Why doesn't my spouse ever want to talk to me?

[ddfrisky]

I am like that....I talk only when am "safe"......and I continually talk but I keep quiet when I don't..

[mba2ceo]

Talk leads to DRAMA !!! Men learn that early in life. Females are the the NATURAL enemy of MALES.

[mba2ceo]

Talk leads to conflict ... men learn that early in dating. So men learn that women are only good for one thing.

[MsColdCanada]

@mba2ceo Why not learn a bit about conflict resolution then? Also I resent that you think my gender is only good for doing the dishes.

[mba2ceo]

@MsColdCanada ... I never said that ... I said WOMEN are only good for cleaning, cooking & sexual gratification. I also resent that fact.

[52111centrumcz]

@MsColdCanada

Actually, we invented a thing called the dishwasher for that :-D

Unfortunately with the advancement of technology, the creation of washing machines, dishwashers, and automated vacuum cleaners the non-sexual component of relationships are rapidly disappearing. Before, men and women were very co-dependent in life. Its now going away. In a way it leads to less meaningful non-sexual contact, which can be kind of depressing.

[MsColdCanada]

@52111centrumcz Check with your closest Amish community. They have a cure for that.

[52111centrumcz]

@MsColdCanada

There are no Amish in Europe. I also dislike a lot of mind numbing activity - and few women/girls I have met have inclinations towards modeling (as in making numerical models, not being a self-propelled clothes hanger) and reading about physical phenomena, or involved with nature - and the few that I know are happily involved. The rest I find unbearably mentally grating, and cannot put up with the shopping teeny bopper mentality that has proliferated even amongst the 30yr olds.

[MsColdCanada]

@52111centrumcz No Amish in Europe? Well that is something I did not know. As for the rest, I only had a possible solution for technology's impact on relationships, I'm far from being a professional matchmaker so I can't assist you with your mate finding woes.

[Angelotvkool]

Puertorican!

[twor4u]

THAT'S MY WIFE A 100%.

[benja1709]

true im like that

[k1a1t1h1y1]

he is good.

[Americanjazzlady]

I've been married twice and if there's NO communication verbally or sexually, you have major problems. There's a saying.."the couple thatj prays together, stays together. It's true. Also, never go to bed mad is a great one. I intend to get married again when I meet the right man.

GOD BLESS YOU MARK GUNGOR. He mixes wisdom with comedy and is a blessing to so many. As we say, he puts "flesh and blood on it!"

[ivanaklaric]

how these marry without talking?

[NiqueJB]

Trust me. It happens a lot.

[ivanaklaric]

been there divorced that

[NiqueJB]

So...why'd you ask if you already experienced that? You're wondering why it happens?

[ivanaklaric]

i wonder why after signing paper ppl change to worse. i guess human nature, acting and lying

[NiqueJB]

Ah, I see. Well, the thing about humans is, they tend to lie to themselves more than theyc an ever lie to other people.

This happens even amongst couples who are sicnerely in love but have gone through some experiences togetehr that have shaken one or both of their security in one another.

You can be a really great, down-to-earth couple, and still you can suffer this. Things just happen and we have to face them, or they will destroy us.

[ivanaklaric]

i guess all things come to an end but problem is children stay

but in my case i also didnt talk so.. thats it :P