Also thanks so much to Jeffery Gottlieb, Alice Dunn and Joe Ricci for you are a part of my horror story and it must feel so good to know so many HATE you and wish you eternal damnation. Rot in HELL, no jk, no lol, fuck you.
Was going down "MEMORY LANE" today and some how came across all this stuff about Elan in Maine. I was in the state house, I dont remember the number, maybe 7. Anyway it felt so good to feel validated by others posts, I got out of there 1980, I had been there for 2 years They just send you on your way, no skills, no plans period.That place was a holy horror. I was put through all that others have including handcuffed to a chair for two weeks.This really made me cry today, the memories r horrible.
Im soo happy that this shithole is closed ..I was there in 1994 and i still wake up from nitemares about being back in elan.. I have post tramatic stress from things that were done to me at elan 3.. this was a terrible school and it was run by criminals ... Im so happy its closed and i hope all the staff are out of work for good ... what they did to kid is now coming back on them.. its just too bad it took this long ...
I am a former elan 7 student and myself along with some other former students are making a Documentary about Elan from beginning to end and we would love to interview you for the documentary please get back to us as soon as possible
@number5road I am on my daughters Youtube account, so who you may see on her page is not who is actually writing this. Just clearing that up. But, um, I just wanted to say, though this comment was not directed toward me...that I was there from 1977 to 1979. And if you'd like, or are interested, I have quite a few stories I could share about the place where in my opinion money was exchanged for torture.
I was there 76-79. It was bizarre, but it worked. We really did run the place ourselves for the most part. There was some fucked up shit, but nothing that every amounted to anything. A lot of humiliation. What I did not like was the Guilt. I never graduated. I think they figured that I had the place figured out and was not going to be brainwashed and they just sort of sent me on my way.
I just heard about this sick shit tonight. What I'm wondering about, is why the hell aren't everyone who are mad as hell, who have been through this nightmare, on elan's official youtube channel raising hell on their comments???
I've never even been there, but I'm about to go flame them. WTF!
@4MyNation Taking down Elan is the ultimate achievement. Elan is based off a design which is near perfect, it destroys anyone not willing to fight it on its own terms. It turns its residents into lifelong brainwashed zombies and into people too fragile to look at themselves in the mirror. Most ex-residents are in denial, not believing what they themselves experienced. Elan has millions of $ to throw around + they know exactly where to throw it, they have been releasing residents for 40 years.
@BigBoi60981 Well, I wish you guys all the best in getting this monstrosity abolished. At least there is the internet now, where you can speak your mind freely with others who know what you know. I can definitely see there would be lasting damaging effects on people who have been through that kind of nightmare. Hopefully being able to confront them on here is at least a step in the right direction? It's got to feel better than living with it in silence.
All 5 resident directors were former drug addicts, all graduates themselves of the Elan program, and none possessed a college degree or had any prior experience in child care. 1 resident director who was in charge of a house where seven of the Illinois residents lived told the team that he had a history of assaultive behavior toward females. His 3rd assault resulted in serious injury to the woman...the reason for his admission to Elan.
Elan 4 did have survivors you know,the kids that survive the attacks from there fellow class,mates were dispersed into other houses,elan 8 got some,those are the word of the people who were there.boy now who is the lier with that post,i see you obviouslly never were taught to tell the truth.I have been polite enough to answer your responds ,but seeing as thou you can lie pretty good in your post,i think we are done,mary ,boy witness for liers more like it
@marykaywille So you took the word of the people not sent to jail by Elan, while they were still in Elan and being monitored by other Elan residents and staff?
Your babbling, un-researched, grossly misspelled, brainwashed nonsense can hardly be called responses. You only gave out more detailed info as the discussion heated up. Most of which contradicted earlier statements, yet you stood by it. Elan taught you well.
I think you have me confused with witness4justice. I am someone different.
@marykaywille If some criminal turned resident turned Elan staff raped and molested my daughter while she was locked up in Elan 4. Then I would say he deserved to be murdered. And I would mean it.
You can't just promote criminals to positions of extreme power and give them a license to use any means because it suits meeting your sick ends, which were profit. Get a clue Marykaywille.
You have no right to talk about something you are too lazy to research. You have had 30 years. Your a fraud.
Elan 4 did have survivors you know,the kids that survive the attacks from there fellow class,mates were dispersed into other houses,elan 8 got some,those are the word of the people who were there.boy now who is the lier with that post,i see you obviouslly never were taught to tell the truth.I have been polite enough to answer your responds ,but seeing as thou you can lie pretty good in your post,i think we are done,mary
Marykaywille: Outspoken Elan supporter. Spent just 13 months in Elan in 1980. Has done no research whatsoever since she "graduated". Claims murder occurred during a riot in E-4, yet stands behind idea that Elan is nonviolent. Fought for "good" in The Ring though earlier said "People have put kids in the corner for centuries,and there is nothing wrong with it if there severelly misbehaving, much better then beating them,now thats abuse." Has continually changed story as conversation progressed.
Elan 4 has been closed ever since that incident,which was i am guessing almost 30-40 years ago.These kids and all kids are not stupid by any means.They have there own minds,there own free will,they choosed to do what they did,the staff had nothing to do with it.killing a 60 year old man is not a staff member.The kids created the violance,not the staff.The staff that were former residence have been thru it,not someone at a desk with a book in there face.
@marykaywille So once again, are you making statements based on what you were told? Obviously you were not there. Elan 4 was a separate building. Correct?
Let me give you a direct quote by an Elan staff: Looking back on that time frame he reveals that after the Illinois investigators arrived ,everything was covered up."We lied through our teeth, " he says, explaining that he and other staff members... "What we couldn't cover up we admitted to as the exception rather than the rule."
Well i hopefully doubt you have ever tried to kill anyone,or stabbed anyone,i guess i should of put severe violance,or hurt people severely thru beating them.The kids in e-4 were really the last stop before prison,and they decided ther own fate that night.The night guard was a 60 year old man,who just walk around at night outside the building for there protection,they killed a person and your defending that,hmmm,maryw
nor would i take kids like that and say o.k.sweety lets talk about how you feel,elan taught you how to deal with life,you try to kill someone,you go to prison,not a corner,you try to hit,stab,someone they are going to fight you back,The kids in e-4 who killed those poor souls wre sent to prison as they deserved,all treid as adults as they deserved.I suppose you let kids back talk and fight,and thats o.k. right??
@marykaywille I completely agree. You try to kill someone= you go to prison, not a corner. Stab someone, fight someone, they fight back. Nobody ever brought this into question. Have you wondered why they had a riot in E-4? Are you aware that the staff in E-4 was undoubtedly former residents trained by Joe Ricci w/ no other qualifications?
Did you take the story that was fed to you at face value?
You think a riot is normal? At a place advertising to be "the rolls royce of treatment centers".
Well actually i was in the ring,funny u said that,it was against a girl who attacked a staff member with a knife from the kitchen,so,i did not dis agree,with it in that situation.There was a place called e-4,not long before i arrived,a riot took place there,the kids KILLED,A STAFF MEMBER,AND THE NIGHT GUARD,BEAT HIM WITH A IRON, you called that acceptable behavior.E-4 was a rough bunch of kids,they are why elan will never except anyone with violance in there background ever again..
@marykaywille This is from the person who claimed Elan had no violence. Wow! I guess the riot happened based on how peaceful Elan was and how much freedom they granted everyone, like you said earlier.
So you were in the ring fighting for "good" as they called it and still called it almost 20 years after you graduated.
"they are why elan will never except anyone with violance in there background ever again" Is that what they told you back then Mary?
Obviouslly you did not read my full post,i said i was sitting in the corner and i never felt like some poor soul,i used it to think about what i did wrong and how to not do it again.People have put kids in the corner for centuries,and there is nothing wrong with it if there severelly misbehaving,much better then beating them,now thats abuse.
@marykaywille said "Obviouslly you did not read my full post,i said i was sitting in the corner and i never felt like some poor soul".
Are you that insane? I wasn't talking about you. Are you that self-centered? Don't tell me about reading, your the one who needs to do some reading. Google 'the elan school' as a start.
@marykaywille said: "Obviouslly you did not read my full post,i said i was sitting in the corner and i never felt like some poor soul"
Are you that self-centerd that you thought I was talking about you? This actually explains a lot.
"People have put kids in the corner for centuries,and there is nothing wrong with it if there severelly misbehaving,much better then beating them,now thats abuse."
oh by the way,i graduate in 82,my director was bob oldham,anne something,robert o'conner,These people were nothing but helpful always.The big director was joseph ricci,I was in elan 8,
@marykaywille "Yet despite its claim of an overall 80 % success rate, Elan couldnot provide the evaluators with any scientific data to substantiateit, or the claim of 75% success with the Rhode Island residents."
@marykaywille 1982 financial statement showed that Gerry had a net worth of $2.5 million including $350,000 in bonds andsecurities, and $400,000 in mortgage free real estate. The salaries for just Gerry and Joe in 1981 were $433,984 and climbed to $757,984 in 1982 (the year they were refused the $125,000 loan and were [blatantly lying about being] destitute.)
Just wanted you to know who actually won during your 1982 graduation.
I have no need to lie and you??Just because i never saw or was never abused there .and that does not agree with your twisted view of things,doesnt make others a lier,if you percieve growing up as abuse then i think you need to seek help,oh thats right you percieve thats as abuse,right,mw
@marykaywille said "I have no need to lie and you??Just because i never saw or was never abused there .and that does not agree with your twisted view of things,doesnt make others a lier"
No, it does make you a liar. If you aggressively and publicly spread false truths to intentionally discredit others then that is the definition of liar. Every person here knows that the only way what you are saying is true is if you entered Elan, went to Joe Ricci's mansion and sat there for 13 months. Liar.
yes i did ,in 13 month,and you??And yes i spent my time in the corner like everyone else,and yes a spent time shovelling snow and yes hitting the pan at e-3, i graduated both school and elan and no i do not view that as any kind of abuse.Children w/no parents who dont get in trouble w/the law or school would not need elan, the succes rate of those other programs are much lower then elans.I learned to grow up at elan,.You have 100%free will there,you choice to screw up or not,
@marykaywille 13 months huh? The average stay for a student now is 2.5 years (at the very best). Did you know that? Yeah, I graduated with flying colors and never sat in the corner unless it was to guard some poor soul crushed down by Elan. You obviously have not kept up to date with what the program evolved into after you "graduated". Which gives you no right to defend it.
"You have 100%free will there" more evidence that you have no idea what Elan became. Or that you are delusional.
your becoming a waste of my time.,but to answer your question,as you know there are many reasons as to why children are sent there.Many which have nothing to do with drugs or booze.There were several there for parents pimping them out ,they were there for having no parents atall,they were for cutting themselves and yes some were there for useing drugs to block many unwanted feelings.Obviouslly you learned nothing there ,but pooor me,andI never saw anyone,ever hit punch or any abuse ever.
@marykaywille So you think people who's only crime was "having no parents at all" deserved to be sent to Elan. Regarding, the other children you describe, your belief is what? That they deserved Elan because it was so bad for them before. You do know that there are places out there that have actually learned to help children without the use of isolation, violence, and abuse...right? But maybe this is a foreign concept to you since you were obviously such a success in Elan? Did you graduate?
@marykaywille "I never saw anyone,ever hit punch or any abuse ever."
You. Are. A. Liar. How can you live with yourself after making such a ridiculous statement publicly? I don't often say these things, but you honestly need to go seek professional help.
obviouslly all you useing those lovely words learned nothing there,or perhaps you forgot the saying,let me remind you,when you use those words,it always mean you have nothing of any intellegence to say,in place of those words.Oh heres another,what goes around comes around,and i am sure the infantile behavior continues obviouslly with all who could not handle elan.I was never hit,punch,or abused in any way shape or form there,grew up,but i guess you guys dont want to do that.
@marykaywille Excuse me? "all you useing those lovely words learned nothing there,or perhaps you forgot the saying,let me remind you,when you use those words,it always mean you have nothing of any intellegence to say,in place of those words"...Are you drunk? Or drunk and doped up?
"I was never hit,punch,or abused in any way shape or form there". But you do remember the other people who were, right? Or is that why you are wasted right now? To keep forgetting it? Another proud Elan supporter.
check this out right now on this issue, i just found out about it and this is fucking bat-shit nuts that it actually goes on. Reddit.com/r/self/comments/ec3xh/even_skimming_this_post_once_will_blow_your_mind/
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@28chevy1 I too was at elan 8 in 82,jeez what a bunch of babies here eh.I bet they cried everytime they had to hit the pan at elan 3,why dont you guys put your dunce caps on,face the corner and maybe think about growning up,Yes elan work just fine for me,along with thousands if not hundreds of thousands people who would be dead now if not for elan!!!!!!maryw
@marykaywille Just because you happened to mentally and physically survive child abuse, it gives you no right to tell others how they should feel you arrogant ****.
I know of a couple of losers right in my own family who could have benefited by an education at the Elan School, what my question is, is simply why they never fell upon a nice ripe opportunity to get there?-lol.
you guys who hate on Elan...anyone who went there knows that it isnt all bad...if it was bad for you, then you made it that way...i was there for 27 months. i screwed around and then i got serious...if it wasnt for Elan, id be dead by now...so quit hatin
@foxtrot9855 Just because you happened to mentally and physically survive child abuse, it gives you no right to tell others how they should feel you arrogant ****.
You guys need to get in touch with the folks who were at Straight, Inc. and it's spin-off programs. Several of the programs' survivors have filed a class action lawsuit because of the abuse they suffered, a few have sued the programs individually and won millions of dollars (especially survivors of KIDS of North Jersey). The statute of limitations on cases like yours -- and we are definitely talking violation of constitutional rights as witness4justice has stated -- does NOT expire. ps FUCK ELAN
I went to this screwed up place for 31 months.From"78" to"80" My director was and still is Queer {DIKE} I was never able to get a break,Shot down,digging my own grave,signs signs every where signs.That "BITCH"nearly got to me and after i got out 2years later i put a gun to my head pulled the tigger but nothing happen."ALICE DUNN"I will see you in hell,I don't know who will be there first but if I were a betting a "Scarbrough Downs"horse trak I would bet on"?".........
and the supreme court generally rules that the bill of rights doesn't inherently apply to schools because we were children and children are to be controlled and manipulated, and public high school at least where I went was worse, my friend kelly was raped and when she came out, no one wanted to party to end so they all called her a liar and a slut, didn't think twice, probably never have, they might as well have shown up with pitchforks and run her out of town, fuck America, and fuck the b.o.r.
you're right, but guess what, we don't care, yammer about your rights until you're blue in the face, this country doesn't care, Elan is probably the least on the list of violators of your bill of rights, people who believe in the fucking bill want prayer in schools and the ten commandments on the wall, you live in a "democracy" that is well aware that it's leaning toward totalitarianism and THEY DON'T CARE, if you want to do something, go burn it to the ground,
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you know, I went to Elan, and I hated it, but this is psychotic, what the fuck does the bill of rights have to do with tough love programs, and socialism? get fucking real
@subterraneannn Elan is in Poland Spring Maine U.S.A., yet they violate your CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS every day. I can't believe I even have to explain this to you. OBVIOUSLY your School did not have a basic civics class
@witness4justice this is subteraneannn by the way, I didn't mean anything by that, it's just, we have so many problems, I mean, we're screwed no matter what, Elan really did teach us how the world work, it doesn't give a flying fuck, and as for rights, it's like carlin said, we have privileges. a right is something you can't take away, we've never had em, and until your government falls and the peasantries kept out of the voting booth we never will
Shame on the state of Maine for allowing marty kruglik and jeffrry gottlieb in my opinion to run a continuing criminal enterprise.
Abusing children for money for over 35 years for money is I believe running contiuing criminal enterprise.
Shame on kenny zaretzky for not exposing elan and helping it further in my opinion a continuing criminal enterprise being run by elan and its hechmen.
After getting a call from State of Me Dept of Ed, I sent my complaint in writing to Commissioner Gendron. Probably just going to go into a file... are you for real Starbright? Didn't give you your money? Jerks! Want to call Pete's cell phone? Terry is a bitch! Plus I don't know what she'd want a dildo for anyway.
@witness4justice Like I said, he's 17 years old, now 11 months. Why do you ask a question which is already answered. I think the Smirnoff bottle is a nice touch.
State of Maine does not investige special education complaints for out of state placed kids. he's suffered abuse and his special rights are completely violated.
@biomass2211 November 24, 2009, my son was physically restrained by two students without provocations. His head was slammed against some pipes. When a staff member entered the room, he told them to stop immediately. They only rec'd approval from State of maine to keep operating as a special purpose school as long as they stopped the student restraints by students. I have notified Maine Dept of Ed about this but they won't respond.
My son will be placed on the front lawn on Friday December 11, 2009 and told to leave . He won't be able to carry many of his belongings. He is most sad about leaving his personal books behind. He is 17 years old, 10 months. I told my son to make sure he gets his $100 account money before he leaves. and ask for a ride to Portland. I'm sure Clare will laugh in his face. He says they treat him with disgust.IhavebeenbrainwashedbyElaninto NOTpickingupmysonplusitwasthe schooldistrictwhoplacedhimthere
Elan still owes me over 100$ from my acct..lolz..That was from 93. I told Terry, tania, Peter R, Etc. WEEKS before i left to have it ready for me & they fucked me. Prob bought a dildo with it.
"I was a student at the Elan School for 3 years from 2005 to 2008. I am still traumatized by what I went through during my time there. Waking up each day the environment was constant screaming and swearing, by students, but more so by the "staff". I remember as a new student, I was crying when I was told to scrub a garbage can as a punishment for something so minor that I can't even remember the cause.
I has stopped cleaning it, and that was when the staff determined that I had to be restrained and dragged to "the corner", isolation in a room to the point when one barely feels human. I tried to fight back, as any normal person would do when one is touched and forcefully grabbed without consent. Instead of just bringing me to the corner, the staff had other students hold me up, my hands and feet restrained, as other students were forced to scream and degrade me.
I say forced, because regretfully I have also done the same to other students, and I know that if they refused to participate in this abominable event they too would have been punished. The only way to survive in this setting was to shut down emotionally. This memory haunts me to current day.
"This school needs to be shut down, and I am happy if that day is coming near. Even if Elan survives the recession, it should still be closed. However, this could prove to be exceedingly difficult, because the students in the school are pressured not even to think a bad thought about the program, let alone utter it, and will receive punishment if they fail to oblige that rule. I know that while I was at the school investigations were conducted, and students were pressured into lying.
Furthermore, a survey was also done, which now appears on the school's website, some questions asking about if we felt comfortable at the school. It was said to be anonymous, but again we felt pressured into lying, staff was supervising, and each of our handwriting could be easily identified.
"I hope someone reacts to the atrocity that is the Elan School."
Also thanks so much to Jeffery Gottlieb, Alice Dunn and Joe Ricci for you are a part of my horror story and it must feel so good to know so many HATE you and wish you eternal damnation. Rot in HELL, no jk, no lol, fuck you.
sandybeak 2 months ago
Was going down "MEMORY LANE" today and some how came across all this stuff about Elan in Maine. I was in the state house, I dont remember the number, maybe 7. Anyway it felt so good to feel validated by others posts, I got out of there 1980, I had been there for 2 years They just send you on your way, no skills, no plans period.That place was a holy horror. I was put through all that others have including handcuffed to a chair for two weeks.This really made me cry today, the memories r horrible.
sandybeak 2 months ago 2
. did u think u could fuck with kids forever.. well guess what kids grow up pricks!!
Marko3123 3 months ago 2
. Jeff Gottlieb ..missy esty..kathy.. terry..marty kruglick.. and all the rest of assholes ..fuck off
Marko3123 3 months ago 2
Im soo happy that this shithole is closed ..I was there in 1994 and i still wake up from nitemares about being back in elan.. I have post tramatic stress from things that were done to me at elan 3.. this was a terrible school and it was run by criminals ... Im so happy its closed and i hope all the staff are out of work for good ... what they did to kid is now coming back on them.. its just too bad it took this long ...
Marko3123 3 months ago 2
The Elan School is now CLOSED :)
witness4justice 9 months ago
I am a former elan 7 student and myself along with some other former students are making a Documentary about Elan from beginning to end and we would love to interview you for the documentary please get back to us as soon as possible
number5road 10 months ago
@number5road I am on my daughters Youtube account, so who you may see on her page is not who is actually writing this. Just clearing that up. But, um, I just wanted to say, though this comment was not directed toward me...that I was there from 1977 to 1979. And if you'd like, or are interested, I have quite a few stories I could share about the place where in my opinion money was exchanged for torture.
italianbitch20 2 weeks ago
@italianbitch20 Send me a message.
witness4justice 1 week ago
@witness4justice Okay. :)
italianbitch20 2 days ago
I was there 76-79. It was bizarre, but it worked. We really did run the place ourselves for the most part. There was some fucked up shit, but nothing that every amounted to anything. A lot of humiliation. What I did not like was the Guilt. I never graduated. I think they figured that I had the place figured out and was not going to be brainwashed and they just sort of sent me on my way.
I was the BEST Primal group leader ever!
michaeljamsmith 1 year ago
im off to 4 chan and reddit to raise some hell
nickreed60 1 year ago
I just heard about this sick shit tonight. What I'm wondering about, is why the hell aren't everyone who are mad as hell, who have been through this nightmare, on elan's official youtube channel raising hell on their comments???
I've never even been there, but I'm about to go flame them. WTF!
4MyNation 1 year ago
@4MyNation And so I did go over there to flame them. "Comment Pending Approval".
Should have guessed!
4MyNation 1 year ago
@4MyNation They have disabled the comment section on their videos. True ELAN STYLE.
witness4justice 1 year ago
@4MyNation Taking down Elan is the ultimate achievement. Elan is based off a design which is near perfect, it destroys anyone not willing to fight it on its own terms. It turns its residents into lifelong brainwashed zombies and into people too fragile to look at themselves in the mirror. Most ex-residents are in denial, not believing what they themselves experienced. Elan has millions of $ to throw around + they know exactly where to throw it, they have been releasing residents for 40 years.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@BigBoi60981 Well, I wish you guys all the best in getting this monstrosity abolished. At least there is the internet now, where you can speak your mind freely with others who know what you know. I can definitely see there would be lasting damaging effects on people who have been through that kind of nightmare. Hopefully being able to confront them on here is at least a step in the right direction? It's got to feel better than living with it in silence.
4MyNation 1 year ago
All 5 resident directors were former drug addicts, all graduates themselves of the Elan program, and none possessed a college degree or had any prior experience in child care. 1 resident director who was in charge of a house where seven of the Illinois residents lived told the team that he had a history of assaultive behavior toward females. His 3rd assault resulted in serious injury to the woman...the reason for his admission to Elan.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
Elan 4 did have survivors you know,the kids that survive the attacks from there fellow class,mates were dispersed into other houses,elan 8 got some,those are the word of the people who were there.boy now who is the lier with that post,i see you obviouslly never were taught to tell the truth.I have been polite enough to answer your responds ,but seeing as thou you can lie pretty good in your post,i think we are done,mary ,boy witness for liers more like it
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille So you took the word of the people not sent to jail by Elan, while they were still in Elan and being monitored by other Elan residents and staff?
Your babbling, un-researched, grossly misspelled, brainwashed nonsense can hardly be called responses. You only gave out more detailed info as the discussion heated up. Most of which contradicted earlier statements, yet you stood by it. Elan taught you well.
I think you have me confused with witness4justice. I am someone different.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
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BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@marykaywille If some criminal turned resident turned Elan staff raped and molested my daughter while she was locked up in Elan 4. Then I would say he deserved to be murdered. And I would mean it.
You can't just promote criminals to positions of extreme power and give them a license to use any means because it suits meeting your sick ends, which were profit. Get a clue Marykaywille.
You have no right to talk about something you are too lazy to research. You have had 30 years. Your a fraud.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
Elan 4 did have survivors you know,the kids that survive the attacks from there fellow class,mates were dispersed into other houses,elan 8 got some,those are the word of the people who were there.boy now who is the lier with that post,i see you obviouslly never were taught to tell the truth.I have been polite enough to answer your responds ,but seeing as thou you can lie pretty good in your post,i think we are done,mary
marykaywille 1 year ago
Marykaywille: Outspoken Elan supporter. Spent just 13 months in Elan in 1980. Has done no research whatsoever since she "graduated". Claims murder occurred during a riot in E-4, yet stands behind idea that Elan is nonviolent. Fought for "good" in The Ring though earlier said "People have put kids in the corner for centuries,and there is nothing wrong with it if there severelly misbehaving, much better then beating them,now thats abuse." Has continually changed story as conversation progressed.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
Elan 4 has been closed ever since that incident,which was i am guessing almost 30-40 years ago.These kids and all kids are not stupid by any means.They have there own minds,there own free will,they choosed to do what they did,the staff had nothing to do with it.killing a 60 year old man is not a staff member.The kids created the violance,not the staff.The staff that were former residence have been thru it,not someone at a desk with a book in there face.
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille So once again, are you making statements based on what you were told? Obviously you were not there. Elan 4 was a separate building. Correct?
Let me give you a direct quote by an Elan staff: Looking back on that time frame he reveals that after the Illinois investigators arrived ,everything was covered up."We lied through our teeth, " he says, explaining that he and other staff members... "What we couldn't cover up we admitted to as the exception rather than the rule."
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
Well i hopefully doubt you have ever tried to kill anyone,or stabbed anyone,i guess i should of put severe violance,or hurt people severely thru beating them.The kids in e-4 were really the last stop before prison,and they decided ther own fate that night.The night guard was a 60 year old man,who just walk around at night outside the building for there protection,they killed a person and your defending that,hmmm,maryw
marykaywille 1 year ago
nor would i take kids like that and say o.k.sweety lets talk about how you feel,elan taught you how to deal with life,you try to kill someone,you go to prison,not a corner,you try to hit,stab,someone they are going to fight you back,The kids in e-4 who killed those poor souls wre sent to prison as they deserved,all treid as adults as they deserved.I suppose you let kids back talk and fight,and thats o.k. right??
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille I completely agree. You try to kill someone= you go to prison, not a corner. Stab someone, fight someone, they fight back. Nobody ever brought this into question. Have you wondered why they had a riot in E-4? Are you aware that the staff in E-4 was undoubtedly former residents trained by Joe Ricci w/ no other qualifications?
Did you take the story that was fed to you at face value?
You think a riot is normal? At a place advertising to be "the rolls royce of treatment centers".
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
Well actually i was in the ring,funny u said that,it was against a girl who attacked a staff member with a knife from the kitchen,so,i did not dis agree,with it in that situation.There was a place called e-4,not long before i arrived,a riot took place there,the kids KILLED,A STAFF MEMBER,AND THE NIGHT GUARD,BEAT HIM WITH A IRON, you called that acceptable behavior.E-4 was a rough bunch of kids,they are why elan will never except anyone with violance in there background ever again..
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille This is from the person who claimed Elan had no violence. Wow! I guess the riot happened based on how peaceful Elan was and how much freedom they granted everyone, like you said earlier.
So you were in the ring fighting for "good" as they called it and still called it almost 20 years after you graduated.
"they are why elan will never except anyone with violance in there background ever again" Is that what they told you back then Mary?
They accepted me.
Do you get it yet?
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
Obviouslly you did not read my full post,i said i was sitting in the corner and i never felt like some poor soul,i used it to think about what i did wrong and how to not do it again.People have put kids in the corner for centuries,and there is nothing wrong with it if there severelly misbehaving,much better then beating them,now thats abuse.
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille said "Obviouslly you did not read my full post,i said i was sitting in the corner and i never felt like some poor soul".
Are you that insane? I wasn't talking about you. Are you that self-centered? Don't tell me about reading, your the one who needs to do some reading. Google 'the elan school' as a start.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@marykaywille said: "Obviouslly you did not read my full post,i said i was sitting in the corner and i never felt like some poor soul"
Are you that self-centerd that you thought I was talking about you? This actually explains a lot.
"People have put kids in the corner for centuries,and there is nothing wrong with it if there severelly misbehaving,much better then beating them,now thats abuse."
Lady, you are just nuts. Do you hear yourself?
What are your opinions on "The Ring" then?
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
oh by the way,i graduate in 82,my director was bob oldham,anne something,robert o'conner,These people were nothing but helpful always.The big director was joseph ricci,I was in elan 8,
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille "Our primary purpose then," Devine now recalls "..was just to get our kids out of that place, and prevent them from ever going back."
He notes that some of those sent to Elan were not even delinquent, but merely orphans.
Now, even fifteen years later, he remembers the incident with intensity and is surprised that Elan is still operating.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@marykaywille "Yet despite its claim of an overall 80 % success rate, Elan couldnot provide the evaluators with any scientific data to substantiateit, or the claim of 75% success with the Rhode Island residents."
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@marykaywille 1982 financial statement showed that Gerry had a net worth of $2.5 million including $350,000 in bonds andsecurities, and $400,000 in mortgage free real estate. The salaries for just Gerry and Joe in 1981 were $433,984 and climbed to $757,984 in 1982 (the year they were refused the $125,000 loan and were [blatantly lying about being] destitute.)
Just wanted you to know who actually won during your 1982 graduation.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@marykaywille You must have also known Jeff Gottlieb?
Montagraph 1 year ago
I have no need to lie and you??Just because i never saw or was never abused there .and that does not agree with your twisted view of things,doesnt make others a lier,if you percieve growing up as abuse then i think you need to seek help,oh thats right you percieve thats as abuse,right,mw
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille said "I have no need to lie and you??Just because i never saw or was never abused there .and that does not agree with your twisted view of things,doesnt make others a lier"
No, it does make you a liar. If you aggressively and publicly spread false truths to intentionally discredit others then that is the definition of liar. Every person here knows that the only way what you are saying is true is if you entered Elan, went to Joe Ricci's mansion and sat there for 13 months. Liar.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
yes i did ,in 13 month,and you??And yes i spent my time in the corner like everyone else,and yes a spent time shovelling snow and yes hitting the pan at e-3, i graduated both school and elan and no i do not view that as any kind of abuse.Children w/no parents who dont get in trouble w/the law or school would not need elan, the succes rate of those other programs are much lower then elans.I learned to grow up at elan,.You have 100%free will there,you choice to screw up or not,
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille 13 months huh? The average stay for a student now is 2.5 years (at the very best). Did you know that? Yeah, I graduated with flying colors and never sat in the corner unless it was to guard some poor soul crushed down by Elan. You obviously have not kept up to date with what the program evolved into after you "graduated". Which gives you no right to defend it.
"You have 100%free will there" more evidence that you have no idea what Elan became. Or that you are delusional.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
your becoming a waste of my time.,but to answer your question,as you know there are many reasons as to why children are sent there.Many which have nothing to do with drugs or booze.There were several there for parents pimping them out ,they were there for having no parents atall,they were for cutting themselves and yes some were there for useing drugs to block many unwanted feelings.Obviouslly you learned nothing there ,but pooor me,andI never saw anyone,ever hit punch or any abuse ever.
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille So you think people who's only crime was "having no parents at all" deserved to be sent to Elan. Regarding, the other children you describe, your belief is what? That they deserved Elan because it was so bad for them before. You do know that there are places out there that have actually learned to help children without the use of isolation, violence, and abuse...right? But maybe this is a foreign concept to you since you were obviously such a success in Elan? Did you graduate?
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
@marykaywille "I never saw anyone,ever hit punch or any abuse ever."
You. Are. A. Liar. How can you live with yourself after making such a ridiculous statement publicly? I don't often say these things, but you honestly need to go seek professional help.
I pray that you don't have children.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
obviouslly all you useing those lovely words learned nothing there,or perhaps you forgot the saying,let me remind you,when you use those words,it always mean you have nothing of any intellegence to say,in place of those words.Oh heres another,what goes around comes around,and i am sure the infantile behavior continues obviouslly with all who could not handle elan.I was never hit,punch,or abused in any way shape or form there,grew up,but i guess you guys dont want to do that.
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille Excuse me? "all you useing those lovely words learned nothing there,or perhaps you forgot the saying,let me remind you,when you use those words,it always mean you have nothing of any intellegence to say,in place of those words"...Are you drunk? Or drunk and doped up?
"I was never hit,punch,or abused in any way shape or form there". But you do remember the other people who were, right? Or is that why you are wasted right now? To keep forgetting it? Another proud Elan supporter.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
check this out right now on this issue, i just found out about it and this is fucking bat-shit nuts that it actually goes on. Reddit.com/r/self/comments/ec3xh/even_skimming_this_post_once_will_blow_your_mind/
samooraz 1 year ago 2
@ydaltarf
no one deserves what elan does.. its completely illegal. end of story.
hockey499s 1 year ago 4
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hockey499s 1 year ago 6
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witness4justice 1 year ago 2
It was a long time ago.
Hopefully H.R. 911 will pass the senate now.
I feel the need to make sure that what happened to me and what I witnessed is never allowed in my Country EVER AGAIN.
If you love Elan then mind your own brainwashed business!
Go get a job there watching the 20 or so kids who are unfortunate enough to be there now because of weak assholes like you. oh and FUCK OFF :)>....
witness4justice 1 year ago
I was there from 80-82. You would not say any of that if you were there at that time period.. Yes, we were in need help, but not abuse.
28chevy1 1 year ago 3
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@28chevy1 I too was at elan 8 in 82,jeez what a bunch of babies here eh.I bet they cried everytime they had to hit the pan at elan 3,why dont you guys put your dunce caps on,face the corner and maybe think about growning up,Yes elan work just fine for me,along with thousands if not hundreds of thousands people who would be dead now if not for elan!!!!!!maryw
marykaywille 1 year ago
@marykaywille Just because you happened to mentally and physically survive child abuse, it gives you no right to tell others how they should feel you arrogant ****.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago 2
I know of a couple of losers right in my own family who could have benefited by an education at the Elan School, what my question is, is simply why they never fell upon a nice ripe opportunity to get there?-lol.
ydaltarf 1 year ago
you guys who hate on Elan...anyone who went there knows that it isnt all bad...if it was bad for you, then you made it that way...i was there for 27 months. i screwed around and then i got serious...if it wasnt for Elan, id be dead by now...so quit hatin
foxtrot9855 1 year ago
@foxtrot9855 Just because you happened to mentally and physically survive child abuse, it gives you no right to tell others how they should feel you arrogant ****.
BigBoi60981 1 year ago
You guys need to get in touch with the folks who were at Straight, Inc. and it's spin-off programs. Several of the programs' survivors have filed a class action lawsuit because of the abuse they suffered, a few have sued the programs individually and won millions of dollars (especially survivors of KIDS of North Jersey). The statute of limitations on cases like yours -- and we are definitely talking violation of constitutional rights as witness4justice has stated -- does NOT expire. ps FUCK ELAN
cowgirled811 1 year ago 3
I went to this screwed up place for 31 months.From"78" to"80" My director was and still is Queer {DIKE} I was never able to get a break,Shot down,digging my own grave,signs signs every where signs.That "BITCH"nearly got to me and after i got out 2years later i put a gun to my head pulled the tigger but nothing happen."ALICE DUNN"I will see you in hell,I don't know who will be there first but if I were a betting a "Scarbrough Downs"horse trak I would bet on"?".........
COLE9085 1 year ago 4
and the supreme court generally rules that the bill of rights doesn't inherently apply to schools because we were children and children are to be controlled and manipulated, and public high school at least where I went was worse, my friend kelly was raped and when she came out, no one wanted to party to end so they all called her a liar and a slut, didn't think twice, probably never have, they might as well have shown up with pitchforks and run her out of town, fuck America, and fuck the b.o.r.
veganbikepunk 1 year ago 2
you're right, but guess what, we don't care, yammer about your rights until you're blue in the face, this country doesn't care, Elan is probably the least on the list of violators of your bill of rights, people who believe in the fucking bill want prayer in schools and the ten commandments on the wall, you live in a "democracy" that is well aware that it's leaning toward totalitarianism and THEY DON'T CARE, if you want to do something, go burn it to the ground,
veganbikepunk 1 year ago
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you know, I went to Elan, and I hated it, but this is psychotic, what the fuck does the bill of rights have to do with tough love programs, and socialism? get fucking real
subterraneannn 1 year ago
@subterraneannn Elan is in Poland Spring Maine U.S.A., yet they violate your CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS every day. I can't believe I even have to explain this to you. OBVIOUSLY your School did not have a basic civics class
witness4justice 1 year ago 5
@witness4justice this is subteraneannn by the way, I didn't mean anything by that, it's just, we have so many problems, I mean, we're screwed no matter what, Elan really did teach us how the world work, it doesn't give a flying fuck, and as for rights, it's like carlin said, we have privileges. a right is something you can't take away, we've never had em, and until your government falls and the peasantries kept out of the voting booth we never will
veganbikepunk 1 year ago
Shame on the State of Maine.
Shame on the state of Maine for allowing marty kruglik and jeffrry gottlieb in my opinion to run a continuing criminal enterprise.
Abusing children for money for over 35 years for money is I believe running contiuing criminal enterprise.
Shame on kenny zaretzky for not exposing elan and helping it further in my opinion a continuing criminal enterprise being run by elan and its hechmen.
Shame Shame on the State of Maine
Oregonblueberry 1 year ago 6
very interesting!
maruska61 1 year ago
Wow! I never thought of that before. You could be right....
biomass2211 2 years ago
Nobody is above the IRS!
Think Al Capone.
witness4justice 2 years ago
After getting a call from State of Me Dept of Ed, I sent my complaint in writing to Commissioner Gendron. Probably just going to go into a file... are you for real Starbright? Didn't give you your money? Jerks! Want to call Pete's cell phone? Terry is a bitch! Plus I don't know what she'd want a dildo for anyway.
biomass2211 2 years ago 4
Elan is a criminal Enterprise.
They probably launder dirty money from the track through Elan. We need to have then audited!
witness4justice 2 years ago 2
@witness4justice Like I said, he's 17 years old, now 11 months. Why do you ask a question which is already answered. I think the Smirnoff bottle is a nice touch.
biomass2211 2 years ago
I hope your Son is home safe now!
witness4justice 2 years ago
State of Maine does not investige special education complaints for out of state placed kids. he's suffered abuse and his special rights are completely violated.
biomass2211 2 years ago 5
@biomass2211 November 24, 2009, my son was physically restrained by two students without provocations. His head was slammed against some pipes. When a staff member entered the room, he told them to stop immediately. They only rec'd approval from State of maine to keep operating as a special purpose school as long as they stopped the student restraints by students. I have notified Maine Dept of Ed about this but they won't respond.
biomass2211 2 years ago
My son will be placed on the front lawn on Friday December 11, 2009 and told to leave . He won't be able to carry many of his belongings. He is most sad about leaving his personal books behind. He is 17 years old, 10 months. I told my son to make sure he gets his $100 account money before he leaves. and ask for a ride to Portland. I'm sure Clare will laugh in his face. He says they treat him with disgust.IhavebeenbrainwashedbyElaninto NOTpickingupmysonplusitwasthe schooldistrictwhoplacedhimthere
biomass2211 2 years ago 6
You have done the right thing!
witness4justice 2 years ago
Elan still owes me over 100$ from my acct..lolz..That was from 93. I told Terry, tania, Peter R, Etc. WEEKS before i left to have it ready for me & they fucked me. Prob bought a dildo with it.
Starbright4876 2 years ago 5
"I was a student at the Elan School for 3 years from 2005 to 2008. I am still traumatized by what I went through during my time there. Waking up each day the environment was constant screaming and swearing, by students, but more so by the "staff". I remember as a new student, I was crying when I was told to scrub a garbage can as a punishment for something so minor that I can't even remember the cause.
BigBoi60981 2 years ago 12
@BigBoi60981 this is copy pasted, ive seen this on 3 elan sites... wtf is this???
Spadge5000 1 year ago
I has stopped cleaning it, and that was when the staff determined that I had to be restrained and dragged to "the corner", isolation in a room to the point when one barely feels human. I tried to fight back, as any normal person would do when one is touched and forcefully grabbed without consent. Instead of just bringing me to the corner, the staff had other students hold me up, my hands and feet restrained, as other students were forced to scream and degrade me.
BigBoi60981 2 years ago 8
I say forced, because regretfully I have also done the same to other students, and I know that if they refused to participate in this abominable event they too would have been punished. The only way to survive in this setting was to shut down emotionally. This memory haunts me to current day.
BigBoi60981 2 years ago 10
"This school needs to be shut down, and I am happy if that day is coming near. Even if Elan survives the recession, it should still be closed. However, this could prove to be exceedingly difficult, because the students in the school are pressured not even to think a bad thought about the program, let alone utter it, and will receive punishment if they fail to oblige that rule. I know that while I was at the school investigations were conducted, and students were pressured into lying.
BigBoi60981 2 years ago 8
Furthermore, a survey was also done, which now appears on the school's website, some questions asking about if we felt comfortable at the school. It was said to be anonymous, but again we felt pressured into lying, staff was supervising, and each of our handwriting could be easily identified.
"I hope someone reacts to the atrocity that is the Elan School."
BigBoi60981 2 years ago 8