functional relationships with more than one person over a lifetime, and have been tricked into promiscuity, immodesty, and intellectual pursuit by this modern hell" just does not ring true to me or any women i know.
@AmanJohnX the fact you think women must be foolish victims for accepting the role of 'girlfriend', exploited by men and making a poor trade on their virginity, speaks volume about how you view women. The point of the women's movement is that women didn't want to have to trade on their sexuality or lack there of in order to get by - ie marriage as their only viable living - because that is not how women feel about and want to use sex - whatever men might assume.
@AmanJohnX infact, just consider this, if it isn't liberating and it's not what women want, and it isn't BETTER than what came before, then why the hell did women fight so hard for it and why the hell do we value it so much today? Are ALL women having one night stands or 3 long term boyfriends, confused, frigid, serial victims, desperate for a husband? There are definitely problems with gender dichotomy today, but that's because women aren't emancipated enough, not because they've gone too far.
@rrff7755 women aren't emancipated enough? that's because women today want privaledge over men, in a indirect way. For instance, women say they want to be equal, at the same time get off sinking ship BEFORE men. Equality is unattainable, like world peace. There is no such thing. Why can't men be men and women be women. If you want a career, fine. If you want to get married and raise a family more, what's the problem with the sacrifice of becoming a part time worker and a full time
@rrff7755 mother and wife? Emancipation is not the root of all neither most of women's problems today, just like racism isn't for black people. Now we all have the right to be and do whatever you are capable of. If anything is holding a woman back today, a woman can legally prosecute that person or company and be compensated. There are no excuses. Women also work less than men and die 90 percent less than men on the job. Where is the equality in that? That's why there is none.
@Mikelovision you clearly don't know the meaning of the word emancipation and your point about death vs. pay is ridiculous. i'm not going to further a debate with you.
@rrff7755 That's the problem. Women who want EQUALITY want privilege, too. How can a man & women be equal? Equal rights and opportunities, of course. But equal as in when a ship goes down children and WOMEN go first? is that equal? lol I will sleep well tonight knowing you are not going to debate with you. You just proved my point of being a closed minded feminist. You also fail to see the correlation between broken families & house holds with just a "strong independent woman" in them.
@rrff7755 I've also seen how I used emancipation in that context and I was incorrect. I get just annoyed when people use words the wrong way. Just because A WORD wrong, you don't want to debate with me because of your closed minded ideals that has hypocrisy written all over them? You have done me a favor, trust me. Have a good day.
@rrff7755 there are things in biology and neuroscience that shows how men and women are different. Which is why in the beginning of time women were the nurtures and men were the hunters. Men were the builders and innovators. That's just how we are all engineered. Now, It's up to each and every woman to choose how they want to live. Being a man is not one, and I believe that angers a lot of women.
it's easy for you to say this as a member of the dominant gender. as a woman, i refuse to accept that my gender should have options, but ultimately belongs in it's place. Women weren't even taught to read and write, no wonder power and academia are considered masculine. you'll know from studying that women are just as intellectually capable - if you were born a woman would you have decided to skip pursuing an education/career because you wanted to be the best housewife for someone possible?
@rrff7755 This part of your statement is quite juvenile. Calling him out because he is male is unimportant. He even states that people should not be fored into roles. Bringing up the point of "if he was born a woman" is completely arbitrary. Changing one thing in life will changes everything about it. He may never have thought this way.
@rrff7755 Yes, women have brains as intellectually capable....but in different things...THAT being said....I DO thikn that most of the differences are socially constructed, but I also KNOW that many of the differences are simply innate ....on AVERAGE. I never said women should skip education, that's not the point I'm making...just making a factual observation that there is a very real trade off.
I'd tell you to go fuck yourself, but you talked in such a nice tone that now I respect your... point of view, though I disagree with most of the things you said.
@itsnadiabrasil LOL get used to it....my channel isn't a mirror that holds up what people want to hear =P I'm just making observations...I think I said how I felt maybe twice in this video....once that promiscuity is bad...and the other time I think I said ..idk....what I talk about is just...an observation =)
what you consider to be 'wife material' is shaped by an oppressive patriarchal system. what men and women value in one another is not just biological, it has a lot to do with the way our society has been constructed for thousands of years. men obviously find youth and beauty physically attractive, but in practice men in their 30s or 40s want to settle down and spend their life with women as mature and intellectual than they are, not 18 year olds who work in macdonalds.
@rrff7755 The question I never addressed is "what IS wife material" so any sort of criticism you are about to give as I read this comment is built upon your own, possibly incorrect assumptions.
@rrff7755 And men wanting women their age is not a social construction? Why then do men ...in almost EVERY society in the ENTIRE history of the world marry younger women? SURE, what I want from a woman is someone more on my level, HOWEVER, if I'm looking for a woman, I want one who I could have kids with.....men in ancient times would often....MOST often marry teenage girls....men in at least their 30's.
i think i know what you mean. women are workin in jobs that men used to to lead in. now compared 30 years ago, some women are more materialistic or maybe just more open with materialistic things. such as power, greed, and sex appeal and use these to get ahead. women always filled the role of mother, lovin wife and caretaker. it does seem like a lot of women only care about things more than love. but there are some women out there that actually care about companionship and love. dont give up man
well there are boys and there are girls as well as for woman being dominate and getting jobs that proves they are woman because they can take care of themselves and dont need a man and its not like there are many men out there there are only boys who cant take care of themselves and arent looking to settle down and the reason woman are so premisuise in college is because they are trying to keep one guy to marry afterwards since there arent many guys who even go to college
you just controdicted yourself in this vid you said you want females to be feminin but you dont want them to wear skimpy close if a woman cant be dominate to get a male then they have to dress like a sex object and wear skirts you cant say a woman has to do a female roll when you arent even sure what it is and tell them to stop being dominate at the same time but i know guys love dominate females they love woman who make the first move as long as its done correctly
@GuidetteExpert no he didnt say that but there are 2 types of woman domanate woman that want to be self selfsafiant/dominate females or the ones that dress like sex objects to get the guy and be the house wifey type that will never be dominate and feel they can only be sex objects
woman dont leave behind the feminin stuff i wish they did because NOBODY should spend any money on makeup its just useless idiot stuff and guys actually tend to hate it as well especailly if they put it on themselves and dont realize its perminate (CTFxC charles trippy) he only hates make up when it acidently gets on him but i know guys who are turned off by make up
actually males love woman who are in power they love females who have stabability its boys who dont like that stuff but even some do because they see that woman as somebody that could be a mommy statis to them and those sick boys chase those women as well
what you are saying isnt true at all when i guy is close to his 30s or 40s is when he is actually wanting to settle down so thats when they actually start dating woman and they date around their own age group and you really need to do research about how males cant keep up with their roles and find jobs because they are highschool dropouts
what you are saying isnt true with the males i know they want a dominate woman they want somebody to tell them what to do and shit like that a comment typed by a guy saying dominate woman are hot got over 67 likes and that was just when i last saw it it probably has more now
@kazooga1234 Over 67 likes? really? Ive seen comments about people wanting to have other people murdered/mutilated/dismembered get more likes than that. Should we take those comments seriously too?
@TheWeakMinded it wasnt watched a lot of times and i have a comment with almost 200 likes on it and the vid when i saw the 67 wasnt even up for an hour it probably has over 100 now
@TheWeakMinded ya and we should stop having comercails where they make woman look like sex objects only and we should work on having it so woman dont feel like they have to have lipo suction and things like that by telling woman not to be dominate is saying you mine as well have lipo and make it so you are just a sex object for males since thats all you can be
thats actually not true i know a lot of guys who have no problem having a wife like that and a lot of males understand that the only reason the woman were doing that in college and stuff was to try to keep a man
what you are talking about ALL HAS TO DO WITH IT BEING THE MALES FAULT the fact that woman give themselves up more in college is so they can keep the guy and marry them after college for the ones that didnt go to college to look for a man then they dont try to go after the guys and actually focus on school work and will go after a guy after college
its not that there are less wives its that MALES ARE GETTING STUPIDER they arent going to college and they are the ones that want woman to stay stupid like them
heres the thing we dont feel pressured to work we just want to thats what the womans movement was all about was we wanted to we didnt feel pressured to and i plan on fighting were my great grandmother left off there are still some woman who go to college just to find a husband the problem is males they dont go to college nearly as much any more so there are less guys in college maybe you should do a vid about that
i can tell you right now it doesnt make woman less wife material males look for dominate females and i know that from the comment section in vids they just dont want a virgin female
I wonder how often in the past husbands took their wives ideas and published them as their own, because as a women, they wouldn't be taken seriously. I know of a few authors in the past that did that, took on a man's name so they could write.
So the future of the society will result into men and women being two equal similar blocks that don't mesh together and hence serve no purpose to the society. Promiscuity will keep increasing and that will result in more abandoned children and broken families. Both genders need to realize each other's value....instead of competing
So when one gender starts demanding more importance over the other based on the unique ability that they have...it will throw off the balance. Women have been forced to do things that they are not really designed to do just so that they can find their 'unique importance' again...and in turn they are behaving more like men and now we have fewer and fewer women that have good morales , want to stay home and raise families.
I agree with everything that you've stated in your video...it's the logical truth. But the truth of the matter is that men pushed women to be the way they are today. I think God blessed both the genders with unique capabilities and abilities so that they could work in unison to get a common result. Like two puzzle pieces that are uneven but join together to get a solution. They aren't equal or similar but both are equally important.
i agree, and also this is really a big problem in the black community especially, all the "independent black women" that don't need a man are only making themselves miserable at the end of the day.
@dmoneyxion Yea.....it's funny b/c men....I hypothesize, more than anything want to feel APPRECIATED and women who say "I don't need a man" are only lying to themselves and not acting in their on interest.
So women are becoming men essentially. That's sad, but I agree that this movement is progressing and progressing. Some women are meant to do "manly" jobs, but I agree that there are lots of women that needs a more traditional role, but are brainwahed to do something their not supposed to.
I understand what you are saying. I've noticed a lot of women (not including myself) are having trouble finding a man that they consider marriage material. Some of them seem like decent women.Why do you think that is?
no way your 22!! :D you are very smart and decent especially for your age. I hope to be as smart as you by the time im 22. that gives me a year i guess : /
id like to say that you say that women have contributed less, but they have been kind of pushed down when they try, but still succeeded many times, which i would see as more impressive.
but i agree but also disagree
i think a better way to state what you say is that men and women are equal in unequal ways.
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Rather, I have parents who opposed the idea ever since my 7th grade wanting me to go into pharmacy. Medicine is something that grasps my attention and I truly enjoy it. But I am afraid, to be honest. Even now, I have a motherly instinct at this age. If I pass the age of 27 and have not given birth to a child, I know the dangers. I would not want that, even worse, to not find a partner I want to spend my life with early and to be discarded because I am not 20 anymore.Am I making a mistake?
miki5xD 1 month ago
@miki5xD From a woman: Seriously, don't let yourself or anyone scare you out of fulfilling your life intellectually for the reason you give. 27 is NOT old to start a family and neither is 30. Your Husband to be will have the capacity to be a father AND much more (have a career) and no one will ever question that of him. Don't let yourself or anyone else question YOUR ability to do that, too. There is nothing to stop you taking a break in your career or studies to have a family should you wish.
rrff7755 3 weeks ago
I need advice that concerns just this issue.I am 18.Today I applied to medical school. I agree with everything you said in your video and this is precisely why I'm torn. I should finish by the age of 24-25,then comes the internship, residency, specialties. I want to be a wife and a mother. After long consideration I realized I will eat myself alive unless I go into medicine.But I also know I will most likely trade my personal, for my professional life. I am not pressured into medicine by anyone.
miki5xD 1 month ago
So what are men now...? You didn't quite finish that thought and I was left thinking we we're some amorphous blob. Don't worry about finding a wife of good character, if you're making a difference out there she'll find you. But, one cautionary word of advice, a good marriage should all but kill you (your pride anyway) and your intended will lovingly be the implement used. Thanks for keeping it raw and from your heart.
StraightAheadJazz 1 month ago
you're right brother
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roles.” This is just my opinion. :)
SamanthaLau1994 1 month ago
) have. Oh, and I meant to say "a career" instead of "that career." I wasn't referring to women hunting as a job as an example. I was referring to other careers like, for example, a psychologist. I already know that men and women are not equal. No brainer. The main question is: What is a woman and what is a man? Can we really define without generalizing? Pardon me for the long response. I just wanted to rebut your saying something about “women being more masculine and taking over more masculine
SamanthaLau1994 1 month ago
@SamanthaLau1994 I think there's a lot of grey areas in life more than black and white. Yes there are masculine and feminine qualities, but many people can fall anywhere along this spectrum. Some women are more butch or masculine, other women may be very feminine but have certain masculine characteristics, then others may be totally feminine. (Same thing w/ men.) I believe if we think more in terms of grey, then we understand better the diversity in roles among men and women.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 Oh, I meant to imply that there is no black-and-what answer to my question "What is a man and what is a woman?" I apologize for not clarifying. I totally agree with you. I also believe that there are a lot of grey areas.
SamanthaLau1994 1 month ago
what men do—doing what women are capable of doing. It's not like women are taking over a man's job, because why should men claim every job as their own? Is it because they got to them first? It’s just that women are as equal, and capable, IN CERTAIN ASPECTS to have a particular career. Back then, women were seen as just stay-at-home moms because physical power meant OVERALL power to everybody. Physical power seemed more significant than other abilities. Abilities which women (some do, some don't
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Can we really define what is a woman and what is a man? The way I see it, instincts has brought us to the perception on how women and men should be. For example, women are typically weaker than men, therefore they do not take hold of the job of hunting (back in the day--or in Native regions). So then women are stuck at home, nurturing the kids and such. However, over time, people began to see that women have a vast amount of capabilities in their own sense. They have the potential of —not doing
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Just out of curiosity, do you think there's a society (past or present) that best exemplifies the ideal dynamic b/n men and women and/or appreciation of feminine and male traits? I'd be curious to know if there's a fair representation of your ideal out there (so your audience could get a better understanding of your view) or if it's a future goal you think society needs to reach. I'd also like you to do a video on the Qur'an. I've read bits of the Qur'an for a class, but never the whole thing.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 But you are correct about women not getting credit and more of them being uneducated in the past. Which is the reason why they haven't innovated more. I believe its a biological thing. Who chose to be the hunters? Who chose to be the nurturers? Whenever women were oppressed in ANY society, so was men. Which is why men's oppression is usually swept under the rug nowadays.
Mikelovision 1 month ago
@Mikelovision That's an interesting point you bring up. When society allows one group to be oppressed, then what's to stop them from oppressing other groups, even those considered part of dominant group?
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 Great question. It reminded me of a rock being thrown into a pond. You see ripples form, soon after. The same thing happens when society oppresses a certain group of people. I guess what I'm trying to say is, society manufactures its own oppression.
Mikelovision 1 month ago
Check out George Carlin watch?v=m2a5-RrwWZ8#t=393s
JIYkp 1 month ago
(Continued) Women have to provide for themselves because men don't do that any more, kind of like how you said in 1 of your videos that we're so disconected with all this convienient technology, it's all interlinked. P.S. True feminism isn't about women trying to be men, it's about women having the same OPORTUNITY as a man
TheKaitn 1 month ago
Don't you think a big part of the issue is men? If there were more good men that valued marage and family then women would settle and do these feminine things, but instead they become self sufficient because men dont want to take care of a woman, men don't want to be men (as you stated...at the very end) men just want to be care free boys.
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@TheKaitn Agreed! I look at my father's Babyboom generation, and many of those men are so spoiled. It's almost like they want a mother instead of a partner. I think women got sick of being taken advantage of and having such a limited role. So it was an up-rise against limited gender roles. I also agree that the women's mvmt does not mean we want to be men. I love my femininity, but I also love all the opportunities I have. And, I love men who embrace their masculinity.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@TheKaitn Yes...trust me, I guess I show a bias toward women in my criticisms of humanity...when really, I dislike guys attitudes a lot more....men, at worst, I look at with utter disgust...women, I look at with pity, falling for men time after time.
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@TheKaitn "If there were more good men that valued marage and family then women would settle and do these feminine things." Really? Is that why women are divorcing twice as much as men? Is that why women are more promiscuous today than they were 50 years ago, regardless if she is religious or not? & Some men wouldn't mind taking care of a woman. Just definitely not a woman who has already been physically and financially taken care of by countless other men, if you know what I mean.
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Women are trying to be hot because men like beauty. That's why girls dress slutty, they just want attention they don't care if its bad attention. And as far as youth goes, you say that men want young women because at 35 they are not able to have as healthy children then as a young women. I understand that but why then are men into young teenagers I'm talking about 14, 15 year olds? Because teenage girls having children is dangerous. And i agree about everything else you said
abnormal4 1 month ago
@abnormal4 Because 14/15 year old girls promise a lifetime of children =P lol See, the mistake girls make in dressign sexy is thinking that they'll get the attention from a man who wants to marry them...not really....women can still be beautiful when they're modest....having guys gawk at a woman is not a sign that they like THAT woman...just her physical form...0 about her in any way possible. Sadly, women's drive for attention confuses sex appeal with romantic appeal.
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abnormal4 1 month ago
but you can not say men have devalued us and they are to blame which is how many feminist groups think (not all but many). Men are better at some things than women are and women are better at something’s than men. Both sexes have something they bring to the table and that is what attracts men to women and vice versa. Men want to be wanted (needed) and women want to feel safe (secure).
BonkersAboutAnimals 1 month ago
I agree with you and have read some comments but something many seem to be overlooking is that a lot of women act like "whores" and try to be these sexy objects and think this is what men want. Yes men want to have sex with you if you are sexy but when it comes to actually marrying a women and introducing them to their loved ones this is not the case. I am not saying that just because many women act in this manner, all do
BonkersAboutAnimals 1 month ago
Society expects women to be more empathetic. We drill this into children's brains from a very young age of course its going to take affect. I do no think that naturally women r just more empathetic perhaps some individuals may be more empathetic then others in males and females
ifYouCanImagine 1 month ago
By saying professional isn't "wifey" material u r forcing people into specific roles. Individuals are different your gender should not make you who you are. This whole thing where u r saying the womens movement should not persuade u to have a career... that's true what should is the fact that u need to be able to support yourself. Economic security is the key to stopping the devaluation of women. Elderly women have the highest rates of poverty in the US because of these traditional roles.
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@8ballthecat Agree w/ you about sexual lib, but women's movement overall was a good thing. You can still be a housewife or be a virgin until you're married if you choose, or you can go to graduate school then get married if you want. Or you can stay single if you like. It's up to you these days now that we have the freedom to make choices, whereas before, all our choices revolved around what was pleasing to the male "dominant" gender-that's why the women's mvmt was so great!
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 I agree, I consider myself a feminist, but I think it goes wrong when the idea of being a feminist means that you're some sort of man-hater or one of these "independent-I-don't-need-a-man" types. I think someone here said it, men and women are like puzzle pieces, different, but are both needed together for the "greater picture".
8ballthecat 1 month ago
@8ballthecat I agree w/ you. I also think that feminists have been stereotyped into the "bra-burning, man-haters." And many ppl seem to hate feminists. I'm a proud feminist and I even have a tshirt saying so. However, I still love the difference b/n men and women. I love embracing my femininity & I also love having the opportunities I have today. But I wonder: when did being a feminist become such a nasty word?
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why shouldnt a virgin woman be with a non virgin man? Can you tell me?
GuidetteExpert 1 month ago
@GuidetteExpert Oh, I never said should or shouldn't, I was just saying that it would be slightly hypocritical if a man was promiscuous and then demanded that his wife should not be.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX I've come to the conclusion that a lot of men and women, more of the latter than the former, view this subject with an emotional point of view. Biologically, men and women are engineered differently. Women weren't allowed to be educated like a man for a long time. Although today we look at that as sexist, that social model for marriage & wife material, as you put it, is the best example recorded in history.
Mikelovision 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX I'm not saying that we should go back to that model. What I am saying is that we shouldn't pressure our women to become professionals or housewives, like you said, it should be a choice. Most women don't get that they are making a trade off when they are becoming career women. They believe they can somehow be equally successful at both a career & raising children, which is impractical.
Mikelovision 1 month ago
(Cont.) but anyone is capable of invention. Also, I'm so happy I am alive now. If I were born back in the day, I would be expected to be a house wife. I like organizing and keeping a nice home, but I would be bored just being a "pretty, young housewife." I love that I am able to pursue a career and my interests in the world. And through this I am meeting more guys who are like minded. Looks fade, you need to have substance, and most mature guys I know appreciate a woman who pursues her dreams.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 I remember in the Qur'an when it encouraged women to seek out their own careers in their own time...it's funny how lies pervade everyday about everything...msot people think Islam oppressed women...I think the past AND the current society for women oppresses women more than Islam...but alas, the masses won't seen that.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX I hope you'll make a video on that.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX I totally agree with you on this
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@AmanJohnX In conclusion, men & women ARE generally different like you said. Because men & women are different, our concepts of what marriage is will soon die out in first world countries. We are seeing it with the rise of divorce & other factors. Just watch, Our concept of marriage will become, to our grandchildren, what Hannibal's elephants and Egyptians horse-drawn chariots have become to modern warfare. Blame feminism =P Great video, Aman!
Mikelovision 1 month ago
Society does devalue anything "feminine" but there's nothing new about that. Women have always been undervalued in most societies! So it's no surprise that the Women's Mvmt needed to happen & I am glad it did. Also, inventions aren't a masculine thing. Women didn't invent as many things b/c either they were uneducated or their husbands got credit for any of their work. It's like saying invention is a "white thing" just b/c many things were invented by white males, (continued)
Tregnier52 1 month ago 3
@Tregnier52 Women didn't invent as many things b/c the brain pattern associated with cross contextual thinking which most inventors posses is dominated by the male brain. Women evolved to survive just as men....the same lack of cross contextual thinking means women are not as funny...they just aren't....they have never needed to have these abilities. Just making observations.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX Still anyone is capable of invention. So even if it is a "male trait", I think it should be encouraged among everyone so that even if a girl never sees an inventor who looks like her, she still knows that if inventing is her passion, there's a place for her in society. I grew up never seeing doctors who looked like me & even questioned if ppl like me were smart enough to be one, but here I am in medical school b/c my mom always encouraged me that I could pursue my dream.
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@Tregnier52 In what part he said that women shouldn't try to invent things? It's pretty obvious that it's possible there is a man who has some femine traits while there is a woman who posses some male traits. The thing was that most of the women don't posses inventor's brain, which is why men tend to dominate on areas where people use their brains to invent new stuff.
Aman only said that older you get, less chance you have to have a man or give birth to healthy baby.
Tespri 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 Exactly! Thank you!!!
MissNayNay 1 month ago
@Tregnier52 No doubt, the women's movement needed to happen. With the help of men, too, it was successful! The problem became when these women movements like "feminism" want PRIVILEGED over men. Meaning they want to earn the same amount, but not go to work as much as men. Meaning they want to be equal but in emergency situations they want men to risk their lives for them. Most women's movements have done more harm than good.
Mikelovision 1 month ago
if you made a podcast... that would make my ipod so epic
etothebang 1 month ago
@ kazooga1234 - Instead of relpying to every comment you give (since my reply is basically the same)... It seems like you are another another person that would rather back yourself with opinion than facts. Much of what he says is true, does he give proof? Not always, but what he says he has explained and researched and studiued. Disassociate yourself with being a "woman" and him being a "man" and you might actually be able to understand what he says.
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@TheWeakMind i back myself with facts and he hasnt explained why the rolls are changing and why woman are giving themselves up to guys in college and the reason the woman are having sex with the guys is because MOST MALES DONE EVEN GO TO COLLEGE leaving less options for woman and making them feel like they have to sleep with the guy to keep him and in russia they are having the same problem but worse and a female can easily get a male to marry him if she says how great the sex is
kazooga1234 1 month ago
There's an audiobook I'm listening to called "The Origins of War: Child Abuse" by Lloyd DeMause. In it he talks about the history of child rearing including sacrifices and mutilation. He states that in his 30 years of research, women were most responsible in their actions of child rearing for men who went to war and ended up raping women later in life. If true, maybe this shift is good so women get out of the business of bad parenting and the fathers' take on the role of home parenting.
st3jace 1 month ago
@st3jace that sounds confounding lol b/c if 99% of people raising children are women then you could blame literally 99% of all bad things on said women.....women have raised rapist, murderers, criminals, etc etc ...see what I'm saying?
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
Before anyone overreacts at one of his final statments: He has stated before that he believes women should be valued for the traits. When he said that women want to look sexy and continued to say that men only like women for the looks, he simply seemed to imply what he stated before. Value yourself for something other than your looks.
My own statement: Value yourself for something other than your physical, sexual value and reate something new. But your looks will be the first thing people see.
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded Amen
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded I agree w/ you on this point. It's always good to put your best face forward, but it doesn't mean that you have to dress slutty. I see many women who dress more conservatively, but they still remain sexy and classy due to the way their clothes fit their body and the way they carry themselves. Looks may get you attention initially, but a great mind/personality is what holds someone's attention.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
i'm sick of hearing "we're not valuing the very honourable work of women, we're different and special, women should be proud to embrace their femininity and all be housewives and mothers" errrr, yeah, say that when YOU'RE faced with a life of domestic servitude and subordinate power and respect. to me it sounds like "black people are different and special! the problem is society isn't APPRECIATING how good you all are at picking cotton! you're more mentally and physically suited to it, guys!"
rrff7755 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Not quite sure how to take this. Seems more like you are just angered by the truth. This is how it is. Is it right? Mabye, mabye not. But if you are going to watch these videos, you need to come with an open mind or you will be offended to no end.
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded is it true? are black people just good, or best, for picking cotton? i don't think so. i'm very open minded and i love to hear Aman's opinion, but it needed to be pointed out how offensive that whole frame of thinking from people across the world, not from Aman, is to women.
rrff7755 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Oh, you must not have heard me say that I don't know what is uniquely feminine...
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
Agree with everything you said, very well put. Its unfortunate that people have adopted a very warped view of feminism. Keep up the good work.
-a woman
8ballthecat 1 month ago
@8ballthecat Thank you =) Yes....it's always fun talking about these issues.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
also, your argument that 'twas ever thus, maybe it's the way it should be' is pitifully flawed. infant mortality, the infanticide of baby girls, low life expectancy, domestic violence, slavery, serfdom, rape, prostitution, incest, human sacrifice, racism, war, colonialism ..... just to name a few things that always happened, that are arguably part of human nature, that definitely are not right.
rrff7755 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Who are you to say any of this is wrong? Mabye the world intended us to have low life expectancy. Mabye it is logical that more infants die than live. Heck, mabye incest is not wrong, mabye that is a blind social creation and incest makes heritage stronger. To claim his argument wrong would require you to give unbiased, rational argument against it. And unfortunatly, all your argument has been is biased against him. You aregue with emotion and not reason.
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded Incest is wrong b/c it limits genetic diversity. So if your family carries mutated genes, (and every family does, just depends on if the phenotype is deleterious) then you have a higher chance of passing on your bad family genes to your inbred kids. Why do you think the Egyptian royalty had so many congenital illnesses? They all married and had kids w/ their siblings! Incest does not make "heritage stronger," friend. It weakens it. Maybe you need to argue w/ more reason.
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Slavery, rape, etc etc are things that HAPPEN, not necessarily things that ARE. Women being oppressed HAPPENED, but the female brain IS..whether the differences in the brain are BECAUSE of the oppression may or may not be relevant depending on how long the "oppression" was....it's like saying that penises evolved b/c of the arbitrary roles males were oppressed to take.....therefore, penises are just subjective and shouldn't be used.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@rrff7755 The key thing is that what is NATURAL isn't always within our best nature.....MAYBE it's natural for women to be more submissive.....the question is whether or not it's in our nature....things that are in our nature happen to be what is "moral" and what makes people happy for moral reasons..... so is sexual liberation natural? Yes...humans are animals, so we must indulge in SOME sexual activity governed by the laws of human moral nature....
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX I query whether what's in our nature and history is what's moral and what makes people happy. Infact, i'd say that rejecting our animalistic nature is what makes us human, has built society, and normally rejecting ones nature is what makes one honourable and good in the eyes of society. qualities like selflessness and restraint - deeply unnatural - are widely respected and deemed honourable. I'd even say honouring chastity is an example of this! haha
rrff7755 1 month ago
Definitely your best video on woman. My only critique is; maybe you should reference to studies done on these various topics (I only don't know if your audience would appreciate it).
But any way I do enjoy your video's.
One more thing; what is your definition of ''Natural Law''? Is it a kind to ''Natural Selection'' or the ''Laws of Physics''?
VellianoRosso 1 month ago
@VellianoRosso Thank you =) Yea, I could reference lots of studies...I've always been like this in school...I can cite exact numbers and tell people precisely the main idea about ANYTHING...I just don't care who said it as long as it's true....I never preoccupied myself with knowledge, more with understanding. Natural Law is basically common sense truth.. I'm trying to think of ways to succinctly put it. hmmm
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@VellianoRosso Natural Law would be more like "Laws of Physics"...It'd be like saying that there are natural laws that govern health such that it should be obvious that eating 100 snickers bars daily is not optimum for health..see where that is going?
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
also, as a woman, sexual liberation is NOT social imprisonment, it's liberating. women at large don't feel it's most natural and comfortable to have one sexual partner in life. 'women are naturally monogamous and men naturally are not' is a social construct used to favour men! humans like sex and human connection, women may favour connection where men favour sex, but numbers are irrelevant. your system frames women as virgin, mother or slut - but women, like men, are more than their sex lives.
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@rrff7755 He has covered monogamy a bit. Naturally, and in much of nature, females are generally follow the path of monogomy. It is quite possible that, biologically, men are better off being non-monogamous and women are not. Mabye he an link you to his video where he overs that more because i forget which it was. And his "system" frames people how they frame themselves. "You are you what you do repeatedly." Take that as you will.
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Definitely agree w/ you!
Tregnier52 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Keep telling yourself it's liberating. you should watch my video about why the double standard is good...and what is my system? virgin, mother, slut.....and if this were my system....I'd add girlfriend...a social CONSTRUCT of western society...these are women who you can trick into thinking there is hope for the future...you can have sex with them for a few years...but ultimately not respect her, and then leave her for another...girlfriend. rinse, repeat. lol
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX my point is, as a woman, i can tell you that the common argument that "women are essentially empathetic, loving creatures suited to child raising and home making, who although intellectually capable are too simple, emotional and needy to be able to have functional relationships with more than one person over a lifetime, and have been tricked into promiscuity, immodesty, and intellectual pursuit by this modern hell" just does not ring true to me or any women i know.
rrff7755 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX the fact you think women must be foolish victims for accepting the role of 'girlfriend', exploited by men and making a poor trade on their virginity, speaks volume about how you view women. The point of the women's movement is that women didn't want to have to trade on their sexuality or lack there of in order to get by - ie marriage as their only viable living - because that is not how women feel about and want to use sex - whatever men might assume.
rrff7755 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX infact, just consider this, if it isn't liberating and it's not what women want, and it isn't BETTER than what came before, then why the hell did women fight so hard for it and why the hell do we value it so much today? Are ALL women having one night stands or 3 long term boyfriends, confused, frigid, serial victims, desperate for a husband? There are definitely problems with gender dichotomy today, but that's because women aren't emancipated enough, not because they've gone too far.
rrff7755 1 month ago
@rrff7755 women aren't emancipated enough? that's because women today want privaledge over men, in a indirect way. For instance, women say they want to be equal, at the same time get off sinking ship BEFORE men. Equality is unattainable, like world peace. There is no such thing. Why can't men be men and women be women. If you want a career, fine. If you want to get married and raise a family more, what's the problem with the sacrifice of becoming a part time worker and a full time
Mikelovision 3 weeks ago
@Mikelovision I concede that there are some women who want privilege, but they are NOT the same women who want equality.
rrff7755 3 weeks ago
@rrff7755 mother and wife? Emancipation is not the root of all neither most of women's problems today, just like racism isn't for black people. Now we all have the right to be and do whatever you are capable of. If anything is holding a woman back today, a woman can legally prosecute that person or company and be compensated. There are no excuses. Women also work less than men and die 90 percent less than men on the job. Where is the equality in that? That's why there is none.
Mikelovision 3 weeks ago
@Mikelovision you clearly don't know the meaning of the word emancipation and your point about death vs. pay is ridiculous. i'm not going to further a debate with you.
rrff7755 3 weeks ago
@rrff7755 That's the problem. Women who want EQUALITY want privilege, too. How can a man & women be equal? Equal rights and opportunities, of course. But equal as in when a ship goes down children and WOMEN go first? is that equal? lol I will sleep well tonight knowing you are not going to debate with you. You just proved my point of being a closed minded feminist. You also fail to see the correlation between broken families & house holds with just a "strong independent woman" in them.
Mikelovision 3 weeks ago
@rrff7755 I've also seen how I used emancipation in that context and I was incorrect. I get just annoyed when people use words the wrong way. Just because A WORD wrong, you don't want to debate with me because of your closed minded ideals that has hypocrisy written all over them? You have done me a favor, trust me. Have a good day.
Mikelovision 3 weeks ago
@rrff7755 there are things in biology and neuroscience that shows how men and women are different. Which is why in the beginning of time women were the nurtures and men were the hunters. Men were the builders and innovators. That's just how we are all engineered. Now, It's up to each and every woman to choose how they want to live. Being a man is not one, and I believe that angers a lot of women.
Mikelovision 3 weeks ago
Have you seen Username:girlwriteswhat Post:Feminism and the Disposable Male Link: youtu.be: /vp8tToFv-bA
Nassergamez 1 month ago
it's easy for you to say this as a member of the dominant gender. as a woman, i refuse to accept that my gender should have options, but ultimately belongs in it's place. Women weren't even taught to read and write, no wonder power and academia are considered masculine. you'll know from studying that women are just as intellectually capable - if you were born a woman would you have decided to skip pursuing an education/career because you wanted to be the best housewife for someone possible?
rrff7755 1 month ago
@rrff7755 This part of your statement is quite juvenile. Calling him out because he is male is unimportant. He even states that people should not be fored into roles. Bringing up the point of "if he was born a woman" is completely arbitrary. Changing one thing in life will changes everything about it. He may never have thought this way.
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@rrff7755 Yes, women have brains as intellectually capable....but in different things...THAT being said....I DO thikn that most of the differences are socially constructed, but I also KNOW that many of the differences are simply innate ....on AVERAGE. I never said women should skip education, that's not the point I'm making...just making a factual observation that there is a very real trade off.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
I'd tell you to go fuck yourself, but you talked in such a nice tone that now I respect your... point of view, though I disagree with most of the things you said.
itsnadiabrasil 1 month ago
@itsnadiabrasil LOL get used to it....my channel isn't a mirror that holds up what people want to hear =P I'm just making observations...I think I said how I felt maybe twice in this video....once that promiscuity is bad...and the other time I think I said ..idk....what I talk about is just...an observation =)
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
what you consider to be 'wife material' is shaped by an oppressive patriarchal system. what men and women value in one another is not just biological, it has a lot to do with the way our society has been constructed for thousands of years. men obviously find youth and beauty physically attractive, but in practice men in their 30s or 40s want to settle down and spend their life with women as mature and intellectual than they are, not 18 year olds who work in macdonalds.
rrff7755 1 month ago
@rrff7755 The question I never addressed is "what IS wife material" so any sort of criticism you are about to give as I read this comment is built upon your own, possibly incorrect assumptions.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@rrff7755 And men wanting women their age is not a social construction? Why then do men ...in almost EVERY society in the ENTIRE history of the world marry younger women? SURE, what I want from a woman is someone more on my level, HOWEVER, if I'm looking for a woman, I want one who I could have kids with.....men in ancient times would often....MOST often marry teenage girls....men in at least their 30's.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
i think i know what you mean. women are workin in jobs that men used to to lead in. now compared 30 years ago, some women are more materialistic or maybe just more open with materialistic things. such as power, greed, and sex appeal and use these to get ahead. women always filled the role of mother, lovin wife and caretaker. it does seem like a lot of women only care about things more than love. but there are some women out there that actually care about companionship and love. dont give up man
keyfloater96 1 month ago
@keyfloater96 Idk HOW women should be....I just don't think how women OR men are today is ideal. =) and yea I won't give up!
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
well there are boys and there are girls as well as for woman being dominate and getting jobs that proves they are woman because they can take care of themselves and dont need a man and its not like there are many men out there there are only boys who cant take care of themselves and arent looking to settle down and the reason woman are so premisuise in college is because they are trying to keep one guy to marry afterwards since there arent many guys who even go to college
kazooga1234 1 month ago
you just controdicted yourself in this vid you said you want females to be feminin but you dont want them to wear skimpy close if a woman cant be dominate to get a male then they have to dress like a sex object and wear skirts you cant say a woman has to do a female roll when you arent even sure what it is and tell them to stop being dominate at the same time but i know guys love dominate females they love woman who make the first move as long as its done correctly
kazooga1234 1 month ago
@kazooga1234 He never said women have to dress like a sex object...
GuidetteExpert 1 month ago
@GuidetteExpert no he didnt say that but there are 2 types of woman domanate woman that want to be self selfsafiant/dominate females or the ones that dress like sex objects to get the guy and be the house wifey type that will never be dominate and feel they can only be sex objects
kazooga1234 1 month ago
the few females who pee standing up just do it because its quicker and its usually in the shower i have found out as well
kazooga1234 1 month ago
woman dont leave behind the feminin stuff i wish they did because NOBODY should spend any money on makeup its just useless idiot stuff and guys actually tend to hate it as well especailly if they put it on themselves and dont realize its perminate (CTFxC charles trippy) he only hates make up when it acidently gets on him but i know guys who are turned off by make up
kazooga1234 1 month ago
males dont want virgins
kazooga1234 1 month ago
actually males love woman who are in power they love females who have stabability its boys who dont like that stuff but even some do because they see that woman as somebody that could be a mommy statis to them and those sick boys chase those women as well
kazooga1234 1 month ago
you are just a boy you dont know when men want and woman dont go for boys
kazooga1234 1 month ago
what you are saying isnt true at all when i guy is close to his 30s or 40s is when he is actually wanting to settle down so thats when they actually start dating woman and they date around their own age group and you really need to do research about how males cant keep up with their roles and find jobs because they are highschool dropouts
kazooga1234 1 month ago
what you are saying isnt true with the males i know they want a dominate woman they want somebody to tell them what to do and shit like that a comment typed by a guy saying dominate woman are hot got over 67 likes and that was just when i last saw it it probably has more now
kazooga1234 1 month ago
@kazooga1234 Over 67 likes? really? Ive seen comments about people wanting to have other people murdered/mutilated/dismembered get more likes than that. Should we take those comments seriously too?
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded it wasnt watched a lot of times and i have a comment with almost 200 likes on it and the vid when i saw the 67 wasnt even up for an hour it probably has over 100 now
kazooga1234 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded it depends on exactly what the comment says
kazooga1234 1 month ago
ANY MALE WHO IS ONLY INTERESTED IN YOUTH AND BEAUTY CAN GO TO HELL
kazooga1234 1 month ago
@kazooga1234 Umadbro? Then should every woman who focuses on creating themselves to be beautiful go to hell as well?
TheWeakMinded 1 month ago
@TheWeakMinded ya and we should stop having comercails where they make woman look like sex objects only and we should work on having it so woman dont feel like they have to have lipo suction and things like that by telling woman not to be dominate is saying you mine as well have lipo and make it so you are just a sex object for males since thats all you can be
kazooga1234 1 month ago
thats actually not true i know a lot of guys who have no problem having a wife like that and a lot of males understand that the only reason the woman were doing that in college and stuff was to try to keep a man
kazooga1234 1 month ago
what you are talking about ALL HAS TO DO WITH IT BEING THE MALES FAULT the fact that woman give themselves up more in college is so they can keep the guy and marry them after college for the ones that didnt go to college to look for a man then they dont try to go after the guys and actually focus on school work and will go after a guy after college
kazooga1234 1 month ago
its not that there are less wives its that MALES ARE GETTING STUPIDER they arent going to college and they are the ones that want woman to stay stupid like them
kazooga1234 1 month ago
heres the thing we dont feel pressured to work we just want to thats what the womans movement was all about was we wanted to we didnt feel pressured to and i plan on fighting were my great grandmother left off there are still some woman who go to college just to find a husband the problem is males they dont go to college nearly as much any more so there are less guys in college maybe you should do a vid about that
kazooga1234 1 month ago
i can tell you right now it doesnt make woman less wife material males look for dominate females and i know that from the comment section in vids they just dont want a virgin female
kazooga1234 1 month ago
I wonder how often in the past husbands took their wives ideas and published them as their own, because as a women, they wouldn't be taken seriously. I know of a few authors in the past that did that, took on a man's name so they could write.
Alltheroadrunning 1 month ago
@Alltheroadrunning Probably a few
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
talk about sopa god dammit
XtraXtraodinaire 1 month ago 2
@XtraXtraodinaire You know what? I just might because Andrea and I are talking about it right now...I'm getting warmed up to talk about it
AmanJohnX 1 month ago 2
are you andreas brother
N0t0ri0usPr1NCesS 1 month ago 4
@N0t0ri0usPr1NCesS
lmao!!!!! that soooo funny
missysmithy25 1 month ago
@N0t0ri0usPr1NCesS NO! =D LOLOL A lot of people think that!
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
So the future of the society will result into men and women being two equal similar blocks that don't mesh together and hence serve no purpose to the society. Promiscuity will keep increasing and that will result in more abandoned children and broken families. Both genders need to realize each other's value....instead of competing
thisisveryveryannoyi 1 month ago 3
@thisisveryveryannoyi yes. !
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
So when one gender starts demanding more importance over the other based on the unique ability that they have...it will throw off the balance. Women have been forced to do things that they are not really designed to do just so that they can find their 'unique importance' again...and in turn they are behaving more like men and now we have fewer and fewer women that have good morales , want to stay home and raise families.
thisisveryveryannoyi 1 month ago
I agree with everything that you've stated in your video...it's the logical truth. But the truth of the matter is that men pushed women to be the way they are today. I think God blessed both the genders with unique capabilities and abilities so that they could work in unison to get a common result. Like two puzzle pieces that are uneven but join together to get a solution. They aren't equal or similar but both are equally important.
thisisveryveryannoyi 1 month ago
i agree, and also this is really a big problem in the black community especially, all the "independent black women" that don't need a man are only making themselves miserable at the end of the day.
dmoneyxion 1 month ago
@dmoneyxion Yea.....it's funny b/c men....I hypothesize, more than anything want to feel APPRECIATED and women who say "I don't need a man" are only lying to themselves and not acting in their on interest.
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
So women are becoming men essentially. That's sad, but I agree that this movement is progressing and progressing. Some women are meant to do "manly" jobs, but I agree that there are lots of women that needs a more traditional role, but are brainwahed to do something their not supposed to.
seethroughshit 1 month ago
@seethroughshit Brainwashed is a nice choice of words lol
AmanJohnX 1 month ago
@AmanJohnX Haha
seethroughshit 1 month ago
amen, so so true
jerrylittlemars 1 month ago
(psss, why are we whispering)
jerrylittlemars 1 month ago
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I understand what you are saying. I've noticed a lot of women (not including myself) are having trouble finding a man that they consider marriage material. Some of them seem like decent women.Why do you think that is?
joyariffic 1 month ago
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joyariffic 1 month ago
no way your 22!! :D you are very smart and decent especially for your age. I hope to be as smart as you by the time im 22. that gives me a year i guess : /
joyariffic 1 month ago
@joyariffic I'm not too smart, just open to thinking =) You're probably smarter than me in a lot of ways !
AmanJohnX 1 month ago