You are very sympathetic to me. But; I as a man find your tips to be like rules of those "pick-uppers". I wonder why people try to find ways of staying together with people who are not able to enjoy. It tells something about us, doesn´t it? Craving for secrets, because bored of our own small talk? Does it have to be about missing calls to make up a mystery? I think best approach is honest: don´t be available if you are not, but don´t be unavailable for its own sake. See the magic others don´t.
Great advice, D :) I wouldn't say that "no man wants a play-by-play" of what you did since he talked to you or saw you last ... but I will say that the man that DOES is a control freak and you don't want to be with him anyway! haha Just thought I would throw that in there...
@WatchDeanna yes, that's an excellent point. I guess there are a few who would want that, but yes, control freak. lol thank you for watching and adding wonderful commentary :)
oh, never thought about it for a man, but I guess that's true. men shouldn't tell all their busines on the first few dates, leave some mystery. lol thanks
I love it !!!!!!!These are the thing my daddy and granny told me growning up and they still hold true today.They stole our info and wrote a book about it called The Rules.Same info thanks !
refresh my memory, which part are you referring to? at the very end, those were my own words, straight from the heart. lol but I can't remember referring to a poem, I'll take a listen again and see if I did or not. :)
Thanks for this vid!!! I used to be all of those unbecoming things that you mentioned initially... those days are long gone... and I'm working on becoming that mystery lady....LOL! Thanks again... I luv ur vids!
Good advice :) I have seen a lot of my girl friends get way too needy and clingy to guys, even to the point of showing up to their workplace and constantly calling them. It's embarrassing! If a guy wants a girl he will make it known that he wants her.
you got me ROFL'ing. well I'm sure Mari may explain it to you one day, but she'll still be a mystery and that's a very good thing. lol thanks for adding the male's perspective in such a good humored way
wow i had to comment again! this vid was really on point! alot of the things you said relate to me. ppl often say i dont know nothing bout you and you put in perspective for me that i am a mystery and now i know thats a good thing. there are sometimes that i think i should be more open or talkative because im a quiet person well i like to say that im an observant person. thanks dee!
Wow Dee!!! You hit the nail on the head my friend. And I LOVE the glasses. They look SO cute on you. Thank you once again for your wonderful, inspirational words of wisdom. You ROCK!!!
wonderful song, blessed I love Billy Ocean... I think some woman come across as too desperate and that scares off a lot of men.. I wish I had know these great tips when I was younger. Peace ~~Cindy
yes, we live and we learn, but it's never too late. I certainly learned through trial and error and time, but alot of things have just been innate also, because I never could take some of the things some women take from men...I'm not quite sure how they do it; but God bless them. :)
Please do some more videos like this one. I used to think that when i.m in a relationship i don.t have to care about anything else but my man,,,,,,,,,,,,,
I.m working on beeing quiet and let him discover bit by bit....
keep on working on that being quiet. lol that doesn't mean you don't practice the art of good communications, it just means don't bare your soul and tell him every thing from A thru Z in the first couple of days, let him spend a lifetime (or however long you want him :) trying to figure you out and unravel your mystery.
Great video for those who are single. I think it important that ladies understand that a relationship is a part of each person and not just one giving up who they are in order to be with the other. Always keep them guessing! HUGS xoxox
Preach it sister! I always say "let me check my calendar" cuz if me and my girls were gonna hang out I'm not dumping my girls for a guy. my girls have been around for 5 relationships, they come first. also if I just want to be by myself, I aint interested in getting up and getting dressed just to go eat...when I already ate in regards to 8:24 I say "i can look at the menu" i just wont order anything. that raises an eyebrow but it lets them know i am loyal.
yep...most of my marriage, 3 'crazy time' relationships...very short lived, and my last engagements. they were so happy when i threw that ring at his face and told him to go away, but they didnt tell me that part until after i ended it. the gist was 'you can do bad by yourself' but we here for ya either way.
You are very sympathetic to me. But; I as a man find your tips to be like rules of those "pick-uppers". I wonder why people try to find ways of staying together with people who are not able to enjoy. It tells something about us, doesn´t it? Craving for secrets, because bored of our own small talk? Does it have to be about missing calls to make up a mystery? I think best approach is honest: don´t be available if you are not, but don´t be unavailable for its own sake. See the magic others don´t.
davorfilms 11 months ago
@davorfilms you make some good points and I can always appreciate various opinions. thank you for watching and commenting.
sosoblessed1 11 months ago
u know u tie up your videos really good...with an actual ending :D nice video
poetichild 1 year ago
@poetichild thank you, I really appreciate that kind complment )
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Great advice, D :) I wouldn't say that "no man wants a play-by-play" of what you did since he talked to you or saw you last ... but I will say that the man that DOES is a control freak and you don't want to be with him anyway! haha Just thought I would throw that in there...
WatchDeanna 1 year ago
@WatchDeanna yes, that's an excellent point. I guess there are a few who would want that, but yes, control freak. lol thank you for watching and adding wonderful commentary :)
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Great advice for men too!
bssnboo 2 years ago
oh, never thought about it for a man, but I guess that's true. men shouldn't tell all their busines on the first few dates, leave some mystery. lol thanks
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Well said| AMEN!
BlackLadyDiana 3 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
excellent advice, excellent!!!!!
zelda75231 3 years ago
thanks
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Please do a part II and tell these ladies to keep their panties up until you know these men.lol.Great video
HIMAY10NENCE 3 years ago
oh yeah, that's coming in part II vid entitled "Raising the Bar" hope you'll look for that one too. thanks for watching.
be blessed
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Cant wait!
HIMAY10NENCE 3 years ago
Can't wait to see it!
queenfee 3 years ago
I love it !!!!!!!These are the thing my daddy and granny told me growning up and they still hold true today.They stole our info and wrote a book about it called The Rules.Same info thanks !
HIMAY10NENCE 3 years ago
lol, that's why we should write the books when we've got the info, or someone else will. I'm working on my book! lol
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
That's true, I can't stand a woman up under my ass.
kevinferere 3 years ago
LMAO
queenfee 3 years ago
I wouldn't have quite put it like that, lol but I hear you. :) thanks for watching
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Your welcome, and tell Deb I really appreciated her gettin back at me. And thanks to Hipz for relaying the message to Deb, I assume.
kevinferere 3 years ago
ok I'll let them know
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
The play-by-play thing couldn't have been said any better. The other bits are interesting as well. The surprise element worked with my valentine!
BigboyHollywood 3 years ago
yes, we love sweet surprises, especially when you paid attention to what we like and appreciate.
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
This is awesome. Where does the last poem that you stated come from. Or how can I read more about that?
1joneswoman 3 years ago
refresh my memory, which part are you referring to? at the very end, those were my own words, straight from the heart. lol but I can't remember referring to a poem, I'll take a listen again and see if I did or not. :)
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
OK- MS DEE--From a guy here- LOL
A lady can RULE THE WORLD If she will just listen to you ,and heed these words of wisdom !
BLESSINGS TO THE LADY'S-
Greg
gregzintx 3 years ago
I love it, from a man's perspective.
say it again Greg, "RULE THE WORLD"
LOL
thanks
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Thanks for this vid!!! I used to be all of those unbecoming things that you mentioned initially... those days are long gone... and I'm working on becoming that mystery lady....LOL! Thanks again... I luv ur vids!
Denae81 3 years ago
alright Mystery Lady, work it! lol
thanks for the luv and for watching.
be blessed
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Say it one more time!
Seedcovers 3 years ago
lol
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Good advice :) I have seen a lot of my girl friends get way too needy and clingy to guys, even to the point of showing up to their workplace and constantly calling them. It's embarrassing! If a guy wants a girl he will make it known that he wants her.
laurendelore 3 years ago
it is embarrassing and sad. and men don't respect women who act needy
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
you said a mouthful. I don't like game playing either, but human nature is a real thing and knowing how to respond to that nature is empowering!
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
I watched this video 23 times to increase my vast knowledge of women. Thank you for doing this one ssb!
I must say that I have nothing haha
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This is why we men love women so much because it's such a mystery and so so intriguing to us to see what might come next.
5 stars even though I didn't understand a word of it LOL
GordyMari 3 years ago
you got me ROFL'ing. well I'm sure Mari may explain it to you one day, but she'll still be a mystery and that's a very good thing. lol thanks for adding the male's perspective in such a good humored way
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
wow i had to comment again! this vid was really on point! alot of the things you said relate to me. ppl often say i dont know nothing bout you and you put in perspective for me that i am a mystery and now i know thats a good thing. there are sometimes that i think i should be more open or talkative because im a quiet person well i like to say that im an observant person. thanks dee!
gemynih08 3 years ago
you're welcome, glad I could put it into perspective for you. just be sure to keep a balance between mystery and being a good conversationalist also.
thanks for the comment!
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
very well said!
gemynih08 3 years ago
Thanks for the video!
This could also be said for people with grown children!
htrfdes 3 years ago
surely! thanks
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Wow Dee!!! You hit the nail on the head my friend. And I LOVE the glasses. They look SO cute on you. Thank you once again for your wonderful, inspirational words of wisdom. You ROCK!!!
Fierybutterflywings 3 years ago
well thank you very much on all points.
I appreciate you watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Every woman needs to watch this video. You made some excellent points! You should write a book :)
basketballbabe03 3 years ago
writing a book of this sort is my absolute dream. now if I can just stop procrastinating and follow my bliss! :)
thanks
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
wonderful song, blessed I love Billy Ocean... I think some woman come across as too desperate and that scares off a lot of men.. I wish I had know these great tips when I was younger. Peace ~~Cindy
mschessy 3 years ago
yes, we live and we learn, but it's never too late. I certainly learned through trial and error and time, but alot of things have just been innate also, because I never could take some of the things some women take from men...I'm not quite sure how they do it; but God bless them. :)
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Great video
Hope you will upload some more around the same subject
Stay blessed
blessingsgirl 3 years ago
I sure will. look for vid coming soon entitled "raising the bar"
thanks for watching.
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
WONDERFUL
livinmybestlife 3 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Everything President Obama says is wonderful! I love our new first lady. With out her Obama would not be complete. Great advise!
novmoon 3 years ago
what I love is that he said that in 1996, so it wasn't said for the campaign trail. lol
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
You give such great pieces of advice!
Please do some more videos like this one. I used to think that when i.m in a relationship i don.t have to care about anything else but my man,,,,,,,,,,,,,
I.m working on beeing quiet and let him discover bit by bit....
Stay blessed
blessingsgirl 3 years ago
keep on working on that being quiet. lol that doesn't mean you don't practice the art of good communications, it just means don't bare your soul and tell him every thing from A thru Z in the first couple of days, let him spend a lifetime (or however long you want him :) trying to figure you out and unravel your mystery.
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Great vid...great vid...I even RATED!! :-)
myroundhipz 3 years ago
wow, thank you!
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Great video for those who are single. I think it important that ladies understand that a relationship is a part of each person and not just one giving up who they are in order to be with the other. Always keep them guessing! HUGS xoxox
WackaDoodleFreeZone 3 years ago
yes, that's a good one "always keep them guessing" I like that and it's so true, even for us married ladies. thanks
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Great video! This video is like a part 2 to your "Life Does Not Suck without a Man" video.
SensuallyStrong 3 years ago
yeah, I guess it could be part 2.lol
well in that case, look for part 3
"raising the bar"
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
Preach it sister! I always say "let me check my calendar" cuz if me and my girls were gonna hang out I'm not dumping my girls for a guy. my girls have been around for 5 relationships, they come first. also if I just want to be by myself, I aint interested in getting up and getting dressed just to go eat...when I already ate in regards to 8:24 I say "i can look at the menu" i just wont order anything. that raises an eyebrow but it lets them know i am loyal.
peepla7 3 years ago
exactly ref "reading the menu" lol but I'm already full when I leave home. lol
wow, your girls have been around for 5 relationships...those are some girls. lol
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
yep...most of my marriage, 3 'crazy time' relationships...very short lived, and my last engagements. they were so happy when i threw that ring at his face and told him to go away, but they didnt tell me that part until after i ended it. the gist was 'you can do bad by yourself' but we here for ya either way.
peepla7 3 years ago
those are some true friends, not the I-told-you-so kinda friends
sosoblessed1 3 years ago
I love watching your shows, i see you as a mother figure .. i love to be able to watch and hear your advice or just things in general .. its nice.
Jesikka06 3 years ago
aww, thank you. I'm glad you enjoy my "show" oh Lord, I got a show. lol
thank you for tuning in. I hope you continue to enjoy. be blessed
sosoblessed1 3 years ago