I always choose to be a happy person, it doesn't mean I don't have problems and that nothing bad happens to me. It means I choose to look past it and see the beauty and happiness in the world.
But people who don't know me judge me and say that my life is easy. But maybe you should walk a mile in my shoes.
When I'm quiet and standing tall and still (which is when people have said I was the prettiest) I'm dying on the inside. My parents are divorced, I don't have friends, and I have ADHD
When I stand still, look pretty. I'm really falling apart like this song says. No one knows what problems everyone has, I used to be the weak girl until my life was turned upside down. I only had the choice to be strong, now I'm not sure if I can ever let myself or anyone around me know what I'm truly feeling.
I don't think anyone could ever possibly understand the shit I've been through in my life. What I'm still going through. This song speaks right to my heart.
finally moving into my new home. playing juliet (romeo and juliet)sugar plum and odette/odile for ballet... featured dancer <3 dance is what got me through 2011.
my boyfriend, my sister and my brother are still very much alive.
and i am on my way to recovery from my eating disorder.
this just proves to show that no matter what happens you CAN overcome it. you ARE strong, and let me tell you a secret....... you. are. amazing.
lets review my year. february: my house burned down, happy valentines day to me. march: homeless, i developed anorexia. raped. apr: my boyfriend was diagnosed with cancer may: my brother got a tumor in his liver jun: sister almost killed in car accident. left forever brain damaged jul: best friend was blinded in accident aug: liver transplant for my brother sep: my mother came out of the closet. happy birthday to me? oct: my parents got a divorce nov: aunts baby dies :'( dec: christmas alone
I'm a girl, I might seem like I have a happy cheerful life. It's not all that good, I still get upset, I get depressed..
"I wish you'd take a walk in my shoes for a start"
don't judge someone unless you know what they have been through, you may think you know them from appearances but you don't know shit. Everyone has their problems to deal with..
All those fake smiles, laughs, EVERYTHING! Everytime i look at my face i break down and everynight i break down crying and think that i live in this life full of hate and sorrow and i cna't belive this is my life. I am not strong enough to deal with this! I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE! I hate faking my life but i did all my life, and i am sick of it!
I miss you. You weren't just a boyfriend. You weren't just a chapter in my life that's closed now. You were someone I grew up knowing. Someone that would have done anything for me. You were a friend and confident and sense of comfort. Now you're not here I'm supposed to stand there and look pretty and its not supposed to hurt. Lets see them walk in *my* shoes.
@demon25angel I am really sorry for what's happened to you... Believe me, I get it. I was raped my brother twice at age 5 and 7... You will get stronger, and learn to handle it... It's stressful, I know... But, you are NOT alone!! EVER! There are people who understand you. Including me. Don't give up hope.
to everyone. who listening to this song, feeling depressed, sad, upset. like your mind is broken. Know that, know matter who you are know matter what shape, what race, what age, straight, gay, if your drop dead gorgeous or not, .
it doesn't matter, your human. and that be yourself and get AWAY from the dark part of life. i have cut , been bulimic , been bullied, depressed. it doesn't matter. know your beautiful and if anyone says other than that there fucked up. your beautiful for who you are.
My 4 year old cousin died a few years ago. Everyone seems to think I'm a happy 12 year old girl. No one gets he was like my baby. No one gets that he WAS MURDERED and his killer is still out there. But everyone thinks that since I don't cry about it I still have my happy girl life. But thats because no one knows I cry myself to sleep almost every night. I just don't have the nerve to cry in front of them.
Yes Vevo, because when I go to a song like this, I want to hear a song about rocking the club and going all night and lighting it up like it's dynamite. -.- FAIL
I adore this song. Its so totally true. I have it tattoed on me. People always think that just because girls have pretty faces that they have nothing else to them, no feelings, no emotions, no brains. It hurts. Love this song.
This song describes every aspect of my life. I too often keep it all in and slap a smile on. Last night I was venting to a friend, she yelled at me and said I was just looking for pity. So over these people.
This song descibes so much about me. I'm bullied in school all the time but nobody cares. The bus driver see's it too but doesn't care. My family's falling apart too. I just don't know what to do anymore. <\3
go to the principle about the bullying (it might make you LOOK weak, but it's the strongest root you can find)
n accept the family problems, its their fautl tht they did not belong with each other, but you know what, its just another thing in life that kids go through. and its a life lesson to us, " i will not do the same mistake as my parents did, i will give my kids a hapy family."
@liverpool9chelsea I have, but they are not doing anything. Plus the kids live in the same neighborhood as me but they are in highschool so i can't do much. And i know, it's just really reeally hard to deal with because everyone where I live hates me when i just moved here and I don't even know anyone here. People are spreading rumors that aren't true. I'm just ready to shut the world out.
well, then it's a jacked up school. they have a good responsibility thent they shuld take care of your safety. i wouldn't let it go if i were you...just don't do anything stupid, life goes on, you'll find worse when you get older
, it's not fair that they do that, you are right.
the rumors are JUST rumors, only YOU know the whole truth bout what you do n done, i been there i know what you are going through, but one thing i always do is.......walk away smiling n ingore it for good.
@SMSrox1 Hun, change the world with your smile, don't let the world change your smile.
Be strong. I'm here. Never give up. No matter what. Even if things are a living hell, never give up. Never stop fighting. There is no "I" or "U" in PERFECT.
I'm here for you whenever you need to talk, so never give up. If you think you're alone; think again, I'm here.
i wish she would take a walk in my shoes.(my ex gf whom i love) tore me apart and i think shes the one i cant get over her i dont want to let her go. ik i shouldnt be crying right now but i jus have to let it out. im tired of everyone mostly my family they always make fun of meh jus because im different i jus dont get it y cant i be treated fair.. well i guess ill jus stand still and look pretty for now:(
@liverpool9chelsea yeea but they dont kno anything....they dont kno tht im bi. they make me feel like a nobody a loser an outcast. its jus unreal tht they cant see i fake bein happy n stuff.
well, being bi doesn't mean ur a walking deseased. if you are happy with who you are, DON'T CARW WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINKS ! if they can't accept you and not notice your happiness, i don't see why u care what they think, instead, why don't you go and find someone that will ACCEPT n ready to make you happy and always be by ur side NO MATTER WHAYT !!! and to be one, im always open if you wanna vent.
@liverpool9chelsea ik but i mean most of it comes from my family idk y i was the one to get made fun of but shit happens and u gotta deal with it ya know? i am happy with who i am being bi. i dont think it was supposed to happen.. cuz i used to think bi ppl were wierd n stuff but im one of em now(: and im totally dun wit my ex.. lol i like another gurl uhh yea.
If I could tell my family, my friends, and my whole school this song describes me, lmaybe the would understand and life would be easier...But, I'll just stand still and look pretty...:/
this song is me from end 2 end i sung this @ my school talente show and i made everyone cry....EVERYONE including meh...lol this song made meh who i am 2 day thanks 2 u....WE LOVE YOU WRECKERS i wishe yall would get back 2gether
when everyone else just yells at you...and no one understands. friends turn against you. parents hate you. you know it could be worst. this is all how i feel. </3 i love this song.
I am 13 and I have to dance with girls who and 16 and 17 and they all hate me. They push me around and insult me everyday and am slowly falling apart. No one believes me and I am forced to put on a fake smile all the time. Everyone who I try to confide in just tells me to ignore all of it but they don't understand how hard that is. I tried to tell my teachers about what was happening and they don't believe me. Dance is my favorite thing in the world and it sucks that they have to ruin it.
wow lyrics some up how i feel about a conditon i have, i'm sick off people acting awkward around me since they have found out about it, like they dont know how to approach it & make it worse by pitying me & saying the wrong things, especially your so strong! u have NO idea how am feeling,, aint it clear i bottle it up? bests u no were i am! as if you wanna hear my problems it dont directly affect u. you'll never understand unles u walk in my shoes, please act normal around me! am the same person
This song is the story of my life. I put make up on and a fake smile and everyone thinks I'm okay but inside I'm dying with no one to talk to. I started to starve myself and it was horrible it made me cry and be grumpy all the time. I recently started eating again but all I want to do is stop again. The worse thing is I'm dealing with this all by myself. No ones even noticed how much pain I'm in. <3
@demon25angel i was also raped by the ex of my mum. I was 10 years old. First i told my brother. He didn't believe me. Then my best friends. They didn't believe me. 2 years later i told my mum. She didn't believe me. Nobody believed me. I was so lonely. That was 5 years ago and i still have to live with that asshole in the fucking same flat. But if that was just the only problem in my life..
@Fungaaaaah Hun, even if they don't believe, it still happened. They might not believe, I do.
It happens, and as horrible and fucked up as this sounds, I've heard stories very similar to yours. Many of them. And it kills me.
Honey, I'm here for you. And life is going to have problems, 4 months later after that post, I'm doing so much better. Never give up. I'm here for you. I care for you. You're beautiful. Don't ever let the world get to you, you're better then that. You're amazing.
@demon25angel thank you.. thank you so much. You're a great person. Your words really helped me.. to be honest i got tears when i first read it. Thank you so much..
I'm so sorry this happened to you, and your right you have the right to be upset, no one can make you happy unless you wanna be, but smiling never hurts anyone so put a smile on your face even if it is just for your teddy bear, you might feel a little better if you :) <3 Lots of love!
@demon25angel I'm sorry for you incident hun. I know what you're going through. I was also raped when I was 13. It happened two years ago and I'm getting over it. It will get easier. I know what it's like to pretend you're ok, but in all reality you just wanna break down and cry. Cry until you can't anymore. Trust me I know exactly how you feel. But I promise it will get easier and one day you'll be fine.
During many years i felt worse than hell, I had eating disorders for 5 years and allways made sure I had good grades, my make up was perfect, as well as my hair. My clothes allways looked nice and of course I allways made sure to keep that fake smile on my face.
But this summer I finally broke down, and i'm so glad I did. Cause now, I'm starting to smile for real.
story of my life but i stand there and put on a fake smile because there are other ppl that have even worst problems .this should'nt be how a 14 year old girls life should be.
i have a health project where we must find some songs that relate to eating disorders. i chose anorexia because i am recently recovering from both anorexia and bulimia i listened to this song through my recovery stage. shuld i use it for my project. dislike if no. like if yes.
i came and listened to this song right when i saw my first love is engaged.... =[ i am fallin apart now. but ill just stand still and look pretty. as long as he is happy, i am.
"I wish you'd take a walk in my shoes for a start, and you might think it's easy bein' me. You just stand still, look pretty." This song is my life... <3
This song is amazing. I wish someone would know what im going through. Even if my problems aren't as big as other people's problems, it doesn't mean they don't hurt me, and hurt me bad. You probably already noticed it somehow relates to everybody. This is exactly why i love The Wreckers, they are honest singers.
You know this song is the story of my life. I know in my mind that everything can be 100 times worse then what it already is. I keep my head held high but sometimes it is hard to do that
i found a cd in my moms car.. it was The Wreckers.... i took it out and listened to it... got to this song.... its explainin exactly how im feeling right now. it made me cry... again.....
so there was this guy&my friends told me that they liked hm and cared about him alot, but i didnt listen and i thought that they knew that he flirted with everyone and it never meant anything when we would talk and i ended up falling for him and i made a huge mistake and it turns out he never liked me or cared about me and yesterday my friend texted me and was yelling at me? she called me an ugly, stupid, slut and she said that nobody loved me and nobody ever would....so i cried myself to sleep
@breebree538 Hey, I'm really sorry. That girl is definitely not a good friend, and that guy sounds like a total jerk. I mean, I know that sometimes friends fight, but it shouldn't be over some guy like that. I hope everything dies down for you because it must be really hard.
I think its amazing that this song is bringing us together. I haven't seen a single argument on this video. And like people have been saying, reading some of the comments make me feel like my problems are so stupid and petty compared to what others are going through. but I think that's the point; someone somewhere has worse problems than we do, but that doesnt mean that we are any less deserving of comfort. We should all comfort each other, not stay quiet because we feel guilty about complaining
this is totally my song! if i feel sad and i try to talk to my friends, they say that everyone has problems to deal with and they are worst than mine. i understand that, but i am just trying to find someone who won't yell at me, and will just let me cry and then tell me it's gonna be okay. :'( i stop letting my friends know whats going on, i've lost my closest friends and i am barely holding onto my last one. i just got to stand here and smile. because nobody can see underneath that im a wreck
@xbelieveinyourselfx hunny. I will always love you! Reading this is making me tear up. You don't deserve to be sad. I will never yell at you/ I cry all the time. Go ahead.
@xbelieveinyourselfx i understand compleetely! sometimes i just wanna scream "look at me!" they dont get it.. someone always gonna have worse problems than yours. but does that mean we should suck it up and suffer? i just wish SOMEBODY would pat me on the back and tell me everything will be fine. i dont really tell my friends much anymore.. they have theyre own problems to deal with. i dont wanna add to that. but i cant take it! im at my breaking point. im not strong enought to deal with this..
@moonlightradience i know. :'( my friends have nothing to say to me anymore. they don't tell me it will be okay they just say 'oh" and i wanna cry. i am ready to fall apart and when i do whose gonna help me get back up? no one. . .it just isn't fair. :/ i feel so alone sometimes and i don't want to seem like a complainer. </3
@xbelieveinyourselfx all we can do is face it or run away.. whose to say which is better> its a cold hard world out there. but you know theres always SOMEONE who will understand. ya just gotta find them and keep your chin up i guess
@moonlightradience i know. i'm still waiting for that one person. i hope they come along soon. because i am barely being able to stand up on my own. i have to put on a smile and fake this. one day someone will tell me it will be okay and i know that when i find them i won't let them go . <3
@moonlightradience you have said everything i was about to say i dont tell my friends because they make fun of me and tell me to suck it up and that im a cry baby i mean a dude hit me at school one day and my friend sided with him just cuz hes cute!!!she said he hade a reason to do it when he just walks up and punches me cuz he was mad at someone else!!!!!!!!it was so freaking messed up!!!!
@beastly188 well if your friends cant see your worth then they arent worth it. if she REALLY was your friend she wouldve sided with you. AND shed know when you need help and shed try to make the pain stop. not call you a crybaby or ignore it, ect.
@beastly188 omg, honestly, i'm soo sorry. seriously, that's horrible, i know what it's like to have a friend like that, we're not really friends anymore, those people who did that to you are not true friends, just know that even if it seems like your friends aren't there for you, there is always someone who cares about you, and will do anything for you! there is ALWAYS someone. i know exactly what you're going through. everything will be okay.
I love this song because in my mind its saying you have all these problems but you hide them so well by just standing there and looking pretty but they don't see the real pain underneathe the hair and makeup and fake smiles!
@TheShaniquajay YOu got it spot on... i feel that is my problem... have so many issues, but people don't want to hear it, they just want everyone to act happy and optimistic, not knowing i'm dying inside
So many people have commented on here and told about their problems-- After reading some, it makes me feel like my problems are a minority. But isn't that how we all feel? Isn't that why we commented in the first place? I like songs like these, not only because they have good lyrics and music, but because you can meet the best of people here. Ones you can actually relate to, and won't judge you. These are the kind of friends everyone needs.
I've had this CD for so long, but only now can I relate it to my life. So many people have commented on this video and explained their problems-- It makes me think mine are so much better like I have the better life. But it's hard to say that when you live with your Grandma in a small condommenium, with no car, and in a new neighborhood you've only lived in for a couple of months.
I've had this CD for so long, but only now can I relate it to my life. So many people have commented on this video and explained their problems-- It makes me think mine are so much better like I have the better life. But it's hard to say that when you live with your Grandma in a small condommenium, with no car, and in a new neighborhood you've only lived in for a couple of months.
I've got a lot going on in my life, everybody does.
I have problems but there are people that got problems worser then mine, but that doesn't mean mine aren't worse.
People think that it's all so easy for me, if they would just one day be me, they would change their opinion immediatley. I wish some people would see that...
this song scares me, because i relate to it so much. I am in advanced classes in school, and sometimes i think im not going to be able to hang on much longer, because i start to panick about whther i can handle everything or not, and its just that i can't let anyone know that maybe i'm not the chosen one... but people have more important problems, so im going to stand here and look smart..
@ShySmileGirl I am going through the same exact thing. I'm in all advanced classes and a straight-A student. I panic and think that I can't handle anything, but I don't let it show. I cry myself to sleep many nights, but everyone acts so proud of me that I want to keep pleasing them. My peers treat me different because of my grades and I feel ugly most days, so I don't really talk to guys or socialize much. Sometimes it just seems so hard, but I don't know if it is right for me say anything.
At school people say I'm pretty. But they don't understand how emotionally unstable I am. I have so many body image issues... I just always want to cry. When will they realize that it doesn't matter what THEY think, it matters what I think...But I feel so selfish for caring about something as trivial as appearance.. it's just, I'll never be good enough.
So I don't tell anyone. I keep it bottled up inside..
I hope there are a few of you out there that can relate to me. :/
@MissPsychadelic had to break it in 2 -> I felt selfish and superficial for a while but I think that a problem is a problem, and you can't measure or compare it, if others try to make our problems look small it won't stop us from fearing it or feeling bad, it only make us feel stupid. Friends try to convince me I'm pretty because in the clubs guys flirt with me, but it just make me feel like a slut. everybody want someone to love and make us feel pretty, I don't think that's too selfish...
I can complete relate, I was diagnosed with depression last year, I was cutting and came close to attempting suicide. The days I actually Went to school, I dressed normal, put my makeup on and everything, My friends and teachers that knew what was going on thought I was bullshiting to get out of school, because I seemed Normal,They had NO IDEA what I was going through. And not only did I stop going to school, I also stopped going to work for 2 months and quit my singing lessons. my lifewas hell
this song is amzing...people focus on the outside too much nowadays, nobody cares if your dying on the inside....they just care if your pretty enough to be a slut or if your pretty enough to fit in...
I always choose to be a happy person, it doesn't mean I don't have problems and that nothing bad happens to me. It means I choose to look past it and see the beauty and happiness in the world.
But people who don't know me judge me and say that my life is easy. But maybe you should walk a mile in my shoes.
Love this song!
crazysoami 4 days ago
this song is amazing. story of my life.
bCalikescats 1 week ago
justlikeyoustudio i so agree this is the most amazing song ever
IceFireOfWindClan0 1 week ago
@BrycesFutureWife Same here
justlikeyoustudio 1 week ago
Now,
All I gotta do is stand still look pretty
BrycesFutureWife 2 weeks ago
When I'm quiet and standing tall and still (which is when people have said I was the prettiest) I'm dying on the inside. My parents are divorced, I don't have friends, and I have ADHD
BrycesFutureWife 2 weeks ago
I shouldn't need to tell you my whole life story for you to pay attention to me.
ulltraBLONDE 3 weeks ago
I love how people write their whole live story on this XD
Littlemissperfect211 4 weeks ago
When I stand still, look pretty. I'm really falling apart like this song says. No one knows what problems everyone has, I used to be the weak girl until my life was turned upside down. I only had the choice to be strong, now I'm not sure if I can ever let myself or anyone around me know what I'm truly feeling.
lilredzerotwelve 1 month ago in playlist Music.
I don't think anyone could ever possibly understand the shit I've been through in my life. What I'm still going through. This song speaks right to my heart.
Mirandadorable 1 month ago
this used to be my life until everything changed its a long story...
cutielf15 1 month ago
if any one knows how to get a kareokie for this song can you tell me how or can someone plz make one thanks :)
cowgirlmaddie 1 month ago
*part 2*
but im not looking for sympathy.
wanna see my 2012??
finally moving into my new home. playing juliet (romeo and juliet)sugar plum and odette/odile for ballet... featured dancer <3 dance is what got me through 2011.
my boyfriend, my sister and my brother are still very much alive.
and i am on my way to recovery from my eating disorder.
this just proves to show that no matter what happens you CAN overcome it. you ARE strong, and let me tell you a secret....... you. are. amazing.
Cheerbabeforeverable 2 months ago 4
Cheerbabeforeverable 2 months ago
I am singing this to anyone who dares judges me and for everyone else. This summer. Right now. Forever.
43211brooke 2 months ago
I'm a girl, I might seem like I have a happy cheerful life. It's not all that good, I still get upset, I get depressed..
"I wish you'd take a walk in my shoes for a start"
don't judge someone unless you know what they have been through, you may think you know them from appearances but you don't know shit. Everyone has their problems to deal with..
Qtkitty36 2 months ago in playlist Depressing music, lol. 3
I'm so sorry for all those people who are breaking down and all this.
I hope everything will get better for them I'm always there to talk btw.
RubberDuckLiz 2 months ago
All those fake smiles, laughs, EVERYTHING! Everytime i look at my face i break down and everynight i break down crying and think that i live in this life full of hate and sorrow and i cna't belive this is my life. I am not strong enough to deal with this! I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE! I hate faking my life but i did all my life, and i am sick of it!
43211brooke 2 months ago
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SofiaSprinkle 3 months ago
This describes my life completely
LittleSief31 3 months ago
I miss you. You weren't just a boyfriend. You weren't just a chapter in my life that's closed now. You were someone I grew up knowing. Someone that would have done anything for me. You were a friend and confident and sense of comfort. Now you're not here I'm supposed to stand there and look pretty and its not supposed to hurt. Lets see them walk in *my* shoes.
princesssugarplumz 3 months ago 2
@demon25angel I am really sorry for what's happened to you... Believe me, I get it. I was raped my brother twice at age 5 and 7... You will get stronger, and learn to handle it... It's stressful, I know... But, you are NOT alone!! EVER! There are people who understand you. Including me. Don't give up hope.
CiCiAndAutumn 3 months ago 3
This is like my theme song. Of my life. :P
CiCiAndAutumn 3 months ago
I want to play this for my mother in law who criticizes for for being unable to have babies.. =(
VeronicaJoleen 3 months ago
With a strong soul connection, all this is non-sense!
:)
+1
LumberJacck 3 months ago
to everyone. who listening to this song, feeling depressed, sad, upset. like your mind is broken. Know that, know matter who you are know matter what shape, what race, what age, straight, gay, if your drop dead gorgeous or not, .
it doesn't matter, your human. and that be yourself and get AWAY from the dark part of life. i have cut , been bulimic , been bullied, depressed. it doesn't matter. know your beautiful and if anyone says other than that there fucked up. your beautiful for who you are.
chelanie121314 3 months ago in playlist chelanie121314's favorites 6
I wish I had never pretended to be strong...
Now you just think I can handle anything...
You think I'm just complaing when I try to share...
You think I'm okay...
You don't know I cry myself to sleep every night...
No point in pretending any more...
This is my life...
Pure pain </3
Why?
XxMyOneTrueLovexX 3 months ago 3
this song explains my life almost everday im vebaly abbused in school for being myself it hurts so i have to hide who i am every day
Pinkstripe1997 3 months ago
My 4 year old cousin died a few years ago. Everyone seems to think I'm a happy 12 year old girl. No one gets he was like my baby. No one gets that he WAS MURDERED and his killer is still out there. But everyone thinks that since I don't cry about it I still have my happy girl life. But thats because no one knows I cry myself to sleep almost every night. I just don't have the nerve to cry in front of them.
divaqueen237 4 months ago
Yes Vevo, because when I go to a song like this, I want to hear a song about rocking the club and going all night and lighting it up like it's dynamite. -.- FAIL
lizzy462 4 months ago
this is my life right now.
SouthernRebelAngel 4 months ago
its too short :( but i love it so much .. im listening to it now cause im kinda sad
LittleBastard7 4 months ago
0:48 to 1:22
ana.........</3
snowwhite333ful 5 months ago
the first time i heard this song, i loved it. i listen to it everyday!
linabug2016 5 months ago
"but people have problems that are worse than mine, i don't want you to think i'm complaining all the time" <3
ColorMePink8 6 months ago 6
my life, in 2:33 minutes
MissMonstaCookieFace 6 months ago
I adore this song. Its so totally true. I have it tattoed on me. People always think that just because girls have pretty faces that they have nothing else to them, no feelings, no emotions, no brains. It hurts. Love this song.
thegunns100 6 months ago
This song describes every aspect of my life. I too often keep it all in and slap a smile on. Last night I was venting to a friend, she yelled at me and said I was just looking for pity. So over these people.
BexzBlondie17 6 months ago
i wish i could start over
VITABLUEworld 7 months ago
This song descibes so much about me. I'm bullied in school all the time but nobody cares. The bus driver see's it too but doesn't care. My family's falling apart too. I just don't know what to do anymore. <\3
SMSrox1 7 months ago
@SMSrox1
you know what you could do ?
go to the principle about the bullying (it might make you LOOK weak, but it's the strongest root you can find)
n accept the family problems, its their fautl tht they did not belong with each other, but you know what, its just another thing in life that kids go through. and its a life lesson to us, " i will not do the same mistake as my parents did, i will give my kids a hapy family."
liverpool9chelsea 6 months ago
@liverpool9chelsea I have, but they are not doing anything. Plus the kids live in the same neighborhood as me but they are in highschool so i can't do much. And i know, it's just really reeally hard to deal with because everyone where I live hates me when i just moved here and I don't even know anyone here. People are spreading rumors that aren't true. I'm just ready to shut the world out.
SMSrox1 6 months ago
@SMSrox1 It'll be okay. Just be yourself and block out all the haterss...
1cjwlson1 6 months ago
@SMSrox1
well, then it's a jacked up school. they have a good responsibility thent they shuld take care of your safety. i wouldn't let it go if i were you...just don't do anything stupid, life goes on, you'll find worse when you get older
, it's not fair that they do that, you are right.
the rumors are JUST rumors, only YOU know the whole truth bout what you do n done, i been there i know what you are going through, but one thing i always do is.......walk away smiling n ingore it for good.
liverpool9chelsea 6 months ago
@SMSrox1 Hun, change the world with your smile, don't let the world change your smile.
Be strong. I'm here. Never give up. No matter what. Even if things are a living hell, never give up. Never stop fighting. There is no "I" or "U" in PERFECT.
I'm here for you whenever you need to talk, so never give up. If you think you're alone; think again, I'm here.
demon25angel 4 months ago
this fits me perfectly...ive gotten bullied the last two years of middle school and it's sucks
TheLellen96 7 months ago
I love this song! Doing it in a talent show!
LauraMay333 7 months ago 25
@LauraMay333 then good luck. (:
xViiveeey 7 months ago 14
i wish she would take a walk in my shoes.(my ex gf whom i love) tore me apart and i think shes the one i cant get over her i dont want to let her go. ik i shouldnt be crying right now but i jus have to let it out. im tired of everyone mostly my family they always make fun of meh jus because im different i jus dont get it y cant i be treated fair.. well i guess ill jus stand still and look pretty for now:(
NeverGiveUp118 7 months ago 2
@NeverGiveUp118
you know something ?
ur ex, if she doesn't understand you, that means she doesn't belong with you.
why cry over someone like THAT ?
and ur family, i dnt knw why ur different, but being different isn't a bad thing, its a UNIQUE thing.
prove to them that, " i might be different, but i am still a human being that can accomplish anything, i set my heart into. "
u never have to cover your pain, let it lose.
liverpool9chelsea 6 months ago
@liverpool9chelsea yeea but they dont kno anything....they dont kno tht im bi. they make me feel like a nobody a loser an outcast. its jus unreal tht they cant see i fake bein happy n stuff.
NeverGiveUp118 6 months ago
@NeverGiveUp118
well, being bi doesn't mean ur a walking deseased. if you are happy with who you are, DON'T CARW WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINKS ! if they can't accept you and not notice your happiness, i don't see why u care what they think, instead, why don't you go and find someone that will ACCEPT n ready to make you happy and always be by ur side NO MATTER WHAYT !!! and to be one, im always open if you wanna vent.
liverpool9chelsea 6 months ago
@liverpool9chelsea ik but i mean most of it comes from my family idk y i was the one to get made fun of but shit happens and u gotta deal with it ya know? i am happy with who i am being bi. i dont think it was supposed to happen.. cuz i used to think bi ppl were wierd n stuff but im one of em now(: and im totally dun wit my ex.. lol i like another gurl uhh yea.
NeverGiveUp118 6 months ago
i wish that everyone would go and shut their mouth, im not strong enough to deal with it. absolute favourite line.
augustana24 7 months ago
You just have to stand still, look pretty
futurekellyclarkson 7 months ago 2
If I could tell my family, my friends, and my whole school this song describes me, lmaybe the would understand and life would be easier...But, I'll just stand still and look pretty...:/
TheHaleybaby15 7 months ago 8
Simple song, yet so nice. Almost brought a tear to my eyes, for the first time in years. Thanks for making the vid
JustForKicksFTW 7 months ago 4
this song is me from end 2 end i sung this @ my school talente show and i made everyone cry....EVERYONE including meh...lol this song made meh who i am 2 day thanks 2 u....WE LOVE YOU WRECKERS i wishe yall would get back 2gether
meme411ify 8 months ago 5
when everyone else just yells at you...and no one understands. friends turn against you. parents hate you. you know it could be worst. this is all how i feel. </3 i love this song.
xiloveyouhhx 8 months ago 7
I am 13 and I have to dance with girls who and 16 and 17 and they all hate me. They push me around and insult me everyday and am slowly falling apart. No one believes me and I am forced to put on a fake smile all the time. Everyone who I try to confide in just tells me to ignore all of it but they don't understand how hard that is. I tried to tell my teachers about what was happening and they don't believe me. Dance is my favorite thing in the world and it sucks that they have to ruin it.
berrysweet8707 8 months ago 3
@berrysweet8707 i you ask me those girl are bitches and if you love dance then just leave them in the dust they will reget it someday
pretygurl33 8 months ago
wow lyrics some up how i feel about a conditon i have, i'm sick off people acting awkward around me since they have found out about it, like they dont know how to approach it & make it worse by pitying me & saying the wrong things, especially your so strong! u have NO idea how am feeling,, aint it clear i bottle it up? bests u no were i am! as if you wanna hear my problems it dont directly affect u. you'll never understand unles u walk in my shoes, please act normal around me! am the same person
stacygallagher 9 months ago 4
you just stand still, look pretty. ; ♥
numberoneloserface 9 months ago 3
This song is the story of my life. I put make up on and a fake smile and everyone thinks I'm okay but inside I'm dying with no one to talk to. I started to starve myself and it was horrible it made me cry and be grumpy all the time. I recently started eating again but all I want to do is stop again. The worse thing is I'm dealing with this all by myself. No ones even noticed how much pain I'm in. <3
Xxkayleigh94Xx 9 months ago 7
I was raped in September, after 4 months I finally broke down...
I start cutting, I started becoming emotional
He was arrested last month..
Teachers don't understand, and it hurts. They think that I'm that "happy" girl and I hate how people expect me to be happy, to laugh...
Sometimes all I want to do is go and listen to depressing music and cry, just cry. Because it's the only thing that keeps me sane...
But until I can finally cry in front of them, my teddy is the only one who sees my tears.
demon25angel 9 months ago 90
@demon25angel i was also raped by the ex of my mum. I was 10 years old. First i told my brother. He didn't believe me. Then my best friends. They didn't believe me. 2 years later i told my mum. She didn't believe me. Nobody believed me. I was so lonely. That was 5 years ago and i still have to live with that asshole in the fucking same flat. But if that was just the only problem in my life..
Fungaaaaah 4 months ago
@Fungaaaaah Hun, even if they don't believe, it still happened. They might not believe, I do.
It happens, and as horrible and fucked up as this sounds, I've heard stories very similar to yours. Many of them. And it kills me.
Honey, I'm here for you. And life is going to have problems, 4 months later after that post, I'm doing so much better. Never give up. I'm here for you. I care for you. You're beautiful. Don't ever let the world get to you, you're better then that. You're amazing.
demon25angel 4 months ago
@demon25angel thank you.. thank you so much. You're a great person. Your words really helped me.. to be honest i got tears when i first read it. Thank you so much..
Fungaaaaah 4 months ago
@Fungaaaaah No problem, and honey, I'm always here if you need to talk.
demon25angel 4 months ago
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@demon25angel Thank you. I appreciate that.
Fungaaaaah 4 months ago
@demon25angel
I'm so sorry this happened to you, and your right you have the right to be upset, no one can make you happy unless you wanna be, but smiling never hurts anyone so put a smile on your face even if it is just for your teddy bear, you might feel a little better if you :) <3 Lots of love!
XxXTakenForeverXxX 4 months ago
@demon25angel I'm sorry for you incident hun. I know what you're going through. I was also raped when I was 13. It happened two years ago and I'm getting over it. It will get easier. I know what it's like to pretend you're ok, but in all reality you just wanna break down and cry. Cry until you can't anymore. Trust me I know exactly how you feel. But I promise it will get easier and one day you'll be fine.
csangel123455 3 months ago 4
@demon25angel i've had a similar experience <3 I'm here if you want to talk <3
iheartsjonas 2 months ago
@demon25angel Hang in there. It'll get easier. Maybe be hard for a LONG time but it will get better eventually.
ratgirldurst 2 months ago
@demon25angel oh thats so sad :(
hang in there, beautiful... someday someone will come along, someone AMAZING... and they will change everything <3
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cutielf15 1 month ago
@demon25angel I feel so bad for you. You have a much harder life than I do.
justlikeyoustudio 1 week ago
this discribes everything. i think every girl can relate to this song. its so genuis <3
lovepinkk2 9 months ago 2
This song just really hits home.
During many years i felt worse than hell, I had eating disorders for 5 years and allways made sure I had good grades, my make up was perfect, as well as my hair. My clothes allways looked nice and of course I allways made sure to keep that fake smile on my face.
But this summer I finally broke down, and i'm so glad I did. Cause now, I'm starting to smile for real.
9040lisa 10 months ago 13
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MandMelanie 10 months ago
story of my life but i stand there and put on a fake smile because there are other ppl that have even worst problems .this should'nt be how a 14 year old girls life should be.
RocksMileyRulesMiley 10 months ago 4
this should be the new anti-bulling song
gothprincessforever1 10 months ago 4
I wanna start completely over, and there is no way i can, i feel like this song fits me....
prettybudathin 10 months ago 7
Just because I don't talk about my problems people seem to think there not there :(
XxMyOneTrueLovexX 10 months ago 7
It is truley SCARY how this song describes me PERFECTLY!!!
brimera100 11 months ago 10
I just have to stand still, look pretty...
XxMyOneTrueLovexX 11 months ago
i have a health project where we must find some songs that relate to eating disorders. i chose anorexia because i am recently recovering from both anorexia and bulimia i listened to this song through my recovery stage. shuld i use it for my project. dislike if no. like if yes.
Ansalewitela1 11 months ago 9
I LOVE THIS SONG
koolcat9081 11 months ago
I wish i could Start over sometimes! Sometimes I wake up and I CAN"T BElieve this is MY life!!!!
brimera100 11 months ago 2
i came and listened to this song right when i saw my first love is engaged.... =[ i am fallin apart now. but ill just stand still and look pretty. as long as he is happy, i am.
EquestrianBaby17 11 months ago
This is my lifee.
I love this songg though<3
IWillAlwaysBeFearles 11 months ago
this is wat i feel all the time =/ =(..
Babydoll9511 11 months ago
wow a friend just told me this was there life :( how sad but good song
ponchitobat 11 months ago
"I wish you'd take a walk in my shoes for a start, and you might think it's easy bein' me. You just stand still, look pretty." This song is my life... <3
TheRandomGirls 11 months ago
I am slowly falling apart..<3
..This..Is..My..Life..
sidsquid34 1 year ago
exactly what i feel inside. :/
NessyRox93 1 year ago
@NessyRox93 me too.
xiloveyouhhx 8 months ago
This song.....
This is it.
Inkwellify 1 year ago 2
Like this, If like me, You've finnaly found a song that shows exactly how you feel.<3
TrueLoveandLife 1 year ago 190
@TrueLoveandLife OMD totally true! I feel as if everyone underestimates me,,:'( and think I have everything so good when everything is exactly NOT..
MonsterGummyBear1 9 months ago
I just committed sexual assault on the replay button<33
SkilletFan123123 1 year ago
244 people like this 1 hates it ya know what they say majority rules and 2 against 1 more like 244 against 1 i love this song
lizzieswift1 1 year ago
My life. This song.
Where did the Wreckers go? They write songs that MEAN SOMETHING.
ily♥
victorious4ev 1 year ago 4
This song is amazing. I wish someone would know what im going through. Even if my problems aren't as big as other people's problems, it doesn't mean they don't hurt me, and hurt me bad. You probably already noticed it somehow relates to everybody. This is exactly why i love The Wreckers, they are honest singers.
XxLyricsGirlxXx 1 year ago
You know this song is the story of my life. I know in my mind that everything can be 100 times worse then what it already is. I keep my head held high but sometimes it is hard to do that
michaelsbaby2 1 year ago 7
i found a cd in my moms car.. it was The Wreckers.... i took it out and listened to it... got to this song.... its explainin exactly how im feeling right now. it made me cry... again.....
NeonVampGirl 1 year ago
No dislikes at all :) This song always makes me cry and I can relate to it. Damn :/
mizzneez 1 year ago
I wish I could say all of this to my "best friend" maybe then she would understand :(
brokensoul335 1 year ago
Love this tune
brandimiller79 1 year ago
so amazing as old as this vid is., it stirs the emotions
wytsnke 1 year ago
WOW!!!!!!!1
xoxojamie722 1 year ago
what is she? mind reader? she gets me. that song fits me to a t. all the way down to where she says i find myself shakin in the middle of the night
moonlightradience 1 year ago
This is such a simple yet complex song... I adore it.
SkidRowBabe 1 year ago
I love this song and i love singing to it. :)
lipringsarehot 1 year ago
so there was this guy&my friends told me that they liked hm and cared about him alot, but i didnt listen and i thought that they knew that he flirted with everyone and it never meant anything when we would talk and i ended up falling for him and i made a huge mistake and it turns out he never liked me or cared about me and yesterday my friend texted me and was yelling at me? she called me an ugly, stupid, slut and she said that nobody loved me and nobody ever would....so i cried myself to sleep
breebree538 1 year ago
@breebree538 Hey, I'm really sorry. That girl is definitely not a good friend, and that guy sounds like a total jerk. I mean, I know that sometimes friends fight, but it shouldn't be over some guy like that. I hope everything dies down for you because it must be really hard.
Tsubasagirl4eva 1 year ago
@breebree538 thats horriable i have had tht happen before. not much fun. im here if u need to talk.
Ansalewitela1 11 months ago
amazing song, amazing video <3
mandihoneyyy 1 year ago
I think its amazing that this song is bringing us together. I haven't seen a single argument on this video. And like people have been saying, reading some of the comments make me feel like my problems are so stupid and petty compared to what others are going through. but I think that's the point; someone somewhere has worse problems than we do, but that doesnt mean that we are any less deserving of comfort. We should all comfort each other, not stay quiet because we feel guilty about complaining
y0shisgrl 1 year ago 6
this is totally my song! if i feel sad and i try to talk to my friends, they say that everyone has problems to deal with and they are worst than mine. i understand that, but i am just trying to find someone who won't yell at me, and will just let me cry and then tell me it's gonna be okay. :'( i stop letting my friends know whats going on, i've lost my closest friends and i am barely holding onto my last one. i just got to stand here and smile. because nobody can see underneath that im a wreck
xbelieveinyourselfx 1 year ago 4
@xbelieveinyourselfx hunny. I will always love you! Reading this is making me tear up. You don't deserve to be sad. I will never yell at you/ I cry all the time. Go ahead.
FriendsAreLifexx 1 year ago
@xbelieveinyourselfx i understand compleetely! sometimes i just wanna scream "look at me!" they dont get it.. someone always gonna have worse problems than yours. but does that mean we should suck it up and suffer? i just wish SOMEBODY would pat me on the back and tell me everything will be fine. i dont really tell my friends much anymore.. they have theyre own problems to deal with. i dont wanna add to that. but i cant take it! im at my breaking point. im not strong enought to deal with this..
moonlightradience 1 year ago
@moonlightradience i know. :'( my friends have nothing to say to me anymore. they don't tell me it will be okay they just say 'oh" and i wanna cry. i am ready to fall apart and when i do whose gonna help me get back up? no one. . .it just isn't fair. :/ i feel so alone sometimes and i don't want to seem like a complainer. </3
xbelieveinyourselfx 1 year ago
@xbelieveinyourselfx all we can do is face it or run away.. whose to say which is better> its a cold hard world out there. but you know theres always SOMEONE who will understand. ya just gotta find them and keep your chin up i guess
moonlightradience 1 year ago
@moonlightradience i know. i'm still waiting for that one person. i hope they come along soon. because i am barely being able to stand up on my own. i have to put on a smile and fake this. one day someone will tell me it will be okay and i know that when i find them i won't let them go . <3
xbelieveinyourselfx 1 year ago
@xbelieveinyourselfx ya know i heard somebody say that the less people you depend on the more success you have.
i also heard someone say " you cant recieve help until you can help yourself. you cant do for others until you do for yourself"
i think it applys. im doing my best to learn to stand on my own. i hope you do too. i know you can. i believe in you!
its a cold hard world and we only got one chance in it. might as well be happy<3
moonlightradience 1 year ago 3
@xbelieveinyourselfx
Learn to stand on your own first. It's paramount to a successful relationship. Trust me.
wookie37 1 year ago
@moonlightradience
You are doing great. Life is hard. We are surviving it. :) Everything will be o.k.
wookie37 1 year ago 2
@moonlightradience you have said everything i was about to say i dont tell my friends because they make fun of me and tell me to suck it up and that im a cry baby i mean a dude hit me at school one day and my friend sided with him just cuz hes cute!!!she said he hade a reason to do it when he just walks up and punches me cuz he was mad at someone else!!!!!!!!it was so freaking messed up!!!!
beastly188 1 year ago
@beastly188 well if your friends cant see your worth then they arent worth it. if she REALLY was your friend she wouldve sided with you
moonlightradience 1 year ago
@beastly188 well if your friends cant see your worth then they arent worth it. if she REALLY was your friend she wouldve sided with you. AND shed know when you need help and shed try to make the pain stop. not call you a crybaby or ignore it, ect.
moonlightradience 1 year ago
@beastly188 omg, honestly, i'm soo sorry. seriously, that's horrible, i know what it's like to have a friend like that, we're not really friends anymore, those people who did that to you are not true friends, just know that even if it seems like your friends aren't there for you, there is always someone who cares about you, and will do anything for you! there is ALWAYS someone. i know exactly what you're going through. everything will be okay.
lainiepay 1 year ago
my life story right here its weird looking at my hands from when i punched the mirror but like they say other's problems are worst then my...
rapbaby96 1 year ago
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yeah, it's true :/
TheDjo2010 1 year ago
I loove it !! It just fits on me!
miqsofia 1 year ago
I love this song because in my mind its saying you have all these problems but you hide them so well by just standing there and looking pretty but they don't see the real pain underneathe the hair and makeup and fake smiles!
TheShaniquajay 1 year ago 99
@TheShaniquajay That is how I see it also. Very true!!
dixiekat2007 9 months ago
@TheShaniquajay YOu got it spot on... i feel that is my problem... have so many issues, but people don't want to hear it, they just want everyone to act happy and optimistic, not knowing i'm dying inside
punkofmudd 9 months ago
So many people have commented on here and told about their problems-- After reading some, it makes me feel like my problems are a minority. But isn't that how we all feel? Isn't that why we commented in the first place? I like songs like these, not only because they have good lyrics and music, but because you can meet the best of people here. Ones you can actually relate to, and won't judge you. These are the kind of friends everyone needs.
Haha, I'm gonna stop ranting now :d
blahblahblahblah8p 1 year ago
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I've had this CD for so long, but only now can I relate it to my life. So many people have commented on this video and explained their problems-- It makes me think mine are so much better like I have the better life. But it's hard to say that when you live with your Grandma in a small condommenium, with no car, and in a new neighborhood you've only lived in for a couple of months.
blahblahblahblah8p 1 year ago
I've had this CD for so long, but only now can I relate it to my life. So many people have commented on this video and explained their problems-- It makes me think mine are so much better like I have the better life. But it's hard to say that when you live with your Grandma in a small condommenium, with no car, and in a new neighborhood you've only lived in for a couple of months.
blahblahblahblah8p 1 year ago
I've got a lot going on in my life, everybody does.
I have problems but there are people that got problems worser then mine, but that doesn't mean mine aren't worse.
People think that it's all so easy for me, if they would just one day be me, they would change their opinion immediatley. I wish some people would see that...
GoingCrazyyx3 1 year ago
i need to sing this to shelby to understand when i was a baby my grandpas died
and my life is so sad i rarely have friends:((((
ecompton531 1 year ago
i need to sing this to shelby to understand when i was a baby my grandpas died
ecompton531 1 year ago
this song scares me, because i relate to it so much. I am in advanced classes in school, and sometimes i think im not going to be able to hang on much longer, because i start to panick about whther i can handle everything or not, and its just that i can't let anyone know that maybe i'm not the chosen one... but people have more important problems, so im going to stand here and look smart..
ShySmileGirl 1 year ago
@ShySmileGirl I am going through the same exact thing. I'm in all advanced classes and a straight-A student. I panic and think that I can't handle anything, but I don't let it show. I cry myself to sleep many nights, but everyone acts so proud of me that I want to keep pleasing them. My peers treat me different because of my grades and I feel ugly most days, so I don't really talk to guys or socialize much. Sometimes it just seems so hard, but I don't know if it is right for me say anything.
y0shisgrl 1 year ago
At school people say I'm pretty. But they don't understand how emotionally unstable I am. I have so many body image issues... I just always want to cry. When will they realize that it doesn't matter what THEY think, it matters what I think...But I feel so selfish for caring about something as trivial as appearance.. it's just, I'll never be good enough.
So I don't tell anyone. I keep it bottled up inside..
I hope there are a few of you out there that can relate to me. :/
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Alettair 1 year ago
@MissPsychadelic had to break it in 2 -> I felt selfish and superficial for a while but I think that a problem is a problem, and you can't measure or compare it, if others try to make our problems look small it won't stop us from fearing it or feeling bad, it only make us feel stupid. Friends try to convince me I'm pretty because in the clubs guys flirt with me, but it just make me feel like a slut. everybody want someone to love and make us feel pretty, I don't think that's too selfish...
Alettair 1 year ago 2
i can relate so much with this song! and just found it by accident..
i've been suffering from anorexia for about 2 years and a half. at the moment i'm at a normal weight,but struggling more than ever.
but people just look at the surface and think i'm totally fine,while i'm dying inside..
i'm slipping back so quickly again..
extensa08 1 year ago
@extensa08 No matter what-You're beautiful. seriously. I hope you recover fully.:)
ichliebeTokioHotel95 1 year ago
@extensa08 I'm going throught the same thing...i know exactly how you are feeling.
kidstk 1 year ago
this song should be longer. its amazing
SluvsJ52948 1 year ago
on my playlist of life. ♥
stand still, look pretty.
MissJasperHale18 1 year ago
Awsone song, but ALOT hide behide this hit.. ya hope they grow up faster
wytsnke 1 year ago
I can complete relate, I was diagnosed with depression last year, I was cutting and came close to attempting suicide. The days I actually Went to school, I dressed normal, put my makeup on and everything, My friends and teachers that knew what was going on thought I was bullshiting to get out of school, because I seemed Normal,They had NO IDEA what I was going through. And not only did I stop going to school, I also stopped going to work for 2 months and quit my singing lessons. my lifewas hell
sisimariia 1 year ago 2
who is she talking to when she says 'u just stand there and look pretty'????????????????
KissMeLoves 1 year ago
@KissMeLoves I believe its to herself.
yunarikkufan 1 year ago
@yunarikkufan thankss!(:
KissMeLoves 1 year ago
go from this song to three days grace never to late then back to this :P ones rock, ones not, but its still the same.
thetruemaster1001 1 year ago
this song is amzing...people focus on the outside too much nowadays, nobody cares if your dying on the inside....they just care if your pretty enough to be a slut or if your pretty enough to fit in...
CuntriGurl95 1 year ago 3
i LOVE this song so much i learned it while i was cleaning up with my stepsister
rommynoodles123 1 year ago
Feel this way all the time!
BeckyyBooboo14 1 year ago
Just found this song. Totally true about me :/ Great song! <3
Maxerella16 1 year ago
Dude! This sounds like me!!
xSakuraxHatakex 1 year ago
this song is good because it tells the problems in my life
angiegomez50 1 year ago