Narcissist Loves his Disorder and Narcissistic Personality

[MsCartman74]

Narcissists treat people around them like crap yet they think they're great. If that's not mentally ill, I don't know what is. The definition of mental disorder is when mental reality is out of sync with observable fact, actual reality. Narcissists are jerks, and they are unable to see that plain truth. It's so out of sync with their false self, which is the exact opposite. One is real, and the other is a fiction. They choose the fiction because they are too weak to face the truth.

[WelshMeic]

Everyone is just so damned "Special" and Narcissistic. Everyone that is... EXCEPT ME.

[Gngbgnbu]

I agree wholeheartedly

[drewpcb]

@ImDemanding Despite Sam's opinion and self diagnosed himself a narcissist, most narcissist are women in the U.S. , really!

[ImDemanding]

@drewpcb I do not disagree with you. I think its a shared disorder 60/40, men.

[ImDemanding]

OMG. HE IS A NARCISSIST! All this time, I thought he was a selfish asshole. I have to get away. How? Especially in this economy. :-(

[canisaytheNword]

im cool the way i am.

im a good person.

[Ethioness]

He just described the typical American. Not to be rude but this is true.

[gabsylv]

@Ethioness nAH, THE TYPICAL LATE CAPITALIST.

[zengreen7]

@Ethioness Perhaps that is why America is number 1, the most POWERFUL nation and the ENVY of the universe, when you are on top, people like YOU make the type of comment that you made, USUALLY the comment is fueled by JEALOUSY.

[patriciacarrasco]

@zengreen7 ure full of crap! americans are very narcissistic and think theyre the best! they think theyre the center of the universe

[zengreen7]

@patriciacarrasco But YOU and the rest of the world are humble and nice? LOL@YOU!

[Ethioness]

He just described the typical American.

[halkiphulkiben]

Can Personality be Reconditioned fully?

[DropDeadCouture]

@halkiphulkiben i think it can but not easily.

[ImDemanding]

@halkiphulkiben I am not a doctor, but I do not think full reconditioning is possible. They are the most arrogant, sadistic of people. I had hope for some time of full recovery, but no. They see everything through their own eyes. I think it will take a full 180, a full giving up, fully trusting a doctor, and becoming complete aware through persistence, faith, or allowing their insignificant other to help them. Until then, which is highly unlikely, no.

[SavedSinner71]

I believe I married a Narcissist Woman, Sam's info has helped me understand why our marriage has been so tough and why my wife had an emotional affair. What I would love Sam to address, if you are reading this Sam, is if one chooses to live with a Narcissist, how do you protect yourself mentally and what other advice can you give besides what others have said to me, i.e. "run away! " Running away is not an option for me...

[blacklightfreakout]

@SavedSinner71, running away is not an option for you, because you don't see yourself worthy of something better. You trying to hang in there for your wife won't help you or her. Since you can't help you, you can only help yourself. You need to stop being a co-dependent. If children are involved, seek counseling on how you can help them out the best way you can.

[dutchskyblue]

These vidoes are historic and I hope he is taking care to preserve them with secondary backups. It would be interesting if he interviewed others or have someone film to them in conversation, if that's even possible...

[DropDeadCouture]

@dutchskyblue agreed. i am backing up some.

[grinreaperdutchphil]

Informative and insightful...