I am 18, intensely insecure over my virginity and my weight, and I so hope to lose enough weight that I will feel better about waiting until marriage before having sex, and to not give in to peer pressure.
I'm disappointed! I can't believe Selena had sex with Justin Bieber. I think she didn't have good or clear reasons to wait. Maybe her relashionship with Bieber have a lot of stress.
i don't really understand why we should wait and don't have sex until marriage...
because if we don't want to get married?
Sex is a pleasure moment so why should we wait. when you ready to do it you're ready and marriage have nothing to do with that.
my first time,i was 17 years . i don't want do get married (except if its advantagous financially) and i don't have regrets. But maybe its because im french and its not the same culture...
I hate when people say that there is nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. There is. The media makes it seem as though it isn't, but that's an opinion. And about the whole 'used is less valuable than unused' is true. How many times have you gone into Game Stop and saw a used version of a game more valuable than a brand new one?
@TheFallenMistress More importantly kids are losing a sense of self-worth. Love is saving yourself for your husband even when you haven't met him yet. And when you marry him you can freely give of yourself; he will know that you loved him even before meeting him ... that you loved him so much as to promise to have sex only with him for your entire life. Finally he will know there is no other man out there with the knowledge of having slept with his wife.
@CrankyCatholic Tthere are way too many flaws in your logic. For what you say to be true, and for everyone to wait until marriage to have sex implies that everyone is in love when they get married. Divorce happens, and forcing people to stay together if they are unhappy is wrong. Prior to divorce, if they have sex, and than get divorced, than that was a whole lifetime of waiting put to waste. God is flawed, religion is flawed, and abstinence is flawed. They are all good as ideas but not practice
So, how the hell does comprehensive sex education prevent pregnancies, STDs, AIDS, and so forth? Aren't you just adding fuel to the fire by being anti-abstinence? Face it people! Only promiscuous, horny, immoral, irreligious, impulsive, and easygoing people want to defeat abstinence education. If you believe that there is God, then you SHOULD really wait until marriage, PERIOD!!! No exceptions!!!
i believe that young adults can have sex if they use protection and know what they are doing and fully understand what sex is. Also i believe purity rings are just another way of controlling kids and making them ignore natural human feelings.
I've had a couple of opportunities, but have refused them (much to my own personal pain, haha). I wish I could, but Christians just can't (or, rather, shouldn't).
@texaslonghorn2010 Christians AND non-Christians shouldn't have sex before marriage. STD's, single-motherhood, HIV, abortion. These are the consequences of sex outside of marriage. And it's sorrowful to imagine your future spouse is sleeping with someone else right now.
@CrankyCatholic STD's including HIV can be contracted from a cheating spouse, a divorce could lead a mother or father to be a single parent, and an abortion could be considered a solution to any unplanned pregnancy, including once within a marriage. And its sorrowful to imagine your ex spouse is sleeping with someone else right now
@Krogoth04 I don't care if a girl I am seeing has been with someone else. I am with her because I like being with her. I couldn't give a rats ass if she isn't a virgin.
I have nothing against people who want to wait until they are married to have sex.
Their body, their choice.
I only have a problem with the notion (which is quite popular, though hypocritical, if you haven't noticed) that people who decide to have premarital are somehow less valuable than those who wait.
@bengalbengalbengal Did you just compare a person and a vehicle? But to answer your question, I would rather have a car who values me for more than just my sexuality. The idea of "purity" dwindles sexuality down to numbers, down to who is a whore and who is a virgin. You are one side of the whore-virgin dichotomy. Congratulations.
I agree. I am also 19 and still waiting. I definitely agree that with prayer, discipline, staying true to yourself and to God and not letting yourself be carried away by anyone can help you wait. Besides any guy that isn't willing to wait for me just isn't worth my time.
and everyone is acting like those who wait are self righteous, and it is funny because as a 21 year old in college,I've noticed that the people who talk the most about their sexual lifestyle are the sexually active ones. They talk about it the most, and yet, those I know who are waiting actually don't talk about sex much at all. And they are actually very mature and calm about sex. And brace yourselves folks...some of them are actually atheist and agnostic so chill people!
and everyone is acting like those who wait are self righteous, and it is funny because as a 21 year old in college,I've noticed that the people who talk the most about their sexual lifestyle are the sexually active ones. They talk about it the most, and yet, those I know who are waiting actually don't talk about sex much at all. And they are actually very mature and calm about sex. And brace yourselves folks...some of them are actually atheist and agnostic so chill people!
and everyone is acting like those who wait are self righteous, and it is funny because as a 21 year old in college,I've noticed that the people who talk the most about their sexual lifestyle are the sexually active ones. They talk about it the most, and yet, those I know who are waiting actually don't talk about sex much at all. And they are actually very mature and calm about sex. And brace yourselves folks...some of them are actually atheist and agnostic so chill people!
@SecularLibertarian I agree that there is nothing wrong with sex before , but the anti-abstinence crowd acts like something is wrong with those who decide to wait, but that is stupid simply because everyone makes a choice for what they feel best suits their feelings and their particular comfort. That is called being an ADULT and living life as you want it. Just because some people feel they need to have sex early, doesnt mean all people feel it is the right lifestyle choice for them
Of course she's from Texas. I hate my state sometimes. Most of the time. It's no coincidence all the Disney stars are celibate, hormonal ticking-time bombs. They handpick them that way.
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Toooooolboooooox. If you look really hard you can see the strings on her mouth connected to her parents above stage. Further more she's a fucking lier. She had her cooch cleaned, you can tell. The eyes don't lie you slut, the eyes don't lie.
Its called fanatical self-righteousness. Just like anyone else who goes against thier own instinct and parades it around like something to be bragged about.
Uhh thats just a littllee bit of a generalisation isnt it? You can have your opinions but please dont insult my religion and make judgements which are just false to be honest.
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I like Selena, but she'll probably get married at a young age, like 18. That's what most people I'm sure that "wait" do. So in a way, it isn't that much of a sacrifice for God. They do it sooner than those with out rings. I just hope that it's worth the wait. Remember Jessica Simpson? She waited and then divorced, so in a way, wouldn't being divorce and f'in around afterwards be a "sin"????? Really, what does God think of that?
I am 18, intensely insecure over my virginity and my weight, and I so hope to lose enough weight that I will feel better about waiting until marriage before having sex, and to not give in to peer pressure.
Milfuelle100 4 months ago
I'm disappointed! I can't believe Selena had sex with Justin Bieber. I think she didn't have good or clear reasons to wait. Maybe her relashionship with Bieber have a lot of stress.
Auxi84 7 months ago
i don't really understand why we should wait and don't have sex until marriage...
because if we don't want to get married?
Sex is a pleasure moment so why should we wait. when you ready to do it you're ready and marriage have nothing to do with that.
my first time,i was 17 years . i don't want do get married (except if its advantagous financially) and i don't have regrets. But maybe its because im french and its not the same culture...
blacktea999 11 months ago
I hate when people say that there is nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. There is. The media makes it seem as though it isn't, but that's an opinion. And about the whole 'used is less valuable than unused' is true. How many times have you gone into Game Stop and saw a used version of a game more valuable than a brand new one?
TheFallenMistress 11 months ago 4
@TheFallenMistress More importantly kids are losing a sense of self-worth. Love is saving yourself for your husband even when you haven't met him yet. And when you marry him you can freely give of yourself; he will know that you loved him even before meeting him ... that you loved him so much as to promise to have sex only with him for your entire life. Finally he will know there is no other man out there with the knowledge of having slept with his wife.
CrankyCatholic 11 months ago 4
@CrankyCatholic Tthere are way too many flaws in your logic. For what you say to be true, and for everyone to wait until marriage to have sex implies that everyone is in love when they get married. Divorce happens, and forcing people to stay together if they are unhappy is wrong. Prior to divorce, if they have sex, and than get divorced, than that was a whole lifetime of waiting put to waste. God is flawed, religion is flawed, and abstinence is flawed. They are all good as ideas but not practice
fourevertwentyseven 10 months ago
@TheFallenMistress
1. What exactly is wrong with having sex before marriage?
2. Wrong by whose standards?
batmanpronz 7 months ago
@batmanpronz Sex before marriage spreads disease, HPV, and unintended pregnancy.
CrankyCatholic 6 months ago
@CrankyCatholic One word; condoms.
batmanpronz 6 months ago
I am a solider, and I can safely say that I would rather have a seasoned veteran at my side, then someone who hasn't even gone through boot.
Not2Sane 1 year ago
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RomanLowry 1 year ago
I wonder does she masturbate
RexieV 1 year ago
So, how the hell does comprehensive sex education prevent pregnancies, STDs, AIDS, and so forth? Aren't you just adding fuel to the fire by being anti-abstinence? Face it people! Only promiscuous, horny, immoral, irreligious, impulsive, and easygoing people want to defeat abstinence education. If you believe that there is God, then you SHOULD really wait until marriage, PERIOD!!! No exceptions!!!
TheLavish99 1 year ago
i believe that young adults can have sex if they use protection and know what they are doing and fully understand what sex is. Also i believe purity rings are just another way of controlling kids and making them ignore natural human feelings.
Randomfilms23 1 year ago
I've had a couple of opportunities, but have refused them (much to my own personal pain, haha). I wish I could, but Christians just can't (or, rather, shouldn't).
texaslonghorn2010 1 year ago
@texaslonghorn2010 Christians AND non-Christians shouldn't have sex before marriage. STD's, single-motherhood, HIV, abortion. These are the consequences of sex outside of marriage. And it's sorrowful to imagine your future spouse is sleeping with someone else right now.
CrankyCatholic 1 year ago
@CrankyCatholic STD's including HIV can be contracted from a cheating spouse, a divorce could lead a mother or father to be a single parent, and an abortion could be considered a solution to any unplanned pregnancy, including once within a marriage. And its sorrowful to imagine your ex spouse is sleeping with someone else right now
Krogoth04 1 year ago
@Krogoth04 I don't care if a girl I am seeing has been with someone else. I am with her because I like being with her. I couldn't give a rats ass if she isn't a virgin.
Not2Sane 1 year ago
its been 2 years since she got the ring im guessing it wont be much longer
redsoxxx1234 1 year ago
Sex this Sex that.
Its better to wait than to get a 33 year old single woman with a 14 year old kid regreting everything.
XDDramaChikkXD 1 year ago
I hav a purity ring but the real thing I want to know is if there is a Disney channel star that doesn't hav a purity. Then I'll be shocked
TheSparkleyVampire 1 year ago
the notion is true. Used is always less valuable unused.
54tumelo56 1 year ago
I have nothing against people who want to wait until they are married to have sex.
Their body, their choice.
I only have a problem with the notion (which is quite popular, though hypocritical, if you haven't noticed) that people who decide to have premarital are somehow less valuable than those who wait.
demonxata 1 year ago
@demonxata would you rather have a new car or a used car? >.O
bengalbengalbengal 1 year ago
@bengalbengalbengal Did you just compare a person and a vehicle? But to answer your question, I would rather have a car who values me for more than just my sexuality. The idea of "purity" dwindles sexuality down to numbers, down to who is a whore and who is a virgin. You are one side of the whore-virgin dichotomy. Congratulations.
demonxata 1 year ago
I agree. I am also 19 and still waiting. I definitely agree that with prayer, discipline, staying true to yourself and to God and not letting yourself be carried away by anyone can help you wait. Besides any guy that isn't willing to wait for me just isn't worth my time.
minia987 1 year ago 3
@minia987 Any guy that isn't willing to wait has better things to do.
Not2Sane 1 year ago
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and everyone is acting like those who wait are self righteous, and it is funny because as a 21 year old in college,I've noticed that the people who talk the most about their sexual lifestyle are the sexually active ones. They talk about it the most, and yet, those I know who are waiting actually don't talk about sex much at all. And they are actually very mature and calm about sex. And brace yourselves folks...some of them are actually atheist and agnostic so chill people!
gigglefeather801 1 year ago
and everyone is acting like those who wait are self righteous, and it is funny because as a 21 year old in college,I've noticed that the people who talk the most about their sexual lifestyle are the sexually active ones. They talk about it the most, and yet, those I know who are waiting actually don't talk about sex much at all. And they are actually very mature and calm about sex. And brace yourselves folks...some of them are actually atheist and agnostic so chill people!
gigglefeather801 1 year ago 4
and everyone is acting like those who wait are self righteous, and it is funny because as a 21 year old in college,I've noticed that the people who talk the most about their sexual lifestyle are the sexually active ones. They talk about it the most, and yet, those I know who are waiting actually don't talk about sex much at all. And they are actually very mature and calm about sex. And brace yourselves folks...some of them are actually atheist and agnostic so chill people!
gigglefeather801 1 year ago 3
abstinence sucks.
there is nothing wrong with having sex before or after marriage.
SecularLibertarian 2 years ago
@SecularLibertarian I agree that there is nothing wrong with sex before , but the anti-abstinence crowd acts like something is wrong with those who decide to wait, but that is stupid simply because everyone makes a choice for what they feel best suits their feelings and their particular comfort. That is called being an ADULT and living life as you want it. Just because some people feel they need to have sex early, doesnt mean all people feel it is the right lifestyle choice for them
gigglefeather801 1 year ago 2
You guys say abstinence till marriage i like to say abstinence till lucky ;) lmao
aloverboy13 2 years ago
ive lost my virginity when i was 13. hahahaha!
hubert25 2 years ago
@hubert25 You are a preved dult
Myhello961 1 year ago
@Myhello961 your gay, lol
hubert25 1 year ago
she's only 15,?
blickblick123 2 years ago
Has she even hit puberty yet?
Acidpunk101 2 years ago
If she met me shed look at he ring and say "what the fuck was i thinking!"
kylegreene1 2 years ago
selena gmez is a slut :P
zacharyhoyt 2 years ago
Of course she's from Texas. I hate my state sometimes. Most of the time. It's no coincidence all the Disney stars are celibate, hormonal ticking-time bombs. They handpick them that way.
blurryxxangel 2 years ago
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Toooooolboooooox. If you look really hard you can see the strings on her mouth connected to her parents above stage. Further more she's a fucking lier. She had her cooch cleaned, you can tell. The eyes don't lie you slut, the eyes don't lie.
tattat44 3 years ago
Awesome
Roxality 3 years ago
She is so pretty. Lucky girl.
lilfink77 3 years ago 2
Thank god finally a pop star that encourages virginity...unlike Jamie Lynn Spears!
keepout7 3 years ago 3
She can say that all she wants, chances of her actually doing that are 1% unless she plans to get married when she's 18 :P
operations1000 3 years ago
That isn't true. I am 19 and waiting. It can be done.
redrose2313 2 years ago 14
19 rofl, call me when you're my age sweetheart.
operations1000 2 years ago
How old are you?
redrose2313 2 years ago
I'm a 26 year old man and I'm still a virgin. It's called discipline.
charismaticace 2 years ago 22
Its called fanatical self-righteousness. Just like anyone else who goes against thier own instinct and parades it around like something to be bragged about.
Acidpunk101 2 years ago
@charismaticace You're a 26 year old man who's still a virgin. It's called ugliness coupled with the charisma of a piece of paper towel.
retardedcommandobot 1 year ago
@charismaticace Right on bro!
TheLavish99 1 year ago
@charismaticace It's called being a fat basement-dwelling neckbeard who uses logically frail rhetoric.
batmanpronz 6 months ago
@redrose2313 I agree with you!!!
Im soon to be 21 and still waiting...
kcherrera07 2 years ago
Uhh thats just a littllee bit of a generalisation isnt it? You can have your opinions but please dont insult my religion and make judgements which are just false to be honest.
adrenalinjunkie06 3 years ago 3
She changes the finger she wears it on...did any one else notice that...I wonder why? I have one too, and I totally support her!
mapjap001 3 years ago
thatts good
pimenb 3 years ago 4
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I like Selena, but she'll probably get married at a young age, like 18. That's what most people I'm sure that "wait" do. So in a way, it isn't that much of a sacrifice for God. They do it sooner than those with out rings. I just hope that it's worth the wait. Remember Jessica Simpson? She waited and then divorced, so in a way, wouldn't being divorce and f'in around afterwards be a "sin"????? Really, what does God think of that?
iluvsandler 3 years ago
She's so nice...
nd simple nd good...wayy better than Miley Cyrus(citrus lol...luv calln her citrus)...
well nyways i'm happy she's nt into that wonky stuff like miley!
GlitterEyezFairy 3 years ago 2
Good for her :)
xkimxwilliamsx 3 years ago 3