I am sure you're not the only African American who believes this, there are many men I know who say these things, but I think many of them don't speak out against mainstream trends..
But thank you, you made an effort to voice out your opinions about it and standing against mainstream and the majority.
Thank You, your video is on point. I especially like what you said about "us getting to know our hair." I found this to be true in my case over the years since I went natural. But first I had to transition mentally (and am still doing so on many levels) where I truly began to LOVE and UNDERSTAND my hair and its uniqueness. I found that my hair requires very little products to maintain it (all of which are hand made & mostly organic). Therefore, I am no longer a product junkie/product slave.
We have to ask ourselves when we our in the beauty supplies what are we really trying to achieve with our natural hair? Our we still trying to get it to look shiny? because our hair isn't supposed to be shiny (please do the research if you don't believe me, I don't have space to explain it). Yes, our hair should have a healthy sheen to it. Our we trying to stretch the natural coil pattern (for those of you who who have tightly coiled /kinky hair) to make it appear to be Jheri Curl Curly?
Blacks need a new goal, a new aspiration to look to. Blacks need their minds reprogrammed. Natural hair is ALWAYS better. People with natural hair act differently.
Q: When u said that u're a vegetarian u reeled a list of names of foods that don't have meat! R u a vegetarian or have you given up junk food? I was just wondering because I was a bit confused by that comment
This was nicely said....thank you for taking the time to express yourself. You did a really nice job explaining what many has been trying to say all along. (Sorry for commenting so late...I just ran across this video.)
ive had a black male tell me and several others that he would never even if the person was beautiful date a black girl wih her natural kinky afrocentric hair which to me is a damnn shammee but the reality of how alot of not only black males but women as well feel.
Great video I'm newly natural and I was shocked by some of the comments I receive negatively so far all black folk. Another issue with the black community is the whole light skinned dark skinned thing. I'm light skinned and grew up feeling I had to prove my blackness!
First you're a beautiful man, second....thank you. Third, I went natural and my hair has never grown faster. People tell me "girrrrl, you need a perm." I tell them that they need some love.
Sistahs rarely hear the love for our natural hair, &we they do they put that willie lynch chip in it good hair/bad hair the mental slavery of self hatred of our own temples. Thanks for posting.I chose to see life though why would I, not why not, to each it's own, but I really get degrading & backhand so called compliments about my natural hair, but I've gotten used to it. Many blk men get on utube&claim blk wom should go natural, but in real life, they gravitate to weaves/perms,I believe U,hotep
Anyway little girl's need daddy's too and I had one (passed away 6 yrs ago) and he was light skinned with green eyes and I have never heard no black nonsense coming out of his mouth and he would crush all those who tried to ask him or say that he was mixed with anything. He used to tell them that he had a blue-black uncle with blue eyes and that's where he got it! I love that about my dad he just wasn't the type of man to ever deny his own peeps and I guess that's why I'm so deeply rooted.Peace.
An educated African American male, that appreciates the black women in her natural state is love. I wish more male thought the way you do. Keep making your videos... We (as a community) need reform.
It has become a prioroity for me and necessacity like you said and i already have a job! im quitting this hair commitment and committing to myself, thanks for your thoughts king..
well said and yes i'm going natural i have thought about doing this for about a month now and i had to do some research so yeah i gotta do it.. ps love the lips
I'm in love,so eloquent bless you. A lot of women aren't aware black men find natural hair sexy,it's not the stereotypical vixen hot mama look the chemicaly or naturaly straight women tend to get. You really make a difference to me.
why do people wear dentures? lol. very well put bro. its crazy to me. when i bring up the subject to people sometimes i get the wackest excuse that black women are "versatile."that shit is ruining sistas hair. alot of them have tapered perms. sistas used to press their hair but now they're just ruining it by perming it. blaqueindigo made another point that i never though about. you have to use gloves to apply a perm. if i had a perm i know they'd look at me crazy. likewise. lol. good vid. peace!
Am I wrong? Locks require physical and most often times, permanent alteration to your hair. I do agree that having locs is way better than getting a perm though...
Help me understand...I can understand the physical part of it but what permanent alterations are done with your locks??...I guess one could say that having "manicured" locs are not natural but freefrom locs are very natural and requires no product or twisting.
thank you brotha............ I am so glad to see a black man supporting the natural movement. I hope to meet more men like you after my big chop! I think people who believe in going natural can be pushy sometimes. I try not to and I mostly just share simple logic with them. This doesn't occur anywhere else in nature, so there has to be a man-made reason why we do it. That reason is simply because we are not taught how to love and care for our natural hair. So we must not be too lazy to learn
i liked ur video...i'm transitioning right now and plan to cut off all my permed hair during the summer...i think the whole process of growing out my hair and using natural/organic products has been really fun...i used to use a flat iron all the time in the past, but havent even felt the desire to use one in months now that i found i love playing with my curly roots...its amazing how much u develop by going natural...and by the way u have amazing lips.
Congratulations on your choice to go natural. I have been natural for a 3 years now and I love it! I use natural/organic products too and my hair has thanked me for it my growing long, strong and healthy. I flat iron 2x a year to see my length straight and trim. Too much heat is damaging. I keep it on a low setting.
I've been natural 6 mos n love how my self esteem boost bcuz of it. It's always nice hearing this from our black men I loved how while sharing ur opinion u didnt bash women for relaxing Many of us need to re educated ourselves concerning natural hair At least we know u would raise ur children to love their hair. Many may not say it but by getting relaxers at a young age tells kids that there is something wrong and this is how we "FIX"it. NAtural hair doesnt need 2 b fixed but understood. G8t vid
this was such a good video and I LOVE hearing the male perspective, even though I was slightly distracted b/c you are so freakin sexy...I just kept lookin at your lips and wondering how they would...OK...my bad...but good point though!
gurl I must admit I was thinking the same thing(hee hee..oh I'm sorry renceferd I know this is a serious format but dayum u r 2 cute. If I've upset ya..come talk to Mama bout it hunny
Thank you! Great video I love my natural hair and it is very easy to manage and I can get it any way I want from a fro to straight. As a brother I really appreciate your encouraging words. Love your hair!
To be honest a lot of black girls really shouldn't be getting relaxers put in their head at an early age like that. That's why a lot are baldheaded. It's sad. Black women need to learn how to take care of their natural texture anyway. But yet some have the nerve to be jealous of girls who have long natural hair. I read where this mixed girl was talking about how the baldhead girls be telling her to cut her hair. Is that not jealousy or what?
I agree 100%, no little girl under the age of 18 should have a perm even if she wants it. They should be educated on the beauty and the uniqueness of it and let them make that decision on there own, but then if there parents dont think that way then they wont either.
I agree with both of you, I got my hair relaxed at 12 and it was not my mothers influence it was mine. It was a combination of frustration because my mother did not like doing my hair and it was a painfull process and I was getting peer pressure from my neighbors. Long story short, my mid back natural hair quickly became shoulder length dry, broken raggetdy mess of a head. The neighborhood kids didn't like me without or with a relaxer. Thank goodness I am natural and free.
My sister got her hair relaxed when she was like 7 or 8 and after my mom saw how her hair started falling out she decided not to perm mine...and i've been natural ever since. The point is it starts with the grownups. We need to educate adults now about the beauty of their natural hair so that value or idea can perpetuate itself within our communities.
Thanks! I needed to hear that. I have cut my hair off and started over with the natural hair. I am learning to love it, and I have had some negative comments. You made some wonderful points and it is well said. ..lol and you are very handsome and i caught myself looking at your lips too..LOLOL
I love this vid and ur delivery. I just watched ur mental slavery vid also. You made some very good points. you got me, lol, I'll subscribe. Oh I checked out ur channel, like ur music choices(wink wink ima trini/amer)
I'm sorry but the whole time you were expressing yourself I couldn't stop looking at your beautiful lips.You are attractive and intelligent. Keep expressing yourself because I will be back to watch your lips move.:D j/k
its hard doing something for 20 years and quitting something in a month.. Who taught us that permed hair is versatile and natural hair is primitive.. Mind Games. AND WE KNOW ITS NOT YOUR HAIR GIRLFRIEND! we know what horse tail looks like, horse mane, putting it on the back of a short ponytail. We love you black woman, you don't have to do it.
well renceferd u already know ima loc mama lol but i was faithful to relaxers for a long time; since i was 8 all the way to the age of 18...natural hair was a personal choice..im the only one in my family besides my father who has locs..if a woman chooses to perm her hair..then thats her choice ..black women are beautiful regardless but even more in their natural state ..thats all i have 2 say lol
Well I don't see anything wrong with how ppl wear their hair whether it is natural, permed, etc. I just feel that a person's hair is jus an accent to their own personal style. I do get my hair permed . I don't wear weave b/c I feel that my hair is fine the way it is. I have a stylist that helpsz treat my hair and taught me how to treat it on my own too. B/c ppl can go to the extreme and just damage it to the point of no return. So hey, do what ya do is all I can say.
well i am one who does not do the weave its just not me but i get perms n my hair looks great no problem with it. its healthy n i love it but sum ppl go overboard n they do damage their hair u just gotta be careful with those chemicals hey who always said natural was better? :)
Very well said. Women (and men) need to love their natural beauty first. And as long as they have that love for themselves, it okay to wear the weaves and straightened hairstyles. It's only a problem when they hate themselves without it. I teach my children this. I hope others out there do the same. Great post!
u made a good point. but i believe everyone should where there hair da way dey want 2. natural, permed, shaved, dyed...anyway. but this is a good video overall.
Lovely video. I totally agree with your opinions about natural hair and about being a vegetarian. We don't need to be hostile.
Auntkekebaby 1 month ago
Geez, you have some beauftiful features.
luvleelocs22 9 months ago
great vid!
luvinnatural83 11 months ago
You need protein to maintain our natural style of hair.
HappyHookerTV 1 year ago
so goodlooking
thanks4tuningin 1 year ago
thats right.........
shericelinton 1 year ago
I am sure you're not the only African American who believes this, there are many men I know who say these things, but I think many of them don't speak out against mainstream trends..
But thank you, you made an effort to voice out your opinions about it and standing against mainstream and the majority.
Moviesmoveme 1 year ago
Thanks for the video. I also want to say that you have a very beautiful face...damn okay, your sexy (not to be disrespectful)
NachralBrwn 1 year ago
All i could think after i watched your vid was how sad i felt that i dont really know ppl around me who think this way at all.
coffee2luv 1 year ago
Thank You, your video is on point. I especially like what you said about "us getting to know our hair." I found this to be true in my case over the years since I went natural. But first I had to transition mentally (and am still doing so on many levels) where I truly began to LOVE and UNDERSTAND my hair and its uniqueness. I found that my hair requires very little products to maintain it (all of which are hand made & mostly organic). Therefore, I am no longer a product junkie/product slave.
QueenlyOne66 1 year ago
We have to ask ourselves when we our in the beauty supplies what are we really trying to achieve with our natural hair? Our we still trying to get it to look shiny? because our hair isn't supposed to be shiny (please do the research if you don't believe me, I don't have space to explain it). Yes, our hair should have a healthy sheen to it. Our we trying to stretch the natural coil pattern (for those of you who who have tightly coiled /kinky hair) to make it appear to be Jheri Curl Curly?
QueenlyOne66 1 year ago
Blacks need a new goal, a new aspiration to look to. Blacks need their minds reprogrammed. Natural hair is ALWAYS better. People with natural hair act differently.
Dahnje 1 year ago
great vid cutie
enveeus 1 year ago
Okay I'm going to replay this video and listen this time instead of just watching your lips.
312kay 1 year ago
educated video...very well said..
geraldaintenzity 1 year ago
you are cute
thebosslady225 1 year ago
phaha!! to the side comment on the video :) This is a good message, keep sharing and thanks!
NaturalVeganLife 1 year ago
This is entirely unrelated, and completely off-subject and you don't even have to responde but...
you are just so gorgeous.
...and true, true on the commentary
orudio 1 year ago
*Round of applause* thank u :-)
jadeywo 2 years ago
I am so inlove with my natural hair!! great vid.
brinny776 2 years ago
Q: When u said that u're a vegetarian u reeled a list of names of foods that don't have meat! R u a vegetarian or have you given up junk food? I was just wondering because I was a bit confused by that comment
tigereyes5 2 years ago
Great video! This is a positive thing. You said it right! =)
Yonnea 2 years ago
This was nicely said....thank you for taking the time to express yourself. You did a really nice job explaining what many has been trying to say all along. (Sorry for commenting so late...I just ran across this video.)
MsAsheeraA 2 years ago
Great Video. Sexy Voice. Good Lookin'.
lovelyjessie79 2 years ago 4
Bless you! you are a fine brother
defstatus 2 years ago 3
Love your hair.
pjworker 2 years ago
Good video! Beautiful person inside and out!
Born2sing28 2 years ago 5
I love the comparison of sticking feathers on a rose. Yes that is crazy! Thank you for posting this video. You are gorgeous and your voice...
MsGymDiva 2 years ago
you made some good points in your video!
Nutrition223 2 years ago
ive had a black male tell me and several others that he would never even if the person was beautiful date a black girl wih her natural kinky afrocentric hair which to me is a damnn shammee but the reality of how alot of not only black males but women as well feel.
babyxhil 2 years ago 3
u have a nice speaking voice. u should try out radio i could listen to u all day. :D
808758 2 years ago 4
2 thumbs up for the video... Very well said and to the point.
sugahunylips 2 years ago
Great vid!
sultry1231 2 years ago
Great video I'm newly natural and I was shocked by some of the comments I receive negatively so far all black folk. Another issue with the black community is the whole light skinned dark skinned thing. I'm light skinned and grew up feeling I had to prove my blackness!
tehillah7forchrist 2 years ago
First you're a beautiful man, second....thank you. Third, I went natural and my hair has never grown faster. People tell me "girrrrl, you need a perm." I tell them that they need some love.
onediva69 2 years ago 6
onediva69: ppl tell you need a perm?? wow. tell them they need to read a book! and he is a beautiful man.
jazdj04 2 years ago
Sistahs rarely hear the love for our natural hair, &we they do they put that willie lynch chip in it good hair/bad hair the mental slavery of self hatred of our own temples. Thanks for posting.I chose to see life though why would I, not why not, to each it's own, but I really get degrading & backhand so called compliments about my natural hair, but I've gotten used to it. Many blk men get on utube&claim blk wom should go natural, but in real life, they gravitate to weaves/perms,I believe U,hotep
xanmere 2 years ago 3
Well said, we appreciate you!
ImNaturallyKinky 2 years ago
lol u r so sexy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
queenofsheba1000 2 years ago 15
lol i hear what your saying...
BLUYEiii 2 years ago
Anyway little girl's need daddy's too and I had one (passed away 6 yrs ago) and he was light skinned with green eyes and I have never heard no black nonsense coming out of his mouth and he would crush all those who tried to ask him or say that he was mixed with anything. He used to tell them that he had a blue-black uncle with blue eyes and that's where he got it! I love that about my dad he just wasn't the type of man to ever deny his own peeps and I guess that's why I'm so deeply rooted.Peace.
Sammagoose 2 years ago
An educated African American male, that appreciates the black women in her natural state is love. I wish more male thought the way you do. Keep making your videos... We (as a community) need reform.
Peace
Beautiesface25 2 years ago 13
nice video = ]
ZaeshaSadee2010 2 years ago
great response.
bonitaglover 2 years ago
u r so right
queenofsheba1000 2 years ago
Thankyou!
Your speech was so well delivered no obscene language, no venom, or contradictive remarks.
A near perfect expression of how you feel, put forth in a well considered and un biased stance.
Now if more people were to discuss and converse in this manner it would mean more frequent and productive dialogue between people of differing views.
Let's all continue in our enlightment
HOTEP
DIFFICULTENLIGHT 2 years ago 11
Thank you, Thank You
renceferd83 2 years ago
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osathegreat 2 years ago
It has become a prioroity for me and necessacity like you said and i already have a job! im quitting this hair commitment and committing to myself, thanks for your thoughts king..
MEATTAify 2 years ago
Sorry for the late reply, glad you made that choice
renceferd83 2 years ago
well said and yes i'm going natural i have thought about doing this for about a month now and i had to do some research so yeah i gotta do it.. ps love the lips
sexytiffany88 2 years ago
Nicely said indeed
markadoros1 2 years ago
Thank you. Nicely said. :)
mattisdr 2 years ago
you are beautiful
pinkpuma1213 2 years ago 2
First off I can't help but to tell you that you are very very handsome...secondly thank you for this video....you guys are very encouraging
Godschosenwun 2 years ago 5
Wow! You handsome :o) love those lips!
ElPressie 2 years ago 3
I'm in love,so eloquent bless you. A lot of women aren't aware black men find natural hair sexy,it's not the stereotypical vixen hot mama look the chemicaly or naturaly straight women tend to get. You really make a difference to me.
WONDERHEART929 2 years ago
why do people wear dentures? lol. very well put bro. its crazy to me. when i bring up the subject to people sometimes i get the wackest excuse that black women are "versatile."that shit is ruining sistas hair. alot of them have tapered perms. sistas used to press their hair but now they're just ruining it by perming it. blaqueindigo made another point that i never though about. you have to use gloves to apply a perm. if i had a perm i know they'd look at me crazy. likewise. lol. good vid. peace!
frankydiezel 2 years ago
i like the way u think
DaMuziknME 2 years ago
You have a beautiful mind. Keep speaking the truth!
PrettyHolyChic 2 years ago 5
Thanks for posting this.
It took a good bit of reading and research for me to really understand what I needed to do in order to take proper care of my hair.
Much love.
hollyhollyrose 2 years ago
Good vid! I like your perspective!
msyphertt 3 years ago
Wooow!!! Excellent video. And you look cute too!
ImAQueen84 3 years ago
thank you
FLYESTBIRD 3 years ago
I love the analogies you've used.
innovativethinkin 3 years ago
u r a cutie.:)
LOJETE85 3 years ago 5
thank you
renceferd83 3 years ago
Dread locks aren't natural. Afro's are.
keyrubell 3 years ago
Thanks for your input however Im talking having your hair in a natural state...having Locs does not require you to chemically alter your hair
renceferd83 3 years ago
Am I wrong? Locks require physical and most often times, permanent alteration to your hair. I do agree that having locs is way better than getting a perm though...
keyrubell 3 years ago
Help me understand...I can understand the physical part of it but what permanent alterations are done with your locks??...I guess one could say that having "manicured" locs are not natural but freefrom locs are very natural and requires no product or twisting.
renceferd83 3 years ago
well not really you could free form and that doesnt take anything but letting it grow out and you have locks
LakanStellar 2 years ago
thank you brotha............ I am so glad to see a black man supporting the natural movement. I hope to meet more men like you after my big chop! I think people who believe in going natural can be pushy sometimes. I try not to and I mostly just share simple logic with them. This doesn't occur anywhere else in nature, so there has to be a man-made reason why we do it. That reason is simply because we are not taught how to love and care for our natural hair. So we must not be too lazy to learn
EvaDatDiva 3 years ago
I agree with you 1000% , It must feel good to connect with a part of you that you never knew
renceferd83 3 years ago
You are cute and you have a nice voice.
brownnbubblie 3 years ago
i liked ur video...i'm transitioning right now and plan to cut off all my permed hair during the summer...i think the whole process of growing out my hair and using natural/organic products has been really fun...i used to use a flat iron all the time in the past, but havent even felt the desire to use one in months now that i found i love playing with my curly roots...its amazing how much u develop by going natural...and by the way u have amazing lips.
mxgirl2007 3 years ago
Congrats and good luck on the transition. Yeah I could imagine its fun getting to know your own hair texture & thanks for the compliment as well.
renceferd83 3 years ago
Congratulations on your choice to go natural. I have been natural for a 3 years now and I love it! I use natural/organic products too and my hair has thanked me for it my growing long, strong and healthy. I flat iron 2x a year to see my length straight and trim. Too much heat is damaging. I keep it on a low setting.
TruthFan 2 years ago
I'm glad you enjoyed the video!! It does take time to understand something you were taught to hate...I'm glad you became free.
renceferd83 3 years ago
Great, great video! I love your approach. You were calm, collected and didn't put anyone down. You just spoke the facts. Thank you!
DenverDiva 3 years ago
Your welcome, I hope that people start to understand
renceferd83 3 years ago
great vid.!!!
i feel you brotha
peace.
afrikahculture 3 years ago
You stated your thoughts in this vid so well. I completely agree with all you said. Great video!
SheSingsLovely 3 years ago
very good..and your very fine
ziwiekinz 3 years ago
Good video...and you're cute ^_^
danayparker 3 years ago 2
I've been natural 6 mos n love how my self esteem boost bcuz of it. It's always nice hearing this from our black men I loved how while sharing ur opinion u didnt bash women for relaxing Many of us need to re educated ourselves concerning natural hair At least we know u would raise ur children to love their hair. Many may not say it but by getting relaxers at a young age tells kids that there is something wrong and this is how we "FIX"it. NAtural hair doesnt need 2 b fixed but understood. G8t vid
TrinidadianCutie25 3 years ago
your absolutely right, theres nothing to be fixed, thanks for the feedback
renceferd83 3 years ago
this was such a good video and I LOVE hearing the male perspective, even though I was slightly distracted b/c you are so freakin sexy...I just kept lookin at your lips and wondering how they would...OK...my bad...but good point though!
keep posting good vids young King
jamoky 3 years ago 3
LMAO!, thank you very much
renceferd83 3 years ago
gurl I must admit I was thinking the same thing(hee hee..oh I'm sorry renceferd I know this is a serious format but dayum u r 2 cute. If I've upset ya..come talk to Mama bout it hunny
ksmith1x1 3 years ago
lmao, thank you....I'm not upset at all lol
renceferd83 3 years ago
ah ah ,same ting me say,natural iz da boss of our owner class,skeene,peace and love.
dreadz24 3 years ago
good explainations
PhoenixTheDragon 3 years ago
50 stars!
scarletrose17 3 years ago 3
FAVORITED
it is rare to see a males
perspective on the issues of
natural/relaxed hair. the
examples and explanation was
on point indeed.
-PeAcE
martaajoku1 3 years ago
Agreed!!!!!
scarletrose17 3 years ago
i agree!!!
freshpuss 3 years ago
lol thank you guys
martaajoku1 3 years ago
I know this has nothing to do with the vid but you are beautiful!And good point lol
22valerina 3 years ago
agreed
martaajoku1 3 years ago
Thank you so much for this! It's nice to hear a brother say such things about natural hair... btw your gourgeous!
speczwifey09 3 years ago
*gorgeous
speczwifey09 3 years ago
Thank you! Great video I love my natural hair and it is very easy to manage and I can get it any way I want from a fro to straight. As a brother I really appreciate your encouraging words. Love your hair!
omgiheartvideos 3 years ago
Thank You
renceferd83 3 years ago
To be honest a lot of black girls really shouldn't be getting relaxers put in their head at an early age like that. That's why a lot are baldheaded. It's sad. Black women need to learn how to take care of their natural texture anyway. But yet some have the nerve to be jealous of girls who have long natural hair. I read where this mixed girl was talking about how the baldhead girls be telling her to cut her hair. Is that not jealousy or what?
gmcmim 3 years ago
I agree 100%, no little girl under the age of 18 should have a perm even if she wants it. They should be educated on the beauty and the uniqueness of it and let them make that decision on there own, but then if there parents dont think that way then they wont either.
renceferd83 3 years ago
I agree with both of you, I got my hair relaxed at 12 and it was not my mothers influence it was mine. It was a combination of frustration because my mother did not like doing my hair and it was a painfull process and I was getting peer pressure from my neighbors. Long story short, my mid back natural hair quickly became shoulder length dry, broken raggetdy mess of a head. The neighborhood kids didn't like me without or with a relaxer. Thank goodness I am natural and free.
TruthFan 2 years ago
My sister got her hair relaxed when she was like 7 or 8 and after my mom saw how her hair started falling out she decided not to perm mine...and i've been natural ever since. The point is it starts with the grownups. We need to educate adults now about the beauty of their natural hair so that value or idea can perpetuate itself within our communities.
meyerchick89 3 years ago 3
You have a valid point, I agree 10,000%, most women don't have the choice to say whether they want a perm or not. Very true
renceferd83 3 years ago
i agree 100%...ur absolutely beautiful..i heart u..lol
ladymanic2 3 years ago
you are beautiful
purebloodgoodness 3 years ago 3
:) thank you
renceferd83 3 years ago
Thanks! I needed to hear that. I have cut my hair off and started over with the natural hair. I am learning to love it, and I have had some negative comments. You made some wonderful points and it is well said. ..lol and you are very handsome and i caught myself looking at your lips too..LOLOL
heavenzbest1 3 years ago 4
lol thank you for the compliment and I'm glad to know that I said somethings you needed to hear, we all need encouragement once in a while
renceferd83 3 years ago
yes you are right. we do need to be encouraged. Your dreads are nice... I just noticed them.
heavenzbest1 3 years ago
TheLotus2212 completely read my mind, copied, and pasted it into the comment box. It's uncanny!
BuenaventuraAvenue 3 years ago
lmao thank you
renceferd83 3 years ago
Well said Bro...thanks for sharing your two cents. Blessings. :)
ibbs72 3 years ago
i love you
auntiemonique 3 years ago 2
Love you right back :)
renceferd83 3 years ago
I love this vid and ur delivery. I just watched ur mental slavery vid also. You made some very good points. you got me, lol, I'll subscribe. Oh I checked out ur channel, like ur music choices(wink wink ima trini/amer)
DanceOfTheSerpent 3 years ago
oh ho!! Well tank you for subscribing gyul!! lol..I got nuff trini family. Thanks for watching
renceferd83 3 years ago
Ah great video I completely agree :)
curlychronicles 3 years ago
thanks!
HealthyHairJourney 3 years ago
I'm sorry but the whole time you were expressing yourself I couldn't stop looking at your beautiful lips.You are attractive and intelligent. Keep expressing yourself because I will be back to watch your lips move.:D j/k
TheLotus2212 3 years ago 4
lol Thank you!! I appreciate the compliment
renceferd83 3 years ago
You were very articulet. Well said
1Cammyb 3 years ago
Thank You :)
renceferd83 3 years ago
U are Very Wise and insightful... :)
lovennappiness 3 years ago
Thank you :)
renceferd83 3 years ago
You are sexy.
iRcRoHeGi 3 years ago 4
Thank You
renceferd83 3 years ago
Thank U
renceferd83 3 years ago
its hard doing something for 20 years and quitting something in a month.. Who taught us that permed hair is versatile and natural hair is primitive.. Mind Games. AND WE KNOW ITS NOT YOUR HAIR GIRLFRIEND! we know what horse tail looks like, horse mane, putting it on the back of a short ponytail. We love you black woman, you don't have to do it.
eddierob 3 years ago 3
Yes we do love our black nubian godesses
renceferd83 3 years ago
well renceferd u already know ima loc mama lol but i was faithful to relaxers for a long time; since i was 8 all the way to the age of 18...natural hair was a personal choice..im the only one in my family besides my father who has locs..if a woman chooses to perm her hair..then thats her choice ..black women are beautiful regardless but even more in their natural state ..thats all i have 2 say lol
Moecah99 3 years ago
I agree ;)
renceferd83 3 years ago
Well I don't see anything wrong with how ppl wear their hair whether it is natural, permed, etc. I just feel that a person's hair is jus an accent to their own personal style. I do get my hair permed . I don't wear weave b/c I feel that my hair is fine the way it is. I have a stylist that helpsz treat my hair and taught me how to treat it on my own too. B/c ppl can go to the extreme and just damage it to the point of no return. So hey, do what ya do is all I can say.
she2much4u 3 years ago
well i am one who does not do the weave its just not me but i get perms n my hair looks great no problem with it. its healthy n i love it but sum ppl go overboard n they do damage their hair u just gotta be careful with those chemicals hey who always said natural was better? :)
angelaskew1 3 years ago
Some people do go overboard, I agree
renceferd83 3 years ago
Very well said. Women (and men) need to love their natural beauty first. And as long as they have that love for themselves, it okay to wear the weaves and straightened hairstyles. It's only a problem when they hate themselves without it. I teach my children this. I hope others out there do the same. Great post!
tbey82 3 years ago
Exactly my point, Thank you.
renceferd83 3 years ago
u made a good point. but i believe everyone should where there hair da way dey want 2. natural, permed, shaved, dyed...anyway. but this is a good video overall.
PrettiBoiShai 3 years ago
Thank You
renceferd83 3 years ago
Very tru my brotha. I agree with everything you said.
JBurnz732 3 years ago
Thank You
renceferd83 3 years ago