just takes two seconds to re-think its not worth it and if you give up on life "they win" ...don't let the people who are doin this to you win show em you're stronger and keep ya head up
all you're trying to do is escape the pain and i've been there plenty of times ... its not worth it life does get better ...i've almost drank too much or cut too deep and its not cool when in those few moments of freaking out thinkin ur gonna die , realizing that there isnt any coming back , that its pernament. talk to someone doesnt have to be a therapist ( i cant stand em) but talk to someone SOMEOEN will listen ...its worth it to hang in there and i hope everyone who's thinkin about this
anything i could find ... i never knew how it could "hurt" someone when im "only hurting myself" ... my mom used to be afraid to wake me up in the morning ..scared i wouldnt be alive that i would have killed myself overnight... ive been through therapy my whole life and off n on meds... what helped it realzing the beauty of life even when you're backs against the wall. suicide is selfish but i will say in a sucidal persons defense that in the moment you dont consider you maybe hurting someone
Ive been a cutter since about 5th grade i never really had friends and i kept to myself i have books of poems i wrote and they were my "best friends" ... in highschool i met this girl who changed all of that (or so i thought) ... we got together and had been goin off and on for 6 years ... i just found out shes been cheating on me and a grip of otha shit as well that i didnt wanna know but its cool i can swollow the truth .. 6 years ago i would have been in my room with a razor a knife or ...
I agree with you, everything does happen for a reason. I was so lost and depressed a few years back, I thought of ending it all.. but I'm so glad I didn't. I'm glad I'm still here to help people and experience life.
It does sound like a total cliche.. but it's true.. things do eventually get better. But I guess, at the time, I didn't want to wait around to find out when. Totally glad I did though :)
I dont see anything offensive here. This vid helps a lot with depression. I get really down at time. And yeah, it's pretty selfish to just shut down and do nothing while your close friends and family worry about you. I'm not talkin I'm suicidal or anything, but depression moments. great vid jax.
Oh come on! She is so NOT meaning to be offensive people! This is Jackie. If you cut/ attempt/ commit suicide you ARE selfish. End of story. Ask anyone who's attended a successful suicide funeral. I do it. I wish I didn't want to , but I do, and it IS ENTIRELY selfish! So there. <3
gotaa agree with jackie my friend killed hilmself his family and friends we're davisted all he could think of how he couldn't got on not about who would be left behind to pick up the pices
I like your vids Jackie.. I like a person who can be honest and say things as it is ! I dont think what you say is offensive at all.. Honesty first of all.. Who cant handle it.. Meh.. Who cares.. And i agree 100% with what PaperPlanes691 said. People who try suicide without thinking about the people who love's them is a really selfish ass ! I tried suicide once but i didnt do it cuz i though about the people who cares about me.. And i know that i would really hurt them.. I hate to hurt people..
I have data that can keep people from being so self-destructive, but I'm temporarily withholding that data because I'm dealing with a far more serious situation. Once that situation is resolved, I will present that data in its entirety. So please be patient. The data is coming.
Men should learn the difference between leadership and bossiness. Real men are great leaders, not great bosses. If a real man leads in the right way, a lady will willingly follow him.
I'm sorry for offending anyone but im not here to gain your approval i think that it is my opinion and i think hurting yourself is nothing selfish and weak.
I agreed on you pretty much until the end. I'm sure you did not have the intentions to attack/judge, but it really sounded like you were. When someone you love wants to kill themselves, a response like that is going to make them feel even worse. It's really stressful to be around people going through that, especially those you love, but you've got to be careful with what you say.
SI is another way to take out anger. I'm bigender (look it up) and I hate myself when I feel male because no one effin takes me seriously.
On the other hand, we're allowed to take/give/recieve pain in a kinky s&m way, but if pain makes us feel better it's wrong? Aren't we all sick of letting society rule our wants and desires? I freaking LOVE my life, but I love pain. I don't want to go anywhere, I"m so happy, but not 100% of the time. What du you think?
I respect you and what you do for the trans community, but until you are actually trans, phrases like "stop being such a selfish ass" are going to be resented. You can watch and listen to countless self-injurious individuals, but you cannot inhabit a transgendered body. Such comments are disrespectful--encouragement to stop self-injuring is one thing, but name-calling crosses a line.
Judging by your rating, I don't think I'm the only one who was offended.
I'm not here to worry about what hurts others feelings I'm here to be honest. I use to hurt myself and I don't have to be transgendered to understand why people hurt themselves. i still think that it is selfish immature uncalled for and cowardly. that is my opinion and its selfish because it hurts everyone around you.
im sorry if i offended you but saying ass was the least of my message. I have no sympathy for cutting. I never will. that is just me. only a part of me. but my opinion
I'm going to have to agree with Jackie. I learned that my grandfather killed himself the other day and i was listening to my mom tell me how it all happened, and what he did was selfish, selfish to himself and his family, no matter how much WE want to just let go, we have no idea the impact on other individuals. My mom and family were devastated and he was nothing short of an "ass" for doing it. By and by, we all need to stop being so offended by every little thing, or else we look weak.
Exactly. We all need to stop whining and sometimes listen to all points of view, even though it may seem offensive, sometimes it might just make you that much smarter.
and honestly, even i have thought MANY times about killing myself and death, but ive thought long and hard, but it is the easy way out in my opinion. And im not a person to give up, that isnt me, and by physically hurting myself i am not doing anything but bringing my way of life down into the pits.
In a way it is 'selfish', but when someone is depressed and planning to kill themselves, they are not in their normal state of mind and cannot understand, at that moment, what effect they can have on others and is therefore an unintentionally selfish act. Also some people literally have no family or friends to be seen as selfish.
I'm not trying to cause an issue or even a friendly debate; we're all fighting the same fight. I just believe in letting people know when they've offended me.
you have no idea what youre talking about.. read a book or 2 or just STFU
rainbowmnky 2 years ago
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Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
just takes two seconds to re-think its not worth it and if you give up on life "they win" ...don't let the people who are doin this to you win show em you're stronger and keep ya head up
Jfuze303 2 years ago
all you're trying to do is escape the pain and i've been there plenty of times ... its not worth it life does get better ...i've almost drank too much or cut too deep and its not cool when in those few moments of freaking out thinkin ur gonna die , realizing that there isnt any coming back , that its pernament. talk to someone doesnt have to be a therapist ( i cant stand em) but talk to someone SOMEOEN will listen ...its worth it to hang in there and i hope everyone who's thinkin about this
Jfuze303 2 years ago
anything i could find ... i never knew how it could "hurt" someone when im "only hurting myself" ... my mom used to be afraid to wake me up in the morning ..scared i wouldnt be alive that i would have killed myself overnight... ive been through therapy my whole life and off n on meds... what helped it realzing the beauty of life even when you're backs against the wall. suicide is selfish but i will say in a sucidal persons defense that in the moment you dont consider you maybe hurting someone
Jfuze303 2 years ago
Ive been a cutter since about 5th grade i never really had friends and i kept to myself i have books of poems i wrote and they were my "best friends" ... in highschool i met this girl who changed all of that (or so i thought) ... we got together and had been goin off and on for 6 years ... i just found out shes been cheating on me and a grip of otha shit as well that i didnt wanna know but its cool i can swollow the truth .. 6 years ago i would have been in my room with a razor a knife or ...
Jfuze303 2 years ago
Thanks you for your video. Specifically the part on self-harm. I really needed to hear these words today.
Nightshadefire 2 years ago
youre welcome
Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
I agree with you, everything does happen for a reason. I was so lost and depressed a few years back, I thought of ending it all.. but I'm so glad I didn't. I'm glad I'm still here to help people and experience life.
It does sound like a total cliche.. but it's true.. things do eventually get better. But I guess, at the time, I didn't want to wait around to find out when. Totally glad I did though :)
This video wasn't offensive at all..
gebus84 2 years ago
I dont see anything offensive here. This vid helps a lot with depression. I get really down at time. And yeah, it's pretty selfish to just shut down and do nothing while your close friends and family worry about you. I'm not talkin I'm suicidal or anything, but depression moments. great vid jax.
FindingLevi 2 years ago
Oh come on! She is so NOT meaning to be offensive people! This is Jackie. If you cut/ attempt/ commit suicide you ARE selfish. End of story. Ask anyone who's attended a successful suicide funeral. I do it. I wish I didn't want to , but I do, and it IS ENTIRELY selfish! So there. <3
sparkleglow10 2 years ago
gotaa agree with jackie my friend killed hilmself his family and friends we're davisted all he could think of how he couldn't got on not about who would be left behind to pick up the pices
jsweet83 2 years ago
I like your vids Jackie.. I like a person who can be honest and say things as it is ! I dont think what you say is offensive at all.. Honesty first of all.. Who cant handle it.. Meh.. Who cares.. And i agree 100% with what PaperPlanes691 said. People who try suicide without thinking about the people who love's them is a really selfish ass ! I tried suicide once but i didnt do it cuz i though about the people who cares about me.. And i know that i would really hurt them.. I hate to hurt people..
tchugas69 2 years ago
I have data that can keep people from being so self-destructive, but I'm temporarily withholding that data because I'm dealing with a far more serious situation. Once that situation is resolved, I will present that data in its entirety. So please be patient. The data is coming.
speedlearner 2 years ago
Men should learn the difference between leadership and bossiness. Real men are great leaders, not great bosses. If a real man leads in the right way, a lady will willingly follow him.
speedlearner 2 years ago
good perspective
TMatesFTM 2 years ago
I'm sorry for offending anyone but im not here to gain your approval i think that it is my opinion and i think hurting yourself is nothing selfish and weak.
Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
I agreed on you pretty much until the end. I'm sure you did not have the intentions to attack/judge, but it really sounded like you were. When someone you love wants to kill themselves, a response like that is going to make them feel even worse. It's really stressful to be around people going through that, especially those you love, but you've got to be careful with what you say.
Mariogirl16 2 years ago 4
SI is another way to take out anger. I'm bigender (look it up) and I hate myself when I feel male because no one effin takes me seriously.
On the other hand, we're allowed to take/give/recieve pain in a kinky s&m way, but if pain makes us feel better it's wrong? Aren't we all sick of letting society rule our wants and desires? I freaking LOVE my life, but I love pain. I don't want to go anywhere, I"m so happy, but not 100% of the time. What du you think?
sparkleglow10 2 years ago
Jackie,
I respect you and what you do for the trans community, but until you are actually trans, phrases like "stop being such a selfish ass" are going to be resented. You can watch and listen to countless self-injurious individuals, but you cannot inhabit a transgendered body. Such comments are disrespectful--encouragement to stop self-injuring is one thing, but name-calling crosses a line.
Judging by your rating, I don't think I'm the only one who was offended.
TheGothicPoodle 2 years ago 9
TheGothicPoodle, I think you have a point.
MaxInTransition 2 years ago
I'm not here to worry about what hurts others feelings I'm here to be honest. I use to hurt myself and I don't have to be transgendered to understand why people hurt themselves. i still think that it is selfish immature uncalled for and cowardly. that is my opinion and its selfish because it hurts everyone around you.
im sorry if i offended you but saying ass was the least of my message. I have no sympathy for cutting. I never will. that is just me. only a part of me. but my opinion
Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
I'm going to have to agree with Jackie. I learned that my grandfather killed himself the other day and i was listening to my mom tell me how it all happened, and what he did was selfish, selfish to himself and his family, no matter how much WE want to just let go, we have no idea the impact on other individuals. My mom and family were devastated and he was nothing short of an "ass" for doing it. By and by, we all need to stop being so offended by every little thing, or else we look weak.
PaperPlanes691 2 years ago
thank you. i truly wasnt being offensive. but eh im not here to be loved
Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
Exactly. We all need to stop whining and sometimes listen to all points of view, even though it may seem offensive, sometimes it might just make you that much smarter.
PaperPlanes691 2 years ago
and honestly, even i have thought MANY times about killing myself and death, but ive thought long and hard, but it is the easy way out in my opinion. And im not a person to give up, that isnt me, and by physically hurting myself i am not doing anything but bringing my way of life down into the pits.
PaperPlanes691 2 years ago
good im proud of you. thank you for seeing what I'm trying to say :) & if you ever need someone to talk to im here
TMatesFTM 2 years ago
thank you! means alot!
PaperPlanes691 2 years ago
In a way it is 'selfish', but when someone is depressed and planning to kill themselves, they are not in their normal state of mind and cannot understand, at that moment, what effect they can have on others and is therefore an unintentionally selfish act. Also some people literally have no family or friends to be seen as selfish.
fudge867 2 years ago
I'm not trying to cause an issue or even a friendly debate; we're all fighting the same fight. I just believe in letting people know when they've offended me.
--Caleb
TheGothicPoodle 2 years ago 8
i understand but i feel attacked for saying my honest opinion.
Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
Yay for a fail generation with manners!
I'm glad you're doing a week about self injury.
just wondering - what video editing software do you use?
Also the hat look is amazing (even though Boston suckss XD Jkjk) . Hope you feel better soon!!
JayTeeNY12 2 years ago
i have a macbook so i use imovie
and thank you very much. i like to boy it up sometimes
Jaxluvsyou15 2 years ago
great video
Scotty3489 2 years ago