How To Approach A Guy And Initiate A Conversation

[565michelle]

@loveposey28 LMFAO

[TwistedFirestarterXV]

O_O identicle cars lol MOTORCYCLE

[cheekymokeyxxx]

Brilliant there needs to be more guys like u!

[danucal1984]

You're adorable...*drops handkerchief*

[ASTGhosts]

HOW DARE YOU SAY THOSE SECRETS!! YOU ARE NO LONGER A GUY!!! YOU ARE NOW A HERM, CUZ YOU NOT A GUY ANYMORE`

[NewBerri1]

@ASTGhosts :D

[nodog26]

this man is serious business.

[larathelizard]

girls need to grow balls. nuf said

[MissStrawberrySweet]

@larathelizard I'm pretty sure guys don't want girls with balls.... ;)

[averunks]

You are lovely :)

[youngstunnerslol]

thumbs up if your a guy watching this?

[Smiley88908]

I have failed at all of these tips :( I am just too shy. I know that these tips work, but not for extremely shy people like me. But at least now I know why I messed up with this one guy I liked. Poor guy, probably thought I hated him

[lennic95]

@MHLifestyle What do I do if the boy I like is already quite friendly with me? I was think of just going up to him and telling him I like him and leaving the ball in his court. Is this too much pressure even if I say something like "it's up to you"? Please answer :)

[TinaB1990]

One question: do you ever have any of these seminars in Toronto???

[bobslifeanimation]

@Wesley95501 if you don't ever try you'll never know:) and you wont be successful until you've had a little falls

[goodgirlcat]

Good tips..I need to work on smiling caz making eye contact without it seems to creep guys out-its hard to do a closed mouth smile with braces....nowadays guys have stopped hitting on me but the good news is my type of guys look at me more and sometimes make eye contact but don't say anything :\

I've tried asking for the time and that's the only time I've initiated convo with a total stranger that was a guy and 2 out of 3 the cute/good looking guy responded-the one time he ignored me.

[utauaya]

Thank you!!! I have this guy that I like a lot. He goes to the same school as me, but he's in highschool and I'm in middle school. He's also a transfer student, and he will be leveing at the end of the year... I haven't made any moves yet but I will try this. Wish me luck! I think I will need it... I have no dateing experience and I'm realy realy shy. But I have to try because I realy like him and I don't want to lose him forever when he goes back.... thank you for the vidio! Wish me luck!!

[unknownlove19]

is that a wedding ring?

[FallenforEric]

@unknownlove19 The ring is on his right hand. Wedding ring goes on the left hand ;)

[Ameliaofvolterra]

in europe the weddiing band is on the opposite hand

[twiliteluvar]

@FallenforEric apparently in Europe, the wedding band goes on the right hand

[loveposey28]

You're hot. That is all.

[ChestOnFire]

Interesting I do all these things, also I think you could put on a lil weight

[Moniker912]

you should make a video teaching men how to not be afraid of strong women!!

[ChestOnFire]

@Moniker912 And men are a bit NEEDY today, they expect a woman to chase them, call them everyday, and text them every hour, and complain that she never calls him not even to make sure he got home ok. I have way too many Guys like this. I am suspecting This is how ALL MEN ARE today

[taywwei]

i wish i watched this video 20 days ago. i'm left with 4 more days at work (i'm a part time worker and i told my boss i'm quitting)

[Wesley95501]

I'm a guy but, I don't want to go first because I'm scared to fail. And I don't like failure I like success instead.

[123rubychic]

What if there's a guy that you go to school with , want to start a conversation with and when you ask him a simple question just so he can't talk to you he just gives you a one word answer. How do you get him to talk to you

[latinamorena0503]

@123rubychic Thats exactly my problem!

[drn2tn]

@123rubychic I have the same problem. I ask a bunch of questions trying to get a conversation started and barely get any answers. My only advice is, try to avoid yes or no questions!

[keshaiscool10]

Will you marry me?

[CyrineBadGirl]

soo hot *___* 

[pokadotguitar92x]

im subscribing to you coz you're FIT :D actually you're stuff is really good and that's probably 50% of the reason why im subscribing but wow you're hot!

[TheEvesmiles]

This advice is how to get a shy guy to talk to you...and naturally I dont like shy guys mainly because I am not shy...if I like a guy I go up to him and say hey do you dance.. or hey let me show you how to dance. Maybe because I am latina, It comes out naturally like that. But Im gonna try out this new approach maybe I will meet a NICE SHY GUY like this English guy.

[HazelBeann]

what do you do if ur just around town?? :S

[wbrittany69]

He's good

[totalgoofchick]

Ah London :-)

[TheGreenHoodieGirl]

Dear Youtube, it has come to my attention that there is a "dislike" button on this video. Please correct this mistake immediately before someone misses the like button. Thank you.

[MsColochis]

What if you're in a school!?!?!?!

[MsColochis]

1:08 sooo funny!

[JaayFonde]

2:49...so adorable =)

[ghizgrrl]

the question isn't how to get the guy... it's how do I get Matthew Hussey!

[jdukes1000]

@ghizgrrl Lol I know he's hot! love that British accent and those gorgeous eyes. Definitely boyfriend material!! <3

[Forever272010]

I don't know why...when a guy shows interest in me, he seems to hesitate to approach me...this happens a lot!! May be my body language is weird? I need to learn to give hints that I am approachable?

[lovelyloquita]

+391234567890 I'm just leaving my phone number on youtube, it has nothing to do with u... but I would be glad to let u call me and make the first move... :D

[Forever272010]

@lovelyloquita good for you!

[Jennytwchung]

love your accent!

[cHiKaDiNg58]

BUT I'M SCARED OF GUYS! D8

[carolupy2]

Your voice sounds like Dan Radcliffe's.

[TheAgy777]

@carolupy2 so does his look

[8ghazale8]

What if there is no one attractive around me ?!!

[laskecup123]

hey handsome <3

[carolina78282]

this is soooooooooo helpful!!

[olini1989]

more tips please...eye condact and smile..yes, i did this but nothing really happened!!! guys are weird!!ahahah :P

[lilkk007]

hes brilliant!



[purplepaintpot]

namnamnam... You're like chocolate to my eyes :O

[TheXxbabexx01]

I alwayyss smilee when I talk to the quyy I likee. ! :D

[freakdigs]

Oooh.. your hot.



[loveposey28]

you are so so so hot... marry me? would you consider dating a 15 year old??

[itsnotalwaysyou]

@loveposey28 hmmm...three more years?

[loveposey28]

@itsnotalwaysyou i was 15 when i wrote that! i turned 16 back in october so more like 2 more years ;)

[skaterclare]

ur a very good public speaker like no stuttering what so ever

[goombasmasher1]

ur hot.....

[edwinandres01]

@omghallerox1 Hey money doesn't fall from the sky! so you better take a chance or keep waiting

[KEIbeBAD]

Well I like this guy in my eighth grade class. You know that age group is a little immature mostly boys,no offence. But when he sees I'm bored and I'm just sitting there, he will say my name like this "hey keiyana, uh,keikei." then I look at him and laugh with a smile and look back at the teacher. I'll notice at the corner of my eye he stares at me"aww":) we make eye contact a lot and it's only the second day of school. I'll try walking up to him when he's bored and say hi and talk but I'm real

[iam2cuteable]

what if he doesnt start convo after you say something non committal?

[mattyrulz13]

@iam2cuteable well then hes jst not interested duh xD

[FM897]

Are you aware that you bite your lip at the end of every video? Stop that, sexy ;)

[MaximilianMontesa]

@FM897 I checked. Hahaha

[multikyari]

@FM897 i say he does that on purpose to seems sexy cos he knows he's hot!!..naughty boy!!

[S3r1alN0]

@nanileke if you were seeing this guy everywhere I don't think itd be awkward to strike a conversation when you guys come face to face (: make it as casual as possible, even if he's attractive he's still just another human being

[S3r1alN0]

@tilorb nope he's single, I've hung out with him several times after this though

[raindrops94]

Love you! 

[trin1721]

i'm a guy, and i've watched a few of this guy's videos now. he is pretty much 100% right in everything he says.

[LauraLu272]

@trin1721 good to know

[S3r1alN0]

I have a predicament. I recently saw some old family friends and the boy that I grew up with isn't a boy anymore, he's very attractive! We ended up chatting for a little before I left but we did exchange numbers. Since I felt an attraction to him, I decided to make the first moves in texting him but got ignored both times (obviously spaced out timewise). He then told me online that he hates texting cos he gets so busy then went offline without any notice... Rejection

[tilorb]

@S3r1alN0 maybe he has a girlfriend

[893126509]

cool environment



[nanileke]

(continued 3)i want to go into his restaurant and get his attention but i dont know how to because i am so self consious and i literally melt when he smiles at me -_______- why must this be so hard?? hahah

[nanileke]

(continued 2)a week before the semester ended i told myself that i NEEDED to talk to him and while waiting for the elevator he turned around and smiled and i got lost in it, i sounded like i was giving a speech when i spoke to him and my voice was shaky and weak. then there was an awkward silence and i looked at my phone and pretended to take a phone call to get out of the silence.

[nanileke]

not only are you genuinely attractive, but you're clearly educated too :) your videos are awesome and so informative i just wish i had the balls to do the things you say. i've been 'eyeing', so to speak, this guy that was in my class and seemed to bump into him everywhere. he is MORE than out of my league and i feel like he thinks im stalking him since i literally see him everywhere, i even went to the restaurant that he worked at without knowing.

[jbcatclaw]

i like your advice make another video !

[ChristopherAngelies]

thats smart trick

to lure them

haha nice trick

[1finnigin]

your bang on with the advice lol.. I giggled when you mentioned about eye contact and smiling at the same time. Ive done that before and wow is it ever fun hehe.. thats what makes flirting so much later on. I would make eye contact with someone I liked from my work. and the geting closer works too.. hahahah elevator .. bumping into him and acting casual about it.. again eye contact and smiling.. its like playing tag as a kid. :P next thing i knew.. he did it right back to me :P that was hot

[LamaSword1]

You are so cute :D

thank you for the advice ^^

[blondsoph77]

Such a great speaker - I can listen all day! And I agree about the accent, North London or Hertfordshire maybe? Fit.

[MoviesYourWay]

@blondsoph77 I'd say he sounds a bit from Kent.

[KatiePie122333]

If you want to reject a guy, how do you do it? I'm too nice of a person...plus, if guy ask me out, I wanna say no bcuz I don't have experience on dating. I'm only 12. Plus I think guys ask me out 4 a joke or something...I'm kinda a nerd(even though my friend said I don't look like 1)

[HopeUnquenchable]

@KatiePie122333 Just give an apologetic look and say, "I'm sorry, but I'm only 12; I don't date." Or if it's someone you're interested in, but you don't feel ready to date, you might say, "I'd like to, but I'm only 12; I'm not ready for dating yet."

I'm guessing you look mature for your age, and your friend is probably right about your looks; they ask you out because they find you attractive.

[vaporized1000]

so not true i get so turned on when a girl starts the conversation

[wastingmytimeonline]

i love you and your advice and your accent and your face. 

[videomaster411]

@wastingmytimeonline lolol