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  • Whoa. Something must have gone too far. I see your sorrow in your video. I know where you come from being from a deaf family how small that world is and your great concern in protecting them. Vloggers need to think before they make vlogs how their words will impact upon the deaf community. As result your instinct to restrict your children's interaction with others is discerning for me.

    Cy (like some others, I hadn't seen this til just now)

  • Thumbs up! :)

  • Yo Kim... didnt see this til now. Thank you for standing up for our own Deaf children. We need to be there for Deaf children of our next generation!

  • ohhh i realized my comment leaving here was missing, i know u didn't remove mine, it happened often arghhh but let me re-do it...i was saying, beautiful said and yes, it was awful to make a vlog talking about a 11 year old girl!!! i have 2 small children, it will break my heart if anyone makes a vlog talking about one of my girls.

  • Barry's wife seems hearing. If yes, it is nothing new to me. Hearing person is a factor for her/his married one. I know one deaf person. He has a hearing wife and daughter so he has his own church,Christian school,Bible college all for both hearing and deaf and has doctor awarded so you understand why. He and his hearing friend/interpreter brand me. Well. Audism is possible.

  • @bluenose77 No, his wife is deaf. But she grew up as oral. She is also from Mississippi -- where people oppressed each other.

    R-

  • @ridor9th Thank you.

  • I feel sorry. Holism is purely immature. False Holism. False prophesy. Pilate could not find Jesus Christ fault. He was holy and died for all. That is all I say. Sick Barry.

  • Deafmom3asl and ASLMom3 no longer work ~ I am very puzzled. Anyway, my new youtube name is now ASLKimber. I hope it will work fine from now on. Thanks, Kim

  • Thank you for taking the stand to point out that it is not appropriate to share this kind of information about a Deaf child without the consent of their parents. To use their daughter as a pawn for his revenge is nothing but an act of low life class. He ought to remove his vlog or better yet flag his based on invasion of privacy or even child abuse by exposing to the public of the confidentiality of the minor child.

  • @avbria yes, I agree. It upsets me greatly because it could happen to my own 11 year old kid and everyone else's children.

  • @avbria .....So, you are against using a child as a pawn......you feel it is an invasion of privacy or even child abuse to expose to the public the confidentiality of a minor child......

    You should know, look at your feeding frenzy ( and many others) when the child from Idaho was viewed and disgussed because of the grandmother's exploitation .....You loved it.....you are disgusting

    glena

  • @quietnolonger Whoa! Didn't it occur to you that this same grandmother contacted me for help? You love to assume instead of asking me questions to get your facts straight, heh? Who will speak up for the child when her rights are being denied? People who sit and do nothing and crticize disgust me.

  • @quietnolonger Don't know why you need to publish your comments twice so see my comment below to your repeated senseless message. You need to stop jumping to conclusions as you don't even know behind the scene. I would never ever publish any vlogs or pictures without the permission of their caring adult providers. FYI, Emma's grandmother gave me her permission as I would never ever publish any children without permission as I have a record of that. Go around and ask.

  • @avbria .....So, you are against using a child as a pawn......you feel it is an invasion of privacy or even child abuse to expose to the public the confidentiality of a minor child......(your words)

    You should know, look at your feeding frenzy ( and many others) when the child from Idaho was viewed and disgussed because of the grandmother's exploitation .....You loved it.....you are disgusting...

    glena

  • Hi Kim I watched your video two times yesterday and today. I really feel you... I do understand the concerns that Deaf parents would have for their Deaf children - especially since the Deaf world is so small.

    I know my own experience with BS and watching him with others - he tend to twist everything to make himself look like the good guy and others like the bad guy... that's his way. Nothing new. When I saw this vlog to Nikki, I knew it was the exact same thing. a sick, twisted story by & of BS

  • I love the background because it fits with this topic, 'We the adults must protect the children on this planet!" A good, straight-forward vlog!

  • (part 2) Let me guess. It's because you're a personal friend of Nikki. I've had it up here with the dirty tricks of very people you support. Furthermore, I have a personal email directly from Nikki. In that email she outlined the things her daughter mentioned about things she observed when she was here. If she wanted to keep the children protected and "out of it" she would not have mentioned it. I'm just quoting what she has quoted herself. You just don't know the full story.

  • @theHolism My Christ! You said it again,... Could not you see you did it again? You did it again by your deficit thinker by use children to address the world thru your comment. You must be out of Mind! Do i seen you as a real psycho?

  • @theHolism "Let me guess. It's because you're a personal friend of Nikki." reflects yourself as paranoid person? i do not see why you need to guess. I do not want to have the guesses to eat my mind out. Chill out with the guess thing. It is not game. It is about how people should have caring for others. We would love to INTERVENTION you is because We do care for you, Barry Sewell! okay,...? It is like your Madness George in England!

  • @TheASLFire Yep, I don't appreciate the guess game - Barry already knew that we're friends. The whole point of this vlog is about the CHILD. It has nothing to do with friendship, deafhood, and whatever he said. If someone did similar to his child, I would make the very same vlog protesting about the inappropriate message across the cyberspace

  • @theHolism You claim that you did not watch the vlog. Whatever you say. You're full of malice. Full of narcissism.

    R-

  • @ridor9th You ROCKS!

  • Sorry but I'm not going to watch the video. I just went straight to the comment section. I just don't understand why you thought I'd watch your video and believe you really care? Many times my children were turned into the victim by those deafhoodized people and what did you do about it? Nothing. You didn't do anything about it. You stood aside and did not want to get in the middle of the muddle. You didn't even speak up for us. Why are you all of suddenly interested now?

  • @aslmom3 Yes?

  • @theHolism Realized that my replies to you didnt go to your name - duh! It's the 3 replies aslmom3@aslmom3 below for you.

  • @aslmom3 being a personal friend to this and that friend, it has nothing to do with this vlog. It's personal to me because I have my 11 year old son - I can not fathom the idea that it's OK for the people to vlog and prey on children in negative light. That's why I am here to share my concerns. Children are the ones who we must protect.

  • @aslmom3 Thank you, Kim. You stood up for what is right. I would jump in defense of BS' children if this happens to them.

  • @aslmom3 I'm sorry that your kids are being vicitimized, I am not aware of it. I dont watch the zillion vlogs to catch the remarks targeted to your kids. Me not get in middle = Yes, you have encouraged us all to be an independent thinker, not to be a "groupie of Barry's", and so forth. As of today, I am no one's side. I like many vloggers at certain topics, not necessarily everything what they said. Including yours, I enjoy some of your vlogs (not all).

  • @aslmom3 Yet, you expected me to be your loyal fan/follower/your groupie. Now I'm interested because you exposed a little girl to the world - the little girl could be my own son, or anyone else's child. That's what I'm upset about.

  • @theHolism, Are you Paranoid to watch the video? This video is harmless. And do not you mind help me where can i find "though you would watch your video" what a pure liar,... here she goes silence meant what? bye bye bye barry sewell!

  • @theHolism Shame on you because you said yourself, "I'm not going to watch Kim;s video." Where did Kim attack you? She just expressed her concern, but you refused to stay open-minded. You probably learn something new from Kim. Please show me some evidences that some people attack your children becuase I don't see anywhere. You used your OWN kid! How hypocrite you are!!

  • Just want to thank you for speaking up directly, clearly and strongly here in the vlog. Yes, he chose to do something ridiculous, harmful and totally unnecessary. We must not permit fear even if he tends to pull all stops to attack someone who stands up to him in principle or truth, especially a woman. So I hope you continue to keep faith in other people, just be more alert/aware of "wolves in sheep clothes" like the Grand BS is. Bless you.

  • @ASLElla Yes, you are right that we must not allow 'fear' into our daily lives. It's a rude awakening for me to see someone who exposed a little girl based on .... (I am not sure what it's)....I am more alerted and aware of those who dont have respect for the children.

  • @aslmom3 ... Me too. I was unaware of BS' ability to go this far, but he did go far enough after I disagreed with him. I am like you, an independent thinker and like to read all sources of information. But now BS has shown his dark side, only because he assumed I gave ASLitself information about his house, address, and his brother. There are information out there, plenty of them. Why target me? Use my daughter to get at me? He's as low as a sewer rat.

  • @aslnikki After watching Richard's poweful message, I feel empowered. Richard pointed out that every individuals who BS targeted thrived and become more stronger. Our strong kids will outlive BS, thrive into awesome people, and contribute their abilities, talents, heart and wisdom to the Deaf community. Cesspool with sewer rats is not where we are at!

  • @FrogTigger Yes, we remember the old days. Hope everything will be OK. Thanks, Kim

  • Strange, I cannot access my own youtube and had to use other account. Hope it will be solved tomorrow. I want to say thank you for leaving comments. The main point of my vlog is to protect our children, and they're our future. Who knows when we get very old and become funny-mind, they can vlog about us? I sure hope not! GN DeafMom3ASL - Kim

  • Kim,

    Thanks for expressing your concern about the situation. Hope your message will make the difference for Deaf children positively.

  • @deafchipmunk Yep I hope my message will make some difference.  Thanks Kim

  • Kim - After watch your vlog, this is exactly how I feel - I wonder how much I should let others enter, minimal? Sad.... sigh...

  • @allisonpeace It's scary time for my kids to be around strangers who I thought I could trust. Life's strange, some times. Thanks, Kim

  • *heart-touching* message. I hope he removes his vlog. its bad taste.. scary... Thank you for sharing your feeling with us.

  • @LSmae2 Glad to know that my feelings are heard. Thanks, Kim

  • Cont'd.... I was stunned to see how could he attack nikki's precious child in a personal way. It is so wrong on many level. 11 year old child gathered information after "spying"?!? Oh come on....11 year olds could be curious and look in wonder because each home and life is different from its other life and home. That is very common. I don't know why Barry is so paranoid about that. About that pinching part, either her child could challenge him just for fun. Or it may not be true.

    Sad

  • @InsaneMisha Abnormal Psychology: Paranoid

  • @kalalau52 BINGO! *evil grins*

  • @InsaneMisha Yea, you are right. Kids at that age can be very curious (nosy, sometimes) and say odd things then they don't continue that when they get a bit older. - Kim

  • @InsaneMisha Yep. The pinching game is common at schools, schools for the deaf... its like a competition to see who can tolerate the pinch longest. i did that when i was little.... duh! My girl has nothing but all good to say about her time with the Sewells. She learned so much! She saw a lot. All positive! Sigh.

  • @aslnikki Yeah, I know all about that pinching game at Deaf schools. Funny thing is I don't recall in my days at deaf oral school there were no pinching game because we dreaded pinching since most of us took several abuses from our houseparents such as pinching, slapping, spanking, yanking and twisting.That is probably why we didn't like that pinching game but I think we did the punching in the arm game. Obviously Barry would find a way to twist things around anyway. That is so typical of him.

  • Kim... You've said it all. Every parent has reserved their right to be very concerned for their child's well being. Like MeDeafYes said, I would say nice things about their parents when talking to the children because I never believe in telling the children bad things about their parents since it is NOT their problem. All children love their parents unconditionally. If you don't like their parents, take it up with the parents ONLY, not going through children as shield like Barry did.

  • @InsaneMisha Thanks, Kim

  • You said it beautifully and I agree with you 110%. Truly disgusting that BS had to stoop so low to even vlog about a child, when it's all based on assumptions. I feel your heart and understand your feeling about being afraid for your family due to BS's actions. He's always claiming that he copied all conversations/vlogs for his records, that's what turned me off, what was his purpose? I believe that ASLNikki is stronger n wiser. She's a great person! You have a sweet sensitive spirit. Bless you!

  • @DeafPoet2 Thank you for recognizing my sensitive spirit, especially for children! Kim

  • Ooops! I mentioned your first name...I should have said Deafmom3ASL since we do not know each other. Forgive me!

  • @MeDeafYes Oh, my name is Kim :) I said in my Vlog, so it's fine with me for you to say my name.  No worries

  • Nikki, I felt bad about... but sorry, that all i want to say...

  • @deafnet1

    Are you really this sorry? I do wonder....

  • @allisonpeace ... To measure how much or deep my sorry was... I say it in front of online rather than email to nikki!

  • Part Two: One person hurt me badly as he is a pure evil person but when he introduced me to his children...I was warm and friendly to them and even talked good things about their dad. We can't project hurt etc to parents' children for any reason, period.

  • @MeDeafYes Yes that's what we the adult are supposed to do - treat their children as my own children. It's the adults we can talk straight to. Thanks for your comment, Kim

  • Excellent message, Kim. I hope that Tayler Mayer will watch this and consider to remove videos that mention bad things about children. As adults, we must remind ourselves constantly not to bring children in subject if we are upset, hurt or disagree with their parents. That is a no no. We must leave children out of it. I agree with you all the way.

  • Thank you for this! When I saw his vlog I immediately started thinking about all the stupid/silly things I said or did as a kid!! Fortunately the interenet wasn't around then.

  • @REBE258 Yeah! Doggone it! I did many stupid stuff at age 11 too. Heh.

  • I remove my first vlog after realized that I misunderstand your interpretation and give myself an opportunity to re-correct my thought...

    Want to say thank you for presenation of your point of view...

  • @deafnet1 not "vlog", I mean comment

  • Kim, I second you! That is so shame! Hey Remember we learn that Barry do care about Deaf Babies to learn ASL, now He isnt show his Honest which you explained in your vlog. That the true color of Barry right now. Do we Trust him? For me NO Thanks. We need to protect our Deaf Children and Babies for the causes, ASL. Now Barry already did and showed his true color what he said about Nikki's Daughter! That is Nightmare for any Deaf or Hearing Parent of

    Deaf Children... Fright of him now!

  • Kim,

    I made a vlog to react to your vlog. I want to write down the quotation I shared in my vlog: "When anxiety and anomie prevail, and people are desperate to make sense of a senseless situation, conpirational thinking thrives and prospers." Like you, I found this type of hate (aversion and hostility) pretty scary.

    Carl

  • @kalalau52 I recently removed my reaction vlog....I will make a new vlog about your vlog. Kim, thanks for being straighforward with all of us.

  • @kalalau52 Thanks - I checked your vlog and learned something new.  Kim

  • Barry's fans should reduce their trust in Barry right away because of hostility (banished) against Deaf Children of Deaf or Hearing Parents. You the fans should

    not make hostility or supportable comments under Barry's recently Vlog.Big Ashamed on you, Barry and his fans!

  • @TheWizardEagle Thank you for leaving a comment here. Kim

  • whats more it may be very very very possible that the child did not do or say the things that BS said the child did and said

    we have to consider the source

    ur delivery, consideration, care and message are very important

    Barry knew exactly what he was doing when he said this info - he wants to make others feel fearful and upset

    he is exerting social control via this mechanicism. it is reckless and bad karma worthy

    thanks for trying

    peace

    patti

  • @pdurr Good points you had made. Thanks, Kim

  • Thank you, Kim! Have not seen his video. From this experience, I have lost trust in letting the Deaf Village raise our children. As homeschoolers, we had to reach far and wide for Deaf resources. He and his wife spoke highly of our girls and wanted our children to get together again. We loved his kids too. I trusted him. Why now? Why the made-up stories about a minor who is innocent?

  • cont.... We ALL are one BIG family and we MUST embrace each other despite our differences. We must make our community a safe place for our Deaf children. He unintentionally made me into a stronger woman and I am blessed to know the Deaf community is 100% behind us. Up and onward we fight for our Deaf children's rights to a healthy world free of audism. XO

  • @aslnikki

    I simply agree... sigh...

  • @aslnikki Dear Nikki and Richard, I truly am sorry to see what happened to you both, your family, especially your sweet precious daugther! We must keep faith that people will make our community a safe haven for our Deaf children and CODAs. Hang in there! Kim

  • you touched my heart big time... never dream that they would vlog about child's behavior. hoped that they will remove vlog.

  • @TheASLFire Glad to know that I touched your heart :)

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