@henryfreak1 It sounds like you "Henry freak1" is mad because sistas' like Mya and Lauren London ain't feelin' yo white-ass. Stop hatin'. Most black women don't feel white dudes. Move on. Stop hating on the girl.
This is a crock of shxt! Swagger =look like a thug? Take charge = abuse? REACH MUCH? U must get no play from the black girls....u sound completely insecure smh
I don't think that Mya did a great job of expresing herself in the most clear manner but I think I understand what she is saying. I think that she wants a man who is assertive and sure of his position and direction. And that she is open to submitting to a man (subit simply means to agree) who she loves and respects because she wants to be somewhat led. now when she jumped off the deep end and exposed herself as a thug lover with that last statement.
@LovinHimIzEasy most of us black men r hideous, well fuck u bitch, i bet u r one of those ugly bitches that is mad a college educated black man those not want to date her goofy looking ass, dumb bitch!!!
lookin at the comments i see alot of people are confused at the point he was making, his point is that black women need to stop encouraging thuggs to behave in the manner they behave in cuz they find it attractive for whatever reason. That way black men will step it up. believe it or not alot of mens actions come from what impresses a woman.
Mya and Lauren London are both celebrities. They are beautiful and they make a lot of money or at least they can date someone that does, pretty women can always get a pass for being stupid. Besides, white celebrities date losers too. Why is everyone picking on black women? Black men should be ashamed. Those of you quick to put us down are in for a rude awakening.
@watchalotovids being married to a black woman i think we should check our black women. we don't check white women cause we don't want white women. if you feel offended then check where those feelings are coming from.
You may feel that way, and that's fine, but there are countless other black men on here professing their love for none black women and putting black women down. If you hate black women so much, why GAF? I don't feel offended, I feel tired of being under scrutiny for being a black woman. Black men have several issues from killing each other, to selling drugs, to abusing their women, having unprotected sex and the list goes on.
@watchalotovids I have even seen videos and comments on here of black men straight up blaming black women for all of the problems within the race. I'm used to being stereotyped by racist white people, I can handle that, but at this point, even black men will look at me and assume things that aren't true all because I'm a black women. Black men and women need to stop the bashing and finger pointing and people need to take responsibility for their OWN actions.
@watchalotovids Us putting each other down only weakens our race and empowers those that are racist against us, a lot of these black men don't understand that. That's all, and forgive me for saying "black men" in my first comment, I should've said "some of you black men, because I know it isn't every black man.
@watchalotovids wow, so u got the impression that i hate black women from my statement. u got problems sis. so wat u feel like ur under scrutiny. black women need to set their priorities straight when choosing a mate(and my wife would be the first to tell u that). besides, black men have been catching it for years, get over it homegirl. i don't take offense cause the negative stereotypes don't apply to my. check urself, sis
@marc777danielle No. I did not get the impression that YOU hate black women. Black men need to get their priorities straight as well and stop nagging and bitching. Nagging is supposed to be a female thing but a lot of black men have taken over. I was talking about all of these videos from black men blaming black women for every problem that they have that's it. I didn't say you did it, and I didn't say all black men did it.
@marc777danielle shut your dumb ass up..someone actually said yes to you when you asked them to marry them. smh must be some desperate women around here
@watchalotovids black men & black women got sum issues, lets be real....black men act like little immature boys, & black women are way to UN-feminine & love to wear the pants.
@watchalotovids cause the truth is why is it that when a blk man has no money then he cant find luv. but when hes rich blk women kick the door down for a date. say u have blk man thats a loser right just a total failure which no women wants. he all of sudden hits the lotto . the same dude who was a total failure would have women seeking him out the same dude but much more eligible now that he has money that tell me it aint about luv at all its about franklins lol
And it is true you seem like a divider your voice is irritating as hell. Look black men and woman need to work out our petty little squabbles we differ sometimes because of oppression. Our educational system is not control by us therefore we have not built a cultural identity with one another. This system is built on divide and conquer. love of the black woman now and forever.
There are good black men that would love to date Mya; leave Mya alone her criticism is unnecessary. This whole thing was pointless we work with our women we don't put them down.
i'm depressed by what your saying, let me explain , i was watching these nice cute funny boyfriend tags from interracial couple that were really sweet and i somehow ended up watching these clips about black successful single women then on to you! not that what you're saying is totally wrong ,but it feels like an entrenched war between the sexes and nothing is pretty about that!!! what about love
Ok the guy who posted this and dissected this video is waaaaaay too uptight and took things waaaay too seriously!!! He must really like Mya and have been rejected by some girl who looks like her or something!!! She's not literally saying take charge of her but to be a leader. Also - I use the word swag. My hubby has swag in that he handles the business so we maintain a solid household. He doesn't need to prove anything. He's funny, fun, intelligent and that adds up to swag - all day, every
Yeah i get what you saying man, but why are you so overly expressive about it? Sounds like you having some personal issues yourself. Your smart I can tell, but no body want to hear ALL your thoughts on a meaningless topic. I just wanted to see Mya's interview. Thank you.
Why do women like guys who take control? It's a lot like why you have to wear a tie in a professional setting. It's stupid, but you have to do it, you have to put on a facade to attract women.
Just like not showing up to an interview with a nice suit or not wearing a tie will get the asshole next to you with inferior skills who is dress better hired, you're not going to get a decent woman if you don't have swag.
What is this guy talkin about. what mya said was taken WAY out of proportion and it wasn't even that serious or nearly as bad as I thought before her interview was played. the guy commentating on what she said has not clue what she meant or what he's talkin about.
I don't think you should use this Mya lady as your representative "black woman"...Maybe you should play ultimate frisbee with me at my suburban neighborhood park. People have different backgrounds...
@lollipopyumyum That's the things. Your probably one of the very few black women in the suberbs. The only choice we have is to act like a thug or date white women.
:( I think everyone should be true to themselves. Date who makes you happy, but when approaching women be open-minded. I am attracted to a guy's character, so race was never an issue for me. I have never dated a black guy though, my white friends look at me in disbelief but I have to tell them "look around t
"look around the neighborhood/area". I live in an area populated by Caucasians, Asians, and Hispanics, I literally have to get in my car and drive to another part of town in order to see any black people.
@lollipopyumyum Well, for many of us there are not that many black women in the berbs but will find many in the hood or who are attracted to the hood lifestyle. I want to date black women but many think i'm too nice, act white, and lame because I don't carry myself like a thug. Wish I could meet you or a woman like you. But I have a better chance at winning the lotto so I just have to settle for white women.
@southboy99 I would rather be single than date a thug lol. I know, people say that I act "white" too lol. I hope you meet a woman that will make you happy. Good luck :)
This guy is right! Those who diagree really should look at japan and korea 50 years ago were destroyed nothing...WHAT HAPPENED? Why are they number one again....? ITS A MENTALITY...ITS THIS TYPE OF LOW LEVEL THINKING THAT KEEPS BLACK PEOPLE MIRED IN IGNORANCE AND CRIME AND POVERTY AND SPIRITUAL DARKNESS
I don't disagree with everything this guy is saying, but he is so decadently sentimental that I can barely stomach it. The basic meaning of swagger is confidence, style and gravitas. When a woman uses the term "take charge" she means that she doesn't want a man who is a pushover. She wants a man who will tell her what he likes and doesn't like about her without being timid. She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. She wants a man who's a assertive.
@bxjam85 so thugs are assertive!!!! LOL. YOU CANT BE SERIOUS. you know what, any women who discusses swagger are considered immature and not worthy of marriage. this is what i'm talking about, you are promoting the complacency of black men. yall say you dont want a pushover, well why would you be looking to walk all over a man in the first place. what does that say about you and the type of human being you are
@bxjam85 what black men need to focus on is getting their affairs in order, DO NOT get caught up in this swagger bullshit because it will cost you dearly.we must place priority on being men of character, integrity and honesty. if you are a nice black man, stay that way. DO NOT AND I MEAN DO NOT SELL YOUR SOUL FOR NO PUSSY, IT WILL GET YOU KILLED OR LOCK UP FOR LIFE. let the myas and laura londons of the world seal their impending DOOM ,dont follow in their footsteps.
@bxjam85 a man who is assertive doesnt mean anything if he does not have his shit together. you can talk that shit if you want to but do not complain when these so called alpha males dont become anything in life. what difference does it make if he "taks charge" half of yall women do not listen to what he has to say in the first place and you know it, so cut the crap. if you want good men to take charge, take off the pants, put on an apron and BE A WOMAN
@awo2584 I'm sorry, but you're a fucking idiot. I completely agree with you, but I'm not a woman and you completely misunderstood my point. You need to learn how to properly analyze an argument before you respond to it.
when mya talked about a man "taking charge" that didn't mean she wanted to get her ass beat in a relationship, so i don't know why there are pics of Chris Brown showing up....no woman wants to be beaten up by a man.
Dude, you're an idiot. swagger is a subjective word, it doesn't mean the same thing for every woman. Even white women in the u.k here say they want a man with a bit of swagger. The word swagger in itself is a lazy word, it doesn't always have to be identified with GHETTO swagger. Ask two women to emphasize what swagger means to them, i bet you they give you totally different responses. It generally means for a man to have a quality about them, which is subjective. Basically, not an everyday Joe
Dude you need to shut the hell up. You completely turned her words aroung. I cant believe you BLACK men. I fyall have a problem with blk women or women with blk in them leave us the hell alone!!! DOnt look at us dont talk to us PERIOD!! She said absolutely nothing wrong. She doesnt look bad and you are nothing but a lying idiot. Go blow your nose by the way.. you soung stopped up. Psssha!!!
She was basically saying she wants a man that has an appealing way of carrying themselves that also has balls/self confidence and who is not shy and doesn't buckle when the opportunity is right to "come and get" long story short she's looking for man like me not a cornball that wants to twist up her words because he has none of the qualities she's looking for...Now that a just looked at your channel and seen the "Interracial Kiss and Making Out" vid this vid is making sense now lol keep dreamin.
If what you say is so true, why do white men rule over their wives in every aspect in that white woman's life after marriage? Are you mad because you don't our fine black women? Your white why are you even making a vid about our black women any ways make one about your women....
Guess that's way she and nivea had a baby around the same time from little wendy (i mean wayne). Foolish and simple minded females going for the popular "it" thug image! Not doing their research on this wanna be thug not knowing he aint really about shit that's why he was fucking multiple women at the same time so happen she and another were lucky enough to get inpregnated at the same time! That's not a good look!
Swag has nothing to do with being a thug or thuggish. There are many thugs who act like wild animals with no character,no sense of presence or self and have absolutely NO swagger. Swagger comes with strength, personal power and sense of self. It comes from within and is not defined by lifestyle or occupation. At any rate,its obvious this video was created by someone with absolutely NO swag who is bitter that a thug got the girl he wanted. It was bc you're weak,don't blame thugs.
Swager does not mean thug ( I thought it meant stelo or style), or maybe it's up for interpretation, either way you are off base to call her out on this. Swager means something negative to you ( like act like a thug ). But, it may mean something else to her, what the interviewer needed to ask was for her to define what she meant by swager.
I know this post is old, but let me give you a "white" definition of swag: Attitude projected through body language.
And if you are the type of man that can take charge and control of your life, education and career, you shouldn't have any problems taking charge and control of women, provided they want you to do so. If you can educate yourself like a BOSS, build a career like a BOSS, shiiiiit, you can do anything like a BOSS, including hitting Lauren London and Mya like BOSS.
1. Swag has multiple definitions. To me black men automatically have a certain demeanor that I am attracted too. I think my bf has swag and he is no where close to a thug.
2. When Mya says that she wants a man to take charge, I think she's saying that she wants her man to LEAD. Mya may recognize MALE LEADERSHIP and wants her man to be IN CHARGE.
3. Her last comment was stupid as hell -__-. Poor thang.
I bet alot of women cheat on you. You one of those guys who tries to impress women by sending her flowers and cards. When all you have to do is be a "MAN" if that makes sense to you. By nature we are animals and women wants the alpha male. That's obviously what she wants in so many words.
why are you analysing her every word? i feel like your twisting everything. and not every single women are the same so dont give out advice like you know everything.
You are changing what she is saying. Swagger is just being debonair, not being a nerd or geek. Just be a man. All she is saying is to have the confidnence to not let anyone run over them. Control can be as simple as walking away from BS. Not engaging in craziness. Confidnence is attractive. There could be two equally attractive guys in a room; and the one who is most confident usually gets more dates or numbers. At the end she was speaking for herself.
You are changing what she is saying. Swagger is just being debonair, not being a nerd or geek. Just be a man. All she is saying is to have the confidnence to not let anyone run over them. Control can be as simple as walking away from BS. Not engaging in craziness. Confidnence is attractive. There could be two equally attractive guys in a room; and the one who is most confident usually gets more dates or numbers.
Second, the definition of "swag" is : "the way or manner in which one carries themself." This doesn't necessarily imply "thug" as the speaker of this video assumed. Sometimes it does imply a cool, relaxed persona
First off, I'm not trying to defend Mya as I feel that celebrities have expiration dates. She is no longer a celeb. But I think this guy just bashed her for no reason. What she wants (as well as many other women) is a strong, confident man who has leadership qualities. She doesn't want a "rough neck". She wants a MAN who'll protect her when needed
you are on point bro, nature likes balance & when any species becomes too succesful shit hapens to compensate, such as black women that are not attracted to black men that are (productive constructive or creative). black women will promote & have kids for men that treat them badly & have a negertive impact on society. (natures balnce restored) it may take a global disaster for women to get it, or they can just go to afghanistan. LOL!
i feel like your taking her words too literal, in fact when the man mentioned "thugs" you can clearly see her face turn up, all she wants is a man who won't be a "yes man" a man who isn't scared to call her on her s**t just because she's "Mya" thats really all she's saying, and just because you may not "fit" this decription doesn't give you the right to throw her off as ignorant, when she said nothing that was..
NOT ONE OF YOU WOMEN HAS TAKEN ISSUE WITH WHAT MYA SAID AT 8:35....#CRICKETS......#SILENCE.......IM LISTENING,..... EXPLAIN THAT DUMB SHYT AWAY GO AHEAD...#WAITING...U CANT...SO STFU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Buddy you are way out in left field. She is saying she wants a guy with a backbone and not someone she can run over..... And Swagger doesn't mean thug. British people use the word swagger so what the hell are you talking about. Swagger means “elegantly fashionable" or "to walk or behave in an arrogant manner," not thug. You sound bitter (probably because you are a “yes” man” and obviously have no clue what you are talking about. I have heard more intelligent statements from Waka Flocka!!
@LunaticzLegend did you hear when he said, "change the word but keep the original meaning." You must crazy if you don't think swag is a spin off of thug. Who mainly possesses swagger? According to BET the main thing educating young women and men on how they should to attract one another says that thugs possess swagger, not the guy who goes to school. You think Obama back in his early days could get some of these black apes now and days? No. So what are you not getting?
@surshot56 What Fantasy Land ride did you just step off of??? Since when were words like edge and swag used to define thugs… I heard what he said and laughed my ass off because he said he was no going to take her words out of content then took everything she said out of context. Furthermore how could you sit here and say swagger is a spin out or thug when (1) the word was created by William Shakespeare in the 1500s and (2) are mainly used by Rooty Poots like Souja Boi???
@LunaticzLegend "LMAO!!! You and this guy are both delusional"
Far from.
"She clearly stated she wants a guy with swagger and confidence and since you clearly didn’t get it the first time I said it, let me repeat; Swagger means “elegantly fashionable"
Ok fine but what was my question to you? Who makes up the majority of that image? Do businessmen who are running this country care about swag? Of course not do they have confidence? Absolutely.
@surshot56 Not thugs.... See what you are not seeing is that swag is slang for style. The phase "He/she has swag" is pertaining to a person’s fashion, presentation, charisma, and the way they person carries themselves. Thuggin is a way or live. One of the main problems today are the media and the left turn hip-hop took to Disney World has people under the false idea that "Thug" is a fashion, style, or trend when it is not.
Look at the models in GQ magazines or these businessmen wearing Armani with the expensive ass watches and jewelry. Wouldn’t you say they had style? Well it is the same has saying they have swag.
@surshot56 LMAO!!! You and this guy are both delusional!!! She clearly stated she wants a guy with swagger and confidence and since you clearly didn’t get it the first time I said it, let me repeat; Swagger means “elegantly fashionable" (now let me translate, STYLE not THUG…) And the last I check them thugs and dope boys (not the fakes you see on TV, but real ones) are more worried about getting money and the pretty boys that spend 2 hours in front of a mirror are more worried about swag…
I’m not even going to address the Obama statement because it made no sense and if BET is your source of information then you are as misguided as these wannabe thugs trying to emulate these fake ass rappers they see on TV…. So what aren’t you getting??
@LunaticzLegend "I’m not even going to address the Obama statement because it made no sense"
What are you not getting? If you took Obama from his time and pt him in today's society as a young man in college would he attract the type of women who care about swagger? I agree with her and you about confidence but who gives a damn about swagger? The question I was posing was merely a question of intellectual attractiveness that Micheal Obama saw in Barrack rather than the swagger Mya sees.
@surshot56 Maybe, Maybe not.... But the basic concept hasn't changed from his time to today... You had a criminal element back then too... They were just referred to as hoodlums back then. You could even go back before him to the Prohibition Era where instead of having dope boys you had bootleggers and early forms of originated crime. See there have always been the good boy and bad boy but as time changes the image of those two types change...
@LunaticzLegend I am in college and I have confidence or at least I think I do seeing as how i'm about to join the army rotc and the fact that some bone head with mere swagger can get a beautiful woman while the intelligent guy who maybe doesn't have the swagger but for damn sure has the confidence can't get the woman he want's. That's my only point bro. Did you here her when she said, "I like legal stuff but i'm not mad at someone who has to do what they have to do in order to get to the next
@surshot56 well at the end of the day everyone has their personal preference and you cannot knock someone for it. And just as I have said before, having intelligence doesn't mean you don't have style or swag. The only smart guys I see having problems with getting a women are those socially retarded types that have no appealing qualities outside of their IQ so there might be a reason for that and even so there is a girl out there that might like that.....
@LunaticzLegend step either." Who do you think that applies to? I mean your a smart guy and I appreciated your response to me on such sort notice but how are men who are trying to abide by the law and value their lives going to be able to compete with the standards given by women like Mya and lauren London? That's all I was saying and I look forward to your response.
@surshot56 See I don't see people getting turned down because they paid for an item at Wal-Mart instead of stealing it... If you’re concerned about getting turned down by those types (hood rats, gold diggers, materialistic, etc) then competition is the least of your worries. I heard what she said but he took it as she was saying she wants a thug that gangbang and sales drugs and that was a big assumption on the commentator’s part...
@surshot56 Maybe that wasn’t the best statement to make but she what just saying she didn’t mind a man doing what he has to do… Why is it that dope dealing is viewed as one of the worst crimes to commit but everybody plays down fraud, embezzlement, money laundering and these scams that take innocent people’s lives and destroys them.
@surshot56 And In my defense to her statement (not that I am condoning or promoting illegal acts) we are going thru a recession and I have seen good honest people break laws to provide for their families because they got a raw deal…. In the end they are not bad people or thugs but they did what they felt they had to do to survive and I believe that is what she meant
@LunaticzLegend British people almost ALWAYS have a different and often contrary meaning for a word appropriated by american slang. Here, Swagger means you act like somebody from the hood. Not refined or debonair, just rude and arrogant, and poorly-spoken.
I agree with you on all points except for the definition of swagger, I've always used it to describe the style or flare that man has. Usually pertaining to his walk, dress, or personality. I belive swagger can be used as a positive noun to describe someone. But thats just me...
This guy speaks the truth. Women who say they want a man to take control are full of it and should remain single. Mya and so many physically attractive women have the ugliest characteristics.
The hell with Mya and Lauren London. Idiots among the black community constantly co-sign this kind of bullshit, which is why our community is where it is. Spending all kinds of money to impress each other while failing to place value on education, personal growth of any kind, or responsibility. Our people die for lack of knowledge, and willingly.
dude u r so hating. what u saying is retarded. u dont understand what she saying. if u dont know u shouldnt speak on what u dont know. u must be that stalker she was talking about.
OMG u r so taking what she said out of content. for one she is saying she wants a confident guy. second she is saying she wants a man to play is role to be the man and wear the pants. she didnt say she want to be did like rihanna. you are taking it to personal. its not that seriouse dude.
this fake azz mixed hoes are lying. Lauren's mother is sellout self-hating dirty black white men's whore who fэck with nasty white racist italian pig for making this gold digger mixed looking whore....and she teach her to f'ck only with rich crackers/jews or ugly nikkaz for making money! smh! this hoe is not just hoe she's dirty porno money maker and white men's whore! pls real black ppl wake up!
"Women will continue to act stupid if the law keeps on favoring them(child support, alimony, welfare). Women are not stupid:they act stupid as hell for they know that the law will side with them. Take away the law aspect and they will become get their minds right!"
It's amazing to notice how an Easter Sunday morning like this, SOME stupid little blackgurl is obviously SO LACKING of a life that she needs to get up and throw rude, whorish comments at me as early as 6:00(am) in the morning! AND THAT'S ON EASTERN TIME! LOL!! Blackgurl2881, like I said YOU ARE A JOKE!!! GET ----- A ---- LIFE! You obviously need a hobbie. I mean, 6am in the morning?AND ON EASTER SUNDAY?! REALLY?! SHEESH, you need to go crawl back to your cave and jump on a stiff one!
@realmanallen73 i don't worship the white man (jesus) like u do lmao u probably spent all day in church on ur knees sucking jesus's cock giving him ur money...so pathetic but then again when u strip a man from his culture & knowledge of self what's left other than a coon!
henry, nice work on the video, Brother! I see you have alot neanderthaLs here who can't let Anything intelligent and ladylike Come from their feedbacK. Good thing UR are an intelLigent brother like myself. Certain people who will remain unnamed can't handle that! They're too busy craving attention with childish comments.
lol. the truth hurts some people. I see. A WHOLE PAGE worth of lowlife insults directed at me from a harlot who loves to degrade herself on the internet & then try to talk intelligently as if she's saying something. And when THAT doesn't work, here come all the childish insults. HA! ROTFL. A perfect case of the 7CD rule that so many black women today prostitute themselves to. blackgurl2881,you're a joke. LEARN TO BE A LADY! MOVE ON ALREADY! sounds like somebody needs to get a life.
@realmanallen73 is a perfect example of the mentality of a man that's has been stripped of his land, culture & sense of self! sense those whites he loved got jealous of our bodies & wanted us to covered them up, put a label on anyone that shows em..perhaps u should come to Africa so u can get a sense of self and mature a little silly man!
LOOK AT BLACKGURL2881'S PAGE. AND THEN READ HER RUDE COMMENTS. IT'S TYPICAL FOR THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR COMING FROM RUDE, IGNORANT AND NASTY BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN WHO MAKE REAL SISTERS LOOK BAD. She should be ashamed of herself. There is nothing from that kind of behavior that will ever benefit the Black Community. She is an embarassment to ALL THE DECENT BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN. She's obviously desperate for attention. No wonder she can't wait to she her off cleavage to the world! What a slut!
@blackgurl2881 um, hello! those ladies in africa don't live in a WESTERNIZED culture where little girls are inspired to become sex symbols as early as 14 (brooke shields). they don't get inspired to romanticize disloyalty (cherelle,lilkim,minaj) or superficial self-devaluating materialism (juanita bynam,beyonce, willie williams aka wendy, etc). But obviously that's too deep and intellectual for you.So,let's just stop it there. No more 2 page childish comments please. Come at me better.
@realmanallen73 well u should know more then anyone about WESTERNIZED culture being a "chocolate covered European" and all & stop worrying about my cleavage that's the only material u come up with to think u know me how sad & pathetic but then again when u are "coon" what more could anyone expect ...u sound like ur mad cause ur not laying by any...the last time u prob caress a breast is in a bucket of KFC... :P now shush little black boy & take ur coon ass somewhere with all that nonsense...
zzz. . . I see we have some TYPICAL black american women in denial. lol. and they have to nerve to try to lecture you. SO TYPICAL! Thugtician, SargentWilliePete, and Akat042001 were RIGHT!!!!!
@realmanallen73 I don't really care about or know about the people you named. Unlike you I'm not a sheep. I don't hang on to the every word of youtubers and follow what they say like they are important. And no you didn't struck a nerve. I just recognized your YouTube name and you are always saying something negative. Your asinine insults don't take away from what I said (which is true) nor do they have anything to do with what I said.
@SomethingOnMyMind09 You accused me of calling you out of your name.I never did that.You accuse me of being bitter, when IN FACT my videos simply call out educated black women like yourself to TAKE A STAND and speak out against bad behaviors! You see, young lady, according to youtube, ghettogaggers, & MOST modern hip hop artists, you are just a butt shaking hoe. According to realmanallen73, THAT'S NOT TRUE! WHY ARE ATTACKING ME FOR HAVING A PROBLEM WITH BEHAVIORS THAT MISREPRESENT YOU?
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (2) It seems to me that YOU ARE very sheepish. You seem very much to lack the courage to voice a strong opinion against women's behaviors that outnumber you in your own community EVERY SINGLE DAY, AND EVERYWHERE! So YOU can keep your puerile insults to yourself! I actually referred to you as an intelligent, educated black women. Allow me to at least have THAT impression rendered untarnished! In other words, feel free to disagree with me. AND ACT LIKE A LADY!
@realmanallen73 I wasn't going to respond at first, but I read the part where you said that I seem to lack the courage to speak out against BW's behaviors. As, I stated earlier. MY black community is pretty normal. Black people actually get married before they have children. All of our schools have an 90%-100% graduation rate. There are a lot of black owned businesses and educated black people. There isn't much to preach about. Every black community isn't damaged. Yours may be, but mines isn't.
@SomethingOnMyMind09 Sister (1)I don't know which boat your ancestors floated in on and got you thinking that you're different from the rest. I got news for you. YOU'RE NOT! I am a proud military veteran with two degrees and professional fluency in a foreign language. I grew up in a Middle class home/neighborhood. I went to Catholic school. I was a nerd(still am, lol). BUT at the same time, I also went to the Million Man March! And unlike you, I am no longer selfish enough to think . . .
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (2) . . . that the BLACK COMMUNITY at large revolves around my neighborhood, my school, my church, or social circle of Black friends ( who were middle class like myself). You see, sister, I don't need the incentive of college credits and kudos to motivate me to go over to the other side of town and volunteer to help at-risk black children who come from families that can make the devil cry. Unlike you, I realize that we ALL have to take part in raising OUR children of . .
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (3) . . . tomorrow. And when I'd hear the stories of what many of these young people go through EVERYDAY, there is no way that I am going to just sit back and not voice an expression against the irresponsible behaviors of our women who are becoming mothers and cursing OUR children from birth. I'm sorry. Maybe that disinterests you. But before you enamor yourself with indifference, those are YOUR children too! It takes a village to raise our young. Remember?
@SomethingOnMyMind09 look at blackgurl2881's comment. This was TOTALLY unwarranted and childish. And is ONLY indicative of a puerile level of wisdom, combined with a harlotous, rude, proudly disrespectful attitude. Not a ladylike bone in her body. YOU and her are as different from each other as night and day. And I THANK YOU for showing the intellect and wisdom (THAT APPARENTLY she lacks) that a LADY like yourself can CLEARLY show when disagreeing with a gentleman.
@SomethingOnMyMind09 Whenever you have time, you should watch Dr. Claud Anderson's video series on Powernomics.
just a thought. But it might help you with your eccentricity ,allow you the wisdom and courage to look at it more honestly ,and REMOVE it. The same way the Million Man March (1995) did that for me. In the meantime, May the Creator bless you! Take Care!
the black american women of modern day have become toxic. that's why I always tell the brothas today about the new meaning of bbw in america today: BOYCOTT BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN! THE FUTURE STABILITY OF OUR COMMUNITY DEPENDS ON IT!
@realmanallen73 You can't have a "black community" without black women so what are you talking about? And I wish people would stop with this "we" and "our" stuff. I live in a black community and it's a nice/stable place to live. Individuality definitely needs to be taught. SN: You seem a tad bit bitter =/
@SomethingOnMyMind09 your response is nothing more than a typical deflection used by MOST black american women today.Such deflections are purely nonsensical & based in the typical delusion that black american women require in order to walk away from an argument and feel good about themselves, while being dismissive and arrogant with Black Men who examine your behaviors, measure its effect on the Black Family, AND reveal to you black women that you have COLLECTIVELY failed! Nice try!
@realmanallen73 You can save the "deflection" retort. it's so typical and overused. Why do certain black people feel the need to expose someone or tell them about themselves? Worry about yourself sir and stop pointing the finger. As long as you are happy with yourself, that's all that should matter. I see you skipped over the part where I mentioned "Individuality"; it's something that needs to be taught. Btw, my black family is just fine. You should try to clean yours up since it's so bad.
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (snore). . . zzz. what? . . . zzz. huh? . . .zzz. what? Oh! you were saying something. lol. you are spewing anger and zealous self-righteousness at me over a comment that I ORIGINALLY made over a month ago! Well, anyway. I hope you feel better. I obviously struck a nerve. Oh well. The truth hurts. I understand. May the Creator bless you. Take care! I've no need to dignify you any longer. It's taxing having to stoop down that low. Nice try. . . zzz.lol.zzz
LIKE MY POST IF YOU THINK LAUREN LONDON FUCKED UP AND WILL NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE LOL
NIGELP520 21 hours ago
@henryfreak1 It sounds like you "Henry freak1" is mad because sistas' like Mya and Lauren London ain't feelin' yo white-ass. Stop hatin'. Most black women don't feel white dudes. Move on. Stop hating on the girl.
duncandinga 2 days ago
This is a crock of shxt! Swagger =look like a thug? Take charge = abuse? REACH MUCH? U must get no play from the black girls....u sound completely insecure smh
juiciijazz 6 days ago
I don't think that Mya did a great job of expresing herself in the most clear manner but I think I understand what she is saying. I think that she wants a man who is assertive and sure of his position and direction. And that she is open to submitting to a man (subit simply means to agree) who she loves and respects because she wants to be somewhat led. now when she jumped off the deep end and exposed herself as a thug lover with that last statement.
unisol06 1 month ago
who is myaaa???
a washed up almost madeit 90's-early 2000 singer ; kill it . she influences NOBODY .
.&youTALKto muchhhh!
BreeJaee 1 month ago
Yo ... this dude sounds like Lil' Jimmy from The College Dropout! LOL!
JMark79 1 month ago
WILL WITHOUT STUPID BITCHES MOST OF US MEN WOULD NOT GET LAID LOL!!!!
leonkwasikuntuoasare 1 month ago
@leonkwasikuntuoasare u mean desperate..most of u black men are hideous
LovinHimIzEasy 1 month ago
@LovinHimIzEasy most of us black men r hideous, well fuck u bitch, i bet u r one of those ugly bitches that is mad a college educated black man those not want to date her goofy looking ass, dumb bitch!!!
leonkwasikuntuoasare 3 weeks ago
lookin at the comments i see alot of people are confused at the point he was making, his point is that black women need to stop encouraging thuggs to behave in the manner they behave in cuz they find it attractive for whatever reason. That way black men will step it up. believe it or not alot of mens actions come from what impresses a woman.
pimpdemb 1 month ago
GREAT VIDEO
sajm4315 1 month ago
Women have some standard answers they give it's simply their programming and what they think people expect from them.
You often find them with a dude who does not have any of those qualities
they say one thing but respond to another.
Nothing they say is written in stone.
jment34 1 month ago
Mya and Lauren London are both celebrities. They are beautiful and they make a lot of money or at least they can date someone that does, pretty women can always get a pass for being stupid. Besides, white celebrities date losers too. Why is everyone picking on black women? Black men should be ashamed. Those of you quick to put us down are in for a rude awakening.
watchalotovids 1 month ago 2
@watchalotovids being married to a black woman i think we should check our black women. we don't check white women cause we don't want white women. if you feel offended then check where those feelings are coming from.
marc777danielle 1 month ago
@marc777danielle
You may feel that way, and that's fine, but there are countless other black men on here professing their love for none black women and putting black women down. If you hate black women so much, why GAF? I don't feel offended, I feel tired of being under scrutiny for being a black woman. Black men have several issues from killing each other, to selling drugs, to abusing their women, having unprotected sex and the list goes on.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
@watchalotovids I have even seen videos and comments on here of black men straight up blaming black women for all of the problems within the race. I'm used to being stereotyped by racist white people, I can handle that, but at this point, even black men will look at me and assume things that aren't true all because I'm a black women. Black men and women need to stop the bashing and finger pointing and people need to take responsibility for their OWN actions.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
@watchalotovids Us putting each other down only weakens our race and empowers those that are racist against us, a lot of these black men don't understand that. That's all, and forgive me for saying "black men" in my first comment, I should've said "some of you black men, because I know it isn't every black man.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
@watchalotovids wow, so u got the impression that i hate black women from my statement. u got problems sis. so wat u feel like ur under scrutiny. black women need to set their priorities straight when choosing a mate(and my wife would be the first to tell u that). besides, black men have been catching it for years, get over it homegirl. i don't take offense cause the negative stereotypes don't apply to my. check urself, sis
marc777danielle 1 month ago
@marc777danielle No. I did not get the impression that YOU hate black women. Black men need to get their priorities straight as well and stop nagging and bitching. Nagging is supposed to be a female thing but a lot of black men have taken over. I was talking about all of these videos from black men blaming black women for every problem that they have that's it. I didn't say you did it, and I didn't say all black men did it.
watchalotovids 1 month ago
@watchalotovids U got it wrong. Y'all the ones who nags.
playahaterable 1 month ago
@marc777danielle shut your dumb ass up..someone actually said yes to you when you asked them to marry them. smh must be some desperate women around here
LovinHimIzEasy 1 month ago
@watchalotovids black men & black women got sum issues, lets be real....black men act like little immature boys, & black women are way to UN-feminine & love to wear the pants.
ZaydelZemirah 1 day ago
@watchalotovids cause the truth is why is it that when a blk man has no money then he cant find luv. but when hes rich blk women kick the door down for a date. say u have blk man thats a loser right just a total failure which no women wants. he all of sudden hits the lotto . the same dude who was a total failure would have women seeking him out the same dude but much more eligible now that he has money that tell me it aint about luv at all its about franklins lol
3000sabonis 1 day ago
@watchalotovids Isn't that how black women operate (Rude).
Blashbanderwit 11 hours ago
Everyone who hit the dislike button is a woman and is in denial
EMANeleVenElevEn 1 month ago 2
black men fight to be with your woman because believe me everything is fighting against you being with your woman.
ethoseeka017 1 month ago
And it is true you seem like a divider your voice is irritating as hell. Look black men and woman need to work out our petty little squabbles we differ sometimes because of oppression. Our educational system is not control by us therefore we have not built a cultural identity with one another. This system is built on divide and conquer. love of the black woman now and forever.
ethoseeka017 1 month ago
There are good black men that would love to date Mya; leave Mya alone her criticism is unnecessary. This whole thing was pointless we work with our women we don't put them down.
ethoseeka017 1 month ago
i'm depressed by what your saying, let me explain , i was watching these nice cute funny boyfriend tags from interracial couple that were really sweet and i somehow ended up watching these clips about black successful single women then on to you! not that what you're saying is totally wrong ,but it feels like an entrenched war between the sexes and nothing is pretty about that!!! what about love
ladyevenstar22 1 month ago in playlist Autres vidéos de henryfrick1
Ok the guy who posted this and dissected this video is waaaaaay too uptight and took things waaaay too seriously!!! He must really like Mya and have been rejected by some girl who looks like her or something!!! She's not literally saying take charge of her but to be a leader. Also - I use the word swag. My hubby has swag in that he handles the business so we maintain a solid household. He doesn't need to prove anything. He's funny, fun, intelligent and that adds up to swag - all day, every
mrstexas777 1 month ago
Yeah i get what you saying man, but why are you so overly expressive about it? Sounds like you having some personal issues yourself. Your smart I can tell, but no body want to hear ALL your thoughts on a meaningless topic. I just wanted to see Mya's interview. Thank you.
fabulouslatoya 2 months ago
I think Mya is a chickenhead, but I don't make an issue of it. She's the one who has to deal with all that comes with that.
funkbrother216 2 months ago
I WISH HE WUD SHUT THA HELL UP
austinwilde92 2 months ago
@austinwilde92 You don't have to listen to him.
funkbrother216 2 months ago
@funkbrother216 true
austinwilde92 2 months ago
By control, you mean handle. they say I need a man who can "handle me".
TheMrProtocol 2 months ago
Why do women like guys who take control? It's a lot like why you have to wear a tie in a professional setting. It's stupid, but you have to do it, you have to put on a facade to attract women.
Just like not showing up to an interview with a nice suit or not wearing a tie will get the asshole next to you with inferior skills who is dress better hired, you're not going to get a decent woman if you don't have swag.
Reauit 2 months ago
take control does mean beat her up dumb ass lames will never change!!!!
PHENON03 2 months ago
OMG STFU!!! You talk entirely too much and fail to get to the point!
rainDOtBabee 2 months ago 3
What is this guy talkin about. what mya said was taken WAY out of proportion and it wasn't even that serious or nearly as bad as I thought before her interview was played. the guy commentating on what she said has not clue what she meant or what he's talkin about.
MsMockingbird06 3 months ago
I don't think you should use this Mya lady as your representative "black woman"...Maybe you should play ultimate frisbee with me at my suburban neighborhood park. People have different backgrounds...
lollipopyumyum 3 months ago
@lollipopyumyum That's the things. Your probably one of the very few black women in the suberbs. The only choice we have is to act like a thug or date white women.
southboy99 3 months ago
@southboy99
:( I think everyone should be true to themselves. Date who makes you happy, but when approaching women be open-minded. I am attracted to a guy's character, so race was never an issue for me. I have never dated a black guy though, my white friends look at me in disbelief but I have to tell them "look around t
lollipopyumyum 3 months ago
@lollipopyumyum
my sentence got cut off lol
"look around the neighborhood/area". I live in an area populated by Caucasians, Asians, and Hispanics, I literally have to get in my car and drive to another part of town in order to see any black people.
lollipopyumyum 3 months ago
@lollipopyumyum Well, for many of us there are not that many black women in the berbs but will find many in the hood or who are attracted to the hood lifestyle. I want to date black women but many think i'm too nice, act white, and lame because I don't carry myself like a thug. Wish I could meet you or a woman like you. But I have a better chance at winning the lotto so I just have to settle for white women.
southboy99 3 months ago
@southboy99 I would rather be single than date a thug lol. I know, people say that I act "white" too lol. I hope you meet a woman that will make you happy. Good luck :)
lollipopyumyum 3 months ago
Damn u @henryfrick1. Leave Mya alone
naturalmommy3 3 months ago
the dude talking on this is a bozo.....point. blank. period.
blackhorizon6 3 months ago
omg...he talks soooo much...play the damn audio already
blackhorizon6 3 months ago
This guy is right! Those who diagree really should look at japan and korea 50 years ago were destroyed nothing...WHAT HAPPENED? Why are they number one again....? ITS A MENTALITY...ITS THIS TYPE OF LOW LEVEL THINKING THAT KEEPS BLACK PEOPLE MIRED IN IGNORANCE AND CRIME AND POVERTY AND SPIRITUAL DARKNESS
nexttvmarketing 4 months ago
I don't disagree with everything this guy is saying, but he is so decadently sentimental that I can barely stomach it. The basic meaning of swagger is confidence, style and gravitas. When a woman uses the term "take charge" she means that she doesn't want a man who is a pushover. She wants a man who will tell her what he likes and doesn't like about her without being timid. She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. She wants a man who's a assertive.
bxjam85 4 months ago
@bxjam85 so thugs are assertive!!!! LOL. YOU CANT BE SERIOUS. you know what, any women who discusses swagger are considered immature and not worthy of marriage. this is what i'm talking about, you are promoting the complacency of black men. yall say you dont want a pushover, well why would you be looking to walk all over a man in the first place. what does that say about you and the type of human being you are
awo2584 3 months ago
@bxjam85 what black men need to focus on is getting their affairs in order, DO NOT get caught up in this swagger bullshit because it will cost you dearly.we must place priority on being men of character, integrity and honesty. if you are a nice black man, stay that way. DO NOT AND I MEAN DO NOT SELL YOUR SOUL FOR NO PUSSY, IT WILL GET YOU KILLED OR LOCK UP FOR LIFE. let the myas and laura londons of the world seal their impending DOOM ,dont follow in their footsteps.
awo2584 3 months ago
@bxjam85 a man who is assertive doesnt mean anything if he does not have his shit together. you can talk that shit if you want to but do not complain when these so called alpha males dont become anything in life. what difference does it make if he "taks charge" half of yall women do not listen to what he has to say in the first place and you know it, so cut the crap. if you want good men to take charge, take off the pants, put on an apron and BE A WOMAN
awo2584 3 months ago
@awo2584 I'm sorry, but you're a fucking idiot. I completely agree with you, but I'm not a woman and you completely misunderstood my point. You need to learn how to properly analyze an argument before you respond to it.
bxjam85 3 months ago
He sounds like Danny off of King of Queens.
clip11 4 months ago
Friends first?...Im sorry baby but....HELLLLLLLLLL NO!
Primal141 4 months ago
Women who got young sons, who are being encouraged
to act this way, you need to speak out against this ... 4:38
In fact, i'm glad this brother is speaking out against this
stupidity. This is why I made a policy years ago that NO
air-headed woman, will be allowed to have my kids. And
I could care less how cute she thinks she is. If I hear no
wisdom from her or air-headed words from her she can
keep her cheesey legs, i'm not interesed. No dummies
allowed, to have my kids!
whotrickedyou 4 months ago
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you sound like a hater
yummytv101 4 months ago
this dude is just mad that he can't get Mya or London
bphi215 4 months ago
Lol i get what she means.
U need a nap buddy
xxlocalroyaltyxx 4 months ago
when mya talked about a man "taking charge" that didn't mean she wanted to get her ass beat in a relationship, so i don't know why there are pics of Chris Brown showing up....no woman wants to be beaten up by a man.
piscesariescusp121 5 months ago
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Mia is a good young Ladie! YOU are a control freak! P.s. - Your square ass doesn't need swagger!! You are a weak man. I can hear it in your voice.
KURBZLANG 5 months ago
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KURBZLANG 5 months ago
because game is a poser not no real thug
15551cue 5 months ago
Dude, you're an idiot. swagger is a subjective word, it doesn't mean the same thing for every woman. Even white women in the u.k here say they want a man with a bit of swagger. The word swagger in itself is a lazy word, it doesn't always have to be identified with GHETTO swagger. Ask two women to emphasize what swagger means to them, i bet you they give you totally different responses. It generally means for a man to have a quality about them, which is subjective. Basically, not an everyday Joe
camelio10 5 months ago
Dude you need to shut the hell up. You completely turned her words aroung. I cant believe you BLACK men. I fyall have a problem with blk women or women with blk in them leave us the hell alone!!! DOnt look at us dont talk to us PERIOD!! She said absolutely nothing wrong. She doesnt look bad and you are nothing but a lying idiot. Go blow your nose by the way.. you soung stopped up. Psssha!!!
blackspaniard1025 5 months ago
@blackspaniard1025 Explain how he turned her words around. I don't get your comment.
meshyis 5 months ago
THATS WHY MOST OF THEM BECOME SINGLE MUMS. BAD NOW BECOMES GOOD AND GOOD BECOMES BAD.
emmanuel43 6 months ago
She was basically saying she wants a man that has an appealing way of carrying themselves that also has balls/self confidence and who is not shy and doesn't buckle when the opportunity is right to "come and get" long story short she's looking for man like me not a cornball that wants to twist up her words because he has none of the qualities she's looking for...Now that a just looked at your channel and seen the "Interracial Kiss and Making Out" vid this vid is making sense now lol keep dreamin.
Constellashun 6 months ago
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Constellashun 6 months ago
If what you say is so true, why do white men rule over their wives in every aspect in that white woman's life after marriage? Are you mad because you don't our fine black women? Your white why are you even making a vid about our black women any ways make one about your women....
Bladeboy05 6 months ago
@Bladeboy05 no he's not white. he's just a real dorky black dude that never gets any pussy...but he sure is funny. lmfao.
FuckUtube4Life2010 5 months ago
Guess that's way she and nivea had a baby around the same time from little wendy (i mean wayne). Foolish and simple minded females going for the popular "it" thug image! Not doing their research on this wanna be thug not knowing he aint really about shit that's why he was fucking multiple women at the same time so happen she and another were lucky enough to get inpregnated at the same time! That's not a good look!
vvyperr7 6 months ago
Why does this guy think he knows everything? Douche bag
kayjeezy10 6 months ago
Swag has nothing to do with being a thug or thuggish. There are many thugs who act like wild animals with no character,no sense of presence or self and have absolutely NO swagger. Swagger comes with strength, personal power and sense of self. It comes from within and is not defined by lifestyle or occupation. At any rate,its obvious this video was created by someone with absolutely NO swag who is bitter that a thug got the girl he wanted. It was bc you're weak,don't blame thugs.
yaste79 6 months ago
she said she doesnt like thugs stop envying, she would never fuck you LOL
wookyz1 6 months ago
One more thing, you should not generalize all black women due to a few celebrities pov's.
Smart women do not have time to argue and try to school silly women, for fear of stereotyping.
sdacrowe 6 months ago
Swager does not mean thug ( I thought it meant stelo or style), or maybe it's up for interpretation, either way you are off base to call her out on this. Swager means something negative to you ( like act like a thug ). But, it may mean something else to her, what the interviewer needed to ask was for her to define what she meant by swager.
sdacrowe 6 months ago
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sdacrowe 6 months ago
I know this post is old, but let me give you a "white" definition of swag: Attitude projected through body language.
And if you are the type of man that can take charge and control of your life, education and career, you shouldn't have any problems taking charge and control of women, provided they want you to do so. If you can educate yourself like a BOSS, build a career like a BOSS, shiiiiit, you can do anything like a BOSS, including hitting Lauren London and Mya like BOSS.
TheMaazTube 7 months ago
i can barely hear what she said
sosoman 7 months ago
This must be a white boy because he does not know what swagger means.lol and smh at the same time......
WAS115 7 months ago
1. Swag has multiple definitions. To me black men automatically have a certain demeanor that I am attracted too. I think my bf has swag and he is no where close to a thug.
2. When Mya says that she wants a man to take charge, I think she's saying that she wants her man to LEAD. Mya may recognize MALE LEADERSHIP and wants her man to be IN CHARGE.
3. Her last comment was stupid as hell -__-. Poor thang.
BelTriniCurls 7 months ago
I disagree with the swag part you can have swag without being a thug. Its just about how you carry yourself.
tsshury 7 months ago
lls @ 4:45- 4:55. Your sons funeral? Really bruh? lls
clarklong 7 months ago
ok WHATS WRONG WITH THAT ? SHUT UP
fantazylovezyou 7 months ago
I bet alot of women cheat on you. You one of those guys who tries to impress women by sending her flowers and cards. When all you have to do is be a "MAN" if that makes sense to you. By nature we are animals and women wants the alpha male. That's obviously what she wants in so many words.
imdakingbiotch 7 months ago
why are you analysing her every word? i feel like your twisting everything. and not every single women are the same so dont give out advice like you know everything.
shikorina91 7 months ago
You are changing what she is saying. Swagger is just being debonair, not being a nerd or geek. Just be a man. All she is saying is to have the confidnence to not let anyone run over them. Control can be as simple as walking away from BS. Not engaging in craziness. Confidnence is attractive. There could be two equally attractive guys in a room; and the one who is most confident usually gets more dates or numbers. At the end she was speaking for herself.
getlonghair 7 months ago
You are changing what she is saying. Swagger is just being debonair, not being a nerd or geek. Just be a man. All she is saying is to have the confidnence to not let anyone run over them. Control can be as simple as walking away from BS. Not engaging in craziness. Confidnence is attractive. There could be two equally attractive guys in a room; and the one who is most confident usually gets more dates or numbers.
getlonghair 7 months ago
You are changing what she is saying. Swagger is just being debonair, not being a nerd or geek.
getlonghair 7 months ago
Second, the definition of "swag" is : "the way or manner in which one carries themself." This doesn't necessarily imply "thug" as the speaker of this video assumed. Sometimes it does imply a cool, relaxed persona
onegaisti 7 months ago 2
First off, I'm not trying to defend Mya as I feel that celebrities have expiration dates. She is no longer a celeb. But I think this guy just bashed her for no reason. What she wants (as well as many other women) is a strong, confident man who has leadership qualities. She doesn't want a "rough neck". She wants a MAN who'll protect her when needed
onegaisti 7 months ago
swagger doesn't mean thug. Justin Timberlake has swag and he's not a thug. Understand. Do you like Mya? Get over it.
akashawar 7 months ago 2
you are on point bro, nature likes balance & when any species becomes too succesful shit hapens to compensate, such as black women that are not attracted to black men that are (productive constructive or creative). black women will promote & have kids for men that treat them badly & have a negertive impact on society. (natures balnce restored) it may take a global disaster for women to get it, or they can just go to afghanistan. LOL!
rikshaw223 7 months ago
i feel like your taking her words too literal, in fact when the man mentioned "thugs" you can clearly see her face turn up, all she wants is a man who won't be a "yes man" a man who isn't scared to call her on her s**t just because she's "Mya" thats really all she's saying, and just because you may not "fit" this decription doesn't give you the right to throw her off as ignorant, when she said nothing that was..
tertra114 7 months ago
NOT ONE OF YOU WOMEN HAS TAKEN ISSUE WITH WHAT MYA SAID AT 8:35....#CRICKETS......#SILENCE.......IM LISTENING,..... EXPLAIN THAT DUMB SHYT AWAY GO AHEAD...#WAITING...U CANT...SO STFU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tlaney29 8 months ago
Its the same thing as saying she wants a (thug in a suit) or (2Pac with a degree). All means the same thing. Educated Bad boys....
zk92000 8 months ago in playlist Facts 3
who said she not a hood rat?
blafiman 8 months ago
Buddy you are way out in left field. She is saying she wants a guy with a backbone and not someone she can run over..... And Swagger doesn't mean thug. British people use the word swagger so what the hell are you talking about. Swagger means “elegantly fashionable" or "to walk or behave in an arrogant manner," not thug. You sound bitter (probably because you are a “yes” man” and obviously have no clue what you are talking about. I have heard more intelligent statements from Waka Flocka!!
LunaticzLegend 9 months ago
@LunaticzLegend did you hear when he said, "change the word but keep the original meaning." You must crazy if you don't think swag is a spin off of thug. Who mainly possesses swagger? According to BET the main thing educating young women and men on how they should to attract one another says that thugs possess swagger, not the guy who goes to school. You think Obama back in his early days could get some of these black apes now and days? No. So what are you not getting?
surshot56 8 months ago
@surshot56 What Fantasy Land ride did you just step off of??? Since when were words like edge and swag used to define thugs… I heard what he said and laughed my ass off because he said he was no going to take her words out of content then took everything she said out of context. Furthermore how could you sit here and say swagger is a spin out or thug when (1) the word was created by William Shakespeare in the 1500s and (2) are mainly used by Rooty Poots like Souja Boi???
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@LunaticzLegend "LMAO!!! You and this guy are both delusional"
Far from.
"She clearly stated she wants a guy with swagger and confidence and since you clearly didn’t get it the first time I said it, let me repeat; Swagger means “elegantly fashionable"
Ok fine but what was my question to you? Who makes up the majority of that image? Do businessmen who are running this country care about swag? Of course not do they have confidence? Absolutely.
surshot56 8 months ago
@surshot56 Not thugs.... See what you are not seeing is that swag is slang for style. The phase "He/she has swag" is pertaining to a person’s fashion, presentation, charisma, and the way they person carries themselves. Thuggin is a way or live. One of the main problems today are the media and the left turn hip-hop took to Disney World has people under the false idea that "Thug" is a fashion, style, or trend when it is not.
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
Look at the models in GQ magazines or these businessmen wearing Armani with the expensive ass watches and jewelry. Wouldn’t you say they had style? Well it is the same has saying they have swag.
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@surshot56 LMAO!!! You and this guy are both delusional!!! She clearly stated she wants a guy with swagger and confidence and since you clearly didn’t get it the first time I said it, let me repeat; Swagger means “elegantly fashionable" (now let me translate, STYLE not THUG…) And the last I check them thugs and dope boys (not the fakes you see on TV, but real ones) are more worried about getting money and the pretty boys that spend 2 hours in front of a mirror are more worried about swag…
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
I’m not even going to address the Obama statement because it made no sense and if BET is your source of information then you are as misguided as these wannabe thugs trying to emulate these fake ass rappers they see on TV…. So what aren’t you getting??
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@LunaticzLegend "I’m not even going to address the Obama statement because it made no sense"
What are you not getting? If you took Obama from his time and pt him in today's society as a young man in college would he attract the type of women who care about swagger? I agree with her and you about confidence but who gives a damn about swagger? The question I was posing was merely a question of intellectual attractiveness that Micheal Obama saw in Barrack rather than the swagger Mya sees.
surshot56 8 months ago
@surshot56 Maybe, Maybe not.... But the basic concept hasn't changed from his time to today... You had a criminal element back then too... They were just referred to as hoodlums back then. You could even go back before him to the Prohibition Era where instead of having dope boys you had bootleggers and early forms of originated crime. See there have always been the good boy and bad boy but as time changes the image of those two types change...
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@LunaticzLegend I am in college and I have confidence or at least I think I do seeing as how i'm about to join the army rotc and the fact that some bone head with mere swagger can get a beautiful woman while the intelligent guy who maybe doesn't have the swagger but for damn sure has the confidence can't get the woman he want's. That's my only point bro. Did you here her when she said, "I like legal stuff but i'm not mad at someone who has to do what they have to do in order to get to the next
surshot56 8 months ago
@surshot56 well at the end of the day everyone has their personal preference and you cannot knock someone for it. And just as I have said before, having intelligence doesn't mean you don't have style or swag. The only smart guys I see having problems with getting a women are those socially retarded types that have no appealing qualities outside of their IQ so there might be a reason for that and even so there is a girl out there that might like that.....
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@LunaticzLegend step either." Who do you think that applies to? I mean your a smart guy and I appreciated your response to me on such sort notice but how are men who are trying to abide by the law and value their lives going to be able to compete with the standards given by women like Mya and lauren London? That's all I was saying and I look forward to your response.
surshot56 8 months ago
@surshot56 See I don't see people getting turned down because they paid for an item at Wal-Mart instead of stealing it... If you’re concerned about getting turned down by those types (hood rats, gold diggers, materialistic, etc) then competition is the least of your worries. I heard what she said but he took it as she was saying she wants a thug that gangbang and sales drugs and that was a big assumption on the commentator’s part...
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@surshot56 Maybe that wasn’t the best statement to make but she what just saying she didn’t mind a man doing what he has to do… Why is it that dope dealing is viewed as one of the worst crimes to commit but everybody plays down fraud, embezzlement, money laundering and these scams that take innocent people’s lives and destroys them.
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@surshot56 And In my defense to her statement (not that I am condoning or promoting illegal acts) we are going thru a recession and I have seen good honest people break laws to provide for their families because they got a raw deal…. In the end they are not bad people or thugs but they did what they felt they had to do to survive and I believe that is what she meant
LunaticzLegend 8 months ago
@LunaticzLegend I here you there you gotta make a living somehow.
surshot56 8 months ago
@LunaticzLegend British people almost ALWAYS have a different and often contrary meaning for a word appropriated by american slang. Here, Swagger means you act like somebody from the hood. Not refined or debonair, just rude and arrogant, and poorly-spoken.
Rhiorrha 1 month ago
I agree with you on all points except for the definition of swagger, I've always used it to describe the style or flare that man has. Usually pertaining to his walk, dress, or personality. I belive swagger can be used as a positive noun to describe someone. But thats just me...
tiffanne84 9 months ago
This guy speaks the truth. Women who say they want a man to take control are full of it and should remain single. Mya and so many physically attractive women have the ugliest characteristics.
jermaine78 9 months ago
The hell with Mya and Lauren London. Idiots among the black community constantly co-sign this kind of bullshit, which is why our community is where it is. Spending all kinds of money to impress each other while failing to place value on education, personal growth of any kind, or responsibility. Our people die for lack of knowledge, and willingly.
TJ347 9 months ago
this is such a dumb video on so many levels! ..actually get a grip!
kikijo92 9 months ago
@kikijo92
he makes a good point tho
nevawrong 7 months ago
dude u r so hating. what u saying is retarded. u dont understand what she saying. if u dont know u shouldnt speak on what u dont know. u must be that stalker she was talking about.
MrMarkiemarkie21 9 months ago
OMG u r so taking what she said out of content. for one she is saying she wants a confident guy. second she is saying she wants a man to play is role to be the man and wear the pants. she didnt say she want to be did like rihanna. you are taking it to personal. its not that seriouse dude.
MrMarkiemarkie21 9 months ago 2
this fake azz mixed hoes are lying. Lauren's mother is sellout self-hating dirty black white men's whore who fэck with nasty white racist italian pig for making this gold digger mixed looking whore....and she teach her to f'ck only with rich crackers/jews or ugly nikkaz for making money! smh! this hoe is not just hoe she's dirty porno money maker and white men's whore! pls real black ppl wake up!
realblackxxxx 9 months ago
Aggressive, does not mean Contolling.
Controlling is an extreme knotch above aggression.
She's basically saying, she wants a man, that knows what he wants. Dude.. your a pussy. You might as well b a feminen lesbian.
She's saying, she doesnt want a Thug, but she doesnt mind a Hustler. Thugs and Hustlers are 2 different kind of ppl.
Hustlers are extreme thinkers, Thugs are extreme bruts. Dude are u stupid?
You must b that stalker that was hanging on the hood of her car. Lol
RAWKEE 9 months ago
Swagger=Charisma.... stupid.
The ability to draw ppl to you, wthout even trying.
RAWKEE 9 months ago
"Women will continue to act stupid if the law keeps on favoring them(child support, alimony, welfare). Women are not stupid:they act stupid as hell for they know that the law will side with them. Take away the law aspect and they will become get their minds right!"
MrWINNSLAW 10 months ago
It's amazing to notice how an Easter Sunday morning like this, SOME stupid little blackgurl is obviously SO LACKING of a life that she needs to get up and throw rude, whorish comments at me as early as 6:00(am) in the morning! AND THAT'S ON EASTERN TIME! LOL!! Blackgurl2881, like I said YOU ARE A JOKE!!! GET ----- A ---- LIFE! You obviously need a hobbie. I mean, 6am in the morning?AND ON EASTER SUNDAY?! REALLY?! SHEESH, you need to go crawl back to your cave and jump on a stiff one!
realmanallen73 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 i don't worship the white man (jesus) like u do lmao u probably spent all day in church on ur knees sucking jesus's cock giving him ur money...so pathetic but then again when u strip a man from his culture & knowledge of self what's left other than a coon!
blackgurl2881 10 months ago
Let these women go and live in the Middle East, Am very sure they'll be controlled perfectly well and I think they'll love it.
110301839 10 months ago
henry, nice work on the video, Brother! I see you have alot neanderthaLs here who can't let Anything intelligent and ladylike Come from their feedbacK. Good thing UR are an intelLigent brother like myself. Certain people who will remain unnamed can't handle that! They're too busy craving attention with childish comments.
realmanallen73 10 months ago
lol. the truth hurts some people. I see. A WHOLE PAGE worth of lowlife insults directed at me from a harlot who loves to degrade herself on the internet & then try to talk intelligently as if she's saying something. And when THAT doesn't work, here come all the childish insults. HA! ROTFL. A perfect case of the 7CD rule that so many black women today prostitute themselves to. blackgurl2881,you're a joke. LEARN TO BE A LADY! MOVE ON ALREADY! sounds like somebody needs to get a life.
LOL.
realmanallen73 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 is a perfect example of the mentality of a man that's has been stripped of his land, culture & sense of self! sense those whites he loved got jealous of our bodies & wanted us to covered them up, put a label on anyone that shows em..perhaps u should come to Africa so u can get a sense of self and mature a little silly man!
blackgurl2881 10 months ago
LOOK AT BLACKGURL2881'S PAGE. AND THEN READ HER RUDE COMMENTS. IT'S TYPICAL FOR THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR COMING FROM RUDE, IGNORANT AND NASTY BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN WHO MAKE REAL SISTERS LOOK BAD. She should be ashamed of herself. There is nothing from that kind of behavior that will ever benefit the Black Community. She is an embarassment to ALL THE DECENT BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN. She's obviously desperate for attention. No wonder she can't wait to she her off cleavage to the world! What a slut!
realmanallen73 10 months ago
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blackgurl2881 10 months ago
@blackgurl2881 um, hello! those ladies in africa don't live in a WESTERNIZED culture where little girls are inspired to become sex symbols as early as 14 (brooke shields). they don't get inspired to romanticize disloyalty (cherelle,lilkim,minaj) or superficial self-devaluating materialism (juanita bynam,beyonce, willie williams aka wendy, etc). But obviously that's too deep and intellectual for you.So,let's just stop it there. No more 2 page childish comments please. Come at me better.
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realmanallen73 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 well u should know more then anyone about WESTERNIZED culture being a "chocolate covered European" and all & stop worrying about my cleavage that's the only material u come up with to think u know me how sad & pathetic but then again when u are "coon" what more could anyone expect ...u sound like ur mad cause ur not laying by any...the last time u prob caress a breast is in a bucket of KFC... :P now shush little black boy & take ur coon ass somewhere with all that nonsense...
blackgurl2881 10 months ago
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blackgurl2881 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 please stop being so obsessed with me and move on with ur little life!
blackgurl2881 10 months ago
Would've loved to have listened to the whole video nut this guy takes way too long to get to the point!
1coolgyrl 10 months ago
Black women with no standards smh....genocide!!!!
blackgurl2881 10 months ago
@blackgurl2881 more like suicide, they really are harming themselves.
summerchick621 10 months ago
She is a pretty hoodrat...swagger is ghetto. Don't care what is means it's ignorance.
MAJazzy08 10 months ago
zzz. . . I see we have some TYPICAL black american women in denial. lol. and they have to nerve to try to lecture you. SO TYPICAL! Thugtician, SargentWilliePete, and Akat042001 were RIGHT!!!!!
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realmanallen73 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 I don't really care about or know about the people you named. Unlike you I'm not a sheep. I don't hang on to the every word of youtubers and follow what they say like they are important. And no you didn't struck a nerve. I just recognized your YouTube name and you are always saying something negative. Your asinine insults don't take away from what I said (which is true) nor do they have anything to do with what I said.
SomethingOnMyMind09 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 You accused me of calling you out of your name.I never did that.You accuse me of being bitter, when IN FACT my videos simply call out educated black women like yourself to TAKE A STAND and speak out against bad behaviors! You see, young lady, according to youtube, ghettogaggers, & MOST modern hip hop artists, you are just a butt shaking hoe. According to realmanallen73, THAT'S NOT TRUE! WHY ARE ATTACKING ME FOR HAVING A PROBLEM WITH BEHAVIORS THAT MISREPRESENT YOU?
realmanallen73 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (2) It seems to me that YOU ARE very sheepish. You seem very much to lack the courage to voice a strong opinion against women's behaviors that outnumber you in your own community EVERY SINGLE DAY, AND EVERYWHERE! So YOU can keep your puerile insults to yourself! I actually referred to you as an intelligent, educated black women. Allow me to at least have THAT impression rendered untarnished! In other words, feel free to disagree with me. AND ACT LIKE A LADY!
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realmanallen73 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 I wasn't going to respond at first, but I read the part where you said that I seem to lack the courage to speak out against BW's behaviors. As, I stated earlier. MY black community is pretty normal. Black people actually get married before they have children. All of our schools have an 90%-100% graduation rate. There are a lot of black owned businesses and educated black people. There isn't much to preach about. Every black community isn't damaged. Yours may be, but mines isn't.
SomethingOnMyMind09 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 Sister (1)I don't know which boat your ancestors floated in on and got you thinking that you're different from the rest. I got news for you. YOU'RE NOT! I am a proud military veteran with two degrees and professional fluency in a foreign language. I grew up in a Middle class home/neighborhood. I went to Catholic school. I was a nerd(still am, lol). BUT at the same time, I also went to the Million Man March! And unlike you, I am no longer selfish enough to think . . .
realmanallen73 10 months ago
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blackgurl2881 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (2) . . . that the BLACK COMMUNITY at large revolves around my neighborhood, my school, my church, or social circle of Black friends ( who were middle class like myself). You see, sister, I don't need the incentive of college credits and kudos to motivate me to go over to the other side of town and volunteer to help at-risk black children who come from families that can make the devil cry. Unlike you, I realize that we ALL have to take part in raising OUR children of . .
realmanallen73 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (3) . . . tomorrow. And when I'd hear the stories of what many of these young people go through EVERYDAY, there is no way that I am going to just sit back and not voice an expression against the irresponsible behaviors of our women who are becoming mothers and cursing OUR children from birth. I'm sorry. Maybe that disinterests you. But before you enamor yourself with indifference, those are YOUR children too! It takes a village to raise our young. Remember?
realmanallen73 10 months ago
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blackgurl2881 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 look at blackgurl2881's comment. This was TOTALLY unwarranted and childish. And is ONLY indicative of a puerile level of wisdom, combined with a harlotous, rude, proudly disrespectful attitude. Not a ladylike bone in her body. YOU and her are as different from each other as night and day. And I THANK YOU for showing the intellect and wisdom (THAT APPARENTLY she lacks) that a LADY like yourself can CLEARLY show when disagreeing with a gentleman.
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realmanallen73 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 Whenever you have time, you should watch Dr. Claud Anderson's video series on Powernomics.
just a thought. But it might help you with your eccentricity ,allow you the wisdom and courage to look at it more honestly ,and REMOVE it. The same way the Million Man March (1995) did that for me. In the meantime, May the Creator bless you! Take Care!
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realmanallen73 10 months ago
Preach!!
alexlove31 11 months ago
Ok vid!
but you gotta get to the point! damn! you took a long time!
ThePurplepistol 11 months ago
the black american women of modern day have become toxic. that's why I always tell the brothas today about the new meaning of bbw in america today: BOYCOTT BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN! THE FUTURE STABILITY OF OUR COMMUNITY DEPENDS ON IT!
realmanallen73 11 months ago
@realmanallen73 You can't have a "black community" without black women so what are you talking about? And I wish people would stop with this "we" and "our" stuff. I live in a black community and it's a nice/stable place to live. Individuality definitely needs to be taught. SN: You seem a tad bit bitter =/
SomethingOnMyMind09 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 your response is nothing more than a typical deflection used by MOST black american women today.Such deflections are purely nonsensical & based in the typical delusion that black american women require in order to walk away from an argument and feel good about themselves, while being dismissive and arrogant with Black Men who examine your behaviors, measure its effect on the Black Family, AND reveal to you black women that you have COLLECTIVELY failed! Nice try!
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realmanallen73 10 months ago
@realmanallen73 You can save the "deflection" retort. it's so typical and overused. Why do certain black people feel the need to expose someone or tell them about themselves? Worry about yourself sir and stop pointing the finger. As long as you are happy with yourself, that's all that should matter. I see you skipped over the part where I mentioned "Individuality"; it's something that needs to be taught. Btw, my black family is just fine. You should try to clean yours up since it's so bad.
SomethingOnMyMind09 10 months ago
@SomethingOnMyMind09 (snore). . . zzz. what? . . . zzz. huh? . . .zzz. what? Oh! you were saying something. lol. you are spewing anger and zealous self-righteousness at me over a comment that I ORIGINALLY made over a month ago! Well, anyway. I hope you feel better. I obviously struck a nerve. Oh well. The truth hurts. I understand. May the Creator bless you. Take care! I've no need to dignify you any longer. It's taxing having to stoop down that low. Nice try. . . zzz.lol.zzz
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realmanallen73 10 months ago