I am a male I have 2 gay friends I have a gf 2 , I would like say the man is gay I'm 15 and my friend watch u when we are at lunch , I also watch with them.. Sorry I'm way way late but I would like 2 say is that he a bisexual man who likes 2 keep it a secret till he gets caught. Me and my Gf always tell each other our problems or secrets, from another fellow male, just because it a male doesn't mean u can't be sensitive,that what he is sensitive with others, so if u haven't solved it problem, b
1:10 "I love my gay community. Women, male whatever I love my gay community. I'm just a people person, thats just me. I don't stereotype people and I don't judge a book by its cover."
1:24 "A gay guy is a best friend to have. You can go shopping with them, you could laugh with them."
Stereotyping a gay man as a shopping pet for a straight woman is a stereotype in itself. You said you didn't judge a book by its cover, so maybe you shouldn't. Thats all Im saying. Not all gay people are like that
I have a ton of gay friends and girl, only my gay friends look at those type of ads! of course he has hooked up with them. My gay friends do not waste time, meet on craigslist monday and what what in the butt by no later then tuesday night...holla!
yo.. i havent even watch the vid yet, just read the sideline notes... of course he's gay. damn it's bad enuf he's looking at and replying to personal ads, but damn better he talking to other females, than other males... damn girl and she's questioning whether he's ont he downlow, of course he is, the hard core evidence is waayy too obvious!
I am a gay male and I know men like the back of my hand. He is obviously gay or bisexual...something probably bi....but if that was my man I would give him the boot...He is in a committed relationship and is looking at the personal adds...you dont do that...I am not about to play with these other gay men on here...I have straight friends to...but men that go and reply to those adds only want one thing....you go on craigs and youll find like 4 posts outta 10 PAGES on the "gay" ones that want luv.
Im a gay male and I have plenty of str8 male friends that im cool with and hang because they enjoy being around me...how ever i did NOT meet them in no damn craigslist m4m ad!! lol this guy is lookin for gay guys or transgendars to kick it with depending on wat catagory he was in for sex or just friends. Chantel shoulda said wut the emails said if they were getting personal or was it just basic convo. IDK i say he's bi or bi curious. Be safe wrap it up and work for ya own diva!
i am a gay man and im a FLAMER!!wahooo!!lol and i have a few str8 male friends and i dont thank just becouse a str8 man talks to a gay man that he is gay,being gay is NOT a choice it is the way your born(and if any of you people dont agree i dont give a fuk keep ya hater comments to yo self!)if he is really gay then she will find out in good time believe me cuz if he come home and he smell like the club girl you best believe he cheatin on you with a woman or an man or a wo-man mmmhumm lol
@trfrierson I fully disagree! I have a few str8 male close male friends. A secure str8 male isnt phazed by a gay male.. And that's REAL talk! The insecure downlow gays clash because the DL gay guy dont want his TEA clocked by gay men!
@Bronzstar Why you replying to me everybody else said he gay too. We are talking about a person going looking for a gay man. Not a person who already has an established friendship. He sweeter that sweet tarts boo.
Respond to this video... Why is this a question on "Is my man gay"? Hell yes, He is gay. A str8 man would NOT be searching for the M4M classified! He is GAY period. If he was str8 he would be on the M4W, Or fucking some cheap nasty hooker down the way! Chile I dont understand why some black men are so cowardly where they can't REALLY be themselves. Be with a woman thats freaky like that. There are PLENTY of women that would get down with a bi-kat TRUST!!!!
Your concern shouldn't be if he's bi or not, it's that he's on craigslist at all! He's in a relationship and has no business replying to personals men, women, or inbetween. Looking is one thing but making plans? Thats trifilin. You don''t have to take that shit diva. Trust your gut and move on. I'm not saying it will be easy but you know you deserve the best so don't settle for less!
I hope she takes your advice, becasue you were 100% correct. I went to school full time & worked full time for 5 years, and got my degree and still have my job. You gotta do what you gotta do! Great vid.
we really ought to listen to that little voice in our heads more often...the fact that she contacted you muffinismylovers means she know something isn't kosher!
He is a curious male and he needs to let you know that he is not interested in you anymore and wants to move on. I think you need to have a conversation with him about your relationship and see if you two belong together. If you are not into bi-curious men then you need to leave him and move on. It is more than getting diseases but lying to your face.
Dear Chantel! Dont ever let a man wreck your life! Take it from April, The comments and Other Diva's and Divo's around you! Iv never delt with this sitchawation and I bet it is painful! But if your a strong and tough Like other Divas and Divos then youll make it through that pain! APRIL I LOVE THAT HAIR
If she has to ask the question, that should tell you something. He is not bored, he is into this lifestyle. Forget being in school, not having money, this or that, she needs to move on.
he's probably bi-curious but, i think you should get medicial testing regardless of what it may be for your health regardless of male or female. &nd if your not curious why would you look throught a same sex article section, doesn't set right with me. &nd never depend on a man because he could decide to put you out anyday and what your going to do? you truly need to have a open and honest convo with him but, he deserve better no one deserves to be lied to.
Hey Sis I'm with you I am the International Friend, I work at the JFK so theres all kinds of folks there, and I too have all kinds of friends, every shade, creed, religion, and a whole lot of freaks too, lol
i think that he is not gay but he is probley bii curious beacuse no one gets soo bord that he has to look at gay stuff i mean like iff he is responding thats not A GAME! like you sed some of those people are looking for love and hes probley jst curious ! and the girl has to do something about keep cheecking his emails ! thats all i can say
part ..2..kids and he still watches it....but that does not mean that he does everything he sees in thoes tapes..it is a fantacy to him..so yes, you need to sit down with him and talk...and be open..and calm...there are many faithful bi couples out there...but again..if he is dickin around..back them bags baby...you have school to worry about not men
part 1...he is not gay....u r correct he is prob bi....if he has been with other people..the she does need to let him go...but i do have to say...if he is bi but faithful then the only prob with that is how does she feel about him being bi...let me put it this way...there is not a man on earth...single, married, str8, or gay that does not watch porn...he could be married with 6
Thats my thing.. if you are in a realtionship a person should not be looking at personal ads. If he is that bored at work he needs to find something to do. I feel Kevin is searching for himself. She should just talk to him and sort out what is going on. I find it very disrespectful to his girlfriend that he looks at these personal ads,but he takes it a step forward and has mailed some those ads. that is just WRONG!
this guy definately sounds "curious" but regardless of that fact, if he is online showing interest in another person, gay or straight, she doesnt need to be in a relationship with this guy. Cheating is cheating, no matter who it is
He is gay...he is so gay...My bf ..if he was going to cheat..or other wise read ads--He reads porn-w/chicks..Never has he ever been bored enough to read guy on guy action..or do guy on guy action..
He may not know it..or may not otherwise want to admit it..But if she makes it sound ok..she's ok with it..him being gay....maybe he comes out....That's no way to live..for either person..Either way he's cheating..
Love my gays Mrs April .....HE IS GAYAND SHE NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE but most important your hair is looking AMAZING im really loving that hair on you !!!!
That's good advice honey, her priority should be her own safety and if he's playing with folk online it can lead to a major problem. I appreciate you giving these young women sound advice.
he is gay, and straight or not if my dude was replying to personals the relationship is over bc hes trying to cheat
she can break off the relationship & they can try to b friends & keep their apt together if living is that serious to her. but statyin w a triflin dude bc u dont know where 2 stay is stupid.
Girl...he is gay or b-curious! No straight man would be in the Man to Man section of the classifieds. She needs to talk to him about it and watch out! He is looking for a reason...he most likely linking up with dudes.
Omg Girl Im a gay man and I watch your videos all the time!!! You are sooo FIERCE girl! Im also a drag queen and i wear some of the same lace fronts that you wear in your videos! Keep up the fierceness Diva!!!
I love Gays..I hav family members who is Gay..but if a nigga is cheating and doin the Booty Bandit Move then she needs to leave him alone! its obvious that he's bored with her...
My feeling is it does not matter one way or another if he is gay or not that isnt what she needs to ask herself....there are 2 choices either he is a man willing to take steps to cheat on her or he is a man cruel enough to mess with peoples hearts and minds responding to ads...in either case she needs to ask herself is that something she wants to be with, for me the answer would be no...work & school have been done, i did it and sometimes it takes longer but i would rather that that live a lie
He is gay and I would run not walk away from that relationship because he is playing with you. You can hope all day that he isnt but he is. If he's not gay he is def bi-curious and it wont be long before it gets the best of him bc he is living a lie and he will get tired eventually.
He's gay and its time to acknowledge what his actions are telling you. Now here this Kevin is gay. Catchup you just now finding the email he already had the date.Asking questions when you know the answer is called denial. Calling all homosexuals Kevin is available and his girl is being naive!
I really like this Real Talk Diva time. Let me tell u that u give very good advices and I appreciate that u take time to answer to your divos and divas. You are a true, beautiful woman :) I really like ur channel and I give u 5 stars!!! You make me wanna try a wig for the first time :)
It doesn't matter if she ask him or not, what straight guy will answer an add to another man if he is a man? If Kevin is answering adds by other men, then is is GAY, no if ands or butts. Come on now. But if she feel as if she can not move out, then it does not matte what we say, she is not going anywhere. And for your man to be gay, he is talking to men and women, and now your man can cheat with both sexes, that is not cool/. Now you really worrying if your man is cheating with a man or a woman.
Gay friends - got to have them, they are the spice in life !
Craigslist - Great for selling things and sold some furniture on there and found a lady who sells styofoam heads for $4 :)
Ok preach it on Diva !
Kevin maybe curious or on the "down low" and chantell just caught him.
Chantell, use protection or better yet, let him go. That is a dangerous game your man is playing. He's gonna run into the wrong people and get gang raped or worse, contract an STD.
yow that nicca is gay these black men be on the low adayz i was talking to a guy b4 that add other men on a website men that he didnt kno that as a huge red flag. she need to leave the gay boy. no offense just saying
He either knows he is gay or he is curious. She just has to admit the truth to herself. They need to have a talk. It shouldn't matter that it inconveniences her to move out. It would inconvenience you if you get your feelings hurt or you catch an std.
I feel like it it messed but it time to COMMUTICATE Also time for the women to ask herself, ( if this true???? Can she handle being in a BI relationship???) and if she cant only come with money and shelter as the reasons for staying with he Its not good enough. If she aint got family, find job, stack her chips n keep it pushin. You can work n go to school. N sht if she aint got money for school the state she live in pay for all dat. She got check in to stuff.
hey may be sizing himself up with the other males on the site( he may feel insecure about his size), OR he may want some anal play, and not necessarily from a man, I was just reading an article a friend sent me about that recently on askmendotcom anywho she should go into the conversation with an open mind, because there is obviously a sexual desire in him that feels he can not talk to you about...keep us posted on this April.....I learned alot about this in college sexuality course
well i can relate to this subject my baby daddys a homothug i found out when one of his clients came to the house i say clients cause he was prostituting him self yes i found all this out and when i did i lt his ass trust me what dont come out the wash it will definitely come out in the rinse
all gay guys r not feminine...a lot of them r ur regular masculine white collar or blue collar men...I say if u hv to question it, 9/10 times ur intuition is right on some level
It really doesn't matter wht his reason is for doing it, it's something he was doing behind your back tht could be dangerous for the both of you. Like April you need to sit him down and have him explain himself, but I would still leave b/c who needs the stress of tht? If you gonna be stressed abt tht you might as well work and go to school, same stress level I'm sure.
yes diva gay men are a blast to hang with, shop and go out with. however i dont think your boyfriend is looking just because he's bored. you just may have to get out of this relationship and handle you own. you can do, i know it will be hard cause i had to work and go to school myself. but he is playing with fire meeting people off craigs list. you never know what he'll bring home or who could be following him home. whatever you choice be safe and take care of you.
yeah.. he definately on tha low!! cuz please believe this aint the only time he been on sites browsing gay presonals! this is just the only time u came across it.
walks like a duck, quacks like a duck well he probably is a duck. You do not search the personal ads for male companionship out of boredom its is out of a need for male companionship.
fuck no he's not bord he's just dam gay.. On a serious not I WOULDN"T MESS with him NOMORE. Its obviouse he's up to something weather's he's thought about it or have done it. That's just so unfair to u. N like april said sometime you have to do what you have to do. If you have to work and go to school then so be it. U will thank yourself in the end.. REMEBER YOUR WORTH iT :)
I know rite..Wow that's a hell of a position to be in.. Hell you anit got to tell me what to do or i anit got to ask nobody..lol She'll figure it out. Hopefully she's not hooked to him to where she can't leave him..NOW that would suck..I wish her the best
lemme just say people on craigslist, esp gay men are ONLY there for sex hence all the dick and ass pics on there lol and NO str8 man is going to REPLY to these kinda adds. NOT BOREDOM lol
Straight men will never respond to or even look at a gay man's ad just of of pure boredom. I would have left as soon as I read the email. No questions asked.
You know I've noticed this shift in men. Now being gay is one thing but, bi-sexual ppl especially those invled with str ppl are just plain nasty. I had a buddy of my tell me he use to have a bf when he was younger. I have a son and just stopped hanging out with him. To protect my son. If a person is willing to keep something like that from you after knowing them for 6 yrs get on dude. The one thing I did learn from him is that he never really got over it. He still looks at guys. Leave girl.
Good job, April! I think you gave her great advice. I totally agree with you and the rest of the ladies (and gents)' comments. The guy is obviously bi and he's probably not willing to admit it to her. She should let him go b/c if he's willing to hide something like this from her, then there's no telling what else he's hiding...plus, she shouldn't depend on him to take care of her while she's in school (I could see if they were married but they're not). She needs to find a job and leave. (^_^)
LIES! No straight man is on the internet trolling for men to have sex with....ever! No man is EVER that bored. The guy is interested in having sex with men and it's only a matter of time before he hooks up in person with his email buddies from craigslist.
He's gay. Or bi-sexual. Either way, stop having sex with him. Unfortunately, he can no loner be trusted. Keep "Kevin" as a friend/roommate. And yes, several people have been killed through Craig's List. Some states are trying to shut the personal listing down.
Craiglist is the new place where man and women find people to cheat with. Don't sleep, I was dating a guy who I found out was on craiglist looking for women. This is the new place for the Black men to meet women other then their wife or girlfriend.
ain't enough bored in the WORLD to get a completely straight man to not only check out, but respond to a gay ad on Craigslist.
She must be young and/or thirsty as HAYLE to fall for that one. If she wants to keep letting him support her, that's on her, but she better deal with him with her eyes wide open, and protection in full effect.
yess maam..he's gay hunni..u dnt get dat bored dat u respond to those ads!! and i agree..um cool wit er1 and a gay guy friend r my fav..their too cool and fun to b around..love u lots hunni
April, its obvious he is gay or bi sexual & obvious her ass know but love him too much & need him too much to wanna' believe it so shes goin' around askin' others they perception on shit she already know about. Cuz we all know if it was him searchin for women she probably would have already been on that ass & you wouldn't be doin' this video for her. That girl knows whats up & needs to cut him. its no different from he talkin' to other women. You know!
Oh hell naw! I wouldn't like it even if his ass is "curious". If we've been together and you came at me as if you were straight, then dammit that's what your ass needs to be. Otherwise, I'll have to find love elsewhere. "I" couldn't be with no man running up in another man!
April!!! Great video yet again. I just wanted to say with one of my exes, I saw that he had been looking on some site and created a profile saying he was single and looking for threesomes, one night stands, etc. When I confronted him he said it was for "entertainment". I came to find out that he was cheating and this was just one of the ways he was going about doing it. Point is this is definitely a sign that shouldn't be ignored. Keep your eyes open girl.
Aww, i feel ya, same happened to me. whats funny is if our man caught us doing the same, 'advertising" for "fun", they would drop us like a hot potato. They ain't got time for that bull and neither shall we.
damn, shantel its time to wake up girlfriend. He is gay...does he look at u with passion in his eyes when u make love, does he sometimes stop u in your tracks to tell u how much he loves you during the course of the day sometimes? does he touch you daily in a friendly way or is it romantic?does he kiss u with passion?Does he get hard in the morning sometimes after rolling over and kissin u? If u answered no to all of these, your man is most likely gay.move onto a straight one, theyre the bomb!
Bisexual is not the same as cheating -- it is fully possible to be *attracted* to both men and women and still be monogamous! I don't think it matters wether Kevin is straight, gay or bi, if he's in what is supposed to be a monogamous relationship and he's "looking" it's not right. If he doesn't think it's a monogamous relationship, then he and Shantel need to communicate!
April you said you went to school, worked, and had kids... how did you do that because i want to (my son is 1) but i dont see how i can afford childcare ($130 a week), rent, utilities, carfare etc.? i dont want to depend on my fiance for anything anymore but i have no job (right now) and no where else to go (no family)
i really need the advice April because though ppl are judging me they are not giving me any answers or pointing me in the right direction to better my situation
Just b/c he's w/ her doesn't mean he's not gay. Alot of men who r trying to hide the fact that they r gay get in relationships w/ women. I have no prob. w/ gays/lesbians but let's keep it 100 dude is gay. Str8 up. Responding to ads b/c he's bored?! Whr-they-do-that-at? Men who like women don't do that shit. Don't stay w/ him just b/c u don't have a job. If he gives u a disease ur gonna regret it and u have no one to blame but urself.
i love you April your amazing, your advice, wisdom in life and attitudes and values. though I do not know you personally, you come across like a great person. I love your videos.
to chantell whether he is gay or not...its not cool to be emailing others those kind of emails. Listen to April her advice is always on point. xoxo
I agree with you my friend....I don't judge people...I don't really care what gender a person is..gay,straight, bi..everyone deserves to be respected,loved and cared for..
regarding the advise..I agree with you on that too. he needs to be honest with himself..and with chantel. This will give both of them a chance to live their life the way they want to...
Yes April Kevin is bored......Bored with Shantel! if he were straight he'd be on the porn or on the hetero site. She better go rent a room & kick him to the curb!
I love gay guys, too. They are the best. =D People have questioned my Christianity a couple of times, because I don't have a problem with homosexuality. Excuse them? I don't have to answer to those people. Anyway, I think if a man or a woman is in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, that doesn't mean they aren't gay. She should tell him about the emails she found and ask him more qestions about his sexuality. You gave her great advice, April. =} I hope she sees this video SOON.
you ain't never lied gay men are the best ppl to hang out with cause you can shop with them and stuff! omg so true! as for the young ladies bf ! girlfriend your man is gay and you should run for the hills because that is some down low stuff! get tested ,do what u gotta do to get away from him because he is lying to you and that's not whats up! and kudos to everything april said!
I agree with you April. He sounds like he's curious and doesnt know what he wants. He's either gay or bisexual. But he def wants somethin more and somethin different.
Girl he is what they would called a "down low" brother! Oprah did a whole show on this. I mean as you said there is nothing wrong with someone being gay or bi-sexual but you need to be up front with the person you are with! Especially because of the possibility of bringing home some sort of disease home to the bed you share with your partner! Obviously she is a smart woman...when push comes to shove she doesn't need him to support her. It is in our nature to survive and she can too!!
I SO AGREE ! I LOVE THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY but if your gonna represent the "B" and we're in a relationship you need to let me know and not be on the down low
I don't have a problem with the gay community either, what they do in their personal life has nothing to do with me. Sometimes people can be so cruel and shun them as April said, but I'm sure if a gay person pulled from a burning building or prevented a crazy person from doing bodily harm to them I'm sure the person's sexuality wouldn't matter then!!!! The problem I have is when people withold the truth about their sexual preference when they are in a heterosexual relationship!
<3 ur attitude about my community... I was kicked out of someones blog channell bcause I mentioned that I have a wife & I legally changed my last name 2 hers. I must admit i'm 33yrs old & my feelings were hurt by that. <3 the vid girl
yes he is gay.....
LaFemmesasa 7 months ago
I am a male I have 2 gay friends I have a gf 2 , I would like say the man is gay I'm 15 and my friend watch u when we are at lunch , I also watch with them.. Sorry I'm way way late but I would like 2 say is that he a bisexual man who likes 2 keep it a secret till he gets caught. Me and my Gf always tell each other our problems or secrets, from another fellow male, just because it a male doesn't mean u can't be sensitive,that what he is sensitive with others, so if u haven't solved it problem, b
mystictyren1 1 year ago
1:10 "I love my gay community. Women, male whatever I love my gay community. I'm just a people person, thats just me. I don't stereotype people and I don't judge a book by its cover."
1:24 "A gay guy is a best friend to have. You can go shopping with them, you could laugh with them."
Stereotyping a gay man as a shopping pet for a straight woman is a stereotype in itself. You said you didn't judge a book by its cover, so maybe you shouldn't. Thats all Im saying. Not all gay people are like that
HOMMEMADETV 1 year ago
@HOMMEMADETV she didnt mean anything bad by it, chill
tictocmm 1 year ago
First advice you should of said before telling her to sit him down is to get tested. THEN SIT HIS ASS DOWN TO HAVE THE TALK.
revemupman 1 year ago
real talk i like what u are saying
uraine7626 1 year ago
Yep... hes SUPER gay!!!! ..... Unda cova brotha!!! I love gay men!!!! Loves them, but he should be straight up and let her know whats up!!!
wbowen92yahoocom 1 year ago
Clearly this girls man is lying and is in denial.
I have a ton of gay friends and girl, only my gay friends look at those type of ads! of course he has hooked up with them. My gay friends do not waste time, meet on craigslist monday and what what in the butt by no later then tuesday night...holla!
Blakpepa 1 year ago
April is 100% correct. You couldn't have put it better. I am a gay man and I would definitely agree with her on this topic.
myMaxinaMillion 1 year ago
yo.. i havent even watch the vid yet, just read the sideline notes... of course he's gay. damn it's bad enuf he's looking at and replying to personal ads, but damn better he talking to other females, than other males... damn girl and she's questioning whether he's ont he downlow, of course he is, the hard core evidence is waayy too obvious!
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sexyricanpapi1 2 years ago
find a place to stay...and tell him about himself.
jowhite1990 2 years ago
I am a gay male and I know men like the back of my hand. He is obviously gay or bisexual...something probably bi....but if that was my man I would give him the boot...He is in a committed relationship and is looking at the personal adds...you dont do that...I am not about to play with these other gay men on here...I have straight friends to...but men that go and reply to those adds only want one thing....you go on craigs and youll find like 4 posts outta 10 PAGES on the "gay" ones that want luv.
jowhite1990 2 years ago 2
you r so right :) good advice.
BeautiifullyUniique 2 years ago
yo girl you smokin
p6a9u1l42 2 years ago
he is gay but it doesn't matter he shouldn't be looking in the personals at all.
truth3712 2 years ago
Im a gay male and I have plenty of str8 male friends that im cool with and hang because they enjoy being around me...how ever i did NOT meet them in no damn craigslist m4m ad!! lol this guy is lookin for gay guys or transgendars to kick it with depending on wat catagory he was in for sex or just friends. Chantel shoulda said wut the emails said if they were getting personal or was it just basic convo. IDK i say he's bi or bi curious. Be safe wrap it up and work for ya own diva!
TeeW311 2 years ago 2
AMEN!!
babbina 2 years ago
lol!!!!!! "finding someon you want to fuck" Omg u r 2 funny!!!!!!
Sinsatiable14u 2 years ago
he his gay... wrap it up.. find a place to stay
BeeNaturalMe 2 years ago 2
i am a gay man and im a FLAMER!!wahooo!!lol and i have a few str8 male friends and i dont thank just becouse a str8 man talks to a gay man that he is gay,being gay is NOT a choice it is the way your born(and if any of you people dont agree i dont give a fuk keep ya hater comments to yo self!)if he is really gay then she will find out in good time believe me cuz if he come home and he smell like the club girl you best believe he cheatin on you with a woman or an man or a wo-man mmmhumm lol
koleangel14 2 years ago
bottom line he is gay as heck. No man will communicate with a gay man for sheer entertainment
trfrierson 2 years ago 5
You right my friend tried to tell me he was bored by talking to guys over myspace who was gay! WHO ARE THEY TRYING TO FOOL!
Ke80schick 2 years ago 2
@trfrierson I fully disagree! I have a few str8 male close male friends. A secure str8 male isnt phazed by a gay male.. And that's REAL talk! The insecure downlow gays clash because the DL gay guy dont want his TEA clocked by gay men!
Bronzstar 7 months ago
@Bronzstar Why you replying to me everybody else said he gay too. We are talking about a person going looking for a gay man. Not a person who already has an established friendship. He sweeter that sweet tarts boo.
trfrierson 7 months ago
Respond to this video... Why is this a question on "Is my man gay"? Hell yes, He is gay. A str8 man would NOT be searching for the M4M classified! He is GAY period. If he was str8 he would be on the M4W, Or fucking some cheap nasty hooker down the way! Chile I dont understand why some black men are so cowardly where they can't REALLY be themselves. Be with a woman thats freaky like that. There are PLENTY of women that would get down with a bi-kat TRUST!!!!
Bronzstar 7 months ago
That's funny cuz I was just at work 2day saying the same thing about gay dudes...I LOVE them!
Atiram21276 2 years ago
Your concern shouldn't be if he's bi or not, it's that he's on craigslist at all! He's in a relationship and has no business replying to personals men, women, or inbetween. Looking is one thing but making plans? Thats trifilin. You don''t have to take that shit diva. Trust your gut and move on. I'm not saying it will be easy but you know you deserve the best so don't settle for less!
lecifbaby 2 years ago
I hope she takes your advice, becasue you were 100% correct. I went to school full time & worked full time for 5 years, and got my degree and still have my job. You gotta do what you gotta do! Great vid.
Nenendude 2 years ago
we really ought to listen to that little voice in our heads more often...the fact that she contacted you muffinismylovers means she know something isn't kosher!
lisabella00 2 years ago 2
yr so right, that little voice be saving our lives when we actually listen to it...
babbina 2 years ago
He is a curious male and he needs to let you know that he is not interested in you anymore and wants to move on. I think you need to have a conversation with him about your relationship and see if you two belong together. If you are not into bi-curious men then you need to leave him and move on. It is more than getting diseases but lying to your face.
Takia86 2 years ago
baby boy betta be careful....he is curious and he never knows whos he's talking to. here in houston a guy killed someone he met on craigs list...
ccain68 2 years ago
Dear Chantel! Dont ever let a man wreck your life! Take it from April, The comments and Other Diva's and Divo's around you! Iv never delt with this sitchawation and I bet it is painful! But if your a strong and tough Like other Divas and Divos then youll make it through that pain! APRIL I LOVE THAT HAIR
littlemissedmonton16 2 years ago
Get tested !!!! If he's confronted he'll find another way to do what he does. The way is out the door ! Good advice April lovin the hair
Trampth2260 2 years ago 5
If she has to ask the question, that should tell you something. He is not bored, he is into this lifestyle. Forget being in school, not having money, this or that, she needs to move on.
MochaTress 2 years ago 2
Ladies defenetly wake up and smell the coffee... this happens aaaaa llllloooottt trust me
DGPink69 2 years ago 2
he's probably bi-curious but, i think you should get medicial testing regardless of what it may be for your health regardless of male or female. &nd if your not curious why would you look throught a same sex article section, doesn't set right with me. &nd never depend on a man because he could decide to put you out anyday and what your going to do? you truly need to have a open and honest convo with him but, he deserve better no one deserves to be lied to.
reddluvuzi 2 years ago
baby boy is most definately curiuos and not sure of his sexuallity.....
lovely267 2 years ago
Hey Sis I'm with you I am the International Friend, I work at the JFK so theres all kinds of folks there, and I too have all kinds of friends, every shade, creed, religion, and a whole lot of freaks too, lol
Synnsational 2 years ago
If you have to ask yourself if he's really gay, he probably is. It wouldn't be a question if you knew your man's status with 100% surety.
missladygray 2 years ago 2
Oh and I agree with some of the other comments on the hair.... it's gorgeous!
missladygray 2 years ago
i think that he is not gay but he is probley bii curious beacuse no one gets soo bord that he has to look at gay stuff i mean like iff he is responding thats not A GAME! like you sed some of those people are looking for love and hes probley jst curious ! and the girl has to do something about keep cheecking his emails ! thats all i can say
katsaroansj 2 years ago
part ..2..kids and he still watches it....but that does not mean that he does everything he sees in thoes tapes..it is a fantacy to him..so yes, you need to sit down with him and talk...and be open..and calm...there are many faithful bi couples out there...but again..if he is dickin around..back them bags baby...you have school to worry about not men
pp2625 2 years ago
part 1...he is not gay....u r correct he is prob bi....if he has been with other people..the she does need to let him go...but i do have to say...if he is bi but faithful then the only prob with that is how does she feel about him being bi...let me put it this way...there is not a man on earth...single, married, str8, or gay that does not watch porn...he could be married with 6
pp2625 2 years ago
Couldnt have said it better...oh and u look gorgeous! Luv the hair Diva!
meshele310 2 years ago
tha hair
is banging!!!
lovoniaparks 2 years ago
Thats my thing.. if you are in a realtionship a person should not be looking at personal ads. If he is that bored at work he needs to find something to do. I feel Kevin is searching for himself. She should just talk to him and sort out what is going on. I find it very disrespectful to his girlfriend that he looks at these personal ads,but he takes it a step forward and has mailed some those ads. that is just WRONG!
phoenix9ty 2 years ago
Your hair looks awesome, April! And I totally agree with your advice!
Dancergirl448 2 years ago
this guy definately sounds "curious" but regardless of that fact, if he is online showing interest in another person, gay or straight, she doesnt need to be in a relationship with this guy. Cheating is cheating, no matter who it is
nnhill06 2 years ago
he bi curios or hes gay either way she needs to let go and do him
butterfliesdiary 2 years ago
Very lame excuse, great advice,hope she listens
rozzie10 2 years ago
Chantal should get away from him. She can work and go to school full time. It sounds like Kevin is bi-sexual.
jnellegirl 2 years ago
He is as gay as the sun is shining...run diva run...u deserve better
MsAnt17 2 years ago
good topic!
dude bi-curious
mskissmeh 2 years ago
He is gay...he is so gay...My bf ..if he was going to cheat..or other wise read ads--He reads porn-w/chicks..Never has he ever been bored enough to read guy on guy action..or do guy on guy action..
He may not know it..or may not otherwise want to admit it..But if she makes it sound ok..she's ok with it..him being gay....maybe he comes out....That's no way to live..for either person..Either way he's cheating..
MercedesGames 2 years ago
Craigslist is a bargain site and a freaky site! Probably can find a freaky person for a bargain price. lol. jk April your the ish!!
PiercedChocolate 2 years ago
Love my gays Mrs April .....HE IS GAYAND SHE NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE but most important your hair is looking AMAZING im really loving that hair on you !!!!
FATAND2CUTE 2 years ago 2
That's good advice honey, her priority should be her own safety and if he's playing with folk online it can lead to a major problem. I appreciate you giving these young women sound advice.
MichelleDenise64 2 years ago 2
was she born yesterday?!
he is gay, and straight or not if my dude was replying to personals the relationship is over bc hes trying to cheat
she can break off the relationship & they can try to b friends & keep their apt together if living is that serious to her. but statyin w a triflin dude bc u dont know where 2 stay is stupid.
hollyroses 2 years ago 2
Wig is Bomb!
Guy is Gay.
The1nOnliRitz 2 years ago 3
Girl...he is gay or b-curious! No straight man would be in the Man to Man section of the classifieds. She needs to talk to him about it and watch out! He is looking for a reason...he most likely linking up with dudes.
Joysmommy817 2 years ago
Love you April but there was no need to contact you about this one. LMAO! She needs to RUN!!!!! There is NOTHING to discuss. RUN, CHANTEL, RUN!!!!
sladariusc 2 years ago
that lace wig is THE BOMB diva!
MsNicoleMilano 2 years ago
Omg Girl Im a gay man and I watch your videos all the time!!! You are sooo FIERCE girl! Im also a drag queen and i wear some of the same lace fronts that you wear in your videos! Keep up the fierceness Diva!!!
luisandres83 2 years ago
I love Gays..I hav family members who is Gay..but if a nigga is cheating and doin the Booty Bandit Move then she needs to leave him alone! its obvious that he's bored with her...
CrazyTee88 2 years ago 2
Maybe he's a serial killer and that's how he finds his victims. Hey, you NEVER know.
dimple76 2 years ago
looool
hollyroses 2 years ago
My feeling is it does not matter one way or another if he is gay or not that isnt what she needs to ask herself....there are 2 choices either he is a man willing to take steps to cheat on her or he is a man cruel enough to mess with peoples hearts and minds responding to ads...in either case she needs to ask herself is that something she wants to be with, for me the answer would be no...work & school have been done, i did it and sometimes it takes longer but i would rather that that live a lie
jennyrose1023 2 years ago
he is gay... go get yourself checked out first.... then use protection.... and i would use his ass until im done wit school.
SeanyPooh89 2 years ago
He is gay and I would run not walk away from that relationship because he is playing with you. You can hope all day that he isnt but he is. If he's not gay he is def bi-curious and it wont be long before it gets the best of him bc he is living a lie and he will get tired eventually.
munsjvc 2 years ago
i think hes taking the piss
summermonroe20 2 years ago
He's gay and its time to acknowledge what his actions are telling you. Now here this Kevin is gay. Catchup you just now finding the email he already had the date.Asking questions when you know the answer is called denial. Calling all homosexuals Kevin is available and his girl is being naive!
miss2umister 2 years ago
girl he is cheating.
glittereyes87 2 years ago
Dear Diva
I really like this Real Talk Diva time. Let me tell u that u give very good advices and I appreciate that u take time to answer to your divos and divas. You are a true, beautiful woman :) I really like ur channel and I give u 5 stars!!! You make me wanna try a wig for the first time :)
Cheers and keep on doing such a great job :)
Pandex 2 years ago 2
It doesn't matter if she ask him or not, what straight guy will answer an add to another man if he is a man? If Kevin is answering adds by other men, then is is GAY, no if ands or butts. Come on now. But if she feel as if she can not move out, then it does not matte what we say, she is not going anywhere. And for your man to be gay, he is talking to men and women, and now your man can cheat with both sexes, that is not cool/. Now you really worrying if your man is cheating with a man or a woman.
melbourne300 2 years ago 2
Gay friends - got to have them, they are the spice in life !
Craigslist - Great for selling things and sold some furniture on there and found a lady who sells styofoam heads for $4 :)
Ok preach it on Diva !
Kevin maybe curious or on the "down low" and chantell just caught him.
Chantell, use protection or better yet, let him go. That is a dangerous game your man is playing. He's gonna run into the wrong people and get gang raped or worse, contract an STD.
Run Chantel Run !!
hourglas39 2 years ago
Oh he is gay. My boyfriend would never look at any male for male ads. He gets disgusted by those types of things.
chisellecouture 2 years ago
Plus craigs list is a dangerous place to meet people among other places but you just have to use good judgement
shayfay00 2 years ago
Big ups to the Chantales!
Chany14 2 years ago
I totally agree with you April. I don't think he is that bored he has some other stuff going on.
gennett21 2 years ago
yow that nicca is gay these black men be on the low adayz i was talking to a guy b4 that add other men on a website men that he didnt kno that as a huge red flag. she need to leave the gay boy. no offense just saying
morethanawoman87 2 years ago
He either knows he is gay or he is curious. She just has to admit the truth to herself. They need to have a talk. It shouldn't matter that it inconveniences her to move out. It would inconvenience you if you get your feelings hurt or you catch an std.
sbabwb 2 years ago
I feel like it it messed but it time to COMMUTICATE Also time for the women to ask herself, ( if this true???? Can she handle being in a BI relationship???) and if she cant only come with money and shelter as the reasons for staying with he Its not good enough. If she aint got family, find job, stack her chips n keep it pushin. You can work n go to school. N sht if she aint got money for school the state she live in pay for all dat. She got check in to stuff.
89tashaC 2 years ago
plus she shouldnt be sleepin with him without protection anyways, she aint marry, any sht lke dis happen st8 or gay.
89tashaC 2 years ago 2
hey may be sizing himself up with the other males on the site( he may feel insecure about his size), OR he may want some anal play, and not necessarily from a man, I was just reading an article a friend sent me about that recently on askmendotcom anywho she should go into the conversation with an open mind, because there is obviously a sexual desire in him that feels he can not talk to you about...keep us posted on this April.....I learned alot about this in college sexuality course
elsshortie 2 years ago
if he didn't want anal play from a MAN, then he would reqeust it from a woman ;)
babbina 2 years ago
That makes no sense.... but we will never know.....there has to be more to the story and I would be interested in knowing what the outcome was
elsshortie 2 years ago
well i can relate to this subject my baby daddys a homothug i found out when one of his clients came to the house i say clients cause he was prostituting him self yes i found all this out and when i did i lt his ass trust me what dont come out the wash it will definitely come out in the rinse
TheTisha76 2 years ago 2
He's gay.
tduffjackson 2 years ago
all gay guys r not feminine...a lot of them r ur regular masculine white collar or blue collar men...I say if u hv to question it, 9/10 times ur intuition is right on some level
rwill117 2 years ago
A gay man IS the best friend for a girl to have. They at least tell you the TRUTH when you go shopping with them. Another diva be a backstabber.
mom2twoboyssn 2 years ago
He's probably bi...... Love the hair looks so real what is it??
amckoy02 2 years ago
He is either gay/bisexual. Go get yourself checked out and protect yourself!!
blkbutterflii 2 years ago 2
That Nigga is Flat out Gay! Aint no st8 have no desire to look in the homo section. If he was bored he would pop in a flick.
special907 2 years ago 4
It really doesn't matter wht his reason is for doing it, it's something he was doing behind your back tht could be dangerous for the both of you. Like April you need to sit him down and have him explain himself, but I would still leave b/c who needs the stress of tht? If you gonna be stressed abt tht you might as well work and go to school, same stress level I'm sure.
babygirl2sweet21 2 years ago
yes diva gay men are a blast to hang with, shop and go out with. however i dont think your boyfriend is looking just because he's bored. you just may have to get out of this relationship and handle you own. you can do, i know it will be hard cause i had to work and go to school myself. but he is playing with fire meeting people off craigs list. you never know what he'll bring home or who could be following him home. whatever you choice be safe and take care of you.
4253KEKE4LYFE 2 years ago
Its possible. people marry gay / bisexual all the time. He is probably bisexual...
but either way, honesty is the most important issue no matter what his motives are.
reserectcc 2 years ago
Gay!
Sistashownuff 2 years ago
Like B.Scott sd if you have to wonder [he/she] is gay!
XquisiteLady21 2 years ago
I agree he's definately gay....
XquisiteLady21 2 years ago
yeah.. he definately on tha low!! cuz please believe this aint the only time he been on sites browsing gay presonals! this is just the only time u came across it.
deon752 2 years ago
walks like a duck, quacks like a duck well he probably is a duck. You do not search the personal ads for male companionship out of boredom its is out of a need for male companionship.
VANEDW425 2 years ago
fuck no he's not bord he's just dam gay.. On a serious not I WOULDN"T MESS with him NOMORE. Its obviouse he's up to something weather's he's thought about it or have done it. That's just so unfair to u. N like april said sometime you have to do what you have to do. If you have to work and go to school then so be it. U will thank yourself in the end.. REMEBER YOUR WORTH iT :)
CoCo8053 2 years ago
@CoCo8053 right
she need 2 leave him alone
DiorVixzen 2 years ago
I know rite..Wow that's a hell of a position to be in.. Hell you anit got to tell me what to do or i anit got to ask nobody..lol She'll figure it out. Hopefully she's not hooked to him to where she can't leave him..NOW that would suck..I wish her the best
CoCo8053 2 years ago
lemme just say people on craigslist, esp gay men are ONLY there for sex hence all the dick and ass pics on there lol and NO str8 man is going to REPLY to these kinda adds. NOT BOREDOM lol
ExtensionOfDenim 2 years ago 2
He is curious...time to have that talk with him and see where the relationship is.
Not worth putting yourself in harms way (as for as a std goes)
ksha 2 years ago
Straight men will never respond to or even look at a gay man's ad just of of pure boredom. I would have left as soon as I read the email. No questions asked.
OCT413 2 years ago
You know I've noticed this shift in men. Now being gay is one thing but, bi-sexual ppl especially those invled with str ppl are just plain nasty. I had a buddy of my tell me he use to have a bf when he was younger. I have a son and just stopped hanging out with him. To protect my son. If a person is willing to keep something like that from you after knowing them for 6 yrs get on dude. The one thing I did learn from him is that he never really got over it. He still looks at guys. Leave girl.
time2wakeuppeople 2 years ago
Good job, April! I think you gave her great advice. I totally agree with you and the rest of the ladies (and gents)' comments. The guy is obviously bi and he's probably not willing to admit it to her. She should let him go b/c if he's willing to hide something like this from her, then there's no telling what else he's hiding...plus, she shouldn't depend on him to take care of her while she's in school (I could see if they were married but they're not). She needs to find a job and leave. (^_^)
sofabkiki84 2 years ago
LIES! No straight man is on the internet trolling for men to have sex with....ever! No man is EVER that bored. The guy is interested in having sex with men and it's only a matter of time before he hooks up in person with his email buddies from craigslist.
MrandMrsT 2 years ago 2
Hes tryin to get his rocks off. hes already ready to get it popin with a dude. He is Bi and is ready to be unfaithful to you girl
mrsksw02 2 years ago 2
gay people is ur cool fridn they r so funny i have lot gay friend but i not gay at all
missp318 2 years ago
He's gay. Or bi-sexual. Either way, stop having sex with him. Unfortunately, he can no loner be trusted. Keep "Kevin" as a friend/roommate. And yes, several people have been killed through Craig's List. Some states are trying to shut the personal listing down.
PecanSandees23 2 years ago
Hey Diva April Thats a hot mess he need to get his stuff together.. and I work go to school and have 3 boys its very possible
FinestBunny 2 years ago
He gay, damn! Bored? Really?
alilake1 2 years ago
Gay or straight, Cheating is cheating. (But to be real: there's pretty good chance that your man is gay.)
shehasavoice2 2 years ago 2
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shehasavoice2 2 years ago
lov the hair
tasha640 2 years ago
i really like u n ur hair looks so real ateya own sits on her forehead
seriousdawta1 2 years ago
April,
Craiglist is the new place where man and women find people to cheat with. Don't sleep, I was dating a guy who I found out was on craiglist looking for women. This is the new place for the Black men to meet women other then their wife or girlfriend.
EmpressCoco20 2 years ago
why depend on a man to come thru with the payments for college...
mmkayaaaa 2 years ago 4
Yes!! You said it! Is the guy a meal ticket or a boyfriend? Time to figure out how to handle things independently!!!
LydiaJoy82 2 years ago
I am going to keep it short. He is interested in men. She is going to have to end the relationship.
monimom3 2 years ago 3
ain't enough bored in the WORLD to get a completely straight man to not only check out, but respond to a gay ad on Craigslist.
She must be young and/or thirsty as HAYLE to fall for that one. If she wants to keep letting him support her, that's on her, but she better deal with him with her eyes wide open, and protection in full effect.
jaedalaurez 2 years ago 3
i love your real talk videos.....keep em coming April!!...
SoftandBeautiful77 2 years ago
Curious/Gay AND a Liar. Leave that dude alone!
lilmissintrospective 2 years ago
I AGREE 100% WITH YOU
withlovefrida 2 years ago 2
I hear the intro but i cant hear you talking :(
HOOSIE6 2 years ago
yess maam..he's gay hunni..u dnt get dat bored dat u respond to those ads!! and i agree..um cool wit er1 and a gay guy friend r my fav..their too cool and fun to b around..love u lots hunni
tabbydabody 2 years ago
april, we love you too :) haha
readysetjake 2 years ago
April, its obvious he is gay or bi sexual & obvious her ass know but love him too much & need him too much to wanna' believe it so shes goin' around askin' others they perception on shit she already know about. Cuz we all know if it was him searchin for women she probably would have already been on that ass & you wouldn't be doin' this video for her. That girl knows whats up & needs to cut him. its no different from he talkin' to other women. You know!
p8anut 2 years ago 3
Oh hell naw! I wouldn't like it even if his ass is "curious". If we've been together and you came at me as if you were straight, then dammit that's what your ass needs to be. Otherwise, I'll have to find love elsewhere. "I" couldn't be with no man running up in another man!
brownshuga24 2 years ago 2
Well put April!!!!
d0pestSwag 2 years ago
Wow; crazy. I definitely felt what you said April and everyone else said as well.
rmbb10 2 years ago
April!!! Great video yet again. I just wanted to say with one of my exes, I saw that he had been looking on some site and created a profile saying he was single and looking for threesomes, one night stands, etc. When I confronted him he said it was for "entertainment". I came to find out that he was cheating and this was just one of the ways he was going about doing it. Point is this is definitely a sign that shouldn't be ignored. Keep your eyes open girl.
Jenna83184 2 years ago 2
Aww, i feel ya, same happened to me. whats funny is if our man caught us doing the same, 'advertising" for "fun", they would drop us like a hot potato. They ain't got time for that bull and neither shall we.
babbina 2 years ago
if you're bored can't you play solitaire or something. I think that's a poor excuse. he needs to just be real with you and himself.
diamondprincess848 2 years ago 3
damn, shantel its time to wake up girlfriend. He is gay...does he look at u with passion in his eyes when u make love, does he sometimes stop u in your tracks to tell u how much he loves you during the course of the day sometimes? does he touch you daily in a friendly way or is it romantic?does he kiss u with passion?Does he get hard in the morning sometimes after rolling over and kissin u? If u answered no to all of these, your man is most likely gay.move onto a straight one, theyre the bomb!
anavywife28 2 years ago 5
Good video! Keep it coming.
bikersbabede 2 years ago
Love your advice, u seem so strong and smart.
25aholes 2 years ago
Bisexual is not the same as cheating -- it is fully possible to be *attracted* to both men and women and still be monogamous! I don't think it matters wether Kevin is straight, gay or bi, if he's in what is supposed to be a monogamous relationship and he's "looking" it's not right. If he doesn't think it's a monogamous relationship, then he and Shantel need to communicate!
foxydot 2 years ago 3
April you said you went to school, worked, and had kids... how did you do that because i want to (my son is 1) but i dont see how i can afford childcare ($130 a week), rent, utilities, carfare etc.? i dont want to depend on my fiance for anything anymore but i have no job (right now) and no where else to go (no family)
brokensky84 2 years ago
i really need the advice April because though ppl are judging me they are not giving me any answers or pointing me in the right direction to better my situation
brokensky84 2 years ago
Just b/c he's w/ her doesn't mean he's not gay. Alot of men who r trying to hide the fact that they r gay get in relationships w/ women. I have no prob. w/ gays/lesbians but let's keep it 100 dude is gay. Str8 up. Responding to ads b/c he's bored?! Whr-they-do-that-at? Men who like women don't do that shit. Don't stay w/ him just b/c u don't have a job. If he gives u a disease ur gonna regret it and u have no one to blame but urself.
divalizzous 2 years ago 3
i love you April your amazing, your advice, wisdom in life and attitudes and values. though I do not know you personally, you come across like a great person. I love your videos.
to chantell whether he is gay or not...its not cool to be emailing others those kind of emails. Listen to April her advice is always on point. xoxo
tuaprincessa 2 years ago
gays love you too (:
conswella227 2 years ago
He Bisexual , plain and simply
collegebrat122088 2 years ago
You are way batter than Tyra lmao.. mad funny, good episode
EC0urbanGeNiUs713 2 years ago
I agree with you my friend....I don't judge people...I don't really care what gender a person is..gay,straight, bi..everyone deserves to be respected,loved and cared for..
regarding the advise..I agree with you on that too. he needs to be honest with himself..and with chantel. This will give both of them a chance to live their life the way they want to...
lovekisses99 2 years ago
Ok I dont care how bored a man get he anint gone be lookin at no shit like that and if he do its cause he lookin for a a female
BabyTigga23 2 years ago
Yes April Kevin is bored......Bored with Shantel! if he were straight he'd be on the porn or on the hetero site. She better go rent a room & kick him to the curb!
cowboyboom 2 years ago
april is this the straight hair lace wig from a few videos ago?
msDipped007 2 years ago
I love gay guys, too. They are the best. =D People have questioned my Christianity a couple of times, because I don't have a problem with homosexuality. Excuse them? I don't have to answer to those people. Anyway, I think if a man or a woman is in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, that doesn't mean they aren't gay. She should tell him about the emails she found and ask him more qestions about his sexuality. You gave her great advice, April. =} I hope she sees this video SOON.
4Blindian4 2 years ago
she needs to give it up. sounds to me like she's just using him.
Msbrittanycass 2 years ago
you ain't never lied gay men are the best ppl to hang out with cause you can shop with them and stuff! omg so true! as for the young ladies bf ! girlfriend your man is gay and you should run for the hills because that is some down low stuff! get tested ,do what u gotta do to get away from him because he is lying to you and that's not whats up! and kudos to everything april said!
houstonempress86 2 years ago
I agree with you April. He sounds like he's curious and doesnt know what he wants. He's either gay or bisexual. But he def wants somethin more and somethin different.
HollieLuxx 2 years ago
i love u so much
i love these videos
and im so glad my computer is rid of the stupid virus so i can watch ur videos
bye =)
birds2424 2 years ago
Girl he is what they would called a "down low" brother! Oprah did a whole show on this. I mean as you said there is nothing wrong with someone being gay or bi-sexual but you need to be up front with the person you are with! Especially because of the possibility of bringing home some sort of disease home to the bed you share with your partner! Obviously she is a smart woman...when push comes to shove she doesn't need him to support her. It is in our nature to survive and she can too!!
TraceTrace25 2 years ago
I SO AGREE ! I LOVE THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY but if your gonna represent the "B" and we're in a relationship you need to let me know and not be on the down low
iSingkeke 2 years ago
I don't have a problem with the gay community either, what they do in their personal life has nothing to do with me. Sometimes people can be so cruel and shun them as April said, but I'm sure if a gay person pulled from a burning building or prevented a crazy person from doing bodily harm to them I'm sure the person's sexuality wouldn't matter then!!!! The problem I have is when people withold the truth about their sexual preference when they are in a heterosexual relationship!
tanyatmr 2 years ago
Cmon now! Dude is bi!! And there is nothing wrong with that, but he should have told her that.
NvrSettle 2 years ago
I totally agree with you i don't discriminate...... love to hang out with them just like any one else
klovedavis 2 years ago
<3 ur attitude about my community... I was kicked out of someones blog channell bcause I mentioned that I have a wife & I legally changed my last name 2 hers. I must admit i'm 33yrs old & my feelings were hurt by that. <3 the vid girl
ThePoeticflava 2 years ago 2