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  • Really great video, I found this on a site called DatingTipsAdvicenet. I bought a program called (Get My Ex Back). Great information. I hope it works.

  • Key point GROWTH. Don't make the same mistakes twice.

  • My ex told me she loved me yesterday nd it was all good nd stuff. Then today I texted her with a good morning babe and then she replied "dnt txt me or call me again" and I was like "why" and then she told me that she has a new bf and she was with him this morning and . nd her bf told her to tell me not to txt or call her anymore and she did because she REALLY LIKES HIM. I really want her back i've done the no contact thing but its hard i need advice!

  • Hey they are your ex for a reason. Why would you want them back?!?!?! Bahah

  • These guys are screwed... they basically say "your fucked up sorry move on you moron"  These two are negative people... they just give up.. they are like your ex that gave up on the relationship and did not want to work it out. Do you really want these kind of people for advice?

  • I dont get your answers? Ummm I don't think you even undrestood the question it seems like you havent even been in a breaking uo situation... you have to put youself in there situation im never coming back to this site

  • i dont understand how you can just be friendss with ur ex .

  • @TheKndBShow me either me and my ex boyfriend just broke up and he was cheating he was dating me and another girl at the same time

  • u guys r dumb as fuck... someone with down syndrome can answer yese better... I bet that fag to the left that if his ugly ass girl broke up with him he's cry like a little bitch and beg till he got fisted in the ass... u guys r dumb as fuck.... dont no jack shit...b friends with an ex?? haha wtf r u snorting heroin u big fat peice of shit? and ur dumb cubt to the right needs to suck a fat dick

  • These two have zero compassion.........

  • Don't make contact with the ex. She will come back if she wants you. I will warn you it will bother you down the road and haunt you if you let it.

  • Some vacuous cunt doesn't appreciate you?  Why on earth would you want that back? Do much better next time. Isn't this obvious?

  • Aren't these the people that TALK A LOT ABOUT SEX?

  • you guys seem like you dont know what the hell you are talking about

  • why the two of you don't go suck your mothers! fucking jackasses

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  • Not really good advice on how to get an ex girlfriend back. There are actually tactics that do work, and they didn't list any of them so they obviously don't know.

  • why would i want her back thats my question

  • how very NON informative what a waste of 2 minutes

  • please dont fall for these ads on youtube. to get real advice check out my page. It is for GIRLS ONLY on how to get your ex boyfriend back. Thanks

  • Never be friends with someone your have feeling for this is horrible advice.

  • useless: they don't seem to even accept that people can reunite due to how intimacy really works

  • this doesnt help a lot

  • this advice is not acceptable

  • yup not the best advice, espeically when you have get your ex back advice on the next video

  • Really people the best thing to do when you get your heart broken is to first evaluate WHO YOUR EX IS & WHO YOU ARE!!! not ALL advice works for ALL people.... yes the core dna of men & women are usually built very similar across the board but you have to evaluate the upbringing & surroundings of the person as well...for example.it's tough to break out of an abusive relationship with someone who was raised in a violent home (this is just an example.. there r def many exceptions of course)

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  • they don't even answer the questions.. what kind of advice is this supossed to be? You two have eachother already, just because others are sad about a relationship, you don't just say "move on" seriously, whats wrong with you two?!

  • In personal relationships we attract specific people who help us work out our karmic debt. Pay close attention to the issues with that person- those are exact lessons you have to learn otherwise same situation/relationship will keep on repeating..unless you learn that karmic lesson. Some lessons are very hard, yes. One has to be clear on what he has to work on-then forgive, let it go and move on.

  • Wow you guys are not that good. for real i have been with my girl for 11 years and she just split but yea i guess your pointless jabber will help.

  • @nachoKamacho666 ah just go bang her firends bud you will feel better and she will feel like a loser and you can laugh in her face. best way to get over somone is under somone else

  • pointless!!!!!!!!

  • piontless

  • The less you care; the more she'll come to you and

    The more you're focused and on your relationship; the more she''ll stay away from you

  • Fuckin retards. 

  • you two are fucking retarded and pointless

  • Just play

    'Aint Never' by eyesOFlife

    she'll fall for you quick..

    trust me, it works

  • LOOOOOOOOOOOL THEY DONT ANSWER QUSTIONS

  • When you love someone, it's not about the energry kay! it's about the effort that you give to prove that you love the person not for granted! You have to do whatever you can to prove it. Show the person that it's really worth second chance. Love is NOT hello-i-love-you-breakup-and-m­oveon. You gotta be strong and admit your mistake if you made them and prove yourself.

    Dan and Jenn, don't give advice like that. someone will probably kill himself after listening to this. Heartless speach.

  • nah fuck her,,, over the bitch in 3 days lmfao !

  • the fuckin asnwere is in 1:20 move on jack ass love is never a waste u learn fom ur mistakes

  • Dumb answer, I bet they have had no experience in this matter

  • I believe there are several 4 stages to a broken heart, but the first phase is the hardest. 1. It is the Grieving Phase - This is when you have had a part of you die inside and feel like your entire world is coming apart. It is when you make all the mistakes of wanting to get back together with your lost love. The text messages, phone calls, even worse drunken phone calls, or the in person humiliation of yourself. email me at jaake189 on aol for the rest of my letter. It's free. Just helping.

  • PISH

  • So the answer is to move on? This person asked "how do I get my girlfriend back!". I lost the woman of my dreams, and I want her back desperately. I dont want to "move on". How about a video on "how to get your ex BACK". Check out some of the other videos on You Tube for "real advice". T.W. Jackson for instance has some good videos that will actually "help" you!

  • People are complaining that you're "not answering the question." They need to get a grip, some questions are universally unanswerable. That's just the way things are.

  • Good points! And I think it's hard to know exactly how to approach a delicate break-up situation because just saying and doing the right things at the right times can be tricky to figure out....Check out my channel!

  • yeah ok thats all good. im talking with my ex and the onvos are nice and everything and she does miss me. she said that i want you to care and maybe one day ;) so how to work on this situation? were talking and we still love eachother but i need to do something??

  • where's the answer???

    change the title of this vid

  • WTF is this? This video is supposed to give advice, but instead they just flat out say "they don't know." Was this a joke? This was a waste of 2 minutes of my life, and that was two minutes I COULD have been using to win my baby back.

    >:/

  • god u guys never answer the question at all, not even a few helpful tips

  • god u guys never answer the question at all, not even a few helpful tips

  • god u guys never answer the question at all, not even a few helpful tips

  • awful advice

  • up i ve tekst her for several times bt she dsnt answr,,we all attend the same school and i always see her wit him,i rlly lve her and i wnt her bck but i dnt know how?help me please

  • @ricadony Buddy, i faced the same prob, lately, 1st of all stop calling or contacting her,wait for 3-4 weeks, during this time show her that u r happy without her and the break up shit was for gud, 2nd play chill and confidently and dont neglect her, be a gentleman, hang out wid ur friends and make them ur weapon for jealousing her,(girls will do fine).

  • @ricadony 3rd wait for her call coz after 3 or 4 weeks she will remember the fun time she had wid u, if she calls thn try not to discuss or argue abt the past, remember the fun u guys had.

    if she does not calls, then wait for long or just leave her, think that she does'nt deserves ur love....i'll suggest u to read "Ex2 by matt huston" its gud....u'll learn much frm it....take care buddy, all the very best....

  • awful advice

  • @samtron77v They explained it really bad but this is NOT awful advice. The basic message is: Don't count on it! Concentrate on something else as she may not come back. Move on!

    People don't like to hear that cuz they don't want to face the truth. Not hearing what you want is totally different than receiving bad advice.

  • NEVER wish for the return of an ex. It will only result in the previous status quo. Kick that bitch to the curb with the rest of the trash. That's what women do. Men should heed my advice. Just like Gen. Sherman's March to the Sea. Plow through every obstacle until you've conquered every female in your path.

  • @PutSome5tankOnIt - i sort of agree, you should never go back simply becouse it didnt work, she left you becouse she lost interest...everyone thinks of some hollywood film where they get back together and it all works out, they dont hear about the millions who did and it just got worse...cut her out of your life and let the pain do its job by reminding you what to look out for next time, and if you see problems start with a new g.freind get rid of her before she gets rid of you....

  • @Elcristoph Sometimes people get back together...moving on is not always the answer

  • I love to watch this video time to time! Because you learn something!!!

  • this is so true, learn from ur faults. alltho i would like to have her back but hey lets find some one new and get good at it

  • Dude, why would you want that stink ho back in your life. I live by this motto:

    Live Fast

    Run Hard

    Never look Back

  • you forgot DIE YOUNG lol

  • @TheMastaPlan

    God hasn't wanted me yet!

  • I think you're thinking Alkaline Trio, Live Young, Die Fast.

  • well that info from this video was shit

  • Dont wait around dude your only waisting your own time. Shes off banging some guy that shes happy with whiley your sitting in your owe pool of sarrow!

  • @socoolscienceshow

    so freaking true just kick the slutty bitch right in the ass! :))

  • find a real job xD u suck

  • i need help. ok here it goes......... my boyfriend is really not acting like a boyfriend but i still love him. do yall think i should break up or make up?

  • idk...

  • ok this is wat i have to say. my girlfrend and i broke up yesterday and shes likeing anouther guy whos 6 years older than her and weve been dating for 2 years........

    ok, if u truly love him you definatly shouldnt break up and by true love i mean u would litterly die for them. then u should work it out. but heres the hard part, HOW?

  • well believe it or not if u think hes changed u more than likely have to which is not always a bad thing but u cant expect him to change if u dont do it urself. raise ur energy and he should do the same i hope this helps. reply if u need more help

  • dump his ass

  • they dont answer the fucking question pointless wankers.

  • @brenco2 they never do

  • this pair are about as much use as a chocolate teapot!

  • That dude looks so pussy whipped. I'm sorry I just had to comment on that. Sensitive New Age Guys ugh.

  • Just 3 words "never give up"

  • im still in love with my ex what can i do to tell him and mabey get back what we had we wer togerther for 3 weeks and its soo complacated weer still freinds but i wana be ,ore what do i do ?? please right back

  • This is TOTALLY right wing from the question,,,, The question was how to get her back... You 2 are just rambling about moving on. wT-F

  • I just broke up with my boyfriend a while ago our relationship is on and off...hes not committed and wants to play the field.... he just told me he doesnt want to even be friends anymore. we were friends before we went out. i feel some seriuos sparks but i dont know if he does too. i tried to let it go but i cant "the heart wants what it wants" Can you help me?..

  • Obey the rules. Play the game. Back off from her, give her some space, don't beg or be upset, give it some room then show her what she's missing out on by being great fun, the more you try to push to get the relationship back the more you push her away. Just step back and be awesome. The only way to get her back is to make her chase you.

  • nice...but bro and too anyone who is wondering "how can i make her chase me" there is a very deep psychological approach to that...contact me for more info...its not too late trust me ppl

  • ok how?

  • you right..im in the same position can u give me some more advice

  • i am never going to move on because i don't have any time to do that because does 2 yrs isen't enoff time.

  • im 19, ive been with the same girl for about 2years... my parents are going through a nasty devorce so i've been having to stay home to help keep my 6year old sister sane, and i work all weekend. my girl's depresion lvls have sky rocketed and because of things at home i havent been able to go see her most of the summer. she broke up with me saying we may have a 2nd chance later down the road, but i feel like i'm loosing the battle... i was going to prepose soon. what can i do to help myself?

  • don't beg her or try to get her back. Pretend u're ok with the breakup. Try to forget her. Delete all of her pictures and messages and delete her from your email contacts. Do not be available to her. Don't be there when she needs u or wants to talk to u. Make her miss u. The more absent u are. The more she'll think about u. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she just broke up with me about a week ago, so u and I are in the same situation buddy.

  • just have confidence and improve your own life! believe that your ex will come back to you and they will! if you wasnt the one then...MAKE YOURSELF THE ONE. if you really want somone you will be willing to put the effort in.. go to the gym everyday get your hair done nice get a tan etc! belive that love will come back to you.

  • 3/10 on my scale, u folks aint all that helpful

  • 0/10 you shouldnt get back with your ex.

  • wrong, we back together n supprisingly things r better, aint i lucky

  • eeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhh this dint help me at all?

  • for me i'm never moving on and my relationship with my girl was not stupi or dumb because she helped open my heart and made me more wiser and kinder.

  • It's damn hard being friends with your ex because you will always feel feelings or be confronted when you see her/him again. You think by staying friends you wil have someone on the side if your new relation is going wrong, that she/he will be good for you for some reason in your life or that the relationship will grow again. Most of the time this won't work because love has to come from both sides. Just listen and talk to each other very good about this before deciding what you'll do.

  • i agree with yigoah

  • my gf brcak up with me july3,2009

    and it take year to ge a gf and the fist gf i had e i had dream sex

    and lots and lots of girls thonk am am luge grut nuse am makeing it short and say aver bad say in the word you can call someone

  • join the club buddy my ex is a bitch, she wants me back but when she gets drunk i usually ignore her or throw eggs at her

  • Yes, I agree with everyone else, you should stop peddling yourselves as relationship helpers. You didn't give any good advice for him at all

  • You can get an ex back no matter what - but sometimes you have to get clever. If you can't even get an ex to return your calls, there is still an answer. My new video takes you through it... (click my username)

  • who cares about that dumb bitch. find another. bitches are stupid especially american ones. you idiots give them the power. fuck that. take the power back. smoke some weed and then you will see.

  • PUA? immoral... at least for me..

  • u sir are a genius

  • 100 percent agreed .. as a European born individual who grew up in America with some form of family value and tradition all i've witnessed american bitches do are smoke cigarettes, get sloppy drunk at parties and complain about cleaning the house for there families sake .. you dont deserve any negatives for that comment the ones that gave you negatives are just heart broken losers who think the world won't offer anything because they cant step out of the computer room

  • This is depressing advice. If you are absolutely heartbroken, the best thing to do is not talk to the other person, because being friends with them just after breaking up will remind you of what you used to have together. It takes time to heal before you decide to approach them as "just friends" If you can't do that, the best thing to do is let go. There are 6.5 billion people on earth, and the chances are; there is someone even more amazing out there. ; )

  • u guys suck. stop looking at a relationship from a docs point of view or from a psychiatrists point of view.. put yourself in the persons shoes who did the break up and give advice stemming from there. man im gonna start makin my own vids

  • do that.... then I'll see if you're really better...

  • shit

  • u guys are stupid no help

  • seriously didnt help? just said to move on?

  • RIGHT! embrace it!

  • didnt help me at all

  • I wanna smack the smile off dudes face!

  • This video is useless. These two hosts are simply dumb. Please take this video off. This man and woman are really, really stupid.

  • why would you want her back.. I move on fast with a cold hart.. get a new if she dump you.. last 8years I have was singel like 40days in total, and I had 3girlfriends.. one even tried to get me back after I had moved on... 7day later.lol! dont now why I didnt go back to her she was hot.. cheated on my exgirl with her 2times in my car... my exgirl cheated on me 2 days after we fell in "love" she kiss a guy.. a freind of her told me 4year later when we broke up. my wife now lol!!

  • They should change the title of the video to "Suggestions on getting over your ex" Not "How Can I Get My Ex Back?"

  • The "staying friends" advice is silly. If you are heartbroken, cut off ALL contact until you are completely healed. It's only then that friendship is possible.

  • Very good advice!

  • good as advice u shud post a blog

  • @ech4848 Word.

  • go bang her sister, cousin, and/or best friend, that'll show the skanky ho to not take you back.

  • If you want your ex back you can go to my channel it tells you how!

  • "How do I get me ex back?" Why would you want her? Never look back...

  • This is the worst advice ever. you two are fucking idiots. dan and jenn. nobodys just trying to get some you tube attention. you dont know shit about anything. if anyone is having problems with an ex and wants to get some good advice go to. matt hudson: get your ex girlfriend back. or tw jackson: the magic of making up. they will help im in the process right now my ex left me a month ago and its very fucking depressing. this did not help. fuck you dan & jenn.

  • Hahaha...HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!

  • u didnt answer the question bitch

  • you know when you love someone you can never get over that person youre first love scars your heart. i loved someone when i was 15 and went out for 1 year and now im 29 and married hes still in my mind even though i dated 7 guys between me and my current im still hurt

  • What he needs to do is do the little changes...go out with friends and show that his not really bothered and she lost at the end..its easy to say its over but time will come and she will wish she could have him back...he just has to play it down and cool.

  • that is so fucking easier said than done

  • You're girlfriend left you, you're never going to be friends with her, and you don't need to take that crap. Just move on, try to find someone new (or not, whatever you feel like), and just try to enjoy life while knowing that somewhere your ex is miserable because she threw away her chance at having a great guy like you.

  • Your comment is awesome

    I totaly agree with you man

    But I think it depends on the girl and on you wether you can or cannot be friends with your ex

    Personnaly I was never able to do it

    Well...I never stayed close friends

    I did keep some sort of relationship with one girl after breaking up with her...but still, we never became close friends

  • It would be ideal if you could be friends with your ex, but I don't think I'd be cool with the knowledge that some other guy's banging MY girl. :P *lol*

  • ahah you're absolutely right man

  • i dig u...but hey its like so many other girls out there jus move on, i still talk 2 1 of my exes...but i mean its a different situation

  • This made me realise so much about my past relationship. Thanks much for the advice :)

  • why does dan when talking always look for jennifers approval. He looks at her and she will nod. But he is constantly trying to make eye contact with her when speaking

  • Use punctuation and capital letters next time, Miko7778.

    BTW, I love me some Dan and Jenn!!

  • wow you'er right

  • ;-)

  • because a second opinion is always nice

  • that is true but once you notice it, it starts to become a little annoying.

  • i believe she will not come back Bcuz u r selly and idiot ,u should put her in ur heart NOW u missed her paster

  • stay friends? Bwaha! Never works.. maybe for one but not both. Or maybe after a few months when both parts have moved on..

  • I definitely agree that it's a big challenge and very rare that BOTH people are able to handle it.

  • wow exactly what happened to me...i think. just try contacting her and tell her where you went wrong....apologize.

  • :-) Our only business is AskDanAndJennifer which is an advice column and online magazine.

  • Way to go guys, very good advice.

  • what's your jobs other than give great advice?

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