Top Ten Mistakes Men Make in Online Dating (Video)

[StoneCold75]

Great tips...I am guilty of #9 alot on POF..esp with hot women, if I email back and forth for a while and she says shes "not ready" to meet for a date yet or even a phone number exchange I bolt...Am I rushing things?.

[boondocksharrypotter]

Fuck everytime I go on this vid my screen freezes!!!

[readytoride08]

I use Plenty of Fish and have great results!

[twinsouls]

What do you think of Plenty of Fish?

[NicoPrincely]

@twinsouls I think it's like any other dating site except that it's free. What I teach will work on dating sites but it works better, much better on social networking sites.

I have used plenty of fish and had some results but nothing compared to my success on Social Networking sites.

[Feterlj]

I see more girls making mistake number 3 than guys, haha

[gunnora]

You missed a couple of things. Women don't have the "eyes-to-groin" wiring that men do, so nude pictures or worse, close-up photos of genitals, don't do anything to interest or excite women.

yyour picture should work to appeal to what women are looking for. Add a little romance or power to the shot.  To many women a nice suit says both "power" and "money". Add a rose and a smile in that pic and it's a winner. Dress to impress.

[NicoPrincely]

It all depends on the women.

Some woman do have the eyes-to-groin wiring. The last woman I seriously dated was one of them.

Much of what you just said in the second paragraph would turn off many women. Especially on social networks.

You have to feel out the type of women you are targeting.

[xXxWat2K7sonxXx]

Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Some good advice there. I'll try them. i done 3 of those mistakes, like mistakes 4, 5 and 6.

Mainly mistake 6, because when i fine a hot girl on a dating site and start talking to her and that. them I ask her out to soon because I'm always worried that the longer i leave it, the more chance an other guy will chat to her and ask her out before me. And she probbley go for him.

[feministdestroyer]

Ok i did everything you said to sign up for the free starter kit, gave out my name and email address which i'm now regretting, filled out all the forms and links which that process took me 2, and STILL no free starter kit...me thinks this is just bogus to get your money....and i'll retract my statement publically if i'm wrong...so where is that starter kit!! and where is that free e-book?

[NicoPrincely]

It's a double opt-in list so you must confirm your subscription to the list by clicking on the link on the conformation email.Try it again and check your spam folder to see if the conformation email goes there. Also try a yahoo email account if you still have problems.

Also you said "bogus to get your money" at what point did I ask you for your credit card?

Yes the course is free and I'm releasing a paid course this month as I kinda like to pay my bills and eat.

[CocoCruise]

Nico, this is fantastic advice. I have one question. Why MySpace and not Facebook? Most women are now on Facebook. Also, how do you approach on a Fb?

[NicoPrincely]

I personally don't like anything about face book at all. I almost never use it. Myspace is still the biggest of the all as far as I know. It's not like everyone left Myspace and went to facebook.

But the social dynamics that I teach in my upcoming book and course will work on ANY social networking site. The interface and controls are different but people are the same.

Dating sites are Adult Pickup sites are a bit different.

[CocoCruise]

NicoPrincely, you are doing fantastic & groundbreaking work. I can't wait to read your 'upcoming book'. When will it be available? I have subscribed to your site. Also, why EXACTLY do you prefer Myspace to Facebook? More babes use Fb than Myspace.

[GoldXrose]

nico princely u have really done ur research and ur soo rite cuz im on a dating site and wen i see guy's profiles wiv very little information then that puts me off them unless there goodlookin but even then that wont make me interested cuz if there borring then there not worth it :)

[Redcup54]

Nico Princely is the guru of online dating. This cat knows what he's talking about. Listen, learn, and you will find online dating success.

[russruggles]

These are some great tips - very accurate. It's so true that many men have downright lame profiles - you have to have something personal and noteworthy in there!

[Sarj22]

your techniques are pretty interesting... i was expecting the videos to be bogus... but your techniques seem very true and worth trying...

[astrojams1]

is there a goatee on your neck?

[NicoPrincely]

No it's a lapel mic...lol

[onlygunter]

Oh man! This is great! No wonder I can't get laid!

[pdslt]

Great advice! The best online dating advice I have come across yet 10/10.

[NicoPrincely]

Thanks I do my best!

[Graber23]

Man the thing with looking on her profile is and asking her about her passion and interes i find it good. I think it better with the girls that u already know but u losed contact with tham like ex classmates or the ones in your hood coz u moved.

[gio957]

the main reason a man need a computer to get a date is because he can't get one in real life

[NicoPrincely]

That's not always true. At one point it was for me but now any time I go out I can get a girls number in person and follow up. I also pickup women in person. BUT I am focusing on my businesses and I don't have time to go out all of the time. So by utilizing online dating I can still meet women online first and spend the time I would spend on work.

[NicoPrincely]

PS: Also If I see a girl at a club, coffee shop, book store, college, etc... I know nothing about her, if she is single, if we have any of the same interests, if she even lives here and that is a big one living in Vegas. Online I can find out about her first to even see if she is worth my time. I am not saying never speak to women in person I am saying do both. Also I use to make friends and line up dates with women out of town.

[operations1000]

Women are too much work, fuck it.

#6 is UGH..fuck it, it's like sex - they will be satisfied with waiting for months before it.

I've mastered #10 though.

[CwithPeddo]

Hey man, I like you videos and you seem like an intellegent kind of guy. My problem is this, I am mentally ill and could possibly have a personality disorder too. My sex drive is out of control and I often come off seial killerish, my problem is I don't know how to act without seeming crazy, I just can't control my impulses... what can a mentally ill person with little insight into the human condition and relationships do?

[roguescholar2007]

this guy won't be able to answer this one. You seem serial killerish and have problems with the ladies, and want to feel confident. Here's what you do, go find all the videos and literature on Ted Bundy, and Richard Ramirez

[dragoons9009]

What are you the UNDERGROUND MAN??

[ReiKoKuyagi]

The one about emailing people too often is 100000000000000000000000000000­000000% true.

It's so annoying.

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[kfan]

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[uboat1918]

Thanks for the tips! The best one I thought was that guys expect too much too soon and give up too quickly. Give it time and you will cross paths with the right one eventually.

[princessconseula]

it's all about hooking up, right?

[NicoPrincely]

It's all about what ever you want. Yes hooking up and were you take it from there is your choice, one time, or a relationship. But the bottom line is all of that starts the same way, with sexual attraction. No matter how you look at it men and women get together because of sex.

[DaniellaNicoleK]

I am a woman, and I found this video very interesting and right on the mark when it comes to mistakes men have made when approaching me, as well. Good job - great advice. Thanks for putting this out there to help. Now I need to find the female counterpart to this! :-)

[piratewhite]

thank you for your suggestions.

[BjGard]

I look like a young Brad Pitt and I fill out my profile very well. Still not much success, very confusing

[ORCA4312]

Include photos of your shoes and your car.

[BjGard]

Your joking right???

[ORCA4312]

Nope. I wish I was. Women are VERY materialistic. Not all, but most.

[NicoPrincely]

If you want to just get laid showing off your car can work, but if you want a girl to like you rather than for your money don't. I have a BMW M Roadster and had a Mercedes SLK 32 AMG before that, I have hooked up with a lot of women online, but I NEVER had pics of my cars, becuase I did not want them to expect me to spend money on them.

[NicoPrincely]

Hope to have some new ones up soon!

[maumauk]

you the man

[bobbico03]

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