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  • Many black men are just more attracted to women who are not black.

  • i think african american woman have more atittude just my opinion k

  • Its 2010 thats all I got to say.

  • BLACK WOMEN HAVE TERRIBLE ATTITUDES

  • @SuperbadIsraelite Too many bm r trying to be the woman instead of the man of the black race. & when they want to play a male role they go feed & clothe non bw. Most bw r on their own. Both bm & bw have a history of enslavement so the bm has never given the bw the security the other races of men have given their women so stop pretending u have. The ww & wm have had it easy bc of the labors of bm &w. The problem is bm still perfer to take care of other races instead of providing for his own.

  • I think you touched on something but didn't really HONE in on it.Which is alot of the problems that arise between BM & BW are material based. We as men are trying to BUILD something w/ you as we are hardwired to do.It frustrates us when you have the type of attitude that you described in this video."I worked hard,therefore I deserve this & that",when in turn you expect him to "SHARE" w/you.From what you said,he was trying to HELP YOU,and even if it was "soft",you spit in his face.

  • @ReadyRedd123 I dont see where any guy who is only dating a bw has the right to expect her to take direction from him unless hes housing, feeding & clothing her. A lot of these bm complaining dont even have their own shyt together & r often living off some bw then want to call the shots. Then when they got money they go feed &clothe non bw. Ive seen some bw listen to their boyfriend &buy stuff he wanted &he leaves her in debt. Unless married to a devoted man most bw r own their own.

  • @shemika341 i can agree with most of what you said. But what I'm talking about is WHEN a dude does those things(Clothe & Feed,house her) and she STILL does whatever she wants to.She spends up what he's trying to save just bc she THINKS she is entitled to do it.

  • their meaaaaaaaan

  • other women have lost their softness because its now cool to act like a sista

  • Because they can!

  • Just like every appliance,it only works if all the elements are "IN THEIR PLACE"".relationships are NO difference.Wisdom IS the principle thing!!!!

  • why cant u just let black men who date the opposite race be, thats the way it is what can you do?

  • Black women joined the Feminism movement, and these white women taught black women to compete, conflict, contradict every edict of black men.

    Now that we've started a men's movement to mold better men, YOU BLACK WOMEN STILL HAVE ROTTEN COMMENTS; JUST LIKE YOU HATED THE MILLION MAN MARCH BECAUSE YOU WERE NOT INCLUDED!!!

    You hate eeeeverything he does that doesn't make you the center of attention. BW ARE ATTENTION FREAKS aka DRAMA QUEENS!!!

  • Not ALL black women are that way or feel that way. I believe in the Million Man March. Maybe it will teach younger men how to come together without conflict or confrontation. Bonding & unity. You have to be careful how you say things....not to classify ALL into the same category because not ALL of us feel that way or act a certain way.

  • i feel u on this one it was sum true shit tho i tell my girl she be shoping 2 much but then she always get'n sumting 4 me so i dont get 2 mad lol

  • As I pointed out earlier, some Black women's attitude is not good. I think Black ladies need to work on that. You can express yourself without being nasty to the other. And remember to treat your man like Kings. The lady on this video has a point to make, please listen.

  • The problem with some Black woman is their attitude.

  • Yes I agree with U all women have lost their shyness or should I say "lady likeness!" women shouldn't be so argumentive and aggressive towards men thats one of the reason why we cheat or look outside the relationship!! speaking from my self I wouldn't want to stay in a relationship if I knew she was not willing to summit to me at all and Im summiting to her! I give 100% and she gives 30% thats not right!

  • maybe becouse there are too much black women tyhat marriage whites over there...

  • I don't understand your statement...

  • looking the statistic there are many black women that married with white people

  • Oh ok----Yes that is true.....but that is a more recent and growing statistic. Black men have been at other races since the beginning. Not to say it is bad at all. Just most men tend to be greedy and want what is "forbidden" or more than what they already have.

  • but what if what you have is on some bullshyt, and all you want is a normal woman lol Normality shouldn't be 'forbidden'

    And @ selam, BM try to be '50' because thas what girls go for. I have experimented and got a women on a neutral level, meanin they cant tell whether im thug or not. Im dressed urban but thas its. Then I get at them on a thug tip first, and they be all over it. Then i switch up and take it intellectual, same tone, and they turn off, they thug fantasy has been ruined

  • I can appreciate what you are saying, however this video does not apply to ALL men but the mast majority of them. I will most likely make another vid using my own personal experiences. But the same goes for men, I have been left or turned down for hood rats, or guys tell me I'm not hood enough, or I am too white.....and too white just meaning I am not hood enough and I am educated and have common sense. It goes for both genders

  • There is actually no more better than anything. White women somehow got bigger asses and Black women somehow got strait hair. There are Black and White women who give oral pleasures to the man they love. Some White girls have brown tans, some Black women have blond hair. There is no better than anything. BUT BOTH WOMEN DO WISH TO BE TREATED RIGHT (I hope).

  • That is 100% true!!!

  • Its just not only womens tho...I mean look at the blk men out there....they dont even treat there GF ...right...they are always trying to look act like or be like 50 or whom ever they see on music videos...Its just not right ....i mean just look at them ....they all are trying to be player and stuff..i just dont get it...i think if a blk men treats blk women like they treat white women ...i am preety sure blk women would act good too...

  • Oh I totally agree with you!!! Trust me as a woman I do!!! But this was based off the topic and from the black men I know and why they seem to leave black women alone----or from what men have told me before getting to know me

  • I agree that it's all women that have lost their essence of cushiness. With all of these men helping to make babies and then running off and refusing to help with raising their children. As a result of just that, women have lost their softness. Luckily I have not been screwed like that by my fiance. And since I have not, I'm still able to be sweet and loving to him but I can definately see from other young ladies why they could be so bitter. My sister is one of them.

  • So true!! that is a BIG part then they can't help but to take it to the next relationship out of fear...it's a vicious cycle

  • Enjoli

    I love the way you communicate about this really tough issue. They way you explain how you respond is mature and sane unlike what so many young people today would do.

    You make me proud of Black women, as I should be.

    EV

  • Thank you again...I can not take ALL the credit I was raised by my grandmother--so I took in some of her ways..

  • Enjolie

    1.) Kiss grandma for me!

    2.) Please tell your Grandmother that she created a blessed young lady!

    But I bet she already knows that! LOL!

    EV

  • You appear to have an OLD SOUL. :)

  • LOL I have heard that before---thanx I take that as a great compliment!!! :o)

  • Welcome! It IS a compliment... It shows you have natural wisdom.

  • i dont think race is a big issue.. as long as the man is happy, who really cares? i really dont see the big deal.

  • Race is not the issue but you have to watch the vid I was responding to to understand the topic---it is coming from a black man's point of view so he cant speak on any other races but his own....same for me---i can only speak about women or black women..

  • I think you made a really good point in your video. I rated your video 5 stars!

  • Thanx.....I try to be logical

  • :o) glad you like it---my natural look

  • lmao---or mine..lol oh well let them hate...

  • Thanx...was tryna point out you can still have your aggression but still be soft

  • Level-headed. Nice.

  • Thanx...I try to be

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