Pastor Jim Domen's Ex Gay Testimony & Story

[GrillKick]

94 dislikes? How could anyone dislike this man's brave story? Look at the love in their eyes when he and his wife look at each other :)

[GODZGANG100]

AWESOME GOD

[qsccsqplayer]

I was completely delivered by homosexuality and God is now giving me opposite-sex attractions. God also gives his children a Godly lust towards their spouse. But sex truly doesnt matter. Gay doesnt matter. Straight doesnt matter. What matters is, Do we know Jesus? Do we feel his complete and un-hindered love? If you're gay, don't worry about changing your sexual orientation. Ask God to love you and he will guide you into your destiny.

[salamandrina100]

I see a really happy satisfied couple. Love is everything and is between man and woman. Sex can be a beutiful thing if done right. It mirrors the love of God for his bride.Only opposit sex can love each other completly.Sex must be done only if u love the person. Not for carnal attraction or for material interest. Otherwise it is just prostitution. Gay love is carnal, superfucial, unsatisfying, and shameful.

[LB030377]

See heres what annoys me with most ex gay testimonies. A lot of them leave out certain details. The thing I want to know.... your wife your marriage. Do you really WANT her. Do you DESIRE her, her breast, her feminine curves, her lips, her vagina, do they EXCITE you, turn you on, drive you wild, with the SAME INTENSITY that you used to get, (and may still have) with men? And if any Christian says that somehow the above "doesnt matter" then this just shows how morbid and anti sex they are!

[TheBiologyGeek]

Thats a sweet story. I remember when I was in that position. I used to be attracted only to females. Now I know it was due to abuse as a child and after I recovered from the abuse, my feelings towards women ended. Now I'm engaged to a wonderful man who is helping me become a doctor....

[sinisbal]

Nothing is wrong with being gay if a person is happy and in peace. I was gay and I was in misery. I chose differently. I chose Jesus and I got healed. For me it was a sickness. And now I know that my choice of choosing Jesus is better than staying gay. For me. And for everyone who believes. It is much better! For me. And for everyone who believes.

[DoubleTalkingJive]

As ex-gay videos go, this one hits a new low of desperation.

So 3 years of being gay (seriously I've probably slept longer than that), and it not only ruined your concept of masculinity, but also caused you to lose your car, home and business?

Honey, your problem wasn't that you were gay. It's that you were dating an asshole who ripped you off.

And here you are, married and with a worthless Masters of Divinity, with visions of a burning Jesus.

What's wrong with being gay again?

[DoubleTalkingJive]

@happy72013 Dude that wasn't even a sentence...

[sinisbal]

God Bless You Jim! I too was healed of the sin of homosexuality. There are more of us who know the Truth! Jesus Christ healed me. I fought for my identity as you did. God Bless You Amanda and your child! When I was gay, there was something to be healed of. It was not natural and not God given. It is time that whoever wants to listen knows that homosexuality is a sin and it is devastating and degrading, like any other sin. My story can be read at ilivestraight website. It is time!

[YourDogIsDeadHAHA]

This is so, so tragic.

[RCSVirginia]

What nonsense! If you want to see reality, watch the YouTube videos:

"Former Ex-Gay Leaders Apologize" by SoulforceQ

"Clint Trout: From 'ex-gay' hell to Harvard" by wbesen

-and'

"Truth Wins Out Exposes the "Ex-Gay" Industry" by Studio3V

[vidhead85]

They act as if heterosexuality will fix everything, that's bull!

[vidhead85]

that guy is still gay 

[RCSVirginia]

@vidhead85

They are all always still gay.

[sinisbal]

@RCSVirginia ahahaha you would so much like to tell people who they are. To be your way. Sorryyy! Doesn't work like that. What God does, no man can overturn.

[joshmyra19]

@UMANEDAKIDD19 Homosexuality is condemned in the new testament as wellDon't you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people—none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9, 10 NLT)

[millenniumman75]

@joshmyra19 - remember that anyone who wants redemption from that list of sins (and more) can have it - if you continue the I Corinthians passage, verses 10 and 11 say "and such were some of you, and you were washed and sanctified in Jesus Christ". The "some of you" refers to those in the crowd of Corinthians who wanted to be free. Anyone who asks shall receive freedom - no limit on who.

[LifeintheformofSean]

@MrORIGINS1 Unfortunately, people like you are in the mindset that all homosexuals are promiscuous whores, which is complete and utter ignorance...and like Pastor Jim, you fall into that category of "Stupid!"

As if you know me, you judgmental prick!!!

[Surferpro86]

Dr. J Vernon Mcgee puts to rest this matter on homosexuality and many others, as he takes you through a five year journey of through the Bible

[Surferpro86]

@siroliverokc I only judge/ hold accountable believers because I believe we are held to a higher standard. I'm sorry if my remarks came off judgemental, I was only quoting the Word of God. So, infact those were never my Words. I only posted a small amount of text of the Bible, so please read the rest.

[Surferpro86]

@douglasokc sorry if I did not read your prior comments. To answer your question I have my MBA, from CBU. What about yourself?

[inatokara01]

@PastorJimDomen : I can only suggest you to read the book by Christopher Hitchens : "God Is Not Great" to give you a better understanding of religions (including Christianity).

[inatokara01]

@Scampbell233 : Well, that's the thing, there's your view that says homosexuality is a sin, and there's another view that does not. And who are you to say that your view is better than others? Who made you (and other Christians) the king of the world? It's a dangerous path when you think that the only thing that's right is yours. Especially, in your case, is that you know so little about homosexuality, and you only see it from your point of view.

[inatokara01]

@hurricanechris93 : Me too.. I admit that I love Christians, I love them. I hate Christianity, not Christians.. My "bible" tells me to love one another and try to teach them the right way.. So, why are you all telling us to read up on the Word of God when we say Christianity is wrong. If you all really read the Word, you'd know that God says Christianity is an abomination to him. He didn't create us to be that way...

[mat2dong]

This is funny! Why are people mad at Jim for sharing his change? I did not see him attack anyone gay. I seen him share the change that has happened in him and that makes people so mad? If you want to be a homosexual then go right a head. It seems you are all mad because he shared what has made him a better man! You all remind me of crabs in a bucket! When one is being pulled out you all grab on to the one being pulled out...

[doobiesmoke15]

I am sooooooo sick of Christians!

[hurricanechris93]

I will admit I love gays, I love them. I despise homosexuality, not homosexuals. The Bible tells us to love one another and try to teach them the right way. So why are you all telling us to read up on the Word of God when we say homosexuality is wrong. If you all really read the Word, you'd know that God says homosexuality is an abomination to him. He didn't create us to be that way. The ones who say we Christians are haters, isnt it others who despise us for only despising homosexuaIiTY?

[vidhead85]

@hurricanechris93 It's funny how when you mock our beliefs, you are telling the truth, but when we mock yours we're God haters

[Scampbell233]

Sorry it was too long I had to break it up. Start at bottom and work your way up

[Scampbell233]

this means all sin. You may believe that we are stupid, weak individuals but remember regardless of your view for us we are praying for you. So don't be an Internet tough guy, be a person.

[Scampbell233]

a hard working husband and father. I say all of this because my struggle is synonymous with anyones struggle with sin. (any sin) So before you continue to use foul language to degrade or talk in a hateful manner to Jim or any of us Christians, maybe you should think first of what we are saying. I have not read where anyone has used vulgarity or slurs towards a gay person. In fact we are taught to love everyone even if they are gay or not. We are also taught to hate sin and speak against it, 

[Scampbell233]

when I decided to get clean I had to resist my temptations, and I did not feel that I was being who I was supposed to be either. I felt like a fake, I was a junkie not a citizen. But I as moved on further away from my temptation I began to be happy with myself and who I was. I was no longer a drug addict, just

[Scampbell233]

through sodomy.I believe this pro-gay indoctrination is as dangerous to our society as Nazism was to Germany. Where will we draw the line? Would we rather be curtious to peoples feelings than moral? It is okay that people struggle with tendancies as long as they don't give in to them. I was once a drug addict. I wasn't born a drug addict but I had addiction

[Scampbell233]

Jim as well as many others are resisting the temptation to partake of the deviancy. What's wrong with that?? I for one wish that all pedifiles and rapist would do the same. The main purpose of sex is procreation, not pleasure. Anyone that argues that I challenge them to watch to animals mate. That doesn't appear to be pleasurable to me. ( if it does to you, you are most likely a sexual deviate). Anyway with that fact being stated homosexuality does not work. Conception can not be achieved

[Scampbell233]

When will America see that homosexuality is a sexual deviancy?!?! It bears only one difference from rape, beastiality, or pedifilia. That is it is concentual

[LB030377]

@Scampbell233 "It bears only one difference from rape, beastiality, or pedifilia. That is it is concentual" And thats primarily why its not immoral nimrod. Harm to others. THAT should be the pinnacle on our moral judgements. Not this "sin" nonsense.

[whallriskmanagement]

Why is the GLTC so full of hate? Isnt hate the one thing you are striving most to eradicate? Isn't acceptance the one thing you strive so hard achieve? But your not willing to give these things? Your not willing to accept Jim's, and the majority of Californians, vote on prop 8. You hate people for their views, ironically the same thing you complain you receive from others.

Please be consistent. Have your opinions, express your opinions civilly, then move on. No need to be full of hate to Jim or

[tandehall]

I am proud to have known Jim as my friend since 1993. He is the real deal. I wish all of the slanderers and haters who have posted on here could see his authenticity and the transformation that has occurred in his life. The life that Jim Domen lives is a testimony of peace, joy and fulfillment that he is despirately wanting to share with everyone that feels trapped in the homosexual lifestyle. His is not a message of judgment or condemnation, but of hope and a future.

[SirOlivierOKC]

For everyone out there who thinks its cool, hip and okie doke to judge gay people based on your erroneous and flawed interpretation of Christian scripture, I invite you visit "the god article" dot com and take a read of the article on Biblical Gay Bashing. You may be surprised that you'll actually learn something.

[SirOlivierOKC]

@Suferpro86 First of all one would have to be a Christian to buy into this bullshit. I was once, I've studied the ancient texts in Latin, Greek and Aramaic. Perhaps you should brush up on Biblical translation, contextual application of scripture and pull your head out of your ass. Do you eat seafood, cut your hair, be anywhere near your wife duding menstruation? Well guess what, you're penalty is death. So please spare me your judgement and ignorance. Read up, learn ur faith and stop judging.

[GayForeverCalifornia]

Also, Jim Domen -- the gay community is aware of your participation in passing Prop 8, which took away marriage equality in California. When gay people and their families were deprived of their dignity and legality, we saw your photos in the LA Times rejoicing and celebrating at the pain YOU caused LGBT Americans.

As God as my witness, same-sex marriages WILL return to California. The moral arc of the universe is long, but it always bends toward justice. We will prevail over haters like you.

[DoubleTalkingJive]

@GayForeverCalifornia Thank you for that comment! I couldn't have put it any better.

[GayForeverCalifornia]

I grew up in the same town & went to the same high school as Jim. He is nothing but a snake oil salesman. You cannot "pray away the gay." I am a gay man, and I am PROUD OF WHO I AM. Being an openly gay man is not easy -- but unlike you, Jim, I am brave enough to face the homophobia and hatred from society that people like you foment. Luckily, the God I know and love ACCEPTS me for how He created me, as a gay man. Nothing you can say will ever change that.

P.S. I'm very happy.

[Surferpro86]

@GayForeverCalifornia Sorry you do NOT know the same GOD in which the bible speaks of.

[smallbusinesssearch]

(Jim Domen): I used to not like mustard on my sandwich, I only liked lettuce, but now I like mustard & not lettuce____(Gay Community): You DON'T like mustard Jim, YOU LOVE LETTUCE!! Your a lettuce eating fool Jim & your lying to yourself! Mustard is evil & they have tricked you with their grey poupon commercials. Don't make me eat your gross mustard Jim!____(Me): This conversation is ridiculous as the comments you guys are leaving. I'm pretty sure Jim knows if he prefers men or not.

[hurricanechris93]

Do you think it is a spirit as well, Jim? Because that's what I believe firmly. I'm just wondering which way you view it because too many people try to defend it and say that it's a disorder. From my point of view, yes.. they're absolutely right. It's disorderly. It can send us straight to Hell, but it's not something we are born with by nature.

[hurricanechris93]

Jim, the way I've heard it said many times is that homosexuality is a spirit, just as lust. My pastor has taught this to me for the 18 years I've lived. You can be saved and still tempted with homosexuality and lust. We're never promised not to be tempted. The devil knows which things we are struggling with and what we are weaker toward. I noticed how you said you still felt that even though you wanted to do right. I think it's amazing that you were saved and overcome this sin.

[dbrowne524]

Nicely done. Jim, it is an honor knowing you both. Even though the world will try to slander you and deny the truth of your story, it is YOUR story and those who know you appreciate and love you both. The wave of political correctness is way too imbedded in our society, and it even seems 'popular' to be gay in today's culture. Your story is respectfully personal and may speak to someone who sincerely has a vulnerable, confused or misdirected identity. I see no hatred spoken here.

[SirOlivierOKC]

The greatest sin is denying the person God made you to be. The lesson from this vid, if you're gay, you'll always be miserable, you're not a true man, God won't love you if you are. Bullshit!

[Surferpro86]

@SirOlivierOKC You state what the greatest sin is but you fail to back it up with scripture. We all know what happens when you add to the Word of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NIV): "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters, nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God."

[mat2dong]

Hey there Jim:) I just want to encourage you bro! I really liked the testimony and I trully hope it encourages more people that want to get out of a gay life style. I know this was not easy for you and I can see a great heart behind it:) May the Lord bless you and your wife:)

[Surferpro86]

@going5hole. You were going to hell, are going to hell, and will always be going to hell. Unless you turn from your sinfull ways

[Surferpro86]

I know Jim personally. I also have two gay uncles. I have learned to Love everyone but also NEVER become tolerant of sin. God Bless you my good friend Jim. Always remember that your strength comes from the Lord even while evil is around you. God Bless

[richstpete]

@Surferpro86 honey he's still gay... what a joke if you think anything different. The only one he's kidding is himself...... So so sad he can't be who he is,,,,,,

[Surferpro86]

@richstpete I know him personally and you LIE! He is a God fearing MAN that loves the LORD and his WIFE.

[whallriskmanagement]

Keep if up Jim. Don't let these comments from a very few discourage you. We are praying for you.

Your friends from Texas

[jallenrix]

Until you learn to love yourself unconditionally, like God loves you unconditionally, you will never truly know that you are acceptable as you are. Your theology and beliefs are infected by abusive religion, and "works earned" theology. As an ex-gay survivor myself, I can tell you know better. Deep down you long to be genuinely loved for who you are and you don't have to do a thing for it, especially conform to others gender and sexual roles. Just be yourself and be loved. exgaynoway(dot)com

[eag1ehigh]

I can't believe the hatred coming from so many "loving" gay supporters. The double standards and hypocrisy in today's society are disgusting. Gays demand acceptance in every aspect, and call those who don't accept it bigoted, hateful, ignorant, etc. Well, before I can start taking gays seriously, they need to go by the same standards they demand from others: accept others' views, however wrong you think they may be, and respond in a decent manner rather than spewing hatred as is evident here.

[doobiesmoke15]

@MrORIGINS1 No I am sick of Christians because you are a bunch of assholes (and not the good kind either)

[spedtch2]

Pastor Jim.....Thank you for sharing your story. Christ is alive in you and is using you to help others realize that this lifestyle is a choice and that there is a different life they can live.....one with Christ. Keep up the good work. My prayers to those making negative comments...may they come to know the truth!!!

[winterman93]

Jim...I too went to school with you in high school. I was always impressed by you and your whole family. While we are both Christian, we have slightly different beliefs, in this, we believe the same thing. Being gay is a choice...those who disagree need to watch this video again and understand that you CAN choose to leave the gay lifestyle. It is a question of how badly you want to be saved by Christ and how much you understand what God's will truly is...I'm happy for the choice you've made!

[TriEnduranceTraining]

Certain groups in America always ask for tolerance for their ways yet many show very little intolerance for us Christians. I see the hypocrisy in it all. Jim has chosen ,as we all can, to give his Life to the Lord, Amen to that. Jim is a good man and I am blessed I know Jim. He has been there for me and my family. I pray for him and all of you. The Lord can do many things but first he can forgive us for all the sins we commit. Accept Him and you to will be saved.

[fireburns451]

We see the typical arguments here all based upon the belief that homosexuality is not a choice. Yet, Jim is another example of one who realized it is a choice, a choice he made based upon a misunderstanding of his desires. And, rather than supporting HIS choice, he is attacked for "deceiving himself", "living a lie" and turning to God. The typical response by those who promote the lifestyle is to belittle and shout down those who say otherwise. Jim, stand firm. God and we are standing with you!

[sipeleska]

@MrORIGINS1 ; your grammar is very poor; your conception of gay is nil!

[SHISADB]

How many penises has he sucked since making this video?

[pastorjfoster]

May God fill you with the knowledge of His will, and may you come to understand how high and long and deep and wide is the love of Christ, and may you know His love that surpasses all understanding.

[pastorjfoster]

I too went through a time where I turned my back on God thinking that being gay was wrong. I too wound up flat on my back with nothing. When I hit that place and returned to the Lord, He said something to me that I didn't understand at the time: it wasn't my b.f. that hurt Him, but the fact that I wasn't spending time with Him anymore. For years I wrote that off until I recently came to the realization that God loves me for who I am, and that I had to stop confusing morality with orientation.

[347jefflee]

That is an amazing testimony to God's power and grace. Thank you so much Jim for being so brave and sharing it. There are a lot of Haters out there that can't except that they to are living in sin. And to all those haters, we will be praying for you.

[buscaglio]

Nobody has a right to sin. We don't have a right to live a life that makes us happy. I don't have a right to lie, cheat, steal, kill, commit adultery, become a drug addict because it feels good or any other behavior that dishonors God.

Sin is real and so is hell. There is a real, long lasting and eternal place for those that deny Christ and continually live in habitual sin. Read Hebrews 3:7-19.

We all need to deny our desires to live for self and live for Christ.

God is glorified!!

[LB030377]

@buscaglio The god you worship is a tyrant. To torture us for all eternity for not denying our own happiness and only serving him? If thats not being a tyrant what does that make him? If god were good he would want us to be happy, not is own egomania.

[nebmilbourn]

Jim, you are a brave man. I took a number of classes with you at APU. I appreciate all you are doing on this issue and I will continue to pray for you and your ministry.

[gtegtegte1]

What a brave man!! You truly are filled with the Holy Spirit. Jesus can change lives. Praise Him!! Keep up your walk with the Lord. He knows what's truly in your heart and will reward you greatly upon his return. Blessings to you and your lovely bride and may God provide the courage for you to continue be a shining example of His love. I'll be praying for you brother.

[Zen53GT]

Oh please. The dude is gayer than Liberace's underpants. If he's "happy" living a lie, fine but don't drag others down with your self-loathing xtian BS.

[choongd]

Of course the Christian "conversion therapy" works!

If you promote enough humiliation,self hatred, false beliefs, superstitious threats, emotional blackmail, conditional love, and quack psychology, even the mentally toughest of us will fall.

[VonJohannstein]

You should take note that not all homosexuals are effeminate you dumb fuck.

[doobiesmoke15]

I am soooooooooo sick of Christians!

[gayambassador]

PS....I have just worked with a gentleman (in a heterosexual marriage + adult children) who has come out at the age of 63...in a high profile respected position in his profession and church...but never acted on his same sex orientation...or been sexually abused etc. Some might wonder why take this enormous risk of losing everything...but once again as I say. 'it is better live one day on this planet being true to yourself than an entire lifetime which is a lie.'

[gayambassador]

thanks for sharing your story Pastor Jim. I do understand your journey but have ended up in a different place. As we can't put links to on YouTube I'd like to suggest that you find my article on my blog "Situational Heterosexuality"..it should come up as No.1 when you google it. As I always say. My morality and faith are choices but my sexual orientation however isn't. I was saddened to hear that you were sacked for being gay and you hadn't even acted on your orientation. How cruel and ignorant.

[stephenwalls1]

You're a scam artist, asking for $51:50 donations on your website.

[LifeintheformofSean]

Gay is not something you can turn on or off...No matter what lies you tell yourself, you know that you're still masturbating at the thought of having sex with men...

You are sad...you only THINK you're not.

[kiltmaker]

Still. Totally. Gay.

[ozbrad]

So a talking snake made a naked woman eat some fruit and you can lose your superpowers getting a haircut are things you believe are true?

[morelumens]

Oh, puhleeze Mary. Ex-gay? Bwah ha ha ha.

[dorchester65]

What a sad, sad video. I just couldn't watch all of it. This man is obviously heavily into self deception. Again, another life ruined with religion. I do hope he soon realizes he's doing harm to folks with the nonsense he's spewing

[Surferpro86]

@dorchester65 What if the Bible is false? where do you end up? What if the Bible is True? Where do you end up? The choice is yours!!!

[MRBBJC]

Poor woman. But at the same time she deserves it because she chooses to ignore facts.

[bill8427]

Terry, you are hurting people. Please stop doing this.

[Hdtexan]

"You're a sad and pathetic man. You're a homosexual and you don't want to be, but there's nothing you can do to change it. Not all the prayers to your god, not all the analysis you can buy in all the years you've got left to live. You may one day be able to know a heterosexual life if you want it desperately enough. If you pursue it with the fervor with which you annihilate. But you'll always be homosexual as well. Always Joe. Always. Until the day you die."

[Surferpro86]

@Hdtexan Who is Joe?

[ImShaNayYNay]

He still dreams of Dick.

[douglasokc]

please someone tell that poor young woman: there is no Book of Joel in the Bible. I guess i was wrong after all the years; you can fix the gay out a person. But fuckin stupid is going to last ya a lifetime, no matter how many times baby jesus stops what he does in Africa and India to drop a 5 spot on the sidewalk to save your ass from starvation. jeeeesssus

[fireburns451]

@douglasokc Yes, there is a book in the Bible named Joel.

[douglasokc]

@fireburns451 YOU are correct. I was schooled in the Southern Baptist tradition: we were taught to look down on The assembly of god folks / the pentecostals. They like to elevate crazy cataclysmic events like in ACTS 2 of the Apostles and The Book of Joel, a minor prophet at best. But i still was incorrect....I will not make the error again.

[Surferpro86]

@douglasokc WOW! I see you speak French. Too bad you knowledge lacks in the important areas!

[douglasokc]

@Surferpro86 Did you go to High School, Surferpro86? My humble pie comments were to fireburns541, not you: stating that I got it wrong and why. Your words are nothing more than a non sequitur.  Ça me fait chier........salope/salop!

[bos7272]

Being gay didn't cause Jim's problems, religiously-induced self hatred did. Lack of male role models didn't cause his attraction to males/aversion to vaginas, being gay did. Jim spending his life playing a hetero = a choice he should be left alone to struggle quietly with. If he wants to be a martyr for the religious right, use his fiction to prove their propaganda, and make cash off hateful lies about gay people, he deserves to be outed for the fraud that he is and the criticism won't be kind.

[gerdislouise]

Suppression is not "change", darling. No matter how much you pray, you will always be homosexual. I have had a very happy and productive gay life. I've been with my partner for 28 years and we both have had successful careers and a great life with our families. Alabama is our home and everyone knows us. Perhaps the problem for you was not so much your "gay life", but how you lived it. I think the same could equally be true for a heterosexual.

[cryptosquid]

Girl, please!

[TPAKyle]

What a shame it is that you've convinced yourself that god's original design for you as a gay man was in error. Why do you shun god's plan for you?

You'll pay for your sins in the fires of hell. God his not pleased that you do not trust his judgement in selecting you to live your life helping end society's oppression of the GLBT community.

Repent.

[tn7787]

If this video is of a real experience, then I feel horribly sorry for that girl. That man can never love her the way that she deserves. He also deserves better. Shame on you for letting your beliefs corrupt people and ruin their lives. It makes me so sad to see this.

[WolfOreo]

The definition of homosexuality is: the sexual attraction to people of one's own sex.

You said in the video at 3:20 that you still have a "desire [and] need to connect with men," which is pretty much the definition of homosexuality. Just because you don't act on the desires doesn't make you straight. I guess you could change the meaning of the word, but doesn't the church tell you that changing definitions is wrong?

[fireburns451]

@WolfOreo We as humans generally have a "desire and need to connect with" members of our same gender. This connection is what helps us identify with our gender and does not mean one is homosexual. It is the "sexual desire and behavior" with the same gender that makes one homosexual. Jim has realized that he mistook his desire to connect with members of his same gender as being homosexual and now understands what that "desire" was really all about. Congratulations, Jim!

[Hdtexan]

A Recorded Friends pastor? That's a new one to me. Of course, I haven't really been paying attention to the numerous cults of late. If they've been married since 2009 and still don't have kids, is it really a marriage? And where did he find that shirt? And if he didn't have a card on that fateful $5 day, how could he walk toward the car?

For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to the next episode "Lying for Jeebus" here on CBN.

[Hdtexan]

STILL TOTALLY GAY......AND I WOULD GUESS A GREEDY BOTTOM.

[SuperContinuum]

Yet another example where the Xtianists have destroyed this poor man's life.

[bos7272]

@SuperContinuum This "poor man" is spreading lies and anti-gay bigotry. There may have been a time when he was deserving of our sympathy but he certainly doesn't deserve it now.

[SoyLocoMoco]

Pastor Jim, the tone of misery you feel here is the anger of millions of gay people who are sick and tired of finger wagging moralists and closeted self-hating homosexuals trying to justify their own mental health problems by demonizing gay men and women. If you truly feel happy with living a heterosexual life, that is fine. Frankly, based on science and the history of failure the ex-gay movement has, I doubt it. But you seem like an okay guy, so good luck. Don't demonize gays, please.

[divad838]

Only five bucks? Cheap. 

[GlamazonBarbie]

You are still attracted to men. You are destroying your mental health and happiness trying to adhere to the lies of a story book. My heart is breaking for you that you are denying yourself a life of happiness.

[homerth1555]

Here's the question- what woman would willingly marry an "ex-gay"? How could she ever trust him? Eventually, when no one is around, he will be having sex with men. Just ask Ted Haggard's wife, or the wives of all of those other men who eventually came out of the closet. Just pathetic.

[PastorJimDomen]

Thanks for your uplifting and positive comments. Are you happy? Really? The tones and comments express your misery. I've lived the homosexual life. It was living hell as you have all experienced: loneliness, the fear of HIV, Hep C, just to name a few. If you were content and happy your comments wouldn't reveal such vile and unpleasantness in your hearts. The truth is offensive. But you can change - it's your choice. Choose life - so that you may live. Merry Christmas!

[tn7787]

@PastorJimDomen No, it's not a choice. That's your delusion. There is no "truth" in what you are saying. So no, YOUR truth doesn't hurt at all. I know who I am, and my family accepts me. I'm happy being myself. I'm sorry that you can't be the same way. I hope that you find the way someday. It's so much easier to just let go and be who you are than it is to be this fake person. You know you aren't straight. Deep down, you really know that you're just lying to yourself.

[tn7787]

@PastorJimDomen The only reason HIV is more prevalent is because of people like you. When straight people date, it's always about if you can spend your life with that person. Gays don't have that option because your clan has restricted it. There is no option for a future so why bother? Christians like to compare married straight couples to gay couples but what you should really be comparing is unmarried couples on both sides. The only friends I have with STD's are straight.

[tn7787]

@PastorJimDomen BTW, I have chosen life. I'm alive, obviously. And I am extremely happy. I'm just trying to make other gays feel the same way. You think you're helping, but you really aren't. You're only making things worse.

[gerdislouise]

@PastorJimDomen Again, suppression is not "change". My gay life has not been lonely, fearful or unhappy in any way. Perhaps it was the way you tried to live your "homosexual life"? Could be. Anyone who tramps it up and fears HIV and Hep. C may not be protecting themselves and living a hedonistic life. Funny, I've never had that problem. I hear heterosexuals have the same problem while living a similar life. We are not all sluts, darling.

[SeparateisntEqual]

@PastorJimDomen LOL! Poor thing. So sorry you didn't enjoy being yourself so much that you had to change into someone else to gain approval from your imaginary friend! Happy? I've been thrilled since I got cut out people in my life who are judgmental assholes claiming that my being gay is somehow "broken". Good luck selling your snake oil, douchebag! LOL YES I AM LAUGHING AT HOW PATHETIC YOU ARE!

[LifeintheformofSean]

@PastorJimDomen Your excuses are not valid enough to pretend to be something you're not. Once you accept yourself, the lonliness and the fear disappear. By the way, it is also possible for Heterosexuals to get HIV and Hep C. Being afraid of that because you're gay is IGNORANCE! You can lie to yourself all you want, but deep down, your desire and attraction to men will never go away. You are a sad individual because you will never experience true love with yourself or anyone else.

[rAinBowSaviour]

@PastorJimDomen

Shame! You have_chosen_to live in fear? lol

Remember: Luke 17:33

[mixolydian100]

@PastorJimDomen Am I happy? You bet-- ever since coming out, accepting myself for who I am, and realizing that homosexuality is not a sin nor is something to be ashamed of. Living in denial and self hatred is not happy nor healthy, nor is it masculine. A true man accepts himself and his responsibilities without cowering before some deity. I'd suggest you do the same. Please, do your good wife a favor.

[going5hole]

He was gay, is gay, and always will be gay... much like the church has been evil, is evil, and will always be evil.

[sipeleska]

This is the saddest case I've seen for some time; the poor man has completely deceived himself; and brought god into the picture. Honey, get over yourself, go find a nice man. Very sad that the "wife" bought into this fraud, too.

[hbfarker]

He might want to Google search Pastor Jim Swilley. Pretending to be straight, doesn't make you straight.

[raisinhead2]

A Pastor who lies, Oxymoron.

[drunkenbluto]

Still totally gay & always will be.  Accept it dude & move on.