I do agree there is something as a serial cheater and the ones who cheat bec the opportunity is there and they think they can get away with it at that moment. Now if a man would cheat on me I would break up with him, one time cheating is too many. Also he could carry around STD and that is really the scary part, as a woman and human been I would like to have children some day and have a long healthy life and I would not stay with a man who is prepared to destroy it for few minutes of pleasure
Personally, I can only see cheating as immoral because of the fact that it is deception and it carries of risk of transferring STD's. Otherwise, if honest discussion and safe sex is practiced, there doesn't have to be any deception. Sexual Monogamy is a Disney Fantasy, and women are more prone to it due to their maternal natures. You don't have to take my word for it. The scientific research is available all over the place.
I have to agree and disagree at the same time. Men, biologically, are not monogamous. It is ingrained in our DNA to spread our seed via intense sexual urge. In order for most men to be successful at monogamy, they have to literally suppress their sexual nature via fear of losing the woman (or man) they love. Monogamy does not equal morality. Lying and deception is immorality, but the sexual acts themselves are not.
i agree it's wrong for the cheater to want trust. most of the time once cheater cheat there always a cheater.because it happened to me i truest him again & again.he cheat,cheat & cheat on me i feel like stupid now......................
And most women feel this way bec they think that the bad guy has more power then the good guy / shy guy / nice guy . which women perceive the bad guy to possesses more of these alpha traits than the type of guys I remarked above . Which is actually wrong . Which I can prove . But yeah
@Thesexy1pr1nce - you are correct. The alpha male, the sexy masculine "jerk" arouses a woman's sex drive, while the softer, less sexy, less masculine male arouses her emotional trust. Women subconsciously sense "strength" in the DNA/Sperm of the "jerk", while they sense "love/protection" from the weaker, softer, kinder man. Men and Women are driven by biological forces they don't understand, and that's why we suffer needlessly.
One the main reason why women chose the bad guy is because they feel that they can change them . So it becomes a challenge . Also another good reason why women date bad guys is because Most women feel as though only the bad guy can provide protection to the Women
Haha good guys / nice guys are , and yeah exactly what part or purpose does she have in running to the nice guy or good guy or shy guy . When the asshole guy / bad guy hurt her Or broke her heart or hurt her emotionally. Women actually love nice guys and good guys and the shy guys.
I have been thinking about this question for a long time. I have many platonic friends. And I tell you, women cheat a lot! I have had plenty of married women approach me assertively. I think because of that I have remained single even though I am 33. Women are cheating a lot but people think women are innocent. I know women are not innocent. Nobody is innocent. I bet if you ask every woman and every man if they have ever been cheated on, their answer would be "yes".
So true man . But honesty if a men cheat on a women the women should not put the blame on him . Its fault for choosing an asshole in the first place . Assholes are manipulative . If women don't want men who don't cheat than the Asshole guys or bad guys . They should either go = good guys or nice guy .
@Thesexy1pr1nce Lol @ thinking nice guys are incapable of cheating. It's never a womans fault if a man cheats. He's the one that was too weak to resist temptation. He was the one that was too much of a coward to just leave the relationship. Exactly what part does she have in that? None.
The problem is that if two unmarried persons have sex they are both breaking God's law not to fornicate. Thus when a man cheats on his girlfriend by having sex with another girl it's really the same thing as having sex with his girlfriend - fornicating. In both cases he is cheating on his future spouse -- the one who his sexual fidelity is due to. So, if you want a faithful man don't be an accomplice with him in fornicating, which is just as bad as adultery.
No I don't agree with that statement. I will say that people cheat for difference reasons for instance if someone cheats out of revenge because, they're partner cheated...although it's not right, but I can understand why someone would cheat. But for those who cheat just because, they cheat even though they have a great man/woman at home, I would never trust them and it's safe to say that if they cheated once, they will do it again.
listen i've never cheated in my life but before u say "what does this guy know if he's never cheated before" i have something to say this video explains some good things and all the people who are upset don't be. we all make mistakes in our lives and if you don't move on you'll never learn. Now i know that sounds cliche'd but it's true and i have to say something about one specific person Kantasyxx it's ok. if someone judges because of one time u regret ignore them thy're jerks. ps im not a girl
I have cheated before, and I am not proud of it. The reason why I did it was because I had low self esteem and when I was sleeping with someone, I got this feeling of being loved, close and wanted. But after the sex I felt horrible. It happened 3 times. Once a cheater, always a cheater is bullshit. When I broke up with my ex, I went with my bestfriend (who is now my ex) and I stayed faithful the whole time I was with him. If you are going to cheat, talk to your partner it is not worth cheating.
I found out by snooping on my ex gf's facebook (not proud of it) that my gf cheated on me with another guy weeks before our ''taking time apart'' aka breaking up. It answers a lot of questions I had, like why she was trying to fight with me, which was just an escape goat of an excuse to leave me. Answered other questions I never got from her, and gave me closure. If she came back now, and admitted she cheated, I might take her back. But if she came back without admitting it, then no way in hell
i cheated on my first wife and she left, it haunts me now and yes i agree good Job. People change i have - If im ever lucky enough to find love again i wont let go. I was a manipulative cheater btw and i have nightmares about that now, but i am learning to forgive myself
How can it be a true mistake if one knows cheating is wrong before they do it. So he \ she is getting ready to do something they know is wrong. They know but they do it anyway. This is not a mistake. More like an "intentional" mistake. It is just Wrong. Cheaters know it is wrong and they do it anyway. That is not a legitimate mistake. It's not even a mistake. People have brains to tell them what is right and wrong. Then they look their partner in the face and lie. "Intentional Lies"
For any of you guys who might not know this, women usually have a plan B. If it doesn't work out with you, chances are she already knows who the next guy will be.
Manipulative cheaters actually have a disorder. It's called sociopath disorder. They do things for their gain of a certain emotion or goal, with little or true care to the one they affect. It is sad, and they do finish when they WANT to. It is a want than a need, and only fixed under a need only when there's nothing else to want.
I love this. Question: Say my Boyfriend was continuously lying and cheating on me. So I broke up with him. 2 days later he got a new girlfriend. We're only 20. Do you think he will cheat and lie to her the same way he use to lie to me?
@keelathebee Who know...she might just cheat on him...it's called KARMA. I understand how you feel...when you are in love with someone, you don't want to see them happy with anyone else, you want them to suffer just as much as you are and believe me, he will get his....
I cheated before. I was young, dumb and ended up getting divorced. Once I cheated I knew I couldn't be with her again. I don't think that most men or women are ready for a long term relationship under 30. I was just in a relationship with a wonderful woman for 1 year and never had sex. Unfortunately we broke up but remain friends. It has alot to do with maturity and feeling secure about yourself.
I cheated before. I won't again. I was young and dumb. I don't think that most men or women are ready for a long term relationship under 35. I was just in a relationship with a wonderful woman for 1 year and never had sex. Unfortunately we broke up but remain friends. It has alot to do with maturity.
@bermudasand I don't agree with that...age has nothing to do with it per say...it's more so the person's personal belief system and the type of people they hang around with. You never know what age you will fall in love and people use the age excuse as a reason for cheating, lying and using others. If you know you aren't ready for a relationship, then don't get in one...it's that simple.
Married women cheat on their husbands banging other men and then blame the "relationship". These women are a toxic combination of deceit and manipulation. Get out and haul their sorry ass into divorce court
NOT EVERY PUSSY IS GOOD ESPECIALLY african american women have wallowing pussies... and have been having sex since thery were 7 years old ..... GUESS WHAT SEX WOULD SUCK!!!!!!!!! YOU SORT OF GET NUMB TO IT ,.......LIKE PEOPLE WHO ARE SERIAL KILLERS .......THEY GET NUMB TO KILLING PEOPLE........ A MAN HAS A LEFT HAND ....... WWHICH IS BETTER THAN MOST VAGINAS ...!!!!!! black VAGINERS CAN STINK and be diseased the left hand of a man is the best way my fellow MEN .......in this day and age..
@theifingcoon wtf is wrong with you? are u fukkin retarted or something?? someone should cave your head in with a fuccin baseball bat to prevent you leaving racial and non-funny comments.
Ive just gotta say that it is FALSE!!!! :D How do I know? Well I used to, when I began dating, cheat and it caused me a girl who I wanted to spend my life with. I was a fucking idiot in so many fucking levels... then I stopped after I saw what I had lost and now ive been with my gf almost 2 yrs, engaged to her, and its AMAZING! :)
alright, here's a question: HOw about a person that you don't know if they say they cheated on you, BUT, they have a history of lying and say w/e the hell they want just to hurt you, what category do they fall under?
Great points, however I think the 3rd type of cheater u mentioned the "manipulative one who decide to change"-one, only changes once the victim gets feds up with him and he moves on to someone else. I highly doubt that he makes this "change" while with that the same person he dogged over and over again. Too much damage is done and he'll always feel like in the back of his mind he can do it and get away with it 'cuz she keeps taking him back and/or expects him to cheat.
(cont'd) However, a new person (not clouded by his prior baggage) laying down the standards might make him think twice abt cheating if he's on the that I wanna "change" state-of-mind...
Statistics show men cheat more and think about cheating more. IT shows that men often cheat due to lack of sex be it not getting any or not enjoying what theyre getting or just wanting someone new. It shows that women often cheat because the man is not there for her emotionally, financially or maybe doesn't pay attention to her at all or not enough. Many people cheat 'cause the other person cheated first.
I think the question that needs to be addressed is what motivates people to cheat? Part of the reason some people cheat is due to what they're not getting from their partner in the relationship. I think this is true of mostly good, decent men or women. Of course, the chronic cheaters are simply dogs and they need to be kicked to the curb. But for those that find themselves consistently cheated on need to take a close look at themselves rather than try to be a victim.
i mean i think it depends on the situation . if they cheated for no good reason then dont take them back. but if their is a honest to goodness problem, and they are sincere and actually sorry for it and you know that it wont happen again, then i think they deserve another chance. but the SECOND time, hell no they gots to go
it think dudes cheat most. however, a girl is up for competition. What I mean by that is that a girl is willing to sleep with a guy who is in a relationship. She may "care" but once it comes down to it girls tend to make the "regrettable decision." On the original question though...once a cheater always a cheater...it also depends on whether or not the cheater gets caught. In my opinion once a person cheats that person will at minimum always consider the option to cheat or not to cheat.
I think men physically cheats more than women but women cheat emotionally, much more.
It all depends on what you consider cheating. Is it when you become attracted to someone else on an emotional level? A physical level? or when you actually act on your feelings?
Dude you are soooo right. As far as actual intercourse men probably cheat more, but if you consider stepping out on someone emotionally a/o even financially, then women cheat way more!
Women manipulate unsuspecting men on a daily basis for that type of stimulation. They'll know a guy is interested in them, but they'll send him mixed messages & never just tell him she has a man she's committed to.
Just keep stringing a guy along gettin gifts, lunches, a shoulder to cry on, etc.
@promove69 and you....promove69 is probley why you have never had a stable relationship. "all she need to focus on is keeping her legs open,thats all." STFU. like really....PEOPLE.THESE.DAYS.
Promove69, you called me a bitch and said i should "focus on keeping my legs open" how the hell is that not disrespectful? I have no problem with others disagreeing with what I say, but theres a difference between disagreeing and being a disrespectful jerk.
@promove69 You sound like a horrible person! And u hv ZERO respect for women. U disrespected her 1st then came with the "respect me & I'll respect u" nonsense. Sometimes ppl go thru something & it fucks up their whole outlook. U hv a lot of animosity toward women so I'm assuming ur either really ugly & were never given the time of day or some girl just drug your heart thru the mud. Whatever it is, u need to let all that stuff go b4 u end up in jail somewhere with your violent self.
I had a similar experience to Kantasy, being in a neglecting relationship - especially emotionalwise can send people into the arms of other people without even realising it.
I still think there's no real justification for cheating, and very rarely can a relationship be recovered after that kind of trust is lost/destroyed. People constantly make errors in judgement, cheating is among them. I agree the statement is false. (:
I cheated once ever in my life, and i regretted it, i was crying so much i didn't know what to do with myself because thats not who i am and it was my first time ever. The reason why i did this is because my ex was treating me like shit and i had a feeling he was doing stuff with other girls. Turns out two days later he breaks up with me and tells me something about him not staying committed and kissing other girls, i felt so stupid.
Women and men both cheat a lot. Women are more prone to cheat with the heart though. Guys are more likely to hop a lot of chicks that mean nothing. Women fall in love with someone else and stay in 2 relationships and have them raising another motherf#$%ers child until Maury tells them who the daddy is.
(cont) certain things out of my system has something to do with it too, but i have never so much as kissed another girl in the time i have known my GF. Iv been tempted numerous times but ultimately it wasnt that difficult to say no. Whereas in my last relationship i would look for girls when i was out! So maybe people can change.
Faithfulness is not selective, its more a question of selecting to whom you will be faithful. Everybody likes to know they could sleep with certain people. Thats a fact. Some people give in to temptation and others dont, thats all there is to it. Personally in the past i have been a serial cheater. i didnt realize until i met my current GF of 3 years that it was because i wasnt really in love with the person i was with. Im not saying thats an excuse, and maybe growing up and getting...
@rorschach01 I think it has more to do with that "in love feeling" as I have noticed that when people aren't fully and totally invested emotionally and mentally with they're partner, they are more likely to cheat than not. It's not enough to just like someone or have "some love" for someone, you have to be fully invested if not, you will end up cheating sooner or later and cheating isn't just physical, there are thousands of people cheating everyday in they're mind and heart.
(con't)...one way or another. And a lot of times that becomes a pattern within individuals in relationships, and like I said a city like NY, like Miami, like LA, is more common for that to happen than if living in a rural region. But also as I mentioned to you as well, it depends on what is considered cheating to the person cheating and being cheated on because everyone has there own sensitivity level so like you said it is all up in the air...
Cool vid Fan...As I mentioned to you on facebook, I really do feel once a cheater always a cheater. I guess to me because there are more manipulative cheaters out there than there is that ONE time mistake kind of thing...and esp with living in NYC...being that there is so much temptation out here and just ways to get caught up in unnecessary and wrong situations. More often, ppl in relationships can just get caught up in situations that they end up doing something to breach the relationship...
I think women cheat more, but men get caught more often then women do because most of the time women who cheat are alot more crafty then men so they don't get the blame.
Once a Cheater always a cheater.. It doesnt give a reason to cheat just because things are not perfect or even if your having problems. How do u kno if he/she neva cheat again.. I dnt think there is way to find out again jus cause they wuld figure out to do sumthing else the second time arnd when they cheat...since they got caught the 1st time.. Just my opinion...
People cheat (normally) when they feel incomplete in a relationship. Or believe that they are missing something. When a person meets someone that they want to give there heart to 90% of the time they don't cheat. I had to leave 10% off for the accidental cheaters (lol).
more than likely woman will say men and men will say woman. I believe everyone has the cheater gene in them...lol. you simply have to be with a person worthy enough not too.
No once a cheater is not always a cheater. I'm a female and I've cheated but I've only cheated on the overly cocky, think I'm the sh*t and she aint goin no where type guys. They always seem to think because their good lookin or have cash they don't have to show you attention. Wrong! I give 3 warning and dont nag about it say it in a nice caring way. Plan things to do the whole 9 and get nothing but "babe I'll make it up to you" and the next time they look up I'm givin them the duces.
1st: There is no such thing as cheating and the entire idea behind it is utter bullshit!
2nd: Humans are not, and were never hard wired to be monogamous. (research!)
3rd: If you are not married, there is no infidelity. Boyfriend Girlfriend = playing around
4th: Abstinence, from your mate is also a form of infidelity. (common in marriage!)
5th: Monogamy is a practiced behavior. If you step out 10 times in 10 years, you are good at monogamy!
NegroDeSangue 1 week ago
I do agree there is something as a serial cheater and the ones who cheat bec the opportunity is there and they think they can get away with it at that moment. Now if a man would cheat on me I would break up with him, one time cheating is too many. Also he could carry around STD and that is really the scary part, as a woman and human been I would like to have children some day and have a long healthy life and I would not stay with a man who is prepared to destroy it for few minutes of pleasure
MsLatifa26 1 month ago
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Personally, I can only see cheating as immoral because of the fact that it is deception and it carries of risk of transferring STD's. Otherwise, if honest discussion and safe sex is practiced, there doesn't have to be any deception. Sexual Monogamy is a Disney Fantasy, and women are more prone to it due to their maternal natures. You don't have to take my word for it. The scientific research is available all over the place.
SpearofDestiny0 1 month ago
I have to agree and disagree at the same time. Men, biologically, are not monogamous. It is ingrained in our DNA to spread our seed via intense sexual urge. In order for most men to be successful at monogamy, they have to literally suppress their sexual nature via fear of losing the woman (or man) they love. Monogamy does not equal morality. Lying and deception is immorality, but the sexual acts themselves are not.
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i agree it's wrong for the cheater to want trust. most of the time once cheater cheat there always a cheater.because it happened to me i truest him again & again.he cheat,cheat & cheat on me i feel like stupid now......................
holdlov41 2 months ago
No your place Girl men will lead and women will always follow .
Women = Wo +unto = men
Men is single . Wo +men = you need us = men
Thesexy1pr1nce 2 months ago
And most women feel this way bec they think that the bad guy has more power then the good guy / shy guy / nice guy . which women perceive the bad guy to possesses more of these alpha traits than the type of guys I remarked above . Which is actually wrong . Which I can prove . But yeah
Thesexy1pr1nce 2 months ago
@Thesexy1pr1nce - you are correct. The alpha male, the sexy masculine "jerk" arouses a woman's sex drive, while the softer, less sexy, less masculine male arouses her emotional trust. Women subconsciously sense "strength" in the DNA/Sperm of the "jerk", while they sense "love/protection" from the weaker, softer, kinder man. Men and Women are driven by biological forces they don't understand, and that's why we suffer needlessly.
SpearofDestiny0 1 month ago
One the main reason why women chose the bad guy is because they feel that they can change them . So it becomes a challenge . Also another good reason why women date bad guys is because Most women feel as though only the bad guy can provide protection to the Women
Thesexy1pr1nce 2 months ago
@lecifbaby
Haha good guys / nice guys are , and yeah exactly what part or purpose does she have in running to the nice guy or good guy or shy guy . When the asshole guy / bad guy hurt her Or broke her heart or hurt her emotionally. Women actually love nice guys and good guys and the shy guys.
Thesexy1pr1nce 2 months ago
I have been thinking about this question for a long time. I have many platonic friends. And I tell you, women cheat a lot! I have had plenty of married women approach me assertively. I think because of that I have remained single even though I am 33. Women are cheating a lot but people think women are innocent. I know women are not innocent. Nobody is innocent. I bet if you ask every woman and every man if they have ever been cheated on, their answer would be "yes".
mostsincere 2 months ago
@ inbonnie
So true man . But honesty if a men cheat on a women the women should not put the blame on him . Its fault for choosing an asshole in the first place . Assholes are manipulative . If women don't want men who don't cheat than the Asshole guys or bad guys . They should either go = good guys or nice guy .
Thesexy1pr1nce 3 months ago
@Thesexy1pr1nce Lol @ thinking nice guys are incapable of cheating. It's never a womans fault if a man cheats. He's the one that was too weak to resist temptation. He was the one that was too much of a coward to just leave the relationship. Exactly what part does she have in that? None.
lecifbaby 2 months ago
Cheating starts early with games and personal interaction... then it becomes commonplace. My son even KNOWS about cheaters and he's 7.
surfingcougar 4 months ago
Mistake or no mistake, if I get cheated on, I'm dumping her no questions asked. Heat of the moment my ass...
goodfellabeats 4 months ago 4
The problem is that if two unmarried persons have sex they are both breaking God's law not to fornicate. Thus when a man cheats on his girlfriend by having sex with another girl it's really the same thing as having sex with his girlfriend - fornicating. In both cases he is cheating on his future spouse -- the one who his sexual fidelity is due to. So, if you want a faithful man don't be an accomplice with him in fornicating, which is just as bad as adultery.
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No I don't agree with that statement. I will say that people cheat for difference reasons for instance if someone cheats out of revenge because, they're partner cheated...although it's not right, but I can understand why someone would cheat. But for those who cheat just because, they cheat even though they have a great man/woman at home, I would never trust them and it's safe to say that if they cheated once, they will do it again.
Famfriass 5 months ago
more female cheaters:)
324582782 5 months ago
listen i've never cheated in my life but before u say "what does this guy know if he's never cheated before" i have something to say this video explains some good things and all the people who are upset don't be. we all make mistakes in our lives and if you don't move on you'll never learn. Now i know that sounds cliche'd but it's true and i have to say something about one specific person Kantasyxx it's ok. if someone judges because of one time u regret ignore them thy're jerks. ps im not a girl
FreeroamHunter 7 months ago
I have cheated before, and I am not proud of it. The reason why I did it was because I had low self esteem and when I was sleeping with someone, I got this feeling of being loved, close and wanted. But after the sex I felt horrible. It happened 3 times. Once a cheater, always a cheater is bullshit. When I broke up with my ex, I went with my bestfriend (who is now my ex) and I stayed faithful the whole time I was with him. If you are going to cheat, talk to your partner it is not worth cheating.
camandhayley 7 months ago
I found out by snooping on my ex gf's facebook (not proud of it) that my gf cheated on me with another guy weeks before our ''taking time apart'' aka breaking up. It answers a lot of questions I had, like why she was trying to fight with me, which was just an escape goat of an excuse to leave me. Answered other questions I never got from her, and gave me closure. If she came back now, and admitted she cheated, I might take her back. But if she came back without admitting it, then no way in hell
mnetrucker 8 months ago
i cheated on my first wife and she left, it haunts me now and yes i agree good Job. People change i have - If im ever lucky enough to find love again i wont let go. I was a manipulative cheater btw and i have nightmares about that now, but i am learning to forgive myself
cooky1975 8 months ago
How can it be a true mistake if one knows cheating is wrong before they do it. So he \ she is getting ready to do something they know is wrong. They know but they do it anyway. This is not a mistake. More like an "intentional" mistake. It is just Wrong. Cheaters know it is wrong and they do it anyway. That is not a legitimate mistake. It's not even a mistake. People have brains to tell them what is right and wrong. Then they look their partner in the face and lie. "Intentional Lies"
u3of52 11 months ago
For any of you guys who might not know this, women usually have a plan B. If it doesn't work out with you, chances are she already knows who the next guy will be.
deepfreeze202 1 year ago
Manipulative cheaters actually have a disorder. It's called sociopath disorder. They do things for their gain of a certain emotion or goal, with little or true care to the one they affect. It is sad, and they do finish when they WANT to. It is a want than a need, and only fixed under a need only when there's nothing else to want.
massiahmassiah7 1 year ago
she knows ALOT about cheating! hmmmm i wonder whyyy
whatsgoingon07 1 year ago
sound quality is really bad
1991zulu 1 year ago
I love this. Question: Say my Boyfriend was continuously lying and cheating on me. So I broke up with him. 2 days later he got a new girlfriend. We're only 20. Do you think he will cheat and lie to her the same way he use to lie to me?
keelathebee 1 year ago
@keelathebee Who know...she might just cheat on him...it's called KARMA. I understand how you feel...when you are in love with someone, you don't want to see them happy with anyone else, you want them to suffer just as much as you are and believe me, he will get his....
Famfriass 5 months ago
@keelathebee
Yes
mostsincere 2 months ago
I cheated before. I was young, dumb and ended up getting divorced. Once I cheated I knew I couldn't be with her again. I don't think that most men or women are ready for a long term relationship under 30. I was just in a relationship with a wonderful woman for 1 year and never had sex. Unfortunately we broke up but remain friends. It has alot to do with maturity and feeling secure about yourself.
bermudasand 1 year ago
I cheated before. I won't again. I was young and dumb. I don't think that most men or women are ready for a long term relationship under 35. I was just in a relationship with a wonderful woman for 1 year and never had sex. Unfortunately we broke up but remain friends. It has alot to do with maturity.
bermudasand 1 year ago
@bermudasand I don't agree with that...age has nothing to do with it per say...it's more so the person's personal belief system and the type of people they hang around with. You never know what age you will fall in love and people use the age excuse as a reason for cheating, lying and using others. If you know you aren't ready for a relationship, then don't get in one...it's that simple.
Famfriass 5 months ago
yes there are cheaters period.
pornouno 1 year ago
You should have known them of being a manipulative cheater after the first time.
rocabear 1 year ago
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orioncheung 1 year ago
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orioncheung 1 year ago
Married women cheat on their husbands banging other men and then blame the "relationship". These women are a toxic combination of deceit and manipulation. Get out and haul their sorry ass into divorce court
gfkr2 1 year ago
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NOT EVERY PUSSY IS GOOD ESPECIALLY african american women have wallowing pussies... and have been having sex since thery were 7 years old ..... GUESS WHAT SEX WOULD SUCK!!!!!!!!! YOU SORT OF GET NUMB TO IT ,.......LIKE PEOPLE WHO ARE SERIAL KILLERS .......THEY GET NUMB TO KILLING PEOPLE........ A MAN HAS A LEFT HAND ....... WWHICH IS BETTER THAN MOST VAGINAS ...!!!!!! black VAGINERS CAN STINK and be diseased the left hand of a man is the best way my fellow MEN .......in this day and age..
theifingcoon 1 year ago
@theifingcoon wtf is wrong with you? are u fukkin retarted or something?? someone should cave your head in with a fuccin baseball bat to prevent you leaving racial and non-funny comments.
Jazzyjaxx55 1 year ago
I just found out yesterday that my boyfriend cheated on me.. it completely shocked me and broke my heart. /:
it sucks because even after all that has happened, I still love him.
BeccaBabyLuvsYou 1 year ago
Ive just gotta say that it is FALSE!!!! :D How do I know? Well I used to, when I began dating, cheat and it caused me a girl who I wanted to spend my life with. I was a fucking idiot in so many fucking levels... then I stopped after I saw what I had lost and now ive been with my gf almost 2 yrs, engaged to her, and its AMAZING! :)
oArthurYo 1 year ago
wow there is some haters on here.
so what about if they cheated numerous times and they wont say anything?
what do you do then?
futurechemengineer89 1 year ago
r u half black half asian ??
theeb191145 1 year ago
do u have a man
matt60404 1 year ago
alright, here's a question: HOw about a person that you don't know if they say they cheated on you, BUT, they have a history of lying and say w/e the hell they want just to hurt you, what category do they fall under?
Circus2999 1 year ago
@Circus2999 There are more than once category of cheaters as people cheat for diff. reasons.
Famfriass 5 months ago
i think once a cheater always a cheater, and i think women cheat more ( "why" is a longer debate )
but this is actually what i wanna hear, have u ever cheated, and if so, have u cheated on the same guy more then once
the first qustion is more of a retorical one, i doubt there is anyone that has never cheated....
saibabax 1 year ago
Once a cheater, Always be a fucker
helmetBETTY 1 year ago
A Cheater is a Cheater. No Chance, you did dirt.."What kind of man would i be to live unfaithfully" Mint Condition.
xwizdom 2 years ago
Great points, however I think the 3rd type of cheater u mentioned the "manipulative one who decide to change"-one, only changes once the victim gets feds up with him and he moves on to someone else. I highly doubt that he makes this "change" while with that the same person he dogged over and over again. Too much damage is done and he'll always feel like in the back of his mind he can do it and get away with it 'cuz she keeps taking him back and/or expects him to cheat.
babbina 2 years ago
(cont'd) However, a new person (not clouded by his prior baggage) laying down the standards might make him think twice abt cheating if he's on the that I wanna "change" state-of-mind...
babbina 2 years ago
Men will cheat more than women..... Why? because they always need their small egos stroked..... LMAOS!!!
pieces141127 2 years ago
...it depends on that individual
ITZM3BYTCH09 2 years ago
Statistics show men cheat more and think about cheating more. IT shows that men often cheat due to lack of sex be it not getting any or not enjoying what theyre getting or just wanting someone new. It shows that women often cheat because the man is not there for her emotionally, financially or maybe doesn't pay attention to her at all or not enough. Many people cheat 'cause the other person cheated first.
soni408 2 years ago
girls cheat more they are fucking sluts
ElijahDTF 2 years ago
females love cheaters though
osmiley99 2 years ago
I think the question that needs to be addressed is what motivates people to cheat? Part of the reason some people cheat is due to what they're not getting from their partner in the relationship. I think this is true of mostly good, decent men or women. Of course, the chronic cheaters are simply dogs and they need to be kicked to the curb. But for those that find themselves consistently cheated on need to take a close look at themselves rather than try to be a victim.
jaypmba 2 years ago
women cheat more but they wayyyyy more sly wit it den nigguhs...nigguhs dumb...but i aint ...lol
Beamacaleone 2 years ago
i mean i think it depends on the situation . if they cheated for no good reason then dont take them back. but if their is a honest to goodness problem, and they are sincere and actually sorry for it and you know that it wont happen again, then i think they deserve another chance. but the SECOND time, hell no they gots to go
HoneyLove210 2 years ago
it think dudes cheat most. however, a girl is up for competition. What I mean by that is that a girl is willing to sleep with a guy who is in a relationship. She may "care" but once it comes down to it girls tend to make the "regrettable decision." On the original question though...once a cheater always a cheater...it also depends on whether or not the cheater gets caught. In my opinion once a person cheats that person will at minimum always consider the option to cheat or not to cheat.
USMChiLD 2 years ago
I think men physically cheats more than women but women cheat emotionally, much more.
It all depends on what you consider cheating. Is it when you become attracted to someone else on an emotional level? A physical level? or when you actually act on your feelings?
alwajihah 2 years ago
That was deep
ntrakit6 2 years ago
@alwajihah
Dude you are soooo right. As far as actual intercourse men probably cheat more, but if you consider stepping out on someone emotionally a/o even financially, then women cheat way more!
Women manipulate unsuspecting men on a daily basis for that type of stimulation. They'll know a guy is interested in them, but they'll send him mixed messages & never just tell him she has a man she's committed to.
Just keep stringing a guy along gettin gifts, lunches, a shoulder to cry on, etc.
SLICENSLASH 2 years ago
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promove69 2 years ago
If you are going to be disrespectful then don't come to my page. My name isn't bitch. If you donot like what I have to say then DON'T WATCH IT!
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago 6
@promove69 and you....promove69 is probley why you have never had a stable relationship. "all she need to focus on is keeping her legs open,thats all." STFU. like really....PEOPLE.THESE.DAYS.
makeupforever31 6 months ago
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promove69 2 years ago
Where does she get her info?? It's just her opinion smart person, she doesn't get it from anywhere but herself.
Ruber212 2 years ago
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promove69 2 years ago
Someone looks a little butt hurt. Did I touch a nerve??
Ruber212 2 years ago
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promove69 2 years ago
haha lol ur funny.
Ruber212 2 years ago
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promove69 2 years ago
sure buddy sure. Keep telling urself that hater.
Ruber212 2 years ago
ruber212, ignore promove69 he's just an ignorant person with nothing better to do.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago
yes he is and I should've done that from the start. I subbed btw; keep up the good work. I don't just sub 2 anyone so u must be awesome
Ruber212 2 years ago
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promove69 2 years ago
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promove69 2 years ago
Promove69, you called me a bitch and said i should "focus on keeping my legs open" how the hell is that not disrespectful? I have no problem with others disagreeing with what I say, but theres a difference between disagreeing and being a disrespectful jerk.
OnlyOneFantasy 2 years ago 14
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promove69 2 years ago
@promove69 You sound like a horrible person! And u hv ZERO respect for women. U disrespected her 1st then came with the "respect me & I'll respect u" nonsense. Sometimes ppl go thru something & it fucks up their whole outlook. U hv a lot of animosity toward women so I'm assuming ur either really ugly & were never given the time of day or some girl just drug your heart thru the mud. Whatever it is, u need to let all that stuff go b4 u end up in jail somewhere with your violent self.
carolinaAzz555 1 year ago
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promove69 1 year ago
@OnlyOneFantasy Sorry you got douchebags like that around here still... o.o
imzchry 6 months ago
I love your opinion on this.
I had a similar experience to Kantasy, being in a neglecting relationship - especially emotionalwise can send people into the arms of other people without even realising it.
I still think there's no real justification for cheating, and very rarely can a relationship be recovered after that kind of trust is lost/destroyed. People constantly make errors in judgement, cheating is among them. I agree the statement is false. (:
*subs*
PurpleMeerkat4 2 years ago
I cheated once ever in my life, and i regretted it, i was crying so much i didn't know what to do with myself because thats not who i am and it was my first time ever. The reason why i did this is because my ex was treating me like shit and i had a feeling he was doing stuff with other girls. Turns out two days later he breaks up with me and tells me something about him not staying committed and kissing other girls, i felt so stupid.
Kantasyxx 2 years ago 7
I give you kudos for what you wrote.
Intransitman 2 years ago
true, ha.
SPIKEMINODA08 2 years ago
Women and men both cheat a lot. Women are more prone to cheat with the heart though. Guys are more likely to hop a lot of chicks that mean nothing. Women fall in love with someone else and stay in 2 relationships and have them raising another motherf#$%ers child until Maury tells them who the daddy is.
baileyh7 2 years ago
i think a cheater wont "always" cheat . But your honey will ALWAYS think so. Theres just so much trust lost, you know.
w00w0023 2 years ago
hmm a cheater is a cheater...i think so, and WOW your hair got long fantasy!!! love it
matezo 2 years ago
If things don't work out, is it Okay to ask for the ring back????
OneSmartJay 2 years ago
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... listened to the whole video... people can change if they only want to. that is correct....
once a cheater, always a cheater? always cant be "always"? that is false.
NEXT VIDEO =0P
now who cheats more??? ehhhhhhhhhhh there is no statistics.
OneProspectMind 2 years ago
(cont) certain things out of my system has something to do with it too, but i have never so much as kissed another girl in the time i have known my GF. Iv been tempted numerous times but ultimately it wasnt that difficult to say no. Whereas in my last relationship i would look for girls when i was out! So maybe people can change.
rorschach01 2 years ago
Faithfulness is not selective, its more a question of selecting to whom you will be faithful. Everybody likes to know they could sleep with certain people. Thats a fact. Some people give in to temptation and others dont, thats all there is to it. Personally in the past i have been a serial cheater. i didnt realize until i met my current GF of 3 years that it was because i wasnt really in love with the person i was with. Im not saying thats an excuse, and maybe growing up and getting...
rorschach01 2 years ago
@rorschach01 I think it has more to do with that "in love feeling" as I have noticed that when people aren't fully and totally invested emotionally and mentally with they're partner, they are more likely to cheat than not. It's not enough to just like someone or have "some love" for someone, you have to be fully invested if not, you will end up cheating sooner or later and cheating isn't just physical, there are thousands of people cheating everyday in they're mind and heart.
Famfriass 5 months ago
(con't)...one way or another. And a lot of times that becomes a pattern within individuals in relationships, and like I said a city like NY, like Miami, like LA, is more common for that to happen than if living in a rural region. But also as I mentioned to you as well, it depends on what is considered cheating to the person cheating and being cheated on because everyone has there own sensitivity level so like you said it is all up in the air...
JASONFIED 2 years ago
Cool vid Fan...As I mentioned to you on facebook, I really do feel once a cheater always a cheater. I guess to me because there are more manipulative cheaters out there than there is that ONE time mistake kind of thing...and esp with living in NYC...being that there is so much temptation out here and just ways to get caught up in unnecessary and wrong situations. More often, ppl in relationships can just get caught up in situations that they end up doing something to breach the relationship...
JASONFIED 2 years ago
I think women cheat more, but men get caught more often then women do because most of the time women who cheat are alot more crafty then men so they don't get the blame.
WhatNowKarma 2 years ago
Once a Cheater always a cheater.. It doesnt give a reason to cheat just because things are not perfect or even if your having problems. How do u kno if he/she neva cheat again.. I dnt think there is way to find out again jus cause they wuld figure out to do sumthing else the second time arnd when they cheat...since they got caught the 1st time.. Just my opinion...
xBr0oklynBeautyx 2 years ago
People cheat (normally) when they feel incomplete in a relationship. Or believe that they are missing something. When a person meets someone that they want to give there heart to 90% of the time they don't cheat. I had to leave 10% off for the accidental cheaters (lol).
candiraiin 2 years ago 2
hey u exactly right/
larrydc36 2 years ago
more than likely woman will say men and men will say woman. I believe everyone has the cheater gene in them...lol. you simply have to be with a person worthy enough not too.
destorm 2 years ago
gotta want to change
complexgrafix 2 years ago
Once a cheater always a cheater...Once that trust is broken its a wrap... Numbers wise:
Men cheat more, because they get caught.
But Women do cheat, and get away with it more often because they are smarter.
KidTuff32 2 years ago
No once a cheater is not always a cheater. I'm a female and I've cheated but I've only cheated on the overly cocky, think I'm the sh*t and she aint goin no where type guys. They always seem to think because their good lookin or have cash they don't have to show you attention. Wrong! I give 3 warning and dont nag about it say it in a nice caring way. Plan things to do the whole 9 and get nothing but "babe I'll make it up to you" and the next time they look up I'm givin them the duces.
lovely923916 2 years ago
very true great vid
jboogy259 2 years ago