If you stand up to a bully just one time - even if you end up getting the crap kicked out of you - chances are very good the bully will never try to push you around again.
All you have to do is land a couple of punches and not back off and run away.
Bullies feed on your fear, but they're cowards at heart. The last thing they want is for their target to fight back.
there are different kinds of bullies, some of them are so clever to sneakily push your buttons and turn it around on you when you confront them and can't take it anymore and they can even play the victim... some of these ppl on here may be bullies who are playing the victim.
Passive Agressive PC bullying is just as evil as real bullying...
I confronted a bully about a week ago, he acts tough with all his friends but is a pussy up close. i could shove him to the ground and the cunt wouldnt say a word back, what a loser.
im glad that my dad helped me with bullying when i was young and couldn't defend myself he would come over and scare the shit out of them but now that my parent are divorced im on my own
Bullies are children of Satan, they think they are better than others, but some pick on the innocent infants who are weak ? It's too much conflicts going on this planet.
I was popular in school. I hung around with all the diff crowds and I was never picked on. The reason for that is because I started to beat the crap out of losers who picked on my friends. I first did this in grade six, and didn't stop until I graduated high school. Haha... Nobody ever touched me, or my friends, and if anyone tried, I twisted their heads off.
POWER is good! We need.Bullied people watching success stories people who stood up for themselves they spirit goes high but then goes down ,they are in the prison of their souls . When you passionate about something no one can beat you !!!! Fight for your goals!!!But first think!
Bullying is and issue of self esteem as well as testing the waters of hierarchy. Animals do it as do young humans.
Now that I have a young son I know prevention is the best cure. I got him into boxing at a young age where he trains and gets in the ring with his peers on a regular basis.
He has lost the fear of engaging and has developed the skills to hurt those who attempt to test him.
He will start 2nd grade this next school year and I'm glad I got him to an early start.
Bullies are weak pussys. Real cowards. I'm not in school anymore, but if I ever saw something like that, bullying nowa days, I would beat their ugly little faces in :)
If you're going to use anti-gay slurs then at least spell them correctly. Keep in mind that some faggots are perfectly capable of defending themselves and that striking back violently may not always be your best line of defense. The instinct to lash out violently at a moment's notice is something that should be suppressed at a young age. That would solve a lot of problems.
only cowards get bullied. learn to fight. to stop a bully don't say anything just go straight into beating his ass. hit him so hard so that he remembers you every night. punch through the persons face like you are trying to rape his soul.
Nobody should ever have to learn to fight. This isn't the stone age where humans should have to fight for their survival anymore. Kids are way out of control and your comment shows a good look at a mentality that needs to be stamped out. There are other ways of dealing with these situations and self defense should only be exercised in extreme situations.
i disagree, kids are out of control yeah but thats more the parents fault. fighting is not only a natural human reaction but is necessary for the growth and development of teenagers. fighting is an art form, the most direct form self expression the problem is, is your only looking at it from the destructive side but its constructive as well and helps teens grow not only psychically but in a personal way as well. then there's the whole philosophical side about achieving happiness with fighting
Fighting is a primal instinct though. This is the 21st century and the urgency to fight should have been stamped out of the human genome decades ago but here we are in our modern era with kids attacking each other like rabid dogs and posting it to youtube like it's something to be proud of. Fighting does not build character or make a person stronger. Studies have proven that children who go to school in hostile environments and get bullied make lower grades and are more likely to drop out.
i am not disagreeing with you bullying is bad but there is a difference between bullying and fighting and the thing that bothers me is you said "Nobody should ever have to learn to fight" which i think is absurd. now you may believe that the urge to fight should have been stomped out of the human genome decades ago but the fact is, is that it hasn't gone away and probably never will. as far as going to jail for fighting, thats more of a reflection of our society then a reflection of fighting
The possibility of jail time means that teenagers in school are now forced to submit to violence with no means of defending themselves which means schools and society should push harder to make youth less violent through any means, wether it be new never before tried curriculums in our schools or even genetic engineering.
corey I hate to break it down to you but the school system doesn't work like the human ressources or in the corporate settings where behaviour and performance are monitored.they won't fingerprint the kids to keep track of them.also how many kids are accused of coking up stories even though they are telling the truth,you can accused but you will most likely be judged in the end.I had to be though,i deal with motivated bullies,racist kids and biaised teacher.but I had a few of real mates
No, allow me to break it down for you. The authority figures in the school itself, teachers, admin, principal are all adults who do have a human resources system. They should use that same system with the kids. If school is to prepare kids for the future then they should use the same method with kids to get them used to a corporate environment which will in turn equal a greater change of success for the kids. Dealing with so called bullies in a rational and civilized manner is best.
Let's not forget how many schools systems are now arresting kids for fighting and giving them heavy jail sentences. It doesn't matter who started it or who was trying to defend themselves. If you're in one of those school districts that has this sort of strict policy then you get tasered, maced and sent to jail with your college chanced ruined and nothing but a GED in your future. If the parents or teachers can't stop it then it means certain imprisonment for many of our youth.
"No one should learn to fight" and "self defense should be exercised."
Outside of your culdisac it is a very dangerous world. People are murdered everyday. In many places its kill or be killed survival instincts are neccisary. Dont go to far on your pussy liberal tirades.
Dude you totally misunderstood what I was trying to say. Self defense is justified, looking for a fight is not. It has nothing to do with being liberal or conservative either. I'm not either one of those, I just don't agree with unnecessary violence. This world would be a lot better off if everybody minded their own and left others alone.
Government prisons, schools and churches. It is the system of peer control. Schools are run like prisons. Teachers sit back like prison guards and let it happen. 'Bullies' is another word for asshole jerk behavior and is easy to spot. The bullies have a death wish.
Gay, let the children stand up for themselves what teenage wants their parent looking over their shoulder and fighting their battles? I sure as hell don't want either
yea but were talking about kids who physically and emotionally cant defend themselves so they need the support of a bigger hand to help them. There is no shame in that what so ever and if you do well than Im sorry you feel that way.
I always told our principal, we have to have zero tolerance when it xomes to this. We have to penalize not only the kids who fight, but also the ones who gather around as an audience.
When I broke up fights, the first thing I did was chase away the onlookers. I don't mind kids fighting; it's natural. But gathering around and cheering them on is worse.
The kids in the (1) category; what were they like? Were they the weirdos, or did they know how to avoid trouble? When I taught high school in Harlem, I saw kids who somehow avoided all the negativity around them, yet these kids weren't "toughs".
Were your kids anything like in the movie "Scum"? Ray Winstone plays a hard-core thug who clobbers the bullies, but doesn't bully anyone (unless challenged by other toughs).
I consider those in (1) category as the 'smart ones'. Usually those with enough self esteem that do not need to bully someone, but are strong enough not to be bullied themselves.
Obviously you can't find people fitting exactly in each category. The four groupings are quite big umbrellas
Ten years ago you could get your ass kicked and a year later maybe a few kids would remember, these days in a years time a video of you getting your arse kicked has 90,000 thousand views on youtube.
No child should be bullied to this extent...I mean it should never happen in the first place, but it may go on as it is just a part of life. The parents of the bullies should be looked at and held accountable for the actions of their children, because they obviously didn't teach them manners or instill any morals or ethics in them. I have never been a bully and cannot understand how some see pleasure in it. It just makes the bully look terrible in the long run. Kids that bully have issues, too.
I absolutely despise bullying. I'm fortunate enough to have never really been bullied, but my little brother was bullied in elementary school, and it made me so mad that I just wanted to kick the living shit out of those fucking twats. I have no pity for bullies. If it wasn't illegal, I wouldn't mind every single one of them being put to death.
Sometimes little punkasses need to be taught a lesson. And no, reprimanding a bully is not bullying.
Fight back. Only through hardship does the heart grow stronger. Don't welcome bullying into your life, but familiarize yourself with the feeling and learn how to tackle it and be stronger. THAT is the learning process.
I was bullied as a kid. I punched the bully right between the eyes. I was never bullied again. As an adult, I took martial arts and learned not to walk like a victim. Weight lifting helps, too.
Teach your kids self-confidence. Teach them sports. Strong kids don't get bullied, and the strongest don't allow bullying.
UNFORTUNATELY it is true. the USUAL bully will go away if you show him that he can't handle you like he wants, but today, some bullying has gotten totally out of bounds.
bullies are the cowards+you can always find their weak spot+turn it back on them,thats how i survived bullies in my schooldays,my friends+me ganged up on the bullies+stood up for those who where being picked on.
children who are bullied by their parents need some feeling of power.
if there isn't someone in their life who can teach them the power of self-discipline and self-control, then they'll tend to try to get someone to be as scared or intimidated by them, as they are by their parents.
The thing is, kids who bully tend to be treated like that a lot in their home life. They will tend to just blank you, or even encourage you - 'Yeah, it's fun, yeah, I want more, you think I'm scared?'
And so on.
Catch the bully and hug the poor wee soul. Offer him a jam sandwich or half your packet of crisps.
Then turn to the bystanders, and ask what they were getting out of being bystanders. It's usually the bystanders who perpetuate bullying one way or another.
I work with kids, and I have to say, if you work where I work, you'd have been fired long ago.
You don't teach kids how not to bully by being the biggest bully in their life - you just teach them to bide their time until they're bigger than you. I get plenty good results with the 'half a bag of crisps' technique, and I dont' want to be fired, so I'm sticking with that.
After this, I shrug and walk away. Because that's my job. I don't get upset, because that's not my job. I don't ask for the kids I deal with to be medicated because if they need medication, that's someone else's call.
Get to know me better before you call me or my actions perverted. I do what I do for little money because I want to help, and when I see old pupils, they tend to stop, smile & talk.
There is a very very very simple two step solution to stopping the traumatizing effects of bullying. 1> restructure the education system. Not all children perform at the same levels, it's unreasonable to force them to perform at the same level causing unnecessary competition. 2> Always supervise their recess with 1 adult for every 12 students. PROBLEM SOLVED.
nah shukria, the only thing kids know is childhood. they are excited about seeing their friends, visiting their teachers, playing on the school yard, showing off their new gear (clothing, shoes, etc...). childhood is a world completely in its own right. so to hate the only world you know (at that age) is overwhelming. depression, suicidal tendencies, violence, and almost every real adult problem that comes with a bad situation affects these kids leap into adulthood.
Shukria123 I had a friend in school who killed himself because he was bullied every day for over a year. As difficult as the problems of adulthood are, you tend to have more of a chance to walk away and find better company.
I think what you know about bullying is pretty limited. He had his clothes set on fire, he was punched and kicked, and the teachers did nothing because they saw it as 'all part of life's rich pageant'.
I was bullied in school too, and I also remember teachers doing nothing to stop it.
So I know what it's like to be bullied.
As to your claim that you have 'more of a chance to walk away and find better company' in adulthood, can you walk away from your boss? Your co-workers? Your customers? Those can be bullies in the adult world that can very hard to escape - you need that paycheque.
Your friend who committed suicide is lucky; he won't have to deal with the difficulties of adulthood.
u have no selfrespect...thats way u being bullied by pussy..u should kick the shit out of him or her...u must not let enyone fuck with u!!bur respect eny one and most of all u must respect ur self!sry for my english...
I'll tell you the main reason for bullying and listen closely. It's the society we live in. Kids learn everything from society. In the real world, it's okay that a man starves and suffers and no one cares about him, we just ask him to pick himself up and walk and assume it's his fault. Kids ofcourse take this paradigm to school. They assume that what they're doing is right. How can you blame them?
Ofcourse there's bullying in schools, because its in the real world too. It only seems different.
I think alot of us here got bullied in school. Primary school was hell for me, bullies calling me names, writing down these names in the toilet stalls, shredding my books, but I just endured it.
And I am glad I endured it, cause most of these bullies lead unsuccessful lives washing the toilets in Mcdonalds. And I am in a reknown university! Not alot of children can endure it, I hope parents and teachers will act quickly to their aid.
bullies bully the people who allow it. I know fat bullies, and I now people that are being bullied because they're fat. The difference between those 2 is that if you call de bully names, he'll punch ye in your face, and if you call the other names, he'll just look away like he didn't hear it. you just have to show that they can't mess with ye, but if you're bullied for awhile, it's already to late.
Bullying behavior is any abuse of power or privilege, in any form, and one thing all bullies have in common is that they are all worthless cowards, be they male or female. The only effective self defense, is intimidation; away from the authorities, but in front of a few witnesses, you beat a bully so brutally, people get too scared to start shit with you. If you can, do it in front of his girl. When you are finished, spit on him.
lesson to be learned about bullying; you must stand up for yourself no matter how often it occurs because once it starts it never stops. Retaliate, with inhuman brutality, make the fuckers pay, and make it hurt like hell. Make your message clear.
Where it up to Me I would phosphorous bomb Mecah and Medina.
Its true what Charles Atlas said; "no one picks on a strongman." At least not to his face; even if you smack the crap out of people, around you in person everyone gets quiet, but behind your back people talk. There's just no way to win those types; the simple truth is, some people just shouldn't be breeding. Today's bully, becomes tomorrow's corporate suit who pays mercenaries to slaughter people in Somalia, or, one of Natalie Portman's bodyguards.
I was bullied/outcast when I was in elementary school because I was kind of a tomboy and smart, also because my family wasn't the same "class" as the rest of the kids. Some kids are cruel, I never understood why they can be that hateful...It made me doubt myself and gave me low self-esteem for so long afterward.
Most of them will grow up to be nothing, trust me. Usually these people who can endure being bullied (in anyway) will lead very successful and happy lives, trust me.
I think the main part of why they bully us is that they just think its funny to make fun of another. And perhaps it makes them 'cooler' amongst their hate gorup. Well just wait until they get into society where there is no one to bully.
word to that, i think the most important thing for some1 who is being bullied is to realize tht those who are doin the bulllying are a waste of life,and that you are better than them, it is hard to be lonely, but go on with ur life, set some goals, dont be needy, eventually you will have a much better life than that of the bullies who will probably grow up to be career fuck ups alchoholics etc, the world is a tough place, jus be strong and happy no matter what, and evrything will fall into place
I haVe never bullied one person in my life. Why? Because I've seen first hand when a people have been bullied and what they have done to get back at the bully. One kid was harassed for being overweight so he sabotaged the bullies pushbike. When he fell off going downhill he broke both his wrists, nose and collarbone and was out of commission for 8 weeks. Now that same kid who got bullied is in prison for assault on other people.
i blame the parents for most kids who become bullies. they are to damn lazy to punish them.. i remembered being bullied when i was growing up and got into a few fights at school.
I disagree, in some cases you are right, though in others it is nothing about the parents but the child themselves. It is the general way of life in school.. someone bullies someone and others laugh, which provokes more people to bully others. To stop it you must become reputable at standing your ground, speaking from first hand experience.
Wow, lots of sad and crazies on the internet. One can give opinions without being cruel. Even in jest all should consider the stupidity of the actions. There is a video game devoted to become the best bully in the school. Well groups and/or individuals make the final choices. What to do?
Oh no! We need the cyber security bill, and we need internet 2.0 run by the government so that they can keep track of every move every person makes on the internet so there will be no more cyber-bullying!
Yes it can make you feel lousy at first, but over time you can learn how to deal with such situations succesfully. I would rather be bullied than not, because as a result of being bullied I have a chance to learn something. Living in a perfect bubble is not a good thing because the world is not perfect and you got to know how to survive. Of course school officials should make sure that students are relatively safe so that those ridiculous extreme cases never happen again!
but nobody learns from bullying any more, times have changed and kids dont handle things the same, and could end up passing the violence on. Im fine with cyber-bullying, name calling, but doing anything that the victim cant ignore like beating him for no reason is just unnecessary... speaking of which, why the hell do people beat other people? why do these pricks go around harassing the little guy? Yea because picking on smaller people is VERY masculine...
its not anything that can be changed is a parenting issue more then anything i was bullied for being an outsider was picked on cos of my accent plus came from a working class background so my parents coudnt afford nike etc so was bulied for that irish tinker heh the schools cant do anything cant force people to like you so i had no choice but to get myself expelled by blowing it up heh
i think if parents focused more on instaling acceptance in children then it would prevent these issues but of course in a world of pedos and criminals there taught to fight and rebel against diffrence so as a parent its a case of ,teach your child not to accept and fight or get in the car with strangers heh
No. I grew up during the cold war.... much worse standoffs than we have now, and it didn't cause me to pick on other people. People know right from wrong, I think that the consequences aren't a factor with them because the judicial system sucks in the U.S. and there's no fear of punishment.
Counties with nuclear weapons are the bullies, you can't have the same toy as me, Israel being the main culprit. Although its ally the US is not far behind. Countries with nuclear weapons should not complain when other countries acquire similar weapons, so far it is only African countries who have given up nuclear weapons.
The best solutions is to introduce the concept and reason of "bullying" to the children before they even experience it.
Teach the negative effects and ways to work around it, including informing the parents or seek help. Most kids don't know how to react when faced with such problems. They are shocked from the incident. Its important they are mentally prepared beforehand.
Well informed, they might even stepping in to protect others from becoming victims.
What if the child is simply following correct reasoning? I am bigger and I want something, so I take it. Bullying works great for the bully, why should he stop. So what if it brings negative effects to others? Doesn't nature teach us that the strongest survive? Shouldn't kids just do what is natural?
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No, this is not an "age old problem requiring new solutions." This is an age old problem requiring old solutions. Bullying is simply treating someone poorly for your own selfish reasons. Teach Judeo/ Christian values from early childhood, and then enforce them in your institutions. If you constantly teach kids that they are just highly evolved animals, what behavior do you get? Animal morality with cell phones. New science will not fix a wrong headed philosophy.
Bullying isn't new; only certain media through which it can be perpetrated are new.
Bullying over the internet need only occur for as long as the victim fails to block their abuser's access to them. It's not face-to-face, it's not in the instant moment; as the victim, you have more power to end it than you would in a traditional playground setting. You don't NEED to respond to that IM, you don't NEED to post all your information publicly on Myspace, so why on earth do it?
bullying occurs because it is part of life, it shows how primative we can act, bullying isnt exactly one illness that needs curing, people think its a matter of stop it!
can bullying be cured, most likely not. its something that occurs when one human is intimidated by another. Sure you can stop a bully but bullying exists in all forms.
the answer is more staff in both classrooms and playground, we have few staff on patroll but with so many pupils, they dont see whats happening infront of them
lol no mate. You have no idea about evolution do you?
If it WAS survival of the "fittest" or most muscular , 7 feet tall Neanderthals would be roaming the Earth instead of the puny, smaller brained H. sapiens...
Big biceps won't save you from a bullet or well handled knife.
Theres a lot of bullying psychologically by mainstream kids whose parents neglect to inform/discuss anything other than greed and capitalism & american idol with them. They will pick on poorer kids, kids with glasses, learning difficulties etc. If you arent the same as the bullies they will oust you from their narrow cleek. It's conforming to the social 'norms' and about fitting into mainstream society. They do not like anyone different to them and dont have the intelligence to leave them alone.
Bullying, has unfortunately been around since the dawn of time. Almost everyone that I know has been a victim of it or a victimizer. It is a very serious subject that unfortunately the school administrators and the parents seem to ignore until it erupts. Most of the school shooting rampages in the United States can be traced back to some form of bullying. If there was some intervention provided then maybe they could have saved some lives but it seems to be too much trouble for the adults.
Americans will victimize bullies rather than victims. Read Leonard Sax's Why Gender Matters. He openly embraced "violent nature" of boys and describes shy boys as useless and social outcast.
In his book, he said bullies exist because they have low self-esteem. In order to solve this problem, co-eduction is necessary for "boys to be boys" On the other hand he supports to send those "pussies" to churches and religious institutes.
If you stand up to a bully just one time - even if you end up getting the crap kicked out of you - chances are very good the bully will never try to push you around again.
All you have to do is land a couple of punches and not back off and run away.
Bullies feed on your fear, but they're cowards at heart. The last thing they want is for their target to fight back.
retroclipps 7 months ago
there are different kinds of bullies, some of them are so clever to sneakily push your buttons and turn it around on you when you confront them and can't take it anymore and they can even play the victim... some of these ppl on here may be bullies who are playing the victim.
Passive Agressive PC bullying is just as evil as real bullying...
HerrSpieldose 1 year ago
I confronted a bully about a week ago, he acts tough with all his friends but is a pussy up close. i could shove him to the ground and the cunt wouldnt say a word back, what a loser.
nior000 1 year ago
im glad that my dad helped me with bullying when i was young and couldn't defend myself he would come over and scare the shit out of them but now that my parent are divorced im on my own
bomerman104 1 year ago
Bullies are children of Satan, they think they are better than others, but some pick on the innocent infants who are weak ? It's too much conflicts going on this planet.
DannyLovesOregon 1 year ago
bullies are cowards because they only pick on kids they know they can beat up. fucking pick on someone bigger than you. fuking scumbags
desconocidos27 1 year ago
I was popular in school. I hung around with all the diff crowds and I was never picked on. The reason for that is because I started to beat the crap out of losers who picked on my friends. I first did this in grade six, and didn't stop until I graduated high school. Haha... Nobody ever touched me, or my friends, and if anyone tried, I twisted their heads off.
HaligonianType1 1 year ago
@HaligonianType1 that's why people say bullies are weak. they succumbed to peer pressure and use a fake face to make themselves look powerful
broodm 1 year ago
bullies and people who are mean to others are all sad inside and just vent their frustrations on others
animelover1234 1 year ago
Whatever their just getting ready for the impending third world war.
FreedomIsAfarce 2 years ago
animals do run in packs idiot. flocks, herds, etc.
olevillage999 2 years ago
wolves hunt in PACKS dumbass
yubebarca 2 years ago
thats what i said
olevillage999 2 years ago
ohh shit sry...
thought u said don't.......
yubebarca 2 years ago
animals dont use the net or guns or travel in gangs.
cbrun67176 2 years ago
POWER is good! We need.Bullied people watching success stories people who stood up for themselves they spirit goes high but then goes down ,they are in the prison of their souls . When you passionate about something no one can beat you !!!! Fight for your goals!!!But first think!
peterhangi 2 years ago
Bullying is and issue of self esteem as well as testing the waters of hierarchy. Animals do it as do young humans.
Now that I have a young son I know prevention is the best cure. I got him into boxing at a young age where he trains and gets in the ring with his peers on a regular basis.
He has lost the fear of engaging and has developed the skills to hurt those who attempt to test him.
He will start 2nd grade this next school year and I'm glad I got him to an early start.
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BURNBULLETS 2 years ago
my god bully upgrade themselves on computer
72ve17 2 years ago
its called Keyboard Gangsta'
cannoir 2 years ago
Bullies are weak pussys. Real cowards. I'm not in school anymore, but if I ever saw something like that, bullying nowa days, I would beat their ugly little faces in :)
ShaxDr87 2 years ago 11
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that's not true. i'm kind of a bully and i'm not a coward.
JohnEveryMann 2 years ago
Troll.
ShaxDr87 2 years ago
nobody is teaching children manners. They are growning up as wild animals
fight2Bfree 2 years ago 9
When I was in school, I had this kid bullying me, and one day I just lost it.. and fucking tipped him out of his wheelchair..
zajonycon 2 years ago 5
only faggets get bullied someone annoys you or teases you punch the fucker in the face and you wont get bullied
serzh123aaa 2 years ago
stupid comment.
when you don't know what you're talking about, please have the decency of keeping your shit hole shut off.
petitpousset 2 years ago
If you're going to use anti-gay slurs then at least spell them correctly. Keep in mind that some faggots are perfectly capable of defending themselves and that striking back violently may not always be your best line of defense. The instinct to lash out violently at a moment's notice is something that should be suppressed at a young age. That would solve a lot of problems.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago 2
lol
Olegkonis 2 years ago
perhaps he should shave his nipples but whats the deal with teh fishy go-go flappies?
aspacelot 2 years ago
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How cruel can people be..
HerecomesTheSun666 2 years ago
only cowards get bullied. learn to fight. to stop a bully don't say anything just go straight into beating his ass. hit him so hard so that he remembers you every night. punch through the persons face like you are trying to rape his soul.
ChesterDoraemon 2 years ago
Right on! I respect anyone who stands up for themselves, even if they do get beat down. I won't respect anyone who runs and hides.
Moltixar 2 years ago
Nobody should ever have to learn to fight. This isn't the stone age where humans should have to fight for their survival anymore. Kids are way out of control and your comment shows a good look at a mentality that needs to be stamped out. There are other ways of dealing with these situations and self defense should only be exercised in extreme situations.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago
i disagree, kids are out of control yeah but thats more the parents fault. fighting is not only a natural human reaction but is necessary for the growth and development of teenagers. fighting is an art form, the most direct form self expression the problem is, is your only looking at it from the destructive side but its constructive as well and helps teens grow not only psychically but in a personal way as well. then there's the whole philosophical side about achieving happiness with fighting
killakev128 2 years ago 2
Fighting is a primal instinct though. This is the 21st century and the urgency to fight should have been stamped out of the human genome decades ago but here we are in our modern era with kids attacking each other like rabid dogs and posting it to youtube like it's something to be proud of. Fighting does not build character or make a person stronger. Studies have proven that children who go to school in hostile environments and get bullied make lower grades and are more likely to drop out.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago
i am not disagreeing with you bullying is bad but there is a difference between bullying and fighting and the thing that bothers me is you said "Nobody should ever have to learn to fight" which i think is absurd. now you may believe that the urge to fight should have been stomped out of the human genome decades ago but the fact is, is that it hasn't gone away and probably never will. as far as going to jail for fighting, thats more of a reflection of our society then a reflection of fighting
killakev128 2 years ago
The possibility of jail time means that teenagers in school are now forced to submit to violence with no means of defending themselves which means schools and society should push harder to make youth less violent through any means, wether it be new never before tried curriculums in our schools or even genetic engineering.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago
corey I hate to break it down to you but the school system doesn't work like the human ressources or in the corporate settings where behaviour and performance are monitored.they won't fingerprint the kids to keep track of them.also how many kids are accused of coking up stories even though they are telling the truth,you can accused but you will most likely be judged in the end.I had to be though,i deal with motivated bullies,racist kids and biaised teacher.but I had a few of real mates
cannoir 2 years ago
No, allow me to break it down for you. The authority figures in the school itself, teachers, admin, principal are all adults who do have a human resources system. They should use that same system with the kids. If school is to prepare kids for the future then they should use the same method with kids to get them used to a corporate environment which will in turn equal a greater change of success for the kids. Dealing with so called bullies in a rational and civilized manner is best.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago
Let's not forget how many schools systems are now arresting kids for fighting and giving them heavy jail sentences. It doesn't matter who started it or who was trying to defend themselves. If you're in one of those school districts that has this sort of strict policy then you get tasered, maced and sent to jail with your college chanced ruined and nothing but a GED in your future. If the parents or teachers can't stop it then it means certain imprisonment for many of our youth.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago
bullying is wrong. But so are you.
"No one should learn to fight" and "self defense should be exercised."
Outside of your culdisac it is a very dangerous world. People are murdered everyday. In many places its kill or be killed survival instincts are neccisary. Dont go to far on your pussy liberal tirades.
supertroll201 2 years ago
Dude you totally misunderstood what I was trying to say. Self defense is justified, looking for a fight is not. It has nothing to do with being liberal or conservative either. I'm not either one of those, I just don't agree with unnecessary violence. This world would be a lot better off if everybody minded their own and left others alone.
ItsCoreyLynxxYall 2 years ago
My bad. I did misunderstand. Youre completely right in that sense. I just like trolling vids.
supertroll201 2 years ago
This is why I don't feel too sorry for kids when they get shot up in their schools. They probably deserved it.
Zeeboe 2 years ago
Government prisons, schools and churches. It is the system of peer control. Schools are run like prisons. Teachers sit back like prison guards and let it happen. 'Bullies' is another word for asshole jerk behavior and is easy to spot. The bullies have a death wish.
OregonHerbalist 2 years ago
1 learn to stand up for yourself
2 take the coputers out of the bedrooms
3 parents need to oversee their childrens actions.
SaintLiam78 2 years ago
Gay, let the children stand up for themselves what teenage wants their parent looking over their shoulder and fighting their battles? I sure as hell don't want either
sean9113 2 years ago
yea but were talking about kids who physically and emotionally cant defend themselves so they need the support of a bigger hand to help them. There is no shame in that what so ever and if you do well than Im sorry you feel that way.
Rcte333 2 years ago
There's a balance here.
When your kid is out-bullied the parent must step in.
I hope you don't have children.
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zwulwy 2 years ago
I always told our principal, we have to have zero tolerance when it xomes to this. We have to penalize not only the kids who fight, but also the ones who gather around as an audience.
When I broke up fights, the first thing I did was chase away the onlookers. I don't mind kids fighting; it's natural. But gathering around and cheering them on is worse.
MondoBeno 2 years ago
......sad...Back in hollywood we didnt have bullies we just didn't tolerate people that tell on people..
davidgsr2k 2 years ago
I don't get why anyone has the nerve to bully nowadays, not with all the school shootings lol!
ralphinio3 2 years ago
What I'm saying might be unethical, however working with kids (voluntary summer school) I used it with caution and worked.
In my mind I divided the kids in four groups
1) Not bullies, neither bullied
2) Bullied kids
3) Bullys
4) Real thugs
Most harm is done from 3 towards 2. Thugs (4) rarely bully the weak, they want a challenge.
I've used 4 to control 3, painting 3 as 'so weak he picks on the quiet ones' and asked them vaguely 'would you help me stop them?'
Most times it worked
Wrapped4 2 years ago 3
The kids in the (1) category; what were they like? Were they the weirdos, or did they know how to avoid trouble? When I taught high school in Harlem, I saw kids who somehow avoided all the negativity around them, yet these kids weren't "toughs".
Were your kids anything like in the movie "Scum"? Ray Winstone plays a hard-core thug who clobbers the bullies, but doesn't bully anyone (unless challenged by other toughs).
MondoBeno 2 years ago
I consider those in (1) category as the 'smart ones'. Usually those with enough self esteem that do not need to bully someone, but are strong enough not to be bullied themselves.
Obviously you can't find people fitting exactly in each category. The four groupings are quite big umbrellas
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BROOKLYNWright7568 2 years ago 2
Ten years ago you could get your ass kicked and a year later maybe a few kids would remember, these days in a years time a video of you getting your arse kicked has 90,000 thousand views on youtube.
cockroachafro 2 years ago
No child should be bullied to this extent...I mean it should never happen in the first place, but it may go on as it is just a part of life. The parents of the bullies should be looked at and held accountable for the actions of their children, because they obviously didn't teach them manners or instill any morals or ethics in them. I have never been a bully and cannot understand how some see pleasure in it. It just makes the bully look terrible in the long run. Kids that bully have issues, too.
SuperKillgirl 2 years ago 2
bully's are everywhere, thats why god gave us hammers and sharpened bed springs
MRruthlessness 2 years ago
lol god?
carlozecobra2 2 years ago
here comes the cyberbullying propaganda, ready to dismantle internet free speech
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FRANKEvans9431 2 years ago
I absolutely despise bullying. I'm fortunate enough to have never really been bullied, but my little brother was bullied in elementary school, and it made me so mad that I just wanted to kick the living shit out of those fucking twats. I have no pity for bullies. If it wasn't illegal, I wouldn't mind every single one of them being put to death.
Sometimes little punkasses need to be taught a lesson. And no, reprimanding a bully is not bullying.
VictimOfBoredom 2 years ago 3
Bullying is part of human nature, and society. Its going to happen no matter what.
VexMutz 2 years ago
Everyone has been a 'bully' in some way or the other. Everyone.
ThePictureOfLife 2 years ago
And been a victim.
Zeeboe 2 years ago
LMAO! These weeny squeaks are your version of bullies? Bwaaa! Candyassed little homos.
Trollrogue1 2 years ago
bullying is good, bulling creates ppl like mike tyson who jus become so brutal and ppl like to watch mike tyson fights
aghahowa11 2 years ago
And those people who love watching his fights are the ones who were bullied. XD
mikess 2 years ago
@aghahowa11 nah I also like to beat the crap out of some Moslem like you. Fuck off.
hck112 8 months ago
Fight back. Only through hardship does the heart grow stronger. Don't welcome bullying into your life, but familiarize yourself with the feeling and learn how to tackle it and be stronger. THAT is the learning process.
Gurizin 2 years ago
I was bullied as a kid. I punched the bully right between the eyes. I was never bullied again. As an adult, I took martial arts and learned not to walk like a victim. Weight lifting helps, too.
Teach your kids self-confidence. Teach them sports. Strong kids don't get bullied, and the strongest don't allow bullying.
malicea4thought 2 years ago 2
UNFORTUNATELY it is true. the USUAL bully will go away if you show him that he can't handle you like he wants, but today, some bullying has gotten totally out of bounds.
sooperfukker 2 years ago
Harden The Fuck Up Australia.
Jolinator 2 years ago
Every single one of you is failing at psychology.
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tarilyy 2 years ago
bullies are the cowards+you can always find their weak spot+turn it back on them,thats how i survived bullies in my schooldays,my friends+me ganged up on the bullies+stood up for those who where being picked on.
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lhoxjo 2 years ago
What is the simple answer to, why do children bully?
aeroflying 2 years ago
children who are bullied by their parents need some feeling of power.
if there isn't someone in their life who can teach them the power of self-discipline and self-control, then they'll tend to try to get someone to be as scared or intimidated by them, as they are by their parents.
Helen
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
well what else would u expect from a country made of Britain's criminals and felons
xielanx1 2 years ago
Catch a bully when he's beating an other kid, then beat him and humiliate him in front of everybody until he cries.
Then ask him: Violence is still fun? You want more?
Then, he will never try again to beat an other kid for fun.
Cause now, he knows what it is to be brutalized and scared as shit.
zqewkl 2 years ago
You really should beat up other kids? Nah. Bully him mentally.
NakedCreep 2 years ago
The thing is, kids who bully tend to be treated like that a lot in their home life. They will tend to just blank you, or even encourage you - 'Yeah, it's fun, yeah, I want more, you think I'm scared?'
And so on.
Catch the bully and hug the poor wee soul. Offer him a jam sandwich or half your packet of crisps.
Then turn to the bystanders, and ask what they were getting out of being bystanders. It's usually the bystanders who perpetuate bullying one way or another.
Helen
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
"Yeah, it's fun, yeah, I want more, you think I'm scared?"
Maybe that's the result you get.
But trust me, if you know how to use your eyes, your voice and few slaps, it works.
"Catch the bully and hug the poor wee soul. Offer him a jam sandwich or half your packet of crisps. "
Nah, he will tell you to get the fuck out, because he will think your are weak/and/or/stupid.
Bullies only respect the force.
And they are also afraid to be ridiculous in front of everybody.
zqewkl 2 years ago
I work with kids, and I have to say, if you work where I work, you'd have been fired long ago.
You don't teach kids how not to bully by being the biggest bully in their life - you just teach them to bide their time until they're bigger than you. I get plenty good results with the 'half a bag of crisps' technique, and I dont' want to be fired, so I'm sticking with that.
Helen
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
Well it worked on me when i was around 12.
And you know what?
At that age i would probably throw your bag of crips at your face.
And then, u would be upset, asking my parents to see me to tell them to take me to a psychiatrist for medication.
In other word, you would probaly use a perverted way of retaliation, without even be aware of it.
zqewkl 2 years ago
yes, you'd throw the bag of crisps at my face.
This is called 'acting out'. It happens.
After this, I shrug and walk away. Because that's my job. I don't get upset, because that's not my job. I don't ask for the kids I deal with to be medicated because if they need medication, that's someone else's call.
Get to know me better before you call me or my actions perverted. I do what I do for little money because I want to help, and when I see old pupils, they tend to stop, smile & talk.
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
YOU LIE!
zqewkl 2 years ago
and you're 107 years old according to your profile, so I better start making allowances for you being a bit set in your ways and old-fashioned...
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
Only internet noobs and suicidal noobs put real informations in their youtube public profile.
Which one are you?
zqewkl 2 years ago
I belong to an obscure religious sect which is required to post only honest information online.
how weird is that?
h.
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
And by the way, "presents" will never replace authority.
If you do so, well, do not be surprised to have raised people acting like criminals in perpetual search of authority.
zqewkl 2 years ago
'presents' isn't the point.
recognising that hungry kids don't think so well is the point.
recognising that sharing food to form bonds goes back to prehistory is the point.
h.
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
There is a very very very simple two step solution to stopping the traumatizing effects of bullying. 1> restructure the education system. Not all children perform at the same levels, it's unreasonable to force them to perform at the same level causing unnecessary competition. 2> Always supervise their recess with 1 adult for every 12 students. PROBLEM SOLVED.
DeimosSaturn 2 years ago
As awful as it is to be bullied in school, it's nothing compared to the problems and difficulties of adulthood.
Shukria123 2 years ago
nah shukria, the only thing kids know is childhood. they are excited about seeing their friends, visiting their teachers, playing on the school yard, showing off their new gear (clothing, shoes, etc...). childhood is a world completely in its own right. so to hate the only world you know (at that age) is overwhelming. depression, suicidal tendencies, violence, and almost every real adult problem that comes with a bad situation affects these kids leap into adulthood.
RiclistLature 2 years ago
Some kids are bullied more than others Shukria, and most school kids can't see into the future.
zOMGLaserGunzPewPew 2 years ago
Shukria123 I had a friend in school who killed himself because he was bullied every day for over a year. As difficult as the problems of adulthood are, you tend to have more of a chance to walk away and find better company.
I think what you know about bullying is pretty limited. He had his clothes set on fire, he was punched and kicked, and the teachers did nothing because they saw it as 'all part of life's rich pageant'.
And his fault, for being a weirdo.
Adult weirdos have it better
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
I was bullied in school too, and I also remember teachers doing nothing to stop it.
So I know what it's like to be bullied.
As to your claim that you have 'more of a chance to walk away and find better company' in adulthood, can you walk away from your boss? Your co-workers? Your customers? Those can be bullies in the adult world that can very hard to escape - you need that paycheque.
Your friend who committed suicide is lucky; he won't have to deal with the difficulties of adulthood.
Shukria123 2 years ago
u have no selfrespect...thats way u being bullied by pussy..u should kick the shit out of him or her...u must not let enyone fuck with u!!bur respect eny one and most of all u must respect ur self!sry for my english...
hasinjoZG 2 years ago
then you should just commit suicide now, so that you "won't have to deal with the difficulties of adulthood"...right?
life is hard, but theres always a way out
Gurizin 2 years ago
I don't have the courage to commit suicide. I wish I did.
Shukria123 2 years ago
if you dont dare to do it, then do something else to help yourself before it's too late and stop wallowing in your self-pity... -
Gurizin 2 years ago
I'll tell you the main reason for bullying and listen closely. It's the society we live in. Kids learn everything from society. In the real world, it's okay that a man starves and suffers and no one cares about him, we just ask him to pick himself up and walk and assume it's his fault. Kids ofcourse take this paradigm to school. They assume that what they're doing is right. How can you blame them?
Ofcourse there's bullying in schools, because its in the real world too. It only seems different.
kafcin 2 years ago 2
I think alot of us here got bullied in school. Primary school was hell for me, bullies calling me names, writing down these names in the toilet stalls, shredding my books, but I just endured it.
And I am glad I endured it, cause most of these bullies lead unsuccessful lives washing the toilets in Mcdonalds. And I am in a reknown university! Not alot of children can endure it, I hope parents and teachers will act quickly to their aid.
Bioloser 2 years ago 2
bullies bully the people who allow it. I know fat bullies, and I now people that are being bullied because they're fat. The difference between those 2 is that if you call de bully names, he'll punch ye in your face, and if you call the other names, he'll just look away like he didn't hear it. you just have to show that they can't mess with ye, but if you're bullied for awhile, it's already to late.
warlight123 2 years ago
"if you're bullied for awhile, it's already to late".
And then, in some case, it's Winnenden time.
zqewkl 2 years ago
Bullying behavior is any abuse of power or privilege, in any form, and one thing all bullies have in common is that they are all worthless cowards, be they male or female. The only effective self defense, is intimidation; away from the authorities, but in front of a few witnesses, you beat a bully so brutally, people get too scared to start shit with you. If you can, do it in front of his girl. When you are finished, spit on him.
pillsburydoughboy47 2 years ago
lesson to be learned about bullying; you must stand up for yourself no matter how often it occurs because once it starts it never stops. Retaliate, with inhuman brutality, make the fuckers pay, and make it hurt like hell. Make your message clear.
Where it up to Me I would phosphorous bomb Mecah and Medina.
pillsburydoughboy47 2 years ago
I've never met a bully I couldn't lick.
pillsburydoughboy47 2 years ago
Its true what Charles Atlas said; "no one picks on a strongman." At least not to his face; even if you smack the crap out of people, around you in person everyone gets quiet, but behind your back people talk. There's just no way to win those types; the simple truth is, some people just shouldn't be breeding. Today's bully, becomes tomorrow's corporate suit who pays mercenaries to slaughter people in Somalia, or, one of Natalie Portman's bodyguards.
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OverflowC 2 years ago
I was bullied/outcast when I was in elementary school because I was kind of a tomboy and smart, also because my family wasn't the same "class" as the rest of the kids. Some kids are cruel, I never understood why they can be that hateful...It made me doubt myself and gave me low self-esteem for so long afterward.
SwtMsT 2 years ago
Most of them will grow up to be nothing, trust me. Usually these people who can endure being bullied (in anyway) will lead very successful and happy lives, trust me.
I think the main part of why they bully us is that they just think its funny to make fun of another. And perhaps it makes them 'cooler' amongst their hate gorup. Well just wait until they get into society where there is no one to bully.
Bioloser 2 years ago 5
indeed well said.
no1killmy 2 years ago 3
word to that, i think the most important thing for some1 who is being bullied is to realize tht those who are doin the bulllying are a waste of life,and that you are better than them, it is hard to be lonely, but go on with ur life, set some goals, dont be needy, eventually you will have a much better life than that of the bullies who will probably grow up to be career fuck ups alchoholics etc, the world is a tough place, jus be strong and happy no matter what, and evrything will fall into place
Cannabinoidl 2 years ago 2
They end up in jail or in army.
zqewkl 2 years ago
I haVe never bullied one person in my life. Why? Because I've seen first hand when a people have been bullied and what they have done to get back at the bully. One kid was harassed for being overweight so he sabotaged the bullies pushbike. When he fell off going downhill he broke both his wrists, nose and collarbone and was out of commission for 8 weeks. Now that same kid who got bullied is in prison for assault on other people.
lastplacewin 2 years ago 3
i blame the parents for most kids who become bullies. they are to damn lazy to punish them.. i remembered being bullied when i was growing up and got into a few fights at school.
cpcoasternut 2 years ago
I disagree, in some cases you are right, though in others it is nothing about the parents but the child themselves. It is the general way of life in school.. someone bullies someone and others laugh, which provokes more people to bully others. To stop it you must become reputable at standing your ground, speaking from first hand experience.
OverflowC 2 years ago
yes that to
cpcoasternut 2 years ago
Wow, lots of sad and crazies on the internet. One can give opinions without being cruel. Even in jest all should consider the stupidity of the actions. There is a video game devoted to become the best bully in the school. Well groups and/or individuals make the final choices. What to do?
Chamelionroses 2 years ago
got bullied until i started thai boxing when I was 11, i'm 17 now and never had the problem since
14mm2 2 years ago
great man :]
icascadai 2 years ago
nice!
DKMAN86 2 years ago
Oh no! We need the cyber security bill, and we need internet 2.0 run by the government so that they can keep track of every move every person makes on the internet so there will be no more cyber-bullying!
james3v6 2 years ago
just a lot of fear mongering...
avengemm9dog 2 years ago
:O not bullying over the internet!!! oh noes what ever will we do!?!?!?!
llamalord111 2 years ago
getting bullied to an extent is good....can make you stronger. Seems like nowadays everyone wants an anesthetic for everything
ilovesatan66 2 years ago
nope. Just makes you feel weaker. and feeling week makes you week. we need more training montages for picked on kids
DrRevolutions 2 years ago
Yes it can make you feel lousy at first, but over time you can learn how to deal with such situations succesfully. I would rather be bullied than not, because as a result of being bullied I have a chance to learn something. Living in a perfect bubble is not a good thing because the world is not perfect and you got to know how to survive. Of course school officials should make sure that students are relatively safe so that those ridiculous extreme cases never happen again!
ilovesatan66 2 years ago
I still like a the rocky idea
but nobody learns from bullying any more, times have changed and kids dont handle things the same, and could end up passing the violence on. Im fine with cyber-bullying, name calling, but doing anything that the victim cant ignore like beating him for no reason is just unnecessary... speaking of which, why the hell do people beat other people? why do these pricks go around harassing the little guy? Yea because picking on smaller people is VERY masculine...
DrRevolutions 2 years ago
I personally find internet bullying fairly funny.
supr4 2 years ago
supr4 (fuck you creep.
zzxzqwq 2 years ago
SOMEBODYS A BULLY
supr4 2 years ago
@ supr4 someone's abusive of his rights in youtube and is a lying idiot. No room to speak.
Joeblob2 2 years ago
Thats just a taser............
DaniboyBR2 2 years ago
its not anything that can be changed is a parenting issue more then anything i was bullied for being an outsider was picked on cos of my accent plus came from a working class background so my parents coudnt afford nike etc so was bulied for that irish tinker heh the schools cant do anything cant force people to like you so i had no choice but to get myself expelled by blowing it up heh
mrZingzz 2 years ago
i think if parents focused more on instaling acceptance in children then it would prevent these issues but of course in a world of pedos and criminals there taught to fight and rebel against diffrence so as a parent its a case of ,teach your child not to accept and fight or get in the car with strangers heh
mrZingzz 2 years ago
why?
lobotomizedman 2 years ago
How can we blame the children when they see on their TVs bullying nations with nuclear bombs bullying other nations without nuclear weapons.
yourcamden 2 years ago
No. I grew up during the cold war.... much worse standoffs than we have now, and it didn't cause me to pick on other people. People know right from wrong, I think that the consequences aren't a factor with them because the judicial system sucks in the U.S. and there's no fear of punishment.
finch6789 2 years ago
Counties with nuclear weapons are the bullies, you can't have the same toy as me, Israel being the main culprit. Although its ally the US is not far behind. Countries with nuclear weapons should not complain when other countries acquire similar weapons, so far it is only African countries who have given up nuclear weapons.
yourcamden 2 years ago
Elijah is such a cute little boy! Poor kid.
humanshaped 2 years ago 4
ya he is...cute kid
ilovesatan66 2 years ago
The best solutions is to introduce the concept and reason of "bullying" to the children before they even experience it.
Teach the negative effects and ways to work around it, including informing the parents or seek help. Most kids don't know how to react when faced with such problems. They are shocked from the incident. Its important they are mentally prepared beforehand.
Well informed, they might even stepping in to protect others from becoming victims.
iammrlee 2 years ago
What if the child is simply following correct reasoning? I am bigger and I want something, so I take it. Bullying works great for the bully, why should he stop. So what if it brings negative effects to others? Doesn't nature teach us that the strongest survive? Shouldn't kids just do what is natural?
littlemas2 2 years ago
Because since we have built civilizations, we are supposed to be more than just animals.
If we do not consider us more than animals, then, your whole family can be sold in a shop.
zqewkl 2 years ago
I am bigger, I want something, I take it, no one wants to play with me now, oops.
We're social animals. We evolved from ape-like creatures, not crocodile-like creatures. We're k-strategists not r-strategists.
Do the math, do the research, do the homework. Bullying is defective and counter-productive, especially for the bully and the bystanders.
Bullied kids may go on to have success stories. How many people do you know who will say 'I was a bully, and now I'm a winner?'
I don't know one.
cinnamonbrandylite 2 years ago
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No, this is not an "age old problem requiring new solutions." This is an age old problem requiring old solutions. Bullying is simply treating someone poorly for your own selfish reasons. Teach Judeo/ Christian values from early childhood, and then enforce them in your institutions. If you constantly teach kids that they are just highly evolved animals, what behavior do you get? Animal morality with cell phones. New science will not fix a wrong headed philosophy.
littlemas2 2 years ago
shut up with your religious bullshit.
whotookcaius 2 years ago 7
Thanks for proving my point about upbringing.
littlemas2 2 years ago
Yes that's the solution, INSTILL EPIC FEAR AND LIES INTO YOUR CHILDREN.
fucking idiot.
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Bullying isn't new; only certain media through which it can be perpetrated are new.
Bullying over the internet need only occur for as long as the victim fails to block their abuser's access to them. It's not face-to-face, it's not in the instant moment; as the victim, you have more power to end it than you would in a traditional playground setting. You don't NEED to respond to that IM, you don't NEED to post all your information publicly on Myspace, so why on earth do it?
EffingAndJeffing 2 years ago
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EffingAndJeffing 2 years ago
its the same shit all over the world
damn shame
irvrod 2 years ago
Get rid of Public education, and this will be over!
Lamnont 2 years ago
federally run Public Education FOR THE LOSS
micahgee 2 years ago
bullying occurs because it is part of life, it shows how primative we can act, bullying isnt exactly one illness that needs curing, people think its a matter of stop it!
can bullying be cured, most likely not. its something that occurs when one human is intimidated by another. Sure you can stop a bully but bullying exists in all forms.
the answer is more staff in both classrooms and playground, we have few staff on patroll but with so many pupils, they dont see whats happening infront of them
JDreamProductions 2 years ago
i really feel bad for that kid
bobyloopo 2 years ago
This is a much discussed issue for which there is not a solution yet. One can wonder if there will ever be.
Schools are closer to miniature prisons than to anything else.
efex2007 2 years ago 2
if you don't want to get beat up work out
get strong and no one will mess with you, everyones muscles get bigger and stronger when you work out
Survival of the fittest ladies, don't want to get bullied then get strong
tHeWasTeDYouTh 2 years ago
Balls or Hair.
Kick them in the Balls swiftly or give a great tugg on that pony tail and I bet that b**** won't mess with you no more.
FATGIRLSRHOT 2 years ago
tHeWasTeDYouTh- Rubbish. Bullying is not a black and white issue. Your survival of the fittest BS is an old cliche that is beyond crap.
CULAVE 2 years ago
or carry a blade! or gun!!!
rob60201 2 years ago
oh yea lets filled the schools with guns...that's not goning to cause any problems at all *rolls eyes*
micahgee 2 years ago
I has teh gun.
Lamnont 2 years ago
lol no mate. You have no idea about evolution do you?
If it WAS survival of the "fittest" or most muscular , 7 feet tall Neanderthals would be roaming the Earth instead of the puny, smaller brained H. sapiens...
Big biceps won't save you from a bullet or well handled knife.
micahgee 2 years ago
I banged your mom last friday chill k bitch
tHeWasTeDYouTh 2 years ago
Theres a lot of bullying psychologically by mainstream kids whose parents neglect to inform/discuss anything other than greed and capitalism & american idol with them. They will pick on poorer kids, kids with glasses, learning difficulties etc. If you arent the same as the bullies they will oust you from their narrow cleek. It's conforming to the social 'norms' and about fitting into mainstream society. They do not like anyone different to them and dont have the intelligence to leave them alone.
smmeegal 2 years ago 2
Bullying, has unfortunately been around since the dawn of time. Almost everyone that I know has been a victim of it or a victimizer. It is a very serious subject that unfortunately the school administrators and the parents seem to ignore until it erupts. Most of the school shooting rampages in the United States can be traced back to some form of bullying. If there was some intervention provided then maybe they could have saved some lives but it seems to be too much trouble for the adults.
HsiWangHu 2 years ago 3
Americans will victimize bullies rather than victims. Read Leonard Sax's Why Gender Matters. He openly embraced "violent nature" of boys and describes shy boys as useless and social outcast.
In his book, he said bullies exist because they have low self-esteem. In order to solve this problem, co-eduction is necessary for "boys to be boys" On the other hand he supports to send those "pussies" to churches and religious institutes.
inferno0020 2 years ago 2