How to Improve Self Esteem : Fear of Failure & Improving Low Self Esteem

[Pathrissia]

This actually kind of helped.

[MusclesfromB]

WTF you can not take failure personally? YOU FUCKING SHOULD take it personally, so you can think of how to improve!

[GMSamuelRhine]

watchin this bitch fail hard on EV makes me confident as hell

[TRAULARD]

Great. I thank you so much.

[utsavv18]

hi

[gcharocks]

So she is a therapist and a dialect tutor? Well done.

[sigurjong]

I never fail. How dare she!

[KhaiBanks]

Whats with the rude comments? this women is trying to help u nerds.

[joshuadiesel]

failure is not an option................one who fails  is the one who stopped trying

[tropdurla2nd]

@joshuadiesel that's not true! if you've never failed, you've never learnt anything, you can try and failt, that's why we learn from our mistakes

[EnthalpyH]

To be succint: we suck. lolz

[chuggacheesy]

:'( "you are going to fail at certain things in your life" just what i needed to hear riiight before an exam that my life depends on ...

[martyn580]

this women has a big forehead

[iluvyouwyatt]

@martyn580

she really doesnt lol. Looks normal to me.

[unlyckystrike]

If you never take responsibility for your worng moves, you`ll never improve. As simple as that. So if you never admit that you did fail at something, how can you ever take responsibility for it, let alone improve..?

[mrsyunhojung]

i was better off before i watched this shit

[ningle4567]

Damn this bitch made me more scared of failure

[Alexthapanda]

lol this bitch is "stoopid"

[Bbabesz118]

She's about as helpful as Barack Obama.

[50pushups]

The BOBBEH'S DAWG was lost in the FAWG.

[conimahoni]

she is stupid

[broadcastmyass4u]

Blame it on the prah pah pah prah pah prah pah project

[Sonicku]

I was determin to ask this girl out today But i chicken Out and failed...shes was expecting me to ask her too and in the end she left mad because bucause i dint say anything at all, i feel like such a Loser because today was the last day i will ever see her..

My Courage Fail

My Motivation Failed

I Failed beause of who and what I AM, a low self esteem person, its agony!, i hate this! i just want to be like the everyday happy people i see everywere.

[TheEditor80]

@Sonicku Reminds me of Marty's dad in the movie "Back to the Future". He had self esteem issues but deep down was actually a smart & savvy guy. He sucked cause he believed he was a loser but once he believed in himself his life got better. You have to love & believe in yourself Sonicku. Ask yourself why you don't think you are worthy of happiness & attack those dumb ass thoughts. By the way confidence is sexy. You are worth happiness and trust me, just cuz ppl appear happy doesn't mean shit.

[rosswood0602]

failing like your british accent video

[gearsofwar2318]

I think I fail all of the time in my relationships with people everyday, but I mean how long is it going to take to get better at it..I try hard as hell everyday to get better.. I can't help who I am, for some reason I just grew up this way... I don't know how to fix it, it has gone on for years. How long is it going to take for me to learn how to succeed in relationships? I don't want to be 60 years old and just learning how to succeed with me being confident.

[tundrasretreat]

This "Experts" advice on how to speak with a British accent was a MASSIVE failure. But, now I know, it wasn't her, it was the INCIDENT. The project failed.. not her. *sniffs* I've learnt so much *tears up*

[RockyBalboa211]

What if the fear prevents your change or want to change from being unsuccessful? I am afraid of failure and that has been awful for me at sports.. yet, while I have this fear I still try to do well in sports, yet I keep failing... I don't know what to do? I want to change, yet it feels the fear is integrated with me.

[Tirmizee]

very true...

[famousbro1]

heres the irony...this video fails

[KarmaDebt]

@famousbro1 lmaooooo

[RonnieRadkeLuva]

i agree with carton head this world sucks

[mrkrull23]

what if u fail at failing  does that make u a failure at failing

[RockyBalboa211]

@mrkrull23: Would that not make you successful?

[purplecandle7]

@mrkrull23 I would love to be a failure at failing

[b45100]

@mrkrull23 as she said put things in perspective and do not allow failures to stop you from trying again which is something I am learning too

[GENERAL1002]

What about a lifetime if fail?

[markrich1000]

you aRE A FAILURE

[Harikrishnalove]

Right! But my life is full of failures due to bad luck. Trust me. I won't give up, but the incidents of my life are amazing...Things always happens in my path... I have no idea way? Marlen Arguedas-

[cartonhead]

i really don't feel like living anymore

[Vieweredeyes]

what if the person you are is the reason why you failed???

[luigiperso]

Vieweredeyes, even then,it's ok. I think that the mistake to not TRY AGAIN because you failed,is bigger than failing because of the person you are.

It seems like we have to accept our imperfections,but still trying new things and new ways to get what we want.

[luigiperso]

but yes I agree,the video does not say what to do when oneself is the cause of the failure

[laserofjustice]

Good point- negative labeling to yourself is to distort the failure, a project is a separate entity.

Also, failure is part of success- how many times does a child fall over before they learn to walk, then run?

[SelfHelpCollective]

Thanks for your words of wisdom re. failure. I only hope you don't take some of the 'unnecesary', and personal, comments from others to 'heart'. I'm sure you don't... :-)

[5yearplan1]

How about if you got fired because someone blackballed you on purpose. Should you go back to the job and kill them? Would that make your feel better about yourself. I think it would.

[Menthro]

You fail at life Ms. worthless, is your husband cheating on you? He must be....

[Sabotaged858]

Nice nose you fuckin ant-eater

[nestarshockey06]

Your eyes are too close to your nose.

[nestarshockey06]

SWEET

[nofearmillionaire]

Very good instruction and life direction, thank you :)

[asterabbay]

I love ur advice that is true good work well done thanx 4 ur effort AND INTEREST

[kabo0m]

Thank you

[JasperPalmer]

Thank you gorgeous.

[XxUnknownxX8]

but for me i fail at every thing.... i know this is being harsh but its true... i try at alot of things and "fail" so ya :( i have a very low self esteem, i dont look that good, chubby, not smart at all, shy, and have a pretty bad social life and this didnt help at all :(

[Ardashir2008]

Hi dear, don't be upset :) you are not alone with low self esteem in this world ;) you have to change the way you used to think and don't be upset what people think about you. I recomment you to search videos of Wayne Dyer here on youtube, he is a great great great scientist and I'm 100% sure he will help you a little bit ;)just try it and do everything he say.

[jgfox1983]

Don't look at failure that way. I used to think everything went really wrong but now I look at making a mistake now as saving me from making an even BIGGER similar mistake in the future. Learn from your mistake and apply that knowledge to the next situation. Something FANTASTIC is waiting round the corner for you and I guarantee it is much much better than the than the event that didn't go to plan first time round! Hang in there everyone goes through shit, you are not alone.

[XxAlejaAngelxX]

in many ways i am a lot like u. like u i tend to fail at a lot of things i am extremly shy which led to me losing a lot of friends n i thought that i was ugly n wortless. but then i desided to change n act a bit more like my self n i began to feel better about myself i had began to get my social life back n i don't think i am ugly anymore. i still have a bit of a problem when it comes to failing to do something right but i think that i fail only bc i give u before i really try so lets both try.

[airste172]

If a failure is not "you" then by the same token, a success cannot be attributable to "you" either, unless one is playing a game of convoluted double standards.

[TruthBeyond]

Genius. I'd further add that each individual has a key ratio, of failiers:sucesses that they choose to ignore or accept. Obviously its more complecated than that because not every failure or sucess is of equal value but we each have taylored perceptions based on life experiance. Filter, thats the word I'm looking for, we each have different filters.

[0thingummybob0]

Great! If you like things like this then take a look at Davidchilderley, he does the same sort of thing and i really good!

P.S. Great vid, loved it!