you are in our prayers. have you heard of the Maon Alert? please check it out it is a specail alert to deal with autism and wandering. I am tring to spread the word.
my thoughts and prayers are with you God bless you for posting this message i know it wasn't easy. I hope for family continues to heal with the love of Christ our Lord.
i have a 4 year old autistic son...i am sooo sorry for your loss,i know how i would feel if anything ever happened to my little Kristofer...Kedan is now an angel up in heaven,God bless you...Shannon Miranda..
I have 2 Autisic small sons, I do know those dangers, we have had some close calls Im very sorry for your loss I know what thats like too I lost thier baby sister to still birth ..on top of all of the daily worries with the boys. Your a strong woman.
because I don't know how to swim I made it a point to teach our children...and since Julian loves water so much...we made sure he learned too...by age 5 Julian knew how to swim and in the 13 foot deep pool at the park too.
im so sorry for the loss of you son. i have aspergers syndrome, a form of autism. god bless him, may god watch over your family and care for your son forever
I am posting the video on fb again. I hope it helps another family to avoid this family. This is Angela Mother of a vaccine injured child. How I miss messaging you. I think of you often. Especially when I want to complain .
My son has autism and water safety for them is a must. I could tell you that my baby almost drown in a pool. Fortunately, I was close by and was able to jump in to rescue him. God bless your child, he is truly an angel. All parents, whether their kids have autism or not, should be safety cautious around swimming pools. I've seen tragedies happen with typically developing kids.
This is very hard I know. But don't blame Autism for your loss. Things happen, and they are tragedies. It shows that when one has a child with Autism you can not take your eyes off them for a split second. To blame your loss on something that can't be fully dealt with will only hurt you and keep on hurting you. There is a lesson to be learnt from what has happened, but please don't turn it into hate for a condition that can not be cured. This is certainly not a time for any hate - at all.
My heart goes out to you. I, too, have an autistic child. God bless you, and may you have some comfort knowing your child is with God-with his voice, his health, and his laughter-but especially with all the love you have for him.
I have been thinking about you all day Kedan.. The neighbors set up a pool and invited us over. Obviouusly we declined... It is hard sometimes, I think about you so much. Please give your mommy an angel hug and kiss from all of us... XOXO Cedar and family...
wow you are a really strong woman god only lets us borrow these children kedan is now an angel with the lord this has been very inspirational to me and im pretty sure everyone else
I have 2 sons one which is autistic. I am very touched by this video and your story. I have caught my son several times unlocking our door and going outside. I had not thought of how dangerous that could be. I am going to make some changes to our home. I am greiving for you and your son. You and your family are in my prayers and you and he both will always live in my heart. I can hold my son because of you. Thank You!
wow... absolutely amazing video, I am so sorry for your loss, my nephew has autism and we are always terrified that this could happen... bless you and your family you are so strong to get through this, and know that God and Kedan are watching over you and will be sure that you will all be okay... Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking story.
OMG!!!i feel your pain!my little brother has cerebral palsy,he cant walk or talk but is this happened to him,like if his wheelchair rolled into a lake or something, i would absolutely die!!!i am 11...but i still feel as is im a mother to him.
All I can say is thank you for sharing this video. Your little boy is an angel and you are a very strong woman!!! I have a 7 year old austistic little one of my own and I will always remember Kedan..What a beautiful child!! God bless you and your family.
oh, my son was logged in on here, and i didn't notice...i am not trublumurda....my name on wish upon a hero is CrescentMoonglow67 and that is where i found your story...just kept clicking and ended up here...
Like the others before me, I am sobbing. I am moved and touched by this video. The musical choices are perfect. I will never forget your little boy...I might forget details in time, but never his smile or his eyes...What a beautiful angel. My heart goes out to you and your husband and the other 3 children who have to go on without their playmate, their brother...Much love and many prayers to you!
You have lived through one of my worst fears. You should know that your son died so that you could save the lives of others, you have turned his tragic passing into a love story for many others who will benefit from this video. Well done, your son and God are both proud I'm sure.
I am sobbing. This also happened to a little boy in my state not long ago. My heart is breaking for you. My son is a month older than Kedan and he too is fearless. He escapes and my heart sinks. We have installed locks and alarms on all the exits in our home. It is working for now. I pray for healing for your family. Thanks for sharing your grief it has changed my life forever.
Your sweet baby was born exactly when my yongest son was 2- he has moderate to severe autism. I can't even begin to understand your grief. This has touched me deeply. I will forever remember, your story, your sweet angel. You are in my prayers.
I am so Sorry for your loss, my words can't even express how much my heart is breaking for you right now. Your son reminds me so much of my son Christian. We recently considered renting a place on the lake after seeing this I know Now That I will never do that!! Thank you for sharing this even in your grief trying to spare others the same fate.
my husband and i are sitting here sobbing... Kedan is(was) the same age as our oldest (only days apart)...our almost 3 year old has Autism, and he fearles! thank you so much for posting this video... i know that Kedan is in paradise with Allah! May peace and blessings be upon you!
Hello Kedan's Mom...you posted a comment on my website for Donavon. I am here to tell you that your baby is with mine in HEAVEN WITH GOD Honey...My family has you and your family in our prayers ok? Please accept my deepest sympathies for loss of your son. Please just take it one day at a time honey, know that Kedan is in GOD's hands now, and WE WILL be with OUR BABIES AGAIN ONE DAY.
i have a seven yr old with autism he ran away from our apartment last february so i am so sorry for what you are going through i know how i felt when i could not find my son but at least your son is in the best place now
I have an 8yr old son w/ Aspergers and I to found my son in the pool at the apartment complex I lived at, that was suppose to be locked, but was left unlocked by the maintenance staff,I was a few feet away talking to my mother when I noticed he wasn't in the Laundry room and the gate to the pool was open, luckily I am a Nurse an was able to perform CPR, I put out a plea to anyone w/ children please learn CPR it could save someone you loves life.
I understand, and my heart truly goes out to your Family and son, this is a tragedy I don't believe I could ever recover from if my child passed. Hold your head up high because he is now watching over you and your family. God bless you all, I will be raising as much as I can for you both.
Words cannot express the sadness I feel after watching this. My thought and prayers are with you. What a beautiful boy. Kedan's story is all too familiar. Drowning IS the leading cause of death for children with autism. If your child is at risk for wandering, PLEASE look into Project Lifesaver dot org. Many counties have th is program in place, check with your local police department. Please learn from Kedan, and his wonderful couragous mother.
Sandra, Thank you for sharing this with us. My 3 year old autistic son loves the water too. I constatly worry about him, not only drowning, but running out in front of car and many, many other things he is not afraid of. My prayers are with you. Kedan was an angel, I am so sad for you that he had to go home so soon. I always thought my son being diagnosed with autism was the hardest thing I would ever have to deal with. I was so wrong. Big hugs from my family to yours, Amanda
Thank you for sharing your story and your sweet little man! I'm so very sorry! Thank you for reminding me that my 5 yr old son also knows no danger and loves the water! He will be starting Kindergarten this fall. I will be thinking of you and praying for your broken heart. You are a very brave soul. May God wrap you in love and comfort!
This is so very sad!! I was crying throughout. I've got a pool at home and my 5.5 yr old son who has Autism loves the water. We have fencing around it, but when he's barefoot, he can climb over that fence. looks like I need to be more vigilant!!! Thanx for sharing this with me. my heart goes out to you. may his soul rest in peace. Basima.
My heart is heavy with grief, I hope that everyone can (which I almost sure we can't) take a little bit of grief from this and make each day a little more tolerable for you and your family. My wife and I worry constantly that one day our 5 yr old son with Autism will figure out a way out of the house, they are soooo smart at times, and it only takes a second for tragedy to strike. You are a very courageous woman for putting this video together and you are in our everyday prayers.
Thank you so much for sharing this with other's. I am the grandmother of an Autistic 3 yr old that I worry about constantly. I will make sure my daughter see this video to reinforce to her the dangers my grandson faces. Please take comfort that this will be instrumental in saving another child
How do you go on?? I have two autistic boys ages 3 and 9. They too love water. I wont have a pool or live near a body of water. I had my inlaws place a huge gate around their pool before we moved out here. I have a friend in heaven who died at the ageof 7, he was an old soul. I will pray that Jiles will be there to help him. God Bless You!
Sandra, this is soo sad. My heart is with you everyday, nearly all day long. I haven't seen this video yet, it is so touching. I am just so sad... All my love, Cedar
I was going to get a pool now I am not. My son loves the water too much.I cried. My heart goes out to you. Kedan was a beautiful little boy I can't take it. God please help us all this autism is getting out of hand. God bless you.
you are in our prayers. have you heard of the Maon Alert? please check it out it is a specail alert to deal with autism and wandering. I am tring to spread the word.
ASDogGeek 7 months ago
omg i can berly type through my tears god bless kedan, he was such a beautiful little boy, my heart goes out to you and your family xxx
nixnoodles08 1 year ago
my thoughts and prayers are with you God bless you for posting this message i know it wasn't easy. I hope for family continues to heal with the love of Christ our Lord.
kaljay1509 1 year ago
i have a 4 year old autistic son...i am sooo sorry for your loss,i know how i would feel if anything ever happened to my little Kristofer...Kedan is now an angel up in heaven,God bless you...Shannon Miranda..
jjjskkg 1 year ago
I have 2 Autisic small sons, I do know those dangers, we have had some close calls Im very sorry for your loss I know what thats like too I lost thier baby sister to still birth ..on top of all of the daily worries with the boys. Your a strong woman.
vyxynbabe 1 year ago
because I don't know how to swim I made it a point to teach our children...and since Julian loves water so much...we made sure he learned too...by age 5 Julian knew how to swim and in the 13 foot deep pool at the park too.
my4muskateers 2 years ago
im so sorry for the loss of you son. i have aspergers syndrome, a form of autism. god bless him, may god watch over your family and care for your son forever
kaylinsvlog 2 years ago
sory
nick21230nick 2 years ago
I am posting the video on fb again. I hope it helps another family to avoid this family. This is Angela Mother of a vaccine injured child. How I miss messaging you. I think of you often. Especially when I want to complain .
adreamdeferred 2 years ago
My son has autism and water safety for them is a must. I could tell you that my baby almost drown in a pool. Fortunately, I was close by and was able to jump in to rescue him. God bless your child, he is truly an angel. All parents, whether their kids have autism or not, should be safety cautious around swimming pools. I've seen tragedies happen with typically developing kids.
waarce 2 years ago
I just looked up the first song that is playing and it is "God doesn't make mistakes" by Carolyn Dawn Johnson
alexzandersmom1 3 years ago
I just looked up the song and it is
God doesn't make mistakes by Carolyn Dawn Johnson.
alexzandersmom1 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss!! You have a beautiful son. What is the name of the song in the video?
jackeee1002 3 years ago
What are the name of the songs playing during this clip?
bigtoe7 3 years ago
I really feel for your loss as I am also going through the loss of my daughter too.
bigtoe7 3 years ago
This is very hard I know. But don't blame Autism for your loss. Things happen, and they are tragedies. It shows that when one has a child with Autism you can not take your eyes off them for a split second. To blame your loss on something that can't be fully dealt with will only hurt you and keep on hurting you. There is a lesson to be learnt from what has happened, but please don't turn it into hate for a condition that can not be cured. This is certainly not a time for any hate - at all.
Fenric65 3 years ago 2
I am so sorry for your loss, I know what it means to have a kid with no fear.
May GOD be with him.
Kedan what a unique name, one of my email address is Kedan6.
golcynski 3 years ago
My heart goes out to you. I, too, have an autistic child. God bless you, and may you have some comfort knowing your child is with God-with his voice, his health, and his laughter-but especially with all the love you have for him.
ProjectHelpHealChase 3 years ago
I have been thinking about you all day Kedan.. The neighbors set up a pool and invited us over. Obviouusly we declined... It is hard sometimes, I think about you so much. Please give your mommy an angel hug and kiss from all of us... XOXO Cedar and family...
navywife1977 3 years ago
truly sorry for your loss. he's beautiful.
pooanddoo 3 years ago
i am so sorry it is really sweet
i've gotta watch mi lil' bro now!!!
cherryride12 4 years ago
wow you are a really strong woman god only lets us borrow these children kedan is now an angel with the lord this has been very inspirational to me and im pretty sure everyone else
a14bb 4 years ago
I have 2 sons one which is autistic. I am very touched by this video and your story. I have caught my son several times unlocking our door and going outside. I had not thought of how dangerous that could be. I am going to make some changes to our home. I am greiving for you and your son. You and your family are in my prayers and you and he both will always live in my heart. I can hold my son because of you. Thank You!
whyautism 4 years ago
wow... absolutely amazing video, I am so sorry for your loss, my nephew has autism and we are always terrified that this could happen... bless you and your family you are so strong to get through this, and know that God and Kedan are watching over you and will be sure that you will all be okay... Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking story.
bzoo6969 4 years ago
I am praying for your family every night.
Im sorry it had to end up this way for you and your family.
thanks for posting this video this is something people need to see.
kittenchik17 4 years ago
OMG!!!i feel your pain!my little brother has cerebral palsy,he cant walk or talk but is this happened to him,like if his wheelchair rolled into a lake or something, i would absolutely die!!!i am 11...but i still feel as is im a mother to him.
Puppyluve410 4 years ago
i dont know your brother as well as you do but... i feel as if you are my sister and as im a older sister or caretaker of your brother.
I know it sounds weird but...i feel as if your family is mine too...
kittenchik17 4 years ago
my last comment was for puppyluve410
kittenchik17 4 years ago
All I can say is thank you for sharing this video. Your little boy is an angel and you are a very strong woman!!! I have a 7 year old austistic little one of my own and I will always remember Kedan..What a beautiful child!! God bless you and your family.
kapers08 4 years ago
oh, my son was logged in on here, and i didn't notice...i am not trublumurda....my name on wish upon a hero is CrescentMoonglow67 and that is where i found your story...just kept clicking and ended up here...
trublumurda89 4 years ago
Like the others before me, I am sobbing. I am moved and touched by this video. The musical choices are perfect. I will never forget your little boy...I might forget details in time, but never his smile or his eyes...What a beautiful angel. My heart goes out to you and your husband and the other 3 children who have to go on without their playmate, their brother...Much love and many prayers to you!
trublumurda89 4 years ago
I love you Kedan, I will never forget you.
(I love your momma too.)
navywife1977 4 years ago
You have lived through one of my worst fears. You should know that your son died so that you could save the lives of others, you have turned his tragic passing into a love story for many others who will benefit from this video. Well done, your son and God are both proud I'm sure.
takamineg 4 years ago
R.I.P.
Guitarxheroxguru 4 years ago
rest in peace
starbabe58 4 years ago
I am sobbing. This also happened to a little boy in my state not long ago. My heart is breaking for you. My son is a month older than Kedan and he too is fearless. He escapes and my heart sinks. We have installed locks and alarms on all the exits in our home. It is working for now. I pray for healing for your family. Thanks for sharing your grief it has changed my life forever.
wilddog2007 4 years ago
Sorry for your loss.
Hugs
nyprincess10001 4 years ago
WE love you baby boy!
Adrenalyn 4 years ago
Your sweet baby was born exactly when my yongest son was 2- he has moderate to severe autism. I can't even begin to understand your grief. This has touched me deeply. I will forever remember, your story, your sweet angel. You are in my prayers.
momof2boyswithautism 4 years ago
I am so Sorry for your loss, my words can't even express how much my heart is breaking for you right now. Your son reminds me so much of my son Christian. We recently considered renting a place on the lake after seeing this I know Now That I will never do that!! Thank you for sharing this even in your grief trying to spare others the same fate.
momto2miracles 4 years ago
my husband and i are sitting here sobbing... Kedan is(was) the same age as our oldest (only days apart)...our almost 3 year old has Autism, and he fearles! thank you so much for posting this video... i know that Kedan is in paradise with Allah! May peace and blessings be upon you!
faerysexy 4 years ago
Hello Kedan's Mom...you posted a comment on my website for Donavon. I am here to tell you that your baby is with mine in HEAVEN WITH GOD Honey...My family has you and your family in our prayers ok? Please accept my deepest sympathies for loss of your son. Please just take it one day at a time honey, know that Kedan is in GOD's hands now, and WE WILL be with OUR BABIES AGAIN ONE DAY.
mspunky 4 years ago
Im so sorry... In my case my boy has dysphasia and he loves running towards streets, he doesnt know danger.
My prayers are with you. A big hug
adrishelton 4 years ago
You are in our prayers. I am so sorry.
leoleponge 4 years ago
:-( i am so sorry. i can't even imagine your heartache. i have a 3 yr old son with autism. my heart and prayers go out to you. (((hugs))) God Bless.
jaregg 4 years ago
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drmaier 4 years ago
i have a seven yr old with autism he ran away from our apartment last february so i am so sorry for what you are going through i know how i felt when i could not find my son but at least your son is in the best place now
warsawannie99 4 years ago
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I have an 8yr old son w/ Aspergers and I to found my son in the pool at the apartment complex I lived at, that was suppose to be locked, but was left unlocked by the maintenance staff,I was a few feet away talking to my mother when I noticed he wasn't in the Laundry room and the gate to the pool was open, luckily I am a Nurse an was able to perform CPR, I put out a plea to anyone w/ children please learn CPR it could save someone you loves life.
Shannan30 4 years ago
cpr was preformed but it was too late. It doesnt take long for a small child to drown.
autismmom1 4 years ago
I understand, and my heart truly goes out to your Family and son, this is a tragedy I don't believe I could ever recover from if my child passed. Hold your head up high because he is now watching over you and your family. God bless you all, I will be raising as much as I can for you both.
Shannan30 4 years ago
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Words cannot express the sadness I feel after watching this. My thought and prayers are with you. What a beautiful boy. Kedan's story is all too familiar. Drowning IS the leading cause of death for children with autism. If your child is at risk for wandering, PLEASE look into Project Lifesaver dot org. Many counties have th is program in place, check with your local police department. Please learn from Kedan, and his wonderful couragous mother.
aware4autism 4 years ago
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Sandra, Thank you for sharing this with us. My 3 year old autistic son loves the water too. I constatly worry about him, not only drowning, but running out in front of car and many, many other things he is not afraid of. My prayers are with you. Kedan was an angel, I am so sad for you that he had to go home so soon. I always thought my son being diagnosed with autism was the hardest thing I would ever have to deal with. I was so wrong. Big hugs from my family to yours, Amanda
amandadthomson 4 years ago
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Thank you for sharing your story and your sweet little man! I'm so very sorry! Thank you for reminding me that my 5 yr old son also knows no danger and loves the water! He will be starting Kindergarten this fall. I will be thinking of you and praying for your broken heart. You are a very brave soul. May God wrap you in love and comfort!
coopers3scc 4 years ago
Thanks so much for the support.
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autismmom1 4 years ago
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This is so very sad!! I was crying throughout. I've got a pool at home and my 5.5 yr old son who has Autism loves the water. We have fencing around it, but when he's barefoot, he can climb over that fence. looks like I need to be more vigilant!!! Thanx for sharing this with me. my heart goes out to you. may his soul rest in peace. Basima.
basima76 4 years ago
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My heart is heavy with grief, I hope that everyone can (which I almost sure we can't) take a little bit of grief from this and make each day a little more tolerable for you and your family. My wife and I worry constantly that one day our 5 yr old son with Autism will figure out a way out of the house, they are soooo smart at times, and it only takes a second for tragedy to strike. You are a very courageous woman for putting this video together and you are in our everyday prayers.
Radaan 4 years ago
Thank you all for the kind words. I TRUELY believe that his life was taken to save many others.
autismmom1 4 years ago
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Thank you so much for sharing this with other's. I am the grandmother of an Autistic 3 yr old that I worry about constantly. I will make sure my daughter see this video to reinforce to her the dangers my grandson faces. Please take comfort that this will be instrumental in saving another child
thorntll 4 years ago
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How do you go on?? I have two autistic boys ages 3 and 9. They too love water. I wont have a pool or live near a body of water. I had my inlaws place a huge gate around their pool before we moved out here. I have a friend in heaven who died at the ageof 7, he was an old soul. I will pray that Jiles will be there to help him. God Bless You!
katy980103 4 years ago
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God Bless you. You are in my prayers
rob1105 4 years ago
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Sandra, this is soo sad. My heart is with you everyday, nearly all day long. I haven't seen this video yet, it is so touching. I am just so sad... All my love, Cedar
navywife1977 4 years ago
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I was going to get a pool now I am not. My son loves the water too much.I cried. My heart goes out to you. Kedan was a beautiful little boy I can't take it. God please help us all this autism is getting out of hand. God bless you.
EuniceJanette 4 years ago