Being Gay, and having a family- What's your future?

[bobbyjay2010]

Honest soul searching. I wonder what how you feel today?

[ThisDudePerson]

That's what I too think about at times, because I want one abs knowing that it's probably never going to happen is sad :(

That's probably one thing that makes me say "Y"? But who knows

[ashleygay18]

WOW.. talk about chocked! soo sad! iv really want a family and marriage one day.. x x

[bjwfb]

hey Jessy just saw this vid and I shed a tear cause I have asked myself the same question so many times and whos to say what will happen in their life but I hope one day I do have kids of my own

[mikha1280]

I love the music in the video, it gives me a feeling of nostalgia and also of pondering what the future will bring.

I often think about what coud've of been or what could be, but I think it's all about living the best way we can, never letting go of dreams that may never happen but that are always a possibility.

Question: What was your original reason for starting to make videos and has it changed since? Is there a movie that no matter how many times you watch, you never get bored of?

[Jayrad219]

it's the music the makes me sad. Talk about a downer. but nice topic though.

[seacorp126]

Jesse, what do you want out of life? Just because your mom and dad's relationship did not work, does not mean yours won't. You can have a husband, child and family if you want it. Never give up

[PapaLuba]

who would not fall in love with such an integer and sensititve and romantic guy as you are ...... do not underestimate yourself sweety :-)

[depfox]

The most important thing in my life is my family. Please take a look at my videos.

"Gay Family Values" It relates to your questions. Never stop dreaming

[PlayWithFireSixty9]

Well. Sure.. One day i would want a family. I mean yeah i am Gay, but there's always a thing called Adoption. Haha! and yes I am Adopted and I am glad i was. :)

But i don't think i'll ever be with a Woman just to have kids. I'll have kids by adopting a child. But for now, I don't know about that...

Pce

[gnarly21]

Its not dat easy especially ur gay!. They are strictly..

[ninjask8ter]

I dont think its just the fact of having kids,,, its the question of stability. Do you think theres a high probability that being in the gay world, that you will have a long-term partner when you are older? Of course you hope that is the case, but having lived in both worlds, I can tell you that it is usually not the case for gays. Your right, it could be scarey for someone who wants a family, children and stability in their life. Significant Other? maybe for a short time, but not forever.

[Trippleg1993]

jess you said ask anything but not your long hair..now I want to ask about it..lol but i won't! I never considered having the traditional family but i always thought I would adopt one day. Then i got a dog and i was a bad parent so i gave him to a friend. Even after watching your video I don't long for it. So question for you..Do you sometimes imagine having the traditional family life with a wife and kids even tho you are gay or do you really think that you can have that with a man & B happy?

[friesian86]

Hey Garland,

I think if you adopted one day you would be a great dad. You're just a terrific person in every sense of the word!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[Trippleg1993]

Oh Jess...thank you..maybe one day..remember what you see in me is in you!!!! xoxoxox more questions...Are you single? if so..what would you say your ideal guy is at this point in your life..xoxox

[Ollyuk]

Really really nice video Jesse, well done on putting yourself so out there emotionally...i can barely open up to friends, let alone all these viewers!! I could relate a lot to this as well. Obviously i'm only 20 so still young for children or anything but i've no delusions of financial grandeur from life. I just want a family one day, a couple of kids and a husband i adore! My childhood was very ideal..happily married parents, detached house in the countryside..all that! And i want that too x

[friesian86]

Olly,

This is the comment that I wanted!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!

I find it so adorable that you want a family one day. I wish more gay people out there were like you! The fact that you want to find true love, and a man that loves you forever.... well....is just so romantic! The best comment ever!!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[watsup151515]

Such an honest video..nice to see videos like this...I never really think about having kids..obviously I cant cause im not a girl, and im gay..I just try not to think about it...Hopefully adoption becomes more accessabile to gay couples in the future

[friesian86]

Hey Daniel,

How's everything down there in New Zealand? It's summer time right? Anywho, so glad you liked this video. I tried to make this as honest as possible. Hope you start making some video of your own!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[TnDon]

I see sooo many folks, albeit str8, that don't do the parenting thing very well at all. Therefore I've always been reluctant to even consider parenthood. I think to be a good parent you have to have had good parents yourself cuz that's what puts the role model in your head.

Love you filming on location and love that you don't have a hat or some other head covering. It gives you a totally different look.....I like! Stay cute and gorgus!

[friesian86]

Hey Don,

I'm so done with the hat look! LOL. Haven't had one on since I cut off all my hair!! My head feels a lot cooler now! LOL.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[kai0sonoda]

jesse!

as long as you continue to be a great man then all of your hearts desires will come true. you are so awesome. i wish i could know you personally.

[friesian86]

Hey hun,

Awe, you are so right! It's so true that being a good person helps you get farther in life! You are so amazing!!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[landongendur]

OMG Jesse! You just addressed one of the biggest issues of being gay. I like to call it the 'Gay Midlife Crisis'. It basically is the point where gay and straight people diverge to separate and different lives.

The whole secret behind it is to invest time and energy in other rewarding things :)

Take care,

- Landon

[friesian86]

Hey Landon,

It's a good thing that I already have three expesive kids!! AKA- My horses!!! LOL. All my time is invested in them, and I really don't have time for anyone/anything else! Oh, just planted some cosmo seeds a few weeks ago! Getting ready for spring already! LOL.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[landongendur]

Just planted?! It's FEBRUARY! It's like -32*C here in Regina Canada :P I was wondering where you were riding on a boat with just a sweater on. It must be so nice there.

[friesian86]

Hey Landon,

Not outside silly! LOL. I planted the seends in little pots inside. They can grow there for a couple of months till they get bigger. LOL. Oh, I wasn't on a boat. Kinda of on a cliff, and that was in washington. It was actually quite cold while I was do that video. I quickly huried to the car after it was done.!! LOL.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[Musique3579]

Hey Jesse

As always, a beautifully well thought-out video. Your thoughts are just so well founded. One thing I have learned in life is that the unexpected is so often the reality, and the expected never quite seems to happen, for life is without prediction. The one thing that remains constant is the individual. One receives back what one gives. It is the heart of a loving person that triumphs over all in the end. And you have such a loving heart.

Justin~

[friesian86]

Hey Justin,

You have a loving heart! Thank you so much for being a great Youtube friend! You make me smile!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[deatheyes2002]

Love the video

[deatheyes2002]

Hey Jesse ... Love the video ... I enjoy all of your videos. I have to ask you a very important question ... Will you marry me ... I love your passion and your ability to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Your kindness and sincerity shows through your eyes and your words. You make me want to be a better man just because you can.

Your future husband

Matt

[jaelavee]

Hey, I feel you jesse, you are just too sweet .....stay cool and grounded, don't think too hard about the future, let it flow......

[friesian86]

Hey hun,

Awe, thanks! You're way to kind! Let it flow.... Grate advice!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[remmy49]

When you find someone that is right for you the rest will follow .Becareful do not let your parents problems keep you from taking chances your heart will be broken at times but I know you will find your soul mate some day

[friesian86]

Hey Leonard,

You are so right! The rest will follow in place when you find the right person! Well said! A soul mate.... that sounds good! LOL.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[edenbainbridge]

what a thought provoking video.

im a mom and happily un married :)

i prefer to have my days filled with the love of my son and pets. for me it works

i hope you find your love

xoexo

[friesian86]

Hey Eden,

It sounds like you're very content in your life! Bravo! Just as it should be! You are so amazing!!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[woggleywogs]

As soon as the video started I wanted to ask where you are filming from. Beautiful.

As far as marriage, I think it is a beautiful thing that would be wonderful to have. At the same time my parents are separated and being Gay obviously makes this impossible. I believe that by the next generation gay marriage and families will be a common thing. We just have to stand up for our rights and make changes to this world. Love you, Jesse.

[friesian86]

Hey Jesse,

I love how we have the same name! LOL. Anywho, this video is really is about being gay, and having that all american "family". So to speak. Thanks for commenting, oh you forgot to ask me a question.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[aznguymetal]

WOW, i've never thought about that? Gezzz, you make me more depress.

[friesian86]

Hey Sam,

Thanks for following me on twitter! You're such a dall! This video gets you thinking doesn't it! It makes me a little depressed too! LOL.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[littlemonster333]

aww this was such a lovely video!! A great last video for me to watch before finally going to sleep. I think you'd make a really great father and husband/life partner, as you obviously have so much love within you and to give! If all else fails, pay a girl and use a turkey baster! But seriously, you're only 22, and don't let where other people are in their lives make you think that yours isn't fantastic!!

I'm gonna think of a question and post one tomorrow. X

[friesian86]

Hey Nicole,

How much do you charge for 9 months! LOL. "A turkey baster"! You crack me up!! Love it!! Anywho, so glad you liked this video. I don't know why this topic came up in my head, but it did! Hope it gets people thinking about that aspect of life though! Can't wait for you question!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[johnvlogs]

so touching, i love it. don't know how i feel about marriage and children, but you this video got me thinking!

Question: at what point in your life did you decide to be fabulous?

[friesian86]

Hey John,

I'm having so much fun with you and Daniel on Twitter! So thanks! I'm so glad that this video got you thinking! Thanks for the question! LOL.

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[efeblog]

Hey Jesse! I know that One day you'll find ur True LOve...because you are a wonderful person!! LOve ya!

Questions: What are your Hobbies?

What is your background?

[friesian86]

Hey Efe,

You're so sweet! Thanks so much for the kind words! You're amazing, lovely, adorable, and loved!

Stay Gorgeous, Jesse *_*

[johnvlogs]

I'm glad this video finally uploaded! (i'm watching it now)