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  • I haven't been around in quite awhile and just now saw this. Gary, I'm so sorry to hear of the breakup with your partner. I know how difficult and sad it can be. You must be back in Australia by now. I wish you all the best that life has to give and I know there are wonderful things just waiting to happen for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Pat xoxo

  • I'm so sorry Gaz. Breakups are never easy, and they hurt like hell. I'm sending you a big hug from Melbourne.

    Please tell me you're moving to Melbourne? I need to know about these workshops.

  • Hey!You're free that's fantastic. I lived in the country as an artist for a that period and went through similar reclusiveness ,deep snow too. I know how you feel..Life got quite boring for us both. Even tho just 1hr from London.Have you read The Secret'' IT REALLY WORKS.Search for the video on YT.I'll continue looking for your videos and progress in your wonderful new world..Now I paint in warm Bali,Koh Samui, and Chiang mai next January.. It'll be great in Oz...Good Luck mate.

  • the cool thing about art is that it will never leave you. its with u through thick and thin...

    lean on it to get through the hardest situations

  • Best of luck to you Gary! Hang in there, as there is a reason for everything. Think of this as a great learning experience. You learned about another country, learned the language, and learned more about your art,

    I am truly inspired in your work. Keep it up!

    Hugs to you!

  • Gary, I know what that is like i am going through something similar. I am finding that time is becoming my friend, little by little.

    

  • Gary I know it's hard going through it but its going to be awesome soon. Hugs your an awesome guy! Keep being excited. KG

  • Sad and Happy for you, Gaz... Change is a tricky bastard, he smacks you upside the head and boots you out the door, and then points the way to Oppertunity and Growth, who are waiting, just around the corner. I hope your transistion goes smoothly, and that you can find both Inspiration and Zen along the way. *big sparkly hugs*

  • Big hugs to you, honey! Major upheavals are always hard, but you'll get there... I know you will :) Take it one day at a time, focus on you, because you are FABULOUS xx

  • Hi Gary. Endings are hard, beginnings are glorious and the middle is a scrambled egg. I wish you clarity and excitement and inspiration as you move into a new phase in your life. I believe in you.

  • Sorry it's been so difficult Gary. You're a very capable man and you'll bounce back better than ever!

  • Big hug for you. it's tough but you'll make it day by day, one at a time.

  • It really is a rollercoaster Gary but I promise it levels out eventually.

    We'll welcome you back to Oz with open arms and I'm excited that you'll be a part of etsy from this side of the world.

    Be sure to visit the beautiful Yarra Valley here in Victoria, lots of artists and craftspeople here.

    Holding you in my heart.

  • Gary I'm so sorry that your going thru a hard time now, I can't say I have ever experienced a long term break up. But I have had my big up's and big downs, the one thing I know for sure especially the BIG downs is there is a huge life lesson that will show itself to you. It is all a process just know we all adore you. Be good to yourself, keep healthy!!!

  • Aww, I'm sorry about what's happened "/ at least you still have a smile on your face, which is one of the million reasons we all love you (:

  • (((((HUGS))))) Love you Gary!

  • oh gary, so sorry you're going through a trying time.  everything happens for a reason even though that reason may not be clear for quite a while. i have enjoyed your videos so much and watching your evolution and your dancing and singing!!! maybe you'll be a pop star back in australia!! who knows?!?!? good luck and hang in there. we're all here for you to lean on.

  • Sorry to hear about the split. It happened to me after 20years of marriage. It's a hard thing to go through. Still for me I found someone else that is better suited for me and I'm looking to the future. Hope you have similar luck, maybe hard to think of that now. Later 4 years there are more happy days than sad days for me. Exciting for you to be moving back to Oz. I'll have to try and catch up next time I'm in Melbourne.

    love ya brother!

  • hang in there gary, it will all work out for you. jump over the boulders of life and smile. change is good to us sometimes.

    much love-jill from kansas

  • Ok - I hate to see you cry - now I'm crying. ugh. I wish you the best on your new journey and I will be praying that it all goes smoothly. I look forward to seeing what lies ahead for you. I know it's going to be great! May God bless you and keep you. (((hugs))) - Vicky in Texas

  • I am sorry for your pain but I must say that I am older than you and have lost loves but I am married to my soul mate. I want to send a few old friends thank you notes for dumping me because I know that this is the man I'm supposed to be with for the rest of my life (27 years so far). Please follow your passion. You are an amazing artist and teacher. You have many gifts and one of them is giving. Don't stop. Expect the best and I know you will obtain it. Love.

  • *HUGE HUGS* You are wonderful and fabulous and all things lovely. You have and will always be one of my favorite people to watch on Youtube. Keep your head up and keep the art work going, it's what will give you the strength to get through this. And always remember, we all love you! <3

  • wow how brave you are to bare such personal stuff but i spose a true artist wears their emotions on their sleeves eh? gr8 to hear you are seeing the benefit of change even when you have to breath through the pain along the way :) im sure austrailia will be so glad to have you back!!! im a kiwi so it will be great to have you just over the ditch you'll forgive me when i say "yeah nah ya bloody ozzy!!!" i can't help myself its rugby world cup season and we got our big game against you 2moro xtasha

  • The great thing about building a foundation is it helps support you when you need it. I'm sorry your life is in upheaval now, but it sounds very exciting to move back to Australia and continuing the wonderful and inspirational work you do. Thank you! BTW: I finished my sardine can shrine challange and posted it on the LMM site and on your's too. It was fun and challanging. Can't wait to see what everybody else did.

  • In my opinion a masterpiece is considered a masterpiece for its mistakes as much as for its perfections. Consider yourself a MASTERPIECE !!

  • Gary so sad to hear about your breakup and I know what a difficult time it is but hey you have lived a great life and learned a lot in this time. I hope I don't sound selfish here but YEY your coming home!!!! I live in Melb and will be hanging out to meet you and take one of your workshops if you have them. Go GAzza!!!

  • Gary, dear. It's been 7 years....since absolutearts forum...remember our unfinished project:)? You just moved from Australia. ...Well, there were so many changes in life of our friends from AA. I'll tell you, you will be fine! You are totally right about thinking about new opportunities an so. Stay positive! The most important is to be healthy. So, don't let stress take over you.

  • My heart goes out to you. You seem like a really great guy and i am sure there is someone very special waiting for you. This is your time to re-discover yourself. Good Luck! Jamie

  • I'm really sorry to hear you're going thru a bad time. I hope things work out for you. I wish you all good things for the future. A big hug from me..monique xo P/s keen to do a workshop with you when you get yourself sorted in Oz :)

  • so sorry and upset to hear this sad news Gaz. i am so grateful for all you have given and shared of your art and yourself and my wish for you is that this will all be returned to you many times over. Aus is waiting for you with open arms - who knows what joys are waiting for you here......love, Sandra xo 

  • Well, first I'm sorry for your relationship ending. I know after I got divorced, there was a period where it was difficult, but in the end it was the best decision for the both of us, and my life is so much better and so much more focused now. I'm in the best place I've ever been in, and loving the ride. Australia is fabulous; so an early welcome home :)

  • I know exactly what you're talking about Gary. The good news is your art will improve as a result of these changes.... But the most important question out of this is.... Does this mean we'll get to see you dance in your underwear again?!!!! ;-P

  • Wow, my partner and I just split also. I guess I know what you're feeling. If you're ever in New Orleans drop me a line. We can sell our art it in the square together!!! Cheers and best of luck with the new venture.

  • Life comes in periods...  you are not less with this.. i personally think changes are actually a waay to Build and get on a higher level. so I think this is positive.. be well.

  • I am so sorry to hear about your relationship. This change only means something better is just waiting for you. from Bob

  • I feel for you Gary, I am sooo Sorry - Sending you lots of positive Karma - Chin Up always!

  • You are amazing and your next chapter will be as well. Your art and videos have meant so much to so many including myself. I wish you the very VERY best!

  • all the best to you!

  • I am an art teacher in the UK, I have watched you for years. You are an inspiration not only to me, but to the hundreds of students I teach - they absolutely love your work. Because of you their sketchbooks are awesome! Thanks Garry. May you long continue, because your creativity will get you thru this. x x

  • I've also been watching you for years and have enjoyed everything you've shared, although I never subscribed: don't know why.. I am thankful I found you because it was you who served as my inspiration and my new beginning in art after leaving it for several years. Cheers to the new chapters in life. Blessed be and may all your desires come true.

    -Shani

  • Take your time with that grief and when you step on that plane...you can leave it all there...excited for your new changes and life...Much Blessings and Light..

  • Watched you for a few years nows, you have been awesome! Sending lots of positive vibes your way during this difficult time....you ARE a delight!  Hang in there!

    I am gonna try to purchase some things from your store to help you on your way.

  • Gary..Chin up...You will find a new partner next time..that will be your life! Your art is your direction and all the love you have inside to share . You will succeed..more than you think..remember us in the usa..you inspire..us all over the world!! The Mo Jo...will come back! We have faith...sell workshops..on line Gary! Hugs....J.

  • You are very courageous to share what you are going through.

    You will be OK...more than OK.

    Best to you!

  • Best wishes, Gary. Keep your chin up - you are fabulous!

  • Good Luck Gary I hope everything works out for you.

  • Oh Gary I am sending you all the love I completely understand...my heart goes out to you thank you so much for being and doing what you do. you didn't have to share this with us but you did that means you are already on the way to healing. Your art will reflect all the beautiful greatness from this experience. Keep it up and keep it moving!! see you on LMM Lee Ann

    sending the love and healing vibes for your inner artist love your inner child and keep him safe !!! LOVE YOU

  • Oh wow...... cant imagine what you are dealing with. Glad you are seeing the positives in this situation. Spread your wings! Cant wait to see the upcoming videos. I think you going back to Aussie and the "City" will be wonderful at giving you the exposure you deserve. Big HUGE HUGS! :)

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  • Well you can come and stay with us in Bendigo if you need to feel the isolation again, you know that. I'm sad for you and Erik - who's going to look after the cows and the cats!!!!

  • Gary I want to give the hugest warm hug, not to fix anything because as always everything is still perfect in this moment but to let you know that you are very much loved. Not because of your enormous ability to share but just because you are you. You are a dazzling orchestra of light and feelings to many of us in this world. As an Aussie I say welcome home to your new adventures. thinking of you Katrina

  • @GranmaPos that was so beautifully stated! wow!

  • I've watch you share and grow for sometime now and I know you love to learn and that means there is a huge shift coming in your life and your art. It is because you have grown, rejoiced and shaderd with the world, that the world has grown with you and that is no accident. Your life will always change becuase you share from the heart with all of your passion and it is that passion that has changed the lives of so many. Thank you for being you and sharing with us all.

  • I knew something was going on! I could feel it. I'm sorry sweetie. Shit happens, but we get tougher from it and move on to new adventures. I wish I could give you a great big hug!!! And, I'm excited about your new move to Australia. I think it's going to blow open new creativity in you art. Looking forward to seeing the new you!

    xoxo

  • Thanks for sharing! To show emotion means you are human! From all bad I believe comes something positive'. Hang in there. You have a lot to offer the right person ...oxox

  • Gary, Wishing you all the best. I will be sending positive thoughts your way. You can do anything. You have shown us that. You are an amazing person and this will work out. Take your time and be gentle with yourself. much love, janet

  • Wishing you all the best in the next phase of your journey...it is never easy letting go, but such good practice...:( ...;)

  • Gary I was so sorry to hear this. But take heart from all the wonderful and kind comments here-you have been an inspiration to many (including me and my better half!) and both of us wish you all the very best. One door may have closed, but in so doing it has opened so many more possibilities for you. Anyway, just wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts, and one day the sun will shine again. You are winner Gary, you always will be, and we love you. Take care buddy! x

  • I know how hard this must be for you. After 10 years with my last partner, there was much grieving. But you move on, and as I can see, you are moving on a deeper, spiritually richer person. Your videos are a great inspiration and always always make me smile. Let this fuel your art, youber.

  • Wishing you all the best. Change is hard, but change can be very good too.

  • great things are waiting for you in Australia ... much love Gary your amazing.adorable.honest.and just pure... ((((( L O V E ))))))

  • Beautiful, loving and oh så talented and giving/generous Gary -3 All my love and thought going your way! I´m going to have you in my prayers and I´m going to support you the best I can...however I can. I´m going to start bu buying some beautiful art from you! You are such an amazing person, this is a beginning of something great....even though I now that this is hard for you.......lots of love from Sweden -3 -3 -3

  • So excited that your coming back to Oz! :-) Good luck with everything. New beginnings!!!! :-)

  • Sorry to hear about the separation but you can grow from this. You have been loved and life will go on. I love your work and look forward to starting fresh. Who knows what home will bring for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

  • Oh Punkin', sad hard time mixed in with limitless possibilities. You're in the soup now, ain't ya? You will soar, 'cuz that's what you do. Man, you've got a shitload of people that love you, me included. You were such a jump start for my stalled inspiration. Got a crow named Gary perched on my easel (not a real one). Two months of prep, hey? Is that what you said? Hard. I've got 7 years of Europe and then home again, home again jiggidy jig too. Invaluable. Love is never a waste boyo. Hug Deb

  • Hi Gary! Keep this good attitude and everything will be OK. Good luck for all! ;)

  • Your awesome positive attitude is going to carry you to amazing heights! We're here for you Gary. Stay strong until you can get back to home turf and into the arms of your friends. :)

  • Its terrifying and exciting at the same time. One door closes and another opens. keep your goals ahead. We are human we need to grieve, when a relationship ends. Im there with you....hold on : )

  • Life is what happens while you're making other plans.

  • Hi Gary - so sorry to hear the news about you and your partner, but you have to know that no matter the reason those of us in Oz will be totally thrilled you have you back. Sending big squeezes,

    Kate

  • Be sure to remember all of the positives when you hit the lows, for they will surely come...be cautiously optimistic...Ron (Brahma Moon

  • It will come in waves,.... and that is ok. Think of it as "mental pus" you have to get it up and out in order to heal. I will keep you in my thoughts. Peace Be With You

  • I love that you are able to keep a positive attitude. I look forward to seeing you thrive.

  • Good luck with everything. I hope your transition is a smooth one.

  • omg have you SEEN the talent in Melbourne!!!!! Oz is lucky to be having you back. Sorry about your break up but it just means that there is better out there for you. Love and hugs Ali

  • Uggh, that sucks Gary. Take all the time you need. Just focus on yourself. Best of luck to you.

    dunielle

  • people make plans and God laughs

  • As you prepare to end this path...you will pave another incredible one & us yubers will be with you every step of the way (if you choose us all to be). Good luck & strength Gary ~Huggies~

  • Aw... you are a sweetie! hang in there. It will all be good. Cause that's what you are.

  • Ahhh .... you probably can't even imagine how many people out here in cyber world look up to you and are inspired by you and your forever positive attitude ... just remember you are loved by many when you have your off days ... keep yourself busy ... and this too shall pass:)

  • This is so bitter sweet, Gary. I wish you both the best.

  • I'm sorry to hear your news Gary BUT delighted that you are moving forward with a positive attitude, I wish you well in whatever road you take and it goes without saying that you will be successful in your work, that's for sure!

  • Love your artwork and I so enjoy your videos. I wish you happiness in your journey and in your new home. xoxoxo

  • You are one of the things in my life that inspired me to begin creating art, after a long time. I believe you are very unique and an artist like you does'nt give up and tries to find new things and adapts to what he is given. I hope your future is filled with happiness:) You have my support:)))

  • Wow I have to say I'm kind of shocked, I couldn't imagine leaving you!! Well you know I love you right hehe!! You're going back to Aussie woohoo, I have a very close friend that lives there :) Good luck with your journey I hope everything goes the way you want it and you keep creating amazing art ♥HUGZ♥

  • How could anyone not want to be with a great artist like you?! This news is sad. :(

    Well,..better this happened when you're still hot.--, just joking. Sounds like some great adventure is waiting around the corner. Hugs.

  • Love you too Gary! :) Good luck although i know you don't really need it. You'll do just great on your own. :) (((HUGS))))

  • Gary,

    one door closes so that you see the doors that are opening before you and you have the courage to move out of that room into that which has been waiting for you. Seven is a number of completion- Praying for you!

  • sorry about your news but you sound so positive about it and hey, Australia needs you here with your art, it will be great for you to come back home xx

  • Also here's an idea when you are a packing up to go back to Australia if there's things you don't need that you can sell then do so that way you will get a bit of extra cash! Take care dear!

  • *hugs*  that's all I can do *hugs*

  • I was worried about you and I missed your videos. My heart goes out to you. Like the song goes, "breaking up is hard to do", but I know you'll get through it. You're strong, you have tremendous creative talent, and life is going to take you in some amazing and wonderful directions. ((hugs)) to you!

  • I have watched your videos for the last two years and was concerned when you had not posted Life has a way of directing our focus to where it needs to be at times in our life. I have learned from your posts and been inspired by them. I have found in my life that i can create when i am most connected and effected by my emotions. You are a wonderful person and I wish and hope for all the best. From the Mountains of NC USA to the mountains of Norway. Head up and full speed ahead. We all love you!

  • My heart hurts for you. You have become family to me, like a son. I know what you are going through as it happened to me and it was devastating. Like you I was able to pursue my art because as a homemaker, my work was flexible. The change was hard, but eventually the good that came of it was fantastic. It will be for you. I promise! In the meantime know you are loved. Who knows someone in Australia may be watching and have the perfect setup for you there. Hugaroos, E

  • Yep--shit happens, but It's good to see you're moving forwards so positively. Good luck for the future Gary.

  • Sorry to hear it Gary, but at least you have your chin up and have a plan to move forward. Life really is like living the circus life, ups and downs, good and bad and of course the craziness and insanity. SHY????? WHEN? Anyway, you are a handsome man, life will reward you! Good luck and look forward to seeing more art from you! HUGS!

  • Gary, I'm sorry... we give so much for relationships when we are in love. You are a fabulous person... It's meant to be, I'm sure... but nothing is never wasted... so much learned and take it with you. Can't wait to hear what you will be doing.

  • It's a new beginning Gary !

  • I am so sorry....keep it good mate... love u...

  • luv you Gary, things will work out well with you. You are a great person , big hug

    ant

  • Wow, 7 yrs is a long time and you are on the right track in your thinking. As an artist, you know how important Truth is...in life, love, and art. Truth is beauty. The most important relationship in life will always be with yourself, whether you have a partner or not. So, please go easy on yourself. Sending you hugs and best wishes through the "Yube"!

  • Sending lots of positive energy your way! Though I'm a fairly new follower, I enjoy your spirit, your art and your videos! Of course change is difficult and starting over has it's ups and downs but your art and your followers are here for you. Can't wait to see what this new adventure has in store for you! Much love from the US!!

    -Maria

  • Gary, sorry about you heartack. Use it to your advantange. We are all here to support you. Push all that emotion good or bad into your work, it will help. We want you to NOT burn your artwork, put it up so we can buy it. Love you and your wonderful expressions!. We are out here to support you!

  • is a new day...is a new life....awesome new life babe, you have a great talent...and you so kind too....hugs

    <3

  • You're one of a kind - appreciate your charisma and talents. Your warmth, energy, and humour through the years have brought joy and inspiration. Take care. Best wishes friend!

  • I'm sorry to learn of your break up but you know what, you WILL BE fine. You've got a great attitude, friends, and talent.  There's a saying, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. It won't always be easy but you will get through this and be fine. Your You Tube family is definitely hoping for the best for you.

  • You will be stronger because of it, Gary. I think the change, although always hard, will get you in a new, exciting direction. Stay positive, or as my mother used to say: pick yourself up, dust off, and keep going. You have a wonderful, bright future ahead. Also, I am pretty sure you can raise a lot of money for the trip if you put more of your art work up for sale. Please keep us all posted, we have been big fans of your energy, your humor, your wonderful humanity all these years.

  • I am sorry for your heartache try to stay positive his loss is us Aussies gain and we cant wait to see you back here ... My Hands up for your first workshop!!! Cant wait to see you revel in new opportunities!!!

  • Lykke til videre Gary, er så glad for at jeg ble "kjent" med deg...du er en utrolig flott mann. Klem

  • We all love you so much! As Blessed Julian of Norwich wrote: All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well.

  • Hugs to you! Such a change for your life but change can be good and bring new opportunities for you! You will get through this and as hard as it may seem...each day will get better. Hope that you both can stay friends,I think that's important instead of leaving things stone cold. I'm not friends with my Ex Husband,he missed out on so much of our boys life.My other partner Mark,I was able to remain friends with him and he got to watch our daughters grow and change,essential to children. Smile.

  • You are both strong. You've shared so much with one another. You've breathed each other in. It is good that you both found love from across the globe. Now your time together is over. Take what you've learned and teach others. Gary. You've been such a bright lantern for me on my path as an artist. I will continue to listen to your words of wisdom. Keep watching your vids and stealing your techniques ;-)

    May you both prosper and be filled with laughter and love.

  • I love u Gary!

  • A hug from me, to you. It's a brave thing to share these big life events in front of the camera. You give so much out to the community and are so very inspiring in so many ways. Keep up your art, the world needs you. My best wishes for you in this time of transition Gary.

    Suzanne

  • My GF and I were together 7 years when she decided to end things. There was no one else, her feelings just changed. It ripped me apart... and years later, it still kinda does.

    End your relationship on as good of terms as you possibly can. Too often people take parting shots and things get ugly. If you spent 7 years with someone you don't want it to end badly and have it affect your memories and experiences with that person. Memories are important. Try not to tarnish them.

    Best of luck

  • <3

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