please a majority of men will say one thing on camera, in front of others, etc. but the real ones will actually DO what they say. Not only that, a majority of men go for women based on looks because Ive seen PLENTY of men go for chicks based solely on they ass and not give a fuck about the bitch making 90gs or more a year. All bullshit a bunch of men are all fuckin talk. BLAH BLAH WAH WAHH!!! Don' heard it all before!!
OMG all is so true and crazy tho a lot of women have no clue it all. But the same can be said about men having no clue what women really want. I think we all need to sit down with our mates and have a serious talk about these things.
To Mr. Donnie Leapheart: I appreciate your feedback about not having that spark with the opposite sex when you dont have things in common. It makes sense to me now why this certain person I was talking to is withdrawing from me because we really dont have nothing in common and I think maybe we bore eachother because we dont have no similarities. Two were different levels, I have that on the grind mentality verses he is just letting the days go by. Im out to get what i want and nothing less.
What different men want varies but what they all have in common is that they want someone to be supportive, loyal, and love them. For examples, he might had said i have basketball game today and you dont have to come if you dont want to; but a smart women would show up because it will show him you care and you want to be apart of what he is doing that he enjoys; thats being supportive. Loyality is having his back whether right or wrong and love is love. Love can be sex, appreciation, and etc.
the question what men really want isnt to answer because every man is different...
The question says that we all have the same thoughts and history thought us that that isnt... each man has other likes or dislikes just be your self but be your confidence self...
great video!! I would like to ask a question pertaining to the other end of the dichotomy: If insecurities can irritate a man, then what is to be said about a woman who is very secure in every aspect, couldn't that be just as irritating? I have gathered that most men like to feel needed. When a women is secure mentally, emotionally, spiritually, morally, physically and finacially; it seems to be intimidating to some men and are furthermore left more in awe of the women is a submissive woman.
Quick question: Why is the video titled what men really want and men throughout the video keep referencing "girls." Let's be respectful and reference women as such. It's belittling and degrading in the 21st century to still hear women referred to as "girls." Its not cool. I like that you got this up though. I think that this is positive and I definitely support but tell the other men to be mindful of that.
the quickest way to these men's heart would be thru the chest with a sharp knife. they have no room to talk about anyone. try finding God instead of a woman thats gonna take care of you and sleep with you. and try cooking for yourself for that matter.
Honestly..... You all hit some nails on the head. But women can also turn the same questions around. I tell you there are some men out there who are fine as hell. As far as knowledge the guys can be dumb as hell. I mean so dumb they make u feel stupid just by listening to the shit coming out their mouth.
On a better note women should know what they want. INTELLEGENT, Kind, strong men who know how to be men and don’t have to constantly be reminded what they are supposed to do. We don’t want kids we want someone to take control. Women won’t tell a man but we look to them to lead because that is supposed to be their role. Now don’t take it too far women stand beside one another and make decisions with men but we love when a man has a since of knowledge and knows how to control a situation.
And we can be strong, I agree some women are just nasty and will hold their noses so high that something may fly in it. But I love being a confident, intelligent, STRONG woman. I’m sure with who I am and what I want.
"If you're insecure, it's gonna drive him nuts, and he's going to leave you." Omg I know. That's why I try to bite back the urge to say anything that's whiny, and that's why I don't fish for complements. I know it's stupid and it'll just get me in trouble.
Honest...can't knock that. A bunch of men...being men. How bout a segment where woman are you included? I totally agree on the ex though; if the two don't match sexually it just will not work.
Honestly wasn't bad and kept it real so can't knock that. And although a woman I'm with you on the sex, if it doesn't 'match' then it won't work AT ALL!
Marriage as a man-made institution? Well, maybe... but only b/c as humans we've been on this earth since at least 25,000 BC/BCE and I doubt marriage has been a part of society for ALL these yrs.
But at the same time, marriage is perfectly natural and just goes with the flow of things now. We can even see how animals pair up for life, ex:sea horses.
All in all, his point was that many women get married just for the sake of it- That's wack. We no longer need men to enjoy a good life.
Al the guy at the end said it best..."insecurities will drive a man crazy and he will end up leaving you woman. Now, i have a question? Is it possible for a man to hold out on sex untill marriage, and not masturbate. or for those holding to the one woman he wants to marry, why is he masturbating?
@BEred2testify I think it is possible for a man to hold out on having sex until marriage, but he will masturbate. A man will either not have sex and masturbate or have sex AND masturbate. The reason why a married man still masturbates is because a man's sex drive is very powerful. We think about sex all of the time. Sometimes you just need to release on your own spontaneously. It doesn't have to be because he's not attracted to his wife anymore. It's nothing personal.
@BEred2testify When we cum, its 4 billion sperm coming out. But every 36 hours we create 4 billion. So you know that means... it has to go somewhere, when you blow up a balloon you can only fill it so much. If not the pressure builds up... Thats why virgins when they get to like 20 & still a virgin, they start to become creepy. If you don't masturbate then your body takes it; ie. a nocturnal emission, u have a wetdream about some girl, & u wake up ur bed full of cum.
People have their own opinions, but marriage man made??? Just say you dont want to be married. Where did they get this info from? Hopefully, these same guys are not out fathering children w/ different women every 5 years. Thats fine don't get married, but plz don't procreate take all your DNA with you.
This was DEEP! But know that there is NO perfect woman or man out there. A person's gonna have flaws, and it depends on how much STAYING POWER a person has in order for that relationship to last. There won't always b perfect days. ;~)
I wish I cared about what men want, but I don't. I listened to less than a minute of the video, so I cannot speak on it, but if it matters to you what a man wants watch the video in its entirety. For the record, I did not seek out this video, it randomly showed up in my inbox and I clicked it.
Brothers, sounds interesting.. but the only thing that truely matters is wut u can provide... ie: wut she precives she deserves...when u peal back all the layers it's the bottom line....an the brother (opposites don't attract).. ur sadly mistaken, the night will always seek the light.. Law of nature...
Too bad more men don't think with their minds and hearts, rather than other parts of their anatomy. But here's the thing: although the interviewer asked if they would have a RELATIONSHIP with a woman based on looks alone, he didn't ask if they would have SEX with a woman based on looks alone. Unfortunately there are many women out there who think that if you have sex with her, it means you WANT a relationship. LOL. Therein lies the problem.
I believe that some of the comments in the video are really interesting...I have to wonder if these statements are REALLY TRUE...but regardless I think the sex thing shouldn't be so high on the priority list. I believe that sex is a talent...it takes time to make sex with your partner AMAZING...so if the first time isn't the best as long as both people are willing to work harder at learning how to please the other the sex can get to where it needs to be!
I love the music and the set up of this video but i disagree with some things..Even if there is no sexual chemistry, that doesnt mean the relationship wont work.you cant base a relationship on sex or even mutual foods.Ex. since we both dont like mac n cheese the relationship wont work.NO NO NO..if the sex isnt up to standard it may b YOU not her.and since there is no chemistry in that part of town jus customize it to meet both of your needs.I sooo need to make a video about this!
Love this video, but honestly I personally am thinking about what I really want these days.... I think women need to find themselves before they go out looking for a man ( not that I thin women should be looking for a man anyway). Searching for love is very overrated these days, don't get me wrong I am not perfect but at this moment its about trying to be happy with yourself. Two many pple men and women try to be someone else when they get in a relationship... Be authenic to yourself...
I thought this was an interesting video. There are many women searching for love and are insecure about themselves. Insecurity produces other traits that can b unappealing like jealousy. However, I must say insecurity works both ways. It is important for a man to be confident about himself and just like it's sexy to men when a woman knows what she wants it is just as sexy to us women.
In regards to the sex topic. Would you respect a woman who chooses to wait for marriage or would she even be
Confidence is a huge key factor in every individual. I don't like being with an insecure guy who feels the need to ' interrogate' my every move, making me feel like i am a serial killer or something. It kind of makes me feel they make accusations due to there own guilt. How can you have a relationship if there is no trust? The one line i hate which men often use is - it's not you i am worried about, it is other men..." In other words, he really means i don't TRUST you with other men around.
You can't tell someone you love them if you don't trust them. Be happy with what God has blessed you with and work with it. Be yourself, not a clone of society. Do what you want, not what everyone else is doing. Find out who you really are deep within yourself and what your wants are before you commit. Sex is a role needed within a relationship, as many claim against. We all have our needs, it is something you discover with each other as every person differs. Confidence helps you explore :)
Wow! So after all the great comments on how "Insightful" you men are, all of you agreed in unison that if the woman wasn't "Good in bed" then you would be on to the next one!.hahah!! Please. You could have saved 7:38 minutes and told us that tidbit in 1!. It all stems down to sex and what cooking you all a meal??! Whatever! And save that ish about how you all prefer "Brains over Beauty" The lies can end at any time now, for i know that is NOT the truth! Don't send me another post on this please.
@DeannDmere Thanks for checking out our clip. I think there is a misunderstanding. What we mean is if there is no sexual chemistry between two people the relationship is bound to suffer. Some people are just not sexually compatible. It is not about an individuals sexual skill that determines sexual compatibility between to lovers.
@notsocommonshow If there is chemistry in every other aspect of the relationship, I believe the man should be open to working on developing better chemistry with his mate in the bedroom. If she can stimulate you mentally as you all proclaimed to value so much over her beauty then, the lack of sparks in the bedroom should only be a small vessel. You men would be surprised as to how many women stick it out, with you all, when some are only mediocre at best in bed! The connection should be deeper..
@DeannDmere For men physical chemistry is the initial attraction. For you to keep a man there has to be substance for him to stay. Chemistry whether physical or mental is either there or it isn't. You have to have both for the relationship to work. No woman should stay in a relationship if she is not getting what she needs. If she stays, that was her choice to continue suffering and it causes a woman to resent her man.
@notsocommonshow ... your video was very insightful. Though some thiings were iffy lol. I do believe there are some good wonderful men out there... for I have one iin my liife and even has a son thats still a baby. I believe that it is based on more beauty over brains in the world today for men. In "A Good Mans" head yes he wants things in common, good sex is good( though you can work together to make sex better), cooking, etc. I see where your going wit ur video though. Try interviewing wmn nxt
@DeannDmere Exactly, how dare you send me this vid. @notsocommonshow You need to change the title as well because I know there's some good men out there that want more than just sex.
Thank you so much for sending this video... This is a subject that I always seek a male's opinion on. And I accidentally flagged as inappropriate... Sorry :(
Thanks for sharing. I appreciated the honest commentary. We don't always get to hear how men really feel and what they really want and respect. I can dig it. ;)
Thanks for sharing. I appreciated the honest commentary. We don't always get to hear how many really feel and what they really want and respect. I can dig it. ;)
Thanks for sharing. I appreciated the honest commentary. We don't always get to hear how many really feel and what they really want and respect. I can dig it. ;)
@roxann79 i'm sorry 'm a man and and don't only want sex!!! are you insane?, as for me i'm looking for true love, a pure friendship and commitment! hey please don't think all men are the same !
Interesting video :) I love hearing men, or people in general, speak on what they want in a realtionship. Honestly it can be hard to narrow it down specifically because you can you want this and that and meet someone that has this and that and then you can still end up not wanting to be with that person. I think that on top of what we want, there are "time frames" or certain sitautions that attract us to certain people, and these "time frames" vary :) great video!!
Very interesting video, thank you for sharing it with me. Sometimes i think men will tell you one thing when asked what type of woman they want, but when the opportunity presents itself they may choose something different. Men and women sometimes like to play the victim "i'm so nice, but no one wants me" role. I feel its important to know who you are before you know who you want to be with, take yourself on a date. Putting God first helps tremendously. I subscribed.
@Hamstring187 I agree U couldn't have said it better.. Same with women.. We may say what we want but when some of us get em .. WE Always get with the opposite of what we Claimed we wanted lol.. .. Will subscribe as well~
yes there are still good men out there black,white,all kind,i think that sometimes you aren't going to find true love with the first few ppl you date,you half to define what you want,except that you want find a perfect man,except god,so with that said you half to just know that he is right for you,and make sure he's no down low brother
Great vid! I think that the insecurities and confidence point is one that lots of women need to hear. We want a man to love us for all of our flaws but at what point do our flaws get in the way of blossoming a healthy relationship? The key is to work on yourself and honestly, love should find its way to you!
Wow it is nice to hear this. I really thought that a lot of men just want a big butt and a smile. I see a lot of men put up with a lot of ish though with really beautiful women who have messed up attitudes b/c they are just so used to men giving into them ALL of the time. I too agree that opposites do not work. You have to have some compatitibility. As a mature woman, I hear on on KNOWING what you want and letting go of insecurities. Thanks for sending me this vid. I learned something.
I think we all have insecurities and if a we cant find special funny ways to help each other feel more comfortable than it wont work. a woman want a man she can talk to and feel herself around. I've had more in common with a foreign guy that speaks no english than most men today. becasue even though he didnt speak my language he sent a loving I'm with you allways vibe to me... we can have fun in many ways. it the love is their its there and the love will bring them closer.
men really want a relationship , freindship that lasts forever . sex is for women . dont believe the lies and the careless :) a true example does exsist
girls jun wanna have fun and guys just wanna be the champ. if beauty makes me feel like i deserve this. if bedroom dont work. you have other things to me its imposible to worry about sex lol men have to step up . use your intelagence. who gone say no to a gentalman . stop worryin about sex and make eachother happy anyway everyway. god comanded us. to be rigtuess and if you have a girl who knows and can believe dat its all you need . not worldly idiology. life is a gift. we should all be satisfi
hell yeah but ied make sure by the end of the date i know if she smart and what her goals are. lol we all the same . ill know if she dumb . wont i? you never know if she is very smart. don judge a book. shecould really be the perfect packadge . just be honest and free. you not married you are dancing around the edge of a bond. if she can understand those laaws given to us there will be no problem . she can be dumb but im the head of the house. she is smart in some way. take it slow, a date
So what woman really want is a Black man?..haha just fooling yo.Good to hear fellas trying to work out their shit when you figure out that there is a high percentage is single mothers even higher in the Black community. And eventually these children become ward of the state by way of welfare or prison when they do not have a proper up bringing.
Men do not want good women they want the girl with the biggest butt and the biggest boobs. Then they say there are no good women yes there is u looking in the right place.Her butt isn't the place u need to look. I have always been a real woman with a big heart. I love to cook i love to spend time with the people i care about but the guy i was talking to told me today he wanted to be alone so how does that happen if u looking for a good woman. I have always supported him through his hard times.
whatever. men want the prettiest girl in the world. they dont want a girl that makes more money than but they dont want a gold digger. that doesnt make sense. all men are shallow as hell. so i dont believe a word you say. *roll my eyes* black men are the worse. i'm a black woman. i'm beautiful. i have goals in my life. i hate drama. i can cook. i can be a great girlfriend. black men dont want me. they dont know what they want. they are not worth my time.
whatever. men want the prettiest girl in the world. they dont want a girl that makes more money than but they dont want a gold digger. that doesnt make sense. all men are shallow as hell. so i dont believe a word you say. *roll my eyes*
the men at the beginning are lying through their teeths. physical attractiveness is what draws you to a person in the first place. quit fronting like it's not a big deal about how interested you are, and also how well you treat the lady based on how pretty she is. another thing is, the brother who said he dated a girl who was hot and boring, well the point is he tried to make it work because she was good looking. how fast would he have dropped her if she were not so cute?
I think a relationship goes both ways ..if both the male and the female or whatever you may prefer are satisfied then the relationship will work. It's basically a give and take situation you can't expect to get if you are not giving!
opposites attract to some degree......if you have nothing in common I cant see how a relationship can remain flowing properly......I have to say thought too much in common is not always good;For instance, you both talk a lot or like to be the center of attention there may be clashing going on so I guess it depends! To add to my comment I think a person should be who they are period and things flow better, for instance, I allow my mate to know my family me without weave or makeup and my true pers
opposites DO ATTRACT! They just dont LAST lol. good video. I believe true good deep relationships develop when both partners realize they are NOT perfect but but the relationship works. The love, communication, chemistry, respect, honor loyalty is all there, but not necessarily what you expected. That type of relationship grows and prospers. So its not about whats looks right or wrong but do yal make a "good" pair. Thats love lasts.
lol, oh I am glad I got this vid, what they were saying was true. Men are actually very simple, in the fact they take life at face value, as women we can't help but over think and want to make something that it is not. So i think this will be a good video for everyone to watch.
& what the hell is this 'insecure' shit ppl keep talkin about.
from what i been seeing, if you do something like call your man/woman 2 c where they are/what they doin, its 'insecure', but if u dont, chances r u r gonna get lied 2/cheated on. so whats the point?
the more of a leash u give someone to roam and not be 'insecure' about it the more they can (will) do shit cause they wont get caught. and vice versa. relationships in todays day, age & society is a dead end no matter which road u take.
@TENNSUMITSUMA I think I hear u on this. It seemed to me that much of the attitude is--as I typically hear in these types of discussions--the success of the relationship is based on the woman and what she does. They come across as young & immature, not taking responsibility for the success of a relationship.
this sound like the same bullshit that manginas say.
coming from a man, what do men want? SEX, food, peace and quiet. done. all these fools talk about communicate, communication, etc. bitches talk too much as it is so there isnt any lack of communication unless the guy isnt communicating back. but then again when guys ran their mouth as much as girls, the girls dont like it. they want to do all the talking and the guy is supposed to do all the listening.
yeah, when i walk around the men say, "wow! look at her big ass brain, lol!" doing interviews and actual life are two different things. but dude was dead on balls accurate about that insecurity. terrible trait for anyone to have male or female.
Hmmm. I'm not sure why this was sent to me as I'm already happily married. This was okay until you got until that ungodly counsel, specifically talking about having sex outside of marriage. Can't subscribe on that basis, but thanks for sharing.
I like an intelligent woman I can trust and respect. Some women you become attracted to the more you get to know them. Some you are attracted to immediately but the more you know them the less the appeal.
man its what ever . if you believe like i belive think like i think . everything gone be alright. i hate the thought of wrong takin over the world . the wrong havin power. meaning there is no hope for the good man
THAT'S WHAT'S UP!!! AS I CAN SEE, I SEE BOYS THAT TURNED INTO MEN.. YOU'LL NEED TO GO NATIONWIDE AND SHOW SOME OF THESE BOYS HOW TO BE A MAN... A MAN DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE A PENIS BETWEEN UR LEGS, A GROWN IS A MAN WITH RESPECT NOT ONLY FOR HIMSELF BUT FOR WOMEN, A MAN WITH CHARACTER, U SEE A LOT OF MEN DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT CHARACTER IS!! THAT'S CRAZY... BUT YOU'LL MOS DEF A GROWN MEN.... CONGRADS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love every thing about this. From the topic, to the music, from the men speaking their minds giving opinions and giving advice speaking from experience. I loved it!!! I'm about to watch again.. Lol thanks for the share. Have a blessed day.
I cant look at this video, for some reason it wont load. but in my opinion i think men want is sex, sex, sex, good food, and be treated like babies when they get sick. LOL
@Scariestkiller huh??? Are you a man? I hope so. I posted that comment to mke fun of my fiance, lol.... Trade a sexy woman for a intelligent, beautiful woman who is open minded.... Sexy goes one way for men!
please a majority of men will say one thing on camera, in front of others, etc. but the real ones will actually DO what they say. Not only that, a majority of men go for women based on looks because Ive seen PLENTY of men go for chicks based solely on they ass and not give a fuck about the bitch making 90gs or more a year. All bullshit a bunch of men are all fuckin talk. BLAH BLAH WAH WAHH!!! Don' heard it all before!!
stillettopumps86 3 months ago
OMG all is so true and crazy tho a lot of women have no clue it all. But the same can be said about men having no clue what women really want. I think we all need to sit down with our mates and have a serious talk about these things.
octaviaty2006 4 months ago
To Mr. Donnie Leapheart: I appreciate your feedback about not having that spark with the opposite sex when you dont have things in common. It makes sense to me now why this certain person I was talking to is withdrawing from me because we really dont have nothing in common and I think maybe we bore eachother because we dont have no similarities. Two were different levels, I have that on the grind mentality verses he is just letting the days go by. Im out to get what i want and nothing less.
quishia 5 months ago
What different men want varies but what they all have in common is that they want someone to be supportive, loyal, and love them. For examples, he might had said i have basketball game today and you dont have to come if you dont want to; but a smart women would show up because it will show him you care and you want to be apart of what he is doing that he enjoys; thats being supportive. Loyality is having his back whether right or wrong and love is love. Love can be sex, appreciation, and etc.
quishia 5 months ago
That's bs I'm with a man initially because I'm attracted to him. If he is boring and stupid I'm out after that.
14malarkey 7 months ago
i loved this got a lot of information very interesting.
k9134 9 months ago
Very interresting and enlighting.
katjackson34 10 months ago
the question what men really want isnt to answer because every man is different...
The question says that we all have the same thoughts and history thought us that that isnt... each man has other likes or dislikes just be your self but be your confidence self...
apocalypse105 11 months ago
are this guys using tinychat?
TheBlackTinkerBell 1 year ago
great video!! I would like to ask a question pertaining to the other end of the dichotomy: If insecurities can irritate a man, then what is to be said about a woman who is very secure in every aspect, couldn't that be just as irritating? I have gathered that most men like to feel needed. When a women is secure mentally, emotionally, spiritually, morally, physically and finacially; it seems to be intimidating to some men and are furthermore left more in awe of the women is a submissive woman.
FLYESTBIRD 1 year ago
Interesting video... it's always good to hear men's opinions on such topics... keep up the great work!
MsVal01 1 year ago
5:45 to 6:00 Is the absolute truth! Insecurity will DESTROY ANY relationship if it cannot be overcome! I know this firsthand!
Masmosaic1 1 year ago
5:45 to 6:00 Is the absolute truth! Insecurity will DESTROY ANY relationship if it cannot be overcome!
Masmosaic1 1 year ago
Quick question: Why is the video titled what men really want and men throughout the video keep referencing "girls." Let's be respectful and reference women as such. It's belittling and degrading in the 21st century to still hear women referred to as "girls." Its not cool. I like that you got this up though. I think that this is positive and I definitely support but tell the other men to be mindful of that.
lenachad123 1 year ago
i guess i was wrong, i found my luv and sex is not what is most important to him. LUV IS. how cute :)
roxann79 1 year ago
the quickest way to these men's heart would be thru the chest with a sharp knife. they have no room to talk about anyone. try finding God instead of a woman thats gonna take care of you and sleep with you. and try cooking for yourself for that matter.
peepla7 1 year ago
Hahaha GREAT vid!
BrutalBassBB 1 year ago
Honestly..... You all hit some nails on the head. But women can also turn the same questions around. I tell you there are some men out there who are fine as hell. As far as knowledge the guys can be dumb as hell. I mean so dumb they make u feel stupid just by listening to the shit coming out their mouth.
iys4siran 1 year ago
On a better note women should know what they want. INTELLEGENT, Kind, strong men who know how to be men and don’t have to constantly be reminded what they are supposed to do. We don’t want kids we want someone to take control. Women won’t tell a man but we look to them to lead because that is supposed to be their role. Now don’t take it too far women stand beside one another and make decisions with men but we love when a man has a since of knowledge and knows how to control a situation.
iys4siran 1 year ago
And we can be strong, I agree some women are just nasty and will hold their noses so high that something may fly in it. But I love being a confident, intelligent, STRONG woman. I’m sure with who I am and what I want.
iys4siran 1 year ago
well do a show how to get your man back .. I want my man back.... Im really stuck on my ex and dnt know what to do
mybeautyisblack 1 year ago
"If you're insecure, it's gonna drive him nuts, and he's going to leave you." Omg I know. That's why I try to bite back the urge to say anything that's whiny, and that's why I don't fish for complements. I know it's stupid and it'll just get me in trouble.
leesway 1 year ago
Honest...can't knock that. A bunch of men...being men. How bout a segment where woman are you included? I totally agree on the ex though; if the two don't match sexually it just will not work.
dakutesskam 1 year ago
Honestly wasn't bad and kept it real so can't knock that. And although a woman I'm with you on the sex, if it doesn't 'match' then it won't work AT ALL!
dakutesskam 1 year ago
Marriage as a man-made institution? Well, maybe... but only b/c as humans we've been on this earth since at least 25,000 BC/BCE and I doubt marriage has been a part of society for ALL these yrs.
But at the same time, marriage is perfectly natural and just goes with the flow of things now. We can even see how animals pair up for life, ex:sea horses.
All in all, his point was that many women get married just for the sake of it- That's wack. We no longer need men to enjoy a good life.
angelicious247 1 year ago
quality of vid not th best buy yall r speaking the truth
bwnsugashay 1 year ago
Well it's all about what the women wants first!
purebrownsugar77 1 year ago
Al the guy at the end said it best..."insecurities will drive a man crazy and he will end up leaving you woman. Now, i have a question? Is it possible for a man to hold out on sex untill marriage, and not masturbate. or for those holding to the one woman he wants to marry, why is he masturbating?
BEred2testify 1 year ago
@BEred2testify I think it is possible for a man to hold out on having sex until marriage, but he will masturbate. A man will either not have sex and masturbate or have sex AND masturbate. The reason why a married man still masturbates is because a man's sex drive is very powerful. We think about sex all of the time. Sometimes you just need to release on your own spontaneously. It doesn't have to be because he's not attracted to his wife anymore. It's nothing personal.
notsocommonshow 1 year ago
@BEred2testify When we cum, its 4 billion sperm coming out. But every 36 hours we create 4 billion. So you know that means... it has to go somewhere, when you blow up a balloon you can only fill it so much. If not the pressure builds up... Thats why virgins when they get to like 20 & still a virgin, they start to become creepy. If you don't masturbate then your body takes it; ie. a nocturnal emission, u have a wetdream about some girl, & u wake up ur bed full of cum.
JHeights83rd 11 months ago
WHAT MEN REALLY WANT? Food & Sex! The end.
kikiharris75 1 year ago
People have their own opinions, but marriage man made??? Just say you dont want to be married. Where did they get this info from? Hopefully, these same guys are not out fathering children w/ different women every 5 years. Thats fine don't get married, but plz don't procreate take all your DNA with you.
omgiheartvideos 1 year ago 2
thanks
themaddi2013 1 year ago
This was DEEP! But know that there is NO perfect woman or man out there. A person's gonna have flaws, and it depends on how much STAYING POWER a person has in order for that relationship to last. There won't always b perfect days. ;~)
CaramelGoddess77 1 year ago
GREAT INSIGHT! THANK YOU GENTLEMEN!
dipsetchick908 1 year ago
its good to hear what men really want but at the end of the day you guys still want the looks over all.... thank god im cute
84Latanya 1 year ago
I wish I cared about what men want, but I don't. I listened to less than a minute of the video, so I cannot speak on it, but if it matters to you what a man wants watch the video in its entirety. For the record, I did not seek out this video, it randomly showed up in my inbox and I clicked it.
taleeni 1 year ago
great insight!
luvmyhair2 1 year ago
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Very good video. I agreed w/ the male point of view very instructive. Thanks:)
JShaw2384 1 year ago
Very good video. I agreed w/ the male point of view very instructive. Thans:)
JShaw2384 1 year ago
Brothers, sounds interesting.. but the only thing that truely matters is wut u can provide... ie: wut she precives she deserves...when u peal back all the layers it's the bottom line....an the brother (opposites don't attract).. ur sadly mistaken, the night will always seek the light.. Law of nature...
snyperkyzer 1 year ago
Too bad more men don't think with their minds and hearts, rather than other parts of their anatomy. But here's the thing: although the interviewer asked if they would have a RELATIONSHIP with a woman based on looks alone, he didn't ask if they would have SEX with a woman based on looks alone. Unfortunately there are many women out there who think that if you have sex with her, it means you WANT a relationship. LOL. Therein lies the problem.
kameelean 1 year ago 3
I believe that some of the comments in the video are really interesting...I have to wonder if these statements are REALLY TRUE...but regardless I think the sex thing shouldn't be so high on the priority list. I believe that sex is a talent...it takes time to make sex with your partner AMAZING...so if the first time isn't the best as long as both people are willing to work harder at learning how to please the other the sex can get to where it needs to be!
gardn206 1 year ago
very insightful
BlissSoSweet 1 year ago
I love the music and the set up of this video but i disagree with some things..Even if there is no sexual chemistry, that doesnt mean the relationship wont work.you cant base a relationship on sex or even mutual foods.Ex. since we both dont like mac n cheese the relationship wont work.NO NO NO..if the sex isnt up to standard it may b YOU not her.and since there is no chemistry in that part of town jus customize it to meet both of your needs.I sooo need to make a video about this!
MsTae911 1 year ago
Very insightful keep the videos coming!!
Msmikca 1 year ago
Love this video, but honestly I personally am thinking about what I really want these days.... I think women need to find themselves before they go out looking for a man ( not that I thin women should be looking for a man anyway). Searching for love is very overrated these days, don't get me wrong I am not perfect but at this moment its about trying to be happy with yourself. Two many pple men and women try to be someone else when they get in a relationship... Be authenic to yourself...
eneevents1621 1 year ago
I thought this was an interesting video. There are many women searching for love and are insecure about themselves. Insecurity produces other traits that can b unappealing like jealousy. However, I must say insecurity works both ways. It is important for a man to be confident about himself and just like it's sexy to men when a woman knows what she wants it is just as sexy to us women.
In regards to the sex topic. Would you respect a woman who chooses to wait for marriage or would she even be
brownsecrets22 1 year ago
Confidence is a huge key factor in every individual. I don't like being with an insecure guy who feels the need to ' interrogate' my every move, making me feel like i am a serial killer or something. It kind of makes me feel they make accusations due to there own guilt. How can you have a relationship if there is no trust? The one line i hate which men often use is - it's not you i am worried about, it is other men..." In other words, he really means i don't TRUST you with other men around.
SkyeHighness 1 year ago
You can't tell someone you love them if you don't trust them. Be happy with what God has blessed you with and work with it. Be yourself, not a clone of society. Do what you want, not what everyone else is doing. Find out who you really are deep within yourself and what your wants are before you commit. Sex is a role needed within a relationship, as many claim against. We all have our needs, it is something you discover with each other as every person differs. Confidence helps you explore :)
SkyeHighness 1 year ago
@SkyeHighness So true!
regisnyder 1 year ago
@regisnyder very much true indeed....but folks don't deal well with the truth...
snyperkyzer 1 year ago
Very Insiteful!
kel91081 1 year ago
thank you for sharing. subbed. Peace.
dagoodnegress 1 year ago
I love this.. I always love 2 know things from a man's point of view.
shorTboo 1 year ago
Wow! So after all the great comments on how "Insightful" you men are, all of you agreed in unison that if the woman wasn't "Good in bed" then you would be on to the next one!.hahah!! Please. You could have saved 7:38 minutes and told us that tidbit in 1!. It all stems down to sex and what cooking you all a meal??! Whatever! And save that ish about how you all prefer "Brains over Beauty" The lies can end at any time now, for i know that is NOT the truth! Don't send me another post on this please.
DeannDmere 1 year ago 16
@DeannDmere Thanks for checking out our clip. I think there is a misunderstanding. What we mean is if there is no sexual chemistry between two people the relationship is bound to suffer. Some people are just not sexually compatible. It is not about an individuals sexual skill that determines sexual compatibility between to lovers.
notsocommonshow 1 year ago
@notsocommonshow If there is chemistry in every other aspect of the relationship, I believe the man should be open to working on developing better chemistry with his mate in the bedroom. If she can stimulate you mentally as you all proclaimed to value so much over her beauty then, the lack of sparks in the bedroom should only be a small vessel. You men would be surprised as to how many women stick it out, with you all, when some are only mediocre at best in bed! The connection should be deeper..
DeannDmere 1 year ago 12
@DeannDmere For men physical chemistry is the initial attraction. For you to keep a man there has to be substance for him to stay. Chemistry whether physical or mental is either there or it isn't. You have to have both for the relationship to work. No woman should stay in a relationship if she is not getting what she needs. If she stays, that was her choice to continue suffering and it causes a woman to resent her man.
notsocommonshow 1 year ago
@notsocommonshow ... your video was very insightful. Though some thiings were iffy lol. I do believe there are some good wonderful men out there... for I have one iin my liife and even has a son thats still a baby. I believe that it is based on more beauty over brains in the world today for men. In "A Good Mans" head yes he wants things in common, good sex is good( though you can work together to make sex better), cooking, etc. I see where your going wit ur video though. Try interviewing wmn nxt
oliviaboyd2010 1 year ago
@DeannDmere The same, don't want your vids anymore
nar6ika 1 year ago
@nar6ika Right! Let them try to sell this ish to someone else! We aint buying!
DeannDmere 1 year ago
@DeannDmere Exactly, how dare you send me this vid. @notsocommonshow You need to change the title as well because I know there's some good men out there that want more than just sex.
Babisinge 1 year ago 2
@Babisinge Right! Insightful my ashy knee caps! GTHOH!!
DeannDmere 1 year ago
@DeannDmere Amen! (and I haven't even listened to the clip, so I know not to bother)
Papillonmuscogee 1 year ago
@DeannDmere lol! They say the best way to get to a man is through his stomach. Of course if he's a true man of God this video may not apply.
nbyrd202 1 year ago
Thanks for the posting. Very informative.
krsnax1 1 year ago
Very interesting! Its not often a woman hear these subjects being discussed from a mans point-of-view. Thanks for sharing
PurpleRoyaltee88 1 year ago
"It is common knowledge that men see better than they think."- forgot who said it but it made me laugh.
This video was insightful. Thanks for posting.
thewritepassion 1 year ago
Awesome discussion. Glad I got to see it. Thank you!
AlphaEssentials 1 year ago
Thanks for sending this to me!!! I love to see men have a roundtable discussion. Looking forward to seeing more video's.
itsreddog2 1 year ago
These were some honest and insightful men. i agreed with most of what they said.
goodessarts3374 1 year ago
Thank you so much for sending this video... This is a subject that I always seek a male's opinion on. And I accidentally flagged as inappropriate... Sorry :(
StellaMillz 1 year ago
i wouldnt wanna be wit a girl who has sex on the first date.
Cody12355 1 year ago
This is "HOT!" I'm subscribing.
1agenda01 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing. I appreciated the honest commentary. We don't always get to hear how men really feel and what they really want and respect. I can dig it. ;)
vddavis123 1 year ago
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Thanks for sharing. I appreciated the honest commentary. We don't always get to hear how many really feel and what they really want and respect. I can dig it. ;)
vddavis123 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing. I appreciated the honest commentary. We don't always get to hear how many really feel and what they really want and respect. I can dig it. ;)
vddavis123 1 year ago
I <3 this
debbie2009able 1 year ago
all men want is sex, contrary to what they say!
roxann79 1 year ago
@roxann79 i'm sorry 'm a man and and don't only want sex!!! are you insane?, as for me i'm looking for true love, a pure friendship and commitment! hey please don't think all men are the same !
vyrgo84 1 year ago
all men want is sex, cotrary to wat they say!
roxann79 1 year ago
This Is so True Great Video
tbell1967 1 year ago
Thank! good info...
Beautifulpounds 1 year ago
good video
kthename08 1 year ago
Interesting video :) I love hearing men, or people in general, speak on what they want in a realtionship. Honestly it can be hard to narrow it down specifically because you can you want this and that and meet someone that has this and that and then you can still end up not wanting to be with that person. I think that on top of what we want, there are "time frames" or certain sitautions that attract us to certain people, and these "time frames" vary :) great video!!
cierrantionette 1 year ago
Bravo!! I like this concept.
Afrykah21 1 year ago
Very interesting video, thank you for sharing it with me. Sometimes i think men will tell you one thing when asked what type of woman they want, but when the opportunity presents itself they may choose something different. Men and women sometimes like to play the victim "i'm so nice, but no one wants me" role. I feel its important to know who you are before you know who you want to be with, take yourself on a date. Putting God first helps tremendously. I subscribed.
Hamstring187 1 year ago
@Hamstring187 I agree U couldn't have said it better.. Same with women.. We may say what we want but when some of us get em .. WE Always get with the opposite of what we Claimed we wanted lol.. .. Will subscribe as well~
Redloveschance 1 year ago
very good vid
almondbrown09 1 year ago
yes there are still good men out there black,white,all kind,i think that sometimes you aren't going to find true love with the first few ppl you date,you half to define what you want,except that you want find a perfect man,except god,so with that said you half to just know that he is right for you,and make sure he's no down low brother
TASHIAWATKINS 1 year ago
Great vid! I think that the insecurities and confidence point is one that lots of women need to hear. We want a man to love us for all of our flaws but at what point do our flaws get in the way of blossoming a healthy relationship? The key is to work on yourself and honestly, love should find its way to you!
MsTruleee 1 year ago
Wow it is nice to hear this. I really thought that a lot of men just want a big butt and a smile. I see a lot of men put up with a lot of ish though with really beautiful women who have messed up attitudes b/c they are just so used to men giving into them ALL of the time. I too agree that opposites do not work. You have to have some compatitibility. As a mature woman, I hear on on KNOWING what you want and letting go of insecurities. Thanks for sending me this vid. I learned something.
mpenny226 1 year ago
I can really give a dam about looks.All i want is a women with morals and that can be a good mother to my kids,not a hoe,not money hungry and etc.
mrgentlemen4u 1 year ago
I think we all have insecurities and if a we cant find special funny ways to help each other feel more comfortable than it wont work. a woman want a man she can talk to and feel herself around. I've had more in common with a foreign guy that speaks no english than most men today. becasue even though he didnt speak my language he sent a loving I'm with you allways vibe to me... we can have fun in many ways. it the love is their its there and the love will bring them closer.
skygodess003 1 year ago
men really want a relationship , freindship that lasts forever . sex is for women . dont believe the lies and the careless :) a true example does exsist
yoboyjean 1 year ago
girls jun wanna have fun and guys just wanna be the champ. if beauty makes me feel like i deserve this. if bedroom dont work. you have other things to me its imposible to worry about sex lol men have to step up . use your intelagence. who gone say no to a gentalman . stop worryin about sex and make eachother happy anyway everyway. god comanded us. to be rigtuess and if you have a girl who knows and can believe dat its all you need . not worldly idiology. life is a gift. we should all be satisfi
yoboyjean 1 year ago
hell yeah but ied make sure by the end of the date i know if she smart and what her goals are. lol we all the same . ill know if she dumb . wont i? you never know if she is very smart. don judge a book. shecould really be the perfect packadge . just be honest and free. you not married you are dancing around the edge of a bond. if she can understand those laaws given to us there will be no problem . she can be dumb but im the head of the house. she is smart in some way. take it slow, a date
yoboyjean 1 year ago
So what woman really want is a Black man?..haha just fooling yo.Good to hear fellas trying to work out their shit when you figure out that there is a high percentage is single mothers even higher in the Black community. And eventually these children become ward of the state by way of welfare or prison when they do not have a proper up bringing.
FunkDoppler 1 year ago
good video.
what yall should talk about is how some men play too many games.
and also how men say they want a strong woman but once they get it, they dont know how to handle her.
AyannaSunshine 1 year ago
Very nicely done and a great topic! Will follow more!!
koitsme 1 year ago
I REALLY DIG THIS MY MAN THAT REAL
64johnnycool 1 year ago
Men do not want good women they want the girl with the biggest butt and the biggest boobs. Then they say there are no good women yes there is u looking in the right place.Her butt isn't the place u need to look. I have always been a real woman with a big heart. I love to cook i love to spend time with the people i care about but the guy i was talking to told me today he wanted to be alone so how does that happen if u looking for a good woman. I have always supported him through his hard times.
Blacknatural08 1 year ago
-lol , i agree !
younqcass13 1 year ago
Thanks guys for sharing!!
AfroMohawkable 1 year ago
This is nice Very impressed!!!
sutherncandyt 1 year ago
LOLOLOL this is cute---real informative
MahoghanyBlu 1 year ago
whatever. men want the prettiest girl in the world. they dont want a girl that makes more money than but they dont want a gold digger. that doesnt make sense. all men are shallow as hell. so i dont believe a word you say. *roll my eyes* black men are the worse. i'm a black woman. i'm beautiful. i have goals in my life. i hate drama. i can cook. i can be a great girlfriend. black men dont want me. they dont know what they want. they are not worth my time.
afrikahchick 1 year ago
whatever. men want the prettiest girl in the world. they dont want a girl that makes more money than but they dont want a gold digger. that doesnt make sense. all men are shallow as hell. so i dont believe a word you say. *roll my eyes*
afrikahchick 1 year ago
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mariaR12345 1 year ago
wow great video... i feel exactly the same way about men.....from the beginning of the video until the end...right on brotha....
irenestanciel 1 year ago
Marriage is a man-made institution????!!!!
How about a video interviewing men w/ substance & character? Where's that 1?
MsFruitbasket 1 year ago 15
@MsFruitbasket they need to read the bible huh. marriage is ordained by God....book of Genesis even.
peepla7 1 year ago
@peepla7 right! U don't have to look far. . .just read the first couple of pages. lol
*hi-5 @peepla**
MsFruitbasket 1 year ago
nice vid
deede1 1 year ago
i like donnie e:-)
iluvnyc07 1 year ago
Its definitely good to hear brothers speak on a positive note!!
sexyinnbrown 1 year ago
the men at the beginning are lying through their teeths. physical attractiveness is what draws you to a person in the first place. quit fronting like it's not a big deal about how interested you are, and also how well you treat the lady based on how pretty she is. another thing is, the brother who said he dated a girl who was hot and boring, well the point is he tried to make it work because she was good looking. how fast would he have dropped her if she were not so cute?
iroc31407 1 year ago 3
Hey i would love for you all to do a video on this light skin dark skin thing.
temickab 1 year ago
This was very nice and highly informative. I appreciate you sending it out to me!
misschanel51987 1 year ago
Loved the video!
needlove2009 1 year ago
Very Interesting points and I appreciate you sharing with me... Much Success
prettycarmencurls 1 year ago
Loved the video! I def subscribed, so keep em comin!
AmbiSheGorgeous 1 year ago
Loved the video! I def subscribed, so keep em comin!
AmbiSheGorgeous 1 year ago
I think a relationship goes both ways ..if both the male and the female or whatever you may prefer are satisfied then the relationship will work. It's basically a give and take situation you can't expect to get if you are not giving!
MrsCandi02 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing
loretta3d 1 year ago
thanks very informative keep em coming lol
sugarfreenow 1 year ago
i like this!
dallasebony 1 year ago
yes
FrenchMercenary 1 year ago
Thank you for sharing this.
perkydoo 1 year ago
i'm a lesbian so why did some one seen me this shit
bcount1 1 year ago
I really enjoyed watchin... this very interesting
vona16 1 year ago
I heard a saying: opposites attract but similars stick together :)
paralyzer1111 1 year ago 2
opposites attract to some degree......if you have nothing in common I cant see how a relationship can remain flowing properly......I have to say thought too much in common is not always good;For instance, you both talk a lot or like to be the center of attention there may be clashing going on so I guess it depends! To add to my comment I think a person should be who they are period and things flow better, for instance, I allow my mate to know my family me without weave or makeup and my true pers
ikeashiasanders29 1 year ago
Like it...
latoriababyphat 1 year ago
@notsocommonshow-Excellent points of view. Also informative to myself on relations with women now and in the future. Thank you!
Dakers11 1 year ago
HAHA! he said "write it down, leave me a note"
opposites DO ATTRACT! They just dont LAST lol. good video. I believe true good deep relationships develop when both partners realize they are NOT perfect but but the relationship works. The love, communication, chemistry, respect, honor loyalty is all there, but not necessarily what you expected. That type of relationship grows and prospers. So its not about whats looks right or wrong but do yal make a "good" pair. Thats love lasts.
Nitra813 1 year ago
lol, oh I am glad I got this vid, what they were saying was true. Men are actually very simple, in the fact they take life at face value, as women we can't help but over think and want to make something that it is not. So i think this will be a good video for everyone to watch.
prissy232 1 year ago
I enjoyed watching this video. The guys are hilarious but they are really speaking the truth. Thanks for sharing
jnellegirl 1 year ago
The men have a good point! And I agree with them on many levels
amabelscorner 1 year ago
I approve some of these messages.
ConciousEcho 1 year ago
& what the hell is this 'insecure' shit ppl keep talkin about.
from what i been seeing, if you do something like call your man/woman 2 c where they are/what they doin, its 'insecure', but if u dont, chances r u r gonna get lied 2/cheated on. so whats the point?
the more of a leash u give someone to roam and not be 'insecure' about it the more they can (will) do shit cause they wont get caught. and vice versa. relationships in todays day, age & society is a dead end no matter which road u take.
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago
@TENNSUMITSUMA I think I hear u on this. It seemed to me that much of the attitude is--as I typically hear in these types of discussions--the success of the relationship is based on the woman and what she does. They come across as young & immature, not taking responsibility for the success of a relationship.
MsFruitbasket 1 year ago
this sound like the same bullshit that manginas say.
coming from a man, what do men want? SEX, food, peace and quiet. done. all these fools talk about communicate, communication, etc. bitches talk too much as it is so there isnt any lack of communication unless the guy isnt communicating back. but then again when guys ran their mouth as much as girls, the girls dont like it. they want to do all the talking and the guy is supposed to do all the listening.
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago
yeah, when i walk around the men say, "wow! look at her big ass brain, lol!" doing interviews and actual life are two different things. but dude was dead on balls accurate about that insecurity. terrible trait for anyone to have male or female.
armywife2248 1 year ago
Hmmm. I'm not sure why this was sent to me as I'm already happily married. This was okay until you got until that ungodly counsel, specifically talking about having sex outside of marriage. Can't subscribe on that basis, but thanks for sharing.
redeemed2bfree 1 year ago
This guys are imature. They need god. Aman.
nightime1000 1 year ago 2
I really like this show! Thanks for sending this to me. I'm subscribing. Kudos!
ayanaglaze 1 year ago
I like an intelligent woman I can trust and respect. Some women you become attracted to the more you get to know them. Some you are attracted to immediately but the more you know them the less the appeal.
Geezyone 1 year ago
man its what ever . if you believe like i belive think like i think . everything gone be alright. i hate the thought of wrong takin over the world . the wrong havin power. meaning there is no hope for the good man
yoboyjean 1 year ago
bullshit.
kahleentenshi 1 year ago
Cool
ART1975CZ 1 year ago
THAT'S WHAT'S UP!!! AS I CAN SEE, I SEE BOYS THAT TURNED INTO MEN.. YOU'LL NEED TO GO NATIONWIDE AND SHOW SOME OF THESE BOYS HOW TO BE A MAN... A MAN DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE A PENIS BETWEEN UR LEGS, A GROWN IS A MAN WITH RESPECT NOT ONLY FOR HIMSELF BUT FOR WOMEN, A MAN WITH CHARACTER, U SEE A LOT OF MEN DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT CHARACTER IS!! THAT'S CRAZY... BUT YOU'LL MOS DEF A GROWN MEN.... CONGRADS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MsAYANNA2010 1 year ago
LOL...IM JUS A STRONG WOMEN....no thts nasty!!! lol..
ima a female nd agreed..
AzulDiamond93 1 year ago
lol...what is this?
AzulDiamond93 1 year ago
so true.....
brieea 1 year ago
Where were you guys hiding when I was single and on the dating scene lol. I agree 100% with you all.
vanie0295 1 year ago
I love every thing about this. From the topic, to the music, from the men speaking their minds giving opinions and giving advice speaking from experience. I loved it!!! I'm about to watch again.. Lol thanks for the share. Have a blessed day.
tokyosuni 1 year ago 8
LOL, this was funny
bajankk 1 year ago
I cant really hear what they're saying over the music
ExotiqBeautii 1 year ago
I cant look at this video, for some reason it wont load. but in my opinion i think men want is sex, sex, sex, good food, and be treated like babies when they get sick. LOL
temickab 1 year ago 45
@temickab You realize though if men did not want sex so bad 98% of them would not give women the time of day.
If men stopped thinking with their dicks women would be in some serious trouble.
ManSpeakOut 1 year ago
@ManSpeakOut lol
temickab 1 year ago
@temickab - Sounds like a good way to live to me. :-D
morpheusxnyc 1 year ago
@morpheusxnyc lol
temickab 1 year ago
@temickab
Then am I not a man? Lol. I don't know about any other guy, but I'd trade a sexual affair for a really beautiful melody to come to mind. ^.^
Scariestkiller 1 year ago
@Scariestkiller huh??? Are you a man? I hope so. I posted that comment to mke fun of my fiance, lol.... Trade a sexy woman for a intelligent, beautiful woman who is open minded.... Sexy goes one way for men!
temickab 1 year ago