I think you made a good decision only because it was greatly affecting you from living a life. I am a female bipolar person who has been married for 8 years. I have been in and out of hospital, rapid cycling for the past 6yrs. It has been so hard on my husband, it has made him sick at times. I don't know how he hangs in but he just says he loves me and the short times when i am well, that is why he stays. Best luck to both of you, sometimes you have to take care of #1 first .
i cant belive it!!! watched them all hoping he wud stay! cuz im desperate to keep my new partner an fear he too willl leave me!! so thanx tom! but i do understand.xx
better to move on now, ive been with my boyfriend with undiagnosed bipolar for 17 years,and im in to deep, my gut says i should have moved on years ago, but its not easy, the disorder has dragged me down with him, so sometimes i find myself thinking about suicide myself and you dont want to end up like that tom do you
well done Tom...ya did ya best but evidently never gonna be able to work. Enjoy ya life now mate and don't take such an emotionally supportive role for your own health
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TOM / bipolarsupport - the big mistake you made was to have anything to do with the cumbdunt in the first place. I would sympathize with you, but you became an ENABLER of their wicked behavior rather than a SUPPORTER.
Find someone worthy of your affection. She wasn't even worth your spit, IMO.
The patient merely learns to become a recluse and hermit.
Treatment also means they must ostracize themselves from public for their own safety's sake.
The patient also must learn their constitutional rights in society.
The patient can become a problem on their neighbors and with the police. Economic, class, social, lifestyle, workplace, sex gender, eating habits (also include ingestion of drugs/booze) are many causes manic depression. It's across the board.
Need to be with a Bipolar??Count on: Irrational,unpredictable conduct+rants Boasting/grandiosity Endless insults+demands Drug,tobacco,alcohol abuse Denial: to them,you're the nut! No remorse/conscience,no'Sorry' Crazy destructive moods,habits,sleep patterns Paranoia,unending complaints about everyone Immorality/cheating/lawsuits Lying/exaggerating Recklessness re home,work,friends,driving,cash Violence;verbal abuse They're perfect;always right,never learn Breathtaking hypocrisy Pain,grief. RUN!
Your an amazing guy and for you to care that deeply and to put yourself through all the difficult times granted the good days with Jill shows what kind of person you are and what a difference you've made in her life and all of us suffering from bpd. It's very tough and draining not knowing what the days are to hold but you've kept strong and made it through each day with Jill and hopefully over time she'll genuinely be able to appreciate all of your support. Best of luck.
sorry mate only just got on the diary but i do say never give in its so hard but dont give in i have to count tablets out every day and make sure she doesnt have any more and check the letterbox in case cant go to a supermarket without stopping her buying paracetomol the hardest times are when she decides to hurt herself and then she locks her self in the bathroom and starts cutting herself with a razor some nights i stop awake just looking at her afraid she is going to get up and try to hurt
I'm really sorry. She has to be able to push the voice away when it suggests that. I wish you the best you have done such a great job for her. Take care.
Tom I feel lost for words.I'm so sorry that it's ended this way 4 both of u. I've drawn so much fr both u & Jill. There is only liberty in truth & u both hv shared such raw emotions & feelings. That hv assisted me in my own relationship with a beautiful man who has bp. I want 2 wish u both everything that u individually need 4 this life which is such a bitch sometimes. Thank u fr the bottom of my heart for opening up this season that you have both been immersed in.
Tom, I wish you and Jill each very well. You've been tremendous throughout this whole thing. you've done a wonderful thing for us all in creating these diaries. Thank you so much. Take good care.
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Tom, be at peace.
Only the Power of the Holy Spirit of God can set Jill free. We "must believe that He is and that He IS A REWARDER OF THOSE THAT "DILIGENTLY" SEEK HIM." Jesus is still setting people free, the sad thing is that people don't recognize Satan as the tormentor.
gurns, OMG, you're so judgmental, not all bipolar patients are what you claim!!! You're generalizing!
projectnormal 8 months ago
Bipolar has a bad habit of ruining relationships thats for sure.
CodeV114 11 months ago
I think you made a good decision only because it was greatly affecting you from living a life. I am a female bipolar person who has been married for 8 years. I have been in and out of hospital, rapid cycling for the past 6yrs. It has been so hard on my husband, it has made him sick at times. I don't know how he hangs in but he just says he loves me and the short times when i am well, that is why he stays. Best luck to both of you, sometimes you have to take care of #1 first .
tracer366 1 year ago
Jill needs the same things of breaking the cycle.
myfanwyd2005 1 year ago
Jill does not mean to be a manipulator. Jill needs people to help her get better not just document her illness.
myfanwyd2005 1 year ago
I really hope that things get better for you. Your videos were spectacular. Don't give up. We're rooting for you.
jeronimas1987 1 year ago
Sorry to hear that man, but I understand..
blupheonix44 1 year ago
are bipolar people robots o_o
Diazt3r 1 year ago
Iv watched all of them and ave o say you where amazing through it all... Good luck and HAVE FUN!! Go be Tom!!!!
msgeorgia12 2 years ago
i cant belive it!!! watched them all hoping he wud stay! cuz im desperate to keep my new partner an fear he too willl leave me!! so thanx tom! but i do understand.xx
mssmileyxxx 2 years ago
Jill's a manipulator
Karerock 2 years ago
Well it's unfortunate you broke up. Hopefully you two work things out and she finds the help she needs. Best of wishes to you.
GeminiAuntie 2 years ago
better to move on now, ive been with my boyfriend with undiagnosed bipolar for 17 years,and im in to deep, my gut says i should have moved on years ago, but its not easy, the disorder has dragged me down with him, so sometimes i find myself thinking about suicide myself and you dont want to end up like that tom do you
berylbelly123 2 years ago
well done Tom...ya did ya best but evidently never gonna be able to work. Enjoy ya life now mate and don't take such an emotionally supportive role for your own health
macindurham 2 years ago
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TOM / bipolarsupport - the big mistake you made was to have anything to do with the cumbdunt in the first place. I would sympathize with you, but you became an ENABLER of their wicked behavior rather than a SUPPORTER.
Find someone worthy of your affection. She wasn't even worth your spit, IMO.
GurnSi 2 years ago
Sadly MD never gets better.
The patient merely learns to become a recluse and hermit.
Treatment also means they must ostracize themselves from public for their own safety's sake.
The patient also must learn their constitutional rights in society.
The patient can become a problem on their neighbors and with the police. Economic, class, social, lifestyle, workplace, sex gender, eating habits (also include ingestion of drugs/booze) are many causes manic depression. It's across the board.
911Shaman 2 years ago
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"they must ostracize themselves from public for their own safety's sake."
Alternatively, the public must shun them.
These people are dangerous kooks, behaving reasonably at times & then reverting to insane conduct.
GurnSi 2 years ago
Shame you were not in it for the long haul.
Maybe you should have researched on bi polar more before you jump so far into a relationship in such a short space of time.
Good luck Jill.
MysteryNomad 2 years ago
GurnSi 3 years ago
Twat!
sekules 2 years ago
Troll!
GurnSi 2 years ago
Your an amazing guy and for you to care that deeply and to put yourself through all the difficult times granted the good days with Jill shows what kind of person you are and what a difference you've made in her life and all of us suffering from bpd. It's very tough and draining not knowing what the days are to hold but you've kept strong and made it through each day with Jill and hopefully over time she'll genuinely be able to appreciate all of your support. Best of luck.
SexxiGuidette 3 years ago
So sorry to hear this, but I am glad to hear you still in her life as a friend and check on her time to time.
LOCOCONCLASE 3 years ago
sorry to hear tom but its hard and some ppl cant deal with it i know i couldnt and u managed longer than i could ever
babygurl25ppp 3 years ago
I'm so sorry Tom...
Sweetness1018 3 years ago
jill, learn to "ride the cycles" and not to be overcome by them.
peace
trennahrose 3 years ago
sorry mate only just got on the diary but i do say never give in its so hard but dont give in i have to count tablets out every day and make sure she doesnt have any more and check the letterbox in case cant go to a supermarket without stopping her buying paracetomol the hardest times are when she decides to hurt herself and then she locks her self in the bathroom and starts cutting herself with a razor some nights i stop awake just looking at her afraid she is going to get up and try to hurt
edlestonof 3 years ago
I'm so sorry Tom.
jaxkipi 3 years ago
I'm really sorry. She has to be able to push the voice away when it suggests that. I wish you the best you have done such a great job for her. Take care.
thewildeman2 3 years ago
Tom I feel lost for words.I'm so sorry that it's ended this way 4 both of u. I've drawn so much fr both u & Jill. There is only liberty in truth & u both hv shared such raw emotions & feelings. That hv assisted me in my own relationship with a beautiful man who has bp. I want 2 wish u both everything that u individually need 4 this life which is such a bitch sometimes. Thank u fr the bottom of my heart for opening up this season that you have both been immersed in.
Lots of love to you both
chookalicious 3 years ago
sorry Tom, no one can say you didn't try that's for sure. wow that must have been a really bad concert, soz :(
magickcatmojo 3 years ago
This is sad news. You have done a great job making these bipolar diaries. I wish you both all the best.
Heidi19689 3 years ago
I am so sorry.
SSanf 3 years ago
Tom, I wish you and Jill each very well. You've been tremendous throughout this whole thing. you've done a wonderful thing for us all in creating these diaries. Thank you so much. Take good care.
seejanefly 3 years ago
I'm sorry to hear what happened, I'm glad you decided to keep the channel open for others.
I hope things go better for you, take care Tom.
MementoMori88 3 years ago
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Tom, be at peace.
Only the Power of the Holy Spirit of God can set Jill free. We "must believe that He is and that He IS A REWARDER OF THOSE THAT "DILIGENTLY" SEEK HIM." Jesus is still setting people free, the sad thing is that people don't recognize Satan as the tormentor.
qswfeh2121 3 years ago