This song (album) is about the guy's girlfriend. He must have hurt her and she wasn't able to get over it. She is always getting mad at him and threatening to leave. She makes him feel guilty like he is a terrible person. She has suicidal tendencies and in this song I believe that she breaks up with him or possibly commits suicide I am not sure. He wants to "save" her from her mind he thinks he can but he can't.
@irienaganjaseed I was sure this had been explained a thousand times now. She is a terminally ill bone cancer patient. You have her personality correct, she's emotionally abusive and generally an unpleasant person her hospice nurse falls in love with her anyway and tries to find closer when she eventually dies.
@1curis The cancer is just a metapher and his exgirlfriend probably suffered from borderline. Paranoia, mood swings, depression, being that aggressive & suicidal are all symptoms of that disease. And I guess a pregnancy isn't exactly the healthiest thing for such a person as well. It's horrible what that young couple had to go through..
Or: "The story behind Hospice has been debated, but Silberman has explained the record as being the story of an emotionally abusive relationship, told through the analogy of a Hospice worker and terminally-ill patient." Peter told us what album was about.
@williramone Dubstep... ur an idiot. I don't even know how you even came to this page if you were looking for dubstep. Go listen to dubstep if that's what you want to listen to. Don't insult other types of music.
a pity that the vocals take a backseat to the instrumentals volume and clarity wise since lyrics are obviously the strong point of this band, good songs, bad mix
@scorp1onx Although I agree that the quiet undertone of the vocals can make it a difficult to hear sometimes, I believe it was done for poignancy and to make you listen for more than just a nice tune.
@scorp1onx i like it that way, it makes for a very atmospheric listening. you have to really listen and pay attention to get what he's saying and the quiet laid back tone of his voice is quite nice.
So this is my third song I've listened to by The Antlers and I've fallen for them hard~ I love this kind of music that breaks away from everything and reminds me that underneath all my skin and emotions, I'm something more than just human. I'm something more than just alive. It reminds me that myself, and everyone on this earth... we're just something more.
In 2 weeks I got my heart broken and my identity stolen which is keeping me from being hired on at the best job I have ever had I feel like shit but at least I got the antlers to listen to
In 2 weeks I got my heart broken and my identity stolen which is keeping me from being hired on at the best job I have ever had I feel like shit but at least I got the antlers to listen to
Bear fits in with the album because the entire album is a concept about the death of a relationship. While Silberman hasn't released specifics, the death was probably caused by his girlfriend's self destructive tendencies.
Thus Bear is just another example of how and where things went wrong.
@AmazingNadia he is describing a dream he had, where he and the patient have traded places. Evident from lines like "The bed was mishapen and awkwardly small and clearly intended for you" and " My hair grew longer and my face became yours, my femur was breaking in half, The sensation was siccors and to much to scream so instead I just started to laugh".
I remember first hearing this song.....it was a extremely surreal experience. Every single The Antlers song I hear leaves a special mark that I know I won't forgot. I want to see them live. ._>
@hiphopopotomus999: LOL! Dude, your view on the songs are hilariously incorrect. First of all, epilogue is an ending. He actually says he doesn't work at the hospital ANYMORE. That they had to let him go after the cancer patient he fell in love with died. As for the use of the word "abortion" in Bear... that word is never used. And you all can interpret the lyrics to the individual songs however you want, but it is about a hospital employee falling for a cancer patient and riding out the days.
@MrQuickRick, the word "abortion" isn't in Bear, but his lyrics are,
"There's a bear inside your stomach
the cub's been kicking from within.
He's loud, though without vocal chords
we'll put an end to him.
We'll make all the right appointments
no one ever has to know..."
I must say it's definitely related to abortion, but does it have to be about the woman dying in the album's overall story? Not necessarily HER baby, but abortion is my best guess for that song.
Hospice is not your typical Wah, my girlfriend dumped me album. It actually speaks of a pain very few people can relate to. Theres a very loose story throughout based on the idea of caring for an abusive terminally ill loved one, investing total emotional strength and doing everything possible to no avail. Its a unique sense of hopelessness spoken through singer Peter Silbermans tragically beautiful lyrics backed by soft and swelling instrumentation
The album tells an explicit story (in first and second person narrative) of a man meeting a depressed and abusive bone cancer patient in the Sloan Kettering Cancer Ward where he is working, falling in love, and eventually watching her die while he is beside her. Memories, regret and grief recur throughout the album.[3][4]
are you sure, I dont realy know what I'm talking about, but in bear, they talk about an abortion from when they were yonger, and in kettering, he says, he wished that he had known teh unayable debt that he owed her, and that he walked into the room with tubes in her arm, which infers that they had met earlier? But i realy dont know
@adv1k no i believe if you listen too bear it will explain in a different manner its about a man and his wife who both have a rocky relationship with one another then he finds out shes pregnant(explains the bear kicking inside her) a little later down the road they find out his wife has late stage cancer...
@MegaCatman12 everybody correct me if im wrong, but i think 'Bear' strays from the general story line of the album. its pretty clearly about abortion. im not positive if this is correct, but i dont think your explanation was.
@MegaCatman12 The concept of this album is that conceptual albums have different concepts to the conceptual minds of the listeners, thus creating a story they feel is appropriate to the lyrics being sung which becomes a concept in its own right. However, you are incorrect. The album is what adv1k states, its official. Though Bear does stray.
it doesn't matter what the actual story is. You can feel your own from this amazing album, and isn't that the line between good and bad songs? Your willingness to make it personal?
@DiggnationRocks It does matter what the actual story is lol. The artist made it that way. If it didn't matter, it would obviously just sound like a fucking Nickleback album. And that isn't the line between a good and bad song. Maybe in your opinion, but that just sounds naive of you to say. It's all how the artist feels. If they just make it to make money and don't put themselves into it, that's a bad song.
"The sensation of scissors was too much to scream so instead I just started to laugh..."
PopTartNeko 2 weeks ago
Tommy Hand
136Graham 3 weeks ago
Explained by who exactly?
irienaganjaseed 3 months ago
This song (album) is about the guy's girlfriend. He must have hurt her and she wasn't able to get over it. She is always getting mad at him and threatening to leave. She makes him feel guilty like he is a terrible person. She has suicidal tendencies and in this song I believe that she breaks up with him or possibly commits suicide I am not sure. He wants to "save" her from her mind he thinks he can but he can't.
irienaganjaseed 3 months ago
@irienaganjaseed I was sure this had been explained a thousand times now. She is a terminally ill bone cancer patient. You have her personality correct, she's emotionally abusive and generally an unpleasant person her hospice nurse falls in love with her anyway and tries to find closer when she eventually dies.
1curis 3 months ago
@1curis The cancer is just a metapher and his exgirlfriend probably suffered from borderline. Paranoia, mood swings, depression, being that aggressive & suicidal are all symptoms of that disease. And I guess a pregnancy isn't exactly the healthiest thing for such a person as well. It's horrible what that young couple had to go through..
n0ellez 3 months ago
@n0ellez
Or: "The story behind Hospice has been debated, but Silberman has explained the record as being the story of an emotionally abusive relationship, told through the analogy of a Hospice worker and terminally-ill patient." Peter told us what album was about.
1curis 2 months ago
omg dont listen to this with rainymood open in another tab because you will cry even more than you already are :c
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canibaldelrock 7 months ago
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This is so fucking bad... Where are the hardcore dubstep and drum&bass bass?
Crying emo bitchezzzzzzzzz
williramone 8 months ago
@williramone Dubstep... ur an idiot. I don't even know how you even came to this page if you were looking for dubstep. Go listen to dubstep if that's what you want to listen to. Don't insult other types of music.
And it's not emo. Its Indie folk
MrGuitarman3900 7 months ago 3
@MrGuitarman3900
How about...Indie Emo Dubstep Folk?
THAT would be fucking awesome!
Omegashadowyoshi 7 months ago
@MrGuitarman3900
I was just trolling, Hospice is a fucking masterpiece
williramone 7 months ago 15
No matter how many times i listen to this album i always end up crying. Hospice is without a doubt my favorite album.
Wearenotthewar 8 months ago
Esta canción me causa confunsión, aqui el narrador es la paciente el doctor.
ECHOES2131 9 months ago
a pity that the vocals take a backseat to the instrumentals volume and clarity wise since lyrics are obviously the strong point of this band, good songs, bad mix
scorp1onx 9 months ago
@scorp1onx Although I agree that the quiet undertone of the vocals can make it a difficult to hear sometimes, I believe it was done for poignancy and to make you listen for more than just a nice tune.
nanakieverblaze 8 months ago
@scorp1onx i like it that way, it makes for a very atmospheric listening. you have to really listen and pay attention to get what he's saying and the quiet laid back tone of his voice is quite nice.
thatXotherXperson 8 months ago
obvs.
takemeoutish 9 months ago
At 14 seconds I feel like the song just takes me away somewhere else.
catsaretheshit 10 months ago
@catsaretheshit same.
thatXotherXperson 8 months ago
I am Shiva destroyer of worlds.
EleEliza97 11 months ago
Is this named for the Hindu god of destruction or for the week of mourning of Judiasm?
beccawashere45 11 months ago
@beccawashere45 The second one.
masteretl 10 months ago
So this is my third song I've listened to by The Antlers and I've fallen for them hard~ I love this kind of music that breaks away from everything and reminds me that underneath all my skin and emotions, I'm something more than just human. I'm something more than just alive. It reminds me that myself, and everyone on this earth... we're just something more.
SeanAbesto 1 year ago 22
@SeanAbesto That's the best comment I've ever read on youtube. :)
MrHillyninja 11 months ago
@SeanAbesto That's the best comment I've seen on youtube. :)
MrHillyninja 11 months ago
So beautiful.
ladyleyetcompagnie 1 year ago
a hipster band that i dont exactly hate?
haha im actually enjoying this.
georgeftw6 1 year ago
gosh these songs are actually making me cry they're so depressive sounding and the lyrics are just sad
ratlover35 1 year ago
@ratlover35 cry? lol
ryanguy86 1 year ago
@ryanguy86 yeah cry
ratlover35 1 year ago 2
@ratlover35 yikes...
ryanguy86 1 year ago
This song gives me chills. Hospice is such a wonderfully atmospheric record.
coverasong 1 year ago
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In 2 weeks I got my heart broken and my identity stolen which is keeping me from being hired on at the best job I have ever had I feel like shit but at least I got the antlers to listen to
mitchell420SF 1 year ago
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In 2 weeks I got my heart broken and my identity stolen which is keeping me from being hired on at the best job I have ever had I feel like shit but at least I got the antlers to listen to
mitchell420SF 1 year ago
Bear fits in with the album because the entire album is a concept about the death of a relationship. While Silberman hasn't released specifics, the death was probably caused by his girlfriend's self destructive tendencies.
Thus Bear is just another example of how and where things went wrong.
plegend06 1 year ago 2
Whose POV is this being told from. The patient's, right?
AmazingNadia 1 year ago
@AmazingNadia he is describing a dream he had, where he and the patient have traded places. Evident from lines like "The bed was mishapen and awkwardly small and clearly intended for you" and " My hair grew longer and my face became yours, my femur was breaking in half, The sensation was siccors and to much to scream so instead I just started to laugh".
sarcasmagasm 1 year ago
I just listened to this song for the first time and burst into tears. I've never been this affected by a song.
kasskoffee 1 year ago 3
@kasskoffee the whole album is fantastic! One definitely worth buying.
They are also pretty outstanding live!
unmemorablehero 1 year ago 2
I remember first hearing this song.....it was a extremely surreal experience. Every single The Antlers song I hear leaves a special mark that I know I won't forgot. I want to see them live. ._>
Flurryofdancingsnow 1 year ago
the beginning makes me tear up a bit..
snookisituation17 1 year ago
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vivelavidarocka 1 year ago
@hiphopopotomus999: LOL! Dude, your view on the songs are hilariously incorrect. First of all, epilogue is an ending. He actually says he doesn't work at the hospital ANYMORE. That they had to let him go after the cancer patient he fell in love with died. As for the use of the word "abortion" in Bear... that word is never used. And you all can interpret the lyrics to the individual songs however you want, but it is about a hospital employee falling for a cancer patient and riding out the days.
MrQuickRick 1 year ago
@MrQuickRick, the word "abortion" isn't in Bear, but his lyrics are,
"There's a bear inside your stomach
the cub's been kicking from within.
He's loud, though without vocal chords
we'll put an end to him.
We'll make all the right appointments
no one ever has to know..."
I must say it's definitely related to abortion, but does it have to be about the woman dying in the album's overall story? Not necessarily HER baby, but abortion is my best guess for that song.
charmister 1 year ago
Peter Silberman is more than an amazing musician, he is an amazing poet
soldat182 1 year ago
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THIS IS HORRIBLE
HybridPineapple 1 year ago
I personally think the song wake is the best on the album.
guitarXhero1245 1 year ago
Hospice is not your typical Wah, my girlfriend dumped me album. It actually speaks of a pain very few people can relate to. Theres a very loose story throughout based on the idea of caring for an abusive terminally ill loved one, investing total emotional strength and doing everything possible to no avail. Its a unique sense of hopelessness spoken through singer Peter Silbermans tragically beautiful lyrics backed by soft and swelling instrumentation
lakai958 1 year ago 7
I cried
ScrewNormality1 1 year ago
i'm inlove with this album. i must have it.
Sylsab 1 year ago
the story of this whole album is moving. this song especially.
burnin2ice 1 year ago
I think this is from her point of view; she's talking about being in the hospital and waiting for him to visit her
but you know, that's just one guess
ThinksWithPortals 2 years ago
The album tells an explicit story (in first and second person narrative) of a man meeting a depressed and abusive bone cancer patient in the Sloan Kettering Cancer Ward where he is working, falling in love, and eventually watching her die while he is beside her. Memories, regret and grief recur throughout the album.[3][4]
adv1k 2 years ago 107
are you sure, I dont realy know what I'm talking about, but in bear, they talk about an abortion from when they were yonger, and in kettering, he says, he wished that he had known teh unayable debt that he owed her, and that he walked into the room with tubes in her arm, which infers that they had met earlier? But i realy dont know
hiphopopotomus999 2 years ago
and lol, in the song epilogue it says he doesnt work in the hospital
hiphopopotomus999 2 years ago
and you rlame, because you copy and pasted that from wikipedia
hiphopopotomus999 2 years ago
i should have -Wikipedia'd that
whoops
CITATION SUE INC!!!!
adv1k 2 years ago
@adv1k Bravo on the verbatim wikipedia copy & paste.
cfengler 1 year ago
@adv1k no i believe if you listen too bear it will explain in a different manner its about a man and his wife who both have a rocky relationship with one another then he finds out shes pregnant(explains the bear kicking inside her) a little later down the road they find out his wife has late stage cancer...
thats what this concept album is about lad
MegaCatman12 1 year ago
@MegaCatman12 everybody correct me if im wrong, but i think 'Bear' strays from the general story line of the album. its pretty clearly about abortion. im not positive if this is correct, but i dont think your explanation was.
germaniumbass 1 year ago
@MegaCatman12 The concept of this album is that conceptual albums have different concepts to the conceptual minds of the listeners, thus creating a story they feel is appropriate to the lyrics being sung which becomes a concept in its own right. However, you are incorrect. The album is what adv1k states, its official. Though Bear does stray.
MrQuickRick 1 year ago
@adv1k
Mannnn, I hate it when that happens.
LSDlucid 1 year ago
@LSDlucid
gud 1
adv1k 1 year ago
@adv1k "[3][4]" -no not at all wikipedia =)
cheers though
geeglebear 1 year ago 3
@adv1k Nice Wikipedia "copy and paste".
But the story is also located in the handbook that came with the special version of the downloadable album. (iTunes)
Uqload 1 year ago
@adv1k
that story is used as an extended metaphor for an emotionally abusive relationship.
Vaginalcommunism 1 year ago
@Vaginalcommunism
It's telling the story of THEIR emotionally abusive relationship. Listen to the whole album.
ATwentyCharacterName 1 year ago
@ATwentyCharacterName
I know that and of course i own the album. y u mad?
Vaginalcommunism 1 year ago
@Vaginalcommunism
In your last comment it seemed as though you were separating the two.
ATwentyCharacterName 1 year ago
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xZak777x 10 months ago
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xZak777x 10 months ago
How do you know this?
takemeoutish 9 months ago
@takemeoutish wikipdia obvs.
adv1k 9 months ago
@adv1k gross
partyman147 7 months ago
@partyman147 Gross? Idiot.
It's really beautiful. Go listen to the album as a whole and say it's gross.
3ootehmovie 4 months ago
@3ootehmovie Just listened to it. Gross.
partyman147 4 months ago
@3ootehmovie ... Still gross.
partyman147 4 months ago
2:27 I absolutely love how the trumpet kicks in at this part... I think it's the trumpet. But it's beautiful. :')
bestspelller 2 years ago
i dont quite get the lyric
who is dying? is it the guy or the girl?
pcd295 2 years ago
I'm pretty sure this song is written in the girlfriend who has cancers prospective.
nataliewheeleryo 2 years ago 2
The girl
NLRounder813 2 years ago
his wife is dying
Bayonetsnowskate 2 years ago
@Bayonetsnowskate
your incorrect.
listen to the whole album and dont make assumptions please the actual story this album tells is much more powerful than that.
adv1k 2 years ago
what is this album about. at first i thought it was about a girl dying of cancer then it talks about abortion.. kinda confused
leead22 2 years ago
It's about the relationship between the two, the fact that the female ahs cancer is just a facet of the complications they face.
Talat112 2 years ago
it doesn't matter what the actual story is. You can feel your own from this amazing album, and isn't that the line between good and bad songs? Your willingness to make it personal?
DiggnationRocks 2 years ago
@DiggnationRocks It does matter what the actual story is lol. The artist made it that way. If it didn't matter, it would obviously just sound like a fucking Nickleback album. And that isn't the line between a good and bad song. Maybe in your opinion, but that just sounds naive of you to say. It's all how the artist feels. If they just make it to make money and don't put themselves into it, that's a bad song.
MrQuickRick 1 year ago
@pcd295 listen to the whole album its sooooo much better
alexgillespie1 2 years ago
Wonderful
batistabomber88 2 years ago 22