Great Job. I understand that repressed haters will cringe at the thought of your openness about sexuality. We think it is great. You have the right to sexuality and the right to express it, most people don’t step out on the edge and speak their minds. Way to go!
I think it's wonderful that you make videos like that. I really believe that many people find it really helpful. Awesome that you talk about sex so freely.
why do people talk about sex? hmmm...its a stimulating conversation starter. its an interesting topic bordering on the taboo, that it can actually induce responses from people whether they are in on the conversation, or just plain people listening in on the conversation.
it does not matter if youre educated or just a street bum, its something that anyone, who have had experience through first hand or experience, can talk about.
Do what?? I'm subbed to several channels and make sure to watch their new videos and comment the people who have expressed that they enjoy comments.... so I don't know what you're talking about unless that was directed toward someone else.
I really love how you handle sexual topics in such a mature manner. Kudos to you for sharing your knowledge and keeping an open mind to learn from us! I hope there are many out there who benefit from your willingness to share your passion of human sexuality and how it connects to our psyche.
i dont... because i don't have a girlfriend. girls find me creepy or whatever and so without a girlfriend i dont think i can get sex in my life. without paying a hooker... but i dont want to pay for sex.
Okay, here's a question for you. Why are your videos titled "Advanced Sex Ed" when everything you say is common knowledge? At least what I have seen so far. I saw a video on penis size which I am about to look at. I'm guessing that video tells the girls not to comment negatively on it and the guys that it's okay to have a small penis... duh, if so.
Both "Mental block" and "Writers block" are very common phrases. Writers block is obviously more specific than mental block. A mental block could be when you forget something and it's "on the tip of your tongue" or when you can't remember how to do an equation that you just studied.
I'll be honest...I haven't seen your videos full out but they seem ok. Since you're really into being open, my question is why does it take you so long to answer questions or get to the point of your video? I mean it's ur video so u do what you want. U've been doing it. I'm just askin.
Same reason people end up talking on the phone with a friend for hours when they only meant to call about one thing. When the camera turns on, I'm talking straight to all my friends and viewers.
If you are asking why it takes so long to answer questions sent to my inbox, it's because I get more a day than I can read typically, much less respond to.
well thats bull shit caz not every straight lad as mi self i dont look at the tits there just for a tit wank and a pillow lol or fun bags i dont go or areet and look at the lasses tits tit size dont matter its the personality and looks :P
sex...its just a normal intercourse inside in a relationship or should i say in a couple ryt??so y r so many people hates talking about sex u know..its just that people are being not open-minded when it comes to sex u know...reply...^_^
There is that explaination, and then there is this one: From an evolutionary standpoint larger breasts usually meant more fat storage and therefore better ability produce and care for offspring. It usually comes down to survival and reproduction which is the main purpose of sex.
Another theory states that as evolution went towards people walking upright and thereby also sexual intercourse moved towards face to face sex(as opposed to the previous prefered doggystyle). Where the butt was previously the main attractor big tits now became the fittest survivor as they emulated the same attraction. This theory is supported by the fact that monkeys still have well defined asses but small leather flaps in front :)
wow, so im geussing u were in college when u were 16? or were u somehow ahead? because i would really like get a degree like that and start at such an early age! how is that possible?
I wish we had more people as intelligent and interested in their field at my college. I just feel the need to commend your passion. No one here speaks about their studies outside of classes. Instead they drink their brain cells away so it's refreshing to come across this. I wish you the best in your studies. Also congratulations on being engaged!
Just like to thank you for removing this strange half-education we all got as kids.
Personally, (while I am not a virgin) sex has been a no-go zone for me for a very long time (by my own choice) because I have never been able to trust anyone in a sexual way (I was given reasons not to by a girl at a young age). Your posts are assisting in moving me back into the culture, a goal of mine.
I think that you've done a wonderful deed, congratulations, and thankyou. Oman
I think I answered that in this video. It's the same reason an physicist would make videos about their field. It's an interest academically. Always has been for me. And other people seem to enjoy the info I gather and the way it's presented, so it works out great. I love to talk about my interests and now I have people who will listen. lol!
O,0 I've a hobby in breaking down peoples personalities, and although I can read stuff 95% of the time, its not perfect, you get the odd balls now and then. It's a nice change ^_^ lol the reason I bring that up is because of what you said about breaking people down into different puzzles.Everyone has different tastes especially towards their biggest fear, sex, & it is a fear. That other people wont like their kinks or how they like it, & sometimes its a guilty fear.
I think it's great that you always talk about sex! I love psychology and sexuality. I just think these things are such an important part of what makes us human.... it annoys me when people act like that's not the case!
I'm interested in why you talk about sex but start from the point at which you didn't report your rapist to the police. Men externalize problems (blame others), women internalize (blame themselves). He'll always think that he was justified. I'm concerned that you might have thought yourself partly to blame, or that others might believe that. I'm concerned that you might make being a rape victim part of your identity because the experience gives you powerful empathy with other victims. C
If you took the time to even read the description on that video you'd see that I DID press charges, it passed a grand jury, he was arrested, and is awaiting trial. So get your facts straight before you preach about what people SHOULD do when victimized, especially if you've never been there yourself.
yo kicesie r u going to stop when when u finish school anyway this perv freaks out whenever i even mention sex =[ so please make a video about maturity and sex thanks and if not keep on vlogging
The subtext of your sex ed videos reads: "One can do these things out of love, as a good person - without inviting rape." Yes, absolutely. Your confidence in your own identity in doing this is extremely impressive. The 'best sex with stripey sox' video shows deep, wonderful femininity. Fantastic. I hope that the guy you marry can integrate your potential for enriching his life. I don't mean the sexy stuff. I smiled at rokhamdagamer81's oblique comment that your cat's beautiful. He's right. C
You are a great girl. Since you have a problem writing lengthy essay's, why not record a really long video of what your essay is about then playing back your video, you will be able to write what you say. This way, you will get more and more ideas! Good luck!
Question: What are you supposed to do when you're giving a guy oral sex? Like, when you have it in your mouth and whatever, what are you supposed to do with your tongue and all that?
Kicesie, hello from Brazil. My name is Marcelo Alencar. I am a Brazilian 32 year old guy. Have you ever been to Brazil? For sure it´s the hottest place in the world ( all the ways ). Sexuality here talks by itself. Seen your video about oral sex. We love oral sex here in Brazil. I prefer giving oral sex than receiving it. It´s so good. Congratulations for your videos. I am pretty sure you have been helping lots of people around the world with them. Success bothers people. Keep it always up !
Hi Kicesie I would go the video that you're on now because it's interesting. I'm 27 years old and for me i rather wait for marriage for anything like that. Have you ever thought of becoming a columnist for sex ed. Sorry if my common's kinda rude i get nervous for the things i'm saying. But succeed in your dreams ok. PS What kind of cat is it it's so beautiful.
Kicesie i saw the video on rape as well, I felt messed up from watching it the bastard who did this to you i hope he get what's coming to him but to let you know I'm glad that you're ok and be careful and safe.
Kicesie, Listen: I saw your rape video and worried about you. I'm 68 with three daughters, one wife, happy marriage. Forty years ago I did some prison (fraud). There were guys who not only raped but killed as well. I know them. They don't feel the way you do and never will. I'm concered that in working with sex you're investing a potentially beautiful life in trying to understand that. You can't. They're simply damaged. Get into banking, art, anything else. Take an aptitude test. Best wishes, C
Banking, art.... it won't help all those victims who cry out for help. Maybe I can't stop rape, I believe I am be a part of stopping it, but I can and will help it's victims... and I can and will help people develop healthy, honest and intimate sexuality.
I don't need an aptitude test to know that by my very nature I am a healer and a teacher.... and an eternal optimist.
I don't know why they shut down the comment stream about parental control. I am a parent, and my kids are supervised. YES they can find you and listen to you, BUT My ex and I will know. Besides.. Our relationship with our children is such that they ask us.. (or at least they have to date.)
You do what you do. Thanks from an old guy and his lady who enjoy what you talk about.
I would like to see a video about turning on a woman. I know if she is more receptive to sex it makes for a more intense and enjoyable experience for both of us.
two muscles in your crotch between your legs. Flex those muscles. 5 mins @ a time 3 times a day. not much more than this or you'll have problems bringing yourself to orgasim. Don't tease your masterbation the results are limited and slow on the other hand don't masterbate to get off in a minutes time. Also lots and lots of sex helps. If you can help it bring yourself to orgasm before involving yourself with your mate.
Oh man that's weird. My cat looks almost EXACTLY like yours. And that's weird for a Tortoise Shell cat...they are usually so different.(Is your evil? Mine is!)
Good work on your videos...most people are too afraid to talk about sex, so accessible information is GOOD.
I don't think that's a common reason, no... Perhaps they cannot communicate their needs, or they end up having an affair, but I don't think they get 'tired' of having sex with each other and thus, divorce. Anyhow, money is the number one cause of divorce (or disputes over money)... least that's what the stats say...
i understand you completely; i look up everything that i can on serial killers and murders of any kind, all types of crimes, and just like you said, that doesn't mean that im a criminal in any way. im really glad to hear you say your thoughts on the subject. thankyous!
Hi Kicesie. I have a question that doesn't really pertain to this video in particular, but I was interested in what you thought about this. Me and my GF are interested in having a "double-date" with another couple, where we would basically swap partners, have group sex, 2 on 1, 2 on 2, pretty much anything goes. Our sex life is really good as is, but we've been wanting to experiment. What's your stance on this? Will we regret it? Who should the other couple be?If you can reply,I'd apretiate it!
I'm probably not the best person to ask on this. I have a bias. But I do know that MOST (certainly not all) sex therapists I've talked to say that bringing anyone else into your sexual relationship is typically not a good idea. See my video on open marriages, the comments and video responses it got...
ur great to listen too, i guess u can take that as a compliment from a stranger ;). I actually just took an adderol to study and ive been waiting 4 it to wear off so i can fall asleep and then i came across ur blogs... good stuff, very interesting, i actually like weird sex and the this 1 is pretty good too. ps. do u have a facebook?
I see your point. Good job girl. Keep it up. People out there need to understand sex and see it in a non-perverted light as something beautiful and ethereal. show them that.
Hey,I´m not jacking off. I love feets,but that means I do not sit in my chair at the desk and jack off. I´m no pervert,you see. Girl feets are nice,how can you say that feets disgust? Give me one reason. Happy easter,btw.
hmm..maybe...ive seen another vid of yours...nice sox xD...maybe its weird, but..it isnt stubid..just kind of...beeing a bit different.
öhm.. how old are you?^^...you talk so much about sex and you look a bit young i think..im 18 and i havent so much experience and when i made some...they werent soooo great =/
No offense but for somome who is estenialy just finding Themselves and thier place in the world. Giving actual people with real problems Advice.
Its highly suspect that you a self-announced sex educator, threapist, or whatever grandiose title your going for. Im not even sure what the purpose of most of your vids are besides a bombardment of "top sex questions" and things of the like.
Hi girl; There is a good possibility that you might leave a bigger(better*)footprint with a web series than could be done with the products of your degree. The door is open now. New rules to write. I believe YOU are a valuble commodity that has much potential to help/entertain the masses.*e-mail me if I could elaborate. I see something here bigger than us. (not"us"; but you or I) Anyway, be careful with your energy out here. Yer' way cool in my book and . . .you're so hot.
I talk about that a bit in my videos on virginity, mainly part 1... well I guess part 2 as well. But my rule of thumb is, don't have sex if you couldn't (or aren't a point in your life yet that you could) give a baby the life the deserves because there is no 100% effective birth control.
The other standards I cover in those virginity videos.
I always flirt with my girlfriend and clearly imply that I want to talk about being sexually intimant, but she always laughs or turns it into a joke. We have been dating for a month and a half. Any advice?
i really enjoy your videos.your certainly a charecter.Did you take acting school??sex is a good topic everyone does it even priests unfortunatly.why dont you cover the subject of that?why do people prey on children?
Ready for what? Information alone doesn't make anyone ready for sex if that's what you're talking about.... I don't want anyone to feel that due to the info I put out there, they are now ready. Readiness comes from relationship experience, ability to communicate, an understanding of real love, realistic expectation, etc etc etc...
good job gal. But, I think we need a healthy (emotionaly) guy to express a similar style on the same topics to offset you're effect. I must admit I think about sex ALOT more while viewing your vids. You're so hot.
hey kicesie. my name is sarah and this is like my first time seeing your videos and there was one that grabbed my attention( not this one but another but it wouldnt let me post a comment so im posting it on another lol) but idk if youd feel very comfortable me bringing it up cuz you seem so happy with these other videos
No offense but on each video you take a while to say something theres nothing wrong with that. Problably cause your thinking of it and it's not planed i don't know lol.
Some videos where I'm just talking to my viewers are certainly more slow paced and the same way I'd hold a conversation... Others where I have a specific message to get across like my virginity videos, my LGBQT videos, and my latest one... aren't quite like that... different styles for different subjects/conversations.
as a 19 year old guy, iv learnt alot from u..regardless if u made mentioned that u dont give advice on relationships..ur sex advice have saved mine..i have tried so many new things that u advised on..and wow im so thankful..please keep doing what you do..and jus as everyone have said to u..u would make a fanatastic sex therapist..my girl now thinks im a new person lol..thanks
I like your videos, I think you implement the European mentality alot. In other words you talk freely about sex, not as a Taboo, I'm happy for you and wish you well.
Oh My God!!! I just finished writing a huge paper about Memories Vs. Survival... and a big part of it focused on the validity of recalling repressed memories
I think your sexual advice is very honest and candid. As a women, I´ve watched some of your videos and agreed with you comments. I like how casually you speak about sex. You will be a great sexual counselor or therapist. Good luck in the future.
Look,humens are 1of2 ANIMALS who INJOY sex for pleaser.This dates back millions of years.With that said,yes sex is part of our "siki".Oh yeah by the way
I've taken human sexuality, thats a great course :) As for sex itself, I see it pretty straight forward, more of a Darwinistic view, I view myself as a a entity in this huge system, and to continue my generation, I have sex. Of course, there is more to that then just to reproduce, its all of the emotion and physical aspects that go into it... BTW Glad you continued for your psychology degree, my sis thought she could get a job after only 4 years in majoring in psy
kicesie! you have helped me out with a lot of my questions and problems about sex and stuff. thank you for all your helps. you are going to become a great sex therapist!
I dont understand what u talking about cause i know english just a little bit! but its very cude!
TheKolosoff 1 year ago
nice cat)
TheKolosoff 1 year ago
Great Job. I understand that repressed haters will cringe at the thought of your openness about sexuality. We think it is great. You have the right to sexuality and the right to express it, most people don’t step out on the edge and speak their minds. Way to go!
sexualfuturist 1 year ago
If you look at how many people watch her videos, sex is clearly a popular topic.
Th3King86 1 year ago
Keep it up, respect ! :D (goes with the last comment XD)
WereKarli 1 year ago
Thank you! That means a lot to me. :-)
kicesie 1 year ago
I think it's wonderful that you make videos like that. I really believe that many people find it really helpful. Awesome that you talk about sex so freely.
WereKarli 1 year ago
you ever read Bioenergetics by Alexander Lowen?
knoxlobster 1 year ago
nope. That's one I haven't read.
kicesie 1 year ago
Love your Videos.... You Just Have Personality Plus ++++ :-)
GetPaidToWatchPorn 2 years ago
why do people talk about sex? hmmm...its a stimulating conversation starter. its an interesting topic bordering on the taboo, that it can actually induce responses from people whether they are in on the conversation, or just plain people listening in on the conversation.
it does not matter if youre educated or just a street bum, its something that anyone, who have had experience through first hand or experience, can talk about.
spectredghost 2 years ago
Do what?? I'm subbed to several channels and make sure to watch their new videos and comment the people who have expressed that they enjoy comments.... so I don't know what you're talking about unless that was directed toward someone else.
kicesie 3 years ago
Love how you deliver your message. I can tell you'll have a great career ahead. Keep it up!
sedrickoligo 3 years ago
love your cat.. love your attudtide.. gj
Neglect08 3 years ago
well done on the weezer video
TimoStar12 3 years ago
Thanks! It was a lot of fun! :-)
kicesie 3 years ago
i love ur smile. i want to be a psychologist too
captainjacksparrow98 3 years ago
i really like ur talking about sexual topic. its great. thanks.
ooo and it would b intereasting if u could share about that presentation and some cool facts after ur done with it. :]
mpinkfreak32 3 years ago
I really love how you handle sexual topics in such a mature manner. Kudos to you for sharing your knowledge and keeping an open mind to learn from us! I hope there are many out there who benefit from your willingness to share your passion of human sexuality and how it connects to our psyche.
blackswan1983 3 years ago
You're really lovely and interesting.
Sconz30 3 years ago
you look pretty and smart i wonder how old are you 18 or 19 somthing like that if im not wrong
ThunderMetalHead 3 years ago
i guess you did not watch the video she says she is 22
criminallywise 3 years ago
i dont... because i don't have a girlfriend. girls find me creepy or whatever and so without a girlfriend i dont think i can get sex in my life. without paying a hooker... but i dont want to pay for sex.
nntb 3 years ago
Okay, here's a question for you. Why are your videos titled "Advanced Sex Ed" when everything you say is common knowledge? At least what I have seen so far. I saw a video on penis size which I am about to look at. I'm guessing that video tells the girls not to comment negatively on it and the guys that it's okay to have a small penis... duh, if so.
Rayvn7 3 years ago
hahaha.
your cat looks almost exactly like mine...
like seriously.
just thought i should say that...
saturdayluvah 3 years ago
cute kittie
littlebit53075 3 years ago
i think the phrase you're looking for is "mental" block.........i could be wrong
hoze187 3 years ago
Both "Mental block" and "Writers block" are very common phrases. Writers block is obviously more specific than mental block. A mental block could be when you forget something and it's "on the tip of your tongue" or when you can't remember how to do an equation that you just studied.
OGCAries 3 years ago
very good vid....very nice smile....=\ :P
killer1914 3 years ago
u do look like dj from full house
and thanks for all the advice from the vedios
u r really pretty!
thamks!
blounde14 3 years ago
Cute cat
dzmj867 3 years ago
I tried to enter a comment. Sex. 11:33 AM Sunday, Berlin, Germany. Working. Translating. But I'd rather be having sex.
bfrankbrian 3 years ago
I'll be honest...I haven't seen your videos full out but they seem ok. Since you're really into being open, my question is why does it take you so long to answer questions or get to the point of your video? I mean it's ur video so u do what you want. U've been doing it. I'm just askin.
CamillieJ 3 years ago
Same reason people end up talking on the phone with a friend for hours when they only meant to call about one thing. When the camera turns on, I'm talking straight to all my friends and viewers.
If you are asking why it takes so long to answer questions sent to my inbox, it's because I get more a day than I can read typically, much less respond to.
kicesie 3 years ago
Hey, i have the same race of cat as you do. In sweden its called "turtle"
RRFGI 3 years ago
Yeah, here she's called a tortie. :-)
kicesie 3 years ago
shes so cute she kind of looks like dj from full house
Babykisses7447 3 years ago
got in university at 16....daaaamn
smartass
thealmassi1 3 years ago
well thats bull shit caz not every straight lad as mi self i dont look at the tits there just for a tit wank and a pillow lol or fun bags i dont go or areet and look at the lasses tits tit size dont matter its the personality and looks :P
devlinshadow05 3 years ago
i dont know you but thats really good edvice for my big brother
sophierocks96 3 years ago
Yay! The cat is okay!
spiderbaby1958 3 years ago
okie..hey i love ur ids and stuffs...
sex...its just a normal intercourse inside in a relationship or should i say in a couple ryt??so y r so many people hates talking about sex u know..its just that people are being not open-minded when it comes to sex u know...reply...^_^
xHibit69 3 years ago
i have a question,but seriously now do you have a bf?not bcz im intrested or anything but just asking....
sotos50 3 years ago
I'm engaged.
kicesie 3 years ago
your engaged!, bummer... I'm jk.
obliviousdreamer 3 years ago
since you study psych can you answer something for me? Why are men so addicted to breasts?
VigonSaze 3 years ago
Society, from a young age, tells them to be. And then there are visual qualities (the bullseye effect,a line of cleavage) that draw the eye there.
kicesie 3 years ago
There is that explaination, and then there is this one: From an evolutionary standpoint larger breasts usually meant more fat storage and therefore better ability produce and care for offspring. It usually comes down to survival and reproduction which is the main purpose of sex.
guitarobsessed85 3 years ago
Another theory states that as evolution went towards people walking upright and thereby also sexual intercourse moved towards face to face sex(as opposed to the previous prefered doggystyle). Where the butt was previously the main attractor big tits now became the fittest survivor as they emulated the same attraction. This theory is supported by the fact that monkeys still have well defined asses but small leather flaps in front :)
JensOla01 3 years ago
He is looking to see how suitable she is for bearing and rearing children.
If he gets an erection that's a yes :O)
Most men are able to do both without even having to think, which is a bonus - lol.
ufewl 3 years ago
wow, so im geussing u were in college when u were 16? or were u somehow ahead? because i would really like get a degree like that and start at such an early age! how is that possible?
dopeymike009 3 years ago
I just took the ACTs early and the scores were high enough that they let me in with a few other additional requirements.
kicesie 3 years ago
You ruin your chance of getting a good career with vid's like these.
ILIKECEREALX 3 years ago
I wish we had more people as intelligent and interested in their field at my college. I just feel the need to commend your passion. No one here speaks about their studies outside of classes. Instead they drink their brain cells away so it's refreshing to come across this. I wish you the best in your studies. Also congratulations on being engaged!
guitarobsessed85 3 years ago
Good morning kicesie,
Just like to thank you for removing this strange half-education we all got as kids.
Personally, (while I am not a virgin) sex has been a no-go zone for me for a very long time (by my own choice) because I have never been able to trust anyone in a sexual way (I was given reasons not to by a girl at a young age). Your posts are assisting in moving me back into the culture, a goal of mine.
I think that you've done a wonderful deed, congratulations, and thankyou. Oman
Omanscum 3 years ago
hi kicesie...
i Love the way u smiLe...
tnx 4 making this video 4 us...
hope 2 see u inperson...
shawowowee 3 years ago
i like ur cat i have two of my own
yankee929 3 years ago
Hi baby
You look so beautiful.
R u looking for a great bf, think about me.
bye sweetheart
babluapp 3 years ago
Haha, thanks... sorry, but I'm engaged. :-)
kicesie 3 years ago
like the idea of sex ed in vlogs... where did you get the name 'kicesie' from?
stateofthepwnage 3 years ago
It's a secret. Suffice it to say it's my alter ego...
kicesie 3 years ago
runescape50, LMAO
Snyphen3 3 years ago
YOU ARE HOT
runscape50 3 years ago
u should start a tv show, ur really good on cam and a lot of ppl really need to knwo answers. ur courageous, good luck on the work!
dimitra89 3 years ago
Maybe someday! :-)
kicesie 3 years ago
You must be asked this a lot but what motivates you to make such videos?
gimmethelove 3 years ago
I think I answered that in this video. It's the same reason an physicist would make videos about their field. It's an interest academically. Always has been for me. And other people seem to enjoy the info I gather and the way it's presented, so it works out great. I love to talk about my interests and now I have people who will listen. lol!
kicesie 3 years ago
you are good!
lightkeeper08 3 years ago
But thats getting too deep into it, I just find it interesting how detailed people can be while staying the same. ^_^
lxt101 3 years ago
O,0 I've a hobby in breaking down peoples personalities, and although I can read stuff 95% of the time, its not perfect, you get the odd balls now and then. It's a nice change ^_^ lol the reason I bring that up is because of what you said about breaking people down into different puzzles.Everyone has different tastes especially towards their biggest fear, sex, & it is a fear. That other people wont like their kinks or how they like it, & sometimes its a guilty fear.
lxt101 3 years ago
o damn... im in love... a gorgeous blond talking about sex... damn cute
caxcabr 3 years ago
Talkin' about sex without having it, is mental masturbation.
AgnieszkaTheLovely 3 years ago
Amen!
BirthOfParadise 3 years ago
I think it's great that you always talk about sex! I love psychology and sexuality. I just think these things are such an important part of what makes us human.... it annoys me when people act like that's not the case!
williamn6133 3 years ago
sex kittah makes shadow puppets
geekxlove81 3 years ago
Fianally a smart american!
Good vocabulary, btw you look hott. Im obviously from England by the comment. It just i never hear any well spoken americans on youtube.
Please watch my video. It a music video, im pretty sure u have heard of PARAMORE lol.. so please rate and comment, cant wait to hear from you!
Dan xx
dannbrowne91 3 years ago
I'm interested in why you talk about sex but start from the point at which you didn't report your rapist to the police. Men externalize problems (blame others), women internalize (blame themselves). He'll always think that he was justified. I'm concerned that you might have thought yourself partly to blame, or that others might believe that. I'm concerned that you might make being a rape victim part of your identity because the experience gives you powerful empathy with other victims. C
4kking 3 years ago
If you took the time to even read the description on that video you'd see that I DID press charges, it passed a grand jury, he was arrested, and is awaiting trial. So get your facts straight before you preach about what people SHOULD do when victimized, especially if you've never been there yourself.
kicesie 3 years ago
yo kicesie r u going to stop when when u finish school anyway this perv freaks out whenever i even mention sex =[ so please make a video about maturity and sex thanks and if not keep on vlogging
greener103 3 years ago
The subtext of your sex ed videos reads: "One can do these things out of love, as a good person - without inviting rape." Yes, absolutely. Your confidence in your own identity in doing this is extremely impressive. The 'best sex with stripey sox' video shows deep, wonderful femininity. Fantastic. I hope that the guy you marry can integrate your potential for enriching his life. I don't mean the sexy stuff. I smiled at rokhamdagamer81's oblique comment that your cat's beautiful. He's right. C
4kking 3 years ago
You are a great girl. Since you have a problem writing lengthy essay's, why not record a really long video of what your essay is about then playing back your video, you will be able to write what you say. This way, you will get more and more ideas! Good luck!
cardo111 3 years ago
I understand and I support your goal.
Go ahead I hope to read your book!
Good Luck
uutube1980 3 years ago
Question: What are you supposed to do when you're giving a guy oral sex? Like, when you have it in your mouth and whatever, what are you supposed to do with your tongue and all that?
PrincessTohru09 3 years ago
You might want to check out the video 'great oral sex for men' that I recently put out, but only if you're over 18.
kicesie 3 years ago
Kicesie, hello from Brazil. My name is Marcelo Alencar. I am a Brazilian 32 year old guy. Have you ever been to Brazil? For sure it´s the hottest place in the world ( all the ways ). Sexuality here talks by itself. Seen your video about oral sex. We love oral sex here in Brazil. I prefer giving oral sex than receiving it. It´s so good. Congratulations for your videos. I am pretty sure you have been helping lots of people around the world with them. Success bothers people. Keep it always up !
marceloalencar2004 3 years ago
talking about reproductive qualities...
from your mouth it sounds smart but mostly sexy :)
xjih78 3 years ago
Hi Kicesie I would go the video that you're on now because it's interesting. I'm 27 years old and for me i rather wait for marriage for anything like that. Have you ever thought of becoming a columnist for sex ed. Sorry if my common's kinda rude i get nervous for the things i'm saying. But succeed in your dreams ok. PS What kind of cat is it it's so beautiful.
rokhamdagamer81 3 years ago
Kicesie i saw the video on rape as well, I felt messed up from watching it the bastard who did this to you i hope he get what's coming to him but to let you know I'm glad that you're ok and be careful and safe.
rokhamdagamer81 3 years ago
Kicesie, Listen: I saw your rape video and worried about you. I'm 68 with three daughters, one wife, happy marriage. Forty years ago I did some prison (fraud). There were guys who not only raped but killed as well. I know them. They don't feel the way you do and never will. I'm concered that in working with sex you're investing a potentially beautiful life in trying to understand that. You can't. They're simply damaged. Get into banking, art, anything else. Take an aptitude test. Best wishes, C
4kking 3 years ago
Banking, art.... it won't help all those victims who cry out for help. Maybe I can't stop rape, I believe I am be a part of stopping it, but I can and will help it's victims... and I can and will help people develop healthy, honest and intimate sexuality.
I don't need an aptitude test to know that by my very nature I am a healer and a teacher.... and an eternal optimist.
kicesie 3 years ago
If women thought about sex the same way men did, nothing would ever get accomplished.
abmmwl 3 years ago
I don't know why they shut down the comment stream about parental control. I am a parent, and my kids are supervised. YES they can find you and listen to you, BUT My ex and I will know. Besides.. Our relationship with our children is such that they ask us.. (or at least they have to date.)
You do what you do. Thanks from an old guy and his lady who enjoy what you talk about.
henjam1984 3 years ago
You have interesting thoughts and I love how casually you talk about things :) keep it up
N1cto 3 years ago
Great videos and tasteful. Thank you.
coffingirl210 3 years ago
I would like to see a video about turning on a woman. I know if she is more receptive to sex it makes for a more intense and enjoyable experience for both of us.
horticulture1 3 years ago
lol 6 seconds under
Draxius 3 years ago
I'm new to seeing these videos so i'm posting this question cause it's been in my head for awhile .how does a guy not end up being a one minute guy ?
SilentDevious 3 years ago
two muscles in your crotch between your legs. Flex those muscles. 5 mins @ a time 3 times a day. not much more than this or you'll have problems bringing yourself to orgasim. Don't tease your masterbation the results are limited and slow on the other hand don't masterbate to get off in a minutes time. Also lots and lots of sex helps. If you can help it bring yourself to orgasm before involving yourself with your mate.
egotrip9k 3 years ago
your extremely intelligent and inspiring. Keep on striving for your goals you can go far
justaguitarchick 3 years ago
you have such a beautiful smile. your gorgeous. and keep up the work.
hellokittygirl6 3 years ago
Oh man that's weird. My cat looks almost EXACTLY like yours. And that's weird for a Tortoise Shell cat...they are usually so different.(Is your evil? Mine is!)
Good work on your videos...most people are too afraid to talk about sex, so accessible information is GOOD.
GoddessAEM 3 years ago
Nah, she's not evil. She's pretty sweet really.
kicesie 3 years ago
You are a Cutie, keep it up lady.
ZeroChevelle 3 years ago
i like your videos,
MeAgain0000 3 years ago
do you think people get divorced cuz their tired of having sex together?
cuttysark552 3 years ago
I don't think that's a common reason, no... Perhaps they cannot communicate their needs, or they end up having an affair, but I don't think they get 'tired' of having sex with each other and thus, divorce. Anyhow, money is the number one cause of divorce (or disputes over money)... least that's what the stats say...
kicesie 3 years ago
i understand you completely; i look up everything that i can on serial killers and murders of any kind, all types of crimes, and just like you said, that doesn't mean that im a criminal in any way. im really glad to hear you say your thoughts on the subject. thankyous!
dreyfoostheatra 3 years ago
Hi Kicesie. I have a question that doesn't really pertain to this video in particular, but I was interested in what you thought about this. Me and my GF are interested in having a "double-date" with another couple, where we would basically swap partners, have group sex, 2 on 1, 2 on 2, pretty much anything goes. Our sex life is really good as is, but we've been wanting to experiment. What's your stance on this? Will we regret it? Who should the other couple be?If you can reply,I'd apretiate it!
JamesBeam420 3 years ago
I'm probably not the best person to ask on this. I have a bias. But I do know that MOST (certainly not all) sex therapists I've talked to say that bringing anyone else into your sexual relationship is typically not a good idea. See my video on open marriages, the comments and video responses it got...
kicesie 3 years ago
i think you have a slight resemblance to Julia Stiles.....
73JJ3NA 3 years ago
i love all your videos.
i love how personal you are.
&& all the questions you asked.
&& your just awesome :)
kulielylie 3 years ago
you wing it, good video but suggestion that you prepare a speech
Gilfmur 3 years ago
Your a real hottie...
ElCid4321 3 years ago
nice video again. seriously i hope you did well on the work you had to do while you made this video :P (long long time ago as I can see...)
JP
mtssexual 3 years ago
It was a very good presentation I think! :-) But I enjoy public speaking, as long as I'm prepared and people aren't hostile.... lol.
kicesie 3 years ago
aww yur cat is so cute
bigdan6ft5 3 years ago
Hi Kicesie. Shima here from the UK. I've seen a couple of your videos now, and you seem like a real sweetheart. I'd like to give you a big hug. ^_^
Btw, your cat looks huge!
Your
Shima137 3 years ago
ur great to listen too, i guess u can take that as a compliment from a stranger ;). I actually just took an adderol to study and ive been waiting 4 it to wear off so i can fall asleep and then i came across ur blogs... good stuff, very interesting, i actually like weird sex and the this 1 is pretty good too. ps. do u have a facebook?
tim2taz 3 years ago
Im not trying to be a dick but this REALLY bored me. Your cat is purdy
nnykilledme 3 years ago
I see your point. Good job girl. Keep it up. People out there need to understand sex and see it in a non-perverted light as something beautiful and ethereal. show them that.
gaia2phoenix 3 years ago
Well,I have now seen this one and it was good. But there was one thing that I couldn´t see and it was your feets. Please show them next time.
soleseeker61 3 years ago
I'm sorry, but that disgusts me. I don't want to think of anyone jacking off to my feet.
kicesie 3 years ago
Hey,I´m not jacking off. I love feets,but that means I do not sit in my chair at the desk and jack off. I´m no pervert,you see. Girl feets are nice,how can you say that feets disgust? Give me one reason. Happy easter,btw.
soleseeker61 3 years ago
Many cultures see feet as dirty and showing them as a sign of disrespect.
kicesie 3 years ago
hmm..maybe...ive seen another vid of yours...nice sox xD...maybe its weird, but..it isnt stubid..just kind of...beeing a bit different.
öhm.. how old are you?^^...you talk so much about sex and you look a bit young i think..im 18 and i havent so much experience and when i made some...they werent soooo great =/
tobaff 3 years ago
Erm Tbh Thats kinda weird to ask to see someones feet...
:S
4Uinstrumentals4U 3 years ago
No offense but for somome who is estenialy just finding Themselves and thier place in the world. Giving actual people with real problems Advice.
Its highly suspect that you a self-announced sex educator, threapist, or whatever grandiose title your going for. Im not even sure what the purpose of most of your vids are besides a bombardment of "top sex questions" and things of the like.
TikiShootah 3 years ago
Nice... nice...
lemonademango777 3 years ago
Hi girl; There is a good possibility that you might leave a bigger(better*)footprint with a web series than could be done with the products of your degree. The door is open now. New rules to write. I believe YOU are a valuble commodity that has much potential to help/entertain the masses.*e-mail me if I could elaborate. I see something here bigger than us. (not"us"; but you or I) Anyway, be careful with your energy out here. Yer' way cool in my book and . . .you're so hot.
SjM
stevecoinc 3 years ago
So, I wonder.. When do you think or suggest would be the right age for sex for the first time?
justintimberlake123 3 years ago
I talk about that a bit in my videos on virginity, mainly part 1... well I guess part 2 as well. But my rule of thumb is, don't have sex if you couldn't (or aren't a point in your life yet that you could) give a baby the life the deserves because there is no 100% effective birth control.
The other standards I cover in those virginity videos.
kicesie 3 years ago
Do you have some video exercises?
arooo2003 3 years ago
huh?
kicesie 3 years ago
great video, very informative and honest
DarrenM318 3 years ago
I always flirt with my girlfriend and clearly imply that I want to talk about being sexually intimant, but she always laughs or turns it into a joke. We have been dating for a month and a half. Any advice?
mdarst82693 3 years ago
post?
pea8vey 3 years ago
i really enjoy your videos.your certainly a charecter.Did you take acting school??sex is a good topic everyone does it even priests unfortunatly.why dont you cover the subject of that?why do people prey on children?
pea8vey 3 years ago
Your a very mature person. Thanks for explaining, I'm pretty young. Now I'm ready though.
heartofthelocus 3 years ago
Ready for what? Information alone doesn't make anyone ready for sex if that's what you're talking about.... I don't want anyone to feel that due to the info I put out there, they are now ready. Readiness comes from relationship experience, ability to communicate, an understanding of real love, realistic expectation, etc etc etc...
kicesie 3 years ago
Kicesie..I love u u r mature and self confident and brave. i hope we can communicate more
monahooshan 3 years ago
no comments go through darn
pea8vey 3 years ago
Are comments getting screwy again?
kicesie 3 years ago
they're working now
pea8vey 3 years ago
haaaaaaaaahhhh, it just a jok... i like you and i like your videos....!!!
nice to meet you cute girl. :*)
arooo2003 3 years ago
....so like....when you sit around and talk about sex.....is that like...ummm....ORAL sex? Hunh?
willows26 3 years ago
lol, that's a good play on words, but no. If you're seriously asking oral sex is when the mouth is used on the genitals.
kicesie 3 years ago
I son't know about you but I can't reach my genitals with my mouth.
willows26 3 years ago
lol, some can. Most have partners for that sort of thing. ;-)
kicesie 3 years ago
good job gal. But, I think we need a healthy (emotionaly) guy to express a similar style on the same topics to offset you're effect. I must admit I think about sex ALOT more while viewing your vids. You're so hot.
stevecoinc 3 years ago
Calling all well rounded, well studied guys! There's a need for you to be discussing these issues!
kicesie 3 years ago
I don't talk about it... only listen/read it... or watch it of course :)
ktoczy 3 years ago
comment me
sarahcrash 3 years ago
hey kicesie. my name is sarah and this is like my first time seeing your videos and there was one that grabbed my attention( not this one but another but it wouldnt let me post a comment so im posting it on another lol) but idk if youd feel very comfortable me bringing it up cuz you seem so happy with these other videos
sarahcrash 3 years ago
i like your philosipy (how ever you spell it)i agree that many people just get amused with sex. it's part of life (I think!)-Beth- 15
bthonly 3 years ago
No offense but on each video you take a while to say something theres nothing wrong with that. Problably cause your thinking of it and it's not planed i don't know lol.
Great Videos
BayBladeMaster 3 years ago
Some videos where I'm just talking to my viewers are certainly more slow paced and the same way I'd hold a conversation... Others where I have a specific message to get across like my virginity videos, my LGBQT videos, and my latest one... aren't quite like that... different styles for different subjects/conversations.
kicesie 3 years ago
watching your video makes me want to talk about sex.
SKatial 3 years ago
wow, i randomly came across your vidoes and i'm gonna have to subscribe, you are really interesting to watch, :D keep it up
AndrewAndy08 3 years ago
hey I love your videos your a huge hep thanks a bunch!
humpastick 3 years ago
At first I felt this was just something wierd but, you're very informative and I think you're very helpful.
beachbummet 3 years ago
as a 19 year old guy, iv learnt alot from u..regardless if u made mentioned that u dont give advice on relationships..ur sex advice have saved mine..i have tried so many new things that u advised on..and wow im so thankful..please keep doing what you do..and jus as everyone have said to u..u would make a fanatastic sex therapist..my girl now thinks im a new person lol..thanks
huntaskelta 3 years ago
I love your cat. The shadowing in this video is very cool. :)
kl4ng 3 years ago
well imo they ask ya cause ur hawt :O
But ya seem very intelligent very open and cute so seems all go lol:] thanks for ya opinion.
Aitesh 3 years ago
I like your videos, I think you implement the European mentality alot. In other words you talk freely about sex, not as a Taboo, I'm happy for you and wish you well.
Miryr 3 years ago
Oh My God!!! I just finished writing a huge paper about Memories Vs. Survival... and a big part of it focused on the validity of recalling repressed memories
Kisswithoutlips 3 years ago
yo tell the cat my cats say meow in english sunshine says holla
lol
don77sicily 3 years ago
I wish men would understand the subject of 'sex' as you do. AND! women for that matter too.
iBIuu 3 years ago
What kind of cat is it? didn´t really see because of my bad video card "/
ps. I gotta love your english ;)
Mzan2007 3 years ago
I think your sexual advice is very honest and candid. As a women, I´ve watched some of your videos and agreed with you comments. I like how casually you speak about sex. You will be a great sexual counselor or therapist. Good luck in the future.
Bellegotti 3 years ago
Thank you!
kicesie 3 years ago
i lov you!!!
benderman5000 3 years ago
I have to say your very easy to listn to. I like your voice it's relaxing as you speak. and your vocab is prety larger than myne.
meavis0000 3 years ago
i think that you chose the right think to do( to chose sex) because your telling it in a smart way;) and by the way Your hot!:)
Canoni450 3 years ago 2
you are very beautiful
xrey009 3 years ago
god u look like mandy moore very sexy!
okayhozay27 3 years ago
Look,humens are 1of2 ANIMALS who INJOY sex for pleaser.This dates back millions of years.With that said,yes sex is part of our "siki".Oh yeah by the way
PERFECTION IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER!
Close enough.
apjordan07 3 years ago
my cat looked EXACTLY like that and she died on the 4th of march 08.
mileycyrusmmusic 3 years ago
Cute cat
18mulambo 3 years ago
I've taken human sexuality, thats a great course :) As for sex itself, I see it pretty straight forward, more of a Darwinistic view, I view myself as a a entity in this huge system, and to continue my generation, I have sex. Of course, there is more to that then just to reproduce, its all of the emotion and physical aspects that go into it... BTW Glad you continued for your psychology degree, my sis thought she could get a job after only 4 years in majoring in psy
Paulpunkrocks 3 years ago
kicesie! you have helped me out with a lot of my questions and problems about sex and stuff. thank you for all your helps. you are going to become a great sex therapist!
=]
dontchaax3 3 years ago
dude where have i been in space! U R FUCKING HOT!
U RULE!!
dirtbikeflipper 3 years ago