RANT: WTF is going on in America With Black People? IR dating (And other stuff) Pt 2

[TroubleMan21C]

Truthfully it's really not that bad here (there are problems though)... thing is you have a lot of lunatics both men and women venting their frustrations on youtube and this in not a good representation of the black american population, this so called gender war in the black community is mainly perpetrated by a small percentage of the community that for some reason or another are bitter towards the opposite sex... btw. love your videos, you make some very good points to be so young.

[Dnajah27]

@TroubleMan21C Thank you :)

[seinfeildsucks]

Thats sad Young black girls like her are seeing these hateful videos on youtube and getting destrubed at them. Little girl most of these men are broken and full of self hate. They don't have the balls to go up to a white man and ask for his freedom so his women are getting the hate. Don't worry you will probably grow up to be better than them and they are going to burn in youtube hell.

[Dnajah27]

@seinfeildsucks Trust me, I'm not gonna let the b.s phase me !

[CheezInspector]

What is your perception based on? I've heard plenty of conflicted commentary from British people, as it regards this subject ... and I've heard plenty of conflicted commentary from Americans as well. Your country is no more "color blind" than our country is IMO.

[Dnajah27]

not as many as america.

[CheezInspector]

Young lady, you need to learn a little more about American culture before you make blanket statements about how people here think, versus in your country. And there's no reason to think people in IR relationships in England are any more stable than the ones here.

[Dnajah27]

well Americans seem to be bothered about it a hell of a lot more than people in Birtain, that's for sure.

[moderadonna]

She is basing her perceptions on all of the hateful videos placed on youtube by people in the United States. If you don't want people to make blanket statements, then you guys need to control the lunatics.

[Dnajah27]

not youtube only. Forums, Chat shows and just interacting with American on the web.

[Michaelangelina]

Are you joking? There can be a comparison made between IR dating and pairing in the UK and the USA. The strange thing is you are focusing on the USA's IR dating practices, when it is much more common in the UK.

[Dnajah27]

When i'm saying you can't compare, I mean that IR dating in America between BLACK people seems to be a cop out for some reason. Over here we IR date cos we wanna date whoever we please. There's a load of history behind IR dating in America. Black men in the UK were never hung for dating a white woman like black men in the USA. Black men here are free to do as they please. Yes people will always have shit to say, but not like in the USA. Its common in the UK cos we were never told not to do it.

[Michaelangelina]

I still beg to differ. Black men, even in the UK, have history of being self hating and therefore often times choose women based on that self hate. Moreover, many bm in the UK come from parts of the world like the USA and Jamaica where the underlying issues which lead them to date non black women are still the same!!! You are wrong on this one.

[Dnajah27]

You don't really get black men from the USA here, but yes, we have Black men from Jamaica here. What makes you think that a black person especially man dating outside his race automatically means he hates being black?

And explain why you think black men are self-hating. I'm interested.

[Michaelangelina]

I dont think it automatically means a bm hates BW, I just think some are underestimating the impact of self hate and media to undermine black women as mates for ANY man. You are naive to believe that BM in the UK date IR for superior reasons than Bm in the US. Your age is showing.

[Dnajah27]

Superior reasons? I said no such thing. What do you mean?

[Michaelangelina]

What I am saying, is that self hate in bm or b people is self hate all over the world. You believe and you want others to falsely believe that Black Americans mix race based on INFERIOR reasons, while those in the Carribean do it for love or because it is nothing. That is not true. Blacks are self hating and color struck all over the world. Your ages shows in this video.

[Dnajah27]

Oh I see....alright.

[free2mention]

its as if whose that are asleep don't really exist on the spiritual plane,racial insanity is taking over this world.its not about race! da darkness is a respecter of no one and no race

[teacherofculture]

Beloved, the history is EXACTLY the same. the British were some of the most repressive, oppressive people to walk the earth.

the atrocities they committed against the Jamaican blacks was incredible. they never speak about that though.

If a black man marries a white woman in any country it's probably because they have a lot of self hatred. even in UK. It's not different.

[Dnajah27]

Really??? But I know a lot of Black guys who have dated black girls and white girls and don't seem to hate themselves. If they hate themselves why would they socialise with black people at all?

[teacherofculture]

you aren't a psychologist. you don't know what's going inside your head. but picture this. if you chase after a woman who looks nothing like your mother and father, then there is something innately wrong going on.

I've seen blacks date whites etc too and they sure don't seem like it. but you have to check the signs and symbols that they use.

do they wear their hair natural

do they preffer natural girls

do they say things like "good hair"

do they make fun of africentric features (big lips, skin

[teacherofculture]

dark skin I mean, big butt, legs, nappy hair, short hair, big eyes) when people make fun of that stuff they are showing their self hatred.

if they value the opposite though, skinny, light eyes, light hair, light skin, they are showing that they have a problem with what their ancestors blessed them with.

[Dnajah27]

What if they're light skinned, with a small nose, small lips but they're still black? are they self hating even though they don't have broad features?

[Dnajah27]

Wrong going on?? Why? So if i dated, I dunno a Light Skinned African American, I hate dark skinned people and caribbeans simply because my partner isn't one? My mother is light skinned and my dad is proper DARK skinned! I don't hate them at all.

I know this black guy who's ex is dark skinned, natural hair and very pretty girl, his new girlfriend is Half white and indian. VERY light skinned, she looks Turkish with jet black hair? does he hate himself?

[teacherofculture]

it's crazy. I replied to this but it didn't go thru. so I'll try again.

Afrikan people are the original people of the earth so every facial and skintype is from us. therefore we have individuals all throughout our people that look different. (straight hair, pointy nose, chinky eyes, short, tall, light, dark, fat, skinny, etc....) if you happen to choose one of them and marry and procreate it dosen't necessarly mean you have self image issues. If however you ONLY go for light skin, light eyes..

[teacherofculture]

and/or you periodically go to change your own apperance (perm, skin bleach, plastic surgury) then 100% you do have a problem and need to work on it.

as I said our people run the gamut of phenotypes. I'm kind of brown skinned and have not kinda nappy-curly hair, but most of my family is pretty light skin with very nappy hair. with that in mind, one shouldn't have to leave our 'race' as you put it. we have all we need already!

[Dnajah27]

I get what you mean though.

[Dnajah27]

couldn't it be a preference? I'm not talking about guys who think dark skinned girls are ugly, but there are some guys who date both but have a preference for light skinned girls.

[teacherofculture]

the mixing that was going on in the carribean was more likely than not, forced. At least the white on black side of it.

[Dnajah27]

Okay, If you're talking about white people then i can understand. But mixing in the caribbean between ALL races was going on. You have MANY people like myself who has a Chinese and Indian parentage somewhere down the line. Not ALL of course. You can even go on youtube and see the amount of Mixed race Caribbean's ESPECIALLY Jamaicans who are over 80 years old.

[teacherofculture]

Mixing with another oppressed people is not the same as mixing with your oppressor. At one time, damn near the whole earth was part of the British empire. even parts of china and they would take Chinese to work the mines and railroads in their foreign colonies. they would do the same with Asian Indians. and American Indians. if a black oppressed and a Chinese or Indian oppressed mixes that just natural. they have a common plight that makes them feel togetherness and commonality.

[teacherofculture]

I hear you, one of my best friends is black but he looks Chinese. he knows who he is though.

[Dnajah27]

But there's black people who have "chinese eyes" but aren't mixed with anything.

I get what you're saying though.

[teacherofculture]

yea we have the whole gamut of genetics. but the Afrikans in north and south America with Chinese features are most likely mixed.

I say this because the majority of us came from north west Africa. the afrikans with Asian features live in the south west. they are called Khoisan.

[Dnajah27]

Oh righht, cos my friend is from West African but she has very narrow chinese looking eyes. Like Naomi Campbell but Naomi is mixed, Chinese Jamaican just like Tyson Beckford.

[teacherofculture]

and tiger woods and sean paul

[Dnajah27]

exactly.

[dlfunky]

everyone says i have chinese eyes however my parents are both ghanian. I am often mistaken for west indian though -strange.

[Dnajah27]

lol some people think i'm ghanian and sometimes i mistake some ghanians for being west indian.

Ghanians are beautiful people. I went out with a ghanian boy. Very handsome and his sister was GORGEOUS. She had FLAWLESS skin!

[dlfunky]

lol thanx! my mum and sister have great skin unfortunately i dont though.

[Dnajah27]

Aww, I have a pizza face. I'm getting the teenage acne :(

[dlfunky1]

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[Dnajah27]

OMG you life saver. Thank you. I was talking about my acne problem with my friends. I didn't know whether it was my hair grease or simply too much sweet food. lol Both probably.

[dlfunky]

aww thanx and good luck with it.

[Dnajah27]

I looked on the website £10.99 :(

I'll have to beg for it...

[dlfunky]

its not that much i got mine for £5.49 for 60 caps and theres a sale on now. (holland) I'm sure its much cheaper than that. Dont trust the website go to the shop there are different varieties