Unwanted before birth - My personal story (Part 1)

[cherrilicious1001]

ur my new idol

[annahudson76]

thanks again herald

[HeartsofGold68]

I can relate I have been told those things. They sure are damaging. Thats for sure.

[HeartsofGold68]

I can relate I have been told those things.

[jlallyvideos]

Harold you are an amasing person who has accomplished many things in this world and always will be loved. god will cure your tumors and you will keep living the fulfilling life you have deserved. you are an inspiration to me and my family

[theWinningArrow]

i have come to this world unwanted by my mother so i have no clue what its like to have a mother loving me she left me when i was 8 because she couldnt handle being near me

[mr3ggroll]

im planning to do this too

[ladybugsing]

Continue Walking in the Lord and share this message everywhere God Bless You...

[FreshAsHell]

PLZ NEVER QUIT MAKING THESE BLOGS

[enarchenhologos]

rudedadarkman you're just a fuck, so shut up. you have no idea what such a decision can do to a child. i completely agree with him. if a man just fucks with a woman he doesn't even love, its better to abort than having a baby that wont know what love is and how to share it and doesnt even feel it in the family. I am such a child. What do I have? "mental illness", and I HAVE TO SAY THANKS, I don't really want to...whatever. It'll take time but eventually I will get over this mess.

[proclaimable]

I like you attitude Harold..."Love Wins". It certainly did in your life. It's a great motto to believe in when faced with the sometimes very harsh realities of life. Thank you for getting a good word out there...lot of YouTubers need a good word...such as I. You are an inspiration!

[rudedadarkman]

boo-hoo! everybody has problems. life is one spiral downwards and everybody gets sucked in, so F-ing what?

[DarthElg]

Rudedadarkman, why don't you leave, if you do not like these videos, then leave.

[haroldsays]

It is alright. I know Rude and he is a pretty decent person. Thanks for your comment and concern. "Love wins!"

[rudedadarkman]

if you don't like what i'm saying then why don't you fuck off?

[DarthElg]

.....That made no sense....

[rudedadarkman]

.....to your average moron maybe.....

[DarthElg]

Exzactly! It only made sense to your average moron, as your self.

[rudedadarkman]

i was finishing your sentence, airhead.

[proclaimable]

Your pain is very evident. I agree that life can be a downward spiral that can be REALLY easy to get sucked into. Hey, I've been sucked into that downward spiral quite a few times. However, I have found that I don't have to stay in that downward spiral. I hope you find your way out of your downward spiral.

[lagangsta73018]

Are u and ur parents good now or not?

[xliveyolifex]

harold u r a true inspiration

u influence my life

[marsbarz]

Bless you Harold.

[kalacaw]

Harold, I've watched several of your videos, and I do like you. I got something out of this, yes. You reminded me that my Mom used to tell me that she talked to me like that when she was carrying me, and I did need a good memory just about now. On the other hand, I know you had a different experience, so I'm also sad for you.

[jcwfnn2b]

Great Advice...

The Lord certainly had a plan for you!

Bless you my friend,

LOL

Jan

[queeniebee237]

... of raising a child (given that they should never have said that), but children do make u cry as a mother on many occasions.

[queeniebee237]

Both of my pregnancies were accidents. I love and hate being a mother am a single parent it's so tiring (I got divorced). But I love them so much. Sure the pregnancies were mistakes, that's the truth but I do love them and am glad I had them. Plus I was conditioned NEVER to have children by my mum, so I wouldn't have gotten pregnant without an accident so to speak. I am wondering if you mother/parents didn't just say it out of the frustrations and hardship ....

[jolielovesmakeup]

Thanks for sharing this. I really appreciate it! I'm sorry your parents were so mean. You seem like such a nice and genuine person.

[RichardF41230]

i can tell you havent let your circumstances as a kid and as a young man decide who you are as a adult and i dont know anyone with as good of as aditude as you that has had similar situations ...ill say it agin if we had more people with the mindset as you the world would be alot better off ..i hope your still doin ok,i havent heard from you in a while but im pretty sure your busy .....well ill talk to you later i guess and ,oh you are good at giving advise ,im seriouse keep up the good work.

[adamatova]

I was told I was a mistake too.

[Terri3210]

Very sad,,, know that in Jesus I'm so glad im a part of the family of God, washed in the spirit cleansed by His blood,

Joint heirs with Jesus as I travel this sod,

Im a part of the family the family of God.

You are never alone with Christ Jesus.

God Bless

[haroldsays]

You are so right on with your advice and words of wisdom Paisley. Thanks for sharing. Harold

[paisleyyama]

That is so sad to hear your story, yet encouraging to see that despite the fact you were unwanted you grew up into such a giving, kind man. I would just add that I think it takes more than just wanting a kid. Some ppl REALLY want a baby but end up abusing it. The Bible says the older women are to teach the younger to love their husbands & kids. I think moms even with the best of intentions could benefit from a wise,trusted mentor from their church or community. Moms need support.

[AutymnRosa]

King James Bible

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

King James Bible

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.

Thank you for sharing hun! Your parents may not have had a plan, but God did! God bless you!~

[LivesChangedByChrist]

you're a good man Harold

[weeyin1155]

So sad to hear of this Harold.The most important thing you can give your child is love.God bless you for sharing this,in the hope of helping others!Hugs.Jan and Susan.x

[75cliffe]

Sing to that child: mine was one of mine was when my little Girl is smiling! I lov e your thoughts and you honesty to humanity!! Harold you render me almost speechless! God Bless you with a million Hugs

[darksaix]

Those were very thoughtful tips from a very thoughtful man. Thank you, Harold.

[Grumpyoldmantrash]

Hello Harold, sorry I haven't been around lately to comment on your videos. I am a bit tied up with a family matter so it may still be a few weeks till I am back properly. Meanwhile please don't think I am ignoring you. Good video, difficult subject, I will watch the series with interest. Take care of yourself and I wish you peace and happiness.

John.

[groveZee]

i just noticed you like to sway back and forth when you talk =] great video though

[02goodProductions0]

first comment!